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Because I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:49 AM
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I absolutely answered them. Pay attention. Not insecure, and I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:10 AM
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No, lol. Why should I date someone I don’t want to? Anyway, I’m in a relationship, and very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:13 AM
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No. Men already sexualise everything and it’s tedious. Be entertaining in a way that doesn’t involve your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:49 AM
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Over six feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:48 AM
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I’m in a relationship, so I just don’t. When was single, very rarely, even when dating intentionally to meet someone. I have standards and I’m not willing to compromise on them anymore. When I was dating intentionally, it was less about who I’m physically attracted to, and more about who I wasn’t attracted to at all. If there’s no chance to develop attraction as I get to know someone, then I won’t bother at all. If a guy is not completely unappealing, then I would look at what brought my interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:55 AM
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Men cannot be feminists. You can be a feminist ally. And in regards to your question, it depends. I am not a fan of criticising a person for qualities they can’t change, or couldn’t change without pain and cost (eg surgery), but there are some absolute flogs out there, both male and female, and I admit at times I can be unkind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:30 PM
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No. Do men really believe that women are subhuman? That we have no independent thought? That we have no individual qualities? Because honestly the only way anyone could believe that women are all seeking the same thing in a man is if they had never met more than one woman before, or if they didn’t think we were human.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:25 PM
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When men tell on themselves about how they truly see women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:57 AM
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Testosterone is a powerful hormone. When women find the right man, they usually do lust over them, but they don’t usually lust over random men. Desire isn’t something you can create in or negotiate from a woman. She wants you, or she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:14 AM
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Why do the latter? If she’s a nasty person, you’re validating her nastiness by reacting to it. Better to just ignore rude people. It hurts them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:34 PM
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Why does anyone need fake stimulus? Erotica at least doesn’t involve the abuse of real women, but it still encourages the user to form warped views of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:49 AM
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Anyone who needs some fake stimulus to get off is pretty pathetic. It’s lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:46 AM
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I think men are more emotionally unstable than women. Maybe you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:46 AM
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Lol, no. Porn wont hold your hand while you’re dying, it doesn’t keep you warm at night, and you look pretty fucking dumb taking your phone on a date. Women hate porn because it’s degrading and dehumanising to women, and using it makes men ugly, stupid, and undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:38 AM
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It’s both. Porn is parasocial. Men who use porn are pathetic and undateable. It doesn’t really matter which came first. Being lonely is not a justification for contributing to the trafficking and abuse of women and girls. If a man can’t masturbate without using porn, there’s literally something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:33 AM
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When men literally admit they are borderline pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:33 AM
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There’s this thing called ‘self control’. What other people think of me is none of my business. I do not think sexually about anyone I meet. I’m in a committed relationship with someone. I’m capable of seeing someone who is objectively attractive and noticing them, then never thinking about them again, because why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:46 AM
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I don’t watch porn. The only expectation I have for my partner is that he will invest as much as I do in our mutual pleasure. I feel sorry for anyone who thinks watching porn is normal or harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:39 AM
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Try a dictionary. Consent to sex must be given freely, or it’s rape. Prostitution and pornography is paid rape. Please do not, as a man, lecture me about something you simply do not comprehend. All these men out there who don’t understand consent are terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:11 AM
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Money doesn’t buy consent. Sex without consent is rape. I had the choice of two otherwise equal candidates for a job, and I hired the woman. Thanks for tipping me in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:59 AM
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27% of ‘women’ online are men LARPing. How would you know what women’s views really are? In my opinion, men who hate women are the worst kinds of men. That category includes both incels and rapists. It’s a Venn diagram that’s a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:22 AM
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Raping women in exchange for cash isn’t helping anyone. It makes men who rent women look like the predators they are, and it robs women of power. Always interesting to hear supposedly progressive men advocate for the reduction and dehumanisation of women for their own sexual interest as a capitalist venture. It reminds me that the vast majority of men are incapable of seeing women as equals, and often men who claim to be progressive are the worst. I need a good reminder like this every so often …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:07 AM
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Women can be misogynist too. Women have not brainwashed themselves, beauty standards that have been ingrained from childhood are what have brainwashed women into thinking they ‘need’ surgery, fake nails, and lashes etc. Ever heard men say they’re ’more visual’ to excuse them ogling other women? Yeah, that. The kind of people who care about what celebrities look like are idiots with very little going on in their lives/brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:59 AM
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No, it’s not being anti woman to question porn culture that teaches girls their only value is in how fuckable they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:22 PM
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The majority do not choose it. Educate yourself before you go off making blanket statements that are false. The majority of women in sex work are trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:21 PM
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Maybe because some men do see women as actual people, human beings just like themselves, and don’t think it’s acceptable or reasonable to exploit desperate women for cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:24 AM
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And what about the hundreds or thousands of others who, after exiting the industry, talk about the rape, coercion, drugs etc? Of course the ones still doing it say they chose it. They wouldn’t keep getting work if they didn’t. SMFH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:22 AM
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It’s called ‘grooming’.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:21 AM
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If she’s hungry, maybe try putting food in her mouth, not your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:18 AM
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‘Premium’ men do not replace their partner. It gives women power, and that’s why men hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:59 AM
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Yes. What he’s saying is his version of ‘equality’ is better than mine, without having any objective evidence to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:12 AM
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So, they’re immature? Checks out. Not sure why this is controversial. We’ve been saying it for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:07 PM
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This is really narrow minded. Just because she says she’s looking for a relationship doesn’t mean she isn’t happy on her own. The two are not mutually exclusive. It also helps to weed out men who just want to fuck. Many women who are single also don’t want to fuck a bunch of random men. If this is true, maybe women over 40 are smart enough to treat a problem instead of pretending it isn’t a problem and unaliving themselves or others like men do when they’re depressed? More girls/women graduate f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:34 AM
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You must get a lot of exercise leaping to conclusions. I don’t need a ‘bargaining chip’ because I’m a complete person. I don’t have sex with randoms, and I don’t consider my friendships ‘intimate’. Only someone with a very developmentally dysregulated style of attachment would see talking to people as intimate, and sex as not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:36 AM
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Men who use prostitutes tell on themselves - that they don’t value sex as an act of intimacy. They’re simply not relationship material. If a man is going to go in this direction, he needs to be very sure he won’t change his mind later, because very few women will date or marry a man with a history of renting women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:11 AM
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122 people, doesn’t say their age. Opinion piece says most people don’t like the violent stuff, but of the few who do, they are mostly women. I’m going to say that most women who watch porn do so because they think it makes them more appealing to men, or the ‘if you can’t beat them, join them’ approach. Most young women who watch porn grow out of needing to do things that go against their own self interest to be picked by men eventually. Internalised misogyny is a terrible thing, so it’s good th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:24 AM
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Money doesn’t buy consent. Consent must be given freely. Men who think a class of women needs to exist to be purchased and rented do not see women as human. I will happily continue to stigmatise, mock and shame men who rent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:04 AM
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Hmmm, I don’t agree. I mean, the US has a very broken ‘democratic’ system, so I really don’t think you can say ‘most people’ don’t care about this sort of stuff. Regardless, you don’t fix poor educational outcomes by paying the people who got poorer educational outcomes more money to do what is likely to be a demonstrably worse job of teaching kids. Would you go to a surgeon who was last in his class but bullied his way to getting paid more than his peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:38 AM
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Women have been fighting for and against men for centuries. It’s time men did the heavy lifting they’re always bragging about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:34 AM
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Oh right, so it’s women who have to fix men’s bullshit again? When are men going to take a shred of responsibility for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:07 AM
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So encourage more men to become teachers. Your premise is still bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:06 AM
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Where are the boys’ fathers? Why aren’t they being role models? Teachers are there to teach. Your premise is bizarre and not grounded in logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:44 AM
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Depends on the age and stage of life. If she’s young and looking for someone to settle down with to marry and have a family, a coffee date tells her you’re probably not going to care and provide for her while she’s having your babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:08 AM
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Nah. I have no skin in the game, so what do I gain from being delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:29 AM
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I haven’t met a single woman over 30 who hasn’t had a bunch of guys in their 20s trying to Mrs Robinson her. Die mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:50 AM
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Well, I’m in my 50s, in great shape, have a desirable partner, both of us are over 6 foot tall, and both in high paying professional jobs. Where’s the cope in that? You young boys might get more dates if you stopped being such assholes to women. It’s pathetic and hilarious when little lads have to put women down in order to feel big and powerful. I just get to feel like that without making ad hominem attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:47 AM
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Show me exactly where I said I found 20 year old men attractive enough to pursue. I’ll wait. Only predators go after someone they could have parented.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:43 AM
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Majority of very young men. I can assure you that ageing alone does nothing to dampen the desires of men. In my 50s, I still get attention from guys in the 20s right up to dudes my father’s age. The women 20 year old RP guys are thinking about when they make this assertion are caricatures of middle aged women. The vast majority of women know aged 35-65 are fit, smart, independently financially stable, dress well, and fit in anywhere socially. The wall is a ridiculous concept men invented to scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:54 AM
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No. A man who leaves his wife for a younger woman has no value. He’s a loser. Also, women are on average, happier single, so there’s really nothing to fear. I have had no difficulty attracting men as I’ve aged (I left my marriage in my 30s). Sure most of them haven’t been high quality men, but then again, most men aren’t. Happily partnered now to a man who has a highly respected, professional job, as do I. He’s faithful and loyal, but if he wasn’t, I’d leave, and my life would be perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:20 AM
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And yet so many men here feel entitled to women’s bodies. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:56 PM
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It might be flattering, but I’ve been with my partner for more than a few years and I’ve made my choice and wouldn’t risk losing something so good for someone who could easily turn out to be abusive or a cheater. If he knows I have a partner and he’s still flirting with me, he’s a grub anyway. The mistake you make is in thinking that women’s sexuality is like men’s. It’s not. I can see an objectively attractive man and appreciate him in the moment, then never think about him again. If anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:12 AM
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It might be flattering, but I’ve been with my partner for more than a few years and I’ve made my choice and wouldn’t risk losing something so good for someone who could easily turn out to be abusive or a cheater. If he knows I have a partner and he’s still flirting with me, he’s a grub anyway. The mistake you make is in thinking that women’s sexuality is like men’s. It’s not. I can see an objectively attractive man and appreciate him in the moment, then never think about him again. If anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:12 AM
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If she has to give up her career, body, and time to have kids with him, why shouldn’t he contribute in some way? It’s wild to me that men want women to do everything for them. If you’re talking only about alimony, it’s incredibly rare to be awarded in anything but a multi-million-dollar celebrity divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:55 AM
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Ahh, the magical stroke of midnight on a girl’s 18th birthday bestows upon them all the wisdom and defences they need to keep themselves safe from predatory creeps, am I right? No. I don’t blame the women for getting lured in by creepy old men. It’s called a ‘power imbalance’ for a reason. We are talking about older men and younger women here, don’t derail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:40 AM
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If older men were stable and mature, they’d be dating women their own age, not creeping after girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:57 AM
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Themselves. The RP echo chamber is real. They get 100% of their knowledge about women from porn and Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:56 AM
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I am against age gap relationships, and will happily shame any creep or pervert who is the older party in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:10 AM
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Take responsibility for birth control instead of expecting women to do it. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:30 AM
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Except that the ‘women and children first’ trope is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:22 AM
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Have higher standards then. Incorrect. Very rarely are they the ‘same crime’ when you look at the context and mitigating circumstances. This is completely false. Again, tell men to do better, don’t whine about how well women lift each other up. Hypergamy is on the rise. Young women are more educated than their male counterparts these days. Oops, you just contradicted your own point 5. Again, at the risk of being repetitive, men can do something to fix this. Women do not have to do everything for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:44 AM
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Guess what? Women drove all those things. Seems like you think women should do those things for men too? When are men going to take responsibility for their own lives and problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:34 AM
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Ahhh yes, won’t do exactly what I want them to. Hardly surprising that most RP men learn everything they know about women from Reddit, porn and chat bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:32 AM
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In my experience, the grass is greener where you water it. Happiness is continuing to desire and cherish what you already have, not constantly looking for something more. In this context, it means being happy and fulfilled with yourself as a single person. Otherwise you come across as desperate and needy. Getting the entirety of your knowledge and experience about the opposite sex from Reddit, porn, chatbots etc will give you a very bent view of them, and when you interact with them IRL, it’s ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:07 AM
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Buying the attention of another person is not only cringe, it’s destined for disaster. She will leave you and take what she can when the opportunity presents. As a woman who is totally into my guy and vice versa, you can’t rent or buy that kind of attraction/desire. Why would you want to? Unless of course you don’t see women as fully human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:13 PM
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Yes. Also, I love your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:10 PM
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The average RP man gets his knowledge of women from chatbots, porn, and Reddit, not from actually interacting with and dating women. Their ‘solutions’ to most dating issues are bizarre and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:03 AM
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Most women I know don’t discuss this and don’t care. I have seen discussions like this online, but mainly involving immature, poorly educated, bitchy young women. Hang out with better quality people, including online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:59 AM
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Who is this ‘we’? I don’t expect anyone to anticipate abuse of any kind. Why on earth would you? There’s a huge difference between exercising caution because of experience and statistics, and ‘expecting’ people to be violent or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:24 AM
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That is exactly the guy I’m describing. Only young, immature women are interested in this, and usually only until he threatens her or punches a hole in a wall. Older women who go for this have usually grown up around it, are restricted by other social issues like economic hardship, and see no way out of it. Good to see young men recognising the prevalence and scourge of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:07 AM
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Dude, you obviously live in a criminal neighborhood. This is not the norm. I know two women who are married to ex cons. One was a white collar tax matter, the other was a few stupid mistakes when he was 19. Of the hundreds of women in my regular family and social network, none of them are attracted to, pursuing, or dating thugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:48 AM
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If you are referring to the prevalence of domestic violence, men are very good at masking for long enough to utilise coercive control to ensure their victims are trusting. A handful of young, silly women pandering to deadshit men is definitely a minority, unless you live in a neighborhood that thrives on all kinds of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:46 AM
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If you lived in a place where there were venomous snakes the exact same colour and patterns as harmless snakes, and one in every three people you knew had been bitten by one of these snakes and suffered really badly as a result, I bet you’d be jumpy around all snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:46 AM
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It’s because their entire experience of women comes from reading about what other men say on Reddit, and watching abusive porn. It makes them believe that women enjoy being dehumanised and assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:28 AM
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Accurate assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:26 AM
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A very small group of women, mostly quite immature, and have not actually been in a relationship long enough to know that being treated badly by assholes isn’t the only option out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:24 AM
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TwoX is modded largely by men and frequented by libfem women. Not sure about the others but ‘complaints about men’ is a pretty broad topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:21 AM
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Men aren’t known for their observational ability. Let’s remember that men also say women need to be more blunt because they can’t read body language or subtlety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:19 AM
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Boring, low intelligence, and self-obsessed. When your entire personality is one feature, people lose interest real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:57 AM
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30+ yo men trying to date younger are the ones causing the trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:14 AM
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Hard agree. The exception is abuse, because it can be very hard to leave a skilled abuser, and leaving is often the most dangerous time for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:29 AM
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A woman’s value is inherent, and in no way tied to her fuckability or marriageability. Women are people, not accessories for men. Giving air time to nonsense ideas like this just helps legitimise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:29 PM
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It absolutely is a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:16 AM
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Because of PUA and red pill rhetoric. It is a compliment, but not to an immature dude whose entire education about women came from porn and Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:10 AM
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Who said anything about surveys? It’s absolutely abuse. I am very much enjoying seeing a rise in prosecutions of men who assault women under the guise of ‘consent’, and I enjoy even more magistrates making lengthy protection orders against sexually violent men who claim consent as a defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:31 AM
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Yes, it’s abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:28 AM
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Being into abusive men and being a victim of domestic violence are not the same thing. Interesting take on fantasy. Most porn enthusiast men go to great lengths to assure women that they don’t really want to rape and torture women, they just want to masturbate to the rape and torture of women. So which is it? I don’t underestimate anything. I can’t abide meds that romanticises or sexualises abuse. You can’t get enjoyment from harming someone and claim to care about them. The opposite of love is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:42 AM
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Sexually and physically abusing someone you claim to love and getting off to it is not ‘dark’, it’s abuse. We wonder why there’s a domestic violence epidemic - it’s because people sexualise assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:37 AM
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Therapy is the appropriate treatment for trauma, not more abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:35 AM
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Some women might be silly enough to be into abusive men, but the vast majority are not. Just like the vast majority of men aren’t rich celebrities who have women with low self esteem hanging off them. Also, there’s a big difference between fantasy and reality. Men on this sub really need to get out in the world. When you walk through a mall or go to a cinema, or to the grocery store, very normal, average couples are out there being together. Life doesn’t happen in a vacuum or on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:45 PM
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No, you can’t be a ‘good man’ and enjoy harming your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:41 PM
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Existing ≠ looking. Sorry you misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:12 PM
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Not what I said. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:38 AM
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Try re-reading my comment. I made this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:57 PM
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I know. That doesn’t make anything I said untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:09 AM
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Thing is, there’s an almost equal number of men and women in the world. Allowing for same sex and a proportion of people not wanting to date, there’s still probably roughly equal numbers of singles in most urban areas. Why then, are you saying it’s only a few women and mostly men? It’s not. It’s just that women don’t use a scattergun approach. Women will look at profiles and photos and read bios and choose who they interact with. Men swipe right on every woman that comes up. The solution? Teach …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:20 AM
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Believe men when they tell you who they are, like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:25 AM
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More common than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:24 AM
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And their total lack of empathy towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:23 AM
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No one got raped, beaten, or murdered during the writing of a book. Are you fucking serious? How is a novel different from a graphic portrayal of a real, live woman being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:05 AM
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Good to hear. I absolutely agree with your point about male friendships. My partner has a good, solid inner circle of male friends he sees and speaks to regularly. It makes him stand out miles from any other man I’ve been with in terms of having supports when I can be there for him. He has been vulnerable with me, cried several times over different issues he’s faced. The difference for me is that when other men have cried over something it’s usually been a deflection from an argument we’re havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:04 AM
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I’m sorry you’ve dated such shitty women. Looks like you need help to pick better, because this is terrible advice. Vulnerability brings couples closer. Stop dating immature, cruel women and you’ll be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:12 AM
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When women refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:23 AM
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‘You ladies’. You made it about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:57 AM
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Nah. Firstly, I’m a woman, not ‘ladies’. Second, I make about three times your median salary. Women who are young and intending on having a family need a man to prove he can earn enough to provide when she’s at home having babies. It’s that simple. Mr 50/50 can prove his worth by birthing half the kids and doing half the domestic labor. Until then, show her the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:30 AM
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Fair call, but I found it more enjoyable to just get up and walk out on a date, no matter if it was the first or the 20th, when a guy exhibited behavior incompatible with my values. Men should do the same. There are plenty of stupid, immature, entitled women out there and too many men grant them a pass on shitty behavior because they’re pretty or hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:23 AM
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You need to date nicer women too. My boyfriend has cried in front of me several times about things. Doesn’t change my perception of him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:42 AM
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Never met a feminist, huh? Ironic misandry is a thing. Google it. I’ve never heard any feminists I engage with deny the existence of false accusations. The incidence however, is extremely low. I’ve also never heard any deny the effect. Of course false rape accusation is a terrible thing, but actual rapes occur st an astonishing rate and you only care about the minuscule few that didn’t happen? Yeah, this is why women choose the bear. Imagine being an average white douse in a room full of black p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:41 AM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:49 AM
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We’re not talking about women being jaded assholes though. Also, men who refuse to take responsibility for their own behavior and choices are really unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:46 AM
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Sadly, there are so many ‘individual examples’ of men killing or assaulting women when they refuse advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:16 AM
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Not if you go look at the ask men sub, or any of the dating and relationship advice subs. Most men are attracted to women their own age. It only seems to be very young men caught up in red pill nonsense who believe this. Oh, and porn brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:21 AM
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Show me where I said ‘all men’. I’ll wait. You, on the other hand, gave a definitive ‘no men’. Maybe go checkout the sub ‘when women refuse’ and you’ll see a whole lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:19 AM
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It’s a choice to be a jaded asshole. My guy could have been after his experience with his ex wife, but he chose not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:17 AM
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Not if you want to marry a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:14 AM
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Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:11 AM
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You actually seem to have a good take on this. The problem is the average guys who want to settle down with a demure trad wife, but in the meantime believe they are entitled to fuck around as much as possible. They create the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:10 AM
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Maybe red pill dudes should stop encouraging men to pressure as many women as possible into having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:07 AM
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Elliott Rodger disagrees with you, among others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:02 AM
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Then die mad. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really care either way, but it’s men who are whining like babies over this shit. So either stop whining and keep being jerks, or be the change. As for women not being interested in decent men, I think you’ll find your definition of decent men (if it includes men with attitudes like you’ve just spouted here) are actually not decent at all, they are entitled jerks hiding behind a facade of wow is me sad because they aren’t ‘good looking enough to be assholes’ so they cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:36 PM
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Because none of those professions allow you to put your penis inside their bodies as part of their job. Did you know that PPE is offered as a WHS part of nursing and labouring? Sex is an act of intimacy, not a service. Anyone who thinks it is needs therapy, not prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:26 PM
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If you are using a word, you probably should know its meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:23 PM
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Are you saying that you believe a sub-class of women must exist to absorb male hatred towards women? Sounds like you are. Do you know what happens when sex buying is legal? Trafficking increases to meet demand. When laws tell men it’s okay to buy women to do whatever they like with them, more men want to do it. There aren’t enough fatherless, traumatised, broken, mentally ill women in the world who are willing to join that sub-class, so trafficking is the solution. The issues in the countries yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:31 PM
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Nonsense, especially number 4. A very small percentage of socially climbing women will date a guy they know is sleeping with other women, but usually only because he offers something material that she wants. Often it’s celebrity. She is using him as much as he is using her. Average women are not like this at all. Women do not want to ‘share men’. That is the most cognitively stunted bullshit ever to emerge from red pill dogma. You guys aren’t celebrities, and most women are not interested in cel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:16 PM
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No, this has always been the case. Whiny, entitled assholes who pressure young women for sex and treat them badly might get what they want initially, but it causes so much damage to those women. Some women exhibit trauma responses to this harm, or to the harm caused by abusive fathers. Between this and the damage caused by porn culture makes a lot of young women believe there are no good guys and they settle for being treated badly which causes more harm. Eventually most grow up a bit and get si…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:37 PM
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Good grief. Educate yourself before you make statements you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:23 PM
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Sex buying should be illegal. Nordic Model. Now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:15 AM
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There’s no point in arguing with me who require two classes of women to exist. Best thing we can do is legislate against them and keep shaming them for their misogynist, reductive views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:49 AM
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Internalised misogyny is a blight, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:23 AM
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You are wrong, but committed to your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:21 AM
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If it was empowering, Elon Musk and Warren Buffet would be sticking things up their assholes for cash. It’s not empowering for women at all. And the words you’re looking for to describe what it does for men is ‘created sexual entitlement’. Men who think it’s in any way acceptable to buy or rent women are not good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:14 AM
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Women aren’t money. Gross comparison. Do you really go around hassling women for sex and strangers for cash? Watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:15 AM
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Why would you want to have sex with someone who wasn’t enthusiastically consenting anyway? Only a rapist pressures an unwilling person into having sex. If they genuinely don’t seem fully keen, exercise some self control. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:04 AM
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Sounds like it works just fine. The women you’re approaching simply want something you’re not offering. You’re avoiding wasting your own, and their time. Keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:14 AM
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Obviously written by a man who knows nothing about women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:30 AM
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Men have a choice where they stick their dicks. The world is controlled by men - politics, laws, capitalism. How much more freedom do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:27 AM
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Imagine being this rude? Reported for more harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:18 PM
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And yet it’s modded by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:06 AM
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Not to mention the horrifying inexhaustible list of actually hateful and abusive subs that encourage the torture and abuse of women for men to masturbate too, but no, it’s so unfair that men are castigated for abandoning their children. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:06 AM
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Funny, TwoX mod team includes men. It’s not a safe space for women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:04 AM
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Women mainly dress for themselves and other women. We don’t dress to attract male attention, unless it’s in a relationship. For example, I will wear an outfit or item my partner likes when I go out with him to show him that I’m thinking of him, but the rest of the time I dress for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:02 AM
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Firstly, human sexuality hasn’t been shamed for thousands of years. Please educate yourself before making false statements. Female sexuality has been shamed for a couple thousand years, and who shamed us? Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:39 PM
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Worth noting that there is evidence now emerging that men who drink alcohol prior to conception can be responsible for causing FASD. Men are losing their minds over that one. Finally they may have to take responsibility for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:22 AM
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Well if they don’t want to, there’s sure a lot of them who can’t control themselves and do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:27 PM
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The more I read these kinds of posts, the more I think Mother Nature has stopped trying to get humans to grow the fuck up and appreciate the incredible gift that life is, and she’s decided technology is simply the easiest way of eradicating our species. Men can’t seem to think about anything but giving validation to women and things that cannot or will not give it back, and women seem just as obsessed with seeking validation from thousands of men they’re not remotely interested in beyond the ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:14 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:30 PM
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He could have said that in 1/8 of the time. That was truly excruciating to watch. Failed on point 2. Yes, we want an orgasm. It’s not difficult, you just have to give a damn. Most women know how to make it happen for themselves, most men do not care to learn. I used to believe it wasn’t necessary, but that’s when I was dating men who didn’t care about my pleasure. Now, I get there usually at least once, sometimes as many as three times. Very rarely it’s not going to happen, and only now, when I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:36 AM
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Thinking that porn = sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:27 AM
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Oh dear god, just the words you are using tell me you e never actually brought a woman to orgasm. Women lose interest with sex in men because men are notoriously bad at it. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:17 PM
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TIL men will do anything, including math, to shirk responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:33 AM
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Why do you assume women use sex toys? I don’t know any women in my circle of friends who do. Also, sex toys aren’t men being raped for someone’s viewing pleasure. Apples and oranges. No one needs porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:52 AM
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All good, I have plenty of secondhand embarrassment to dish out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:51 AM
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It rots your brain, as most users here demonstrate daily. It also contributes to social harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:51 AM
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What? I am not advocating for women to use porn. If you’re referring to vibrators, no men were raped or violently assaulted with women watching for their pleasure in the making of those. Also, not all women use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:50 AM
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You don’t need to be embarrassed. I’ve got a shedload of secondhand embarrassment I dish out for situations like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:48 AM
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A few comments ago I listed out some very good articles in a comment to someone else. Easy enough to find. I do not jump at the snap of a man-child’s fingers, so go do your own research and stop being so lazy and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:02 AM
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There it is again - there is no ‘subject’ in real intimacy, you’re turning sex into an act performed on one person by another. Doesn’t matter which you want to be. Sex is intended to be a mutually satisfying act of intimacy designed to bring two people closer. I’m sorry you can’t see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:29 PM
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Dude, I have a partner. Men who can’t discuss anything without resorting to this kind of jackass shit is why women don’t desire them. Behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:28 AM
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Psychology today? Lol. I prefer actual research, not opinion articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:19 AM
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Resorting to calling me a loser is the best you’ve got? Personal attacks aren’t a defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:18 AM
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Tell me you hate women and I’ll tell you why you have zero success with them and have to choose the ultimate cuckery instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:17 AM
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I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:17 AM
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I love sex. Porn is not sex, it’s abuse. I don’t ’get railed’, I have sex with my partner. Sometimes it’s intensely intimate, sometimes it’s fun. Sex isn’t something one person ‘does’ to another. Sex is an act of intimacy between two people. Implying with your choice of words that sex isn’t reciprocal but an act one person or thing does to another person or thing is the problem. It’s reductive and objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:16 AM
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27% of ‘women’ online are men LARPing. Pornhub and other great examples of data integrity look at, among other things, usernames to determine gender. And women visiting websites out of curiosity is not consumption. Internalised misogyny is a thing. Women are not obsessed with rape. Jesus there are some frightening men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:42 AM
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It was women (and not men) who campaigned for that change, so that men could identify as victims, particularly when incarcerated. Rape laws have changed a lot since then too. Rough sex and she consented are recent and hugely problematic defences to rape. When you change the definition of rape to narrow it, of course rape stats drop. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:39 AM
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Tell me you hate women and masturbate to abuse without using those exact words…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:36 AM
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Except that I’ve pointed you towards a stack of resources. All you’ve give me is a very factually incorrect opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:35 AM
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The fact you refer to sex as ‘getting railed’ says the damage is already done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:25 AM
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Changing the definition of rape and allowing men to use the ‘she consented’ defence is what has made rape stats drop. Again, please don’t try and argue with me about things you genuinely have no knowledge about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:23 AM
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Lazy is as lazy does. There’s plenty of solid, peer reviewed papers out there and I’m not your unpaid labor. Someone genuinely open to being educated would go looking. Try the resources in sidebar of some of the anti porn subs. You don’t even have to do the research yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:22 AM
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Show me exactly where is said anything even remotely suggesting that. I’ll wait. Porn ≠ masturbation. If you can’t use your imagination, or just enjoy the sensation, there’s something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:19 AM
