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DISCUSSIONwlucascampbell/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 09:09 PM
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I did something like this before dating and marrying my husband of 2 years now. I was very very slender and had a flatter chest and wore a bra that was padded but really more of a “shaping” bra to round them out more than to make them look bigger such as one does with a cup size adding bra. I’m naturally heavier on the bottom half of my body and I felt that making my breasts look slightly rounder under clothes enormously improved my overall silhouette. I never got any comments on it from my now …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 08:11 PM
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It’s like you described my husband here! Yes! I can completely relate. He’s not much for gestures but he is big on giving acts of service.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 06:32 PM
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For your own safety, PLEASE do not meet with strangers you’ve met on an app for the first time in your home. Always always always the first date needs to be in public, where there are other people around in case something is off. Also, always tell a friend, “I’m going on a first date with xyz at xyz at this time. If you don’t hear from me by this time then please come look for me and call for help” Then give your friend your dates number, name, and the photo from their profile. Online dating saf…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 01:38 AM
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My two best girlfriends met their husbands on TINDER of all places! Happily married for about 2 years now each of them I believe!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 02:07 AM
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Same! When my husband and I were first together he said please please please can you grow out some hair? Apparently it feels creepy to him whereas hair makes him think yay womanly woman! It was an adjustment for me but now I’m happy with less maintenance!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 09:23 PM
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I liked adding earrings to match my scrubs that day and a feminine badge clip!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 01:13 AM
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If you haven’t already read Fascinating Womanhood I would highly recommend it. It discusses all aspects of femininity, the internal spiritual qualities and the external presentation. It even goes into detail about how to hold ones hands in a feminine manner! I think this would be exactly what you’re looking for in a written guide. I would also recommend watching some movies of women with the poise you are aiming for and getting yourself in front of a mirror and practicing. It may feel silly but …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 05:43 PM
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My husband has some putty that he buys at the hardware store. Every time we move out of a rental we take the curtains down and putty over the holes with this stuff. We’ve never lost a security deposit yet and we’ve used this trick at two apartments and two houses.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 01:43 AM
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https://www.purewow.com/recipes/light-and-tangy-coleslaw?amphtml=true Made this last night to go with my husband’s request for blue cheese burgers. REGRET. It was way too tangy, basically tasted like lime juice on cabbage. Bleh! Consider yourselves warned!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 04:04 PM
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Aww I am so flattered! My mother in law is going to guide me, I’m pretty competent but this will be my most challenging project to take on yet!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 11:00 PM
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How about this: The way the financial portion of our household is handled is that my husband makes all of our income, I stay home with the baby. He manages the budget, pays all our bills, provides everything we need. I give him a spending plan at the beginning of the month with everything I would want or need. For example, toiletries $35, coffee with girlfriends $20 etc. He reviews my spending plan and gives me how ever much money he deems appropriate, sometimes more sometimes less than I ask. A…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 09:27 PM
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I think the reason why I struggle with the language of “submitting to the marriage” is because a marriage is not an entity that has the ability to receive any kind of submission. Or ask for it. Or earn it (through vetting and other RPW tactics) A marriage cannot have the final say in a decision. A husband can. This is part of what submission is, right? Edited to add: married 1.5 years together for 6
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 08:43 PM
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I think you’re right. Certainly in my marriage this is the natural order of things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 07:06 PM
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Semantics indeed but I find myself preferring “surrender” to “submission” for this exact reason! Although, I am still trying to dig into my feelings on this. And I think it’s important to have words that fit what feels right to you. If submitting to the relationship is what sounds right to you then why not? 💞
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:16 PM
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Thank you for this! What excellent examples. This all reminds me of this passage in the book: “The only time you might disagree with what your husband thinks is if he wants you to do something that would require you to sacrifice your emotional or physical well-being. If he thinks you should hike in the desert heat, and you know this will cost you dearly in terms of emotional balance and physical health, then you must simply say, “I can’t.” If your doctor prescribes medication that keeps you vita…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:05 PM
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This is really interesting, what you say about submitting to their husbands instead of submitting to the marriage. Can you give an example of what you would need to be happy and loved that submitting to your husband would remove? I don’t disagree with you, I just see an opportunity for me to learn something here so would appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 03:48 PM
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I understand that there is so much fear around this. Fear of rejection, fear that it made you unworthy of love. But that isn’t true because here you are, already being loved by him. You deserve his acceptance and his support! He is going to be your husband, he needs to know so that he can better support you. From one survivor to another, trauma can come up during intimacy and when you embark on the journey of marital intimacy with your husband you will want to be able to rely on him for help wit…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 10:57 PM
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Ask yourself which is more important to you: Doing what you think is right in this situation? or the harmony in your marriage? *edited for spacing
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 08:09 PM
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What a classic 💞
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 03:47 PM
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Oh I like this! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 03:47 PM
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Was scrolling down the comments before I replied, but I don’t need to. You just said it ALL.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 10:57 PM
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Hold beauty. Thank you for that!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 09:49 PM
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Aw I love this!!! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 09:28 PM
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I love historical romance 🙌🏼
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 07:38 PM
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Oh girl I feel for you. I had the same with my first baby, horrible all day nausea that was truly debilitating. Can you take on the responsibility of researching hiring someone to come and do as much as possible for you to lighten your husbands load? This is what I had to do because I could barely leave the bed or couch. I used this time to get ahead in Christmas gifts with my knitting so that I would still feel productive. You can also use this time to maybe pick up some books on your hobbies o…
/r/RedPillWives18/04/20 04:52 PM
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I tried dating online-very unsuccessful (although two of my best friends met their husbands on TINDER of all places and are very happily married). I met my now husband while I was working in a children's theatre in the costume department and he was hired to work building the sets. It was great because I always knew children and family were extremely important to me and meeting a man who was taking his summer off to work with children was a really good sign to me. I would definitely do the same t…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 03:53 PM
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That would be great! Please feel free to private message me and we can always chat! I seem to recall the book specifically recommends finding other like minded women to support you in your surrendering journey so it would probably be super helpful for us!
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 09:39 PM
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I’ve started reading the Surrendered Wife too! I’m really loving this book and feel like the lessons I’m learning are going to make huge changes in my marriage. I don’t have any real tips to share because I’m just starting out too but I wanted to post a little something in solidarity. I do have to say that I started implementing lessons from the book about a week ago and already my husband has bought me flowers unasked just because (something he hasn’t done for months I believe due to previous n…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 09:28 PM
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