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It's common sense that people are happier with a romantic partner, with a lot of family and friendship connections etc. I think that a lot people (and these artists) are not able to disentangle the need for male validation from the need for human connection and for intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:55 AM
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Shouldn't you need to have an intimate relationship with one of the people in the porn for that? Isn't porn just straightforwardly voyeurism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:51 PM
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Ok let's break down the two main issues here. First. This not this thesis just wrong on it's face? Why would men caring about men's mental health affect whether male suffering is important or not to you as a woman? Surely the principle of the matter stands regardless? Are you perhaps just ranting out feelings you haven't processed? Is this about something men in your life have done? Second. What exactly are we attributing to men as a group in responsibility for exactly? I'm not even clear on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:48 PM
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The ancient/classical greeks and romans were possibly among the most patriarchal societies in history and so poorly make your point. But your point does stand. The majority of societies throughout history (pastoral, agricultural, hunter gather) had various forms of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:54 PM
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I don't think this metaphor works well. Or perhaps it just reads as too cruel to me. Now women's experience on the apps may be more awful than men's (perhaps because women are so much less soggy and patchy then men are as you think) but there are 2-4 times as many men as women on these apps. But there will only be as many (straight) dates as women go on; meaning that men will get half to 25% as few dates. The whole point of the app. Now I guess you could argue that these dates are twice or four …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:59 AM
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Men don't know what men want. Women don't know what women want. It's actually a hard thing for anyone to know. I'm looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:31 PM
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Ok. I’m unsure what the data is. In my social circle the women are fatter than than the men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:43 AM
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I'm curious about a matter you implied. Do you think more women work out and exercise regularly then men work out? Or rather do you think that women are fitter and in better shape than men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:26 AM
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Oh i read over that post the 80% comes from and i think it's a little misunderstood (and more interesting that it's face number). In that data, if i remember correctly, almost no men got 9 or 10/10 and 50% of men were rated 3 or below. 80% 5 or below. Their messaging (first messages) distribution didn't match that assessment however. Women were a bit more likely to message the least attractive according to men and less likely to message the most attractive. The author was arguing that men were m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:13 AM
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I think it's self reinforcing. I have a similar self image to you; i hated photos and hated the objectification of myself (because i didn't think i ever looked good and didn't like looking at myself). This made made me never spend any time on working on what looks good in a camera because it's so unenjoyable. I'm never going to practice expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:48 AM
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Now get them a phone and let them pick their type: it will be limited to a combo of usually immutable traits that will end up excluding most guys (even most of the ones their age). Isn't this most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:44 AM
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lol what sort of answers do you think you're going to get from this? This is lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:26 AM
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I also think a beard balances his face; it's more shaved in the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:17 AM
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I feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:15 AM
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I believe the poll. One issue here is that the pose (the flexing etc) the second is using is not conducive to looking sexy. It's meant to show of muscularity instead. Your body looks a bit weird when flexed like that. A relaxed normal photo would look better for the second. Also his face looks worse and he looks older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:13 AM
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As you age, the good marriageable men have been taken out of the dating pool But is this not just as true for men as it is for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:46 AM
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I'm straight and i could see the same logic applying to dating bi women (less gender hangovers). Though I've not thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:15 AM
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Most people don't want most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:06 AM
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Baggage is a metaphor. It's a term for something which weighs on a relationship, that has to be carried by both parties. So the baggage of suspicion from being cheated on is the lack of trust, the fear, the sets of behavior which have to be managed. or 'carried' by both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:23 PM
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They're insecure and/or grew up in a conservative gender segregated environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:02 PM
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I wonder. Is there a pill who believes in human companionship for it's own sake? I can't be the only one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:41 PM
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Some sort of cooperative relationship with a member of the opposite sex not based on antagonistic and sharp divisions of sexual/emotional labor within the household? Heavens forbid that's not very purplepilldebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:34 PM
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Not to mention all the baggage around gender you pick up just from watching TV, reading books, etc. Take a moment to ponder how a lot of media depicts how men interact with women as 'normal.'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:31 PM
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...Does anyone actually tell women 35 that? Don't base your views on tiktok videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:19 AM
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This is a dumb take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:19 PM