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Porn isn’t intimacy. It’s actually really genuinely sad you think it’s in any way a substitute for real connection. It’s parasocial and mentally unhealthy. It’s possibly to masturbate without using pornography. Every time you use porn you’re contributing to the trafficking, abuse and rape of women and children. Not a wonder so many young women hate men. Porn is hate speech against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:18 AM
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Ahhh, that old chestnut. Just because there’s a few very loud lib fem idiots with deeply internalised misogyny doesn’t mean all women have a rape fantasy. Did it ever occur to you that women visiting porn sites may just be there to see what their mentally ill ex boyfriend was watching? Nearly every woman I know who dated a porn brain has done just that. Curiosity is not consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:15 AM
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So men are incapable of masturbating without porn? Thats even more sad and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:12 AM
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Yeah, it’s incredibly embarrassing. I have so much secondhand embarrassment for men who think porn use is a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:11 AM
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Exactly my point. The majority of men find women their own age attractive. People find youth objectively attractive generally, but that doesn’t mean if I see a fit young man I want to have sex with him. That would be predatory. Most men want to date and marry women no more than 3 years older or younger, because that is both normal, and a high predictor of marital longevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:39 AM
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Do you have any idea how pathetic and desperate women think men are for playing with their dicks to pictures and videos of women who think you’re repulsive? It’s so embarrassing. Men think using porn is some hyper masculine thing. It’s about as weak and emasculating as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:36 AM
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Try reading the comment I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:34 AM
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Why waste a drink? Why jerk off to strangers who would think you’re repellant if they met you? It’s so embarrassing to admit to being unable to control yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:33 AM
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Lol, ‘lesbian’ porn is made for men by men. It has nothing to do with female pleasure. Just proves that porn users really do have less brain tissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:31 AM
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In over 85% of the available content online, the first three absolutely are, in 100% of content, dehumanisation and reduction of women to objects is 100% the objective. Do some actual research before you start talking about stuff you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:29 AM
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If you’re partnered to someone age appropriate, your relationship is more likely to last, and this stupid shit literally doesn’t matter. Only little 20 year old boys think older women are unattractive to older men. The rest of us live in reality, not RP fantasy land. Most of you aren’t ever going to be celebrities, so chase women your own age unless you want to end up the sad, lonely, reject pervert that everyone avoids at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:26 AM
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How typical if a man to ignore trafficking, rape and dehumanisation of women. If the ‘worst’ thing you can say about porn is that it makes single men less likely to harass women, you know exactly nothing about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:24 AM
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I think young men who believe older women have no sexual market value are incredibly cringe. Come back in 30 years and let me know how you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:17 AM
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Imagine being so cucked you’d pay a stranger to watch another man fucking a woman who wouldn’t pour a drink on you if you were on fire if she met you irl? Why can’t men see how embarrassing their fierce protection of their mental illness is? I would be so embarrassed to admit I got off while watching people who don’t care that I exist. So very cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:13 AM
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Yes, I am against all forms of porn. Yes, I would be against it even if no humans were involved in producing it. Porn doesn’t just harm the people, predominantly women, who are abused and degraded in producing it, it harms the user, the user’s partner, and it harms society as a whole. Men who watch porn have lower empathy, and have been shown to have higher markers for becoming a sexual abuser or rapist. It trains the brain away from being attracted to and aroused by a real partner, which is why…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:08 AM
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It’s more nuanced than that. Younger women (18-25) find guys their own age unattractive, because they’re usually immature jerks who are still filling out or losing baby fat. Older guys appear on the surface to offer more - they have more money, stability, probably a proper job not a college job, a nicer car, a disposable income to spend on dating. They’re also less likely to spend a lot of time getting black out drunk or gaming and doing stupid shit. At the same time, younger women are less expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:53 AM
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Most women who end a relationship left emotionally long before they physically leave. As for ending things in the early stages of dating, many women now have their dealbreakers set, having known or being told that if he ignores your boundaries early, it’s better to just end it. Women are getting more protective of a life well-lived without a man, so unless he actually brings something positive to the relationship instead of just taking from it, he’s not going to get a look-in, and if it’s been y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:52 PM
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Exactly, and stop rewarding cruel women with attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:46 AM
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It’s not really ‘men of Reddit’ if it’s just this echo chamber. Pleased to see the majority of men here have self respect and respect for monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:25 AM
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So you don’t respect women at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:19 AM
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Well, men really need to take control of this narrative. You can’t control how women react to a man expressing vulnerability, but you can control who you give your energy and attention to. If men want to be able to be truly vulnerable, they need to stop chasing trashy women who mock them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:07 AM
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Example of fragility right there. Feeling personally attacked when I suggest that relationships should be reciprocal. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:15 AM
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Try reading OP and then my comment. I’m answering a question with the same question. It’s rhetorical. I don’t need an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:29 AM
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Do you really think relationships are all one-way? Men are far more insecure than women, despite your best attempts to keep us down on ourselves. Your egos need constant propping up. Men who think relationships are transactional are destined to be unhappy and dissatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:27 AM
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Men, how can you say you love and are attracted to only one woman and that she shouldn’t be insecure that you jerk off to thousands of others who look and act nothing like her? How can you say you like the ‘natural look’ on your woman when you have your dick in hand, salivating like Pavlov’s dog over some pneumatic, starved, plasticated, over-injected, eyebrow-tattooed porn bot with fake nails and eyelashes? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:00 AM
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I never said it was just men. Don’t date people who want you to feel bad about yourself. It’s not rocket science. That means if she says she doesn’t want you following 1000 Instagram girls because it makes her feel less attractive or undesirable, you don’t turn around and say ‘you’re so insecure, it’s my right, I’ll do whatever I want’, because that is literally saying to her “I don’t want you to feel loved or secure in our relationship. It suits me better for you to hate yourself or feel misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:32 PM
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Women who do that are trash. Why would you want to date one? If you pursue women like this, you’re contributing to the problem. Date nicer women. There are plenty of us out there with emotional maturity and we don’t see men who express heartfelt emotions as being weak or emasculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:29 PM
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What’s the point of being in a relationship with someone who can’t or won’t put in an effort to make you feel good? None. If you don’t want to make the person you claim to love and care about feel loved and cared about, you shouldn’t be in a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:27 PM
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Some emotions. Others, like anger, many seem quite capable of letting that fly. It’s interesting, two sides to a common theme that comes up on ask men is on one hand, men choose not to express emotions they are afraid they’ll be seen as less masculine for having, and on the other, they complain bitterly that women won’t them express their emotions. This is such bullshit. If a woman thinks less of you because you cried when your grandad passed away, she’s a trash human, and not worth your time. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:52 PM
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That it’s literally your job to make your partner feel secure in the relationship. If your words or actions make her feel unattractive, undesirable, insecure, or unloved, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:02 AM
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This is the rational answer, and the reality for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:30 AM
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The top 5% of men on dating apps are bots. If he looks too good to be true, he is. Don’t believe everything you read on the internet. I wouldn’t have sex with someone I’m not committed to, or someone who I have any question about his commitment to me, and 100% of my women friends are the same. This half-baked fantasy notion that women are agreeable to ‘sharing’ men is exactly that - half baked and fantasy. There is a very small percentage of women, a particular type, who will gladly fuck a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:05 PM
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I had to scroll a way down to see your age. It’s only to me with two men. One was much older than me, in his 40s and I was in my 20s. That was a wake up call to never date older men again. The other was 50 around the same time I was, and he turned out to have a raging porn addiction, couldn’t stay hard, and it was a major turn off. Current partner hasn’t ever had this problem with me. Mid 50s, fit and healthy, no cardiovascular or metabolic disease, non smoker, infrequent drinker, doesn’t use po…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:04 AM
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No one ‘needs’ to be strangled, and yes, that’s porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:53 PM
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And fetal alcohol syndrome disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:17 AM
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Nope. Just because men have a far easier path through life (you forgot stuff like people respect you by default, you get paid more, you get a prize for parenting your kids, people think you’re amazing just for doing the bare minimum) doesn’t mean I’d want to be one. A lot of men who hate feminism think feminists want to reverse patriarchy and that matriarchy means we become men’s oppressors. That’s simply not true at all. So why would I want to become an oppressor now? I don’t. Besides, I see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:44 AM
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I’m old enough I don’t have to lie to anyone, especially not myself. Thanks for assuming we’re a monolith though. I’m lucky to be a woman, because it’s far easier to be single and happy than to date a sub-par man. Men do not seem to be able to GTOW even a crumb, because they’re obsessed with women. If the men on this sub are to be believed, you’re all slaves to your penises, would fuck any woman who looks your way, and you’re incapable of using critical thinking and self control when it comes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:53 PM
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I’m six foot tall. I’ve dated short men and at my age, and with my attributes, I don’t have to settle. I’m six feet tall, slim and athletic, and even in my 50s I do not need to date short men. So while it’s nice of you to ignore the fact my expectations are pretty fucking low, I will never encourage women to date unsuitable men. Just like houses and cars, with men there’s always another one. Sorry if that hurts. Actually, not sorry at all. I’m very happy. How are you all doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:47 PM
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Dude, when I was dating last, my ‘laundry list’ was - at least my height (I’m tall), has a somewhat compatible lifestyle (I’m active), employed (I don’t want to carry a hobo, but doesn’t have to earn as much as I do), and could carry a proper, respectful conversation (no ‘hey’ or ‘wyd’, no sex talk or dick pics, able to sound interested and ask questions to demonstrate that interest). That’s it. I cannot tell you how almost impossibly hard it was to find just one man out of hundreds who swiped o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:11 AM
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Might have more to do with the choice of holiday destination than anything else. I would never holiday at a resort, certainly not as a single looking to meet men whether alone or with friends. I get the impression that a certain kind of person holidays at resorts, and it’s not my kind of person. That’s more to do with personality and less to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:46 AM
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No. It means he’s shallow and only sees you as a body to fuck. People are complex. I know a guy my age who is in a highly paid profession. His wife is younger and very obviously intellectually inferior. Socialising with them on any level is a chore, because the entire rest of our group are educated and capable of critical thinking. She’s simply not. Bringing conversation down to her level so she can participate is joyless and I avoid spending time with them because of it. I’ve briefly dated a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:37 AM
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Because they are gay or hate women. There is literally no other reason. Being porn brained is no excuse. Anal sex is particularly dangerous and damaging for women, more so than men. Most gay men who actually live each other don’t do it frequently because of the damage it causes to the anal sphincter. Women have less muscle than men, and thinner skin. It increases the likelihood of needing to shit into a diaper or bag later in life. Who wants to do that to someone they love? No one. Only men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:01 PM
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This is absolutely not true. Women do not have a prostate. There is nothing in our assholes that is sexually stimulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:57 AM
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You’re comparing going to the mall with letting someone put apart of their body inside you, and risk you getting pregnant? These two things are not comparable, and if you think they are, do some introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:50 AM
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Happiness is continuing to desire what you already have. The grass is greener where you water it. Butterflies in your stomach are actually symptoms of anxiety. Etc. Life is both short, and long, depending on how you look at it, and how lucky you are. Far too many people waste far too much of it on people and things that really don’t matter. Women confuse drama for passion? Maybe. Men confuse lust with love? Also maybe. Invest in yourself, then find someone you like, and invest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:21 AM
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Correct, they’re struggling because they’re too picky, or they never leave the house to actually encounter women they aren’t related to, or their personalities are terrible. Ugly dudes still attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:48 AM
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Uhh, men are porn addicted man-children. Thats one of the main reasons they aren’t getting dates. I see some of the ugliest, most munted, looking guys, broke-assed and socially stunted, with partners all the time. Sometimes they’re a looks match, sometimes better or lesser looking. If you’re going looking for a particular ethnicity because you hope they will culturally find your repugnance acceptable, you’re a racist, not a passport bro. Men who cry they can’t get a date ever are never leaving t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:25 AM
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Men like this are selfish and stunted. Destined for loneliness and/or divorce. Let them be who they are. At least we don’t have to date their whiny bitch-asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:52 AM
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You’re wrong and I’m bored. Enjoy being done over for deceit in divorce if you live in a state where lying to your spouse and conducting yourself in a manner that’s not compatible with trust is a thing. If not, enjoy being done over for divorce by a woman who doesn’t like lying losers, because that’s pretty much all women. Have a nice divorce, and enjoy child support. I hope she finds out early so it’s almost a full two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:46 AM
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Who says I’m a prude? Just because I think sex is a private act of intimacy doesn’t mean I don’t like sex. Just shows how much brain damage porn causes when men think having access to two dimensional sex is a flex. So much secondhand embarrassment for them. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:42 PM
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Fortunately for me, I know exactly who I fucked and had kids with. Must be really shitty being a man and having to pretend to be all tough and masculine when inside it’s just a hot mess of raging insecurity. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:31 AM
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Uh, leaving out an important fact, like the fact you’re DNA testing your kid behind her back is absolutely lying by omission. You don’t want to tell her the kind of man you are before you go sneaking around, make sure you plan to enjoy getting fucked over in a divorce. Men seem to think lying is perfectly acceptable, provided they are the ones doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:27 AM
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Then have the conversation about your complete lack of trust in her before you have sex. Give her the chance to avoid making a child with a man who will never trust her in the first place. Bullet dodged for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:24 AM
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Doing something like this behind your partners back means you’re not worthy of her trust, because you clearly don’t trust her. I find men’s double standards wild. Women are nasty bitches for snooping in his phone when they have good reason to, and yet it’s fine to perform a dna test on your child behind her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:40 AM
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It’s a lie by omission, and that’s not a great foundation for a relationship. If you’re a ‘I don’t trust you not to fuck other guys’ kind of man, you should have this conversation before you even have sex once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:38 AM
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Well before the relationship becomes serious. Certainly before you have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:42 AM
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So, don’t trust women because they lie, but it’s perfectly okay to go and do something this untrustworthy behind her back? Men and their crazy double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:41 AM
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You literally mention prison in your post. Shaming absolutely will stop some people, if enough people shame them. Incarceration is a very complex issue that the US gets very wrong. People go to jail as punishment, not for punishment. The deprivation of liberty is the punishment. Of course it doesn’t work as a deterrent for many crimes, as people commit crimes for a multitude of reasons. Encouraging ‘consent’ as the way to absolve people of wrongdoing is as insane as it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:12 AM
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Why are we teaching kids to have sex? This is a bad idea. Teaching kids about sex is fine. The problem with the current ‘consent culture’ is that it says as long as the people involved are consenting, anything goes. That’s not good for our society either. There are some things people should not consent to, and there are some things that even if you consent to them, don’t make them any less harmful, criminal or illegal. Perpetuating the idea that if we can groom society into believing everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:59 AM
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Bro, instead of replying on your personal version of economics and modern slavery, try doing some research about it. You’re embarrassingly, fundamentally wrong. When demand increases, so must supply. What happens when there aren’t enough women wanting to be prostituted to mentally deficient, evil men? Trafficking. Also, women are people. You can’t make the provision of any ‘service’ reliant on enslavement. We are civilised. Women are people. Act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:02 AM
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Something that doesn’t begin with servicing male sexual entitlement? Sure. Why can’t men do this? Women have advocated for decades for ourselves. Why do women also have to do unpaid advocacy for lazy, entitled men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:01 AM
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Well a good start at destigmatising mental health issues would be for men to start taking them seriously, take responsibility for them, and stop blaming their poor mental health on their feelings of sexual entitlement and inability to fuck the women they believe they deserve. Women do not exist as treatment for mentally ill men. Christ on a bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:00 AM
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Good grief. Sex ≠ intimacy. There’s your first mistake. Intimacy is an act between two people to bring them closer. Prostitution is paid rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:58 AM
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Because there aren’t enough women who want to be prostitutes. When men are no longer criminalised for buying sex, more men will buy sex. There’s already hundreds of thousands of women and children trafficked into sex work. When demand increases, so must supply. With no willing women, trafficking explodes. This happened in Germany, and it’s happening now in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:01 AM
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Because believe it or not, some women would rather their husband go elsewhere, because he’s a disgusting pig. I don’t agree with it, but I know plenty of women who think this way. As long as he pays for her lifestyle, she turns a blind eye and fucks the pool boy instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah, we do. The truth always comes out and men like this get shamed for it big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:57 PM
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Hard agree. Buying sex reeks of insecurity and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:57 PM
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Wow, so the sexual exploitation of women is how we solve young men doing mass shootings? No. How we stop mass shootings is taking guns away from unstable fuckwits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:56 PM
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A sane comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:54 PM
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In every country or state where prostitution has been made legal, trafficking has increased. Why? Because of demand. Where it’s illegal or they use the Nordic Model, only men who don’t care about getting caught use prostitutes. Hundreds of thousand of women and children are trafficked into prostitution and pornography every year. If that fear of getting caught is removed, suddenly there is a huge increase in men using prostitutes and you know what? There’s not enough women who are desperate, dru…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:52 PM
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Social media created a platform for insecure women to seek validation, and thirsty men to give it. Don’t feed the beast. That means, use platforms that encourage more interaction than just unending images and videos; curate your feed by using the ‘not interested’ and ‘show more of’ options; and don’t whine about women having the attention of thousands of men, then go and spend two hours scrolling through porn and thirst traps to find something to sad-wank to. The algorithms know what you hover o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:44 AM
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My options are just fine bro, and far better than 100% of the men on this sub, so… 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:16 AM
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Sounds like no women are using your penis at all. The men on this sub love telling women my age we’re useless, and post wall. Do you see me sooking like a baby. You all hate any woman who isn’t 18 and a Madonna/whore. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:30 AM
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He’s just over my height. Sorry to pull that rug out from under you, bro. Also, stop obsessing about other men’s penises. It’s weird and not attractive to hetero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:21 AM
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4, 5, or 7. Men are so stupid. I’m 6 foot tall myself, so this one is actually legit. He doesn’t need to be taller, just my height. I do not and will never tolerate disrespect. No amount of looks, money, status, or anything else makes disrespect tolerable. This is the same as 2. Duh. Unless it’s micro, you men are the only people who care about your dick size. Stop looking at other guys dicks. Lay off the porn and stop playing gay at the urinal. I earn more than him. Lol. Not by much though. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:08 AM
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It’s pretty easily to find via Google. There are been loads of self-report ‘studies’ done in this stuff. Self reports are usually not great sources of data, but when young men say they would force a woman to have sex with them if there was no consequence, I listen to that. With fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:02 AM
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You’re 22. There is no wall. Stop allowing yourself to be gaslit by misogynists. I’m in my 50s and men aged 20-70 hit on me. My partner is my age. You have nothing to fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:56 AM
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When 30% of college aged men say they would rape a woman if they could get away with it, I think yes, a lot of men think coercion and rape is just fine, they simply don’t do it because they don’t want to get charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:24 AM
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Statistics say you’re probably friends with a rapist or two though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:41 AM
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Funny that you assume I’ve ‘experienced’ all these men. My guy is nothing like this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:28 AM
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Provided he responds appropriately if I accept or reject his advances, I don’t care either way. Problem is, these days the chances of being shot, stabbed, or sexually assaulted by a man who approaches me is far too high for my comfort levels. Sorry guys - you want a chance with women? Start calling out men who do the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:03 PM
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Women need to be able to rely on a man to financially provide while she’s having his babies. If a man isn’t willing to do that, he’s got no business having sex. We have no way of telling which men will rape or kill us, but it doesn’t stop men on this sub whining about us preferring to be alone with wild animals. If good women are taken, maybe stop slutting around trying to get your dicks wet with nasty bitches for years before trying to behave like a decent, respectable man. Entitlement is out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:48 AM
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Pick better women. Everyone knows that assholes attract assholes. Like I said, my guy makes sure I finish first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:45 AM
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And yet the ask men sub is constantly full of men sad because they have no one to open up to and care about them. Women who treat men badly aren’t the kinds of women you should be wanting to attract. The sort of women red pill guys seem to want are nice, kind, girl-next-door types. Why would you want to be an asshole to them? Good women want good men. They have happy and fulfilling lives filled with love and kindness. If you aspire to be a fuckwit, enjoy being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:58 AM
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The only people who think being an asshole makes their life better are children. The kind of women assholes attract are not the kind you want to mess with. Why are so many men convinced by this bullshit? It’s mind It’s mindblowingly wrong. I can assure you nice guys don’t finish last at all. Well, maybe they do. My man always makes sure I finish first, but I never leave him unsatisfied. Pursuing red pill garbage will make you miserable. Get a hobby that doesn’t involve abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:55 AM
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I’m ambivalent about it, except the way it draws in awkward young men who are actually pretty good guys until they get sucked into that shit. The manosphere is embarrassing to men. Tying yourself to an ideology that says you have to dehumanize and abuse half the population to make yourself feel powerful is not the flex men think it is. Involvement in this stuff is a great tool to work out who is undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:23 AM
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And emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:20 AM
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Agree, but men need to reign in their thirst or they’ll always be driven by their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:29 AM
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Equality is about how you treat people. Attraction is a different thing entirely, and is usually driven by a number of things. In a heteronormative relationship, most women who want children will be seeking a partner who earns at least the same as her or more so she and the child will be taken care of when she’s unable work. Men are, on average, taller, stronger and weigh more than women. Those are indisputable facts. Men are also, on average, paid more than women, even in jobs where they’re doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:25 AM
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Oh no, it’s much higher than 1%. Are you just making stuff up to justify comparing rape with masturbation? What a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:41 AM
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Significant percentage of a very small percentage of the overall population. Did you fail math at school? Also, even one violent criminal act is a problem. You can’t compare that with masturbating solo with a piece of hardware. When did critical thinking retire from our education system?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:07 AM
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More than one isn’t enough to create a trend. Not even five is. Nor is 500.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:00 AM
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It proves nothing of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:59 AM
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Why not teach boys better? Why not nurture them, and love them, and raise them to be human instead of expecting them to stay shut off from emotions? I see all the time on the ask men sub questions about this very issue and the general consensus is - what would men like that isn’t sexual? To be able to genuinely open up and share their feelings - with friends, family or a partner. What will you never do as a man? Open up and tell anyone anything about my feelings. This is a men problem. You can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:09 AM
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Dude, there are literally thousands of NSFW subs dedicated to the degradation and dehumanisation of women for the sexual entertainment of men. You can’t get more hateful than that. Perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:01 PM
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Oh no, not two! It must be all women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:38 AM
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Wow, a woman says she’d prefer a sex robot to a man and now that’s what ‘women’ want? No. That’s not what the vast majority of women want. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:17 AM
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Mmmmm, water, air, food, shelter, belonging. None of that involves a penis ejaculating in a vagina. It’s wild the shit men try to sell as essential to their survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:19 PM
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Men believing they need sex is demonstrating pure entitlement. I’m so embarrassed for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:42 AM
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Humans do not need sex. You are literally demonstrating male entitlement. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:29 AM
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Oh that old chestnut. What have you contributed to society? I bet I’ve contributed far more. Just because men like to steal the ideas and invention of women and present them as their own doesn’t make them more valuable. Plenty of matriarchal societies did just fine until whiny men came along and wrecked them with entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:22 AM
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Sex is not a need. Air, water, food, shelter and human connection. Plenty of people cope just fine without sex. Calling it a need demonstrates male entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:21 AM
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Right? I nearly had an aneurism reading the post. Men cheat more than women, women aren’t the only ones who get divorced, especially considering most of them will be divorcing from men, young women might think they’re in a relationship when they’re not, is a far more rational explanation than that women are all dating the same men, and single mothers are made by men. I can’t even address the rest of the drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:14 AM
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Im just enjoying more women waking up to just how pathetic male entitlement is, and are cutting them off in greater numbers. I literally don’t care what happens to men like this. They’re superfluous to society’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:40 AM
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Men can do what they like. Women can be disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:05 PM
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The source of the problem is entitlement. These men need to be cut off from women. Completely. No sex, no porn, no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:15 AM
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No one needs sex. Let’s deprive a man of water for six months, and then (if he’s still alive) sex for six months, and we’ll see which one kills him. Women don’t want to fuck ugly, entitled, fuckwits. There are more of those than there are women willing to fuck them for money. What happens when demand outstrips supply is trafficking. Men and the patriarchal handmaidens who trot this bullshit out should be sterilised and shipped off to a deserted island somewhere and they can fuck each other until…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:11 AM
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You’re the one who brought up judging. Brinkmanship much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:43 AM
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You’ve got to understand this thing called science. There are studies underway right this moment that are heading in this direction, yes. That men can be 100% liable for causing FASD. Alcohol is a toxin that affects sperm cells too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:42 AM
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I honestly don’t know why you lads don’t step outside your echo chamber. I can assure you that it’s only a very tiny few red pill dudes, who are very young and don’t even need to be worrying about this stuff, who think this way. Most men absolutely do not. Not even the average Redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:39 AM
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So stay lonely and mad. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:38 AM
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Dude, there are studies now that show men can be 100% liable for foetal alcohol spectrum disorder. The wall hits men like a ten day old bucket of fish left in the sun while they’re quibbling about women’s fertility. Mind your own biology and stop projecting your inadequacies and dodgy DNA issues onto women, is my best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:48 AM
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Women their own age, bro. How embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:45 AM
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The hundreds of very ordinary people I see every day at the mall and in the city, holding hands, dancing, dining together etc tell me differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:58 AM
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Evolutionary psych is some seriously big nonsense spouted by the likes of Jordan Peterson. I’d rather just go straight to asking who benefits from the narrative? Older women don’t benefit from warning younger women off older men, because we don’t want to date those manipulative, predatory losers anyway. Older men benefit from telling younger women that older women are ‘just jealous’ of their youth and beauty because some young women are silly enough to believe it. Knowing that these men have eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:56 AM
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We should do both. It’s reasonable to expect men to behave, it’s rational to accept that they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:50 AM
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Yup. How to tell you’re being gaslit and manipulated? Look at who is talking and what they have to gain: A) Men will tell young women that older women are bitter and insecure. What do these men have to gain from trotting out this nonsense? Young women believing and dating them. What do these men have to lose by telling the truth? Young women will avoid dating them. B) Older women will say older men pursuing young women are predatory and manipulative. What do these women have to gain by saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:49 AM
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I’ll reword that for you: Immature boys don’t want to date grown women because boys have no idea what they want, are entitled, whiny, selfish and porn sick. Grown men prefer to date women in their age range, because they’re seeking a partner, not a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:44 AM
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It’s absolutely one of the reasons, yes. We don’t want to date immature, whiny, entitled, loser men with unrealistic expectations of women. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:32 AM
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Lol at ‘unattractive women past their prime’. Guess why older women say this? Because we were young once too, and we got hit on by pervy old men too, and we were groomed with ‘you’re more mature than other girls your age/women my age’, and we all found out the hard way that dating old guys inevitably leads to disappointment, because there’s a reason women their own age don’t want them. Actually, there’s lots of reasons. If we can save just one unsuspecting, naive young woman the experience, we’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:47 AM
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Women want men who can exercise self control. Any man who blames his behavior solely on his hormonal makeup is undateable. In before whataboutery - women are also capable of exercising self control. Having insight into your hormonal changes and knowing how to manage them, seeking medical assistance for problems, taking responsibility for your own behavior and health, redirecting energy into positive pursuits rather than acting out and blaming other things are all the actions of a grown up, regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:57 PM
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Why should women be judged for a man’s failures?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:17 AM
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Only someone who sees sex as a transaction, devoid of intimacy, can make a statement like this. Prostitution is sexual exploitation. Once you’ve done a decent day’s work on your stomach, letting up to ten guys a day fuck you up the ass for $30 a go, I’ll listen. Mens experience of sex is different to women’s. You can’t see yourself in the position of not wanting sex with women you don’t find attractive, because most men will fuck any woman, regardless of how unattractive she is, because men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:12 AM
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There is. It’s called society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:02 AM
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Men with experience and power hate responsibility, hey? Those tok toks have hundreds and thousand of thirsty comments by men two, three, four times older than the children posting them, reinforcing the message. Let’s blame girl children for adult men’s inability to control their own penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:56 AM
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Being groomed by a culture is not the same thing as being talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:10 AM
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I agree, but young women and girls are groomed to believe they are ‘more mature’ by pervert older red pilled guys who want to believe they have a shot with young women, so who is really at fault here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:04 AM
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And deliberately ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:03 PM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:55 AM
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Enjoy the single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:40 AM
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No, it is not a service. It is an act of intimacy between two people. You want to know what’s killing men’s ability to date? This attitude that sex is just something you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:50 PM
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In what other job do men stick their penis in your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:49 PM
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Ahh, of course, you know every prostitute in the world personally, or just the comfortable few in your circle? I’ve never met a prostitute who was happy in her job and mentally well. I’ve met thousands. I’m also capable of reading the peer reviewed studies and articles relied upon that state around 87% of prostitutes do not want to be doing this, and those are the ones who had access to researchers asking the questions. Plenty more do not even have a phone or access to the internet. But I suppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:48 PM
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You’re literally renting their body to use. Most cannot say no or quit, as most prostitutes are trafficked and have little or no control over their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:45 PM
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Women like sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:43 PM
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None of those jobs have the risk of pregnancy or STDs. Prostitutes in the US have higher rates of PTSD than returned war veterans. Stop trying to justify something you clearly know nothing about. Until every man who defends prostitution is prepared to suck dick and take ten cocks up his ass every day for $20 a go by a man 30% bigger and stronger than him, they need to hush and let the people who know what they’re talking about have this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:45 PM
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That is categorically untrue. Show me your legitimate, peer-reviewed source.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:43 PM
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I don’t fuck my massage therapist, accountant or plumber. None of them put their penis in my body. What a weird analogy to try. Sex isn’t a service. Women don’t exist to absorb the hatred of men, not even for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:42 PM
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What can I say? Some men have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:40 PM
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Yes I do, every day in my job. I deal with them often while navigating the fallout of their vile behavior towards women. However you don’t have to work in my field to call this shit out. I do it every day in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:38 PM
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Fucking a man you are t attracted to causes trauma. You absolutely contributed to her long term trauma. Prostitutes have higher rates of PTSD than returned war veterans. No respectable man buys or rents women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:36 PM
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Sex work is not like any other work. I have so much secondhand embarrassment for men who trot out this line. You speak only for your dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:34 PM
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You link to a two-bit article as your source? I know women who cry over not being able to find a nail tech too. Plenty more men cry over not having access to sex. This sub and this very thread is a prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:33 PM
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Fundamentally incorrect. Where prostitution has been legalised, trafficking has increased exponentially. How about instead of making embarrassing assertions based on your personal opinions, you try looking at some facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:32 PM
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Yes, any man who thinks women should be bought or rented is a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:30 PM
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Still can’t see it from the perspective that women are not objects. We’re people. Plenty of women go without sex too, some by choice, some by luck, some by fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:23 PM
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No, I’m not a prostitute, but I’ve worked with thousands of them. The 16 year old whose 70 year old rapist client filmed and sold her rape to other men. The 22 year old mother of three, the oldest of whom was 8, who I had to wait for three days to be able to talk to her about her injuries and experience because she was off her face on drugs when she was brought in. The 26 year old who got fired from her job when the HR manager found her ad online. The 21 year old who threw away three years of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:00 AM
1

