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The problem is, the moment the cycle doesnt exist, everyone is incentivised to start it again, becauze just like those that made it in the first place they got theirs and got out before everything went to shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:59 PM
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Its a prisioner dillema, if all man start swiping 10 times, the one that swipes 100 times gets more rewards. Its a tragedy of the commons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:52 PM
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Serial swiping has a logic behind it, if you need to swipes 100 times to get a single match, its far more efficient to vet the one match than to vet the more than 100 people you are going to swipe. Now simping to me is caused by either porn addiction or by mentally ill people being preyed upon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:49 AM
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Most men hang out with other men that dont want to be seem as gay or women that dont want then to even think they are something more than friends, so no one gives out compliments unless they are somehow interested in that man. You getting a lot of compliments I can only say it must be nice being such a magnet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:39 PM
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By getting "NO, not in a billion years", "I didnt talk to you, quit being a creep" or anything else with more accusations and insults instead of just no... Some people feel offended an ugly person tought they had a chance with them, or were in the same league they were, and will speak accordingly Edit:typo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:23 AM
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I will say social media has increased pressure in both genders to compete. But super hot people are still outliers. It increased so much you only ever see one side having problems... Instead of looking at social media/dating apps all day, go outside: to the park, Walmart, the grocery store, and look at what % of people walking around you find super hot. Sexlessness rising rings any bells, most people aren't hot, but most of them also aren't getting relationships either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:15 PM
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I dont know the name but there is a saying where I live "If you keep showing an expectation to a group, good or bad, someone will rise or fall to meet it", dont know If I translated it correctly but the meaning was preserved survived the process I think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:20 PM
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If you want a long term relationship, true, but if you want a short one, or is just prodding for someone to try the long term, you need looks and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:42 PM
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Well, by the ok cupid data, the average is somewhere above 3, and still any man that would get called a 5 already reports that its hard to find a girl that would find the attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:47 PM
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For that to work, women need to compliment enough for it to become common place, and for it to reach that point someone needs to start, but whoever tries to start will be assumed to have a crush just because of how rare it is. Everybody wants to solve the problem,but no one wants to try and work for it, and since it doesnt affect them, they have no reason to bother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:08 PM
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Why do you isntantly go for the extreme example? Almost as if you dont want to discuss it Anyway, In the same way most woman dont get a legion following then, man dont wnat to be stalked. But to get compliments and attention by just existing in public sound pretty nice, nicer than needkng to fill a bjnch of criteria to not hear you dont deserve to exist or interact with people On a side note, you realize the entire purpose of RP is trying to get a bunch of thirsty women to surrond a guy dont you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:32 PM
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Deaired for just being, so like a women? Whats exactly wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:22 PM
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if wanting to be desired is a thing for them, they need to take action Why do you think that any tips for man, including RP advocates for men bettering themselves, its still a numbers game, but you can change how you throw the dice they can stop wanting to be desired if said action is too hard, or in some cases impossible. As much as a lot of men would want(and society as whole appears to wish) men cant turn off their needs and emotions. Saying that is like saying to someone has a broken bone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:20 PM
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Considering a lot of men consider it as flirting because of how rare it is for them to get something close to it, the answer is absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:16 PM
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There 2 points, lacking sexual confidence makes you lack confindence in general, think about your time in highschool, no matter how confident you were, you would lose it if all your attemps at doing something that was regarded as easy and common were met qith uther failure, so its not the lack of sexual confidence that does it, but the damage to your pysique that causes it also screws you on ther areas. One factor could be the halo effect, rendering it easier for these people to stand out in a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:16 AM
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Then monogamy and all values linked to it bite one cheek of the world ass while the slippery slope that is genetic manipulation bites on the other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:39 PM

And they arent because? We aren't caveman, we can see the floor is wet and give a better answer on the why than "water fell on it", has it rained? did the kids threw water balloons early? Is there a leaking pipe? But for that we need to pay attention and debate, and thats why the sub is named purplepillDEBATE and not purplepillcommonfacts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:19 PM