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I don't think anyone should use the population here as a representative sample for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:50 PM
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Except that there wasn't all that neuroticism about hooking up vs being serious and how open each party is in the club. Plus everyone was drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:53 AM
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I suppose i agree. The zoomers simply don't throw enough parties any more. Getting drunk at a party got more people laid than anything. Mostly through talking to someone of the sexual orientation of your choice for a couple of hours and then exchanging numbers/details (leading to basically the post first date equivalent on the apps).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:50 AM
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Both the video and the backlash are dumb and unimportant. There's nothing interesting here. Where's your usual pizazz/troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:44 PM
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None of the topics of the posts here have to be a women vs men thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:10 AM
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Well i don't know how common it is for judges to not give criminal punishments out for rape due to concern for the man's career, but i hope it's not common. Where do you live that murder only gets you 8 years sentence?? Anyway. Wanting people who commit crimes to be punished is entirely reasonable which means I'm sure there's someone here who will disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:50 PM
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As in collectively pay as a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:39 PM
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Are you sure you read that article section carefully? The government's data shows men's workforce participation rate is down by about ~2.5% since COVID. From 80 to 77.6. This is a ~10% increase, not a 40% increase. (note this includes students) https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/employmentandemployeetypes/bulletins/employmentintheuk/november2024 https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/employmentandemployeetypes/bulletins/uklabourmarket/november201…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:17 PM
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OK.. What collective action precisely?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:57 AM
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I've always cared about a woman's career. Big part of her and my life. Have the number of unemployed men increased by 40% since COVID? Hasn't the workforce participation rate gone up? That seems... odd? Where did you hear that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:54 AM
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Can alphas, beta, and incels live together in harmony or do they need separate enclosures?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:33 AM
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If this is a genuine post, then i think we are hearing from a sexually repressed woman try to work through her crush or sexual attraction to a married man at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 AM
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The thought that my super professional male coworker might watch porn like any other man is scary. Well it's not very professional to dwell on the sexual lives of your colleagues i suppose. But this is interesting... What about a man having desire for a woman (or a man) is scary for you? You must know intellectually that your male colleagues are, like most human beings, sexually active. He's friendly, but he keeps his distance. It's like he's great at controlling his "primitive male" side. Well …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:10 AM
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women are happier, single while men are happier in a relationship. That blog actually doesn't come to that conclusion. It say the data is muddled and unclear. I'm not sure that either gender or people in general de-center relationships of any kind. Relationships to human beings are sort of a center of human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:00 AM
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I always thought it was the difference in girth that meant while penetration might be more stimulating/pleasurable; it required more prep and foreplay to get ready for and left you more sore the next day. Thus making it more suitable for an occasion rather than an every day thing. Boy friend dick being small enough not to do that (but obviously not a tiny penis etc). I'm not a woman so i have no idea how true to life this meme is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:54 AM
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Is this a matter of popular advocacy or is it a matter of technical and scientific research? I don't understand why this is phrased as a call to collective action for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:44 AM
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I have female friends I sought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:23 PM
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No one created patriarchy. It's an emergent non-designed social system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:35 AM
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You're spending too much time on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:33 AM
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What's the difference between the two examples and how do you mean a a gender equality that captures the second and not first? What is that gender equality exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:29 AM
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In France it's more normal to have split checks than in the US. Do you consider yourself to be a proper gentleman? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 AM
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More interestingly, what do you think are the chances they combed through the whole divorce data set until they found the data which showed a gendered difference in splits? I don't want to operate on an assumption in bad faith, but i don't understand why they are only interested in looking at 50-64 grouping? What relationship does that have to do with a gendered cause of a split in the face of a woman's ill health?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:57 AM
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We inspected three health dimensions: self-rated health, Global Activity Limitations Index, depression. Hmmmm. It's worth being careful here. Depression is a confounding factor (in that being depressed may have a casual effect on initiating divorce or a cofactor/sign you're in a bad relationship) The data doesn't include who initiates divorce. The difference between divorce rates of male in poor health vs female in poor health are very small. The sample is pretty small. There is a lot of 'cleani…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:52 AM
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No I am saying we are discussing general tendencies and you are giving them too much weight in your languages. 'women will always' etc. Separately I disagree with the general tendencies you claim are true about women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:30 PM