Not having sex won’t kill anyone. Women do not exist to ‘cure’ men of virginity. Maybe try not fixating on something that doesn’t matter in the big scheme of things. Men who fixate on sex give every woman they meet the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:47 AM
4

This is absolutely untrue. There’s also a high rate of grooming and trafficking, and most women know wouldn’t touch a man who she knew had used a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:41 AM
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Could we stop using ‘autistic’ as a synonym for misogynist? Plenty of autistic men don’t use prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:40 AM
2

If men think women are able to be purchased or rented, they do not see women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:39 AM
4

Only a man could make a blanket statement like this. The vast majority of women in prostitution do not want to be there. Don’t be deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:38 AM
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Women are not some special unicorns that are above criticism. When women make choices that harm all women and girls, I will absolutely criticise them. Prostitution and pornography harm women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:36 AM
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No. Women are not objects for men to purchase or rent. The one thing being open about your complete disrespect for women will do though, is make it easier for women to avoid dating misogynist scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:32 AM
1

Show me where I said anything about bravery and stupidity. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:10 AM
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Self report is terrible for reliability, but the fact is the stats are pretty consistent in western countries for this metric. In the US, it’s 20% of men and 13% of women who report having fucked someone who isn’t their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:46 AM
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In America, it’s 20% of men and 13% of women (self report, which is fairly crap for reliability). That for actually having sex with someone who is not your partner while in a committed relationship. The stats are far worse when you consider cheating as a continuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:45 AM
1

Men are sooks, at least you could admit it. You’re afraid we’ll laugh at you. We’re afraid you’ll kill us. Get some perspective, lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:41 AM
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That’s not what stats tell us. Men cheat way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:29 AM
3

Most men would be in jail, and a fair proportion of women. I guess it would be helpful to be able look up the register of offenders before getting involved with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:53 AM
1

Ah yes, that less than 5% false accusation rate raises its pesky head. How terrible it must be to live with the anxiety of a pretty improbable event that even if it did happen, she would likely be in far more trouble than you. Unlike the very real and probable threat women face daily. Modern men are so fragile it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:09 PM
1

Thing is bro, women aren’t a physical or sexual assault threat to you the way men are to us, so… 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:08 PM
0

Awww, I must have hurt some guy’s feefees. Perhaps if men don’t want women to see them as abusers, men could both stop abusing women, and stop pretending that other men are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:01 PM
2

Well, assuming the rapes, domestic assaults, and violent abusive porn persist, we will still know what men think of women, so it won’t change the fact we still treat all of you like a potential threat until we know otherwise. I suppose the plus for us is we don’t have to listen to that shit and our eyes will get a break from all that rolling back in our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:54 AM
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Then you really should re-word your post to reflect that, because it reads like men can fuck for fun but women can’t get any pleasure from sex like we’re made of silicone or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:40 AM
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To be clear, are we saying that only women can’t have sex for pleasure? In which case you can fuck right off, or are we saying NO ONE can have sex for pleasure? Because honestly, any man who wants to live in a world where women are unable to enjoy sex literally hates women and by inventing this hypothetical world, or supporting it, you’re all telling on yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:00 AM
1

It’s too personal to share here, even with a degree of anonymity. He certainly had insecurities and fears he didn’t share with me early on, but I don’t see that as a lie. We got pretty drunk one night about a year into seeing each other and he told me some of his insecurities and fears about me and us. That actually made me feel more secure in our relationship, like we’re more on an equal footing. Until then, I thought he was a tiny bit over confident. I had shared not what I’d consider an insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:55 AM
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My guess is he’s only attracted to women out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:24 AM
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The men who don’t want to take dating advice from women don’t because their ‘dating’ objectives are different. Women usually give men dating advice on how to build a respectful, mutual relationship. Problem is, RP men especially seem to just want to lie their way into fucking lots of women. Of course women aren’t going to give you advice on how to behave like a total fuckwit to other women. Women can, of course, also give men advice on how to approach having casual sex, but men often don’t like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:34 AM
1

I’ve turned down plenty of men over the years, and I’ve never once been rude, cruel or nasty about it, even when it was warranted. My standard response has been “Thank you, but I’m not interested/I’m already seeing someone/I’m taking a break from dating right now”, depending on the scenario. Even while dating on apps, every man who inboxed me got a polite response, even the ones who were low effort, entitled or rude. Mostly the response on apps would be “Thanks, but I’m not interested/I’ve start…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:12 PM
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Vibrators are anonymous bits of silicone. Most porn involves real human beings. The two are not the same. AI is intended to simulate humans, and it is taught by using real humans. It is not the same as a piece of plastic. Why is this difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:07 AM
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Dude, you aren’t making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:25 AM
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Still hassling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:24 AM
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Nah, I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:23 AM
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AI and porn aren’t sex. It’s actually really incredibly sad that you think it is, or that it’s even any kind of an alternative. Men who take this path will be serious safety risks, and perhaps they should be tagged and monitored by authorities, because they have no idea how to interact with real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:21 AM
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Plenty of women have internalised misogyny. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:53 PM
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Oh I keep forgetting that the men who can see themselves in those statements are always the ones who get upset. The men who can’t see their own behavior in those statements can see you in them though. Thats why they agree with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:52 PM
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Lol, you think using porn and an AI girlfriend is a flex? I already have so much secondhand embarrassment for men who do this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:50 PM
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Nah, there’s actually lots of decent men out there. This sub is an echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:48 PM
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Lol, given that false rape accusations sit at around 5%, your chances of the latter are pretty damn low. This wins the award for the most utterly cringeworthy and ridiculous version of the question yet. Do men not see how much they tell on themselves with this stuff? How incapable they are of empathy, how untrustworthy they are, how disingenuous they are, and lastly, how embarrassing they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:03 AM
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What I love about my guy: - he’s stoic and strong, rolls with adversity and doesn’t easily get derailed, but he’s not afraid of being vulnerable with me, admitting fault, crying or expressing other emotions. - he’s strong, can lift heavy things and doesn’t mind doing manual jobs, genuinely gets pleasure from helping me do physical tasks. - he’s in great shape for his age, eats well and works out without being obsessive and he doesn’t have a ‘mirror boy’ physique. - he genuinely loves spending ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:47 PM
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Men aren’t dependent on women for sex. If men are stupid enough to think sex is a need, they deserve to be ripped off for their weak-assed lack of discipline. Men creating financial dependency in women is coercive control. Sadly, in capitalism you need money to survive. No person needs sex for survival. Men are so fucking dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:29 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:27 PM
-1

It failed because the men who are attracted to the idea of not having to make the first move are inherently lazy. When I tried dating on the apps years ago, I found all the men I interacted with on Bumble were passive and lazy. 90% of men I encountered on dating apps couldn’t string a sentence together, but on Bumble it was 100%. I don’t think there’s a way to design an app that does what you propose. The best protection for women is knowledge, and there are plenty of ways we share that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:43 AM
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No, he did not say that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:04 AM
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None of you seem to know what a pickme is. She goes out of her way to make sure everyone knows she’s ‘not like other girls’ and will go to extremes to elevate men over other women. BUT, she doesn’t do this because she BELIEVES any of it, she does it to GET PICKED. Pickmes inevitable get sick of pandering to men and putting their own needs last, so if you end up with one, enjoy being fleeced in your divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:01 AM
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I don’t have a husband, and why would you suggest that my guy would do such a thing? Why do you keep demonstrating how badly you understand male violence with all these ridiculous straw men? Men commit 95% of violent crimes. That doesn’t mean all men commit violent crimes. It’s not difficult to understand. Why do you refuse your use common sense and logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:20 AM
1

No, they aren’t jokes. Jesus Christ, is English your second language? Because seriously that is the only excuse for getting something this completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:19 AM
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False rape stats are crazy low. You hear about them because they’re sensational. Women are frequently not believed when they report sexual assault. They’re asked why they were out alone at night, or in an unfamiliar area, or why they were wearing that outfit, or why they had a few drinks, or why she smiled at him, or why she accepted a lift home from her classmate she’s known for years, or why if she slept with another guy last week he shouldn’t reasonably see that as consent, or why she did or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:12 AM
1

Again, nah. You’re just using one monumental dickhead to try for confirmation bias. Not working. The men who get it aren’t attention-seekers. The men who are arguing about it are telling on themselves. You can try and deflect attention from some problem men by drawing attention to other problem men all you like. It’s not working. All you’re doing is demonstrating that women should be fearful and cautious around all men, which is what we’ve been saying for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:33 AM
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Is your sergeant a man? A man who threatens rape? Gosh, what a surprise. Male violence is a problem. It’s men’s responsibility to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:25 AM
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Nah, the men who are objecting to the test are telling on themselves and women are appreciating the heads-up. Men who declare themselves feminists are already a red flag, and the guy is religious to boot. He cheated on his wife with a woman half his age, and got caught up in some sexting scandal. This just adds fuel to the bear test. He’s no different from most men. The men I’m talking about who ‘get it’ are the ones who know how to shut up and stop inserting themselves into commentary they know…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:24 AM
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Rape jokes are just one kind of misogyny, and it’s men who need to leave women alone. The bear test is a prime example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:25 PM
1

Or you know, maybe men could stop being violent. It would cost less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:24 PM
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Because men who want women to be dependent on them are usually abusive. It’s a form of coercive control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:23 PM
1

The test. Are you really not getting this? You said it’s not healthy for women to live in fear. I agree. The only thing that will help women to avoid living in fear is for men to end male violence. Smfh. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:15 PM
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Ahh yes, I see nothing wrong with telling women to be dependent on men. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:13 PM
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Nah. I’m good. But if you’re not calling men out when they make rape ‘jokes’ or are dismissive of women’s very real concerns, you’re actually part of the problem. You’re one of the men who women need to be cautious around, because the standard you walk past in the one you accept. You seem to think women should be policing themselves and men should be able to do what they like. How very boringly red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:44 PM
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You must be some kind of special if you don’t know that my sibling can also be married. Smfh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:42 PM
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See, the men who get it are the ones who know it doesn’t apply to them, so they have no need to feel offended. They understand that women can’t tell if a man will harm them or not just from the way they look, so they just their behavior to seem less threatening - eg swap to the other side of the street if they’re walking faster than a lone woman in front of them at night. Men like that make women feel safe. Every single man who is taking objection to the bear thing is telling every woman in his …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:41 PM
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And I’m six feet tall. My partner is only a couple inches taller than me but outweighs me by close to 60lb. There’s a guy at my gym who is a half a foot short than me and probably weighs 20lb less than me, but can lift twice what I do. Do you understand how testosterone influences muscle mass and strength?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:37 PM
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It’s unhealthy for women to have to live this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:34 PM
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I’m not married, and the men I choose to keep in my life get it. They’re the men who get the point of the bear test and evaluate their own behavior without being asked. Interesting you went straight to pedo from my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:41 PM
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Most of the men I choose to keep in my life agree with me. Just like the husband in the very first bear story. He got it. Why is it so hard for men to accept that male violence is a problem? You’re at risk of being harmed by men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:38 PM
1

