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wmp_v2/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 04:55 PM
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wmp_v2/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 02:20 AM
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I'm confident I could start over and fuck, lol bullshit. you put yourself in a cage and you whine that you're in a cage. the whole thing is a waste of fucking time that we've seen over and over again. you can join the retards at rpchristians - like this stupid monkey who's a year into trying to fix his wife. Rule 10 ban. the common theme between these "outside my morals" retards is that trying to jedi mind trick their wives into loving them apparently is a-okay though while the idea of becoming …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 11:54 PM
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Because it's the wrong question. If you did the exact same thing and she didn't fuck you, is it now a loss? Did you now do something wrong? Most men ask "why won't my wife (this woman) fuck me?" When they should be asking "why won't any woman fuck me?" and when a woman decides she wants to fuck you, the only thing you need to do is not step on your own dick - which guys are admittedly bad at.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 05:17 PM
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I want to be a man who fucks. I am willing to next my wife if that is what it takes. what kind of retarded monkey bullshit is this? if you want to fuck, go fuck. the fuck does your wife have to do with any of this? why not just come out and admit that you're a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 02:56 AM
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divorce It's a great question you're asking and it highlights just how many men are pussies hemming and hawwing. If I were to get a divorce, I would frame it as "i'm getting rid of dead weight cunt. you're absolutely fucking worthless you useless piece of shit and none of this should surprise you at all unless you're a retarded monkey." it won't be "oh well honey i don't think i'm happy and i feel like i'm unappreciated and i can't help but feel that i'm partly responsible in all of this because…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 02:37 AM
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i just figured after 30+ years, something more advanced would've come along. silly me. oh - and since you're here for life stuff - learn how to be disciplined and learn how to do shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 11:02 PM
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til c++ is still highly relevant in low level programming.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 10:44 PM
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Congratulations on fucking your own wife. Real doozy of an accomplishment.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 09:19 PM
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People like to compare against the worst. They like to take their best and compare against someone else worse and pretend they're better. Why do they do this? Because it's easy and lazy. For the vast majority of people, they like lazy. Are you that type of person? Seems like it from how you framed your answer to what you want as a "I know what I don't want lol" response. As for the philosophical question about life, the most satisfying answer is "to be happy". Many ways to go about it, but havin…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 09:17 PM
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Why c++? It's not a very useful language in the space.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 09:07 PM
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You did great. Really interesting post about ensuring that you're focused on the shit you control, yourself. With respect to the relationship, it's about setting the standards and enforcing them or compromising to because it's worth compromising for. It's that simple, everything else is details.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 08:34 PM
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The why doesn't matter. You're better off not worrying about why. Most people have all sorts of reasons for not doing something, and all sorts of reasons why they can't. None of that matters. Be the type of person who can just go do shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 06:26 PM
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Fuck the side piece, yell at her when she complains, and berate her about "what the fuck did you expect bitch?"
/r/askMRP11/08/25 06:48 PM
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give /r/relationship_advice a go if you're bored.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 04:33 PM
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the inability for men to take responsibility and own their lives and consequences is absurd to me. the constant theme is these fucking losers want an explanation or reason when the reality is is that it doesn't matter. you either tolerate the bullshit or you do not tolerate the bullshit. when you don't tolerate the bullshit, your actions will reflect this and either people shape up or they fuck off. it's not that complicated. it works even better with kids because kids operate more naturally on …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 08:33 PM
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Feel free to fuck off then. You've whined about this shit for 12 weeks and are unwilling to take any action. You refuse to teach a 5 year old negative consequences then are surprised that he acts like a prick. Instead of taking ownership, you want to blame external factors for your bullshit. You are the worst type of parent and person. There is nothing wrong with your kid. He does not have ADD. What he has is weak ass shitty parents who suck dick. I feel bad for him because he will be a fuckup t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 05:25 PM
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The way I see it, the paragraphs are not dedicated to my wife, but to my learning as prompted by - this week - her anxiety. If they are, I'll be banned, and that is ok. K. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 05:23 PM
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I read The Explosive Child, which helped me better understand his behavior. come the fuck on. it's not that hard. your kid's understanding of positive and negative learning is weak. i bet he doesnt get spanked or belted, spent some quality male bonding time with my son cleaning my pistol when I got back from the range. performative bs. you're so transparently fake it's hilarious. it's all ego driven crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 05:15 PM
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the problem with both of you is you are both gigantic overemotional pussies who blah blah blah too much. neither of you have any gravitas and your ability to drown in bullshit is sad and pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 05:12 PM
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the anxious version of Mrs. Ackley. When she is like that, In your post her anxiety is leading instead of your disdain and intolerance for that bullshit. Doesn't matter how you want to sugar coat it as progress or a win, you are failing masculinity 101.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 05:07 PM
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Don't let the judgment of a random retard on the internet change how you do things.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/25 01:26 PM
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i took it as existential angst. teenager stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 09:45 PM
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Rule 9. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 09:04 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 09:02 PM
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It's not mean to be ego deflating either. It just is. You aren't that unique or special among the 8 billion other people. So go and live your life to the fullest - whatever that means to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 09:01 PM
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Another retard with dynamite in his hand. The key isn't realizing that you're the hero in your story. The key is realizing your story sucks and that's okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 03:13 PM
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Kids are going to do what kids are going to do. As an adult, you should be smart and aware enough to know what they're going to do. When that happens, to them 1) it'll seem like magic, but more importantly 2) they'll feel like you really understand them. Taking the time to respect them as small individuals instead of ignoring them as not understanding or not knowing is something most parents don't do well enough. Just because they have little kid problems (which probably aren't that important to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 03:06 PM
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Exactly. It seems this part of my ego is going to take a lot of time and effort to kill. I shouldn’t give a shit whether women display interest in my appearance or not. It doesn’t matter and it’s a distraction. Know that you can, and then realize that it's cheap.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 02:56 PM
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This self aggrandizing format is idiotic and pure attention whoring. Banned for not adding value. Keep it simple, why use such large, idiotic headers?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 01:03 AM
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Kids benefit from direct and deliberate parenting. Very often, kids are told what not to do. They're rarely told what they should be doing or how they should be acting instead. And they're almost never told why. Good luck with your kid. I'm really curious how it turns out. 5 year olds are great learners. They understand boundaries very well and they're starting to understand cause and consequence. If there's one thing you can teach your kid today, it should be that having the discipline to put i…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 03:26 PM
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The truth is that this he said/she said/he did/she did bullshit doesn't matter at all. It's about setting your standards, then executing on them. What you wrote about is weak, feeble attempts to grasp at competence and compliance. It's boring to read and pointless because it isn't deliberate and it isn't focused, therefore it doesn't do anything to drive you forward. I suspected a blowup with my wife was coming given the relative lack of shit testing last week Also, looking and thinking like thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 03:22 PM
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I am a man with my own internal validation and compass. You're the type of man who'd pay $5000 to go to a manliness camp thinking spending time in the woods with a bunch of other men shooting .22s will do something for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 02:41 PM
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I didn't have much interest in initiating after the blowup, but I did continue conditioning my wife to associate anxiety relief with sex earlier in the week. The night our son got kicked out of camp, I handed her her clit vibrator and told her she needed it. When she used it and expressed that she couldn't turn her thoughts off I put her hand on my dick and said "don't worry, babe. The only thing you have to think about in the world right now is stroking me." She compiled. I also had her comply …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 02:30 PM
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I need to start seriously thinking about what I really want out of life to grow past these guidelines. How about this? Learn to be disciplined and actually finish something. Your kids are a lifelong project that you're trying to half-ass after your motivation ran out because you got frustrated, just like all your other bullshit. Anyway - welcome to the stage of "conscious incompmetence".
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 02:26 PM
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all meetings happened outside, walking around, talking. i was going to call you a faggot for blowing up your family because you have a crush. but then i saw you didn't have a family, so fuck it and roll. your wife sucks - she's gonna be 40 years old, alone, buying wine from the liquor store at 4pm on a sunday. you've found younger, hotter, better and newer. so fuck it. play with dynamite. the knew girl will eventually learn what your wife already knows. anyway - rule 9 ban. because you've comple…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 02:21 PM
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Random caps makes you come off as a sperg. Be deliberate.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 06:52 PM
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Rule 9. I could control like becoming more attractive by losing weight (80lbs) making more money (45k to 100k). Neither of these things necessarily make a man more attractive. They may make man less unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 06:50 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 06:49 PM
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whores are good at sex too.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 04:17 PM
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I especially like the lack of focus on your ex wife. that's the entire point of the exercise isn't it? ex wife, parents, the world, etc. - end of it all, no one except yourself is responsible for your decisions. everything else is just whining in some form or other.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 03:53 PM
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I sent him to his room for about ten minutes. i never liked the idea of timeouts. it felt too impersonal. i wanted my daughter to know that it was me who was punishing her and i wanted to take an active role in that. plus, being actively involved gave me a chance to talk to make sure she knew why she was being punished and answer any questions she might have. good on you for being very direct with the actions -> consequence chain. make sure he has an idea of what the expected/appropriate behavio…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 11:33 PM
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Man fucks wife is less interesting than man fucks mistress.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:44 PM
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She was very apologetic and promised to change everything, She doesn't matter. All that matters is your standards, expectations, and execution on the former. Looking for mommy's approval is a waste of time. She also don't know when she's lying.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:43 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:41 PM
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Rule 9. Banned. Your play by play bullshit is irrelevant.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:40 PM
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You really don't need to write erotica for MRP. You got your dick wet. Congrats and all, but man fucks wife isn't that interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/25 07:33 PM
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the point is making sure you're responsible for your part.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/25 08:40 PM
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It is the passive way you wrote it, which reflects the passive way in which you think about it. You wrote it as if fights are magically happening to you, that they're magically springing up and you have no direct action in them. That's complete crap. The decision to have or not have fights is directly up to you. You're choosing to engage. You're choosing to participate. You're choosing to indulge. Testing me, getting upset with me, silent treatment, etc would be more accurate. "feel free to fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/25 02:53 PM
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He also probably doesn't know. But at the very least, it's a good enough starting point.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:55 PM
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This was completely retarded and useless. You're just whining. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:26 PM
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Banned. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:23 PM
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my son is already exhibiting behavior that is likely to get him expelled if it continues. If you're really curious, figure out why he's doing it. Not the shallow bullshit reason, the real reason he acts that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:19 PM
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Playing stupid word games doesn't stop you from betraying your own perceptions. Don't act like we're retarded. More importantly, don't act like you're retarded. You used the word you did for a reason. Your ego is causing you to backpedal.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 02:06 PM
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I have probably had more fights/arguments in the past few months than we have as a whole. As you should've realized from your early interactions, verbal intercourse is optional. You are choosing to engage and have fights. It's not something that just magically or passively happens. Your bullshit way of writing that sentence is weak dogshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 08:18 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 08:11 AM
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It's the difference between "You're being punished." vs. "I'm punishing you." Taking ownership of the action and your role in said action.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/25 03:29 AM
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consistently Your kids should always know that they're going to be punished before they ever get punished. It's really really really simple. As they're being punished, you should be reinforcing and making sure they understand why they are being punished. You should also be reinforcing and making sure that you notice when they are well behaved. So if they're doing something well, call that out too.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 11:37 PM
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If you don't get the fact that the way you write is reflective of the way you actually think, i don't know what to tell you -- it's the whole entire exercise. You can try to bullshit yourself after the fact as much as you want, but how you think of things in the moment is exactly who you are as a person. Lying to yourself to try to protect ego is transparent.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 11:32 PM
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hitting is not acceptable why not? says who? issue an appropriate punishment. why? why should he be punished? and what is appropriate? saying mean things to him (i.e. "you don't care about your sister at all, do you?") Ah yes - nothing like trying to emotionally manipulate and guilt trip a fucking 5 year old you stupid fucking cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 11:29 PM
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I am not going to engage further than necessary or be drawn into a debate with him. That tends to escalate things. lmao. your kid is 5 you stupid fuck. i'm sure the 5 year old is the one escalating things. take some ownership. jesus.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 05:20 PM
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Do you have any idea how to be content? The modern day equivalent is kids have never learned how to be bored.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 04:19 PM
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ignoring bad behavior are you retarded? do you know how parenting works? you've got a 5 year old you stupid fucking moron. it's like you think your only 2 options are yell like a moron or ignore like a moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 04:14 PM
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Take some ownership you gigantic fucking pussy. If she's a gigantic cunt but you sit there and tolerate it, who's fault is it? Expect and demand better. If you're not willing to fire her, then shut the fuck up and take it like the helpless resigned bitch you are. This applies to every single one of you cunts that continue to whine about your wives. It's not that hard. You guys are just either retarded or giant pussies, one in the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/25 12:45 AM
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Banned. It's all reactionary bullshit driven by your wife. Not using "she"/"her"/"wife" doesn't change this fact. I applaud you on the creative way you're going about whining though.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 03:29 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 03:28 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 03:27 PM
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congrats on fucking a cum dumpster
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/25 03:26 PM
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If I was in a serious committed relationship like most of you guys then I wouldn’t be flicking through apps to chase a dopamine hit because it wouldn’t be worth it. so you're not in a committed relationship, but you're already rationalizing how you're going to completely change your personality and behaviors in the case that you are. i hope all you retards reading this don't wonder why your wives and girlfriends lose attraction for you. some of you are some incredibly stupid motherfuckers.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/25 02:35 PM
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I hate that you guys are always nasty and helpful at the same time. "men with no frame and the stupid shit they say."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/25 02:17 PM
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she is your wife. of course she wants to fuck you. of course she wants you to want her. you're just too weak and too stupid to do the things that husbands and wives do. at some point in the past, she liked you enough to think "hey - ya know what, i can see myself spending life with this person." and if for some reason that's no longer reality - then you should probably fuck off and give her an opportunity to go find someone else. this is part of the reason that i try to get guys to the point whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/25 02:12 PM
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Or a transgender man. Those dudes beat up the women pretty damn good at the olympics.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:19 PM
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Did you know that accountabilibuddy is a trigger word for me? The fact that you need someone else to do your dick holding for your makes you gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:18 PM
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Banned. Get back to me when you can write in present or past tense instead of future tense. I have no idea how you managed to come off as such a whiny bitch just by your writing, but you did. Congrats. Color me impressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:17 PM
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Don't fucking care. You're too much of a whiny bitch. And lucky since you're the 2nd batman origin story this week. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:15 PM
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Listen - rule 9 isn't just for your wife. It's for every one and everything. I don't fucking care that you want to whine about how mean your ex-wife is. I do care you're a giant fucking pussy who makes me have to read that shit week in and week out. I'm guessing you like the value you get out of this place yeah? So if you want to keep it up - you cut that shit out going forward. The only thing I want to read is "i slapped that ex wife cunt because i felt like it." it's boring and pathetic. i don…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:09 PM
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fine, if you want to take me even though I don’t want to, do what you have to the difference between your wife and my wife is that even when she doesn't want to, she wants to. why do you think that is?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:06 PM
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performative proselytizing is just as gay
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 11:03 PM
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If she turns her attitude around, I may plan something special, but otherwise I’m preparing for a confrontation. You're a bit of fucking idiot aren't ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 04:01 PM
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to practice being the oak and provider, e.g. going out shopping, cooking meals, helping change diapers, helping coming out with a way to fasten the diapers so that the little bastard does not pull them off at the earliest opportunity. color me impressed. you retards have found a new way to bastardize choreplay.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 03:17 PM
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what is this load of horseshit? i don't give a fuck. no one gives a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/25 03:15 PM
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Banned. Boring ass crap. Some retardo batman origin story and a bunch of other shit that doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:35 PM
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accountability Banned. We're not your accountabilibuddy, we're not your personal livejournal. You fat fucks are so fucking stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:34 PM
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Banned. You're such a stupid fucking moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:32 PM
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I’m going to spend more time on r/sales. I treat everyone on the internet, and especially reddit, as retarded little monkeys. But you do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:31 PM
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I’m an Asian (Indian) man and mental health You're a little bitch. Fixed some typos for you too.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:28 PM
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it's really easy - when he's doing something worth punishing, "if you keep doing that, you'll be punished." if he keeps doing it, you'll be punished. when you're punishing, explain why he's being punished and what the expected behavior is. /u/rocknrollchuck and i had a conversation about this many many many years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 06:18 PM
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punishment should be predictable and explainable. punishment shouldn't be used as a form of coercion. when my daughter was young, 3 or so, it was because she didn't listen to me. as she got older, it was about understanding and doing the right thing. i tried to use "because i said so" very sparingly as a reason for why she couldn't do something. it was usually tied to an outcome. when she was 3, she had a plastic bat and liked to hit me. i told her not to do it, but she kept it up. so i took the…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 05:26 PM
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This isn't the father I want to be, nor is it attractive. Are you trying to teach and make them better or are you just angry and want to vent for yourself? Be in control of your emotions. If you care about your kids, just raging at them isn't helping them at all. So why do it? That does not preclude you from being angry although the intent matters. Something else to realize is the fact that they're not obliged to share the same viewpoint or values.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 03:39 PM
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Have you ever seen what happens to a woman's stomach when she goes through pregnancy? If not, go take a look at how all that crap gets squished up. Now is that a free pass to be a cunt? No - but to pretend everything is normal is ignorant.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:02 PM
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I banned him for the same reason at the other sub.
