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She already got her own place? 99.9% likely.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 11:32 AM
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It's pretty fukked up reasoning. It's him telling himself, he'd never be good enough cause she doesn't care about all his white traits that are better than black traits, she just cares about the D. It's probably why she left him, the insecurity and self-loathing.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 02:40 PM
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Awesome my man. You have so much ahead of you. No more looking behind.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 01:17 AM
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Stop letting her win dude. Get therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 01:09 AM
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yeah, jeez.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 11:16 PM
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You finally learned!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 06:07 PM
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So, I’m in my third marriage and I have 2 kids from my first wife, a “step-daughter” from my second and a baby with my current wife. It sounds crazy, but I’ve maintained a good relationship with them all (almost, second wife I don’t talk to, but I do with my step-daughter all the time). My point is that it’s all about effort. Put the petty stuff aside and just reach out and try to fix broken bridges. What else do you have other than that?
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 02:20 PM
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Well, I am in therapy and it works. How does my comment do nothing? He is obsessing over his ex-wife who he said is hit but dumb. It’s been a year! Treating her like a goddess is likely why he ended up here. I’m not trying to be a dick, but when someone is holding onto a life electric cable, you need to smack them with a 2x4 real quick.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 04:55 AM
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There was no love here. Can’t love someone who kisses your ass, and can’t be in love with someone you just want to be with cause they are hot. This is an obsession and this guy needs therapies.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 11:08 PM
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Loneliness is the worst reason to get back together with someone you had a reason for leaving.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:01 AM
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Stop worri ti g about what looks good on your arm and worry about what is good on your arm. Looks mean shit if she isn’t a good woman. I’m 5’5” and I’ve gone through it all a couple of times. Don’t let you height complex fuck your life
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 06:21 AM
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Was talking about this and I’m mixed. Boundaries are about you and not about them. In reality, he should have broken up with her without going through a laundry list of things she must do to be with him. If she asks why, then he can tell her and let the onus be on her to try to adapt/change. I just looked at it the reverse and if my girlfriend was like you can’t hang out with her, or do this, or that or we break up, I’d be like, yeah, controlling. If she said, I’m breaking up, and I was all, why…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 12:26 PM
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Not only do you need to do what’s best for you, this is your one shot at life, but what are you teaching your children?
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:51 PM
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I think we all know that is philosophically speaking, sheesh.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 09:25 PM
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Breaking contracts aren’t crimes. If anything, it’s a civil offense. Maybe you can sue over it, I guess that’s kinda what divorce really is.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 03:44 AM
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This is because it is still about her and not about you. You even said it in your post. “Did the right things to keep my family.” Never do the “right things” (by this, fix yourself) for other people, do it for yourself. Once you work on yourself because you love you, only then will things fall into place. Do the things that ween you off of her, whatever you need. But take a look at yourself, figure out what person you want to see looking back at you in a year and fucking get to it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 07:11 PM
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Duuuuude. Stop wasting your effing life man!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 10:19 PM
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Why would anyone upvote this racist bullshit. Supporting men doesn’t mean you have to be a shithead.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 02:19 AM
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That is absurd
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/22 07:58 PM
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I’m 45. I get it with the larger gap at our age, but when you get into your 50s and she is in her 40s, you struggle to keep up. I find that within 5 years keeps expectations and compatibilities at a premium.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/22 02:53 AM
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Probably not popular but anything more than +-5 years is kinda creepy.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/22 10:00 PM
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You are filling the void. The void exists because it has someone else in it who makes decisions and can leave. Fill that void with you. Things you need to make better about yourself. About what you do. One amazing thing for you to fill it is with volunteer work. Let that be your mistress as it not only makes you feel good, it fills that void and benefits so many.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 02:13 PM
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Of course it’s her. She started dating a 28 year old at 18. She had no ability to develop normal relationship behaviors. And because you know of larger age gaps, that means nothing, unless the other person was younger than 18, which is sick.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 07:59 PM
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Being down and being honest are mutually exclusive scenarios. Look man, I’m not saying you deserve bad and I’m not trying to make you feel worse. You just posted your situation and that’s my read. I’ve been through the worst before and you have to stop looking for situations to make you feel better and look for how you can actually make yourself better.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:08 PM
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Hate on me all you want. You have kids. If a 28 year old started sating my 18 year old, I'd consider that preying. Are you unfamiliar with those optics? An 18 year old isn't close to fully developed emotionally and this can be the outcome. It can happen to anyone, but you really are completely focused on her and what she did wrong and pay no heed to the man behind the curtain.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 04:59 PM
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Cmon man, you were 28 preying on an 18 year old. I don’t care how else you cut it, but what else would happen in this scenario?