Because I’d had a far better chance of fighting off someone who was my equal in strength and size than someone 30% heavier and stronger than me. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:37 PM
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Please show me where I said anything about women not being capable of being vile. I’ll wait. Also, you’d do well to read some stats on violent crime. 95% is perpetrated by men. Their victims are other men, women and children. This is a fact that plays out in pretty much every country in the world. So while women might be capable of hurting your feelings, you aren’t likely to die at the hands of one, nor am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:36 PM
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The bear test proves your point. It absolutely is unhealthy. Time for men to do better I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:33 PM
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And you absolutely should be vigilant about those things. I call women out on that kind of behavior all the time. Do you call men out on shitty, misogynist behavior? Probably not if you’re RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:30 PM
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It’s constantly on our minds. Every man I’ve dated ever and pretty much every man I’ve met in my 50+ years has exhibited behavior that I’d say puts him in a space that requires some monitoring/vigilance. Example - today my brother in law made some very off-color jokes at a family gathering. I’ve known him over 30 years and he’s one of the ‘better ones’ in my estimation. Every man I’ve dated has felt the need to announce his objectification of at least one woman he knows in front of me. Every man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:48 PM
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The cervix is not intended to be ‘hit’ during sex. JFC the hate for women is strong in these men. The equivalent would be being kicked in the testicles. These men are so porn sick it’s frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:12 PM
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This man does not respect you or he’s taking sex ed from porn, where the male orgasm is king and women are objects to use to get them there. My partner prioritises my pleasure and makes sure I am well and truly looked after in terms of intimacy and orgasm because it turns him on to do so. Your guy sounds entitled and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:08 AM
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Children have a right to be cared for and supported by both parents. He doesn’t want a kid? - have a wank instead; - get a vasectomy and/or use contraception; - and above all, don’t have sex with women you don’t know and trust to make joint decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:18 PM
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I guess you’re very young. When you age whether it’s with a partner or not, and you don’t fill your brain with porn, your attraction to people your own age evolves with you. Men in their 50s who are not porn sick are capable of seeing an attractive 20 year old and appreciating her objective prettiness at a superficial level, but only a porn sick loser with brain damage will think about fucking her. I’m 50 and I can see a 25 or 30 year old guy at the gym and appreciate his physique, his clear unb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:56 AM
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80% of men age like milk. Having money is meaningless now because most women earn their own. What most average women want is a average man who is trustworthy, loyal, does more than the bare minimum to look after himself, earns enough that if they have kids she doesn’t have to go back to work six weeks after giving birth, likes a lot of the stuff she likes, but has some interests of his own, and doesn’t treat her like shit. I wish guys in this sub would stop using celebrities as an example of rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:44 AM
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If a dude can’t find his wife attractive because she’s borne his children he doesn’t deserve to have a wife or be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:57 PM
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Men who are porn sick destroy their arousal templates and stay attracted to teenagers long after they themselves have aged. So much secondhand embarrassment for any man who admits he’s cooked his brain with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:56 PM
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So ‘being pregnant’ is pulling the fat grenade now? I love it when men tell me in no uncertain terms how much they hate women. I would legit die of embarrassment to be a man in today’s world. Men who think this way don’t even rank as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:28 AM
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It also belongs to the recommendation for men to stop destroying their brains with porn. No one stays young and beautiful forever, and people who don’t use porn report higher relationship and sexual satisfaction. It’s hard to find ‘normal’ women attractive when you wank daily to 18 year olds with $100,000 worth of plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:01 AM
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It might have something to do with calling women females. Or maybe we just aren’t socialised to be pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:26 AM
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Yup, and men with self control are infinitely more attractive than men who use this as an excuse to act like they have no choice in how they behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:49 PM
1

So people who don’t hold your specific, narrow worldview are trolls? Interesting. Have men who hold this view ever considered that might be an impediment to dating? Some of us don’t respond instantly because we’ve got a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:36 AM
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Boo hoo. Men can dish it out because of raging insecurity, but don’t want anyone to question their raging porn addiction. So embarrassingly transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:29 PM
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Some women might occasionally dream about celebrities and how nice it would be to be treated like the lead female character in a romantic film. Men masturbate daily to videos of women being strangled and forced to eat their own vomit mixed with urine. Who has the bigger reason to feel the ick?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:16 PM
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The study this misinformation is based on has not been interpreted correctly by people using the data. For starters, lesbian women report having had a high lifetime rate of DV, but usually in relationships with men, as in, many women who identify as lesbian may actually be bisexual and have had experiences with DV in relationships with men, then choose to date women exclusively. The women initiating divorce isn’t new information. Typically, women will make multiple attempts to communicate and im…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:48 AM
1

Ignorance of trafficking and exploitation in the sex industry is no excuse. I’m tired of hearing how cam workers are all ‘empowered’. They’re not, and allowing this level of ignorance to flourish is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:37 AM
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Wait, men’s ‘advantage’ is being physically stronger so they can overpower women. Women’s ’advantage’ is being sexually appealing to men. Right? In both these scenarios, men have a choice. They have a choice to be or not be violent and use their physical strength to overpower others, and they have a choice to not be led on by or influenced by an attractive woman simply going about her day. What the fuck do either of these scenarios have to do with women engaging in behavior you term ‘being sluts…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:15 AM
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They don’t. They can’t possibly conceive of the idea that a woman may be content to live her life alone, because they themselves don’t want to wind up alone. They think it’s a threat. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:20 AM
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Funny, I think it’s unhinged, well maybe just incredibly pathetic and embarrassing to thirst after people who aren’t interested in me. It’s literal cuckery to watch other men fuck women you desire but who don’t desire you. I would die of embarrassment to be admitting something like that. Do men have no self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:40 PM
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Yes, many of them are. Do you live under a rock? There’s a case against pornhub right now where they knowingly purchased content from traffickers who kept women in a football field size shed in small rooms producing cam shows. There’s a current investigation into 500 women being trafficked into cam work in Australia. You’re wilfully ignorant if you think that most women doing porn want to do it. Being financially desperate and having no other viable alternative is also not consent, it’s coercion…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:28 PM
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Trafficking women and girls for the purpose of sexually abusing and exploiting them for male gratification is unhinged, bro. Get your facts straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:43 PM
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Did you know that sometimes when people have interests that align with their work, they set up profiles on social media to further that work? Or are you a bit lacking in social sophistication? This is my alt account, bro. It exists to further the work I do in exposing predatory men and liberating women and girls from men who are predators, which seems like almost all men these days. Did you know you can’t be both a protector of women and a predator of them? Let that sink in, and have a think abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:43 AM
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It’s fuelled by porn. Their brains are rotted by it and most of them are seriously mentally ill, seeking therapy from sex and partners instead of getting proper help. They also all seem to feel a need to tell everyone else about their sketchy sexual preferences. Porn brains have eroded their grey matter so much the bits that contained dignity and self respect are all gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:33 PM
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Fake news. Red pill guys will invent all kinds of shit to support their weird narratives about sharing alphas and this rot. Honestly, you all need to leave the echo chamber. It’s embarrassing to hear this stuff repeated regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:13 PM
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Leo is a loser and the butt of the joke. There is no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:28 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:22 AM
0

Or you could just exercise some self control instead of blaming biology for poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:21 AM
4

Male fertility declines. Decrepit and dna damaged sperm are causing enormous social and cultural issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:20 AM
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I can confirm as a 50 year old woman that women of any age will always have more dating options than men. There is no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:52 AM
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Men don’t ’like women in their 20s regardless of their own age’. Youth = beauty and that’s not exactly a complicated concept. Most people are capable of slightly more nuanced thought, but I guess porn has rotted the brains of most young men. It’s possible to find someone objectively attractive without wanting to have sex with them, or have a relationship with them. Some men, particularly with porn brain will continually rate 20 year olds as attractive objectively, but most men who aren’t brain d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:37 AM
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Men’s fertility declines too. The older the father, the more likely there will be pregnancy complications, regardless of the mother’s age, and the more likely there will be disabilities in the child, such as autism and neurological disruptions. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Plenty of men have value at 18. This is one of the most bizarre, wrong-headed things I’ve ever heard. How sad that you think men have zero value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:30 AM
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It’s the guys on here that see complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:22 PM
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There’s no wall. It’s a construct designed by insecure men to try and threaten women into settling for inadequate men. Both sexes have fertility windows. If that’s all men care about, they’re destined for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:22 PM
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Most women I know aren’t thirsty for it like men seem to be. Women are not men. Most of us prefer to have some kind of a connection to the person we’re planning to be intimate with. Most men seem to be prepared to fuck anything. I’d hate to have such low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:18 PM
1

I already have. You’ll be waiting a long time for me to get around to explaining it to you like you’re 5. My children understand what evidence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:14 PM
2

