| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 276 | Signs of a toxic relationship | LEVEL UP | womanofthenorth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 226 | Don’t commit to a man who chooses other women over you. | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | womanofthenorth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 171 | Don’t date men who watch porn, Exhibit 754 | MALE DEPRAVITY | womanofthenorth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Our 40,000 subscribers (!!!) already know this | QUEEN SH*T | womanofthenorth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 51 | Woman wastes 7 years of her life dating a “Forever Boyfriend”, is jealous of friends who are getting engaged, married. Never waste time as a “forever girlfriend!!!”Omg, dude, you need to tell your friend he’s on Bumble! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 28 | Woman wastes 7 years of her life dating a “Forever Boyfriend”, is jealous of friends who are getting engaged, married. Never waste time as a “forever girlfriend!!!”The bigger issue here is why did she spend ages 18-25 in a LTR? 25 is too young to get married; 20s should be spent dating different people and working on yourself. There is so much potential for growth and change through your 20s; why tie yourself down to a partner during that formative time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 66 | Unattractive HVMsAfter being in a dead bedroom marriage, my advice to everyone is 100% find someone you’re attracted to and have chemistry with. This is absolutely essential if you’re a sexual person. Sure, a guy may be nice, have similar interests, treat you well....and that’s called a friend. I think of it as a triangle, with the ideal match having each of the three sides: friendship (shared interests, values); stability/trust; sexual chemistry. All three are essential for a successful relationship. Keep swipi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Signs of a toxic relationshipRadical acceptance. There is nothing you can do except ensure it doesn’t happen to you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 43 | The Degradation of a Gentleman’s FacadeThis sounds abusive. My money is on this guy has a Cluster B personality disorder. They do have a way of being charming and alluring. Remember it was all a facade. He’s fucked up, and being with him ruined your self esteem. Three months is not that long. Give yourself time, and eventually you will see him for the monster he appears to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | PreachDogs stop growing after 1 year. Unless you mean they gain weight? This is a confusing comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Porn addiction is a massive epidemic in men that society is choosing to ignore.Go back to your futanari subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 21 | Ladies I need support!Well you’ve already correctly figured out you need to dump him. So, well done on that. As for him one day realizing what a mistake he made; who cares. He’s soon to be in your past. Leave him there. Has he wasted your time? Maybe a little bit, but hey, now you know what not to do next time. It’s a good lesson you’ll have for the next twenty years. You’re going to be totally fine. Break up, block, move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 24 | Advice or tips you would have given your 19 year old selfThere is absolutely no reason to be in an LTR when you are 19. That time should be dedicated to understanding yourself and the world we live in. Studies, travel, experimentation, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 7 | OLD dealbreakers/red flagsReally? What’s your logic on this? I find it encouraging when a man on OLD has a dog; it means he’s (hopefully) responsible and an animal lover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:52 AM |
| 30 | I may be a pick me.. help me change my ways?Learn to love yourself, to be confident in yourself, and to enjoy being single. Cultivate hobbies , career, and friends. Remember that a boyfriend should only add positivity to your otherwise fulfilling life. A lot of this comes with wisdom and growing up. But I wish I had this advice when I was your age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Cleveland Steamer Night! Open mic for males! Drop your ploppies here!Fair. Gaston is redpilled to the max, but at least he didn’t lock a lady up in his castle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 10 | FDS FLAIR GUIDEImagine modding a subreddit for women to share good advice, and then getting accused of power tripping for removing content not beneficial for women. Oh wait I don’t have to imagine it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Dear ModsI said this isn’t a libfem subreddit. Nowhere did I say it wasn’t a feminist subreddit. We put women first and want our users to be sure that the advice they are receiving is from women who are likewise putting women first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Dear ModsI just explained to you that it means someone advocating porn, bdsm, or anything anti-woman. Every mod is in agreement on that. There’s no nuance there. Edit: this isn’t a libfem subreddit. This is a dating subreddit for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 6 | So We’re At War Now, I guess 🙄What is it with dudes and WW2 movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 9 | Dear ModsThe pick me flair is given to users who exhibit excessive male sympathizing, or users who are advocating for porn, bdsm, etc. We don’t tolerate those in this sub, and thus the flair exists to make other users aware that the advice they are receiving may not be entirely in line with the ethos of the subreddit. It has nothing to do with value, class, abusive relationships, or anything like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 23 | The kind of man we are missing out on if we refuse to date men that watch pornImagine being this guy Imagine being this guy and POSTING THIS SHIT ON FACEBOOK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 04:42 AM |
| 30 | OopsUm. No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:38 PM |
| 32 | I’m DONE 😭This lady’s got four kids, not two, and one of them is a potential pedo 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 14 | What happens if you marry a low quality man.Omg he wants his mother to be the cleaner?! I couldn’t read anything past that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:45 PM |
| – | The "gonewild" subThis sub doesn’t support men watching porn so why would we support women contributing to porn culture? “Sexual Empowerment” is what the capitalist patriarchy sells to women who lack both power and capital. It’s a lie. Validation via objectification of one’s body is not what we advocate here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 03:06 PM |
| 9 | Don't date men who use porn!!Mod team is committed to keeping this place free of libfem ideaology. Libfems are always welcome, however, as we hope they’ll learn something while they’re here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Don't date men who use porn!!It’s a brigade of downvotes from users otherwise unaffiliated with this subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 03:42 PM |
| 36 | Don't date men who use porn!!the downvotes aren’t from our users, but from people brigading this sub. As for the women commenting here in support of porn, hopefully the arguments and experiences of our sisters will awaken them to the true exploitative and destructive nature of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:22 PM |
| 44 | Don't date men who use porn!!You’re still supporting and orgasming to an industry of objectification, abuse, and trafficking of women. People aren’t vegetarians because they previously struggled with meat addiction. They’re vegetarians because the meat industry is extremely fucked up, and because they have empathy for animals. Same goes for porn. Why be (or date) someone who is ok with perpetuating rape and oppression of women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 01:56 PM |
| 31 | Don't date men who use porn!!This comment was removed because it was highly pro-porn, and advocated for her and her boyfriends’ porn use (which included porn that was filmed without consent). For anyone interested in learning how porn damages relationships and society, there are myriad resources available, both on this subreddit, and in other places including r/pornfree r/loveafterporn r/antipornography r/pornfreewomen and www.fightthenewdrug.org. There are many places for porn apologists. This subreddit is not one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 05:47 AM |
| 3 | How do you find girlfriends or serious hobbies?How do you find a serious hobby? Find something you really like to do, and go from there. Most hobbies have a social component, so that’s a great way to meet people. The more people you know, the more people you’ll be introduced to, thus the more likely you are to find women you connect with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 05:17 AM |
| 9 | stop praising men for doing the bare minimum!You've got a LOT of anger and violence in this comment, and in your post history. You're exactly the sort of person the women here are trying to avoid. Kinda ironic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 5 | OP learned an important lesson and luckily ended up with a loyal companion in the end. Don’t dedicate yourself to a man who wants to control your life, especially from afar. Hope she comes to this sub to kickstart the rest of her healing (details in the comments that signify emotional abuse).Welcome, thanks for joining us! Don’t let any anti-dog people scare you off! We all have our preferences but we are ALL in agreement that abusive relationships are a NO NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 03:46 PM |
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