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Experiment being a man with a female dominated hobbie and see your value plummet as they see you as their possible gay friend or just too effeminate for their taste. Being part of a group makes people see you like other members of it, and if they are seem in a bad light well, you are seem too. The best example is people that likes Rick and morty avoiding having merchandise from the show due to how some idiots in the Fandom act.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:01 PM
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What is better them? to waste years of your life with someone being a bit miserable or to be yourself, but lonely, being judged by being alone and overall more miserable? Needing to fake your life is terrible, but it isnt the worst thing that can happen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:53 PM
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Personality is mostly genetic. It's also extremely stable over time. You arent capable of even looking something simple as this in Google are you? Not only people don't change in a scale of a week, but in an year it can change a lot unless they literally do nothing but follow a tight and repetitive schedule(and thats not considering they dont get depression from it). Also personality is genetic, so much that there isnt a single example of people showing the signs of mental abuse when they srent …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:51 PM
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A lot of the TRP man qant to have sex not a helathy relationship, so the state of anything above their stomach or elbows in their partners isnt much of a concern for them. Its like MLM, it only works because idiots buy into it, and since an idiot is born everyday, it is a viable strategy. Sad but true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:16 PM
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One small problem, we dont sctually have data from before we started giving hormones to every single farm animal we eat and filled the sea with micro plastics. The low testorerone levels might just be because the entire male population has been poisoned from the womb by some polutant that we dont even know can have that effect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:14 AM
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And you realize woman messaging something bigger than 5 letters was so rare it became a meme all by itself right? The graph axis isnt representing the number of messages, just how much of the medium went to each bracket. So when you have a thousand messages sent at all, a few very talkative individuals can just carry 5% of they bias into the final result, by sending 50 messages. It also makes data suceptible to corruption such as I dont know, people that cant write a sentence without spliting it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:17 PM
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Isnt black pill basically incls? I still dont grasp where a pill really start and ends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:53 PM
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So if its 3 then the rule of 80/20 must be changed to 70/30 and now can be update yearly if we keep repeating the study where this come from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:46 PM
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And I hope you arent on the redeemed group instead of the faker one judging by your username
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:40 PM
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Oh serious, some men dont get it either. What a funny coincidence. Both sexes can have bad moms, so your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:01 PM
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Maybe their wife, otherwise they just dont, and get told to man up when they show they are lacking it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:44 PM
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It's debate. Discussion. Keep up or get out the way. And being capable of changing your mind, which sincerely you wouldnt allow yourself to do before the earth started spinning backwards lean on the ad hominem attacks without even adding anything useful. So, what you do on every other comment? Ffs, you get called on it and on using a legion of strawman at least once in every post you comment and still act as if you were innocent, take a hint
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:09 AM
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Yeah, some are lucky enough to have childhood friends or be placed in situations that girls are forced to interact with them, with online lernaing and home office becoming more mainstream, cold approaches are gonna become the norm, and to that, well the future is bleak and the number of sexlessness is just going to rise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:03 AM
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I think you are overlooking 2 things, young men (that by the way from 18 to what do you consider young men) need to compete with older man, since between a 30 year old 9/10 and a 6/10 of the same age most girls are going for the older guy and the worst problem is, when women can go from beauty to beauty thanks to OLD, why would they go for mediocre when all they need is a little of patience. A mediocre girl can get a great guy if she waits and the guy gets rejected by a great girl. A mediocre lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:59 AM
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They are the FDS hivemind embodied in an account, they dont want to make a point, they want to hate, plain and simply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:47 AM
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If you include the past generation that didnt need to deal with OLD and social media its obviously gonna be lower, because LTRs are a thing and in a lesser degree, the lead suicide cause for males is loniless, and is kinda hard to be lonely having a partner to begin with. The problem is the old generations are dying and the sexlessness keeps rising, and considering the number man that lost their virginity past their 30 is abysmal, we might be seeing the start of a snowball
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:43 AM
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The women men are interested in don't have to think about that. So the one that wants to make the relationship happens does allmost all the work And they do that because of how consistently a connection fails when the unwanted woman directly pursues the man. And when the connection is impossible insisting is futile. Why specify gender in you lr comment, thats how dating works for both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:34 AM