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Look fair enough about the grumbling by men regarding approaching women, that is annoying. But i still disagree with your relatively severe or extreme take on gender roles in general. I think You universalize too much to all women and give too much power to the general tendencies common to women (they are just general and just tendencies). I also just plain think your approach to dating, romance, and sex simply just is not common. In short you don't explain well how women as group think about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:14 PM
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You know what. I'm glad i don't have these hang ups about the opposite sex. It must be miserable to be red/pink pill; because of half of the world is not your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:15 AM
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I think this is a very unimportant problem and cold approaches are relatively unimportant to coupling. Still. I've been approached by women and given a number a few times. More importantly I've been 'initiated'; that is women have started talking to me (because of some sort of attraction) but not preceded to ask me out and held out for returned interest occasionally. I'm no chad or whatever the RP term is. I have to say think you over state the issue in both importance and severity. I think this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:09 AM
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Not that i agree with their argument But i think the strongest form of their argument is that app's algorithm tries to spit out the men to women it thinks are best in some way (it wants to keep them on the app). Combine this with the fact that men outnumber women 3-5 times it means that you will have men who are unlucky with the algorithm and put at the back of the list (and women will never run through all the men in their area) while other men will be put at the front of most women's app list …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:10 AM
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Obviously people now are just naturally worse and the generations before far better and more moral (that's what i read in their news paper opinion pieces at least). If i understand the historical record correctly, this has been a problem for as long as written history has record of. The pre historical generations must have been glorious indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:02 AM
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I think the women i know who watch it do it out of an all too human interest in drama. Our lives are far too stable to provide enough gossip and drama about common social groups. I get some of my drama fix out of subs like this (unfortunately?).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:57 AM
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I doubt there's even that much thought in most of that sort of behavior i've ever seen. It's reflexive resentment over rejection or anger over their sexual/romantic frustration. They want the women to feel bad about themselves, and i doubt it's that strategic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:46 AM
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I'm curious. What experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:43 AM
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Why would someone want to date someone who is disgusted with them? What's the point of asking this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:41 AM
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I'm sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:28 PM
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... A red flag for not knowing how to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:32 AM
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Actually criminal records (violent) are a massive risk factor for abuse and domestic homicide. Though that may not be immediately clear or accessible to a woman to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:30 AM
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Ahh so we must look South to the Confederacy for examples of left wing regimes? Or ancient Rome perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:02 AM
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I don't understand. What does this have to do with Pfizer? What does an article written by a economist in the Atlantic have to do with leftists? What does Trudeau have to do with leftists (he's a liberal) Who are these leftists?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:01 AM
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That's the kind of brilliant logic I come to this sub for. It always delivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:27 AM
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None of the leftists i know talk or care about pfizer. Nor do we know or talk about comirnaty. We have an ideological position that healthcare corporations like pfizer should have some form of social management to ensure they are not screwing us over to make a profit (and what that is varies very widely).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:14 AM
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I think you're getting left wing and leftists confused. To be a leftist is to be anti-capitalist. Now the typical leftists today might not be more concerned about Pfizer or the typical medical/drug company than any other corporation (I certainly don't really care about pfizer). Perhaps that's no different. But there's been no change in the idea that pfzier as a public company is not the preferred form of organising the production of drugs (or any product) by leftists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:26 AM
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I suspect that having more education is also associated with lower weight, all other factors considered. There aren't really many difficult manual labor jobs to keep the working poor fit any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:19 AM
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Oh didn't realize that right wing ideology was 'hard work'. Now i know where to place the Soviet Union (where being unemployed while able bodied was illegal) on the left right spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:17 AM
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So by 2025 standards I'm a conservative but I'm a 2005 leftist. I'm curious what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:12 AM
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Fair enough. I know living with anxiety is hard (and it must be harder combined with bipolar) but I'm glad to hear you have a partner that has worked out so well with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:02 PM
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Would you have a genuine preference and/or greater attraction to a virgin man who has no sexual experience and seems to genuinely have trouble talking to other women? That seems like it might ease the weight of anxiety/insecurity. But would it be something you would actually be attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:57 PM