/r/askMRP14/05/25 02:41 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 07:57 PM
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I set a goal to initiate 3x and I did initiate 3x and had sex once. I can definitely work on my initiation game. I found she often shutdown from my direct and overt initiations. I’m going to try something softer this week. You'd be scoreboarding like a retarded faggot a lot less if you were banging a 25 year old.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 07:56 PM
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The hardest blow is when we went to a party, we had a great time. I flirted a little in front of her (not enough though), got turned down when we got home. I expect this now, but that doesn’t mean it is okay — the best way to cap a good night out is with intimacy. You'd care a lot less if you were banging a 25 year old. Just saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 07:55 PM
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I get torn between guilt I'm not more involved and relief that I can just let this go. Interesting. Nothing is my fucking problem unless I choose to make it my fucking problem. And if I choose to, no half measures - I'm going to do it the way I see fit. So whoever's asking me for help needs to understand what they're asking for. This mindset does a great job of minimizing the amount of shit I have to deal with. I find your posts fascinating. The hardest part of boiling water, painting, or making…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 07:35 PM
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It was my perspective, only it was the perspective from the passenger seat of the car my wife was driving. Good way of putting it. it doesn’t fucking matter “why”. Yup. No one besides your ego cares about why. And your ego is a moron..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 07:31 PM
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I will fire her for her shit attitude once I've reached my goals. Her attitude outside the bedroom is actually very agreeable. i can guarantee you're going to be banned for rule 9 or rule 10. if you already know you're going to fire her, why are you waiting?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/25 03:04 PM
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The problem with a career is that it's fairly similar with women. For any particular job, your ability to get it is mostly out of your hands. However, what you can do is make yourself more attractive or give it a go with multiple different jobs that are aligned in your particular area. Keep taking the actions that might lead you to opportunities understanding that it might take a bit of time for them to materialize. Focus on the actions you can control in getting the type you want and give it th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/25 06:04 AM
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The whole continually looking back thing is the problem. The entire attitude associated with that is a covert contract. Your phrasing indicates that your thought process is along the lines of "my actions/emotions impact her actions/emotions". that couldn't further from the truth. i can guarantee you that she gives 0 fucks about your feelings. i'm sure she is more than capable of being a total cunt to you while you're a happy little dumbass. it is your intolerance and rejection or her shit attitu…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/25 02:34 AM
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It's funnier when you're not the POI isn't it. The lesson here is that none of this personal. My daughter was pretty pissed off when I called her a dumb ass monkey. And I said, "listen - if you're going to act like a dumb ass monkey. i'm going to call you a dumb ass monkey." she didn't like it any better after the explanation either. didn't and doesn't stop me from calling her a dumb ass monkey though. she gets it though.
/r/askMRP07/05/25 05:15 PM
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Predictably, she was pretty defensive and told me that the emphasis on exercise and eating healthy wasn’t good and that there were other ways to be healthy. She went on about it for a few minutes while I sat quietly listening, eating my ice cream and cookie (If it fits your macros….) and watched the playoffs. Instead of disagreeing/arguing and/or apologizing, I fogged a bit ( “I can see how that could be frustrating to hear”) and STFU. In the past I’ve treated this as a comfort test and told her…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 05:11 PM
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She will follow my lead. If I’m happy, she’ll be happy, if I’m upset she’ll be upset There's a covert contract there. But there's also a corollary there - "if I tolerate her being a cunt, what else should I expect her to be?" your mindset if reactionary -- you're looking behind pretending to lead while secret hoping she's kind enough to follow. even in the corollary above, notice it's rooted in what a "me"-centric statement. that's why it's written as "what should I expect" and no "she'll be a c…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 05:06 PM
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Have I recommend that you go back and read your earlier OYS posts? Consider doing that. Take inventory of the change. It's much less erratic and reactionary.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 05:05 PM
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lmao. the fuck would i listen to your dumb monkey ass for? your criticism is worth less than a pile of shit on an indian street. do something faggot.
/r/askMRP07/05/25 03:15 PM
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I more than welcome you to credit a subreddit and run it however you want.
/r/askMRP07/05/25 06:14 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 06:04 AM
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There's a sticky note that says You just whinge, piss, and moan about your wife. It's a pathetic whine fest and every single one of you sucks ass. I'd think that'd be enough of an indiciation to not whinge, piss, or moan about your wife. Then you go and do it anyway. Why should I or the rest of the people deal with the retarded or unlucky? There are enough decently entertaining guys posting week in and week out that guys like you don't matter. But to your point, yeah, 14 days was too short. The …
/r/askMRP05/05/25 08:05 PM
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This is straight copyright infringement is it not?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/25 03:06 AM
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Your pivotal moment is boring crap - mostly just you whining - and an extension of your post. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 03:29 AM
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Believe it or not, most of us are cheering for you to succeed. As you guys could have probably guessed, I realized how much I was consuming out of boredom and not just food. I didn’t understand it was a problem without consistent logging it. I would keep a running total in my head but could justify why it’s okay to eat xyz. Must've been a punch in the gut to be slapped with the reality of how much you bullshit yourself eh? And why is it that everyone here, a bunch of random fucking retards, coul…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 03:22 AM
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You spent the entire time whining about your wife when it explicitly says to not do that. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 03:21 AM
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She has power because she withholds sex and I have power when I withhold myself from the relationship No. She has power because you have no other options or you choose to have no other options. Either way, that's you problem. Similarly, she's annoying because you tolerate her being annoying. Once more, it's a you fucking problem. I need a training partner for that. For now it's my wife, cause she knows my weak points best. Ah yes, you held up a mirror and saw it was your wife. You fucking moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 03:18 AM
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I'm choosing to keep this post up for the FR aspect of it. But the poster has been banned because the poster sucks. I always wonder where we get these randos from on these shit tier posts. Oh - and if you're unfamiliar, this is just my thread to ban more randos. Notice all the "she" statements by all these fucking retards.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 12:27 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/about/rules/ added to the sidebar as well. the stickied comment on the OYS threads should also be indicative.
/r/askMRP24/04/25 09:40 PM
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Just a reminder that 7 months ago you were 390. Point being that you should take time to recognize the progress. It's harder to in the day to day.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 01:22 PM
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I've accepted responsibility for where I am. I still blame others for why I can't get to where I want to be These two are contradictory. You can't accept responsibility if you're assigning blame.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/25 09:30 PM
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It's the idea that every single thing you do is an isolated choice that is hard for most men to swallow. There is nothing that says you need to do anything - which means you are free to do anything. Most men point to all the burdens and obligations they have - but those are placed by themselves. There's nothing that says you have to stay with your wife. There's nothing that says you have to make sure she's happy. Men fail at this and then blame everything except themselves - the ones making the …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/25 05:12 PM
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congratulations - once more you demonstrated that you think we're all retarded mother fuckers and have no respect for the people here. i don't know why you want to come back every week and act like we're stupid cunts. coming in and lying every week about how "you're really really trying hard to lose the weight" is only cheating yourself. you know what to do and you choose not to. it's your life. you want to choose to be a fat fuck - fine. coming here to get validation from a bunch of nobodies by…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/25 06:02 PM
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It's in r/TheRedPill's sidebar ya know what - you're right. you should go hang out over there with the cool kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/25 05:47 PM
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I remember you saying you were somewhat autistic. I find your effort and progress interesting and amusing. It's a struggle for you, but I look forward to reading it. I will point out that your dating and fucking phase has passed and you've moved to the introspection phase. Fucking wasn't the problem was it? The prescription has been the same as it's always been -- get to a point where you honestly think that you, your life, and the people you choose to be in your life are pretty awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/25 05:43 PM
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I’ve mentioned her closed bodylanguage (in and out of bed) here often and after the incident she told me how uncomfortable she feels around me in general because of all the action that I try. Have you ever thought about why Rule 9 exists? It's because the act of making "she" statements is an poorly veiled attempt at validation seeking instead of being internally validated. It's the de factor way of the pathetic man to complain that mommy doesn't like him enough. Too many men ask "why doesn't she…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 08:20 PM
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had told my wife from my past that I had many platonic girlfriends myself Jesus fucking christ you're pathetic. First time I've considered a ban for "he" statements. a fat, smoking bus driver with minimum wage is her best option? Jesus. Or is it more pathetic that this loser is more appealing and interesting than you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 08:16 PM
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Rule 9 It's boring and a waste of my and the community's time to read shit posted by dudes who just want to whine about how their wives are mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 08:12 PM
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Banned. You'd think people would see the pinned post and take a hint. You'd be wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 08:10 PM
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You didn't answer the important part you fat lying piggie. Do you log everything you eat BEFORE you eat it? Which means we all know the answer. This is what horns means when he says you should just give up. You know how to do it. You just choose to not. That's fine, but at least have the self respect to stop lying to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 04:46 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 01:13 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/25 05:03 AM
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Banned
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/25 05:02 AM
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I don't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 12:37 AM
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We don't tolerate losers here. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/25 01:24 PM
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Ban me if you want. k.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/25 01:53 AM
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crackheads claim to see and feel shit all day. as do schizophrenics. it would naturally be the key characteristic of the narcissistic useless pissant to think and all powerful creator gives two shits about your meaningless existence. think about how arrogant that very idea is.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/25 09:54 PM
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nothing says attractive like a dweeb who can't make the most basic of choices and needs mommy to decide for him. good job buddy, you're truly killing. bullshitting yourself is one thing, but bullshitting everyone else because you think we're retarded is pretty insulting.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/25 09:52 PM
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she might as well go ahead and fuck them - you know, give me a good reason to end this shit and start over as a bachelor why do you need permission?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 07:14 PM
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or you could realize, like you do, that's it's a waste of time, energy and effort. it's in the same vein of "i can fix her!" you'd probably be better off starting your own church.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 07:13 PM
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Banned. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 07:12 PM
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there were times when she was crazy attracted and we fucked like rabbits novelty and new relationship energy does that. that's part of the audition phase.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 02:17 PM
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the idea that the words are any more than post hoc rationalization is either naive or stupid. and look at how much energy you put into mouth noises. and who's frame is it anyway? she isn't interested in fucking you because she's fantasizing about another guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 03:17 PM
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lol. how many of this subreddit's rules do you think you can get banned for posting that convo? but more importantly, why will you get banned for those rules?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 02:41 PM
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hahaha - you let the wife shame you for your limp dick. you faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 02:35 PM
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Christian for quite some time but i’m seeing cracks everywhere. By itself, Christianity isn't inherently pathetic, but most of the practitioners are. The current iteration of the church isn't acting through strength, but rather through weakness and femininity all while larping a brand of masculinity that is palatable and acceptable to women -- the main audience. Much in the same way the democratic party is - see also, David Hogg and Tim Walz.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 02:20 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 02:14 PM
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"our sex life" - lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/25 03:12 PM
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What's interesting about your post is that all your she statements seem more contemplative than whinging or in her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/25 02:37 AM
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In September my girlfriend suddenly had a panic attack during sex. She’d gone through a traumatic SA in college about 7 years ago and somehow it had triggered while having sex with me. She’s been to therapy and I did know about this before, but it had never been an issue. Why do you care?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/25 02:36 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/25 02:35 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/25 02:34 AM
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Seeking feedback from all of you. I’d like to find someone experienced here in MRP who would coach my next steps. Fuck you. Pay me. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 08:18 PM
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How fat is your LTR?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/25 03:55 PM
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I should have done this sooner as I tend to lie to myself and say, "I'll add it to MFP when I get to my phone". The suggestion I have is to add the food in before you ever take a bite. Which means that if you can't add it, you don't eat it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 06:01 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/25 02:02 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/25 02:01 PM
1

Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/25 02:00 PM
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"yeah you do. it's time for me to fuck. let's go. get ready."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 07:45 PM
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The standards, whatever you perceive them as, are bullshit and don't matter. Figure out what works for you, discard everything that doesn't. I ban people because they're wasting everyone else's time. Trying to figure out how to read or change someone else's mindset is retarded and a huge waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 03:00 PM
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Given the you recognize a situation/dissonance, the follow up question should always be "what do i want to do about it?"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:36 PM
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“i feel pressured” Why not own it? Doesn't really take much for your true self to reveal itself does it?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:25 PM
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You know what you remind me of? The "forming, storming, norming, performing" mantra that gets thrown around every once in a while. It's interesting. I'd suggest going back and reading your OYS from 3-6 months ago and doing a quick retro.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:23 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:19 PM
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me: her: don't do this bullshit. it's retarded. and why do you think what was said matters? it doesn't. it all boils down to this "i'm a whiny little bitch." On the lines of being a little bitch we have I really have very negative image of spouse in my head that does not correspond to reality at all. Do you really? Or are you just coping? Get your wife in here and write these interactions and her thoughts on the matter. Her opinion seems important enough that it dominates the post. I'll say you'…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:15 PM
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Just make a choice and own it? Seen it, wrote about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 02:12 PM
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or are you just too much of a bitch and make a choice, even if it's wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/25 05:23 AM
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Here's rule 10 at mrp - if you choose to be the plowhorse, you don't get to bitch about it. You don't get to write how people fought you at every step of the way. If you choose that role, you embrace that role and the fact that everyone will freely shit on you for any reason they choose. No whining. And the reason for this is that if you're wishing people would respond differently, you really aren't choosing that role are ya? You're just lying to yourself and wasting your time, but more importan…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/25 05:13 AM
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No one gives a shit about your effort. You were a plow horse because the world told you to be a plow horse. It's the "right" thing to do but it wasn't what you wanted to do. And what'd you get for it? Gratitude, thanks, or appreciation? Nah. You got a shitty attitude. Why? No one is entitled to my time or effort, not even my daughter. I absolutely want to give her all of it, but not if she has a shit attitude. Guess how that works out for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 10:17 PM
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Time to stop loitering and join the conversation, so here goes Wrong. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 06:45 PM
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we're not your personal livejournal. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 05:39 PM
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We can't teach you how to be internally validated. You need to figure out how to be comfortable with being who you are and knowing the value you bring. Not everyone will recognize or appreciate it. The essence of internal validation is "live and let live." The thought process of "if I <x>, then others will <y>." is antithetical to internal validation. The right thought is "I do <x>, because I want to do <x>." Or phrased different, like I tell my 9 year old, "Why do we do the right thing?" "Becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/25 02:06 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/25 03:59 AM
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he's trying at least
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/25 01:42 PM
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You simply aren't enlightened enough to recognize the true necessity.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/25 01:25 AM
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MRP Community - I would like to apologize. We've been doing it wrong this entire time. We have received a message in mod mail from this user who has shown the error and folly of our ways. We did not realize how important context was and thus must now make amends and apologies. I am truly sorry for not understanding this important element. Below is attached the message from the OP that has led to my new revelation. I get that Rule 9 is designed to force guys to stay in their frame and take respon…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 08:39 PM
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tbd
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 08:36 PM
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Goals: go fuck yourself ftfy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 05:41 AM
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Are you really too fucking stupid to go through life without some covert contract carrot stick bullshit? If you're really too retarded to figure out rational internal validation, why not start with irrational self confidence instead? Which is ironic because we're seeing how you completely suck in so many ways. Maybe consider that freeing your LTR and your kid of your bullshit is the best thing for them - at least give them a chance to be happy? Then continue to blow up your own dysfunctional lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 04:37 AM
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I won't feel internally validated until I fix my work situation. Are you retarded? Do you know what internal means?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 01:11 PM
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I was molded into a approval-seeking machine by my parents Why do you think the "why" matters? To get rid of this need I am contemplating to actively seek out disapproval from important people in my life to immunize myself. this seems insanely reactive and retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 12:15 PM
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So I start revenge texting one OLD plate, get her to go through a whole safari fantasy with me, and finish to a hot pic she sends. She wasn’t banging someone, she was hanging with old ladies at some festival I would have thought was stupid. You really suck at being someone worth a damn, do you know that? Obviously you know that, you point it out. What I think is interesting is that instead of doing the work to be internally validated, you continue to look externally for validation. You started o…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 12:08 PM
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Rule 9 - fuck off. I'm gonna write it from your wife's perspective. My husband is a loser. I'd rather fuck a cactus. Wow. Now both of your posts make so much sense. No wonder your life sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/25 10:02 PM
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Wife: You just walked by the garbage again by the garage door. Wife: did you give (daughter) her treatment for (x,y,z). explaining DEER - like you said. But there's the stated problem and the real problem. What do you think the real problem here is? The real problem is that mommy has to nag you to be an adult. Now that's either because you've sucked (or suck) at being an adult or that she's naggy fucking cunt. I would guess it's the former rather than the later, but if it's the later, then it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 06:46 PM
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since that means they'll get to keep me the framing of this is off. you're making the choice of keeping them around if they add enough value to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 04:00 PM
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trust is rebuilt this is a lie. it will never be rebuilt. the question is whether you or she want to get over it or not. guilt, shame, honor are easily abused methods of manipulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 07:56 AM
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be sure to report back on how pre-emptively destroying went for you.
/r/askMRP29/01/25 07:43 AM
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It blows my mind how many retards exist. Go fuck yourself. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 07:27 AM
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also - note that i had "we won't" vs "we don't have to".