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One thing, the surgeries arent free. Every single guy that cant save thousands in a year would become an incel at least in the definition of being involuntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:54 AM
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Or hypergamy happens, with the added benefit that "alphaness" is now being measurable in meters. But yeah, it would require 90% of the male to refuse to do so for it to work, but still a possible scenario, just multiple miracles in a row required for it to happen scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:00 AM

If they are crazy as fuck, being bullied or not wouldn't make the difference. You ever heard about the straw that broke the cammels back?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:15 AM
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Man keep getting higher until one of 3 happens: The process hits a cap, your blood stills need to come back from your feet after all; When men either cant fit into doors anymore and woman stop desiring them because the problems it brings outweight the status benefits Enough men give up deforming themselves to get a partner and woman have to contend with whats left. And on the sidelines almost all guys that cant pay for those procedures die without partners or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:02 AM
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The personality and having enough money to remix your face according to the current trends...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:54 PM
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3 things, first just because it isnt common it doesnt mean it dont happen, not does it mean people shouldnt take precautions for that. Second, type fake rape accusation on google and see how may examples pop up, abuse ones also happen, like the one against jhonny deep Third, When the main fear of a crime is not you being accused by how little ways you have to prove your innocence, you really think the statistic for accusations turning out to be fake isrealistic to begin with? Also, just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:29 AM
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Yeah, is not like getting the person who holds the position you wants fired can help you in any way right? Specially if they mentored you to succed them in the future, no reason to want to speed up this future to next week? /s The worst Women can be assholes and can be manipulative just like worst men, and when you realize 100 years of rome history consists in generals killing each other to hold the title of emperor, you realize people doing shit like that is as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:30 AM
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They always run into these allegations at some point during their career ,and they're well aware of being told they need to find somebody to be with them at all times doing intimate care , which has educated as these men are coming out of school it makes me very suspicious of them. To be suspicious of perpetrators and guys that avoid having witnesses I understand, now to be suspicious of those looking to protect themselves of fabricated accusations is unfair to say the least, when all you need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:18 AM
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Well, it certainly isnt a 100% success guarantee, as I said, it requires a guy that would date their looks match (and if they both are in the lower end of the bell curve this might not be possible), and more importantly that can be charmed not only be personality, but by your personality, and thats a tougher fit. Specially in places where people of all lifestyles go. It might work better in places where people already match themselves somehow, like a club for example It still beats waiting for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:30 PM
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On a short term, a bit of both, on a longer time span the only way to bewitch a guy is a love potion if you manage to find one. The surprise at the start, wonk make them fall in love with you, that isnt the idea, it is to give the girl a chance to make the guy fall in love with them. But lets go slow, first if the man has realistic expectations and would give a chance to their looks match, they not only will give the woman a chance but also the girl will start with extra points since they dont n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:42 PM
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Be more confident in your actions, not in your appearance. You dont need to believe you are beatiful to get a mate, because just the action of making the first move will short circuit his brain enough for your lack of beauty to not matter that much, most man will give you a chance because you just showed interest. OBS: that wont really work on a 10/10 model, they are already used to getting all the attention in the world, so you showing interest isnt even a bonus for them If you were stunning yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:16 PM
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Looks like the lannister family, a boy, a girl and a half boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:58 AM
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There is plenty of fish in the sea, so much that the chance of two specific ones stumbling on each other is minimal...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:33 PM
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When you never get a drop of something, someone giving it to you must have some reason to do so, after all why did they gave this to me freely if no other ever did?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:58 AM
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Sounds like they are just average, and if jobs are anything to go by, people dont go and recommend someone that is average for the job, they try to set up someome that they know is a very good fit or keep quiet to not get punished if average wasnt good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:59 AM

1 incels in their caves that never saw a girl outside of porn 2 the strawmans this user put right beside the incels to make it look like half the world population is with them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:12 PM

The reason man closer to 6' arent filtered in real life because any woman trying to measure them in the spot will be called crazy almost instantly, now if a man is closer to 5' well, the answer they will get will vary from polite to worthy of discrimination charges if anyone with dwarfism is in the room Also woman being rejected from being black, obese, old single mothers, etc all happen to men on a similar degree. So I dont get your point on there. The one that escapes being mutual is being too…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:52 PM
