wolfenstein1725 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
464	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool		wolfenstein1725	/r/seduction	23/12/16 06:22 AM

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6	When you took that chance and said "Fuck it" and just asked her out, how did it turn out Every time I said "fuck it" I have never regretted it. Many times it turns into meeting an awesome new person that may or may not turn into something, and other times it turns into a rejection. And sometimes rejections turn into something later on if you still pursue. But every time I bitched out I regretted it.	/r/seduction	07/03/17 01:30 PM
3	For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl. Inner joy and happiness is exactly that - accepting fully who you are. You can always improve your life situation, and strive to be better, but you'll always be chasing outward things until you realize that true happiness/joy/inner peace comes from within.	/r/seduction	24/02/17 12:47 PM
2	How do you usually feel after the first date? This is hilarious. So you have two choices as I see it. Just kind of fade away, then send a value giving text much less frequently (once every 3-4 weeks or so) which will keep you on the radar, but she'll understand you're busy and get the hint. Then re-escalate contact later and hope she's still interested. Other choice is just be upfront. Say you think you two can have a lot of fun but you don't want to jeopardize her situation since you enjoy smoking and partying, so out of respect for her si…	/r/seduction	23/02/17 10:16 PM
2	For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl. Totally anecdotal but I know plenty of average to ugly girls in middle school and high school that became smoking hot later in college and post-college. They tend to be the most fun girls to hang with because they have amazing personalities and are super attractive physically. Lesson: to judge a book by its cover. That really hot girl might be super down to earth and have an amazing personality.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:19 AM
2	For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl. You're saying the same thing. If she's unresponsive then it's a compatibility issue, and she is clearly not as cool as she looks.. You are enough is the right mindset. Given enough time attraction can be built with just about anyone, hence the whole concept of "game" and "pickup". The reality is that everyone has tastes and preferences, and sometimes you just don't have the time to build attraction and you get rejected. That's normal and par for the course.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:17 AM
3	How do you usually feel after the first date? Since no one chimed in here I'll take a stab. It sounds like you had a nice time, and you'd be open to seeing her again but not devastated if you don't. That's cool. Keep talking to other women and have many options. Or do fun stuff with your guy friends, or alone, and stay busy. When, and if, you want to see her again reach out. If you want to be sure she stays interested, just send a value-giving text every few days or so (no exact science) and get her in the habit of not expecting you to ask …	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:12 AM
0	Thoughts on buying a girl a drink (or lunch or whatever) Seems very counter-intuitive but it rarely leads to anything. You have a 10x better shot of getting her if you reject the request, but turn it around. I had a girl on Tinder who told me she had a podcast and somewhere in the convo she says I should buy her a drink. Even over texting I got the schtick and instead made a joke about how I usually prefer to support podcasts I like by donating on Patreon. So it was a rejection, but without being all PUA butthurt "fuck no". Buy a girl a drink because …	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:04 AM
1	Show me what the inner voice of a natural/someone with confidence is like. Exactly this. There is no inner voice when you are at your peak. There is just presence. Just being. You are fully present in the moment and act exactly how you want to act without thinking about acting. You don't judge yourself or your actions, you are simply aware of them. The vibe it gives off is one of extreme confidence, a calming coolness, and a very positive aura that attracts both men and women alike. Pro-tip: read Power of Now and get into meditation.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:00 AM
1	[FR] What a strange date Doesn't mean shit. My last long-term relationship started with a turned cheek when I went for a kiss at the end of the first date. It's cute on her end, and she'll be thinking about how you wanted to kiss her and how she wanted to also. Let her have her fun, keep building arousal. All roads lead to the same destination eventually :D	/r/seduction	17/02/17 10:29 PM
3	[24 y/o] - Failing in Relationships department, depressed You're 24 and worried about life passing you by. That's normal. But worrying about not being as attractive as a young male... I'm early 30's, want to trade? ;-P It's nonsense. I go on 2-3 dates a week with girls as young as 21/22. And I was super fearful after I ended my long term relationship that I'd be f*cked due to being older, out of shape, and without the same hairline I used to have. Guess what... Inner game is where you need to put all your emphasis. I don't think you're ready to attract…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 09:23 PM