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 03:28 AM
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"we don't have to do anything you don't want to do...I just don't think you're doing what you want to do." take a second look at this and let me know what you think after doing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 01:33 AM
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As for my weight, it’s coming off so slow I felt like not posting about it because it didn’t felt like I earned the privilege to post this week. You should do it every week as a matter of being disciplined. You don't have to post it here every week, but you should be taking personal responsibility and ensuring that you are aware of the causes and consequences of your deliberate action. And if it isn't changing, that means you need to change something. This is the basic formula for being successf…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 12:54 AM
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You should tolerate anything and everything you're comfortable with tolerating. I'm just saying it's pretty boring reading about your hypothetical wife. I'd rather read her response from her directly - it'd be more interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 12:48 AM
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she’s not feeling loved in the here and now Not really your problem despite how manipulative she wants to be about it. It's her job to figure her shit out - if she doesn't feel loved, why the fuck is she here? Tell her to fuck off instead of hemming and hawing about some bullshit. Shit or get off the pot cunt. And if she really doesn't think she loves you, why's she continuing to suck your dick like your personal whore. That'd be my response. I have no tolerance for this crap. You on the other h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 11:53 PM
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It's like you retarded fucks don't read the commentary. I know it's not your fault. You pathetic fucks can't help yourself. That's why you continue to suck. Good thing for me is I don't care. You'll still get the fuck out of here. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 11:44 PM
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I took the BJ and sex anyway but did not change anything about what I was doing. i like it. recognize the manipulation and shrug your shoulders.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 11:41 PM
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RIght now, dealing with Post Partum hormones and all the trials and tribulations associated with first time birth. But depression and anxiety have been a lingering thread throughout out relationship. I don't really deal with disrespect, complaining or power struggles and I don't expect a 'main event' during this journey. It's more like an almost deadened exhaustion from the weight of having to helm the ship for the majority of our relationship. Every step I take is met with almost relief. TWOTSP…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 11:39 PM
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336lbs you seeing this shit? got any comments towards your prior mindset and attitudes? yes this will involve rubbing your nose in the shit. Divorce congrats. why are you surprised? did you apply any of what you learned from the MRP material? I've hit burnout from everything I have going on. Of course you are. For the first time in your life you're being forced to learn how to have discipline and do the fucking work. I see it in kids. Some kids are coddled - and it shows. Others are taught to ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 11:26 PM
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"Pick your shit up." is perfectly acceptable too. She can tell you to go fuck yourself, of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 02:38 PM
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My bedroom game sucked. Ftfy. Sounds like you didn't try escalating until you got back to the hotel room. You should be establishing this before you ever pull her back. And 2. "we won't do anything you don't want to." and mean it. That means that you're not doing the convincing, she is. After all, you have abundance right? So getting pussy right now doesn't bug you, right? Plus read how passive you are in your FR - it's all she statements, reactive. Your true character shone through. I'm actuall…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 02:34 PM
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Fuck you. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 02:26 PM
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Should I care if I come across as whiny? Should you care? And should you care about her perception? are 2 different questions. If you're okay with being whiny, be whiny. What matters if you let yourself be shamed for it. For example - I'm a hypocrite. I have no problems being a hypocrite. "why are you allowed to do that? that makes you a hypocrite." "don't fucking care." will that alienate certain people? sure. do i care? don't fucking care.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/25 07:43 AM
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i was actually looking for covert contract on the last one but close enough
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/25 02:46 PM
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every single penguin series has been fire.
/r/askMRP25/01/25 07:40 AM
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What we think about is what we write about. The fact that you chose to write about "i don't care about upsetting her" shows it's on your mind - aka scoreboard. it's like "i'm going to show them how little i care by making sure they all know how little i care". for example, you didn't write about how hard you had to push when you pooped or your drive to work and the asshole on the road because it doesn't occupy your mind, because it isn't important.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/25 07:38 AM
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everyone wants to be listened to, but nobody stops to think if their bullshit is worth listening to.
/r/askMRP24/01/25 09:10 PM
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The way you wrote it wasn't specific - you wrote it as if your expectation was they'd be around when you woke up at an unspecific time. That's what it continues to sound like. Is that correct? but I don’t care about upsetting her once again, your reactive framing betrays your thought process. "i'll show her!" is your attitude right here. it's just your ego coming up with excuses and reasons for why you're such a fragile little bitch. the right approach is acknowledging that "i'm a little bitch. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 08:57 PM
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I actually do FEEL more OI when she says no and there is a noticeable decrease in her anxiety, which has led to more flirtatious behavior in general. Funny how that works. It's almost as if she can sense your desperation and is repulsed it. Along this road somewhere will be h desire and a change from "sex please?" to "sex?" to "sex." I love being acknowledged at home for what I’m doing. How often are you validating yourself and your own existence? I'm guessing you aren't. i [...] therefore SHE […
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 04:07 PM
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I told her it was unacceptable that she would blow me off and take away time with my daughter so she could drink at the neighbors house. Said the little man with the fragile ego. I had 1 night off in the middle of a weird shift rotation and made it clear I wanted to spend time with my wife and daughter when I woke up. And how long where they supposed to wait around idly for? Did you know? Did they know? Did you get agreement? Or were you wanting like a little baby? Most of life is pretty easy. 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 04:00 PM
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the OLD is fucking it up a little. Of course it is. Because younger, hotter, and more enthusiastic is typically better. So now the question is - what value does she actually add and why should she get to stick around? Whether you want to give her a chance to answer that is up to you. Whether she wants to answer that is up to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/25 04:01 AM
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You must be literally retarded. This thread is literally called "Own Your Shit", not "God Owns Yours Shit". Rule 9 - but instead of she, God. Next time send God in here so he can tell us about how you're a faggot. Unbanned.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/25 08:07 AM
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I'd think at 6'8" 190 you'd need to gain weight before you even consider muscle. But the short version is your entire mentality sucks. Woe is you cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/25 03:55 PM
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We're going with hackneyed cliches? "just believe in yourself!"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/25 03:53 PM
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I like that they're good.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 06:18 PM
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Did you know that if you ask ChatGPT to quiz you with hypothetical scenarios based on the book and then grade your answers, it does a pretty damn good job? I've been practicing 5 scenarios a day and it's been hugely beneficial. I'm intrigued. How does this work?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 05:04 PM
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I've posted and commented a lot on askmrp this week, [...], as if they are thinking in a completely foreign way. A lot of comments told me to [...] but it seems unreasonable or even childish to me. So you ask a question, people give you advice, and you proceed to immediately disregard because it's uncomfortable and you think you know better. The obvious answer is "Maybe I should stop doing the thinking." But more importantly, it sounds like you just wasted a whole bunch of people's time for no g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 03:59 PM
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Why do you fucking retards continue to think I'm joking about not being whiny little cunts? Banned - 360 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 03:56 PM
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The question still stands though - I'm curious what's stopping you. Whether its you, her, or your perceptions of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 05:10 AM
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Yup. Also - banned for your absolute sham of a field report and your argumentative nature towards it. What a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 05:08 AM
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Why aren't you able to wake her up to fuck her?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 01:51 AM
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she never wants to cuddle, ever consider that it's because one of you needs to have the balls in the relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/25 03:40 PM
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There was a 340 pound fat fuck who banged the 23 year old from community college while his overweight fat fuck wife treated him with disdain. Was he attractive enough?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/25 05:44 AM
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my lack of attractiveness Are you unattractive? Or are you unattractive to your wife? Do you want to be attractive? Or do you want to be attractive to your wife?' You got $200? You can go find someone who'll suck your dick - they'll find you attractive with that money.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 10:06 PM
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who cares
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 08:53 PM
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i like this. this is really interesting stuff and a massive change from even 6 months ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 05:18 PM
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"If I was going to have an affair, you’d be the first to know”. But I got the response mentioning that I have in the past hung out with other women and I haven’t been truthful with my intentions. I didn’t have a great response to that That's because you got the phrasing wrong. Should have said "you will" instead of "you would". The importance of using future tense instead of future conditional tense matters a lot here. One implies that it will happen whereas the other is more of a hypothetical. …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 05:04 PM
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I don’t particularly want to doxx myself. lol. if you think you're that important, imma help you out with the ban duration.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:48 PM
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Nope. That's the shit guys say to cope. "I'm not attractive enough." Being more attractive doesn't mean she'll value your time and effort more. And the reason she doesn't value your time or effort is because you tolerate her not valuing your time or effort. "When you act like a frigid cunt, I want to hate fuck you" will do more for you than your meek acceptance. if you choose to accept a marriage where your wife is frigid and won't fuck you, and you choose not to fuck that whore stacy down the r…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:45 PM
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Banned
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:41 PM
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The 10-second kiss usually gets a good response but any escalation is shut down with the baby as an excuse You set the standards. She chooses to meet them or she doesn't. The baby is just an excuse as you recognize. How you act after is up to you. Here's a hint though - there can always be an excuse found.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:33 PM
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2nd time you asked this question. Are you retarded as well? You can't read the post and figure it out? I refuse to fuck with the retarded, lazy, or unlucky. It's a waste of mine and everyone else's time to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 04:29 PM
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Are you retarded? Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 09:04 AM
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over Christmas that deeply embarrassed me "I allowed myself to be embarrassed." ftfy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 05:47 AM
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Banned. Dancing monkey bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/25 02:21 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/25 06:59 AM
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Like you said somewhere else - none of this is hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/25 06:57 AM
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Seems like a better option than dealing with whiny faggots.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 03:47 PM
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For losing weight - especially in your case - none of the other bullshit matters. Instill some discipline in your life and live with the suck. It will normalize within a few weeks. 344 lbs. Case in point. But if you want to go reasons to bullshit yourself and cheat, which I'm sure you'd like to because you're a fat little lying piggie, you will succeed. The entire pharmaceutical industry is in love with Ozempic because the country is filled with fat little piggies who don't walk enough and are l…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 02:15 AM
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I should’ve been asking where the man she married went. My favorite article has the thesis that most men deserve to be cheated on for this exact reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 05:01 PM
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You got $200? You can go fuck someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/25 07:38 AM
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Just can’t seem to break 350 bodyweight. 17 days ago. 17 fucking days ago. I weighed in this afternoon at 348 lbs. The problem with the weekly absolution of OYS is that guys tend to lie to themselves so goddamn much. ending the conversation by broken recording my desire to leave What stopped you from leaving? Your personal inability to execute on what you actually want? "I'm leaving in 5 minutes. Get ready or you can find your own way back." Divorce It's been written about. Read through it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/25 07:28 AM
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People are simple. They'll do what they're incentivized to do. It's either carrot or stick - and the carrot only has value if the donkey wants it. With your behavior currently, what are you incentivizing her to do? Are you incentivizing her to value you? Aside from your covert contract, why should she give a fuck? It's not that you have to go f*** another woman, it's about the fact that you need to stop letting yourself be taken for granted. And that doesn't happen without your body language act…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 08:57 PM
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You should go fuck someone else, and then be unapologetic about it. "Why are you surprised? You shouldn't be." Except that you can't. And that right there is the problem and why you will continue to be unattractive to your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 08:29 PM
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Only two fuck sessions last 14 days, one horrible bj and some hj. The bj was a big shit test in hindsight, with her complaining about headache, jaw pain and so on. her statement to ‚never do that again‘ was met with a smile, slap on ass and stfu. Why does this matter? The reasons don't matter. What she said or did doesn't matter. The fact you spend 3 sentences on it does. What's that say about you? It says you don't have any better options and just have to take it. You don't get to bitch if you …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 01:02 PM
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Same shit as last week. The vast majority of you guys don't actually do anything. No actual actions. You just whinge, piss, and moan about your wife. It's a pathetic whine fest and every single one of you sucks ass. I'd rather have this thread be empty than have it filled with your mopey ass bullshit. We're not your accountabilibuddy, we're not your personal livejournal. Have you done something this week? If you haven't, fuck off. Edit - the wife-centric shit stops this week. "we", "she", "wife"…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 12:57 PM
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It was alright until your faggot origin story. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/24 12:56 PM
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Banned. My game sucks. Needs work. Wrong conclusion.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 11:44 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 06:26 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 06:26 PM
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Nice job actually doing something you fat little piggie. Your dad is also a smart man. The harder you fight, the better of a position you'll be in when they compromise. Do not start by meeting them halfway, do not start by being reasonable and accommodating. Start with the idea that every fucking single thing is yours and that you're going to get every single damn thing you want and then some. And move backwards from there. Make sure your lawyer understands this and can make this happen. And jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 02:08 PM
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Same shit as last week. The vast majority of you guys don't actually do anything. No actual actions. You just whinge, piss, and moan about your wife. It's a pathetic whine fest and every single one of you sucks ass. I'd rather have this thread be empty than have it filled with your mopey ass bullshit. We're not your accountabilibuddy, we're not your personal livejournal. Have you done something this week? If you haven't, fuck off. Edit - the wife-centric shit stops this week. "we", "she", "wife"…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 02:07 PM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:14 PM
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Fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:38 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:38 AM
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You're a fucking loser. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:37 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:36 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:36 AM
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Relationship: Still don’t like her. Made a few attempts at speaking to her not as a roommate but as a woman, didn’t really do anything for me. So do something about it cunt. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:35 AM
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we're not our accountabilibuddies. get fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:33 AM
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You're a fucking retard. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:33 AM
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Waste of time. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:31 AM
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Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:31 AM
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We're done with this wife-centric bullshit. You guys are too apparently too fucking retarded to take any type of ownership. Bans for Rule 9 are upped to 60 days starting next week - or whatever number I feel like when I read your dumb shit. The vast majority of you guys don't actually do anything. No actual actions. You just whinge, piss, and moan about your wife. It's a pathetic whine fest and every single one of you sucks ass. I'd rather have this thread be empty than have it filled with your …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/24 05:30 AM
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very mild sexual innuendo and 'innocent' touches. I'm sure that'll get her going. A meek as bitch making mild innocent touches. Fucks sake you guys are pathetic. Fuck it - next time just bring home flowers and chocolate and you'll get that duty handy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 12:19 AM
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I got angry Like a sperg or what? I was sexist and didn't value women. "Okay. And? Fuck off and clean up my house." She apologized. Man - 3 days to process this eh. That's a long time to waste on bullshit in my opinion. In truth, your wife probably thinks women are retarded and useless too. You should ask her that next time - how's she feel about the chick who took 100 dudes in a day and is planning to take 1000 more.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 12:18 AM
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Stop talking so much and explaining yourself to randos. No one cares. Take the feedback and internalize it instead of feeling the need to spew your bullshit left and right. We know why you suck - the fuck are you agreeing for? You know why you do it? It's because you want to feel validated. Fuck that. Work on not making useless noise and being less of a faggot instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 12:07 AM
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My wife on the other hand, had a very conservative upbringing which heavily skewed her perspective on sex. What bullshit. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 07:46 PM
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so the point of your post is that you're trying to mind read your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 04:20 PM
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Just can’t seem to break 350 bodyweight. You're a liar. You're a fat little pig who stuffs your fat little piggy face. I guarantee you eat and snack like the fat fuck you are. Both sumo wrestlers and nfl linemen rapidly drop their weight after they retire because they're no longer forcing their caloric consumption. You're going to pretend we're all retarded and that you're special?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 04:15 PM
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It's not even about being the prize - it's the complete lack of self respect. Same shit, week in, week out. Even the fat kid who gets made fun of constantly will lash out and fight back eventually. But not these guys. Fuck these guys. "i'm not going to fuck you because i'm still mad at you." the idea that a stay-at-home wife would feel comfortable having that thought is actually insane to me. the level of disrespect and lack of appreciation for the life that she lives is so blatant. it's mindbog…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:57 PM
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She's been reaching out more I've noticed, I love yous, hand holding, "you look sexy today",etc . Do you care? Does it matter? Why did you feel the need to share this? Can you get your wife to write a paragraph of commentary about your relationship and why she feels like she wants to reach out more? Sex: initiated one morning after wife complained the previous evening that she wasnt feeling pretty. She was excited but couldn't get past logistics so she asked me to come home early. Rule 9 - 30 da…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:36 PM
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I kept telling myself I can trust my wife, or not. Really? This is your frame. Trust my wife? How about this one? I am more than happy to kick her ass out if I don't see her value add. Stop thinking about your life in such a codependent, self demeaning manner.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:34 PM
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MAP: Unfuck my life and prep for divorce What weak bullshit. If your goal is divorce, why not just execute? Why use a weasel mentality? Don't want mummy to be mad? Like maybe if she loses 100 pounds, gets her shit together, and brings me a new chick to bang every day while feeding me grapes at the same time, THEN I'll stay. I'm so bored of reading your fucking posts about how you're hoping to change your women. We're doing 30 day bans this week because you're all too fucking retarded to do bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:30 PM
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Relationship It has fuck all to do with you being the prize and 100% to do with her being a brat without any consequences. She's a stay at home mom who can't keep shit up to standards. What's the cost? Doesn't seem like there is one. So why should she change her behavior? She's mad, so she chooses not to fuck you. What are the consequences? She demands that you not be a cunt. What are the consequences? There are none. You see the pattern? There are 0 consequences. Every single person does what t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 03:24 PM
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Like I said in the other post, we're no longer entertaining retards. Perm banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/24 11:32 PM
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We're no longer entertaining retards.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 02:26 PM
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Okay. Why is it still an insecurity?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 03:47 AM
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Why is it an insecurity?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 12:58 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 02:05 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 02:05 PM
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weight loss lmao. you are lazy and useless aren't you? at your weight it's really, really simple. stop being a fatass. go to bed a bit hungry. but i bet you don't. i bet you stuff your fat fuck face like the fat fuck piggy you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 02:04 PM
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Telling her a gentleman never kiss and tell will feed her hamster and is not comforting. You are doing exactly what you are saying your are not; implicitly and I guess also with body language. This is not what a HVM man does. You sure you should be the one making these posts? Have you actually lived anything in this realm or are you just repeating what someone else told you?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 06:07 AM
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found the helpless retard asking the retarded question.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 06:00 AM
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he's right. it's a shitty goal. i'll leave it to you to figure out why. if you don't have it figured out by next week, let me know and i'll give you the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 03:04 PM
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if you want the critical feedback, the critical feedback is this - you're still spending time looking for what she does, instead of just expecting her to meet standards. that says more about you than it does about her. the 2nd layer to that is she's free to do so something else, how do you react when she does.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 03:01 PM
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Yup. Women aren't retarded
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 08:24 PM
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you're kinder than i am. i don't give specific actions. "you figure it out. and if you can't, you aren't trying hard enough or you're a fucking retard."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 01:24 AM
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As for the note she put in my lunchbox: Talk and words are the cheapest way to make oneself feel better. In the same way people feel like they've accomplished something by just announcing they will do something. People's gratitude is generally bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/24 10:15 PM
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When finally we went, she was mopey the whole time, blaming me for things she’s insecure about herself, like being slower than me, fat, etc. This whole time, I’m trying to be the oak and let her have her emotions, fogging and such, but in retrospect, I’m just tolerating shitty complaining by allowing room for it with comfort. Finally, I had enough of tolerating it and a bunch of disrespectful chain yanking, and I used controlled anger and nuked the test “You want to be treated like everybody els…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 03:07 PM
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It's not uncommon for a guy default to faux amusement because they rather deflect the disrespect than address it head on. Appeasement is typically easier than resolution. We've had this conversation 7 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:36 PM
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here's another thought -- women, when they get upset, are typically upset because of an emotional aspects. So their responses and behaviors are driven by those emotion which are irrational in nature. Men typically aren't - we don't need to just have a good cry. But we can faux tap into that to show how absurd it is - to pretend we're having an emotional tantrum as well to show them how stupid it looks -- start pretending to cry or slapping yourself in the face or something else dumb. Acting like…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:28 PM
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She still isn’t working, I keep getting assurances that attempts have been made but her resume is a disaster. Feedback that has been given hasn’t been taken. What was supposed to be a part time gig has apparently fizzled out, or maybe that was not true. No idea and I don’t really care, it’s just apparent that I’ll have to find work for her. I really don’t have time for that but I’ll have to make time in order for this to get done. Rule 9. Come on. You either fire her or you don't. This is just w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:16 PM
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Rule 9 - mostly because you have no existence outside of your wife. You've got nothing going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:14 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 02:14 PM
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So you've only ever had to use controlled anger one time and it's never been tested again by your woman? Nah - every year or half a year or so I gotta yell at my wife a little bit - although who knows what vain it was in - usually it's more annoyance about dealing with bullshit vs. having to demonstrate that i'm capable of being angry. It's really easy to get complacent and take the relationship and value for granted -- we (all people) tend to get acclimated and complacent. But to the heart of t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 03:30 AM
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Banned for deleting the post. Change shit if you need to fix opsec. Deleting it says you didn't like your negative score.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:58 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:56 PM
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Rule 9 - the way you're dealing with meaningful problems is so passive and weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:55 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:55 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:54 PM
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a 39 year old single woman auditioning hard. the jokes write themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:54 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:53 PM
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Rule 9 - which also feeds into what horns is saying. If you were a dominant person, you wouldn't worry so much about everything she does.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:52 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 10:52 PM
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I left a 200s job to go fly planes. If you're staying, make sure the money is enough to be worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 09:38 PM
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Being in a job for money without motivation is soul sucking. But if you wanna be a good little office beta bitch, by all means.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 05:13 PM
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https://whinemoreplease.substack.com/p/stop-tolerating-bullshit-start-showing Sometimes you gotta yell at her a little bit so she remembers to be appreciative. You don't have to go through life eating shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 05:02 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9mk54m/moving_on_from_an_affair/ - you, 6 years ago. lol. bit of a needy attention whore aren't ya
/r/askMRP30/11/24 03:46 AM
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We all know that was the answer. We also all know that the reason for the multi-paragraph diatribe is because you didn't want to directly admit failure. It hurts your ego to realize you suck. Welcome to step 1 of solving the problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/24 01:36 AM
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Have you realized that you're terrible at answering a direct question? You didn't answer the question at all, which was "Why didn't you write about drinking this week?".