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So you are telling me you are so horny you cant imagine not giving consent who ever tries to fuck you. I dont know if I admire your commitment to get laid I any circumstance or pity your lack of self control and self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:02 AM
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I think they are managed by neutral people, altough my contact with them is mostly by the ocasional link put here, all those manly assholes that screamed grow a pair at any demonstration of emotion where quick to get a ban hammer to the face. But so did the incel black pill crazies spilling their crazy theories on why its woman fault thay they dont get "insert horny thing here"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:55 AM
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Yeah, try saying it to someomw on real live and see how long it takes to hear, "you should have enjoyed it", "And you are complaining because..." or the classic "grow a pair." Is easier to say people are accepting in here or in other foruns of the menospreze when there is an automod scanning stuff 24/7 and mods working around the clock that stop people from jumping on each other throats. Is like saying a restaurant that dont get robbed is proof there is very little crime in the region, while ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:36 AM
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I do believe that if you are rich to the point of paying high end escorts, not having anyome to prsctice wouldnt be the problem to begin with, more likely it would be having the patience to deal with gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:34 PM
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Look, their job is to lay there and moan. You would be really luck of finding someone that goes above and beyond and actually helps you with learning. Some might actually refuse the service because they arent teachers to begin. Once again you arent hiring a teacher, you are hiring someone to have sex, not to teach you HOW to have it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:28 PM
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If they fuck a guy that have sex day in day out, chances are the guy is good by simply repetition, now ehen they come to a random man, they expect the same level of knowledge, and get pissed when they cant match it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:19 PM
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Or dont want to end one of the partners looking for help in some forum with dead bedrooms or something similar in the name
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:17 PM
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Training with a escort? What are the chances that someone you paid to give and feel pleasure wont just act as if you are doing a great job, so you have a good experience and is more likely to hire her again. You arent hiring a teacher, its more like a salesman that has all the reasons in the world to exagerate and act in order to get more sales
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:15 PM
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In the past people accepted worse because they were restricted to their community, if the most beatiful person in the neighbourhood was a 7/10, they would still be followed and flirted by everyone else. Nowadays we have OLD, were someone can find the most beatiful person in that half of the country in 10 minutes, they have no reason to accept less knowing there is more at the edge of their fingertips. Other thing is that on the past spinning plates was shunned by everyone and could get you ostra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:18 AM
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Heck there are pessimsit people that go out of their way to be kind because they think people are likely having a bad day. And on the extreme opposite there is a girl at my uni that is an asshole but says that since she was the bad thing in their day they are going to get something great next, I think she means when she goes away but Im not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:39 PM
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The guy immediatly jumped into calling the guy a creep for opening up, and Im the one projecting. Really, let the troll run free them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:34 PM
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If he is honest he is a creep, if he lied them you would be calling him manipulative wont you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:38 AM
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Get rejected a hundred times in a row, need to work for 2 on every chat and get ghosted so constantly you are surprised it didnt happen after the first date and see jow you feel being treated like garbage. Make an experiment, pick a photo of an 5/10 guy, make a profile and use it for a week, also check with your boyfriend to both warn him why you use tinder and him help vet a true 5/10. Just see how much you are gonna get ignored and treated as if you didnt deserve to even be there. Now remember…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:38 AM
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They arent sex specific for everything but if you are able to perform them. People will look you sideways if seeing you doing them, we dont live in the same utopia you seem to reside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:29 AM
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Some woman like manly men, so you already cut all of those out of your possible pool, themyou also need to face the "I tought you were gay" problem where they might want to go out with you but wont because they think you would reject them based on your assumed sexuality, and what might be the biggest problem, you lose respect and will be looked down by a lot of people that either are homophobic and dont want anything related to them, or at least not as part of their inner circle aka family. So y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:23 AM
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And woman do that because of what? Thinking the skirts make their possible mates butt look fat? They want masculinity, and vet accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:10 AM
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They dont to know anything about pill to realize "If I lie about my job and she thinks Im a rich guy, I might score one with that gold digger and be gone before she figures out the truth", this shit happened in movies a lot of times, I mean the introductory scene of almlst any woman's guy that wasnt rich or was supposed to be a liar was just what I described, maybe with a more righteous character interrupting it to call them into the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:44 PM