5	Going out tommorow. Any last advice? Talk to people throughout the day. Start by giving random compliments. Approach girls during the day. Get over any approach anxiety. * Try not to rely on alcohol. Practice sober game. The day game will help with this. * Find a group of girls outside the club and approach in them in a casual manner, make up some shit about how your friends flaked but you really want to go out. Have them adopt you as their friend. Now you're entering the club with girls who you're cool with, hugging, laughing, r…	/r/seduction	16/02/17 11:06 PM
8	When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot". Probably is just what it is, but it doesn't mean you can't use it to elevate yourself a little more... Like if you're in a good mood, feeling very natural and congruent you might throw something back like "oh yeah? who's the hottest one, introduce me.." ...with the subtle message being "I know I'm hot" without being cocky about it. It's cocky-funny especially if it comes from a true place inside. It also conveys subtly "you have competition/you need to tame me" which if you've read a bunch of PU…	/r/seduction	16/02/17 10:52 PM
1	Nervous to escalate physically in a nightclub Well the assumption I'm making is you're flirting out on the floor with her, maybe dancing together, etc. That's the push. The pull is making her "fear" you're leaving her. It's a push and a pull. Like you might say 'come to the bar with me' in an assertive way, she says 'no' or whatever, you can throw something like 'ok, I may meet the woman of my dreams and not come back...' in a joking/playful way. Then you just go. When you're talking to other girls at the bar, that's something new already. …	/r/seduction	10/01/17 02:03 AM
1	For the people that have progressed and transformed positively regarding seduction,what were your mindsets,values,techniques that helped you progress the most ? I got out of a very long relationship that ended badly. I had low self-esteem, tons of confusion, self-doubt, was out of shape, and obsessed with my negatives to the point that I thought how would I ever find another match. This may seem ridiculous, but try not to laugh. It's quite common in a lot of men after a particularly bad break up. Fortunately, I had tons of help from close friends and family and came up with a system to get my shit together. Most of the following is techniques I used tha…	/r/seduction	09/01/17 03:56 PM
1	Nervous to escalate physically in a nightclub You should really read Power of Now. Even if you're not interested in learning about mindfulness, just the concept of being present in the moment which means your thoughts have no space to wander into the past or the future, both of which don't exist at the present moment, will help you get out of your own head. Totally anecdotal but in the last few weeks of me practicing this through meditation, I've had several girls I met at bars or first dates talk about this energy that they feel with me. A…	/r/seduction	09/01/17 03:34 PM
2	Nervous to escalate physically in a nightclub Solid advice. I'd like to add a little bit of a different take. This is not meant to take anything away from obamakare's great advice above. If she says no, I think this is a good time to experiment with push-pull. You just go to the damn bar. You're a fucking confident man who knows his self-worth. I think of how a Don Draper, or the Dos Equis guy, might act. She'll follow. And if she doesn't, she'll notice you chatting up other girls at the bar. This will often times lead her to seek you out. …	/r/seduction	09/01/17 03:31 PM
8	An Open Letter to the Mods of Seddit I'm new here, but I started off with a FR that did pretty well vote wise and was top of Seddit for a day, but I also got a ton of hate for it. I really enjoy helping others and "paying it forward" but I can see why the cost associated with it might be too great for some. Some of the negative responses were truly baffling.	/r/seduction	05/01/17 05:21 PM
1	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. I kind of alluded to this with ...you are slightly more exotic than most American dudes who, no offense, can be rather cold and distant with new people. I am in the US, and I am also well traveled. I've dated Russian girls, Greek girls, Latina girls, and Middle Eastern girls...and of course just plain American girls. It holds true in every case. Maybe only prudish girls might be like "oh, oh, this is interesting" - just roll with it. In their mind they know how prude they feel and they are proba…	/r/seduction	05/01/17 02:45 AM
2	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. Push-pull is so clutch. It has an aura of playful and determined in one shot. Nonchalant + knows what he wants. It works so well but you have to truly own it and be natural when doing it. Otherwise I can see that coming across as weird.	/r/seduction	04/01/17 06:53 PM