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 08:53 PM
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What you write about is just as important as what you don't. This week you didn't write about your drinking. Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 05:25 PM
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Year-long MAP up to OYS #52 to become a man of abundance who commands respect and desire At some point you're going to realize the multiple layers in this covert contract and realize you're retarded. I'm sure you already recognize them, but I'm guessing you still haven't thought about how retarded you are. The single most important question we can ask ourselves is "why" and the second most important question is "how do you know"..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 05:23 PM
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My wife has been extremely nice, no nagging of any kind, including when I had a fuck up. Why do you think that is? What's changed?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 05:22 PM
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Have you ever paused and reflected on the progress you've made?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 05:15 PM
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You keep her around because you want to. But I can guarantee that this isn't the energy you walk around with or interact with her with. When was the last time you yelled at her?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 11:26 PM
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Household management and parenting in particular and is pretty competent at most other things that matter to me. lmao. the reason you keep her around can be replaced for $100-300/month. i can see why your wife doesn't fuck you. you're a retarded faggot with no spine. the shit we do here is predictable. be attractive. don't be unattractive. and it's so easy to tell how unattractive you are through how much bullshit you spew and how you respond to the simplest of questions. i'm guessing the word g…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 09:45 PM
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i can't force you to not be retarded. you actually have to want it. but here's a hint - why even keep her around?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:35 PM
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“Its fine babe, good nite” I don't think she can fathom me not being her beta bitch Clearly you're lying to yourself. All I see is beta bitch - because you're being treated like one without issue. But whatever you gotta tell yourself to be able to cope.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:30 PM
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It was an instagram post saying the following lol. that's pretty fucking lazy. "get back in your box and be my nice little beta bitch." so when are you going to give her permission to fuck off? Edit: i meant to rule 9 this as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:00 PM
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I can see that I fuck for validation. Or you could be fucking for reference experiences. Not a bad thing to have.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 06:55 PM
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Thing is sometimes I want to show her more affection and just be nice with a suprise gift or just nice gestures and I refrain from it to not be a "beta". You deserve an attaboy for being this retarded.
/r/askMRP26/11/24 04:37 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 08:17 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 08:13 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/24 08:08 AM
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There's that low bullshit tolerance I was talking about a couple of months back. Fuck another gal and realize how little you give a shit about bullshit. What do you think your body language is communicating these days?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 10:57 AM
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On my phone at the moment, but remind me to ban you for this retarded hot take.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 06:33 PM
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I'm mentoring is attractive or saying that she's afraid I'm going to have an affair. Projection. You should ask her when she had her affair. And why she stopped. Regardless, when are you going to find a woman who wants to pick you?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 04:05 PM
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Nonetheless, I was very horny this week. I checked myself to make sure it was a genuine desire to fuck, and it was. I initiated 5 times (fuck it, just going for what I want), got 4 hard no’s then ultimately a BJ last night. I would be lying if I said I didn’t get a bit butthurt about the back to back rejections (even if I did keep my mouth shut). My mind tends to catastrophise to “shit, maybe this can’t be saved”, and the practicalities of a divorce. Rule 10 is based on this. Your wife's golden …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:05 PM
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When I say "bad guy" I'm referring to breaking up the marriage. I'm aware of how retarded that sounds. You ever consider that you're the "bad guy" by putting yourself second? Obviously you recognize that because you're feeling some dissonance between what you want to do vs. what you think you should do because it is the "right" thing to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/24 07:53 AM
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My understanding from MRP and pair bonding is that my wife actually doesn’t care about my feelings either, Not quite. It's not that your wife doesn't care about your feelings - but rather that your feelings aren't worth caring about. Subtle but important difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/24 07:47 AM
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I hate being the bad guy and I don't like causing conflict. lmfao. you're a fucking retard. you got pregnancy trapped and you're the bad guy? you think the pregnancy was an accident? is your son even yours? I carry a lot of guilt about that. If a person put a gun in their mouth and pulled the trigger, would you feel guilty about that too? Some people make stupid fucking decision and deserve to die. I still resent the fact that no one ever told me "good job for sacrificing all you did, etc..." be…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 04:12 AM
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At my Toastmasters meeting the 23 year old grad student that I’ve talked about/fantasized about like a horny high school student went out of her way to talk to me afterward. I can’t tell if she’s just being friendly or flirting, but I’ve been keeping mindful of not falling into lusting over a girl I haven’t done anything with yet like I did before. I’m probably overthinking it, hell I know I’m overthinking it. Make a move ya dumbfuck. I was asked several times to stop working/doing things and sp…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 11:36 PM
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what it means is that the next time, she won't be doing this, and you'll be asking yourself what you did wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/24 03:18 PM
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"what do I want?" "how do I make that happen?" then execute.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/24 03:16 PM
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I have been receiving extra negative emotionality for no good reason, and I lost frame twice. We used to talk about how naturally women will test for weakness when their man is hurt or sick. If I'm sick, I'll whine and be lazy around the house - my wife's supportive. If she wasn't, I'd call her a useless cunt and just go take care of shit myself. I'm sick - not dead - but it's an opportunity for her to add value, which she does.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 03:16 PM
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JFC. do better. We don't fuck with losers.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 03:13 PM
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why do you stay married to her?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 03:11 PM
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She was a giggling, nervous, shy mess. The next day she chased me down for sex, which she called animalistic. Some more emotion game brought her to the shy, giggling state. Why does she get shy and giggling, almost shutting down with it? This is the type of rationalization that gets men doing choreplay. "I took out trash that one time, and we fucked. Maybe if I keep taking out the dishes, she'll fuck me again." Outcome dependent, pavllovian response type stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 03:10 PM
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It's rule 9 because the entire post is reactive or dependent on some other party.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 03:08 PM
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ctrl-f 'she' 🤮
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 06:19 AM
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“I'm not happy” "Feel free to fuck off."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 01:52 PM
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A day later, I was wrong - I shouldn't have banned you. These are fine questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 11:28 PM
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It's easier to bitch about how someone else is being unfair than it is to put the onus on yourself to be better. Most of you have a lifetime of thinking in the former manner - and believing you are helpless. Adjusting your mental model and how you think is part of the process. I'm sure you see how others are failing at this when you read through their posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:03 PM
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I was going to give you a pass on the rule 9 until it got blatant at the bottom. It's getting boring reading about the same shit each week - you drank, you sucked, and you whine about some woman. You can't help yourself and it's starting to just be a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:50 AM
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at least you recognize the covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:44 AM
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Friday, I had 2800 calories and Saturday I had 3250 calories of bullshit fast food. I let shit I can’t control get to me again and in defiance You are a fat fuck who lacks discipline. Most guys are going to fail. You're definitely going to fail. And it shows in your post. I feel bad for your kid. He's going to be a fat fuck who lacks discipline as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:38 AM
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Sent 400 postcards to property owners in search of a house off market. I got a decent response rate and had a few owners reach out to come look at their house. We visited one of the houses already and it was a great situation but not the right house for us. We're going to look at another house at the end of the month. I've always been one to lament the lack of house listings in our area plus the competitive market. But when I sent out those postcards, it opened up new doors to houses that were n…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:36 AM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:34 AM
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his wife is 52 and a cunt. there's no real great reason to like his wife. usually we tell guys they should like their wives because most of the time it's a defense mechanism. sometimes, wives are cunts and guys can do better. this is the case for winston. so why should he waste time liking his negative, cunt wife? what's the value there? anyway - enjoy your brief ban for giving shit advice. i'm happy to remove the ban if winston comes back with "i've realized my wife is actually awesome and wort…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:28 AM
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Later that night I was hit with “so that’s why you haven’t been doing what I want, going against my will”. "whatever you gotta tell yourself." so, given what's happened, do you give much less of a shit about a bitchy ass wife or what else has changed?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:26 AM
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Rule 9 - the whole post.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:24 AM
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Be glad that horns banned you before I did. I would've banned you for wasting people's time.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:22 AM
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So here's my question for you -- how much time and effort did it take you to make a post where you weren't focused on her? because this post is pretty good, but i can feel the effort that it took. do the same thing again next week, and it'll be a bit easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 04:20 AM
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Simple answer: my date wouldn’t be in town when I came back. I thought I had a better lead with her cute friend I met in real life than an app match when I came back. You still didn't answer the question. The question is "why would you do that?" not, give me your bullshit about shitty logistics. Did you ever look up limiting belief? Why wouldn't you want to fuck them both? The real answer is "i have no idea how to try to fuck her friend, and didn't want to upset her by trying to fuck her friend,…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/24 12:12 AM
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Rip me a new one! No. Goodbye.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 09:35 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 10:44 PM
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Amazing how you much less you talk about all the mean things your wife did when you've got different women sending you pics of their tits.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 10:41 PM
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So I pulled the let’s be friends card Okay - but why would you do that? Are you just pre-emptively rejecting yourself to protect your ego?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 10:35 PM
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Dead Bedroom So how often are you fucking your girlfriends?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:28 PM
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"this is your payment for me doing X" "Whatever you gotta tell yourself."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:28 PM
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Next day, send a kinda funny, kinda connection text. Say we should just be friends. Trade some jokes. She escalates sexual tension (leather chaps). Then I ask for her friend’s number and she goes ballistic. lmao. this was funny. complete fuckup. it shouldn't be surprising that she said "just friends" after you failed to try to fuck her when she was in your hotel room. horns says you're lying to yourself. i say you're too retarded to know better, but be happy because it's a win and progress for y…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:23 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:19 PM
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another example is about working from home. some days a week both of us work from home. in the past I escalated multiple times during her working hours, which she rejected dramatically doubting my sense to read the room and respect her time blablabla. I adjusted and stopped. my argument to stop was that I'm not 'that needy' to jump on her during times she clearly communicated aren't appropriate for her, but on the other side this has a bitter taste of reacting to her actions, which equals weak f…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 04:17 PM
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When she failed to uphold her end of the covert contract this would result in resentment, anger and other unattractive behaviours. Additionally, instead of wrapping up the call when I was bored or running out of things to talk about I would sometimes try to fill in the gaps with validation seeking behaviour. This included telling her about my day and the cool things I did, with the hope I would get a pat on the head and recognition for them. A lot of shit that'd get you a rule 9 ban if it weren'…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/24 03:50 PM
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Are you familiar with the concept of limiting beliefs w.r.t. the pickup world?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 06:38 PM
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it's one of the big reasons why rule 9 is so important. what happens in oys is that it teaches men to be active and proactive instead of reactive and reactionary -- so that they don't pretend like shit just magically happens to them. the type of thinking and mindset that comes with having control is more empowering, beneficial, and productive than the mindset that waits for something to happen to them, and then bitches.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 05:44 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 02:58 PM
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oh no - you poor baby you. that sucks so badly for you. why don't you send her in here so we can have a talking with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 02:57 PM
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Do you have thoughts on how to be more even keeled with this type of thing and OI through life’s ups and downs? Be mostly objective instead of reactionary.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 02:57 PM
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it's counterproductive to take in too much info from too many people. enjoy your therapy sessions.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 02:50 PM
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lol. your therapist is gonna love you. some bullshit ass completion goals. kudos to you for paying for her vacation in the caribbean.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 02:49 PM
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Therapy was a condition my wife drew in the sand in January or we were to separate immediately. I'm probably pointing out the obvious here, but you do realize this was simple manipulation right? I have more baggage I was denying than I knew. and what does fixed look like?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 10:48 PM
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Emotional control is a problem I’ve had all my life. Is simple. Ask yourself - "how much do I really care?" what if you only gave yourself the ability to care about 3 things a day and after you spent those 3, you were no longer able to care about anything. What would you spend those tickets on? What if it were 3 things a week? Month? "Do I really care that my cunt of a wife is having a fit?" I have a therapist so will see what they say. Ask your therapist -- "what does being done with therapy lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 09:51 PM
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Imagine what you could do if you were just cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 09:44 PM
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the 24 year old. have you fucked her? no. have you done anything? no. so why are you fawning over her over multiple weeks - pedestaling her and fetishizing her? also - you don't understand the 1000' rope.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 04:52 PM
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motivational kicks up the backside We are not your accountabilibuddy. pay someone cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 04:51 PM
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Rule 9. Jesus fuck. No wonder she's chasing another guy. You're suffocating as shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 04:49 PM
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Your post this week was interesting to read. Congrats. But I want you to play a game of spot the oneitis. Also, have you heard of the 1000ft rope?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 08:42 PM
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Game - other: Abroad at dinner with a successful friend. Long story short, he surprises with two what I suspect are call girls. I play along, but am tired from a redeye, no sleep, and IF. I walk out later and tell him thanks, no judging, just not up for it. So stupid. Sad he isn’t mrp You're so gay. Your friend has his shit figured out way more than you while you're here being a retard who pretends he isn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 03:28 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 03:26 PM
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Rule 9. And just for the record - I didn't read any of this because you decided to start off at the very top with shit that didn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 03:21 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 04:47 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 04:46 PM
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revenge fantasies Sounds pretty gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 04:04 PM
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I would apologise if i believe my behaviour was unacceptable contradicts It should’ve been “going to meet Steve for a bit”, kiss on the cheek and go. Apologizing for being a retard isn't the necessarily the same as apologizing for your actions. Part of being a leader worth following is building trust, and part of building trust is being able to recognize and acknowledge when you've done something dumb.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 04:02 PM
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I lost what I had written before and I'm tired as fuck. Clearly it wasn't that important then.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 04:00 PM
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I do it for the adulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 05:32 PM
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Get your accountability from your faggot God faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 06:53 PM
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I'll be direct then - since you don't aren't getting it. You don't get to try to try to contort concepts and terminology to hamster it into your little bullshit worldview. If you waste anyone's time on stupid bullshit, you'll be banned. And guess what - you've already wasted people's time with your stupid Christianity exception. Fortunately the incongruences have already been addressed by men that have walked this road before in the RPChristians sub; I’ve read and agree with the sidebar they put…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 06:49 PM
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my definition of alpha may be a bit different because I am a Christian You are fake and you are a gay. Maybe it's time for you to fuck off to /r/RPChristians
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 06:09 PM
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lmao. is this subreddit now just a feeder for the crabs in a bucket? i love it. pimping dumb ideas to dumb people. i've always thought, "ya know - i just don't spend enough time whining with other divorced faggots on the internet. i really out to do that."