There is no wall. Not in the real world. Maybe in the imaginations of men who spend all their time on the internet instead of in the company of actual women. There are fertility barriers to both sexes, but ultimately, ‘The Wall’ is a construct invented by insecure men who are unable to pin a woman down for martiage, designed to make women believe their only worth is in their youth and fertility and to frighten them into settling down with inadequate men. This simply leads to dissatisfaction and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:13 PM
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Dick is abundant and of low value. You can invent as many imaginary barriers to women enjoying the attention of men as you like, it will not change the fact that an average woman can get easy access to sex and an average man can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:58 AM
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They’re options, not facts, not evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:49 AM
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You are one person. Four years in the history of the world is a drop in the ocean. I can find you people who think the world is flat or has only existed for a couple of thousand years too. That doesn’t make their views or opinions facts any more than your insistence that yours is either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:48 AM
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They’re not based in any factual reality. There’s no research, study structure, statistical analysis. You’re making claims about human behavior based on a trip you once went on. That’s all very nice and you can say it’s your opinion, but it is not in any way, shape or form ‘evidence’.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:37 AM
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Bro, peer based or reviewed evidence is published research that has robust structure and analysis. It’s not asking your mates for their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:34 AM
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Dude, I’m sorry to inform you but your anecdotes are not ‘evidence’. They’re your travel stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:06 AM
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Are you looking for approval or validation? This isn’t a dating site, and I have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:05 AM
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What the fuck does this prove? I could share my passport stamps too mate, but a photo of you somewhere doesn’t back up a single claim you made, except the fact of you being there. This is the weirdest fucking interaction I’ve had on Reddit and that’s saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:04 AM
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Ohhhhhh, this is your personal experience of n=1 then? So not actual evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:02 AM
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Please provide peer-based evidence for your astronomical reaches. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:01 AM
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This is mostly pure fantasy. The only bit that isn’t is that younger women don’t find old men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:41 PM
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Oooooh, a newspaper article is rock-solid science!! 121 ‘anonymous’ porn users. Given the stats I provided earlier, I can say with absolute certainty that the 60 ‘women’ were absolutely not women. An anonymous self report. If you want to argue with me, at least try to do a good job of it, hey? Maybe men would have more luck with women if they didn’t call women crazy for being better informed than them. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:49 PM
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Because you’re seething with misogyny. Planes don’t choose to crash. Pilots don’t either, unless they’re extremists and that’s pretty rare given the rigorous screening they go through. Men can choose not to be violent, but here they are, flapping with whataboutery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:42 PM
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That’s where all those fake stats you see in pop psych opinion articles come from bro. Talk about easily led.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:44 AM
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PornHub has admitted in court documents to knowingly using cam footage of trafficked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:43 AM
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Which is still pimped. The man who owns OnlyFans takes a 30% cut. He’s a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:42 PM
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So you ignored the false report stat in your waffle. How interesting. Planes don’t have choice. You missed that bit, again. Women choose not to report sexual assaults because the laws in most western countries is inadequate to deal with it. No victim survivor wants to go through the hell of reporting if police can’t even be bothered to prosecute. It’s not about how laws are worded, it’s about how they’re used. Why do you hate women so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:41 PM
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Oh another one who believes pornhub’s stats. I have a bridge you might be interested in buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:37 PM
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Le sigh. This old trope. Given that 27% of online gamers with female names are actually men LARPing, and given the almost weekly posts to Reddit advice subs from women who’s husband, boyfriend or even brother has stolen her nudes and uploaded them to pornhub or Reddit under an account pretending to be her, and the middle aged dirtbags who upload stolen content from OnlyFans and other cam sites pretending to be those women, I’m sorry but this is simply fake news. Then of course there are the wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:37 PM
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Most women do not as OP suggests ‘go around fearing being murdered’. That is an exaggeration of the reality, which is that many women will treat you as a threat until you prove yourself otherwise. Perfectly reasonable behavior. If I know that some snakes are deadly, some are merely dangerous, and many are not a threat, I’m still going to be cautious around snakes until I know what I’m dealing with. Suggesting women should trust men until they beat us or rape us or kill us is pretty fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:27 PM
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Because most women leave a relationship emotionally long before they physically leave. If her needs aren’t being met, or if she’s expressed dissatisfaction with something you’re doing or not doing (leaving towels on the floor, poor hygiene, too much gaming, bad manners, disrespect, not contributing to chores, etc), she will start to resent you, and that kills desire. She’ll stick around for a while, hoping you’ll listen or pay attention, but at some point she’ll reach her limit and walk. By the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:01 PM
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No, it’s pornographers and pimps who get rich from trafficking and exploiting women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:33 AM
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Ahhh, misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:28 AM
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If men are our biggest predator, then we’re gonna treat you like that. If men don’t want to be seen as a threat to women, perhaps men could do something to improve that, instead of always looking to blame women for their shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:33 AM
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You must have had a lot of exercise jumping to loads of conclusions with that waffle. I’ll try and address some of it. Men are not planes. They are higher (supposedly) primates with the ability to self regulate and act on choice rather than just instinct. Male violence, regardless of any interventions, proliferates and continues to be a problem. Only around 8% of sexual assaults are even reported to police in Australia, in the US it’s around 35%. The prevalence of fake reporting said to be aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:31 AM
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Men. Have you ever watched porn? It’s literally sexual and physical violence, and men are aroused by it. Creepy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:19 AM
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Do you think it’s ‘nakedly transactional’ to only value women for their youth and fertility? In response to your question, no. Relationships are a two-way street. It’s not transactional. It’s about investing in being a couple. If you’re the only one putting resources in and your partner is always demanding sex, it gets old real quick. Women fuck men who they desire. Women don’t desire lazy, entitled, selfish fuckwits who treat them like bang maids. Maybe some young women do for a while, but they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:28 PM
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If 97% of men killed in car crashes were driving a Honda at the time, would you avoid driving a Honda? I would, and I’m not even a man. Women are afraid of men with good reason. We can’t tell by looking at you if you’re likely to harm us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:22 PM
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We can’t tell by looking at you who is likely to kill, assault or rape us. How often do you see news articles of perpetrators of domestic and intimate partner violence and family annihilators where neighbors and friends describe him as a ‘family man’ or a ‘really nice guy’? All the frigging time. If one man died each week at the hands of his female partner, there would be an outrage. In Australia about 5 years ago, two young men died within a few months of each other after being ‘king-hit’ by an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:19 PM
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We know this. 95% of violent crime is committed by men. Their victims are men, women and children. This doesn’t change the fact that when women are murdered, it’s most often by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:11 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. Women who are traumatised by men are more likely to cause harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:09 PM
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What has that got to do with the OP? Stop derailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:07 PM
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Because it’s mostly men that murder women. Why is this hard for you to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:25 AM
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Did it ever occur to you that having babies really fucks with a woman’s body, hormones and self esteem about the changes to her body? So does having a husband who treats her like a warm fleshlight. Just because he still desires sex doesn’t mean he’s communicating that he desires her, and there’s only one thing less sexy than a man who wants to fuck you because you’re conveniently nearby, and that’s a man who you’re parenting who wants to fuck you because you’re conveniently nearby. There’s a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:35 AM
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I’m 50. When my parents were dating, exclusivity was absolutely not the norm until you had ‘the conversation’. It was absolutely expected that women would accept dates from several men until one made it clear he was serious and then she old decide if she was serious for him. Big difference though - they weren’t fucking around back then. When I was dating in my teens and early 20s, you had to have ‘the talk’ and agree to be exclusive and at that time, sex would (or at least might) be on the cards…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:56 AM
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It really doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:00 AM
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Resentment is the killer of desire. If he won’t pull his own weight with the domestic stuff, she will grow to resent him. No sane woman wants to have sex with a child they’re parenting, and if her partner acts like a child and expects her to carry the domestic load, she’s going to be sexually repulsed by him. This is such a common story, it’s deliberate ignorance for men to keep pretending it’s about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:48 AM
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‘Blindsided’ is a cop-out. It simply means he wasn’t paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:41 AM
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If you want to get really specific, non-monogamy benefits women more than men. The genetically strongest sperm wins. Men think screwing around is spreading their seed. That’s a totally ridiculous proposition because unless a woman is fertile, your genetic material ends up in the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:16 AM
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Infidelity in a relationship vs imaginary competition with something that happened in the past. No comparison. Men are sexual hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:46 AM
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Simply put - men get bent out of shape about sexual things women did before they even met. Women are getting bent out of shape that their boyfriend in a committed, and supposedly exclusive, monogamous relationship is getting sexual gratification from other women via porn. Tldr - men are sexual hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:30 AM
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How is it not a rational reaction for women to be disgusted when they find their boyfriend jerking off to other women’s bodies while they’re in a monogamous relationship? Are y’all born with cognitive dissonance, or do you study to acquire so much of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:29 AM
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It’s fine for them to lose their mind over something their gf did in the past, long before she even met him, but they’re the same hypocrites who are jerking off to porn *while they’re in a supposedly monogamous relationship, so it kind of makes their tiny cries pathetic and baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:40 AM
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I had to pick a flair and none of them suited, so I went neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:37 PM
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Men who use porn are happy for their partner to use it too, because it legitimises their own use. Porn is made predominantly by men for men, so it depicts women as lesser. A man isn’t going to have a problem with a woman ‘enjoying’ the degradation, humiliation and sexual abuse of other women, he’s going to love that she agrees that she’s less human than he is and that women’s only value comes from how fuckable they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:37 PM
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Okay, so no special requests, she just sends/uploads nudes and videos she’s made. You still have a problem with it because you still feel ownership. She’s got agency though and you’re a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:43 AM
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I’d want you to know why. If he did it once before with a woman and it made him feel anxious or sick, and he never wanted to do it again, I’d be fine with that. If he did it and enjoyed it with his last gf and simply refused to with me, I would ask why. His answer would inform my next choice to either stay or leave. There’s still a big difference between what sex acts you did before you met your partner and what sex acts you engage in when you’re with them now. I’m still of the view that I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:35 AM
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If you think porn is a one-way fantasy as another commenter here just said, why is it any different if that ‘one way’ is your wife or girlfriend sending nudes to other men? Men who are exactly like you. You’re using the nudes of other women to jerk off to, so those guys who want to use your woman are exactly the same as you. It’s all exactly the same relationship interaction. The only reason you’d see it differently is if you believed you were entitled to other women and no one was entitled to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:26 AM
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It’s still fantasy if your wife or girlfriend is sending nudes to men she’ll never meet, or masturbating for them on video, or taking requests from them to stick things up her ass so they can jerk off to her doing it. It’s absolutely hypocritical if it’s only acceptable for the one way fantasy to be you accessing other women. Why shouldn’t she enjoy the attention of other men? The same attention you’re giving other women? You’re all so fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:21 AM
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Struck a nerve, I see. It’s suddenly okay for a man to have sexual expectations to force a woman to perform a sex act she doesn’t consent to, but it’s not okay for a woman to ask for a sex act not to be present in her relationship. Imagine your partner is jerking off to thousands of other women every week? Oh that’s right, you are. Could men be any more transparent in their hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:11 AM
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Ahh, it’s safe for you. Who cares about the woman trafficked and raped to make your masturbatory aid because you lack the necessary life skills to reach orgasm without 4K VR porn, hey? What a time to be alive. Men haven’t always been this weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:09 AM
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Men are as entitled to preferences as women are. Not sure why you think I disagree. The problem is that men feel entitled to a chaste girlfriend and still want access to thousands of other women’s naked bodies to masturbate to whenever he feels like it, but will scream like he’s being beaten to death if his chaste girlfriend says she expects him to not use porn. Men are raging hypocrites. They’re soft and weak and lack self control. They want a woman who only has eyes for them, but they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:07 AM
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If you’re fine with a one way fantasy, why can’t it be one way from your girlfriend to other men wanting to use her just like you use other women? Unless you’re just insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:35 AM
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Seeetheart, I’m 50, and not American. I’ve had more hot sex than you’ve had hot dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:32 AM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:31 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:30 AM
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Because most women wouldn’t do it themselves and don’t want a desperate, exhibitionist loser of a boyfriend. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:30 AM
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This is the wrong question. The right question is how he’d feel if he found she’d been uploading photos and videos of her naked to a porn site or Reddit for other men to jerk off to. Two sides of the same coin. Male and female sexuality is different. Men don’t care if women watch porn because it legitimises his own use. He’s going to care a whole lot if other men are using her like he uses other women though. Men feel entitled to a chaste wife or girlfriend who is just for him at home, and to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:21 AM
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So you’d be fine with your girlfriend sending nudes to other guys, right? She’s not fucking them, or meeting them in person, so that should be okay. You should trust her, right? If you don’t trust her, does that make you insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:10 AM
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One day I hope you get to have an independent thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:09 AM
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It’s possible to care about more than one issue, but this is about porn, not about phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:08 AM
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Nah, plenty of women think porn use is cuckery or something only patheticc undisciplined men do. Lots of women are quiet about it to begin with because when they’re young, they worry about not getting picked. Most women (the ones with self respect) tire of it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:07 AM
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You can masturbate without porn. Did you not know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:05 AM
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I’m having serious trouble following where he gets his ideas about what women are like. Perhaps he’s never met one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:03 AM
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This is literally the most ridiculous statement I’ve seen on this thread, and there are some seriously ridiculous statements on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:02 AM
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Most men vs a very small number of women. Okay dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:01 AM
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He has a need to be cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:00 AM
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Most men now are porn addicts. Ever tried to quit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:00 AM
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Lol, nah, insecurity is when men get all angry when women post selfies on social media, or when men find out their gf did anal or blew her last bf but won’t do it with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:59 AM
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Did you know it’s possible to masturbate without porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:54 AM
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What sort of sick fuck wants to watch other people having sex while having sex himself? This is literally the ultimate in porn sickness. Sex is about intimacy with another person. Porn is the opposite of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:54 AM
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I don’t know any women who read that crap. You need to get out more and meet some actual women, not the ones who live in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:51 AM
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Most women aren’t going to tell you, but they’re going to get sick of it sooner or later. They always do. Hopefully before their 50 year old husband is jerking off to their teenage daughter because he’s destroyed his brain watching incest porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:48 AM
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Why do you think it’s about women being jealous? Do you think it’s acceptable for your girlfriend to stand next to a stranger’s bed and watch them fuck while she masturbates? Would it be more or less acceptable if she hid this behavior from you and lied to you about it? How does the existence of a screen between them make it different? If social media attention seeking by women is bad, social media attention giving to those women by men is just as bad, and watching porn is exactly the same kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:44 AM
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Just look at the number of posts in this sub from guys who have found out their gf did some sex act with the last guy but won’t with him and we can see just how insecure the men in here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:36 AM
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Food is essential to life, sex is not. Even if it were, masturbation does not require porn. Next inaccurate analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:35 AM
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It’s not insecure to expect fidelity in a monogamous relationship. Next minute, guy finds out she’s done anal with the last boyfriend but won’t with him and suddenly we have a whiny dude with raging insecurity. TLDR more and more women are waking up to how badly porn affects their relationships, and terrified men are desperately trying to pretend it’s normal to jerk off to a bunch of women who wouldn’t pour water on them if they were burning alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:34 AM
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Of course what people did before entering the relationship will have an effect on it. We are more than just the sum of our choices and people can change though. What someone does while they’re in a relationship is different. I might not care that my bf got arrested at a student protest 30 years ago, but I would care if he got arrested for something now. If he watched porn 20 years before we met I wouldn’t like it, because I think porn is exploitative and misogynist, but provided he doesn’t use p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:38 AM
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He doesn’t have a point though. If a man wants to know how many men a woman he’s interested in has slept with before him, he can ask. Sure, she can lie, and I’d say that’s shitty behavior on her part. The issue here is that men are watching porn while in a supposedly committed and exclusive relationship and lying about it. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:14 AM
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No, they’re people. Way to completely dehumanise women in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:10 AM
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Please explain to me how deliberately seeking out and obtaining sexual gratification from someone who isn’t your partner is not infidelity? Would you be okay with your partner sending nudes to other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:09 AM
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Wow, one feminist called women ‘females’ so it must be okay! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:59 PM
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I love it when abusers tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:55 PM
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He’s a very lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:54 PM
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Except that it’s not the same at all. What a woman did and who she slept with before she met you might be of interest to you to form an opinion about her character, but what a man is doing sexually involving other women’s bodies while he’s in an exclusive, monogamous relationship with me is absolutely my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:52 PM
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So you agree that you can never be sure that what you are jerking off yo was uploaded, or even made with consent? If so, how do you justify continuing jerk off to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:50 PM
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Ahhh, so no, I never said that, hey? Show me exactly where every single photo of a naked woman and every single porn video you’ve consumed shows full consent. I bet you can’t, because if you’ve viewed porn, you’ve almost certainly viewed something illegal, be it revenge porn, filmed rape, stolen content or child abuse. It’s virtually impossible to avoid it, unless you just don’t watch porn. You can postulate all you like, but until you can produce evidence that every single thing you’ve ever loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:45 AM
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You’re actually proud of the fact men have groomed women into accepting being abused? Generations of decent men before you are spinning in their graves. Some (very vulnerable and mostly traumatised) women will seek out abusive men. Exploiting that isn’t the flex you think it is. Admitting to abuse is not the behavior of a leader, it’s what cowards do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:33 AM
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A female what though? Stoat, badger? You’re featured, bro. I love it when men tell on themselves that they don’t see women as human. I already got more updoots than you. Sad!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:28 AM
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Ha, no. That’s acting. You know in porn they are actually doing that fucking disgusting, abusive shit to real women, right? Or are you just really sheltered?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:27 AM
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Mmmm, you’re drawing a long bow there, bro. Do you always just misinterpret things so you can get upset? Or are you naturally hysterical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:34 AM
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What about strangulation, spitting, hair pulling? Are you all just abusers now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:33 AM
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Are you Ferengi? FEEEEEEmales.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:28 AM
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I have so much secondhand embarrassment for them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:16 AM
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Show me exactly where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:15 AM
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I am not in the habit of asking questions I don’t want to know the answer to. I do not feel entitled to know what he’s thinking about and I’d never ask. I would also never tell him what I think about. I would never tell him to not masturbate, but I might suggest he abstain for a bit if he’s doing it obsessively, if it interferes with our sex life, or if he’s doing it for stupid reasons, like boredom. How he reacts to that would dictate whether I stay in the relationship or not. Porn is a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:14 AM
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And yet you’re all so worried about age verification and privacy. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:11 AM
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Who said I was against masturbation? Show me exactly where I said that. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:10 AM
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I’m not gaslighting anyone bro. There’s a lot of very undisciplined men in this sub. It’s kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:17 AM
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Dude, you’re trying to compare pressuring a woman to do a sex act she doesn’t want to do with saying you don’t want a particular sex act (masturbating to porn) in your relationship. If you can’t tell the difference between forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do, and asking someone not to do something, you genuinely need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:15 AM
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If my boyfriend told me he was thinking about other women while jerking off, he wouldn’t be my boyfriend. And I’d probably feel comfortable telling everyone why I dumped him. Maybe he does this and I’ll simply never know, but I am yet to meet a man who thinks like this who doesn’t also feel entitled to use porn or sex strangers online, and those losers always slip up and they always get caught, and I’ve always dumped them, and I’ve never been shy about telling anyone who asks why. I rather enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:09 AM
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Didn’t answer my questions, I see. Too uncomfortable to face hypocrisy head-on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:04 AM
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Oh, and here I was thinking you guys call that a ‘preference’. If you want to date prepubescent girls, just be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:59 AM
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Reddit is full of non-consensually uploaded porn and creepshot subs. Pornhub removed over 80% of their content a couple of years ago for being unverified, ie it was revenge porn, stolen content, child abuse and filmed rape. If you were watching porn on that site 2 years ago, there’s a pretty good chance you’ve seen at least one of those. If you look at porn on Reddit, there’s probably 100% chance you’ve seen something illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:54 AM
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Some things should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:48 AM
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All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:47 AM
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You believe pornhub’s statistics? Lol. Omg. Of course, pornhub would never lie to you about anything to make themselves seem more wholesome. The most popular category of porn globally is ‘barely legal’. They don’t include that in their stats though, because they don’t want to look like the pedos they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:45 AM
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What’s funnier is that’s what you see going on here. I don’t tell my boyfriend to not watch porn. I did tell him that if he watches porn, our relationship is over. No gun to his head, it’s completely his choice. No one is controlling him at all. The problem is, men who think this is ‘controlling them’ will lie about it and so it anyway, and that’s an abuse of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:43 AM
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Women who want porn free relationships aren’t controlling anyone. I’m not holding a gun to my partner’s head. He can leave any time he decides to step off and watch porn. Problem is that men lie and deceive and then gaslight and call women insecure. The minute you send another men a nude though, they lose their fucking minds. Raging hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:38 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:35 AM
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A study a few years ago showed that 27% of ‘female’ sounding usernames in the gaming community were men LARPing. At least once a week on an ask, advice or legal sub, a woman says she’s found her husband/boyfriend/housemate or even brother has been uploading nudes or videos of her she’s either sent to him or he’s stolen off her device under an account he’s set up pretending to be her. You can never be sure of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:33 AM
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Video games are literally code. Porn is real people’s bodies doing real things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:30 AM
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Porn is sex negative. People who are anti porn aren’t necessarily religious, conservative, prudes or sex negative. Most porn haters love sex. Actual sex. You know, sex that you have with a partner? Not jerking off to someone who would find you disgusting in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:27 AM
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There’s no such thing as ethical porn. How do you personally know that someone wasn’t coerced to do it? You don’t. You can’t ever tell. How do you know that someone later withdrew consent for content to be out there? You don’t, because porn gets shared so much and so often that even if someone withdrew consent would be almost impossible to scrub it from the internet. What does this have to do with policing sex workers? What a bizzare take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:25 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:22 AM
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No one knows what anyone is thinking unless they share it. Porn use is different. Men will often hide it because they know it will hurt their partner to find out. Why would you do something you know would hurt your partner? That’s abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:21 AM
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Except that men lie about what they look at because they feel entitled to it, which robs women of their choice to date a man who doesn’t use porn. These men do not understand or care about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:17 AM
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Actually, a French study looked at the front page of the most popular porn sites, including PH, and found that something like 90% of offered videos on the front page contained at least one act of violence by a man towards a woman. Of course, one of the big problems is that men don’t consider a lot of things violent anymore because porn normalises sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:15 AM
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Would you be happy to find out your girlfriend was sending nudes and sexy videos to other men, or uploading them for other men to leave comments about what they’d like to do to her and then masturbate thinking about fucking her in nasty degrading ways? Why not? She’s not meeting them in person or fucking any of them, and she’s doing it in the privacy of her own room in her own home. If you aren’t okay with the above, why should your girlfriend tolerate you masturbating to orgasm (which releases …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:09 AM
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Masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:50 AM
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Bro, I am not doing labour for you for free. Google is very simple to use. If you want to stay uninformed, I’m not going to argue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:50 AM
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This is a fine example of treating women as human. Talk to her about the things you’d talk to your friends about. If you struggle with that, maybe some therapy will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:44 AM
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Women won’t fuck weak men. If a wife loses desire/attraction for a man, it’s usually because of something he’s done or failed to do. That’s on him. Stop blaming women for the behavior of shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:10 PM
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And in the time it took you to be snide, you could have found it. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:48 PM
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Porn is not sex. If you do t understand this, perhaps you have not yet had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:33 AM
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Yes, cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:08 AM
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It’s possible to masturbate without porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:07 AM
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Porn isn’t sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:07 AM
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I bet you have Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:05 AM
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Older fathers have a higher rate of producing defects such as autism, regardless of the mother’s age. Sperm contains DNA and DNA can be damaged by everything from age to alcohol and drugs and other lifestyle factors. The fact that many men here think simply being able to have one sperm motile enough to impregnate a woman is somehow evidence of them being superior is hilarious. There’s a lot more to fatherhood than donating a single cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:47 AM
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Nah, women leave men emotionally long before they leave physically. By the time she walks out the door, it’s so over you can’t get it back. Most women leave because of a perception he’s not as committed to the relationship as she is, and porn use is also now cited in well over 60% of divorce petitions in the US. Men who say they were ‘blindsided’ simply weren’t paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:29 AM
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Lol, every MGTOW I’ve ever seen in the wild or online is obsessed with women, what they think and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:48 AM
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Tell me how women are responsible for causing pregnancy. Do we have some special self-replicating DNA? Or are men just not capable of controlling where they put their penises?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:48 AM
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When was the last time you worried about being g sexually assaulted by a man, and changed your behavior to reduce the risk? Every girl is taught this from a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:45 AM
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Sure. https://theconversation.com/a-survey-found-1-in-6-men-admit-sexual-feelings-for-children-so-is-paedophilia-increasing-218124#:~:text=One%20in%20six%20(or%2015.1,via%20an%20online%20recruitment%20process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:38 AM
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Oh dear. Please read the second sentence in my second paragraph. I’m well aware men are victims of male crime. I also never said all women were victims of male crime. I said all women are affected by it. Please keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:35 AM
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One example does not make a rule. When women were prevented from active duty, they weren’t allowed to vote, so it’s not exactly hard to see who was making the laws that prevented women from service active duty (hint - it was men). When women got the vote, laws began to change. Active duty was one of the last to change in the armed forces. I’m not going to do the labour, I’m busy. Do it yourself. It’s not exactly hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:32 AM
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Show me exactly where I said women are never violent. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:49 AM
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That’s pretty much wheat men say on this sub, except it’s not they can’t tell, they just start from the position that all women are gold digging, whoring, monkey branches. Okay. Men are all porn sick, weak-assed loser gamers. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:48 AM
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I love it when men threaten women. ‘You take it for granted daily that we aren’t all raping you’. Do you know who campaigned to stop women joining active duty in the armed forces? Hint: not women. They tell on themselves every time. Edit: literally go hang out at your local DV court. Also, you might want to check before sprouting how women and children are always saved first in disasters. It’s embarrassing when you get it really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:42 AM
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Can you imagine having so little to do in your life you follow an anonymous woman around on Reddit because you’re so uncontrollably angry? How’s that working out for you, bud? I personally can’t imagine being male and caring so little about where I deposit my DNA that someone needs a paternity test. Maybe men should keep their legs crossed and stop causing so many unwanted pregnancies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:51 AM
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Ahh, yes, cancer affects men and women. Male violence also affects men and women. Female violence though, has a much lesser impact on society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:50 AM
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Well, when some self reports say 1 in 6 men have had sexual thoughts about a minor and 1 in 10 have acted on those thoughts, and incest porn is one of the top searches in porn sites, has it ever occurred to you we might have good reason to be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:48 AM
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I have said elsewhere that 95% of violence is committed by men. Their victims are other men, women and children. I’ve also said that the violence men perpetrate on women is different than vice versa. No one is saying women committing acts of violence against men is irrelevant, it’s just less impactful against a range of metrics, including poverty and homelessness. Women also tend to perpetrate reactive violence. Taking a hammer to a man’s head in his sleep might sound extreme, but when he’s rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:44 AM