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Why in those cases people always assume the worse of the worst case scenario? Really why do you assume that the guy must be the worst of the incels to even consider venting on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:27 AM
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My bet is that, at least to your partner you are incredibly beatiful, or have some other innate characteristic that impresses them, so much that you bend over backwards without even noticing because its your nature. Woman are the ones that choose in relations, and if you bring them what they already have, why would they lose their time if they can get more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:55 PM
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Some like to teach, most figured out that if a woman matches them in smarts, they need something else to bring to the table other than his brain and likely degree, after all if she matches him, she also gets a similar pay in a similar field. Now what is better for the rest of your life, need to explain thing twice or to bend over backwards to convince them you were and are still worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:49 PM
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More people know they need to optimize their chances in this day and age and since apps require little effort they are a nice extra, now you dont need an extra to boost your chances when sitting at a bar doing nothing for a night is a working strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:52 AM
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He lives in an utopia, where I live (or better say in all places i have lived), a man asking for support will 99/100 get grow a pair as an answer or something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:25 PM
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So a person cant be beatiful? They must be impressive in some other way to get the right to look beatiful!? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:52 PM
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You rejecting it wont change how you are going to be treated by others, and thats what people fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:23 PM
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So instead of having people recognize them as humans and interact with them to maybe get disapointed, they should not take care of themselves and get ignored/ told to go away just by opening their mouths...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:14 PM
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Man fear being alone but thats society fault as a whole. If you see a older woman alone people say she is free and indepent, if you see a man in the same situation, people nag them saying they are either too bad to get a wife, are a creep/incel, or in the best case people assume they are work addicted and thats why they are lonely. Since a lot of value for a man in our society comes from much he can provide, he not providing for someone else is viewed as a flaw and thus shunned, while someone ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:09 PM
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Spicing yourself gets you some attention but the quality and quantity will always be lower than it is for better looking women Well, depending on who you ask, low level attention is still better than nothing. Anyway congrats you got the exact same problem half this sub has, that is thinking you deserve far better than what you actually worth...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:29 PM
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It wont reduce their sex drive, but will reduce the ammount of man that get depressed and ridicularized by not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:47 AM
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Enlighten me where does the person I responded to even talked about validation? And what validation is there to be had? People didnt need to charm hookers into allowing them to pay for sex in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:23 PM
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So for the first time in history, when high fidelity recording is on everyone pocket, a single sentence can be read on the other side of the world a second after it was written, and the morals of using a thinking living person as a product all exist, man are refusing to use hookers... I really cant see why, its not like both the moral values and the punishment (self inflicted or not) for breaking then are at an all time high /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:33 PM
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Wasnt the question if she could have him? For it to matter she must want him in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:38 AM
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Do they say the number of man and woman that participated in the studies, yes, you can check it, is it suficient? For a basis yes, for an exact number not so much. So might not be a clean cut nor even be 20/80 but it sure as hell isnt even close to 50/50. Now, do they say how many messages per women were considered for that second part, no... did they put it in a graph where the line of messages match the number of messages, no..., how do you alter data to sell an idea in a graph? You show it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:33 AM
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Think with me, as anyone notices in this sub, man want sex and companionship. If they cant get any of those from a mate they want a lot but can get it from someone they want a little they might as well settle. After all little is still better than nothing (or they go complain in the internet and receive the incel tag). The thing is, no one wants to settle for little, they want to feel they are geting paid in kind, be it in money on their job or in looks in relationships. And thats why they need …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:24 AM
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Woman date in a bell curve, based in their messaging behavior, while the messages that form this behavior are so few and far between they became a meme anywhere. Its lower the sample the higher the chance it doesnt represents reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:13 AM
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If a man cant get a better partner, they might as well settle for the one they are know they can have something with. For that they need to have few options and with OLD, woman never have few options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:10 AM