2	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. As a rule of thumb, I ALWAYS upon meeting up for a first date, or any date, do the hug and cheek-kiss (where it's more of a cheek to cheek thing). It's actually more of a hand on her upper arm and lean in to touch cheeks, if that makes sense. Eastern-Europeans, Russians, and many other cultures do it, and I think it A) sets the boundaries that you are comfortable with touch and kiss and she should be too B) you are slightly more exotic than most American dudes who, no offense, can be rather cold…	/r/seduction	04/01/17 06:51 PM
2	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. I'm not so sure anything more should have been done. She wasn't going to make out with him in the middle of the supermarket. But he did leave an impression with her that he is A) confident B) playful C) funny D) adventurous <- all super attractive qualities. If he does choose to meet up with her, he will need to do a lot less to get to any type of sexual tension build up since so much groundwork was laid right there at the number close.	/r/seduction	04/01/17 04:56 PM
1	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. Haha, I guess it goes to show that this stuff is really all relative. I don't consider him all that tall or well built, but it's my perspective and relative to the people I know. He seemed average build, if not slightly above average (not meant in a judgmental or harmful way OP!).	/r/seduction	04/01/17 04:53 PM
7	How I get girls to text back ALMOST every time. This is so good. This is exactly what everyone here who complains about height, muscles, whatever other excuse needs to get. OP is calm, confident, and playful. Playful is attractive. Good work dude!	/r/seduction	03/01/17 06:57 PM
1	Thank you to seddit for transforming me in 2016 Love to see posts like this. Just know that what you experienced is called a learning curve. It's different for everyone, and there is no right or wrong time. Ok, maybe 40 yr old virgin is pushing it :) But regardless, keep focusing inward and improving yourself and the opportunities will be endless. I'm telling you there may be a day where you decide you've had enough and prefer to settle down with one person who provides other things than sex. But until that day, enjoy life, enjoy the opposite…	/r/seduction	03/01/17 06:50 PM
1	Concerned about lack of experience and maintaining confidence. No, no one will ask you this ever. Maybe once you're in a relationship and you two are getting to know each other, but if you're in a relationship she won't judge you for that.	/r/seduction	24/12/16 08:48 PM
1	Concerned about lack of experience and maintaining confidence. I get it, you're probably going for something military or law enforcement. Stop worrying about what other guys have or haven't done. Focus inward and be confident in yourself. As for the what to do, it's actually not complicated at all. Don't be shy, don't be timid, feel comfortable taking a dominant role and drive your woman mad with the best sex she's ever had. Then you two can laugh about that she was your first (and she secretly won't believe you bc of how good it was). You'll be fine.	/r/seduction	24/12/16 07:35 PM
1	Concerned about lack of experience and maintaining confidence. First off, you have a lot going for you. You're way ahead of where other guys I see here for your age. Since you've hooked up with girls you've proven that you have the inner game, you just need to get to the next step. Try to tap into that primal wolf-like animal inside you, the one that moves heavy weights. You like a girl and you're making out, hold her like a man and tell her what's going to happen next. Women love to be told what to do in the bedroom and she'll never think you're a virgin. …	/r/seduction	24/12/16 12:12 AM
1	My first approach (terrible) Great advice. I actually feel like she was giving you (OP) some real openings. Like when she said "my French is bad" you could easily be playful with something like "no, it's kind of cute" or throw a fun neg like "yeah I know, it's terrible but I was trying to be polite" (do this with a smile so she knows you're messing with her). As for your "I don't know response" - I would've said, even if I know nothing about the book or author, "this author is the worst. takes him forever to get the plot go…	/r/seduction	23/12/16 11:04 PM
3	Will girls go for young-looking guys? Definitely work out. Can you grow a beard? Other than that, just use it to your advantage. Youth = virility. But baby = not sexy. So just bulk up a bit and add facial hair and your young face will be seen as a young stud who can go all night ;) lol. Have fun!	/r/seduction	23/12/16 10:55 PM
1	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool It's really not necessary. I answered this above, but tl;dr - I think I'm hot and that's all that matters. Even great looking guys will need to build up a complete stranger to make out in the back of an uber pool.	/r/seduction	23/12/16 10:34 PM
7	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2FWwyBY8Rk With great power comes great responsibility. Use safely.	/r/seduction	23/12/16 08:32 PM
2	Post Break UP, Lost my MOJO Bro, I feel you. I recently got out of a relationship that was over a decade long. Think about that. And she left me. Here is everything I did to overcome: Understand you're probably not ready emotionally to win over girls. So put that on pause. Get to a gym, ASAP. Choose something that will be A) mindless B) strength related C) requires daily participation. I found the Dan John 40-Day program to be the right fit for me but you can choose any 30, 45, or 60 day program from T-Nation. Cry, emote, …	/r/seduction	23/12/16 04:47 PM