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Why can’t men take responsibility for being violent? Why is it somehow a woman’s fault for not being able to decipher that a man is violent, instead of the actual person who is choosing to be violent? For all the red pill posturing about how men built the world, you sure don’t want to be responsible for self regulation. Kind of pathetic. Also, there’s plenty of skinny-ass guys who are as abusive as fuck. Just look at the lineup in DV court each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:40 AM
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Bud, you’re terrible at research. I haven’t been near FDS in years. Slow clap. You also missed the bit where women are the fastest growing sex in homelessness, while the rate of male homelessness is slowing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:38 AM
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What is a ‘non-woman site’? These stats come from research, which is conducted by universities and government. Pretty sure they aren’t ’woman-sites’.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:03 PM
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Because the evidence says all women are affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:59 PM
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All women are affected by male violence, whether they’ve been a direct victim of it or not. Why is this so hard for you to understand? Every woman has had to learn behavior to protect herself - walking with keys in her hand as a weapon, not wearing earbuds while running, paying for a cab or Uber instead of walking home at night, telling a friend when and where she’s going on a date in case something happens to her. Men aren’t taught to modify their behavior to stay safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:58 PM
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Oops! This is what is happening in my country. What’s your excuse for ignoring facts? Is it your feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:56 AM
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I guess you’re unsure because you hate facts? In my country, we prefer facts to feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:54 AM
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Do you live under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:52 AM
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Evidence told me. Where’s yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:04 AM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:03 AM
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We can’t tell who is violent just by looking at men. If most women have suffered at the hands of the violence of men, all men are going to look like perpetrators until proven otherwise. However, that isn’t the point of the post. It’s about how women and men are perceived differently when something bad happens to them, not about what percentage of men are violent offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:14 AM
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Have you seen how much attention men who brush their daughters’ hair get? Your tire example is just as ridiculous. 95% of violent crime is perpetrated by men. Their victims are other men, women and children. Sure, it’s not all men who commit those crimes, but all women are affected by male violence. Women are just as capable of perpetrating DV against men, but the type and extent is often not as serious, and men have more avenues for recovery because most DV incidents by women on men are isolate…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:48 AM
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Because women campaign for the funding. Do men actually expect women to do that labor for them too? Men are perfectly capable of running campaigns to raise awareness and funding of issues that predominantly affect men, they just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:36 AM
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I have eyes. I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:07 AM
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Which you will not develop unless you leave the house. That’s got nothing to do with looks, and the men on this sub are obsessed with posturing about how women only want men over 6 feet tall with a six pack of abs. It’s clearly untrue. So if you want to claim now that it’s social skills, there is no excuse, because they can be developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:54 AM
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Firstly, I said two parents and a village. The people who are poly that I know are not mentally ill because they’re poly. They’re poly because they’re mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:51 AM
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My appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:37 PM
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The only people I know in poly relationships in real life are mentally ill. As in, full of trauma, taking tons of drugs for depression, anxiety, bipolar etc, and/or self medicating with street drugs and alcohol. Most of them are ugly as fuck too. I’m sure that’s not the case for all poly relationships, but it’s absolutely true for the ones I’ve encountered. Like most generations, today’s young people want to believe they’ve invented something no one else thought of or no other generation did bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:45 AM
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It’s easier for women because a) it’s generally not what most women want and b) it is generally what most men want (if only for a short time). This means more men are willing, and women who want it have more options. That said, I swear the men in this sub live in some weird, alternate universe, where no women exist. I’ve just had a look at my local ‘are we dating the same guy’ group and there are some very dusty, average dudes in there, some of them are even cheating on beautiful women. I mean s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:27 AM
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The issue is that many men will either treat women like they’re some kind of mythical creature to be revered and feared, informed by lots of terrible advice on the internet, or they’ll treat women as objects or trophies to be conquered, trashed, traded and abused. A good rule is to not do either. If you do something to a woman you wouldn’t do to your best friend (ie lie to her), you’re an asshole and you’re doing the latter in the above paragraph. You don’t want to talk to her like you do your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:02 PM
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I do put pressure on governments to implement better regulation. It’s part of my job. Nice try, but no cigar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:49 PM
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Because some people are interested in bettering themselves. Do you get onto fitness instructor’s comments and tell them to stop helping people improve their fitness? How ridiculous. She can eat ten burgers a day if she likes. It doesn’t mean it’s not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:47 PM
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Wow, so you literally don’t care if you’re watching filmed rape, child abuse or trafficked women? Thats the porn platform’s responsibility? I guess they better start using the billion of dollars in profit they make from exploiting women to be good, moral citizens and stop exploiting women, hey? Do you take zero responsibility for other choices in your life too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:45 PM
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No, I just care about the women men love to exploit because they’re too lazy to use their imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:42 PM
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She can do what she likes. She can smoke two packs of cigs a day too. Doesn’t mean it’s not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:41 PM
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She can do it when she’s bored, but it will fuck up her dopamine receptors. It’s absolutely a problem to masturbate when you’re not actually horny, because it creates maladaptive neural pathways in the brain. I don’t care what she does - not my circus, not my monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:30 AM
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How do you know it’s ‘consensual’? Have you met and spoken to all actors and verified they’re there by consent? How do you know a woman doing cam shows wasn’t trafficked a la Andrew Tate or someone else? How do you know women in studio productions weren’t coerced into saying they consented when they were threatened with having their pay docked if they didn’t film the ‘I’m here by consent’ bit at the start/end of every production? How do you know the videos and photos uploaded to gone wild subs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:24 AM
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I’m against people using an industry built on the backs of broken women. How anyone can masturbate to porn knowing it’s full of trafficked women and children, revenge porn and stolen content, is beyond me. What kind of a person only cares about a few seconds of pleasure and not about capitalising off misogyny, dehumanization and degradation of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:43 AM
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No, does a book feature real human beings performing real sex acts? Why is this so hard for men to understand? Hollywood movies - simulated sex, stand-in body-doubles, CGI. Porn - real women being assaulted and degraded for dirty creeps to fap to. Yards apart for anyone with just two brain cells that occasionally bump together and spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:39 AM
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Except that porn use features in nearly every rape case, especially serial rapists, and pretty much every child abuse case. Using porn doesn’t stop men from acting abusively, it encourages them and gives them ideas. It is terrible sex ed. A far better expenditure of energy and time is sport, volunteering or a hobby, all of which are productive unlike gaming and porn. Porn also exploits and abuses women in the making of it, something that always seems to conveniently get left out of these discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:36 AM
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Please show me where I said masturbation itself is a problem? Yeah, that’s right, I didn’t. I said masturbating when you’re bored is a problem and using porn is a problem. Why do porn users never consider the harm porn does to anyone but themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:31 AM
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I’d say it’s a fairly big problem for the 87% of women trafficked into sex work globally each year. I guess most porn brains don’t care about that, just their little emissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:28 AM
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No. Hentai is demented. What kind of adult reads porn comics? It still fucks up your sexuality and the reward centres in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:27 AM
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Why do you think I’m a ‘puritan’? Why is your immediate reaction to call me a name that is quite inaccurate? I have sex outside of marriage, I have sex without a view to procreate, I enjoy sex. Is it that I’m opposed to the widespread reduction, objectification, degradation and dehumanisation of women and the commodification and sale of women’s bodies that makes me ‘puritan’? What a bizarre take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:23 AM
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Yup. It’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:14 AM
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So maybe if she’s not into it you should do some self reflection as to why that might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:14 AM
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Yes, porn has groomed many young women to believe that being violently assaulted is showing love, because that’s what men expect now and women want to please their partners. Most women will eventually wake up to the fact it’s not love though. When they do, the dead bedrooms start because she wants to be treated with love and respect, and he’s still jerking off to the abuse of barely legal teens. You know there’s been research done on this, right? That boys who grow up on a diet of porn think wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:10 AM
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You know the people in porn are real people, right? FFS 🤦‍♀️ “Tell me you don’t see women as human without using those words”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:31 AM
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It is absolutely not normal to be unable to masturbate without pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:30 AM
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Novels are words, not people. The type of porn that exists today makes it a very thin line to step into ‘reality’ due to messaging and DMs and special requests etc. FWIW, I think bodice-rippers are trash, but not as damaging as porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:30 AM
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Yeah, sorry, that’s ridiculous. Cheaters are cheaters. I think you’ll find that women in your given situation sometimes fear for their safety. Too many women have been assaulted for rejecting a man’s approach. Some women have been killed for it. I’ve talked with other women about this issue often. At one point it was suggested to give the guy a fake number, but then a story was shared about a woman who did just that and the guy blocked her from leaving and tried calling the number she gave him. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:37 AM
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Starfish sex still involves a naked woman in front of you, not interacting to you. Porn also involves a naked woman behind a screen, not interacting with you. If a real live woman in the same bed as you doesn’t do it for you, it sounds like you’ve trained yourself to only get off to porn. Good news is, you can change that if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:32 AM
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Then it sounds like you’re masturbating when you’re bored, rather than when you’re horny. That also is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:28 AM
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We don’t, but this ain’t about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:27 AM
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If even people with aphantasia can masturbate without porn by focusing on the sensation, if you don’t have aphantasia and you think you need porn, you legit have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:26 AM
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I don’t use toys, or porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:25 AM
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Well, you can think whatever you like, but my salary says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:23 AM
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Porn is absolutely cheating. Men who use it want the security of a loyal, committed woman and still feel entitled to use the bodies of every other woman to get off. They’re raging hypocrites, because they don’t want anyone else to use their woman in this way, but again, feel entitled to use the wives, girlfriends and daughters of other men. Men who learn about sex from porn are terrible in bed. They don’t have to try to please anyone but themselves with porn, which makes them lazy and selfish. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:22 AM
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You can masturbate without porn. If you can’t, that’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:58 AM
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Look, if you don’t know what ‘largely’ means in this context, try googling it. I don’t do free linguistic labour for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:38 AM
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I like passionate sex. I do not believe that sex should be harmful, abusive or cruel. Anyone who is turned on by being harmed needs therapy and anyone who is turned on by causing someone harm needs to be on a watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:37 AM
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It’s called sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:47 AM
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Women are not responsible for men’s behavior. The pimp who runs OnlyFans, the one who runs PornHub, etc etc, are all men. They all have the option of using age verification on their sites, but choose not to, because it benefits them for kids to become addicted. Don’t get me wrong, the idiots who bang on about how empowering porn is drive me mental, but they are a minority. The vast majority of women in sex work are there because they have no viable alternative. Men create the demand. In countrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:44 AM
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‘Largely’. Try reading again. Red pill is such cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:34 AM
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The incredibly privileged tiny few women who both choose to do sex work and earn good money from it are the only ones who ever seem to get air time to talk about how eMpoWeRinG it is. The vast majority of women who do it hate every minute of it and don’t want to be there. As a result, women both get labelled as predatory and ‘profiting off poor addicted men’ and at the same time brow-beaten by men who benefit from it (until their dicks stop working) into normalising it because of a very small nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:11 AM
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I wasn’t remotely being hateful of men. Bizarre take. I said men need to take responsibility for their actions. If you think that’s being hateful, you must be a bit fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:06 AM
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Try reading the OP. It’s about men not controlling their sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:00 AM
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I would really hate to be the version of men that guys on this sub present. You make out like you’re all slaves to your penis and can’t help yourselves or use executive functioning to make a choice to improve yourselves. For a bunch of guys who think the world would implode without men’s superior skills and ability, you sure don’t seem keen to apply them to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:16 AM
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No, most men are not low quality. It’s just that a) most women don’t aspire to fucking lots of men, so they focus on the ones they find attractive both in looks and in other qualities and b) in before all women are only attracted to the top 10% of men - no, all women might only be attracted to 10% of men, but that 10% will be largely different for everyone. I’ll also chuck in here that while some women will find certain celebrities attractive, that doesn’t mean they would fuck them. I remember i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:46 AM
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Yes, because Reddit isn’t at all chock-full of subs devoted literally to hating, raping, assaulting, degrading and abusing women. It’s such a welcoming space for us. /s Women having I think at this stage there are literally only three I know of that are women only, to discuss things like how to keep safe from male violence while dating, or to discuss how to address inequality is totally misandry and men should just rise up and ban women from having access to the internet at all. Again with the /…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:52 PM
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Wow, it’s almost like men have no ability to control themselves and his fidelity or lack of it comes down to being the woman’s fault. Gosh. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:03 AM
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Yeah, these guys don’t get that people aren’t meals, that women aren’t locks, and humans aren’t chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:58 AM
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Yet it’s always single mothers who get the shade. Where are the fathers? Oh yeah, they walked away from their responsibility. What was that about accountability??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:40 AM
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Do you think women don’t feel pleasure? That’s insane. You’re kind of telling on yourself here. I take it you’ve never given a woman a real orgasm? You’d absolutely know if you had. You might not know if you hadn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:59 PM
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Lots of women have internalised misogyny, so I can see why men also hate men, but imo self-hatred isn’t great. Hope you get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:49 PM
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They had fathers too, or have you conveniently forgotten that bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:41 PM
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Because men want to use women like that, not date them, and they want there to be both an infinite supply of women to use, and an infinite supply of chaste, virgins to choose from to marry. They get upset when they find out their unrestricted use of women causes there to be an oversupply of the former and undersupply of the latter, when they could just try exercising some self control instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:17 AM
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I think I understand what you’re getting at, but you’re trying to apply logic where it isn’t going to work. The two are not comparable. What might help to understand is that for women (speaking heteronormatively) sex is likely always going to be more than just the physical sensation. In order to have sex, she must allow a man to put a part of his body inside hers. Without full trust and consent, that’s a massive violation, and I’m not sure there’s an adequate act or thing that compares, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:33 AM
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Today in ”Why don’t women just have sex with me because I want them to?” Women are the gatekeepers of sex because we have to be. Someone has to have standards or we’d end up with a population of genetic fuckups. Oh, wait… we already do. This is what sexual ‘liberation/positivity’ has done to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:05 AM
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Approval for what? Bizarre take. I’m just saying, red pill says don’t use porn yet all these guys here who claim to be red pilled are playing with themselves while looking at women who wouldn’t touch them if they met. It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:39 AM
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This is actually a pretty good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:18 PM
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Or they could use their imagination and not engage in a revolting g, exploitative pursuit at all. It always amuses me when I see red pill guys on here defending their porn addictions with whatever crap they can. Red pill advocates strongly against porn use. Any man who uses it is not remotely Red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:17 PM
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Because all older women were younger women once, and we know what we know through our own experience and the experience of every other woman we know. Our views are based on lived experience, not projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:19 AM
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Old mate’s ’women on social media’ is a very specific kind of woman who makes it her business to bait loser men into believing her nonsense so he gets all angry and makes a total dick of himself about “women”. It’s like saying those desperate wankers who spout red pill crap are in any way representative of men in the real world. The vast majority of women on social media do not spout the kind of shit he’s banging on about. We don’t need men to make us feel small. What a crock of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:10 AM
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Lol, Reddit isn’t social media. Goes to show how little you know about it. I take it you’re very young? It’s an evolution of anonymous message boards. Social media is the trashy, splashy softcore porn that is Instagram, snap, tiktok etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:06 AM
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Why do you listen to ‘women on social media’? Social media is full of women seeking male validation and thirsty guys giving it. It’s fake and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:40 AM
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Did I say only men should do this? Lots of projecting going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:03 AM
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Marry someone compatible. Never stop dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:57 AM
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Predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:24 AM
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Firstly, it’s possible to masturbate without porn. If you can’t, you’ve already got a massive problem that isn’t going to go away when you get in a relationship. At best, it will destroy your relationship, at worst, it will render you incapable of having sex with a woman. Vaginas don’t work like hands. Secondly, I agree that there is some seriously bad shit going on out there for young people dating that simply wasn’t a problem when I was in my 20s. Social media and liberal feminism are as toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:36 PM
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The existence of pornography and prostitutes does not stop men raping women, in fact, studies have shown that the use of both increases misogyny and since both give a dopamine rush, their existence, increasing prevalence and use lead users to escalate. The existence of sex robots/doll does not mean men will stop abusing women and children, it means more men will have access to avenues that escalate the likelihood they will abuse women and children. Example - many men (boys) start using porn by l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:35 PM
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If you are stupid enough to ejaculate in a woman’s vagina without taking any responsibility for your little emission, you’re qualified to pay for your stupidity for the rest of your life. Stop blaming women for your lack of self control and aversion to responsibility, or cum in a sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:46 AM
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You don’t get angry when you hear stories of women being cheated on by men? Cheaters are all trash, but fact is, men cheat more than women..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:16 AM
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Yes. Sexual assault causes trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:41 AM
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This was asked yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:29 PM
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I never said there wasn’t. My argument is that laws do not account for individual differences. The law exists, but it isn’t proof of maturity to let some filthy pervert have sex with you. Also, for ‘consent’ to be acceptable by law, it needs to be informed. I doubt droopy dick is going to set a young woman down and tell her Al, the ways this could fuck up her life, because it’s not in his best interests for her to be properly informed, or mature enough to have the self respect to say no. How do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:42 AM
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It entirely depends on what the ‘thing’ is, and how serious the relationship. Let’s say I was dating a guy and his favourite ice cream was pumpkin spice, but I’d never tried it and he wanted me to try. His last gf loved it and having pumpkin spice ice cream together watching TV was their thing. I try it and I hate it. He gets a bit whiny because we can only afford one tub at a time and he really wants it, so I try it again, still hate it. He can break up with me over it, or we can buy a flavour …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:17 AM
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And people have sex well before 18 too. It’s not a gotcha. It’s a point that we need to pick an age, so we did. It doesn’t mean a kid is magically bestowed with maturity the moment they turn 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:37 AM
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It’s not a fallacy if you understand how laws and statistics work. Yes, we need to pick a speed limit. 50 mph isn’t equal to 80mph, no matter how much you want to make silly incremental comparisons. We choose speed limits, and drinking ages, and driving licensing ages, and ability to work full time ages, and retirement ages, and readiness for school ages, and prison sentences, and voting ages, and readiness for sex ages based on decades of research and data analysis. We can’t say each person nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:32 AM
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The fact that you think sex is ‘considerably insignificant’ tells me everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:58 AM
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My clients, boss and company don’t see me naked, reduce me to fuck meat, or rape me for money. Funny, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:55 AM
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If men want to make sure women like this don’t go hungry, they could put food in their mouths instead of their dicks. If a man isn’t prepared to do that, he’s not remotely interested in a woman’s welfare. It’s so embarrassingly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:54 AM
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Not drinking though, hey? Is that because they aren’t mature enough to handle it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:53 AM
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‘By law’ doesn’t make them mature. Law makers had to pick a number. Funny how in most states you can’t drink until 21, but some dirty old pervert can fuck you if you’re low enough in self esteem to believe he thinks you’re ‘mature’.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:52 AM
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The brain isn’t fully developed until around 27 (latest research), and the area of the brain responsible for regulating risk taking is last to develop fully, eg the reason insurance is so high for young drivers is they tend to take more risks. Men everywhere complain about teenagers being irresponsible, annoying, obsessed with their phones, immature etc, until they want to have sex with one, and then suddenly a 18 on her birthday becomes a ‘consenting adult’. A few seconds ticking over doesn’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:47 AM
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Teenagers only ever seem to be ‘consenting adults’ when men want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:32 AM
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Women with self respect don’t tend to care what men who visit strip clubs think, especially not men who then trash talk the women they used at said clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:44 AM
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Men will do and say anything to justify predatory behavior. Sexual experience and emotional maturity are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:35 AM
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Why on Earth do you think older women aren’t happy? Lol!!! We’re doing just fine, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:05 AM
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All the older single women I know are very happy and content. Most are working in challenging careers and take lengthy holidays every year to travel. Most don’t have cats. Women are generally happier single than men are because they invest in friendships and bonds with others. Men should try that sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:35 PM
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They don’t. The difference with ‘arrangements’ like this is that the power dynamic is explicit, not hidden. It’s still just as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:45 AM
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Absolutely fine, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:43 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:42 AM
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Men are not food and women’s attraction isn’t hunger. Largely, regardless of how attractive the guy is, I’d take a compliment and say thank you and move on. The only men who make it really aggravating are the ones who feel entitled to my time and attention - the ones who have to make it creepy or sexual which is simply vile, or the ones who don’t stop at ‘thank you’ and keep pushing. If you compliment a woman in the wild and she’s interested, she will let you know. Men would do so much better fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:32 PM
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No, I’m just not supportive of grossly imbalanced power in relationships, or pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:46 AM
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Because women who are into younger men are just as creepy as old men who chase 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:19 PM
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Randy Marsh says it best. Whether you’re talking about smoking weed, playing video games, scrolling social media, or watching porn, this is the best reasoning for why you should just stop. Stan: I've been told a lot of things about pot, but I've come to find out a lot of those things aren't true! So I don't know what to believe! Randy: Well, Stan, the truth is marijuana probably isn't gonna make you kill people, and it most likely isn't gonna fund terrorism, but… well, son, pot makes you feel fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:18 PM
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My cousin went bald at 22. I think what you really mean is ‘There are things I find attractive and things I don’t’. Let’s not be irrational and ageist, hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:59 PM
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Most rapists are men - does that mean all men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:51 AM
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Women are not afraid of this remotely, because this sub is not representative of reality, and only deadshit losers like Leo do stuff like this in real life. Men here do try to gaslight women with it, but it fails, because it’s simply not true. I’ve never met even one man who’s done it and I’ve met exactly two women who’ve had it done to them in my 50 years on this planet, and the men who did it to those two women both got dumped by the younger woman when a hot guy her own age came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:31 AM
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I’m not a grandmother. Why do have such hatred for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:30 AM
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I don’t complain about it at all. It’s mostly a non-issue in my life until It becomes an issue, and then I say my piece and move on. Men on this sub obsess about this stuff and it amuses me. I’m happy to continue to support, protect and warn young women off creepy old men who target them for their naivety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:54 PM
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Lol, this is a fantasy post if ever there was one! Hahaha, I’m laughing so hard! Older women have one thing younger women don’t - experience with lots of jerks, narcs and creeps. Sure, some women will fall for this nonsense, but it’s not because they’re older, it’s because they’re insecure or naive. Older women with self respect are not interested in young men. Eew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:50 PM
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You can believe that the roads are paved with gold if you like, it doesn’t change the fact that women my age (50) have been through it and are grateful to be out the other side. We know exactly what the motives of men who pursue much younger women are, and I can assure you - we are not jealous at all, because we’ve been there, done that. I think men are just salty about that little fact - we know because many of us, or our friends, got lured into dating an older creep at some stage, who thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:08 PM
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Not my idea of ‘elite men’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:26 PM
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This is interesting - I have a friend who’s a fire chief for a huge county and he’s lovely, but has said that DV and cheating is rife within the ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:20 PM
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From what I’ve see here, the dating and ask subs, no. Men will pursue those women for sex, but not date them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:18 PM
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And perpetrate domestic violence - huge stats for that in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:15 PM
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These answers are so funny, because over on the RP sub guys are always talking about these kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:26 AM
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There’s no such thing. Consent doesn’t mitigate criminal assault, as many men have discovered. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:25 AM
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I don’t think he’s hot at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:21 AM
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Oh yes men absolutely do value a sense of danger in partners. They will walk over broken glass for the hot, crazy women who fuck with their heads, and settle for the stable, sweet woman later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:01 AM
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Accurate, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:13 PM
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As a 50 yo woman who was dating a few years ago, I can also assure you that normal men from their early 20s through to their 70s and beyond find women of all ages attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:17 AM
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And yet men on this sub insist that they know what women want better than women themselves do. I guess men know everything, huh? I wonder why they still can’t get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:04 AM
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So you’re saying all men are completely incapable of seeing women as human? Good to know. I like it when porn brains tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:03 AM
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Porn culture is what drives men to see all women as porn/potential porn and to scan and objectify women everywhere they go. Normal men are able to meet and interact with even intimidatingly beautiful women because they don’t equate beauty with fuckability. It’s normal to notice attractive people. It’s possible to see someone attractive, and then move on with your day. It’s not remotely normal to behave like a semi-evolved simian, reducing every woman to their fuckability. That is porn brain. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:01 PM
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Right, because men only care about sex? You aren’t doing men a favor promoting these kinds of ideas about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:57 PM
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I think you’ll find the women who carry on like that are undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:08 AM
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Men also weren’t as lazy, entitled and porn sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:07 AM
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I’m 50 and idgaf about what a bunch of insecure men who have to put others down to make themselves feel better think. I’ve been 20 - it was great! So was 30, 40 and now 50. What anyone who participates in this nonsense needs to remember is, I was 20 and had probably a far better experience of it than anyone who’s 20 now. Ageism is silly. If you’re lucky, you’ll live to be my age, or older. Life is short, don’t waste it being a jerk. These dude-bros who think they’re all edgy and clever are so em…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:48 AM
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It’s not. It’s porn culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:57 AM
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That’s a pretty embarrassing admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:18 AM
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Scanning and objectifying women in public is porn culture. Men need to learn some self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:43 AM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:30 AM
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Pornsickness has made men objectify every woman they encounter. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:58 PM
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When something like 90% of men watch videos titled all kinds of shit like ‘see teen get destroyed’, ‘slave girl gets raped in every hole’, and defend it as ‘normal’, I think it’s far more likely that men do not have empathy for women. Women telling men to fix their own shit isn’t ‘not having empathy for men’, it’s not being a doormat to men who enjoy watching women being tortured and degraded and dehumanized. Why are men such victims? What is it that has made this generation of men so whiny and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:58 PM
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Because we’re not pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:46 PM
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What on earth has my comment got to do with your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:11 AM
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How do you know what country I live in? Gosh a lot of guys here love to make assumptions and jump to conclusions. Also, I have a partner and no, he’s not a rapist, or irresponsible, or violent. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:05 AM
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Men don’t ejaculate inside women accidentally. It’s a choice. It’s much more often not a choice for women. When exactly are men going to take responsibility for putting their penises in places they a) aren’t welcome or b) can cause a pregnancy? Women don’t ’get themselves pregnant’. Again, for all this alpha posturing, it sure seems like men are weak and feeble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:45 PM
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You don’t know me at all, and your projections are really weird and specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:42 PM
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You absolutely said these men didn’t want children and that women risked their lives for children men didn’t want. Having trouble following your own comments? Stressful arguing when you’ve got nothing, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:14 PM
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I didn’t mention unwanted pregnancies in the comment you’re responding to. Having trouble following along? If men don’t want to be daddies, keep yourselves in hand. Except in the very rare cases of male rape by a woman, women do not control your dick. Putting your penis inside a vagina, even with protection, can cause pregnancy. Don’t want to cause pregnancy? Don’t put your penis in a vagina. Why are men so stupid? We all got the same education on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:12 PM