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I do want to say, in spite of some narratives I’ve seen out there in more straight circles, no, not all queerphobia is misogyny with extra steps. (I know that’s not what you said, just something I often see, forgive me for the tangent lol.) That’s absolutely one element, but plenty of it is tied into prejudice about men (misandry if you will). I think that this is an issue of too many people using the term misogyny to do too many different things and causing confusion and misunderstanding. Somew…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:13 PM
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Exactly. A dumb, unreasonable, set of ways of organizing society and human behavior we have all inherited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:44 AM
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Lets go further and more radical along this line of argument and dispense with the gender war stuff and let go of the preoccupation with women's dating habits. No social phenomena can be the fault of a single sex. To think so is absurd. To the extent there is social coordination or collective action it certainly does not break down along gender. Toxic masculinity or whatever we want to call the bits of masculinity we dislike is everyone's fault. So are women's dating patterns (or the parts you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:42 AM
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So then sexual health testing for STIs would solve all your anxieties and any negative emotion about a man would go away after the clean bill of health was proven right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:19 AM
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Yes but the reason you and other women don't find it attractive is what is controversial or under contention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:15 AM
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If this was about ability to cheat creating a negative reaction; it logically follows these women have the same reaction to an extraordinarily attractive men. The question is... do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:46 AM
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I feel every sexual preference is reasonably able to be explained in terms of physical attraction or impact on you in some way. So why is it a preference that a man you date or sleep with has never had sex with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:41 AM
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I‘m half arab. If someone doesnt want to date me because they want a blond and blue eyed girl from sweden thats fine. We can still be friends. Wouldn't the comparison actually be that someone wouldn't date someone (indeed gthey are immediately put off) because they had sex with an Arab? Would you be chill with someone saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:37 AM
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Hmmmm this is an interesting point you've inadvertently brought up. Is homophobia internalized misogyny? Does not wanting to date or sleep with a man who has slept with another man come out of an internalized hatred of women and the feminine? Or does it come out of a desire for masculinity performed a certain way? Or a disgust of male on male sex and some belief that something is wrong with that (and a man is somehow stained by that sex). Perhaps misogyny has just become too mushy as a term or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:36 AM
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To be clear; social expectations differ depending on where you are. I find what you say is true for the US in cities. In large parts of the US the man is expected to pay as default. In Australia and parts of Western Europe going dutch is more commonly expected regardless of who asked who out. Which is why, as you said, it's best to talk about it beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:40 AM
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Why would bi men be particularly interested in FFM threesomes. Do you mean MMF threesomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:31 AM
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So....progressives are not progressive enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:28 AM
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Perhaps, Flowers, some women are homophobic and there are less women willing to date bi men than there are straight women by that relative amount. I've certainly heard women tell me they won't. The number is clearly not zero. The question is how significant is this? I suspect bigger than you think. Perhaps looking at actual data or talking to bi men about it is the way to answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:24 AM
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Oh yeah. That's for sure. Hahahaha. That's basically wrong with (pick your gender) for every post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:07 PM
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Well she very well could mean that. I've known plenty of women who think that at least half of men are trolls (physically) and only warm up to them if they get to know them. They probably find 5% or less of men their age they see attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:52 AM
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That's a blog. Windmill_flowers what does emotional vulnerability mean to you? What is an example of when it sexually aroused you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:33 PM
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What has being shamed done to make you a better person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:40 AM
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It's shallow. Appearance, height, and income are shallow features of a person. What's at issue is if we should care or have some social panic about it. We don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:57 AM
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What does emotionally vulnerable mean to you? Because I find the prospect of someone (man or woman) finding it sexy or arousing strange in the year off your clothes you described. Are you sure you mean emotional vulnerability? Anyway. No I don't think women find it sexy. It might be an important emotional bonding moment. But in my experience women (especially younger and less experienced women) can find it hard to cope when the gendered expectations are over turned like that. Expectations have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:38 AM
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Hey... It could be preparing the ground for male contraception advertising hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:32 AM
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You're on the wrong sub if you have that much hope for the posts hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:30 AM
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Something not having permissibility is not the same thing as calling someone a loser and saying out loud you hold them with contempt. An AI girlfriend already doesn't have social permissibility. So does not having any friends or a partner. Im not sure what being mean to someone online is meant to achieve here. The question I think you should consider here is why you care so much. There will always be lonely and wretched (or pathetic losers as you called them) both men and women. That's just the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:22 AM
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And calling the most unhappy/wretched of men pathetic losers and treating them with contempt is your way of hoping for them or making them better? Are you sure you care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:12 AM