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Oh, so everyone losing their onsideration for a person are going to do what? Congrats them? They are going to shame/ humiliate them from doing so, and since dignity is also, not wanting to humiliate yhemselves in front of others, well I think in very much on topic. Also how can I invent that I have never seem something, I never seeing the big foot doesnt make it real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:30 PM
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Never heard about a woman losing the respect of others by using make up, now this happening to man, well its just happens specially in more professional places, mostly because of homophobia but was my grandfather once said when a gas leak happens, it doenst matter that the spark came from your lighter, a lamp being turned on or someone pressing a detonator because they think that will teach someone something... shit still gonna blow up and everyone involved is gonna go back home burned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:14 PM
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FDS was born as a reaction to the red and black pills, and as a reaction movement, it decided to match some of the worse characteristics of it since those were the ones being opposed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:01 PM
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The only way a woman will actually be proactive in those situations is when they dont think they can afford to lose that chance, so congrats in thr eyes of your SO, you are at least a 9+/10 (or was when you had your first date) You certainly are lucky to find her, but if this happened to all your friends somehow, chances are the girls they found werent even looking for looks to begin with if they arent beatiful as you say, really lucky to find someone not using that as their main criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:58 PM
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Woman actually taking the innitiative, asking the guy out and paying in full. I think you are surronded by 11/10 guys and never realized it, but I agree about them being stronger, only an idiot will give up on a catch that they are that interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:30 PM
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And what that solves? Man gonna keep receiving so little attention from woman that anything above the bare minimum might be interpreted as a signal. The only chance is that now they can end discriminated by homophobics, so now instead of solving a problem, you added another one on top of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:19 PM
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They mean give up trying to get a girl most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:26 PM
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They dont need to, but try saying you you are disgusted of touching a trans person as a man and see how much time it takes for the ban hammer to fall on you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:58 PM
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The thing is, he likely wants a girlfriend to become his fiancee, not a shovel to throw his money into a furnace if you catch my meaning. Ridiculously wealthy tends to atract gold diggers more than actual caring people, that might be what he actually wants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:58 AM
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So why the response "when her weight starts with 200..." got witch hunted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:07 AM
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I wonder how much time it would have taken the automod to remove your comment if the genders where reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:36 PM
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You do not need to, just everyone around you will try and pressure into doint it, and if you doubt it and ask for a test, well out the window with your reputation if the bay is actually yours...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:45 PM
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You never heard about online dating do you? If the bar for mens looks wasnt past jupiter compared to the one for women guys going crazy after the secret to get more than one match per week wouls be a aprils fool joke, not something common on basically any dating forum or subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:24 AM
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Lie that you are going to have their child, simple as that. If the child isnt yours or the entire pregnancy was faked along with a fake misscariage after the marriage, the man is still maried, and thus it doenst matter if the guy tries to divorce a week later, she can still go to court to pick half of what he owns, and in the case she cheated on you, by being married to her you can still be forced to pay support even if you didnt sign the certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:09 AM
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To people that just dont like drinking and dont have time for hobbies, is their reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:11 PM
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Man are the majority of users, both because they are usually more interested in hook ups and because just standing upright in a party while drinking doesnt gets people to talk to them. So it makes sense to try and capitalize on them. But yeah, all good apps get big and become tinder with a quirk, in thr end men have even less of a chance to get something from it, after all a couple formed is 2 users lost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:07 PM
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Well, im sure you already heard it but try to find a in real life hobby that allows you to interact with people, a sport, maybe trekking( walking into the woods in pre established paths, I dont remember the right name for it) there are groups that do that, and if you dont feel like it, you can go there and return without saying anything but your name in the role call. Also sorry for asking but are you a guy or a gal? Because if you are a gal, ask on the r/tinder (in a burner account if you value…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:03 PM
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The thing is, you dont need to keep your wealth per say, just be able to buy a house to live your life in, or in the love live, a SO to have a long term relationship with,, you will still be losing your value, but sinc eyou already bought what you needed/wanted with it, it diminishing doesnt matter that much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:56 PM