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Only a man who can never be pregnant, give birth, or breastfeed would ever say something this ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:07 PM
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Thanks for caring, but I don’t need to marry anyone, and I’m well beyond being interested in another pregnancy. Tell me, when are men going to take responsibility for their role in causing pregnancy? It’s not like your dick accidentally inserts itself and ejaculates in a vagina. Cases of male rape by a woman are very rare, so when are men going to manage their penises? Or do we need to enact some more laws to help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:06 PM
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Why would anyone argue against child support? I mean, anyone knows the sum total contribution of a man to creating a new life is a single cell, and a woman does all the work. You want that for free? I don’t think so, young man. So many boys here seem so incapable of comprehending basic biology it’s quite sad, and very embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:03 PM
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I do, talk about rude. The entitlement of men to women’s bodies and labor makes women think less of men, and there’s a hard rain of dropkicks here proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:59 AM
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Not a boomer - seems like lots of boys here failed maths, not just biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:57 AM
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Women can’t get themselves pregnant. Seems like lots of little boys spent grade 8 biology classes jerking off to porn in the toilet instead of learning how reproduction actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:56 AM
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You don’t have to do anything for me bro, I’ve got my shit sorted. I gave birth to and breastfed 100% of my kids. Men need to take responsibility for their wayward penises, it seems. Far too many are out of control. Men love to claim their ‘biology’ requires them to act like horny, immature assholes who are incapable of controlling their dicks, or their brains. So why can’t women blame biology for this? It’s a far more legitimate scientific claim. Men can’t seem to financially and emotionally su…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:53 AM
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Women can’t conjure up a baby. Maybe men should stop putting their penis in places where they have no control over what happens? Red pill men are such cowards. They want to be all alpha and tough and hold frame and be strong, but they seem to have no control over their own penis when it comes to actively putting it in a woman’s vagina. Incredible, isn’t it? These big, strong, masculine men, captains of their lives and families, rulers of the world, leaders of all, are all just victims of vaginas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:47 AM
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Ejaculating inside a vagina carries a risk of causing pregnancy. 100% of unwanted pregnancies are caused by irresponsible ejaculation. Imagine being so completely immature and incapable of taking responsibility for your own penis that you blame a woman for hosting your child that you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:42 AM
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Women are biologically driven to find a mate who can support her through childbearing. Mr 50/50 ≠ that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:46 AM
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When men give birth to and breastfeed 50% of the children in a relationship, I’ll think about listening to this argument. Until then, women bear most of the physical and financial risks in relationships. Women need to feel assured they will be provided for because of our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:19 AM
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Treat women like we’re humans. It’s not hard. We’re not some mythical creature, we’re not above scrutiny or criticism to be placed on a pedestal, only to be thrown to the ground when we disappoint you, we’re not objects to be discussed, used, abused, or discarded, we’re not all the same. Why is this so difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:11 AM
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Plenty of men are happy to consume certain types of women but wouldn’t marry them. Sure lots of men will line up to fuck them and share their photos and tell all their friends about it, but they wouldn’t put a ring on her, or bring her home to mom and dad. You just have to look at the ‘ask’ subs. This question gets asked regularly. Smash? Yes. Marry? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:53 AM
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That might be the current version of FDS, but when I was regularly participating, it was all about self investment too - invest in your education, career and health, invest financially, lift up other women, look after your skin and body, and don’t tolerate disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:30 AM
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You will too. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:25 AM
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Sorry, but this sounds like it was written by a young man with no experience of either womanhood or mid life. I accept that you’re a woman, but I’m sorry you’re so despondent. My 20s were fun and I had a lot of the same experiences you list, but I’m also aware of just how lucky I was to still be here and relatively unscathed, given the risks I took. I’m not married. Divorced when my kids were young, so while those early parenting years in my late 30s and early 40s alone and with a combative ex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:24 AM
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Most people do, despite the tropes perpetuated by young, disaffected men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:08 AM
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I’m not offering it to you, so why would you feel the need to be so completely vile? Perhaps young men need to do some self reflection about why they aren’t getting anywhere in relationships and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:06 AM
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Oh, we still care about appearance, we just no longer care about what anyone else thinks of ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:41 AM
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FDS has turned into the same echo chamber as RP. When I left it had been taken over by young, ignorant twits, too stupid to see they’re playing the same patriarchal nonsense games as the men they love to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:40 AM
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It’s hilarious to me too. I’m 50 and they must think I’m positively decrepit. The young men particularly are amusing in their fatalism. Life got infinitely better for me when my kids started getting more independent. More time for romantic dinners, early mornings in bed, weekends away with my guy. I wouldn’t be 20 again for quids!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:23 AM
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50 is pretty swish too - you’re going to love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:18 AM
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Lololol! Oh dear. I’m 50 and can assure you that love and romance are so much more alive at this age than in your 20s. When you’re young, it’s mostly just infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:18 AM
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So it’s women’s fault men can’t self improve? Gosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:58 PM
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Women don’t have a rating system for men, because we treat men like people, not things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:05 PM
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I have so much secondhand embarrassment for men like this guy. It’s insane how stupid and uninformed they are. This is what a porn education gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:39 PM
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Does your dick get smaller every time you have sex? Are young men these days really this stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:37 PM
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My dear rude chap, you’ve never been near it, so how the fuck would you know? Didn’t your father teach you any manners?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:36 PM
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Vey young women have been groomed by men and violent porn to respond positively to being mistreated. Women with self respect do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:32 PM
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No, they don’t realise it, because the kind of men who shame women for having a normal body are the kind of men who have only seen naked women in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:12 AM
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My kids need me. I want to date a grown up, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:53 PM
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You said I was blaming men. I am. Women try harder than men in relationships, which is why when they are ready to leave they get over them quickly, because they know they’ve already done everything they can to save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:10 PM
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Sounds like you don’t know too many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:08 PM
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Every older woman was a young woman once. We know exactly what’s going on, because most of us have been there. It’s laughable to say older women are ‘jealous’ because we wouldn’t touch a man our age who was into dating younger women anyway. What’s to be jealous of?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:10 PM
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Most women I know spend around $300 every six weeks. I don’t know a woman who spends less than $150 at the salon, and most spend upwards of $250-350. Get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:10 AM
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A lot of the time, it is. Women do most of the domestic and child raising work in relationships, even when they work full time outside the home. They will also do stupid and unnecessary shit like dressing up in slutty outfits and engaging in sex acts they hate or find uncomfortable or degrading just to try and get their lazy-assed husband interested again. It’s about time men stopped acting like once they put a ring on it they could just stop trying. That’s not how relationships work. Women, inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:09 AM
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Dude, you are not remotely paying what a woman pays for her hair. Get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:26 PM
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A weekly haircut? I call bullshit unless you’re shaving your head. If you want a woman to have a weekly haircut, be prepared to pay $300-500 a week just for that because I’m sure as shit not paying for it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:48 AM
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So don’t be a lazy asshole and let it get that bad in the first place. Namaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:45 AM
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I’m sure people who’ve been studying this for decades know nothing, but you know it all, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:12 AM
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Women don’t owe you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:11 AM
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I’m not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:10 AM
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When ‘people’ (ie men and women) work with dangerous chemicals, they get PPE. Tell me what PPE prostitutes get when customers want to ejaculate on their face, huh? When people do underground mining work, do they get raped regularly? Actually, don’t answer that - many women who work in male dominated trades actually do get raped and sexually assaulted at work, just not as often as prostitutes do. I don’t agree with porn either, so you are barking up the wrong tree trying to get me with that old c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:01 AM
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I don’t do free labour for men, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:57 AM
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Lol!! You just won my argument. Being a prisoner of war is a voluntary job now? Or are you finally starting to see an equivalent for prostitution that men can understand? Yes, being a prostituted woman is just like being a prisoner of war, only the war never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:56 AM
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And there’s no other way for you to ejaculate other than abusing and degrading women and contributing to human trafficking. Gosh. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:54 AM
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No, you can’t. Do you know all these women personally? Have you met them and spoken to them and have they told you this themselves? You do know that plenty of women are trafficked by their partner, brother, uncle, dealer etc? You do know that plenty of prostituted women aren’t able to ask for help because they’re afraid of being beaten, or having their daughters or nieces threatened with rape? Global stats are pretty consistent across most western countries and around 10% of prostituted women sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:53 AM
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Well, that’s a lie. Show me your published, peer reviewed data. You mean ’the small group of prostitutes I know who come from middle class backgrounds and can quite literally choose, because they have other options’? Because the research I and many other people have been studying for decades says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:49 AM
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Look up Amouranth - twitch streamer who was coerced by her partner to make porn. Look up Andrew Tate - trafficked women into doing cam work. Yes, many women are coerced into doing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:46 AM
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Women who have accepted that horrendous and degrading treatment have likely done so because men have broken their brains and penises on porn and don’t know how to have a respectful, reciprocal relationship. So yeah, men - be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:44 AM
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AHAHAHAHAHA! Yes, because that works. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:41 AM
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What the fuck? Women accept that by being straight? Tell me you hate women without telling me you hate women. Prostitution is not a choice, it’s a last resort for almost 90% of prostitutes. Anyone who says otherwise is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:40 AM
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It’s not women’s job to educate you. Go and learn about trafficking and then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:37 AM
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In every country or jurisdiction where prostitution has been legalised, wages for prostituted women have gone down, and trafficking has gone up to meet demand. Men who buy women are not good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:31 AM
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How can you tell they aren’t coerced? You can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:28 AM
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In what labor job that men do (apart from being prostituted to other men) are they expected to accept being ejaculated on, contracting STDs, have a penis inserted in their body, be at high risk of rape? Women do labouring jobs too. Sex isn’t work. This is not an argument for legalising prostitution, it’s nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:28 AM
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I don’t necessarily expect anyone to intervene in a physical altercation, but the standard you walk past is the one you accept. Telling your friend making rape jokes to stop being an asshole won’t likely leave you bleeding, but not telling him makes him think you think rape is funny, or acceptable, which encourages it. If you’re fine with being part of the problem, just be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:25 AM
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Yes, that’s what having a respectful, present father and role model is for. In the absence of that, watch your mom, treat her with respect, and learn from both the men who do, and the men who don’t. Y’all want to rage at kids being raised by single moms, but every single pregnancy is caused by a sperm connecting with an egg. Men are responsible for depositing the sperm in every single pregnancy, with the exception of IVF. Lots of men don’t like that fact, and try to blame women for ‘getting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:28 AM
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If you want to ignore the fact that promoting the idea that adult women in their prime are somehow past attractiveness, go for it, but it’s disingenuous to also ignore the fact that it encourages sexual attention on children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:29 PM
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I love it when men threaten to leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:05 AM
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Most women receive the most sexual attention they ever will in their life before they’re even of legal age. None of this says anything about women, but it says a lot about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:19 AM
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Because men usually invade them, is the short answer. There are several separatist communes in my area that have been going for decades, one since the 60s. You probably don’t hear about them because you’re not their target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:52 PM
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You do know that people in their 30s, 40s and 50s can be dating, right? Not everyone my age is married for 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:15 PM
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I am 50 and still get sexual attention from men of all ages from teenagers through to old men. The concept being referred to is the point at which a woman’s fertility starts to decline. It’s a repellant, misogynist word and young men should know it makes them sound vile when they use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:59 PM
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Yep. It’s such mental gymnastics trying to justify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:36 AM
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That is patently untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:38 PM
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This is a prime example of porn culture. Turned off by normal women because your ideal is an u realistic standard. Now if you’d just said you’re more attracted to women who are naturally thin, it wouldn’t have sounded quite so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:08 PM
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Oh well then, everything is okay. /s Men also hate fuck women and masturbate to abuse. Men behave in a way that makes women think men hate or are disgusted by them, but because men still want to fuck them, women should just get over it? Do you know how entitled, narcissistic, even sociopathic that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:06 PM
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It’s disgusting and depraved that men get off to literally destroying women. Why would any woman want to be near a guy who gets off to that? It’s sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:03 PM
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It’s not insecure to have a problem with a man who claims to want a monogamous relationship but invests time in a secret sexual relationship with other women. That’s literally what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:02 PM
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So maybe stop watching porn? Men are rotting their brains with it. Not a wonder women don’t want to touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:01 PM
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No. Keep listening to the terrible advice peddled by 18-20 year old Elliot Roger/Andrew Tate affectionados who’s only contact with a woman and/or vagina was their birth. Those dudes who’ve never dated or had sex with a woman are the definitive authority, and actual women, who date actual men and have a dance card with more than one set on it clearly know nothing at all about what women want. /s You absolutely want to listen to the guys with zero success, not the women who are dating men right th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:37 PM
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It’s popularity says nothing about women, western or otherwise. In answer to your second question, the world is like this because technology has made parasocial relationships accessible, affordable and anonymous. It’s only going to be a decade or two before the widespread harm is noticed and then they’ll start measuring it and trying to find a way to undo it. People need to belong. Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:39 AM
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It’s parasocial. Anyone with any kind of aspiration towards having a real relationships should avoid it, just like porn. It will fuck up your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:13 AM
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What benefits my kids the most is me being happy and well-adjusted. I stayed single for a long time after my marriage ended, then I realised my kids needed to have ‘how to have and handle relationships’ modelled, so I started dating again. They’ve seen me walk away from disrespectful treatment, which has been a far better learning opportunity than staying in a miserable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:58 PM
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Virginity isn’t a problem that needs to be cured or fixed. Lying is not a good foundation for any kind of relationship. This sub has a disproportionately high concentration of socially awkward young men in it. It’s not representative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:55 PM
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Misogyny has been dressed up as liberation for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:10 PM
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I’ll accept your moderation, but ‘freely given’ also means without incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:49 AM
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Dude, I’m not going to click on one single unexplained link. No explanation of what it is? Not going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:33 AM
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Then don’t expect women to ‘just pick better’. If your reaction to anything you don’t like is to encourage men to lie, you’re encouraging all men to be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:28 AM
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Sorry - honestly, how is this trolling? It’s literally a basis of law.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:25 AM
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Most prostitutes are not there by choice. Please do not misrepresent the truth to suit your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:24 AM
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This sub is, again, going to blame women for men’s behavior? Why should I stay single because my marriage (involving two people) failed? Nah. Do better. Hold men to a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:23 AM
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Plenty of kids of single moms have an involved and present father. Shared care is the norm these days. I don’t know any women who are looking for a man to raise someone else’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:35 AM
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Uh, not near the bottom of the food chain, sorry. Plenty of single moms I know earn well into six figures. Some are widowed, some are by design. The fact is men on this sub assume all single moms are young and easy and stupid, and they’re the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:33 AM
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Yes because lying is such a great foundation for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:19 AM
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Yours, sure. Plenty of prostitutes are not doing it by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:18 AM
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Do you mean ‘you’? Or are you speaking for trafficked women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:17 AM
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The eradication of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:39 AM
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Uh, yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:35 AM
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Payment negates consent. Consent must be given freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:34 AM
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Is it dishonourable to stick your dick inside a woman who isn’t attracted to you and doesn’t like you and wouldn’t let you do it for any other reason than she needs money? Yeah, it is. It’s putting his penis before her dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:19 AM
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You’re just masturbating using someone else body instead of your hand. You won’t learn anything about female pleasure, because it’s not the objective. You will also likely turn off a good proportion of women who would otherwise have dated you because you’ve now paid for sex, which tells women you see it as a service or transaction, not an act of intimacy. You’ve just more than halved your chances of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:16 AM
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Totally agree. It’s not like she doesn’t have access to the best healthcare, round the clock support, housekeeping, chef etc, etc. It’s easy to talk the talk when someone else is doing the walking. However, on the whole more men leave or cheat on their wives when sick than women, so it’s not an unreasonable observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:10 AM
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And ensuring the decent women avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:08 AM
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It’s not hate or bitterness. I think that’s male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:00 AM
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And so many of them are here, as an ‘authority’ on what to do/not to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:56 PM
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It’s readily available, affordable (mostly free) and anonymous. The perfect storm. Imagine if anything that was addictive or bad for your brain met those three criteria? It’s also not something your brain or body has an off-switch for. With drugs and alcohol you can black out or die, gambling you will lose your financial resources and stability. With porn there’s no off-switch to shut you down, so most just get more and more immersed in it. Reminds me of the Randy Marsh monologue to Stan on Sout…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:22 PM
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Monogamous sex with a long term partner only becomes boring if you are constantly aware of or seeking novelty elsewhere. Also, I’d become I attracted to my partner if he wasn’t tending to my needs too. I think a lot of women who lose attraction for their partner do so because he’s made himself unattractive - become lazy, inattentive, sexually selfish, doesn’t participate in family, doesn’t share the domestic load etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:13 PM
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Those women fucking Tate are looking for attention. For some idiots, any attention is good attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:08 PM
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AHAHAHAHAHA, omg, you aren’t Andrew Tate, nor is any guy in this sub, and I would die of secondhand embarrassment if any man I knew held him up to be something to aspire to!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:31 AM
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Oh, so women have to be forced into relationships they don’t want so that what, you can prove some stupid narrative? If it helps, my bf is unemployed at present, and it would never occur to me to dump him for that. Make it that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:29 AM
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I never said some women don’t. Red pill wants men to believe all women are falling over themselves for a pice of one rich dick, which is absolutely untrue. It’s embarrassing and laughable that men want to perpetuate this idea. It’s even worse that they thing women will be crawling over each other to share a piece of one average, mediocre dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:26 AM
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I didn’t make a Freudian slip bro. Also, being human, I don’t have a tail. What a weird thing to say. I’m also not going to do research labor for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:22 AM
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In which case, plenty of men belong to the harems of women too. Men are prepared to share one woman who is screwing all of them and using them to pay her bills. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:19 AM
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A million dollars isn’t rich. The women saying that must be very young, or bad at math. Still, they’re only prepared to do it to get something out of it short term. Besides weird cults and seriously mentally ill/traumatised folk, no one in their right mind does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:15 AM
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Ffs, women are not cars. What the hell is wrong with the men on this sub??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:13 AM
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So do many men. If you want to end it, cancel the internet. No one on Reddit seems particularly perturbed by the rampant posting of non consensually shared sexual content, or the sexualisation of women without their knowledge or consent via creepshots, but I guess that’s mostly women, and they don’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:12 AM
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Interesting h so many men here assume it’s about slamming men publicly. Projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:09 AM
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Oh, a survey. Lowest form of data. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:08 AM
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Do whatever you want. Expect to be judged and laughed at for it, because you will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:39 AM
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Women are not suitcases of money. WTAF?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:38 AM
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Only to emotionally stunted, porn sick men. It’s a win, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:36 AM
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Ahahahahaha, are you serious? Then I’ve got terrible news for you bro. More men are willing to be shared by one woman than the other way around, going on second marriage stats. Lol. I’m dying of laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:22 AM
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And I have no way of knowing if John actually punched my friend’s cousin in the gut either, but that’s what she told me and six other women over lunch last week. I don’t have to believe anything anyone else says, not my friend, not some social media group, not even Fox News.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:20 AM
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Yes, one example. Oooh. And so the women aren’t well-known, but I bet they’re working on that. Kind of proves my point. I don’t even understand your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:15 AM
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And I can assure you that taking your ‘facts and stats’ from pornhub isn’t going to make you any more credible when you back it up with ‘I have sisters’. Did you know that 27% of ‘women’ online gamers are actually men larping? That there’s a reason why porn sites don’t release their data on how long ‘women’ with female-sounding usernames or those who’ve checked the gender box actually spend on the site? Plenty of women will go and look out of curiosity, or look to see what their partners are wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:12 AM
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I haven’t been in one of these groups for a very long time, but yes, in essence I’ve seen them moderated heavily. Pile-ons get deleted and the women get kicked out. It’s about keeping women safe, not bad-mouthing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:01 AM
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Try re-reading my comment again. The very tiny number of women who will fuck a guy who’s fucking other women do it, usually only for a short time, to get something. Eg her name in the entertainment news, followers on social media etc. She’s not doing it because he’s irresistible, she’s doing it to be a social climber. How stupid do people have to be to believe that Jane from accounting is going to happily share Mark from corporate with anyone else? Or Sue who works checkout is going to share Dav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:00 AM
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He’s put a public photo on a dating site, with his first name. He’s inviting women to discuss him because that’s often exactly what people do. Men have the exact same groups. What’s in the public domain yadda yadda. The only person who should be worried is someone who knows they’re a lying, cheating scumbag. I could care less if my guy had vetted me like this, because I don’t fuck around, I don’t play games. The only guy who is going to trash talk me is incredibly unstable and if anyone is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:55 AM
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There are absolutely groups like this run by men. Why on earth would you think there weren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:51 AM
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You know men have these groups too, right? “Are we dating the same home wrecker?” Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:50 AM
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No idea who that is, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:49 AM
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That’s factually incorrect, but keep taking your education from porn sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:49 AM
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I haven’t done any such thing, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:49 AM
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The problem is, you assume that women will be as vicious, disgusting and sexist as men who also have these groups. We’re not. The women who make derogatory comments about men’s looks get kicked out. The dialogue is limited to ‘is he already in a relationship, is he an abuser, does he have charges against him, etc’ and anything bitchy gets deleted and repeated offenders are kicked out. The only men who object to this are men who know they’re assholes and don’t want to get found out. Decent guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:48 AM
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By asking other women who might know him? Why does the Internet change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:42 AM
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No, your response is a perfect example of why young red pill men fail at dating. What’s one of the basic rp tenets - you can’t negotiate desire. She’s either attracted to you or not, and no amount or lack of money will change that. And again for the dudes who don’t seem to get it, women (at least those with self respect) will not share a man. Those that do it are calculating and it’s temporary. Stop letting porn fantasies dictate your dating aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:41 AM
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Are you a child? You clearly know nothing about this subject except what you’ve seen on Reddit, which isn’t exactly a bastion of truth and robust evidence. I’ve been studying this stuff and working with prostituted women longer than you’ve likely been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:32 PM
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Women can post a dating app photo and name or real first name of a guy they’ve matched with or are dating and either ask for information from the group eg if he’s still dating others, is married, has a violence order or other charges against him, or if someone else has dated him and whether they can give helpful info, or they can post (with permission from the man) men they know personally they can vouch for as being decent. The idea is mainly to help women avoid serial cheaters and domestic abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:31 PM
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That’s why women have set up social media groups to help each other avoid dating the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:48 PM
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Neither. I’d rather have a man I’m attracted to, who respects me, regardless of his profession. Also, please stop with the ‘women will share a man’ nonsense. They won’t. There’s a very tiny percentage of women willing to fuck the same guy for a short period of time if he will help get her something she wants, like followers on social media. There are thousands of social media groups all over the world, in every city, set up to help women avoid dating the same assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:47 PM
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I am well aware of the number and type of men who use prostitutes. It’s part of my field of ongoing research.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:26 PM
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Only for people who lack intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:46 AM
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Wow, not having sex is worse than the risk of pregnancy? Lol. Most women fare worse financially after a divorce than men. Don’t be dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:44 AM
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Reddit is famous for creepshots and revenge porn. It’s the main appeal and anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:46 AM
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Same. I find it so weird that the presence of a screen is all it takes for some people to forget reality. Would they be okay if he was stroking it to a woman gyrating in the bedroom? Bouncing up and down, literally over (but not onto) his erect penis? It’s so nasty. ‘It’s just porn’ is such a cop-out. No, it’s a real woman. They’re real sex acts. It’s often real rape, violence and abuse. How any woman with an ounce of self respect can be okay with this disrespectful bullshit is fully beyond me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:44 AM
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The problem is, you’ll always get low self esteem pickmes who get validation from giving it up to any loser who shows interest, and you’ll always have high quality men who define themselves through their ability to provide. The other big part of your proposition is that men should never pay 100% for a date. In my view, that makes a man completely undateable and unmarriageable (talking specifically about young people who are dating with a view to marriage/kids). Women take the biggest risk in rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:27 AM
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If you don’t want other men jerking off to her, why is it okay for you to jerk off to other women? It’s raging hypocrisy. She’s meant to only share sexual energy with you, but you can share yours with thousands of others? Nuh uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:03 AM
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It gasses me he’s looking for porn to avoid a ‘porn maker’ in a relationship. Mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:01 AM
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Unless it’s revenge porn/stolen content and she didn’t post it. Happens a thousand times a day on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:00 AM
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How do you know she posted them? There’s dozens of ask and advice posts every week from women who have had their nudes stolen or posted without their consent, and they’re just the ones who are users of Reddit. If you find them online and look at them, you’re participating in revenge porn. How do you know they aren’t deepfakes? Plenty of issues with that lately. I am divided on this. One the one hand, if there was a way of filtering out men who used porn/had an account on OnlyFans or visited pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:57 AM
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It’s a big industry, but the people making money are mostly not the ‘workers’. It’s big porn producers, celebrity porn accounts, big hosting sites like pornhub, and then Megan brother owners. The average prostitute isn’t making bank. It’s not the world’s oldest profession. Historically prostitutes were slaves. The oldest profession for women is midwifery. While some men might see using prostitutes as an ‘alternative’ to a relationship, or a way to have some needs met while they aren’t ready for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:17 AM
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Firstly, Two X is heavily modded by men. It’s lib fem nonsense. Secondly when you use phrases like ‘how to get women’ like half the population are a prize for acting like you’re half human, or like women are a level in a video game that simply needs to be achieved, yes, it makes you sound like a sociopath. The vast majority of porn does not show you what naked women look like. It shows you what naked porn stars look like. They do not look like most women. It is totally normal to be curious, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:30 AM
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For all the people with sight, we notice attractive people. No one is saying you aren’t allowed to notice a man or woman who is physically appealing. No one can get in your head and know what you’re thinking about anyone you see in any aspect of life. The things is that almost all the women I know will keep their opinions on who they find attractive to themselves, or only discuss it in the company of their women friends. Women who don’t keep it to themselves are usually young and trash-mouthed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:47 AM
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All of those are problematic except 3. Want to know why? Because she’s actually making that choice for herself, not some swamp-assed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:34 AM
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In my view, yes. I know loads of women in their 20s-60s who are in great shape with men who are absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:32 AM
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Nailed it. Of course men (young or old) don’t want young women to listen to older women. Most older women feel no need to impress anyone, and will tell it straight. We’re not jealous, that’s hilarious. We’re relieved. We’re no longer staring down the barrel of years of forcing ourselves into smaller shapes to be more attractive, less intelligent and threatening, more acceptable, take up less space. We’ve done all that stupid shit, and we no longer care about the needs or desires of men. We care …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:34 PM
3