/r/askMRP19/09/24 02:03 PM
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Found MRP in 2019, was lifting but didn’t realize how much I DEER’d or did the dancing monkey routine. [...] Majestic-Comb318 1 point 21 hours ago OYS #01 [...] she... she... she... she... lol. guys like you are fucking tools and deserve all the shit you get. you deserve to be cheated on. you deserve to be divorce raped. you made this happen all on your own. there's nothing to do about it at this point -- just watch the explosion.
/r/askMRP19/09/24 01:57 PM
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FR's are great. But the same rules apply -- focusing on your actions and outcomes will help you calibrated what you're able to do and how to think about the situation. how any particular woman reacts isn't instructive - but how women in general respond is. and what you're really doing is filtering for the women who respond the way that you expect them to respond -- i.e. women who don't match, fit, or enjoy your worldview don't matter, but part of being attractive is also having the social calibr…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 11:53 AM
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that was a bit of a joke. fresh and fit are incredibly stupid. rage bait is easy and lazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 11:52 AM
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Problem What in the fuck? Come on.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:22 AM
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have you heard of fit and fresh? i heard they're great for guys your age.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:22 AM
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You're at the age where you might want to think about ditching the 50 year old and trade in for a 30 year old. Just saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:21 AM
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This is a good example of how to write an OYS that includes your wife without making the wife the primary agent.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:20 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:18 AM
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3 paragraphs of bullshit that doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:17 AM
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Rule 9. The bannings will continue until you get your mindset right.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:12 AM
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This has been an ongoing theme, since I let the young kids play with butter knifes at the table, as they are not sharp. Have you tried berating her for being a useless, pathetic, scared piece of shit yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:09 AM
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However, my takeaway from WMP's post on frame (which he twice pointed me towards, but which I misunderstood like a fucking retard) is that I need to work harder on combining a 'solid worldview of what [I] stand for, and won't stand for' with also being fun and not getting drawn into bullshit. I need to express my opinions whilst not being dogmatic or argumentative about it. This is going to take some time to change. Like /u/mrpwtf said -- just because you know what you stand for, doesn't mean th…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:06 AM
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I'm going to suggest that you figure out how to write your FRs using I statements and with a focus on your wants and actions versus how you think your target feels or responds. /u/theactionnerd is a good guide.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 12:39 AM
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I'd suggest either taking the goal seriously or to stop lying to yourself about this goal which is very obviously just for show
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 01:21 PM
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I don’t agree with the slapping comment The part where you slap the shit out of her? Why not?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 03:38 AM
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Nah. You're missing the point. She either meets the standards you set or she can fuck off and lose out on all the value you ass. You do add value, don't you? If me initiating passionate kisses or sex makes her "feel" like I'm assaulting her, but she conveys these feelings to our peers in objective-sounding words, it definitely becomes my problem whether I want it to or not. Also - no it doesn't. How is this your problem? People might judge you and you'll feel ashamed? How the fuck do you go thro…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 07:11 PM
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Her feeling sexy, and her feelings in general, are not your fucking problem irrespective of how much she wants to make it your fucking problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 02:43 PM
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So what exactly is my 3rd option here? Go fuck someone who actually wants to fuck you? It's really not that complicated, but you Christian fucks want to make it stupidly hard. From the Christian perspective, you only have 2 options - both of which are dubious. Either you 1) accept and enslave your sex life to your wife's golden pussy, or 2) force her to do her role as a wife as laid out by the bible. Option 2 isn't endorsed by the modern church but it is very much part of the bible and the role …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 01:58 AM
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I masturbate to work out my biceps. Killing 2 birds with one stone.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 09:47 PM
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still doesnt answer why you need a hard confirm.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 07:45 PM
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If your 10 year old is just starting out with sports and athletics, he needs to be aware that he's going to suck. Your job is to make him recognize that he will suck, he'll get shit for it, and that he has to keep working at it. By this age, there are massive skill gaps - so make sure you're setting him up for success in the medium to long term.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 07:38 PM
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No. Why do you need confirmation?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 07:36 PM
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Ready to pull the plug…but would need a hard confirm. Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:55 PM
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dread at it's end state, dread presents itself in the body language and posture with which you carry yourself. if you knew you (from lived experience) that could go out and bang hotter, fitter, younger, more pleasant women - how much bullshit would you tolerate from your wife? what reason would you have for keeping her around? when you have that option, she'll need to be the one that answers that question (sometimes it's cost). a woman might say "well, can't your wife do the same? replace you wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:52 PM
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good luck - i'm cheering for you. seems like you're making progress if we use the competency model as a basis. Job search continues, it’s a bitch in the tech market and the bites I’ve gotten are offering less than what I’m making now. Will continue the search. the tech market is making a correction. they've imported a bunch of 3rd rate indians that are body count. make of that what you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:46 PM
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My wife returned last week after watching the grandkids for 1 ½ months, and I was asked whether I missed her. I said yes but honestly I really didn’t other than not having to cook dinner as soon as I got home. hahaha. i love this because it really highlights how emasculated you are. i'm on the road for 10 days at a time and i ask my wife that question every once - and the answer is "nope. but i like it when you're here." and every once in a while she'll let me know she misses me a bit. What i no…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:17 PM
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How long have you been at this again? Quite a while now right? I want to say I really enjoy your updates and always look forward to reading them. The dating log is a great compacted set of FRs that show what's possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:13 PM
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He is 10. The habits are what concern me the most. He isn’t fat but a bit chubby. Another 5kg and he’d be fat. How much does he weigh? Sounds like you're hamstering here. What I realized was I didn’t mind her going, I like her doing stuff with the fam and she rarely does, but I just don't think the trip is worth it I'm guessing you told her exactly this. It's not you saying she can or can't go - but that if she does go, she doesn't get to be a bitch and be stressed out when she comes home. I thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:10 PM
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Marriage Re-read this section and ask yourself who's leading this interaction and who's seeking permission like a little bitch. The whole section could be a rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:18 PM
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Relationship Instead of having sex, spend more time hate fucking her. Sounds like both you could use it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:12 PM
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Your entire post is focused on trying to fix your girlfriend. Dance monkey dance.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:09 PM
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WFH Recent research has shown the most challenging part of WFH is the loss of distinction between home life and work life. When working from an office, the drive represented a clear demarcation between the end of work and the start of home - so while annoying, it provided a distinct reset/shift to go from one mode to the other. With WFH, that distinction gets more blurred and the impact on the psyche is measurable. The suggestion, therefore, is to have a distinct "work" area and time that gets r…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:04 PM
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*Do me a favor and leave the surface level "just do it" motivational poster platitudes aside. You don't get to beg for advice, and then bitch and whine about the type of advice you get. Enjoy your ban. If you want to circlejerk your ego for validation - which you clearly do - hang out over at r/theredpill more than you already do
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:49 AM
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You are so pathetic. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/24 01:43 PM
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there's a balance - part of it is looking for validation, and part of it is trying to make sure they're doing what you want because they understand you're the arbiter at the end of the day. sometimes i'll give the wrong answer to my daughter because i want her to be able to think independently and critically. and she'll understand and catch it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/24 03:43 PM
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So let’s say 6/30 take the time to upvote. I should pay attention. You have absolutely no idea who upvoted what. To think that upvotes have any value should be an obviously idiotic premise. If 10 of the dumbest motherfuckers think something is a good idea, does that mean it's a good idea?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/24 02:18 PM
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Expectations are clear and consistent, and he seeks me out to confirm the tasks are done to standard daily. I'll point out a toy left out under his desk, or that the lunch needs a vegetable, and he'll remedy it. Just because he asks, doesn't mean you have to answer. Pressure flip. He should be able to figure out if it's up to standard or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/24 02:14 PM
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I haven't banned you. This is not a debate or pontification subreddit. There's a reason why a certain type of guy feels the need to jump in and opine at every turns. It's closely related to DEER. Something to think about for your post next week.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 04:33 PM
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You talk too fucking much for someone who has nothing to say. You might want to fuck off to somewhere else.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:45 PM
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I now believe that almost all of MRP is compatible with Christianity. This is true. The opposite, thinking Christianity is compatible with MRP, is not.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:49 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:47 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:46 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 03:45 AM
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Religion should be mocked because most of the religious are incredibly stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 11:01 PM
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"this isn't working for me. get the fuck out." Or if you want to be more dramatic, go fuck your neighbor
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 05:58 PM
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Learn game. Everything you wrote doesn't matter. And game will fix most of the things you're complaining about.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 11:09 AM
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ego
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 09:58 PM
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Best thing you can do is make sure you're able to fuck someone else before the form is even signed.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 12:18 AM
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Change my mind with more than a mockery and a MODERATOR tag, like make a point and reason it out. lmao. faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 08:28 PM
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I will say this. Is it worth ruining other people's lives because you're bored/unsatisfied?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 10:57 PM
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"How hard is it to pass a shit test when youre incongruent and actually do give a shit what she thinks?". If you think about this a bit, I think you'll realize it is impossible to be congruent if you don't have frame. It is a man's ego to think makes them think they're fighting all the different monsters and that they're special, unique, and different.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 03:05 PM
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There are a bunch of child psychology research out there that can be effective. It's age dependent on some level. Couple of notes that I can share with you (in the order that I think is most important to remember). Your child's problems are real and meaningful. A common theme among parents is they don't really care about the issues their children are facing because they're just kid issues. I find this to be incredibly dismissive, arrogant, and frankly unfair. Your child is a real person and that…
/r/askMRP22/08/24 03:34 PM
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failing shit tests shit tests are simply congruence tests - which you already know, but i'm putting it out there anyway. and as you're calling out, OP lacks congruence and seeks adulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 02:44 PM
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You can't make your wife like you. She has to decide she likes you. What you can do is force her to make a decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 08:39 PM
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So it's not about the sex. Is it that you want your wife to like you? Alternatively, sometimes you have to rub the dogs nose in the shit a little bit to teach it a lesson..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 06:29 PM
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you're still shadowbanned by reddit, fyi.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:25 PM
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I constantly felt compelled to talk to the woman about her mental health and shit she doesn’t do Talk is cheap motherfucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:24 PM
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If this ends up being a big misdirection for discipling, I'll be pretty damn impressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:23 PM
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She expected an apology for being woken up. "Bad dog! Bad!"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:20 PM
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Solidarity / validation . Increase interaction on the sub so it doesn’t die. lmao. solidarity. get fucked faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:14 PM
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Why'd you think this deserved it's own post?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 07:41 AM
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Horns is right. Rule 9 bans don't happen in the thread - just in the main post - and it's because a person is trying to interpret someone's else's feelings or reasons - something which is impossible and typically deflecting their own agency and ownership. My guess on the why is that she got so complacent that her ego was tied up in a being a frigid bitch and taking you for granted - that type of disrespect is insidious and enduring. The betafiction of the husband usually occurs because he acquie…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 01:51 AM
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If you fuck the other girl, you will have a lot less tolerance for your wifes bullshit. She'll pick up on that, and guess what, she'll stop being a frigid cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 01:44 AM
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too much ego to be interesting. just a useless waste of time. try again in 2 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/24 01:05 PM
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husbands like you are the reason i don't mind fucking married women.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/24 12:30 PM
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is this a motivational speech/pep rally, or what are we looking at here? because most people suck and will continue to suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/24 09:52 AM
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Oh good - you figured out why I called you a loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 08:53 AM
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banned for no value add. motherfucker wants to waste time arguing instead of thinking and reflecting.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 08:50 AM
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I don't think I can be happy if I am suppressing my core beliefs. Shit men with no frame say
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 08:50 PM
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dark secrets (I was caught with porn in the past) for some reason i find this hilarious. but i also find it hilarious how little respect your wife has for you and how scared you are of her, so idk. late 40s with a 6 month old. how old is your wife and are you sure the baby is yours?
/r/askMRP10/08/24 12:40 PM
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I still think it's ridiculous that a man has to be absolutely perfect and see every sign, otherwise he may just be cheated on. It's like you have to constantly work on yourself and on your life, and then also take on the responsibility for the family and the relationship. Then what's the use of the woman really, if she can't even help you grow in a productive way? so what are you going to do about it? and it's not unexpected that you take the lazy route and blame women.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 11:33 PM
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like you said - you only figure out your values and passion from putting them into practice. otherwise, it's all in the abstract. you ever talk to people who've only lived in the abstract? they're dumb and it's easy to tell.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 11:32 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/b3ryql/we_dont_do_that_you_dont_want_us_answering_that/ i see you jerking yourself off on the oys threads too, getting off on having a superiority complex over a bunch of fucking retards. it's not prescriptive.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 10:29 AM
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But shouldn’t “who I want to be” (including what are my values and passions) be part of my vision? Touch grass faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 10:24 AM
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This guy's a moron who's too lazy to introspect. Fuck him.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/24 02:48 PM
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some really traumatic stuff why are all you faggots the same? it's always some external fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/24 02:46 PM
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more allahu ahkbar, less mopey bullshit.
/r/askMRP07/08/24 02:25 PM
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From these two paragraphs I can tell that you're a loser and a failure. Why do I say that? Because the common thing in both of your responses on completely different subjects is that you've already given up before you've ever tried. That's a loser mentality. It's okay, you're not unique - there are a lot of fucking losers out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 09:16 PM
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The reason guys get screwed on custody is that they aren't willing to fight for it. The reason guys are screwed in general is because they don't fight for themselves. Regarding screentime, the reason most people do it isn't because they want to, but it's because they have nothing better to do. You should figure out if that's the case with your 15 year old. There's also a difference between being a braindead consumer vs. being actively engaged in something on the screen.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 02:49 PM
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Ltr brought it up the next day. I was shocked - told how disrespectful it was, how out of character. I didn’t nail this, but alpha had called out a similar earlier situation as a shit test so I recognized it. “Why does what I did make you feel disrespected?” “I said no.” “I know. I have the right to try, you have the right to say no.” “I did.” “I know.” “But then you kept going. This is the part where you’re supposed to apologize.” “That’s not what I remember.” “I said no. You then climbed on to…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 01:36 PM
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my answers doesn't matter to me. i'll be dead. that my daughter is confident, successful, and competent - that they believe in their ability to excel in the world - that my family had a positive life. i'm generally successful and able to accomplish things. if i intend to succeed at things, i succeed. i don't dwell too much on specific challenges because the specifics don't matter to me. i believe i can succeed at everything if i try. i also aim to be realistic about what can be achieved or not. …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 02:24 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 02:12 AM
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I will tell you to divorce your wife We don’t do that / You don't want us answering that. So - clearly we don't do that here. How would you like us to handle the fact that gave some absolutely shit advice?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 02:09 AM
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We have no good advice for you. Any advice you'd get from here isn't conjecture at best.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/24 02:11 PM
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picking up the car rental and the guy starts trying to upsell to a bigger (more expensive) vehicle. Said no thanks. He tried again. I said no thanks I’m good with what we’ve got. He tries again “your wife and children would be much more comfortable with the extra space…”. I said no thanks, I’m ok with what I’ve got. He gave up and said “OK OK”. Interesting tidbit. I wonder what your body language is saying or what you're subcommunicating. It's great that you're practicing assertiveness, but how …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 04:02 AM
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Rule 9 Question for the mods - what are the rules around 'she' and 'her' statements in field reports regarding rule 9? Here was the original post for it. It seems like every single post has at least 50% of the post dedicated to some shit or other about your wife. The number of "She...." statements is getting to the point where OYS isn't actually valuable for most of your posts. You are spending waaay too much time and effort focusing on something that is outside of your control. If you want to f…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 04:55 PM
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rule 9 - i give 0 fucks about her having a meltdown.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 04:51 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 04:51 PM
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Relationship: kids were at neighbors house playing so I suggested we sneak up stairs, my wife smiled and said no. I move on. Have fun evening with kids but also only put my time and attention towards them and things I need to do. Later I'm in the office studying and she keeps making reasons to come in, kisses me. I tell her I'm gonna need a study break later, wink, grin. I go up and initiate later, during foreplay she is telling me I'm more attractive than this same time 2yrs ago and that the ot…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 04:50 PM
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Self explanatory.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/24 04:13 AM
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On practicing game outside the relationship, I'm having trouble focusing on interactions when my kids are around. Congratulations. You're not a fucking retard. Non-commital chats at the park or waiting in line are fine, but I can't direct or even focus on a specific result. Although it seems like you sure are trying to be one.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 11:54 AM
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I was expecting something like “well done”, and “good for you pal!” lol. seeeeeeeee yuh.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 04:27 AM
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get a government job with steady raises. Is this the peak of your ambition? Yikes. Although this might depend on which country you're in.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 05:01 AM
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you're a butthurt moron acting reactively. take a moment to internalize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 04:13 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 04:11 AM
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I have $500 saved towards my $1000 emergency fund. I have $500 cash in my wallet for no good reason at the moment. How are you going to make more money? If you can't get up to $1000, it's not a matter of "managing money better" - it's you need to make more money. Once you can make more money, then the question becomes "how do i get my hourly rate up?". come the fuck on man.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 04:09 AM
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I STFU and started to plan to leave. She went in on 'you should just leave, it's what you always do' as I was already making moves toward that. that's what happens when you're just a one trick pony. your trick gets boring and predictable. you're not a man enforcing boundaries. you're just a little bitch running away. Not a single thing you wrote above says fortitude - it's all a man baby tantrum. it's fucking hilarious that guys get told to leave when their wives act like cunts. it's true that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 04:01 AM
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Well, that's a rule 10 ban. We don't get many of those - but enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 12:50 AM
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Making my family happy is something that I get great value out of.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 01:36 PM
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gay.