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Why is that a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:02 AM
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Why is that a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:40 AM
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Why are you bothered by a man having an AI girlfriend? You feel these men need to be shamed? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:07 AM
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This sub is toxic everyone content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:33 PM
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I'm similar to most women in this regard OK and what does that mean for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:06 PM
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How much value is there in this hypothetical? Just because you (windmill_flowers) don't want to have sex with people for fun and only want to have sex if it's leading to or in a relationship doesn't mean all women feel that way. The issue is one of honesty. You should tell people you only want to have sex if it's in a committed relationship. The men you date ought to not lie to you in order to sleep with you. As an aside. Do you even like sex? Or is it a chore for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:15 PM
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I don't have sex on a first date (unless I'm drunk) because social anxiety makes it stressful and i want to be more relaxed than i am around a stranger. I thought that was the normal reason. The idea that it's strategic is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:58 AM
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OK. counter points: Not having sex with him (especially if he has expressed interested, invited, or asked) communicates that you're not that attracted to him. This makes it LESS likely to get a relationship with a man. You're betting on there being more men who are put off by women who are easy vs men who are put off by women who are not that into them (and have weird hang ups over sex and gender). This is a bad bet. Leading from 1. He might not care how easy you are. Leading from 1. There are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:53 AM
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Free meth eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:31 AM
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Perhaps a couple examples of deceptions which are not lies would help your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:32 PM
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Mommas boy is a method of reinforcing gender roles (and putting pressure on men to not be feminine due to being close to their mother etc). Daddy's girl is not. As being a daddy's girl is playing to gender type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:00 AM
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I think I might be misunderstanding you. When you say "their notion", who is the they you're referring to? The generally rid pill coded notion you put out there and argued against: "To challenge the notion that women's standards are unreasonable." I don't think so either You want to talk generally about women's standards with men but you're using as your evidence a youtube video of a matchmaker talking about the women who have paid her for match make. Think about this. Why wouldn't these women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:53 AM
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Hahahaha well to be honest. I suspect that the biggest difference impacting you between men now and men 'back then' is not some cultural aspect over masculinity but just that men (as everyone) are fatter now. I've always thought women wear 25% or 30% body fat far far better than men ever do. I disagree with this masculinity anxiety. Throughout history people have always (incorrectly) cast some epoch of the past as a better time for masculinity and thus society (of course due to the whole masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:19 AM
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How does that challenge this notion? Your notion and their notion are the same. You just think that women's standards are good where they think it is bad. I don't think you're getting my point about how representative your video's discussion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:56 PM
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I'm not sure I agree with this characterisation of gym bro advice either. Firstly lift bro and gym bro advice generally will absolutely advise a weight loss first (while lifting of course). The whole subculture is obsessed with calorie and macro counting with weight control in all aspects. Secondly, a gym bro diet of high protein from supplements or lean meat will in any respect to attempting to limit calories be more conducive to weight loss than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:01 PM
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Interesting. So this comes from your personal experience I take it? And it must be from a relationship that was sexless or rather absent of any sexual chemistry from the get go? Hazarding a shot in the dark here; it sort of sounds like you have gone on a journey from finding sexual chemistry very important to doing some philosophizing on just how important sex is to you. Can I ask what % of men within your general age group that you estimate you find physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:51 PM
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I disagree. both have health benefits, but not doing resistance training over the year a fat person diets could have long term health impacts from weak muscles to an earlier death from a fall in your 70s and 80s that not doing cardio in that year wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:34 PM
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This is poor advice. If fat people are going to lose a lot of weight they should absolutely be doing resistance training if at least to preserve their lean body mass for pure health reasons. Otherwise they could find that up to 30 or 40% of their weight is lean body mass. Cardio in the scheme of weight loss is relatively unimportant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:19 PM
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It's the putting a cocky shirtless gym picture (rather than one more zoomed in on your face as women want) as the first picture vs putting a shirtless beach picture somewhere in your photos or something similar. That and people underestimate what low body fat does to your face and how athletic muscle build shows in fitted shirts and forearms. In my view. It's not that women are not attracted to attractive/athletic men. It's just that they are put off by male vanity, cockiness, and showiness quit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:13 PM
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Is your position that women's standards are not too high; men just do not measure up to women's standards (or at least this woman's client base's standards and requirements? What's the point of this argument. Clearly a professional service to find and match men to female clients is not going to be representative of normal women's preferences and dating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:32 AM
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