‘Escorts and strip clubs’. Try reading the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:43 AM
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Where prostitution has been legalized, trafficking has increased to meet demand. There’s simply not enough women actually willing to degrade themselves by catering sexually to unattractive, undateable men. What a lot of young men don’t seem to realise is, if they turn to using prostitutes or visiting strip clubs to ‘cure’ themselves of virginity or loneliness, they still don’t know how to behave around women who aren’t being paid to simp for them, and if and when they do meet a woman in the wild…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:38 AM
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The difference between a 17 and 18 year old is a matter of seconds. No one is magically bestowed the knowledge, experience and maturity to make good choices on the day of their 18th birthday, so a man in his 30s, 40s or older calling one a child and the other a ‘fully consenting adult’ is absolute nonsense, and puts him as a predator. The only thing stopping him going younger is clearly the law. It’s possible for people to meet and form attractions, sure, but the action of an older man going loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:33 AM
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No. Most women want to bring home a guy who treats them well, because that’s what her parents are going to judge him on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:33 AM
1

Do 1 and 3, but not all the time. Absolutely do 2 without skipping a beat, and don’t do it at your peril. 3 takes care of any doubts you might have about 2. Do 4 and 5 always.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:46 PM
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Never said I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:44 PM
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The only realistic response here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:01 AM
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At 6 I was the subject of an attempted abduction by a man in a car. I was walking home from school. At about 11 was the age I actually started to notice the attention, though I’m sure it started before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:18 AM
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Because most men these days learn about sex from porn. In porn, women are things that men use to achieve and display their own orgasm, meanwhile the viewer is tugging away at their own dick, again caring only about their own orgasm. The women in porn fake orgasms, so men watching think all they have to do to ‘please’ a real woman is some horrifying jackhammering and maybe pressing randomly around where they think the clit might be for a few seconds and somehow, she’ll have a shuddering orgasm. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:17 PM
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Oh wow, I forgot that red pill said all women will be sharing that 1% of men in their 70s who aren’t decrepit. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:36 PM
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When the young women in these relationships wake up at my age, 50, still very fit and active and full of adventure, with kids almost grown and a sudden disposable income for travel and fun, and their geriatric husband doesn’t want to be anywhere but watching re-runs of some desperate TV show with an Afghan rug over his arthritic knees, they may feel differently. I dated a few older guys, most of us do until we realise they’re not the gods we thought they were, leaving hair on their pillow and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:38 AM
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Lol, I have a hot, disciplined, hardworking, respectful bf I’m having great regular sex with, how are things for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:01 AM
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Don’t know much about medicine then? It’s a science degree, in case you’re struggling. Not all medical science degrees lead to being a doctor. Not all law degrees lead to being a lawyer. I can send you some really simple info about admission into University if you like? It’s also possible to be fit without being a model! Who knew?! Fun fact though, I actually used to be a model too (not a fitness model though, just fashion). Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:58 AM
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Oh, my goodness. How can you be so wrong? Most women in their 40s and 50s that I know who are having sex with younger men actually married them, but women (especially at this age) have sex because they want sex (intimacy and love too, but sometimes just sex), not because they want validation. Women get validation from each other. Maybe if men were nicer to each other they wouldn’t come across as so desperately thirsty. Attention from men, be they 18 or 80 is abundant and cheap. Men themselves go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:42 AM
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Dude, I’m a scientist with medical and legal degrees. I don’t do opinion pieces. I’m not invisible. At 50 I still get plenty of attention from thirsty lads, from their teens to their 80s. I can see how that might be infuriating to some men, but that’s just muh biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:09 AM
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The daily news? Lololololol! I’m dying!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:41 AM
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Sex isn’t validation for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:01 AM
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Lol, ‘big validation’ to hook up with younger men. No, it’s not. It’s not validation at all to hook up with any man. Men are easily turned on. Attracting men is possible at any age or stage. Older women are hardly desperate for dates. And if you choose not to use protection, you’re an idiot, male or female. If you want to be her next baby daddy, go right ahead. There’s also STDs that a panel do not test for. Herpes is for life, and warts can cause cancer, not just of the cervix, but the penis, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:25 PM
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90 days later? Stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:10 PM
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And if you’re not paying, you are the product. Why are you following me around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:06 PM
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About 8 -10 years. I was fine. It was my choice because I wasn’t in the right space for a relationship, and I don’t do casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:53 AM
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I don’t give a shit if you watch it, but increasingly every woman you meet will. Porn makes men shitty in bed, selfish and lazy. It just does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:57 AM
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Strongly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:19 AM
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Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should. There’s a trait boys and young men are missing in droves these days - self control. It’s easy to watch porn. It’s a completely unregulated media. Easy isn’t a flex. Easy is for the lazy and undisciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:19 AM
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Women do not enjoy being fucked by ugly, unsafe, degenerate men. You’ve highlighted a raging fallacy in your diatribe. The women who do sex work are not attracted to the filth they service. The fact of their heterosexuality (or not) is irrelevant. Plenty of gay women do full service hetero sex work because it pays and lesbian sex work does not. The very idea you have sprouted that only bisexual men could do ‘gay for pay’ work is ignorant, misogynist and homophobic, maybe even misandric. Any man …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:24 PM
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What is sb? 14yo boys shouldn’t be watching porn. It’s illegal to expose minors to that degenerate shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:36 PM
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This exactly. Men say ‘I like big tits and blonde hair’ and women think - there’s literally a zillion variations on that taking in her interests, personality and other factors, so we’re confused by how simple male attraction seems to be. Women say ‘I have some physical traits I’m initially attracted to, but if he exposes himself as being a ginormous bag of dicks, his physical features render him a zero’, and men call us shallow. Like, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:39 PM
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I’m always interested in the cognitive dissonance of on the one hand not all men are like that vs all men are like that, stfu. It always seems to be the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:40 AM
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Tates victims - trafficked. Amouranth - trafficked by her husband. Current investigation into 500 south East Asian women trafficked into Australia to do cam work. Regular posts in legal advice, relationship and advice subs from women who had content posted by husband, boyfriend, even brother pretending to be her. How do you know if each and every woman doing porn consented to it? Even the videos at the end of studio productions are coerced. Go and watch ‘Beyond fantasy’ and tell me you can be as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:04 AM
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Most women don’t become rich from doing porn. Most end up with drug addictions and mental illness (if they’re not there before they start), and the average earnings are around $160 a month. That’s average, so it takes in the top earners who are celebs earning a motza. Tate’s victims were trafficked. There’s a current investigation into a trafficking ring that imported 500 women from southeast Asia to do cam work. Amouranth recently shared that her husband coerced her into producing content. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:00 AM
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It’s possible to hate child labour without hating the children who do it. It’s possible to hate indentured servitude without hating the men trafficked into it. Are you seriously saying it okay to blame mentally ill, traumatised, disabled and trafficked women and children for the existence of porn, and not the men who produce and make billions off it? Not the men who can’t exercise a scrap of self control to go read a book, or take a walk, or build a shed instead? That sounds like misogyny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:51 PM
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Because a lot of them aren’t told up front what they’re expected to do. Are you really this naive? Why do men watch it if they know how painful it is for women? Rhetorical question. It because that’s the appeal. Men who use porn hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:47 PM
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No, I just firmly believe that men who use porn are brain damaged. I keep collecting anecdotal evidence to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:19 AM
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There’s only one thing I need to know about a man who uses porn. It’s that he doesn’t see women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:06 AM
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Boo hoo, I’m a victim of trauma so I’ll go and jerk off to women being raped and tortured. Do you know how sociopathic that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:05 AM
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Firstly, I said 24/7 access to, not watching it constantly. Secondly, go have a look at the love after porn sub and you will see that the men choosing porn in relationships have partners who want intimacy but it’s destroyed, along with their self esteem, by these men with no empathy or self control. Have a look at the dopamine theory of psychosis. Dopamine flooding absolutely decreases self control and impulsivity - two things that contribute when rapists make the choice to rape. Note I didn’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:40 PM
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And by ‘compromise’ you presumably mean ‘do what I want them to’? Yeah, nah. Why should we compromise? Why should we perform degrading shit because men have destroyed any empathy or protective instinct they may have had by jerking off to other men abusing women? Why should we tolerate having hundreds or thousands of other naked women in a supposedly monogamous relationship? What a complete crock of shit. Men just need to get some discipline and stop being so thirsty. It’s vile being around porns…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:30 PM
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That’s not the flex you think it is. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:27 PM
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Lol. A gigantic company that makes billions of dollars a year off advertising has no reason to lie. I’m laughing so hard I startled my dog!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:25 PM
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That’s about the best example of fragility I’ve ever seen. How very glad I am I’m not a man. I can’t imagine even being terribly upset if television disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:22 PM
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That’s not ableist, that’s ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:54 PM
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Oooh, we’ve entered whataboutery 101. We’re talking about porn, not social media, though in my view it’s all the same thing to the drooling addict. Stay on topic, hey? Go do your own research. Start with the dopamine theory of psychosis. Parasocial relationships are exactly as I described. If men who use porn don’t think they have a connection with women in porn, why do they jerk off to them? Why are they thinking about them instead of their girlfriend? Why are they unable to get and stay hard w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:51 PM
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What’s a ‘whamen’ bro? Is that a whiny dude? That’s exactly what I’m talking about. You get it, hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:39 PM
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Video games are entirely contrived. Porn is actual people. Are you really suggesting real humans faking pleasure while having abusive sex is the same thing as playing a video game?? Christ on a bike. Noah, get the boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:38 PM
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Oh lord. You actually believe what Pornhub tells you is true? So much secondhand embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:36 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:41 AM
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It is never a woman’s fault if a man chooses porn. It’s a choice. Jesus wept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:40 AM
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Those men are whiny, entitled, lazy assholes. I wouldn’t fuck them either. I don’t want to do the degrading fucked up shit they learn from porn either, and nor do any women with self respect. What a fucking surprise, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:38 AM
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There is so much blatantly wrong about this comment, I’m actually horrified. Are you seriously suggestion men will kill themselves if they can’t access pornography? That’s got to be the most emasculating, embarrassing thing I’ve ever heard. It’s simply untrue. Porn in its current form did not exist 30 years ago, and men were just fine. As for the suggestion that if men can’t have 24/7 access to porn they will rape more women, that is categorically and factually incorrect. Porn use decreases a us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:35 AM
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More like my comment on this post was 115 days ago, and you commented on a more recent one of mine in another sub, so you follow random women around on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:58 PM
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Stalking, I presume?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:21 AM
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Because men mature a little slower, so when you’re in your 20s, a year or two difference usually helps. Once you get into your 30s, 1-3 years doesn’t make much of a difference at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:01 AM
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My guy was unemployed and studying when I met him. I didn’t care because a) I’m a lot older than the average people on this sub and so I have my own income, home, car etc, and I’m not looking for someone to support me through time off work having kids as mine are almost grown, and b) some men just exude drive and discipline, and he’s one of those guys, so I knew he wouldn’t be unemployed for long. He’s now back working in the stereotypically high status career he’s had for decades. There was jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:16 AM
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Having standards doesn’t make you shallow. Caring only about tits and ass is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:54 PM
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That is some serious mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:15 PM
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Why? What I’m saying is that women care about more than just what a man looks like. Men seem to care only about what women look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:50 AM
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Women aren’t as shallow as men. Being objectively attractive isn’t enough. The more I learn about a man, the more or less attractive he becomes to me. If an attractive man is married, he’s a person of no sexual or romantic interest to me, so I stop noticing how he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:19 PM
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You are an outlier on this sub if that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:23 PM
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Here’s a thought for men - SWIPE LESS. Stop being a desperate man-whore and thirsting after literally every woman online. Pay for apps. I did. You get a better user experience. From what I’ve seen, men swipe on 100% of women and what, you want US TO BE THE GATEKEEPER?? Really? Now?? Get some self respect. Choose wisely. Accept rejection and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:44 AM
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Find some decent male role models for him. Men who don’t treat the women in their lives like shit, are disciplined, hard working, connected to their friends and family, don’t treat every interaction like a transactional opportunity to get further ahead, take care of their body, participate fully in their life including showing up when they need to, but don’t always want to or feel like it, are kind to animals. Men with integrity and authenticity. Some who are celebs, but mostly men who are in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:03 PM
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That’s because you’re a man. Our sexuality and the way attraction works for us is different. A ‘dream guy’ is likely to be a set of qualities, rather than physical features. If you asked me to describe my ‘dream guy’ I’d say someone disciplined, hard working, has good relationships with his family, especially his mom and sisters if he has them, has a circle of good friends he sees regularly, eats well and works out, doesn’t use porn or treat women as objects, wears clothes that are clean and wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:34 AM
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Nope. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:16 AM
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Women don’t fantasise about a ‘dream guy’. It’s just not a thing. We meet men and if we’re attracted to them they go up or down in attraction because of their behaviour and attitude. As a high functioning neurodiverse woman with a high status career/occupation, I’m comfortable saying I’m already dating a guy who is a lot like me. Are we a looksmatch? I don’t know. Ask him. Ask his friends. He’s my guy and the only man I see. Would I date someone else? No. Not now I have him. When I’m with a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:04 PM
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Men tell on themselves all the time. Are you that naive to think women are stupid? I’ve never even dated a man who wanted to know how many men I’d slept with before him. I’ve never been asked, because I don’t date insecure men. They’re a nuisance. I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings, but red pill ideology is not remotely the norm anywhere but here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:17 AM
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Lol, you must be very, very young. We earned about the same. I’ve earned more than all the men I’ve dated except two. Neither of them were shorter than me, and I’m six feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:13 AM
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Lol. I’ve never met or dated a man who thinks this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:33 AM
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Yes, several.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:32 AM
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Yes, because it’s not selfish at all to expect to have had lots of sex yourself but for your partner to be inexperienced. Actually, it’s not just selfish, it’s creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:29 AM
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Actually, it’s for eliminating waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:27 AM
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Former colleague, half a foot shorter than me, awesome guy who I used to often have an afternoon chat with on our respective ways home from work. Married to a gorgeous woman the same height as him who earns more than him. Two cute kids. Former boss, married with two kids. Really bad stutter, never stopped him from advancing to a managing director position. Always available to bounce ideas off. Proactive at initiating policy that both protected and advanced women in the workplace. My partner, fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:19 PM
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I don’t go looking for attraction. People are people to me, and it’s only when I’m assessing a man for his dateability that I even consider his attractiveness, which is not just how he looks, but how he dresses, carries and conducts himself, and how he treats others. Most women I know are the same. They do not go about their days noticing above averagely objectively good looking men and think about their fuckability. That shit is basic and nasty and generally reserved for immature twits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:20 AM
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Show me where I said that’s all women offer? The point is, women seek generosity in men because at least for a period of time, as much as a decade or more if you have 2 or 3 kids, she will rely on him for resources. Don’t want to buy dinner? Probably going to whinge about supporting a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:08 PM
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In 2023, should women be expected to carry, birth and feed from her body the baby she and her male partner agreed to make? Why? /s If a man can’t demonstrate he’s capable of supporting his female partner when she needs it, it’s a great indicator she should move on and find one who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:55 AM
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My style of dress has changed a lot over my 50 years. I dress now very much like I did in my 20s - mainly wearing jeans and t-shirts for casual wear and more flattering/fitted blouses and tops, or dresses for nicer occasions. Work wear remains mostly suits or dresses with a blazer. What is ‘provocative’? I’ve had men on this sub try to tell me that gym/workout gear is designed to arouse men, when I buy it because it’s comfortable, absorbs sweat and doesn’t get caught on the equipment. I think fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:10 AM
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Yes, it’s terrible to date women with self respect. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:29 PM
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Explain to me how having thousands of other naked women in your monogamous relationship isn’t cheating. They aren’t pixels on a screen, they’re real women. The presence of a screen doesn’t sufficiently remove what you’re looking at from your reality. Your brain can’t tell the difference. If it wouldn’t be okay for your girlfriend to send or post nudes and videos of her masturbating for other men to jerk off to, how is it in any way acceptable for her boyfriend to be using other women’s bodies in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:09 PM
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And yet nearly all men seem to think it’s fine to jack off to thousands of other women on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:32 PM
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Men will have sex with women they hate, so this is hardly a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:02 AM
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Today in men reducing themselves to animals and then complaining when women treat them like the animals they claim to be. If you truly believe this, don’t be a step parent. Most people who aren’t sociopaths realise that a) if you do it right, an intimate relationship will outlive any parenting relationship either of you have, and b) kids are great and rewarding, and sometimes a mentoring relationship with a kid that isn’t yours can be the most powerful influence in their young life. But sure, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:10 AM
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Every nerd I know from school in the 80s is married with kids. Most of them are still married to women they met at high school or college.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:25 PM
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You’re right about the transactional secret but, but it’s also the blow up. A guy who can’t respect a woman’s choice not to date him is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:15 PM
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I wouldn’t know. I’ve never read one. They’re trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:08 AM
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It takes a few dates for women to gauge attraction, because it’s more than just how you look to us that matters. Sometimes she will meet a better match. Some things will give her the ick and she’s just no longer interested. She may well be hung up on her ex and not realise until she tries to date. None of these are 180s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:04 AM
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I think this is a list OP invented himself. None of those things bother me in the slightest. I mainly get the ick when 50 year old men leer at teenage girls, or when men are rude to wait staff, or when they make misogynist ‘jokes’.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:07 AM
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Over 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:07 AM
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Around 1 in 6 Americans are at their ideal weight, and approx 70% of women are over their ideal weight, not sure how many are under, but that still leaves the vast majority out of your ‘thought experiment’. Yes, I am under my ‘ideal weight’ according to the calculator. I am very tall and fine-boned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:27 PM
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Given most of them men on this sub seem incapable of controlling themselves when it comes to parasocial one-sided sex with themselves while jerking off to porn, I highly doubt men collectively possess the necessary self control to limit themselves to only dating a tiny percentage of women. This of course assumes that tiny percentage of women who are neither overweight nor supermodels (if I complied with this calculator, I’d be 10-20lbs heavier than I am) would even look twice at the vast majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:45 AM
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Women get the ick for legitimate reasons. Lost while driving once is fake example. Women put up with the most heinous shit from men in relationships all the time. As a comparison with your ‘lost while driving once’ fantasy which I’ve never even seen as an example on Reddit, I’ve seen men dump women or question their relationship because the woman wouldn’t fuck him in the eight weeks it’s recommended to not have sex after giving birth to avoid getting a horrific infection, because she didn’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:55 AM
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Sigh. Again, the vast majority of women in prostitution are not there voluntarily. Women are not in control of their body when a man has paid to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:20 PM
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Women are not above criticism. It seems the only people who think they should be are men and the handmaids of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:17 PM
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Sounds awfully like men who encourage young women to do porn and thus ruin their futures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:14 PM
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If you lose your collective minds at the idea of a society in which you can’t purchase women’s bodies to violate and abuse, it’s absolutely entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:24 AM
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It’s a legal system, not a justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:23 AM
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I desire a tub of fudge ice cream, but I have this thing called ‘self-control’. Maybe men could try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:02 AM
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Don’t understand the definition of ‘trafficking’ then? Prostitutes have a higher lifetime risk of PTSD, depression and suicidal ideation than returned veterans, but sure, men who pay to rape them are the victims here. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:01 AM
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Then maybe men should stop feeling entitled to women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:59 AM
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Again, women are not drugs. We’re people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:58 AM
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I would say that internalised misogyny is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:58 AM
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Except the woman is the product. No cigar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:57 AM
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Which is exactly why sex buying should be criminalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:44 AM
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Ahh, whataboutery, the lowest form of debate. Firstly, I’m guessing when you hear ‘trafficking’ you think about women smuggled into the country by kidnappers, which is only a very small part of sex trafficking. Women and children are trafficked into sex work in nice, respectable suburbs in your town. They are trafficked by their boyfriends, fathers, cousins, brothers, uncles and sometimes even by their teachers, employers, landlords, and friends. They are also trafficked by circumstances, like p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:43 AM
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It’s called the Nordic Model, and it’s designed to protect women who are often trafficked into prostitution as children, impoverished women, and women of color. If men did not feel entitled to women’s bodies, it wouldn’t be an issue. Demand requires a supply. Decriminalizing buying sex creates demand. What happens when more entitled men want to buy women’s bodies? More trafficking, because there simply aren’t enough women out there who actually want to sell sex to men, in fact, the vast majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:22 AM
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Oh ffs, the percentage of alimony applications that get up are negligible. It’s like getting upset by diseases of the right nostril. Find something worthy to get cross about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:12 PM
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Men on this sub literally spend their entire energy on how or why they can’t get access to sex. Please tell me how this is women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:22 AM
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Men are far more emotional and irrational because they obsess about sex. Men who don’t are lovely. The wall is invented. Men’s obsession with youth is driven by porn. When women harass and are violent towards men, men don’t fear for their life, or die at the hands of violent women at the rates women do at the hands of men. Men are also more likely to die at the hands of a man. Violence is gendered. That doesn’t make women being violent okay. The men on this sub are predominantly young and inexpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:47 PM
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What I don’t understand is why do you care what less than half a percent of the population do? Why are red pillers so obsessed with the lifestyle of people they will never be? How is this any less ridiculous than women who obsess about celebrities? It’s vapid and pointless. Go and live your own life instead of worrying about something that will literally never affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:44 PM
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Lol. I dated a bona fide adult man (my own age, 50) who legit thought he would alpha widow me. Firstly, any man who says this out loud is either desperately insecure, or simply doesn’t understand female sexuality. Women’s attraction to men waxes and wanes in accordance with a hunch of things that aren’t directly associated with how he looks. Let’s say I meet a man, and he meets my basic criteria for attractiveness - he’s at least my height, articulate, reasonably fit and eats well, exhibits cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:13 PM
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What utter nonsense. All it means if a man requires visual stimulation to get aroused is that his brain is broken. There’s a very small few who suffer aphantasia, the rest have done this to themselves. Men clearly don’t understand female sexuality either. My favourite question to ask porn using men is not whether they’d be okay with their girlfriend using porn (because most men would be happy to get granted the pass her using would give), but whether they’d be okay with her making porn to provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:10 AM
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That’s not something created by modern dating, that’s biology, and it’s a requirement if our species is to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:46 AM
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Google is just as available to you as it is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:18 AM
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Ahh, that old chestnut. No, 87% of women in the sex trade globally agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:08 PM
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Sigh. No, you can’t. Besides the fact it’s almost impossible to tell if consent exists in a sexual transaction where money is involved (money exchange negates freely given consent), the vast majority of women in the sex trade don’t want to be there, and would be doing something else if they could. That’s around 87% globally. The small, vocal minority who claim they like it are mostly victims of child sexual abuse, rape, or other traumas. No stable, mentally well woman chooses sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:07 PM
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You claimed women are both the ‘product’ and the seller. That is factually incorrect. The vast majority of pimps are men, and male family members at that. Men own almost all the porn platforms that exist too, and so they are therefore the sellers. You are taking an extremely narrow view of this hatful, abusive industry because it suits you to believe that women are complicit in their dehumanization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:01 PM
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That is not at all the definition of trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:58 PM
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Having some self respect and self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:57 PM
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Sex isn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:57 PM
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Then you should have the same views for same sex couples - if you insist a child needs a mother and father. You should also oppose surrogacy because ripping a child away from the woman who carried it to provide to gay or infertile couples is abusive. Or is this just womb-envy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:47 PM
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Yes, it does. Consent must be given freely, without coercion or incentive. If it isn’t, it’s not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:58 AM
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You clearly don’t understand the meaning of ‘consent’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:57 AM
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So you were a pimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:15 PM
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I most certainly do not treat men as wallets. I earn well over six figures, own my own house and car. I do not need or want a man to support me financially. What a bizarre accusation to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:07 PM
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Trafficking women into sex is not ‘legal’. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:05 PM
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And the vast majority of ‘amateur’ porn is uploaded without consent, so I guess if you don’t have a problem with engaging in revenge porn, that’s fine, but I still do not see any reason why anyone ‘has to’ watch porn. It’s not like oxygen or water or sleep. Watching other people have sex is seriously bent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:04 PM
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87% of women in sex work do not want to be there. That is a fact that has been established by organizations that investigate human trafficking globally. Stop listening to the pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:52 PM
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Women are not products. The fact you think we are is the root of the problem. The solution lies with men changing their views. I get it, change is uncomfortable, but it’s good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:49 PM
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No, sex is not a human right. When you make access to something an entitlement, someone has to exist to provide that entitlement. If no women wanted to do sex work, what would you do? Traffick them? If not enough women wanted to do sex work to meet the demand for sex as an entitlement, what would you do? Traffick them? If you have a demand and you make it a right, you have to supply it somehow. What an abhorrent way to view sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:47 PM
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To not be defined as ‘rape’, sex need to be consensual. Payment negates consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:45 PM
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Consideration (payment) negates consent. Consent by its definition should be freely given. It also should be able to be withdrawn at any time. Porn, especially digital porn, makes withdrawal of consent impossible, because once it’s left the creator’s hands, it can never fully be erased.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:44 PM
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Actually, no. The world’s oldest profession for women was midwifery. Prostitutes have historically, and even today, been slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:41 PM
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The vast majority of women in prostitution and porn (around 87% globally) do not want to be there, and wouldn’t be there if they had a viable alternative. That, my friend, is not ‘consent’, it’s coercion and trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:40 PM
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Never heard of trafficking then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:38 PM
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What an incredibly narrow view of trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:38 PM
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What utter nonsense. Get some self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:37 PM
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Sex addiction is a thing, yes. Compulsive sexual disorder is a thing, yes. It’s most often played out by extreme porn use, because the average guy can’t afford prostitutes often enough to feed his compulsion. The worst thing about porn addiction is there’s no ‘off switch’ like there is with substances. You can drink too much and black out or throw up. You can overdose on drugs. Smoking cigarettes excessively will give you a nasty cough, or cancer. Even with excessive gambling, going broke is a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:37 PM
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Most pimps are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:30 PM
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Yes, because we always blame the product, never the consumer. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:21 AM
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No. We’ll never have equality while men think they can purchase or rent women for their use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:50 AM
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Yes, because that is what older men who do it tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:08 PM
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Abortions are not exactly just a walk in the park for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:20 AM
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‘Gym guys’ are not men who regularly work out. Gym bros are men who make their workouts their entire personality. Just like women who make their Instagram their entire personality, they’re boring as hell. Fwiw, I have only met a couple of men in my entire life (50 years so far) who want the girlfriend with a nice physique, but are also prepared to allow her the time it takes to create and maintain that. Nearly every man I’ve ever dated likes that I’m in great physical condition. Likewise, almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:45 AM
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Twitter is garbage. It’s full of porn and fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:01 AM
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And how many of the dudes on here have rushed off to see if they can find it on PH? If you participate in this shit in any way, including watching it, you’re just as bad as everyone else involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:58 AM
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Just because the porn you’re into doesn’t depict violence against women doesn’t mean that the vast majority of it does. In fact studies have been done recently on how prevalent sexual violence is in mainstream porn, and how it shapes users’ expectations of sex. The baseline for being good in bed is likely different for everyone, but a good start is not making male ejaculation the sole focus and objective of every sexual encounter, which is depicted in porn, and largely the focus of users when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:55 AM
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Okay, we’ll that’s interesting, because most guys in the sub usually roar that all men watch porn and that it’s totally normal when it’s absolutely not. Yes, young people are worse at sex because they’ve had less of it. Guess what? When I was young, we just did what every generation has done before us and fumbled through together until we discovered what worked. That’s what young people should be doing now with each other. And yes, young men who use porn as sex ed can be extremely dangerous. Por…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:40 AM
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Because some of us have more self respect? Because it’s a porn trope? Because attraction is far more complex than young = hot? Because we know that when younger guys chase older women it’s usually because they think we’ll be willing to ‘teach’ them good sex, and most of us, having endured men who are bad at sex long enough in our lives, don’t have the time, energy or interest in more unpaid labor than we’re already doing. Most young men are terrible at sex. They use porn as a guide and it makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:42 AM
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Most men don’t see any women as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:35 AM
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And humanity would die out. Things are the way they are for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:26 AM
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