/r/askMRP13/07/24 09:07 PM
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Instead of gimmicks and routines, the pick up world moved towards inner game and congruence. The skills in the M3 model are still useful, but the mindsets behind it is flawed. It doesn't address the underlying deficiencies -- so you'll be set up for medium/long term failures.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/24 09:05 PM
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The guidance was given. Not really our fault that you don't understand it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/24 09:49 PM
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it's like she senses what I'm up to (even if I don't want to have sex, just a slap on the ass or a longer kiss) and rejects my actions immediately. the medium is the message but no sign of her inner slut for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/24 12:56 PM
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lol. he deleted out. at least he has something different to talk to his therapist about this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/24 12:55 PM
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Mystery method Is also outdated.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/24 12:53 PM
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As soon as I sense her feelings being unstable I find myself nervous. Rule 9 exists for a reason. Screwed up some kind of test yesterday. She was naked so I said “oh, hi” as she walked out the bathroom. She then carefully told me how being treated like a sex-object is not always what she wants. I STFU as anger built. Eventually as she kept demanding my response I gave in. Said I cannot help how I feel and it is not natural for me to pretend otherwise. I’m thinking MRP will define this as a shit …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/24 12:50 PM
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so you're just going to pay that dude indefinitely without anyway of making measurable progress? Just as the work I’m putting in here. are you? or are you just wasting everyone's time? some folks are more enamored by the illusion of progress than actually effecting change. fire your therapist. he's just leeching your money. rule 9 bans will take care of any whining you do. Divorce: Met with a lawyer and it is not looking good. We are a no-fault state and the difference in income means big alimon…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 06:19 AM
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I said measure - you came up with a bunch of bullshit. Let's try this again -- how does he measure success? i.e. when do you know to fire him? i'll put some stakes on the line - if you can't define a SMART goal for this therapist, we're going to start billing $200 per OYS post.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 04:58 AM
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Is it a fluke? Perhaps. But it has given me aim and if my girlfriend starts back up with her bs, she will kindly drop out of the relationship and I will add someone else in. It means she has to work for your attention. Which means your attention has some level of value.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 03:43 AM
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I don't want to lose my kid for 50% of the time. Many parents are with their kids 100% of the time physically but almost non-existent in practice. Will that be you if your wife beats you down enough?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 03:23 AM
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Mental Health: Seeing a therapist once a week to deal with my neediness and validation issues. Being careful of co-dependance issues with my wife. How does your therapist measures success?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 03:15 AM
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It took you less than a week to get it done when you actually took the lead. Instead, you pouted for 3 years and were unhaaaaappy. There's a lesson in there somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 09:27 PM
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We have a property tax deduction that could be applied due to her being a disabled veteran [...] this deduction would have saved us between $1-2k (haven't done the math) over that time. you're the one who cares. why aren't you making sure it's getting done? how is this your wife's problem? all i see if a nagging fucking cunt who plays the victim and sucks at leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 02:22 PM
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u/HornsOfApathy 's other q was when 'was the last time you I really fucked your wife, hard?'. TBH, the answer is probably about 3-4 months ago. I very rarely go caveman, because (i) she frequently says its painful when I thrust deep and asks me to 'be gentle' (even though I know I'm not well-endowed) and (ii) she's told me she 'gets scared' when my animalistic side comes out. (I recently tried one of the suggestions in SGM, cumming over my wife's face & tits; that didn't go down too well. My tak…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 02:17 PM
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Rule 9 - Also, also, we don't fuck with whiny self victimizing cunts here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 02:15 PM
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Reddit would say that an unattractive man basically forced his wife to fuck him (they'd call it rape), and they wouldn't be that far off.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 01:09 PM
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Should be a rule 9 ban tbh.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 01:07 PM
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https://whinemoreplease.substack.com/p/talking-why-you-shouldnt-do-it-and
/r/askMRP30/06/24 04:56 PM
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meh. what's important for each guy is up for himself to decide. as long as it's not graphic, i don't care. they want to write about porn and trying to figure out their fantasies? by all means. you're not obliged to read it. moralizing (and broader value judgments) is something we ban for. that said, the dude could benefit from touching some grass
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/24 03:08 PM
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if you're doing the 12 levels of dread, just know that the whole thing is a giant covert contract for most guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/24 06:56 AM
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1 oys post in 6 months. Get fucked. what'd you expect to happen when you do none of the work?
/r/askMRP27/06/24 04:15 AM
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from the rules section -- OYS Violation :: "She" Doesn't Matter Comments only Reported as: User wasted time writing about a woman who doesn't matter OYS is about taking ownership of the things YOU control, not about other parties like your wife, dog, boss, etc. The vast majority of the focus should be on your mindset, your thoughts, and your actions. The primary agent for your post is a third party -- and as a result you've wasted your own time. and the post original post -- https://whinemoreple…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:37 PM
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I got banned for rule 9, so I will keep this brief: I thought my wife has been having an emotional affair for the last six months. Turns out after contacting the wife of the guy she was talking to, she has been having a complete affair our whole relationship. For 13 years she has been sleeping with this guy. MRP tenets are true: 8 years ago I got the ILYBINILWY and I ignored it and fought to get her back. Then maybe 6 month to a year after that she told me I could go outside our marriage to get …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:32 PM
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I'm removing this post. It's not that the suggested readings are bad - it's that they're not helpful for someone at the start. For a married guy, they just need to do the work first.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:22 PM
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Things seem to have blown up. We had sex again, and are all over each other. You fucking idiots are finally figuring out that women like when they're wanted, but not needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 04:39 PM
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The bottom third of your post reeks of rule 9. I still have the “this won’t last [with her]” scarcity mindset, but need to get out of my own head. ftfy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 04:37 PM
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Best physical shape of your life (lmao), and still reeking of insecurity like the little bitch you are. There's a simple fix here that you can't find.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 02:06 AM
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it should never be a surprise to your woman that you fucked other woman. i personally believe that integrity is important - she should never feel lied to. that doesn't mean i tell her everything, but if i ask "are you surprised?" i'd expect the answer to be "not really".
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/24 04:33 PM
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I'm taking a shot in the dark, but it sounds like you don't have much for hobbies or passions outside of pickup.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 11:33 PM
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I'm surprised how few women you meet in real life.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 06:35 PM
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I know I'm gonna get roasted big time on this post 😄. Keep it coming, it will help me. Fuck off. We don't do penitence.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 06:28 PM
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Bingo. Changing the dynamic isn't hard. Knowing what your expectations are (the real ones, not the ones you made up and read from somewhere) and your ability to execute on them when others have different expectations is what's hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 01:50 PM
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But changing my relationship dynamic is harder. Is it? Why is that?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 10:05 PM
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Women aren't retarded. They can see through your bullshit. And they react accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 05:51 PM
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Her being hurt or not is not something you can control. What will she be hurt more by - that you fucked another woman or that you lied to her about it? Would she be happy that you stifle yourself to create a fake persona? Gotta ask the right questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 05:50 PM
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Is this a good idea? Am I ready? I don't want to cheat I think it's hilarious that so many of you fucking loser have this line of thought. Most of you are incapable of going out and picking up in a new city - but you cunts think you're some kind of Hefner prodigy. You guys are stupid as fuck and seriously lack self awareness. Half of you fuckers couldn't go out and talk to a random hot chick. The other half would bail immediately. Don't worry - you won't be fucking a gal on your roadtrip. Your w…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 04:08 PM
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'I feel like your prostitute, not nice.' I don't want this type of interaction again. I should have just said no and shut it down. A bit of contrast for you - "You're such a whore." "I'm not a whore. I'm your whore." Different dynamics. Something for you to think about. I guarantee you she felt the guilt that you were feeling for using her body and not being a good performative lover boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 04:06 PM
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You should find a 20 year old who can match your sex drive Can you? I'd bet that you can't.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:55 PM
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Now you're starting to make some progress and actual change.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:49 PM
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had an interesting question come to mind and that is how did we all get here? Like where did it start with so many of us becoming AFCs? First thing that comes to mind is all our social conditioning but even then What actions led me here? Social conditioning is incredibly powerful and subtle. it's no longer about what you want, but what's okay to do/accept. society's frame so to speak.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:42 PM
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I started out where you are. What I realized over the past 15 years or so is this -- women are sexy. Fantastically so. Sometimes things click. What I'm not looking for is to have or start a new family. Can you separate the 2?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:38 PM
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1 question and 1 observations. do you like your wife? it seems like you do. with your wife, are you leading? what do you want your relationship to look like? it seems like you feel shame about treating your wife like a woman. it seems like you allow her to shame you for it. be unapologetic. “We can’t have sex here” "Sure we can."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:33 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/24 03:39 PM
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A majority of you suck at writing about your relationship with you as the primary agent. Fix your approach to your relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:08 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:08 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:07 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:07 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:06 AM
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Rule 9 Ban. Quit wasting mod time with dumb shit. Or at least write it from with you as an actor. Next Rule 9 will be longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:04 AM
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this is way too retarded to keep up.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 05:22 AM
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Seeeeee yah
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 06:18 AM
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I could use some pointers here. You sure this is a can of worms you want to open? You seem like a validation whore with little self restraint. If you go down this road, you'll most likely blow up your marriage. Edit - reading a bit further, sure, why not. Be intentional and unapologetic for wanting to fuck women when you interact with them. Start with that attitude and interact with them with the intent of fucking them - any of them, and all of them. Edit 2 - when you get divorced, recognized th…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/24 05:12 PM
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i dont have to push harder. you probably do. maybe.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/24 07:39 AM
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I think she thinks the cost is making the wrong decision. lol. it's cute you think this. that's your ego showing. this isn't the first time she's ignored your advice. it won't be the last time. so what do you think this implies? when people say "i wish i..." all that is is hindsight bias. it's no indication that they'd actually change their behavior. here's my anecdote on a similar matter. my wife was working on her resume. she asked for help on it - so i made a bunch of changes that told a much…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/24 10:00 AM
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That's what you think the cost is. What do you think she thinks the cost is?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/24 11:23 PM
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I mentioned it was selfish that she never even tried and would affect our son negatively. Boy will you be upset when she starts just having affairs on the down low.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/24 03:07 AM
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Your mindset section seems to be filled with a lot faux imaginings for what might be going on your wife’s head. It's great when the regular posters point out Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/24 03:05 AM
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My wife complained to me about something with her body. I checked her out (I'm a doctor) and recommended xyz. She listed off some excuses why she couldn't do xyz. I shrugged and repeated, "You really should do xyz," and moved on. Truly forgot about the discussion. She did not do xyz. Essentially, the worst case scenario occurred a few days later due to not doing xyz and she had to go to the emergency room, was near bed-ridden for a few days and will have a long recovery. She has gone from saying…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/24 03:03 AM
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No sarcasm. Go fuck another woman. You'll feel much better.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/24 09:15 PM
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Just re-read your post and see how much of it is dependent on 'her' response. You can ctrl-f 'her' and see how your post lights up. We want you getting to a point where your thoughts and ideas are the ones that primarily (only) matter. I f****** hate the idea of a vasectomy. But I obviously can't leave both control up to her. Be a guy who can solve simple problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/24 12:28 AM
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Rule 9 - let me know if you want another ban. Everything you do is in the context of another person's thoughts or actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 09:35 PM
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Why do you sense sarcasm
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 09:34 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 01:44 PM
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This is a stupid dancing monkey question and you should feel bad for asking it. We're not entertaining no-fap idiocy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 01:42 PM
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You should just go an have affairs. You'll feel better for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 12:19 AM
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Would love insights from the MRP experts. Mine is little bit of an unusual story. Oh man. Sorry to hear that your story is so unusual. Unfortunately, the experts here are MRP are unable to help with unusual cases - so I've removed your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/24 03:11 PM
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I try to ignore the feelings and just do what I want, despite social conditioning to the contrary. It's not about trying to ignore society, it's about putting in the work to internalize that your personal view of world is indominable.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/24 03:03 PM
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Stopping someone who might be in a hurry during the day is a lot harder than opening two chicks who are clearly out to socialise. If you had $100 to give that chick who's in a hurry for no reason other than just to give it, do you think she'd ever not stop? Fact is, you don't believe your existence and presence is value and that you are leeching by taking away their precious time. The difficult choice is whether I stay or go. Why do you have to choose? Why can't you have both? At the same time, …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/24 03:23 AM
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OYS #2 My wife received a new job offer where she'll make more money than me. How emasculating. Time to commit seppuku. There will be no OYS #3.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/24 07:27 AM
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Still, I struggled to move it beyond indirect chit chat. Intent. You lack it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 11:53 AM
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Wife showed up one night when I was taking care of my daughter. Wanted to make sure that I knew that we were couple living apart and not seeing other people. Because if I wasn’t respecting that, her colleagues and friends had all sorts of dates lined up for her, but she was not doing it. lmao. your wife rocks. she knows you can't fuck and is rubbing your face in it. "i didn't know you were a town bicycle kind of gal, but by all means, go for it. enjoyt the traiin ride" how different your life wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 01:40 PM
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welcome to 2005. you just did svengali's noobie challenge. now you have to learn to adjust your mental models on approaching and what you're offering.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 01:34 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/24 03:32 AM
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are we coming back or did we never leave? i hope life with the europeans is going well for ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/24 03:35 PM
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Still, I think planning to go out specifically to talk to women won’t hurt. It'll be transparent and won't be as congruent - not a reason to not do it, but it is something to be aware of. You're more likely to chicken out. Make liberal use of the 3 second rule.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 03:24 PM
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They are also not getting any validation from me. What makes you think they want any validation from you or would value your validation? I continued reading “Heariste on game”. I approached 0 women this week. What is clear to me is that I cannot just expect to bump into attractive women in my everyday life. Doubt on this one. If you go about your day, you're going to run into a ton of attractive women. What'll happen is your hamster will bullshit itself into reasons why you shouldn't go talk to …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 03:00 AM
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• Assurance of Salvation 8/10 What is this horseshit? Post this crap in the right subreddit. Post removed. Here we sin.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 02:54 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 02:18 AM
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My external validation comment was more so because folks here love to shit on success stories. What people choose to focus on tells you a lot about their mindset and their worldview. If you get to the point where chatting up a girl is so common that it's a non-factor, you'll wonder why this was even worth writing up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 02:17 AM
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I typed this ^ up and after re reading my OYS I think I’m sharing just for external validation, pat on the back from MRP, etc. My last OYS post mentioned I am struggling with this. So instead of deleting the above, I’m just going to leave it because…. Good job recognizing this. There's your validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 02:15 AM
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My ideal outcome in this is to stay together, effectively act married, but not carrying any legal obligation to support my wife financially if either of us want out. Don't care if that sounds ridiculous This is the same thing people with serious mental health issues tell themselves. Schizophrenia is a serious brain disorder that causes people to interpret reality abnormally. Schizophrenia usually involves delusions (false beliefs), hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that don’t exist), unus…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 02:06 AM
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Sounds like bullshit to me. I have a healthy dose of ADHD and my impulse control is next to nothing. Everyone in your life has said that ADHD is the cause. Let me rephrase this for you. I have no impulse control because I'm a little bitch. Anyway - you suck. This is boring. And you're a waste of time. You're 2 weeks in talking about bullshit semantics. But hey, at least you have your reasons. Understanding STFU and having some impulse control to not say stupid shit would've prevented you from ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/24 05:30 AM
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Yeah - I can help. Enjoy the 14 day ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 11:39 PM
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You can make excuses and come up with reasons all you want, the end result is the same. You have no discipline. As a result, you're going to fail. Sucks to suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 11:36 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 07:05 AM
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I'm so fucking fat and can not seem to get it under control All I see is "I have no discipline."