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Thats the thing, is like the stock market, leave too early and you dont enjoy all the fun, leave at the right time and you get out with a great catch, leave late and you plummet face first into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:32 PM
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Ignore the bitter one, follow the others advice and since you have social anxiety, my suggestion is that if you have more outgoing friends, try to stick to them and hope they can present you someone. You can also try to just open the floodgates in an OLD profile, preferably with someone that is more experienced in it helping your after matches to filter bots, and etc... OBS, hear what they have to say about danger not about who is beatiful enough to date you, you judge that, your taste, not thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:29 PM
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If it isnt the first date( and Im yet to see a woman suggest a place for a first date that isnt the movies or restaurant), the man already had time to show who he is, personality and etc. Either way it got him past the hardest part, that is not being rejected before they even got close enough to say hi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:35 PM
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Has she tried to take a bath, work her personality or you know, look for people on her league. It always baffles me how can both side say they cant find people in their exact situation if they are both people and are both in the same situation, one of the 2 must be delusional and think they are far better than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:44 PM
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Not a red pill( and still unsure even where one pill starts and the other ends), but for what I understood, they hate them because to them only fans is basically people getting advantage on those less fortunate or mentally ill (I think they refer to porn addiction on this one). Also because they embody a lot of all that "all woman want from betas is their money and resources while they fuck alphas" and similar bullshi Or maybe they just hate that a lot of matches in OLD now result in a "like wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:55 PM
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As a non native english speaker, what is a misnomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:48 PM
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Wonder if man being ridiculed by opening up and seeking help has some impact in those numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:38 PM
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And you that is his relative just assume he has mental issues... You just proved OP point of people making bad assumptions above people that dont date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:17 PM
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They want to foward their agenda,its literally in their username, best to just ignore that cherrypicker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:32 PM
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Love how some people have complex strategies for dating, while other play pretend being a piece of furniture in bar or party and wait for someone to take a closer look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:24 AM
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Found the really hot one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:18 AM
1

I just cant understand how the dont be afraid to be yourself and show your emotions go with all the histories of man that were basically dumped by showing to emmotionally weak? Feels like the man must take the initiative at the same time that going and talking uninvited to a stranger is rude conundrum. Honestly how can this opposite things go together?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:17 AM

Besides not all relationships between man and woman needing to end in sex, just a guy actually being approached by someone that might just want to talk will already be a good thing on their day, and if they continue tslking and chemistry appear, everybody wins. If a man is only looking at woman as walking fleshlights, then yeah, they have no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:39 PM
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It would be interesting if I found 2 places that say the same thing, so far I have seen so many contradictory definitions of whata red pill is supposed to mean I think they they need to start dividing it into hues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:36 PM
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Im a bit new to apl this pill fiesta that permeates this sub, but I think it is that both dated, spend the same, and them either got together or went their separate ways. The both were in each other plate that day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:12 PM
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Which makes it even more cruel, because a woman can exercise, a man cant break their legs and hope they heal him taller
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:44 PM
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If a man says they wont date some past a certain weight they are witch hunted, if a woman says they wont date someone below a certain height it becomes a trend... Just a very simple example
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:33 AM
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According to the ok cupid data, and maybe the tinder one, altough I didnt saw that yeah, almost 70% of man were ranked below average. There was also a think that woman messaged them anyway, but considering how much woman messaging first is memed in any sub that talks about online dating, i doubt that the number of messages actually represent their opinion on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:20 AM
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I would probably get nervous if he approached and not want to talk to him unless he showed he was extremely intelligent or witty. How exactly is he gonna show that if you get nervous just by them being in your vicinity, let alone talk to you And also why being nervous? they not being beatiful is a threath or harm of some kind? they are average not mirror breaking ugly, so no need to worry about your glass exploding /s, Not want to talk okay, but being nervous they notice you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:17 AM