1	Is work always a No-No? Don't do it. It's not worth all the drama. BUT - be friends with all the ladies at your job, flirt, and make plans to go out with them. Don't worry about friend-zone, you're kind of going for that because... Boom! you now have social proof when you go out that you're not a creep, you've been "pre-selected by other women" <- very important for women to see/feel. It will make pick up dramatically easier for you. And, if you are associated amongst your female coworkers as a fun guy and ladies man, …	/r/seduction	23/12/16 04:07 PM
16	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool I condensed it for the purpose of telling the story, but can see why it feels choppy re-reading. Yes, there was a very deliberate threading of the conversation to get from Point A to Point B to Point C. Abrupt is totally weird. It would go something like this: Me: Do you live in the city? Her: No, visiting friends. Me: Oh cool! Where are you from? Her: City X Me: Ok, nobody's perfect. smile, commence both of us laughing Me: So that's it? Just visiting friends. I guess you're not the adventurous …	/r/seduction	23/12/16 03:59 PM
2	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool It's something I adapted on the fly from something I saw on a Ross Jeffries video. I'm not as smooth as him though so I toned it down to feel comfortable for me (which FYI is important, be natural. If it feels forced, it will be come off as forced). By having her relive a moment of adventure, and then describe in detail the feelings in her body at that moment, you start to anchor the current situation to those same feelings. It's called NLP, it's fascinating, and it honestly feels a bit like get…	/r/seduction	23/12/16 03:52 PM
8	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool Thanks for the tips. I feel like I read some shady stuff about Julien... Anyways, yes agree inner game is so key. Extreme confidence, exercising, learning to be talkative with strangers you aren't trying to pick up, having interesting stories to tell, doing fun hobbies you can talk about, being ambitious - basically things you should be doing anyway if you want to enjoy life. This technique stuff is just icing on top of living a good life. Cheers!	/r/seduction	23/12/16 01:20 PM
13	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool Someone told me a long time, "be interested to be interesting". That means, don't think of it as a step, really ask questions and be interested in the answers. And about finding another question, often the easiest is just to expound on something in her answer to the previous question, like "oh you said X, that's really interesting. {what do you think about Y \| why do you think you felt that \| looking back would you have done that differently}. Just keep probing. People love to talk about themsel…	/r/seduction	23/12/16 01:15 PM
11	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool I've thought about this before. Girls in US are way more comfortable talking to strangers, but the underlying principles are the same. Every girl wants to feel wanted, period. But part of the subconscious test of how much of a man you are is the shit-test. Usually you'll only see 9s or 10s (or really obnoxious girls) giving you shit tests here, so maybe the culture in the UK is just that even 4s and 5s are shit-testing lol. Either way, just own it. That's where you live so you'll need to cross t…	/r/seduction	23/12/16 12:53 PM
6	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool Hey! Thanks for reading. To your question - Who knows? I'm not a good judge of whether I am good looking, because naturally I think I'm the hottest thing there is (objectively I'm nowhere near that, but it's my internal belief and it radiates). She didn't even look in my direction when I got in the Uber so it would have certainly just been a dead air ride where we both play on our phones till we got to our destination. I can say with almost certainty that even a good looking guy will need 'game'…	/r/seduction	23/12/16 12:47 PM
15	How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber Pool Spot on. I'm a little late to the party, but I just read Neil's The Game. Again, I was in a very long term relationship so never bothered with this stuff before. Would love to read anything more current, what do you recommend?	/r/seduction	23/12/16 12:19 PM
1	I've been dating a girl and now i'm talking to her best friend regularly, who i am much more interested in. How do i tackle the situation? Unless she specifically told you that you going on a single date with girl 1, 3 months ago, was an issue for her... then you are the only one making a big deal about this. Girls are b*tches to each other all the time. No different. Make the move on girl 2, don't even think about girl 1, and when you're in bed with girl 2 you can even throw something in like "even when I went on a date with your friend i was fantasizing about you". It will turn her on. Best of luck	/r/seduction	23/12/16 06:10 AM