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 04:22 PM
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Look man, I’ve been through it all, more than once. Trust me that you never feel better when you intentionally try to eff someone else over. Even if you feel they deserve it, it takes something out of you, out of your soul. Find that place when you can actually be happy with yourself for NOT doing that. In addition, it just created years of contention. You have no idea what she, he or his wife will do and how much they can just makes your life more terrible. Definitely not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 04:49 AM
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Just an FYI, I find that when anyone bounces back and forth, it’s because they cheated and the ping ponging is her internal struggle. Regardless, this is your path. It’s the right path. Be strong, work on yourself and know it always gets better with time.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/21 12:54 PM
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It’s been a year. You didn’t abandon her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/20 01:50 AM
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Seems more like BPD than depression. It’s incurable and the vast majority of people with it will never acknowledge it. Have you thought about couples therapy? It may help with getting a diagnosis for her. Don’t ever come out and say that is what you are going to do, but it may be your best bet.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/20 11:14 PM
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It's probably good that McDonalds is tainted. Work out dude, it's helps with everything.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/20 01:54 PM
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How much debt and is it worth looking to declare bankruptcy over?
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/20 02:24 PM
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First and foremost, there is no such thing as conditional love. If you think that there is, then you are setting yourself up to b a doormat.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/20 01:56 PM
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This is a lose lose for you. If you write up thr 18k and don’t mention how she can’t cause problems for you, she still can and black mail you later. If you do write it up, and she signs it, it’s an admission of guilt, so she won’t.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/20 05:50 AM
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Can’t agree more. Staying for the kids is the worst thing. Also, they end up feel guilt later in life and resentment towards you. You end up wasting your life because of them and it’s not even their asking. It’s best to develop a good relationship where you can coparent and a have happy healthy loving family.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 09:08 PM
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She asked how the kids were doing? She just abandoned them? That's it? No attempt to contact or find out about them except for a chance encounter?
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 06:13 PM
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She left the kids? Like, see ya kids, have a good life, or you guys will be co-parenting?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 01:32 PM
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You have to end it and focus on yourself. It’s probably been going on for a while and you need to take time and let it digest. Sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 03:27 AM
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Are you old looking to them too? Cause it happens. People age.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:32 PM
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Ok, what if this was the scenario. He wanted her phone and she was resistant. He threw her down, pulled her to the floor, her phone fell out, he picked it up and she was then attacking to get her phone back? I don't know if that was the case, but seems feasible.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/20 08:10 PM
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I won’t comment on her, cause I don’t know her and i have to imagine it’s tough living the life she is living (for whatever reason). But I will say this... GTFO now. End it. Move on with your life. You are still young enough to find what you want. What you need. Wait too long and the opportunities diminish.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/20 05:45 PM
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How could you be happy? Cause you are lonely? She left you for another dude, was banging him, got a tattoo with him, then got lonely, crawled into your bed and you thought, what exactly? Be happy she is gone. Work your way past her. The woman you thought you knew is dead. Mourn her. This person ain't your wife dude. Learn that NOW.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/19 02:23 AM
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The only way to make it work is risk losing her. If you fight it, it's done. If you focus on yourself, work out, eat right get your shit together, it will change you and her for the better (or one of you). If you already do that, then gtfo.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/19 08:47 PM
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Tell your kids that a happy dad and happy mom equals a happy life for them. This is why everyone should focus on their self happiness first and then spouse and kids second.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/19 04:03 PM
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You may be able to just split the retirement you put in while you were together.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/19 05:47 PM
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