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Yes... how exactly do they love each other without feelings? Ironically thats where the problem comes, if man do just like they defend, people assume they are LGBT+ and let's say it doesnt end well if they arent ready for discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:40 PM
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I dont know if the feminism in my country is broken or what, since I keep hearing it fights for x,y and z in other countries but I only ever saw the LGBT+ crowd fighting for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:33 PM
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Considering the russian roulette that is reproduction and the thousand syndromes that can appear with it, adopt a kid. No risk of any birth defect if thats what you are worried about and still free resources of the whatever org was caring for them to give better care of the others. About passing your DNA, donate your spermatozoids or egg cells, that way they might keep your bloodline alive at some point in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah, they would, its not like deep relationships between men have been heavily stigmatized to the point man that wanted to take the next step where forced into reeducation camps in the past or something, never deep relations of same sex people in any degree other than superficial where comdemned, I must have imagined that /S
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:26 PM
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Forgot a word, "female" sex workers were legalized. Very gender specific, and if you dont believe me, open google and look at who were the group that proposed the first draft of the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:58 PM
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Not quite, if it gives all rights one half of the population has to the other, that already has some of their own. The second half ends a step above since they now have everything they had before, plus everything the other half had. 2 isnt equal to 4, but if you add 4 to 2, you doesnt end with 4, you end with 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:56 PM
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There is the original idea, that is perfect and etc just like in philosophy. The thing is, we are on earth sometimes things arent executedly perfectly like OP points out and we end up not with feminins, but femism, that is basically the gender swapped version of machism. There are true defenders of it, I dont doubt it, but when things like a feminist group that present and pressured to pass legistation that at the same time made sex workers legal and paying then illegal, or in my country defende…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:51 PM
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By accidentaly not readig one line in a 1000+ document, chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:00 AM
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So if woman just like the divide the answers in multiple messages they still send more messages. Considering how much of an event a man getting messaged by a woman on apps like that is, I would really like a look at that variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:52 PM
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You have to interact with people dont you, colleagues, coworkers, neighbours, etc. If they think you are trash they simply wont bother giving you any help if you ever need it (and dont act like you are a perfect know it all, you will need it one day), not giving opportunities in your professional life, assing you more work, not promoting you, etc... The moment someone has more power over you and doesnt like you they can make your life harder for no other reason than they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:35 PM
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Because if people think you are worth the same as trash, they will treat you accordingly, ie as a piece of trash that somehow manage to crawl out of the bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:26 PM
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Bold of you to assume Im a man, and beaty or the beast, both ways they never allow me toof waste a penny, nor have I ever heard it is okay to date someone that makes less than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:12 PM
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The man has to bring almost all the effort to start the relation, since woman almost wont try to start it. They need to bring in the money to pay for most dates and to not be red flagged( see how many times someone recommends to not date a broke man vs a broke woman) and if things continue their role is of the breadwinner or at least it is the expected role for them. If the relation goes sour the man needs to accept that all the resource he put into it are wasted into someone else and prepare hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:26 PM
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Let me try to explain. You want to live, Im gonna assume yes. if you want to live, you cant kill yourself or do things that will end with your death. If you want to live, ergo dont want to die. You cant jump of a building because its result would contradict what you want, that is to live. You can physically jump, but you cant bring yourself to jump, the barrier isnt tangible, but mental and its a barrier anyway. Edit typo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:45 PM
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If everyone is 10/10 people will only look at the 11/10 or those that have something extra like a lot of money. People always want the best and the best is something thsat is better than the norm, no matter how good the norm already is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:10 PM
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When they purged most ban worth content from FDS they likely also cleaned the discord members to avoid some spy or even worse reddit admin seeing they referencing the deleted threads
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:36 PM
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People can jump of a building, bit since they know they will die doing that, and that they cant allow themselves to die like that, by proxy they cant jump of a building. Same goes for dating, they know they cant get people that are perfect but they also cant search for something they know they wint get any return, so by proxy they know they cant look for someone perfect. But if you really wanna be nitpicky yeah they can pursue them until they die alone and unhappy just like we can both go to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:19 PM
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