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 07:00 AM
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as you're trying out these things, write up an FR on what you're finding effective or not from the text game side.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:57 AM
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I laughed and said we are in the same bed and it's your phone you go get it! She laughed it off. Past me would have scrambled to get it. So far the help around the house has continued without prompting from me. I also received an initiation although everything is still pretty vanilla. This is my fault as I've gotten complacent and need to push boundaries more. I'm optimistic I'll gain some insight and knowledge from SGM on how to not be so retarded in this area. Sex 3x, one rejection in the morn…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:45 AM
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my wife pulls in a heavy 700k-1M a year; I'm at 300k. why does this matter? but I feel like a betch at home and at work. as others have pointed out, this sounds like a personal/ego problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:40 AM
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Removed and temp banned. Write your fanfic to penthouse next time. We get how fucking works. No longer removed or temp banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 01:31 AM
2

I lost a great a girl. Implying you ever had her.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 01:27 AM
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Also, her not fucking should have no bearing on whether or not you can fuck. Women and men seem to forget this. There are more holes out there. Right of first refusal is a courtesy extended to those who deserve it. had sex for the first time in months What?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 12:35 AM
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Good. Some of y'all forget that life is supposed to be fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 12:34 AM
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Good. Now might be a good time to stop being a retard and trying to change the narrative with an existing woman. Other than you doing retarded shit, what has truly changed? Are you sexier? Do you have more options? Have you learned how to flirt? Do you exude sex appeal? Or do you send dick pics that are effectively sexual harassment? I'll note that you're still 288 pounds of fat unattractive fuck. The shit you're doing is how you blow up your marriage and get divorce raped - crying out for atten…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 12:30 AM
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who's the retard you follow that that told you if you aren't on the 24/7 sigma grindset, you're a fucking loser?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/24 02:06 PM
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I'm reading MMSLP rn and while I'm still a MRP novice, there are a few things that stuck out: Don't get it wrong, everyone's just a retard on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/24 03:20 AM
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Relationship / Sex: Much better leadership than most of the Christfags that come through here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/24 03:15 AM
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A small disagreement over making waffles spiraled into an unexpectedly tense confrontation Bitch ass passive voice is indicative. Let me re-write this for you. I let a small disagreement dominate my weak, sissy frame. I have no mental fortitude, control, or self respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/24 03:11 AM
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STFU doesn't mean to let everything happen and stand there autistically like a stone. https://whinemoreplease.substack.com/p/dont-just-be-a-better-punching-bag
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/24 03:06 AM
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I should just ban you to save everyone the time. We don't fuck with losers. We're also not your penitence.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/24 03:32 AM
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That is a question only you can answer. I know what it would look like for me is different for me than it is for you. I have very little patience for things that don't offer value in my life. You may be completely different (in fact, I know you are). So you have to decide what that looks like for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/24 08:15 PM
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First, the lack of sex and hard no’s continued, and I found my frustration turning to anger (internally). I knew that was not a good sign. I really tried to examine why I was angry. I have to own my shit - this was my ego stepping in after the rejections and saying “I’m improving myself, I’m looking and feeling better, why do I have to put up with this low energy, low effort wife that doesn’t put out”. But I know from my time here, this is a bullshit victim narrative. I created this relationship…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/24 01:29 PM
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You'll be better off if you stop bullshitting yourself. Everyone knows what the answer is. MRP knows. The people reading know. Your wife knows. You know, but you're the only cunt who doesn't want to admit it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 02:10 AM
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Anyway, I wasn’t going to let that slide so I pulled my attention and affection hard this time. Offered zero support with chores and zero comfort. Left to go lift shortly after coming back from work on several days. Is this your frame or are you being a reactive baby because MRP told you you needed to withdraw attention for bad behavior?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 07:37 PM
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"You're a cunt. Stop being a cunt and I'll include you." If you said that, would you have the frame to deal with the fallout?
/r/askMRP09/03/24 03:43 AM
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Let me ask you a simple question - who's more valuable? 23 year old fit good looking girl with a positive attitude and playful demeanor. 45 year old single strong, independent woman, with a karen haircut You could answer - well, it depends on what an individual's preference are. And technically you'd be right. But in general, over the whole of the population, does 1 or 2 have more value? the answer should be obvious. in the same manner, the confident man, who's competent and capable, charming an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/24 03:35 AM
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You reply because your of your desperate need for people to validate you. If you had a strong self image, you'd realize random shit people say isn't always true. Do you feel a strong need to correct everyone on everything they get wrong? Do you feel better about yourself when you can prove someone else wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/24 03:23 AM
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Deep down I think it is because I enjoy the elevated status of being the leader/creator of a group. How many leaders do you know that crave validation?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 12:45 AM
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You want to get into a mindset where your sole focus is on the things that you can control and change. Playing what-if with your delusions is not a good use of time. Even if everything you've written about her is correct - the question remains, so what? You either tolerate or you don't tolerate it - anything else is pure wank.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 08:27 PM
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Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Lots of you guys forget #2. You have a 1 month old baby. Is begging for sex attractive? There's ways to go about having sex but pawing isn't it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 08:26 PM
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You might want to improve your formatting so it's easier to read.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:34 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:34 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:33 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:33 AM
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But you're right, I am currently a bit chubby. You'll be better off if you lean in hard to the truth. People who tell themselves they're "a bit chubby" are usually fat fucks - lying to yourself to spare your own feelings is doing yourself a disservice.. When a woman tells you she's curvy, what do you picture?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 01:33 PM
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Where I'm going is there really isn't a reason to be pissed. It's the natural consequence of the situation - so what reason is there to be upset? Being pissed implies that you deserve the same treatment as the other guys who didn't have to work hard - except that you aren't those guys, so why should you expect the same treatment?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/24 09:31 PM
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i'd say the intent of this sub is to enable guys to help themselves - and i believe mrp is better than any other resource that's available. most subreddits empower people to not help themselves, to allow people to view themselves as victims of unfortunate circumstance. i say that this sub isn't here to help men because we've had many posts that have explicitly said - we are not here to tell you what to do/you don't want us telling you what to do. to help a man implies that we know what course he…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 09:18 PM
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I re-read your post. Where I think we disagree is on whether it is our job to help a guy or if it is the guy's job to help themself. If you take the position that we should be helping people, then the shitflinging is detrimental. If you take the position that people should be able to help themselves, then the shitflinging doesn't really matter. What J10 did is to try to help the masses - and wrote at lengths with all the caveats it contained. He wrote for the individual but in a way that was gen…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 02:21 PM
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I'd say your answer is wrong simply because the right answer is more about congruence than being performative.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 02:01 PM
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You need to go to the /r/theredpill subreddit and say you're willing to view the contents.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 03:54 AM
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My wife and I became married. Knowing all you know, why did you choose to get married?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 03:52 AM
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Sounds like you're on the path of trying to figure your shit out - good luck. Feel free to add in any areas you'd want specific feedback on. Right now, when I read your OYS, I can't figure out what you might need or are looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 03:49 AM
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Ok, clear. I agree #1 is probably a better choice. are you sure about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 04:40 PM
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People talk about how this is a “locker room” but it looks a lot more like crabs in a bucket when the message is just “you’re a sack of shit and that’s all you’re ever going to be”. you really believe most of the people streaming in here will become more than a sack of shit? you think that holds true for most people you meet in life? throughout history, >99.999% of people have been completely forgettable, what makes you think anyone here is different? why should a random nobody be entitled to yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 04:35 PM
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No one explained themselves. Vets just started getting in a circle and kicking him while high diving each other. I have gone through the post a few times and have read others making an attempt at breaking it down but still. Vit did not provide value but no one else did either. The vets taught. Not really our fault you're incapable of learning. That's the difference here. None of you pay anywhere near enough to get personalized attention. It is your job to think and your job to learn. If you were…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 04:03 PM
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I get pissed off when I think about how easily she slept with other guys and how hard I've had to work for it. This says much more about you than it does about her. Not sure why you're pissed off at her when it's you who sucks. I caught myself keeping score mentally and told myself to STFU both in literal terms and mental terms. Sex 6x in last 2 weeks. I hope the irony of these two sentences isn't lost on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 07:05 AM
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You use too many words. Figure out how to speak more with your body language and actions. I'd bet money your body language was betraying you. Me: “I want to fuck you”. Your mouth says this. Your body language should be saying "I'm going to fuck you." Still - it's pretty decent improvement from just a few weeks ago isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 10:11 PM
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What do you enjoy doing? What are you passionate about? Could be meditation for all I know. Or more broadly, who are you as a person? And why should anyone care?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 04:17 AM
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Do you think there's some wrong with being nice? Being comfortable in your own skin is more than just dating more women. It's about congruence in all aspects of your life and with all people. I haven't seen you talk much about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 10:11 PM
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It's all congruence testing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 06:59 PM
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You've got some weird complexes goin on. But then I feel shitty about it later because it drains my sex drive and makes me content with not initiating for real. "When I dont initiate, I feel guilty." Why is that? The other day, I initiated, and it was on, but she ended up coming too quickly-- and I find then that kills it for me for some reason. I need to work on orgasm denial for her-- I want to be in charge of when she's allowed to come. This seems strange want to me. It reads like an autistic…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 06:14 PM
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seems like progress compared to your last oys. what's does the end goal look like? what are you driving towards? i'm guessing hotter, bigger, better just from how you're going about writing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 05:53 PM
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you think everyone here is too retarded to see through your fake self-deprecation compliment sandwich bullshit? no respect at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 05:14 AM
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Mission: * Be bold and take chances. Be true to myself. Create. Be curious and explore. Strive to be happy. Each week you write this, and each week it seems like you do fuck all that fits your mission. Maybe you need to change your mission to "Be more acquiescent of other people's needs." instead of your boilerplate bullshit. You reek of meekness. Is life even worth living when you're so mundane?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 05:10 AM
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I remember years ago. It had such a comraderie vibe. Felt like genuine collaboration. Guys helping guys. There has always been ripping and shitting going on, but it felt more…. Wholesome? I don’t know if that’s the right word. lmfao. no it fucking didn't you stupid bitch. never in the 10 years of mrp has it been a kumbaya circlejerk. it has always been a place where people who are better, smarter, and more accomplished than you laugh and insult your dumb ass while you fail. that's what made it s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 04:54 AM
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This isn't about you bitch. It's for everyone else on this board. You can't figure out how the comment is helpful, because you're a little bitch, but I guarantee everyone else can. Men with no frame and the stupid shit they do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 05:55 PM
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I met one 23 y/o chick at the party Given this, how has your opinion on your wife changed?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 03:30 PM
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You deserve longer rule 9 bans because you're so fucking retarded and incapable of actually writing an OYS in the right way. It actually blows my mind how fucking stupid you are and how happy you are to jerk yourself around and waste your own time.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 03:26 PM
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Have you read it? Do the work first before you start yapping.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 07:42 PM
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I will just get another rule 9 ban if I dwell to much on this Rule 9 bans exist because you fucking cunts do such a shit job of thinking about what you want but are somehow fantastic at daydreaming, fetishizing, and fantasizing about the wants of some cunt who's mind you pretend to know how to mindread. It's asinine and a ridiculous of waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 04:41 AM
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If I ever let some dumb bitch be the arbiter of my self image, kill me. You might be in shape, but boy are you a huge bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 04:39 AM
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typically, being attractive is more about the physical, not being unattractive is about the emotional - e.g. don't be a little butthurt bitch - "read the room" so to speak. "suck my dick" in one context might work, but at a funeral, it's pretty retarded, context dependent.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 12:51 PM
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my N count isnt low in a post about lying, i find it hilarious that you choose to lie so blatantly.
/r/askMRP08/02/24 04:37 AM
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Mark Manson's rules apply here. If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no. Get more fuck yeses into your life or fake it at least.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 03:38 AM
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I decided you were a waste of time. So I figured I'd just ignore your bullshit going forward. Men with no frame and the stupid shit they say and do and all that. No point shouting at a wall when a guy who has no money can't even admit he's poor.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 02:56 AM
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No art guilds in your city? Invite someone over to be a model? Draw in the city?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 02:27 AM
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Rules 1 and 2 are ... Be attractive Don't be unattractive Doing 1 is pretty easy. Work out, eat well. Doing 2 is usually harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 01:37 AM
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Because your bitch ass has no idea how to operate outside the context of your wife - that's expected. What makes you a little bitch is your refusal to try to figure it out. Like I said above - pathetic and indicative.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 01:33 AM
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I mean, keep being a little bitch if that's what you want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 09:03 PM
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The extent of looking into divorce for me was "how long is this going to cost and how long rough estimate?" i pm'ed a guy i trust on reddit, got an answer, and that was enough for me. i had no intention of divorce but was curious about a baseline and what to expect. if that's all you're looking for, own it. if you're actually trying to divorce, own that. i wasn't - i was just curious about risks.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:58 PM
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Do you know what rules 1 and 2 are? How do you think you did w.r.t. those rules? The reason for rule 9 is simple. You cannot force other people to do what you want. You can only state what you want and adjust yourself appropriately. I told my wife to blow me. Doesn't work if she doesn't want to. What if you'd said I want you to blow me. Now, she gets a choice on saying yes or not - vs the option you presented which was "fuck off, you're not telling me what to do." If she says no in the latter ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:47 PM
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I can't tell, but what are you passionate about? It feels like church and charity, do those things. You know have the freedom to spend your time however you want. Lean into that.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:44 PM
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I'm not unattractive now which explains the increase in shit tests. Wow. You've become not unattractive in just 4 OYS posts. That's incredible. Must be some sort of record. /u/RStonePt 's books must be miracle workers.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:40 PM
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great cheerleading and compliment sandwich to spare the guys feeling man!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:35 PM
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I did SL 5x5 for 8 weeks before I just got sick of it. It's not that SL wasn't working, I was just executing badly. I would miss days because I didn't want to go to the gym just to do the same 3 exercises This is frankly a pathetic lack of discipline and is indicative. "waah i'm not happy, waaaah." I feel much better about this Until you don't. Operating based on feels is definitely a winning strategy. Plus your entire post is about your wife. Way to go champ. 11 weeks in, you're doing great, re…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/24 05:30 PM
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I'm going to be perfectly blunt. This is not the space for you. With both pickup and red pill, there's an assumption that you're fairly normal. You're not. You recognize you're not. You won't process this information or apply it in the correct way. Get professional help and counseling instead of advice from random strangers working with incomplete information. Stone has a warning - "don't eat paint". Your condition makes you prone to eating paint.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/24 05:51 AM
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Just for benchmarking, I deadlift around 550, squat around 500, and bench roughly 350. Can run a mile in 5:30. She is 15 years older. My wife make 2.5 million a year. You gotta make your bait more believable man. Aim for ~800 lbs combined, 8 minute miles, and maybe 6-8 years older and 100k more. 1400 pounds with a 5:30 mile just isn't a thing. They're 2 completely different focuses that work against one another.
