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| 9 | "We're not having sex tonight."This is such a common occurrence I'm sure it has been written about before. It has been. Word for word. This is one of the classic examples of a congruence test (also known as a shit test). It's a woman testing you and the identity you are showing her. You are essentially showing yourself as a confident man with lots of options, and she is testing you on that to see if its real (congruent). If you get angry or bitter, you failed. If you joke around it, don't care about it, etc, you passed. Why d… | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What does confidence look like ?It's about not being in your head, or worrying about things. Think about when you're alone with your friends (or when you were a kid, alone with your friends) and how you acted then - you were uninhibited and unfiltered. You said what you felt and did what you wanted. That's confidence. Confidence is not about being suave or fun or nice or loud or anything else, it's just about being honest - acting/speaking without a filter, without concern for how others might deal with you. Obviously that has… | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | The problem with How To Win Friends And Influence People - Interested vs InterestingThe blunt answer is that Dale Carnegie's book is not a pick-up book, and pick-up follows its own rules. The first and most important part of pick-up is generating attraction in women. That comes from displaying sexually attractive traits (social dominance, leadership, wealth, physical fitness, etc). "Being interesting" is not on the list of sexually attractive traits. It's at best a comfort trait. Neither is "asking open ended questions." Your problem is you're trying to use a book on how to pla… | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 12:12 PM |
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