/r/askMRP04/02/24 12:01 AM
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Okay. Just keep doing your shitty workouts then.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 08:23 PM
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Get pregnant, wait a year, and divorce rape her cheating ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 08:22 PM
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Smith machines are bad. I wouldn't use them. They don't build any of the vital stabilization muscles. I'd rather do dumbbell squats.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 12:48 AM
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How comfortable do you feel objectifying women?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/24 03:03 AM
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You make $150k a year but bitch about how you have no money and things are tight -- and you want to tell me that you aren't broke. Okay bro - you're awesome and I'm sure your dick is 12" long too. Whatever you need to tell yourself to keep jerking yourself off dumbass. I would actually have a bit more sympathy for your wife if you didn't make money because now you've told me that not only are you broke, you're also stoopid to boot.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 03:33 PM
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think about it this way - if i can i tell that you ooze boring just from how you write - how do you think the women who are actually having to live through this shit feel
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 03:32 PM
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I told her that I'm not okay with her unilaterally choosing to sacrifice one of my only full days with family. I'm sure she's chuffed by that. She responded with a handful of things she used to do for fun, but stopped doing because I don't do. It was all of her hobbies. Reading between the lines, she's bored and wishes I did more fun things. She didn't need to say it, it was apparent. Dance monkey dance. You can lead a man to MRP, but you can't stop them from being retarded. I've got nothing aga…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 07:57 AM
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I can tell from your dates that you're a huge pussy and you're boring as fuck. You're wasting hours of your life. Don't you have better things to do with your time? Escalate hard - use Di Carlo's escalation ladder. Be sexual. Had signs that she was open to a kiss but I abstained to hold the tension. You are a fucking idiot. The early you're making out and kissing, the smoother your date goes. Not the other way around. How the fuck do you think you're holding tension after a long gap? You're not.…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 07:46 AM
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The advice is there. Not my fault that your bitch ass needs to be spoon fed. Beyond being helpless, are you a fucking retard as well?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 02:15 PM
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Fuck off cunt. She this, she that, she blah blah blah. You're a little bitch. What a fucking waste of time and life you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 05:08 AM
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One thing that was suggested by an attorney I consulted is therapy. Fire your attorney and get your money back.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 01:05 AM
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It's not a need cunt. It's a choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 03:41 PM
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I also don't inject any sexual jokes in How's your subcommunication? Do you have it in your head that you are looking to fuck them? Or are you acting like a clown looking for approval? I have a few topics up my sleeve to initiate kino aside from that, such as ring inspection, or hi5s but otherwise it's usually an arm touch on laugh/tease. This seems like the thing a timid, weak, man does -- someone who's looking for reasons to touch a girl. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/24 03:33 AM
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But 3KL, how will I know that I'm fixing her if I'm not constantly looking back and collecting data points?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 03:53 PM
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You're fucking retarded and you should feel bad about yourself. 90% of our communication is nonverbal. You could've stopped for a moment to think about the implication of this statement. You didn't. Instead, you wrote Watch a lecture on it with the sound off. See if you get 90% of it. Like an dumb autistic fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/24 09:34 AM
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It always seemed silly to me to be angry at predictable outcomes. "I kicked the hydrant and now my foot hurts. That fucking hydrant!!!" Like what? What'd you expect would happen? Do the work. Figure out how to get some discipline in your life and rely less on motivation.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 07:13 PM
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You should look up subcommunication. It's the idea that 90% of our communication is nonverbal. It has nothing to do with what a woman does. The fact that you jump to her frame of mind is sad. You're missing the point - you keep making this about her when it should have exactly 0 to do with her. For the data, I'd use a raw tally and really big numbers so she'll feel extra guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 05:50 PM
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https://whinemoreplease.substack.com/p/men-with-no-frame-and-the-things
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 05:45 PM
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If you can internalize that you are solely responsible for everything, and direct your anger appropriately, you might make progress. In your puke, you blame everything and everyone but yourself. How you write your OYS reflects how you think about the world. The use of passive voice, direct object sentence structure, etc. all reflects your unconscious thought processes. Your post basically said "waah waaah waaaaah I am a victim." Shit mindset. Something to pay attention to.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 05:43 PM
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https://whinemoreplease.substack.com/p/the-trope-of-the-beta-male-married But in this case, consider that you're a guy that deserved to be shit talked about. You can bitch and whine about disrespect, but did you deserve any in the first place?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:34 AM
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Hahaha. I bet your wife thinks you guys are equals. You should tell her to feel free to find someone to fuck. "Just make sure he keeps you around because you won't be coming back."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:26 AM
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What do you know about sub communication? Also, make sure you track your initiations vs successful sex in a spreadsheet so you can document the trends and throw it in her face when you get pissy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:15 AM
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You're a bitch. It blows my mind that you aren't angry at yourself for being an unattractive fucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:12 AM
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You should read my article on men with no frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:10 AM
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All of you dumb fuckers are so focused on how your wife responds. If I pull levers A, and do action B, then the result should be SEX. You guys are so retarded and wasting so much time because you simply refuse to be your own mental point of origin.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:36 AM
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So many retarded she statements. You have no idea what frame is. You're trying to voodoo magic your wife into changing. Good luck with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:30 AM
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Now re-read it and notice how fuck all it has to do with anything related to a relationship. It's a narration of "dear diary... today I...." I'll pull out a few key elements. I do not enjoy going to her sisters yet i do it and stew because wisnifg - so here's my half assed attempt at compromising when i'd rather jerk off alone at home. additionally, as a bargaining chip, i offered to do all the work, which i didn't actually want to do but felt i need to because otherwise wife wouldn't have been …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/24 04:10 PM
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But because you're curious - go get yourself a couple of pills of viagra. Take half and have at it. It is absolutely cheating.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 08:41 PM
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You relationship section is a joke. You should consider re-writing it with "I" statements instead of "She" statements. Make sure you write in it in the active voice as well. The way you've written is makes it clear that you view yourself as a little bitch of your circumstances.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 08:29 PM
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shaming is disrespectful Disrespect is a deep topic that hasn't been talked at length. Ultimately, at some point, shit tests are subtle, ambiguous, and have plausible deniability. they'll most likely even be subconscious. you blow those up, you will be the asshole. you don't blow them up, and it'll be allowed to fester. she will have been empowered to take more pot shots. subtle, ambiguous, and denaible.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 08:21 PM
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I’d be lying if I said I didn’t give a fuck about her at all. Because you seek validation, you want her to tell you you're a good fuck. You'd be crying if you found out she told her friends "yeah, he tries really hard, but he's no good at all." Your fucking is performative. All things ego. You're going to read this and take this as derogative. it isn't. It's simply fact. You're at a stage of your journey where you're looking for approval for all of your actions and changes. To that end, just get…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 08:11 PM
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Yesterday morning I had my first real “caveman” experience not out of spite or response to starfish sex but just because I wanted to screw, and my wife was there for me to rail. Her reaction was stupendous, but honestly, it was for my own release. Probably the first honest sexual interaction you've had with her in who knows how long.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 09:40 AM
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An issue I have identified now is that I come too fast. This gets in the way of quality and variety of sex I’m having. I will do some reading on the topic and report next week. Validation seeking mindset. Dance monkey dance.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 09:28 AM
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We are now Divorcing, I'm jobless, living at my parents house. lol. you're either a curry head or asian. it's hilarious how badly men of both cultures suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 05:10 PM
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I have basically told my wife I want out of this marriage. What are you? A fucking 8 year old? I love how your wife is the one who wears the pants and leading the relationship. Is your wife a lesbian? I'm guessing not. So it shouldn't be surprising she's not into a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 05:09 PM
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No. From the past The important point is that there are "advanced" responses to shit-tests beyond STFU, A&A, and AM that directly challenge rather than merely deflect the test, and which belong in the toolbox of men who already command frame and respect. The fact that your wife would shame you for wanting to fuck her is a level of disrespect that I can't even begin to fathom tbh. I would be furious at the insinuation that I'm the bad dog that got into the garbage for wanting to fuck my own wife.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 04:44 PM
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your restrictive mental models make you a waste of time. you don't seem like you're in a headspace where you actually want to solve your own problems. get fucked until you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 05:54 AM
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so acting like a retarded clown, basically. you ever just considering threatening to just smack a bitch when she's blatantly disrespectfully?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 03:56 AM
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You go to Church not because you love God, but because you seek adulation. You want to prostitute the Church to give your life meaning, instead of giving your life to the church because that is your life's meaning. Don't worry, you're not alone. I'm not Christian or religious, but I've seen this facade play out over and over. It is like cheap whores who wear tons of makeup to try to feel beautiful vs. beautiful women who do not wear makeup at all, but only for the soul.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 05:56 PM
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She plays this card quite often. I treat it as a shit test and respond accordingly. How do you handle it? Most men act like clowns when they try deal with shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 05:54 PM
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Let go of any anger, frustration, or resentment I feel towards my wife and accept responsibility that my situation is a result of my own poor choices and weak character. This line caught my eye. Incredible wisdom here. I wish you the best in your execution. I received the feedback from both my wife and my 5-year-old daughter than I am often "scary", referring to my tone and demeanor rather than any propensity on my behalf towards violence. I agree with their feedback, my goal this week is to be …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:30 AM
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Sex Things and Marriage Got anyone else you can fuck? If not, don't be sad when you have to beg for scraps. Also, stop begging for scraps. Your covert behaviors aren't covert, and they're probably repulsive to your wife. Stop it. Everything you've learned about massages, backrubs, etc - stop. If you want to fuck her, take her hand, lead her to the bed room, and try to fuck her. She'll reject you the moment you take her hand, but apparently you're too fucking retarded to take a hint.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:12 AM
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Wife got a crush on a coworker 1 year ago. She still works at the same place. I got friendly with a co-worker who had a 3 month old at home. She wanted more. I told her to love her family. They had 3 more kids together. Also, you know how I know you're gay? You spent an entire section on imaging your wife with dicks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:06 AM
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"You can jack off on my back, but I'm too tired for sex." I called her a slut and received some backlash You do understand that you're a weak little bitch in her eyes, don't you? I would sometimes say "I'm not going to listen to you bitch and complain." during a rougher argument or nagging. Or I would say "I'm setting this boundary" or shit like that. I bet you're a talker. I bet your words are cheap. Stop talking so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:01 AM
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Gay - and God will disavow you for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 05:58 AM
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For now my mission is to essentially unfuck myself. Meh. You've checked all the boxes but done none of the work. Up till now, you've had to do exactly 0 thinking. Now you have to, and it's a muscle you haven't exercised yet. "What does success look like?" Make a guess, give it a go, and see if your initial guess was right, wrong, or directionally correct. Many of your first guesses will most likely be wrong - holding onto the first guess as conviction will be a sign of a weak ego. “no, what is w…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 05:48 AM
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If you were in my shoes what would you do. I'd go fuck another woman and then decide if she's worth keeping around. It costs $200 and a quick phone call at the very worst case. In all of this, other than complying with some sex, I don't think you've listed anything worth keeping her around for. Put different, you like that she fulfills your fantasies -- and the question I'd ask you is "Do you think you're getting her best?". Do you think you're getting more effort out of her than the dudes who r…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/23 03:33 AM
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op accepts his role in life as a cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 08:33 PM
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passing at the moment Implying you could. Which you can't. Which is the whole point. But you know who can go out and get fucked? Your wife. A lot. And often. If I'm full of shit I'm only hurting myself. And all the people who decide to read this crap and think "hey - this is a good idea". And me, this is 5 minutes x 3 I won't get back. Leaving after this post And yet here you are continually responding to literally everyone because you are a needy, validation seeking cuck. This isn't to insult y…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 08:31 PM
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It's pretty funny to see you write in your FR about Do the work until you achieve outcome independence and live in your frame. Adopt the nothing to lose mentality. when it's painfully obvious that you are nothing more than a paper tiger. You are driven by fear and inadequacy. Any accomplishments you claim to have made hold no water. The idea that you are dominant is laughable - and the idea that you're in a D/s relationship with an anxious atypical wife is something straight of of HoA's Fantasy'…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 05:51 PM
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So how many women have you fucked after you've gotten back together? Have you fucked her best friend? Her sister? Anyone other women? Random tinder hoes? This wasn't rhetorical. I'm genuinely curious if that answer is > 0.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 04:15 PM
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Not only did I find out how many other guys she slept with So she ran a little cock train, and now you're dominant and in a d/S relationship. So how many women have you fucked after you've gotten back together? Have you fucked her best friend? Her sister? Anyone other women? Random tinder hoes? It's great that you're able to tell yourself these lies to make yourself feel better -- how you're outcome independent (ctrl-f "she" says otherwise), but this is some of the most self deluded bullshit I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 08:53 AM
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This story is about frame. It’s about dread. Horseshit. This is a story about a guy who wanted to brag about how his wife fucked him. Congrats. Man fucks wife. I'm sure it's a huge deal. Let me re-write your story with all the fluff taken out. Went to a wedding. Wife decided she wanted to fuck me after she had a drink or five. Go me! Don't believe me? Do a ctrl-f "She" and look at the bulk of the action.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 03:44 AM
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It was 90% digital except for the 3 times they met up. If you want to make excuses for yourself, that's fine. But why do you have to pretend we're retarded faggots too?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/23 03:07 PM
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done the right way - there are no downsides. sure, your marriage might end, but you've already accepted that as part of the reality. Here's the 301 post. Like I said in the 101, what'll kill your relationship is the loss of trust, not the act of fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/23 06:37 AM
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"Oh no.. people wrote mean and scary words. Waah." Ever stop to consider that the issue is the fact that the things people are posting is stupid, poorly thought out, and not grounded in experience or reality? If someone is going to take a gigantic dumb in the middle of the floor, don't be surprised when the response is "What in the fuck are you doing? and why?" How do I know this post sucks? Notice how the post is framed in the things "you" should be doing and nothing in phrased in the form of t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 01:59 PM
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Do the 5 whys for your goal in life. You want money. Why? If it's freedom, then the issue isn't money. You can be a slave to money just as much as you can be a slave to your wife. Freedom is a combination of mindset and pre-work.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 02:25 AM
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Great work on your journey. You've come a long way. If you want a chuckle, go back and read some of your earlier OYS posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/23 03:59 PM
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I was thinking of the scoreboard as simply "initiations vs rejections" but I realized (I think) that it also encompases anything power dynamic related. What? No. The scoreboard is literally a scoreboard that you put up in the kitchen. She touches your pp, she gets 1 points. You touch her pp, you get 1 point. She touches the bulls pp, she gets 3 points. You touch the bulls pp, you get 3 points. You want to make sure you have more points so you're always winning and can lord it over her and force …
/r/askMRP02/06/23 05:58 PM
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A deeper exploration of my motivation, my goals, my desires and how best to fit them with my responsibilities requires a certain level of subtlety that cursing and slurs does not help. Pay someone for your solipsism instead of relying on free charity then you value leeching faggot. Edit to add: Great post history! You're the exact type of guy that I wrote about some 10 year ago -- the guy who deserves to get cheated on. Tell me again how your wife getting dicked down by other dudes "intellectual…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 01:26 PM
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It's a concept called inner game - become self validated and self amused, then find the women who fit into your world.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 01:25 PM
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Good job on being the retard trying to lead the blind. I've seen a lot of guys struggle with defining what they want, including myself. Instead of taking a moment to think "hmm.. maybe there's something to that" you instantaneously double down on being a retard and continue to take a dump. Dance monkey dance.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 02:51 PM
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Just because someone says "hey - maybe you should take a dump in front of everyone" doesn't you should go ahead and do it. When you actually live your mission, you'll realize that the whole idea of a "mission statement" is retard fodder. Do you really think this bullshit will make your OYS better? fucking platitudes. you're a man, start acting like it, there's greatness inside of you and you're squandering it says the 300 lb fatass to himself in the mirror as he puts on his mcdonald's uniform af…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:10 AM
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Weak whiny faggots like you are why there are no posts. Who the fuck do you think would want to learn from you? And supposing that there are the people that do want to learn, what do you have to teach? It's the retarded leading the blind. So who should be doing the teaching? Any guy who wants to lead a bunch of retards in an online circlejerk is a self aggrandizing faggot with too much time and too little going on in real life. Don't take life advice from the perpetually online. There's a bunch …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:01 AM
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People out here stealing lines like they're free for you to take. Don't you realize those lines a copyrighted?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/23 06:39 AM
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Yet here you are aren't ya? Welcome fellow fascist.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 02:50 PM
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I agree. Fuck 3KL. Let's make this clit-licker-69 the flag bearer. He/She apparently not only fucks, but xey sucks and licks too. My advice to 3KL is to let this place rot and let the real alpha males of reddit run this place as they so desperately want. It'll be another version of dead bedrooms within 3 months. He hasn't listened so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 06:24 AM
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oh yeah - and i'm sure she feels like she should be, and would rather be, at the clubs hoe'ing it up instead of being surrounded by shit filled diapers she doesn't want to change raising kids who aren't that all interesting with a 100% absentee husband. all her high school friends are hitting the early 20s stride, meeting the right dudes -- seeing all of this on social, and she's doing what exactly?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 07:08 AM
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for your age isn't the same as for your life style. sure you're 22, but you're not living that single dude lifestyle. you're living that 3 kids, SAHM lifestyle. from the lifestyle perspective, the reality is you're a fucking failure -- and for that reason, she's out. i wrote about why this is hard mode over 8 years ago at this point. i'd accept that you're gonna get divorced and divorce raped, and start planning for a better round 2. some of these faggots will try to tell you that you're a "lead…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 07:03 AM
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lmao. fucking platitudes. you're a man, start acting like it, there's greatness inside of you and you're squandering it says the 300 lb fatass to himself in the mirror as he puts on his mcdonald's uniform after black pilling the internet and saving the world from evil wahmen. this subreddit upvotes trite dumb shit like this guy. keep foolishly telling yourselves that you guys are indeed the top 20%. this is like saying all the mentally retarded kids are special too and just as capable as the gif…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 06:38 AM
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senior high school(online), full time Roofer, and training for the military hahahahaha. you're a type. enjoy your dependapotamus.
/r/askMRP17/10/22 05:19 AM
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Sucks to suck. What you're looking for is some way to trick her and voodoo magic her mindset and thoughts. Problem is - that doesn't exist and isn't possible. The question is - do you actually want to fix your life? I'm guessing that you don't want to do that. Because that'd require you doing work. Step 1 is recognizing that your life most likely won't include your wife. Step 1 is a lot harder than pissing, moaning, and moping. All this bullshit for a broad who doesn't even want you. Woe is you …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 09:01 AM
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Between men - sure. Between you fucking idiots? Not a chance.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 02:25 PM
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I miss early times. Had more of a “let’s figure this out together” vibe. Tell me again when that was? Because I'm pretty sure that never existed. Because all you fucks were always fucking retards to laugh at.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 01:53 AM
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Suck up
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:54 AM
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Wow. All that lifting and you still manage to be a gigantic little bitch. God it must suck to be you.
/r/askMRP14/08/22 06:20 PM
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Oh, I did that already. Many times. And then dealt with the fallout, which was extremely unpleasant. You chose to put up with the bullshit. You've chosen for the past 4+ years to deal with the bullshit. I told you you were a slow learner. Sitting on the fence will hurt your butt. ...credit W&S There are no wrong choices here -- but choosing not to choose seems like the worst one. Edit - Yes, I made this account especially for you R316. I posted about you on my twitter -- https://twitter.com/whin…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/22 07:50 AM
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