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Yep. The shitty feelings will pass. Just experience them and don't go into hamster-mode trying to figure things out. Sometimes shitty things just happen and it doesn't make much sense. Be the best man you can be.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:13 PM
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Good on you, dude. Neither will I. I am slowly realizing my value. My ex is with the tired, ugly fucker that she cheated on me with. I am turning to a new chapter in my life. Tear it up!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:19 AM
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This is exactly what my intuition has been telling me lately. Hearing you speak it is motivating. Thanks. I've been working on this. I have pretty good SMV (probably could get 8's on a good day or maybe 9's if I was rich, lol), but I have beta habits that I am trying to shake. Girls eye fuck me all the time. I can see their little gears turning when I flirt with them. Since a shitty divorce a few years ago, I just have this funny block in my mind that I am a piece of shit and no one will like me…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:25 AM
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One of my brother's friends is 54 and he absolutely slays it. He is fit, decent looking, confident, and rich. He is also short and bald. I am a good looking 33 year old who is currently struggling with poor self-confidence and mood. Any tips on how to step up my game? I'm not looking to be a player, but I want to live a life of abundance.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:44 AM
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Just adding on to what you said. Having nothing to stand on is scary, but after a while, you realize that there is no ground. What is the difference between falling and flying when there is no ground? I had my world crushed in multiple ways. It wrecked me. I am at a point where I am tired of limping along. Reading the Illimitable Men's Monk Mode post really helped me focus on myself. The world doesn't care about me or you and tomorrow is promised to no man. Take heed and do not squander your lif…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:30 PM
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That is an interesting opinion. Feel free to argue with me at any time. You seem passionate, so you got that going for you. I'd actually be interested in sharing my perspective and having a discussion with you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:24 PM
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It is probabilities. I could be shooting myself in the foot. I am probably not. And speaking in generalities does not mean that I ignore relativity. It is the absolute and the relative. They are continuously being balanced. Authentic living with emotion does not ignore logic. Who are "you" people? Drop your stereotypes. You are having imaginary arguments, not with me, but with who you imagine me to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:03 AM
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You are talking about isolated incidences. Feeling are always going to be present when humans interact. I am a romantic. I love the feeling of an attraction, shared interests, being vulnerable, etc. But this is a small perspective. Taking a larger perspective, emotions of countless individuals tend to average out. This is the basis of behavioral economics. This is not lobotomizing human interactions, but recognizes that when you have a large sample size, the variability tends to even out and bec…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:03 PM
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You are arguing points that I am not making. Sluts are fine. They exist. They are fine people just doing their thing. They make it easy to get laid, but this changes the sexually market dynamic where sex, intimact, etc is cheapened. They are fun for sex, but have a higher likelihood of being bad investments of time and energy if you want a stable, long term relationship. I am not speaking in hard terms but in generalities. Some people may slut it and have great relationships in the future. Howev…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:32 PM
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Women. Men and women are different and experience different reactions by others when being promiscuous. It may not be "right" but it is truth. Reality doesn't care about our fucking feelings and notions of rightness
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:39 AM
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It is all about statistics. Anecdotes aside, slutty people tend to have higher rates of stds, mental illness, divorce rates, etc (I'm not going to dig up citations). Relationships are investments of time, money, energy, and emotion. I would not invest any of those things in someone who is slutty because the probability of it being a good investment is much lower. Now this is not the same thing as saying that sluts are bad. Sluts are simply who they are. They are not bad people, but they are peop…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:20 AM
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I'd wager that we will have artificial wombs that can allow for the gestation of viable and healthy human babies in 40 years. Here is an article about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:24 PM
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In pharmacology terms, it is because estrogen receptors are more promiscuous (lol), meaning that they will accept more compounds as substrates. Androgen receptors have a much more narrow range of compounds which will act as substrates. See here for a blog post about estrogen receptor promiscuity
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:20 PM
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Thanks bro. I've been struggling with letting go and not letting my past shape my future. I have old stories rattling around my mind that I keep listening to. I think a part of finding someone who loves me unconditionally is that I need to assert myself, otherwise they would only love the part of me which I revealed. However, part of me feels that unconditional love is impossible, but we can be genuinely loved with certain conditions met.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:40 PM
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I married a fuckup. Don't be like me. I felt that true love would overcome all. I gave my everything and got burned.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 09:46 PM
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People always struggle with expectations versus reality. Prior to exposure to the reality of relationships, the teens want intimacy. This suggest that baseline male desires for relationships are more focused on the quality of the relationship. The older teens change their behavior, not as they learn more about the true nature of women, but in reaction to their experience of having relationships with women. However, the change toward a greater priority for sex in relationships may be counter to t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:55 PM
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I don't have access to the original paper. Here is a link to the abstract. Male sexuality is way more complex than what we see in the mainstream media and even how it is often portrayed on TRP. This study seems limited by a small sample size, the age of the participants (14-16 yr old males), participants were from one clinic, they used open-ended questions, blah, blah, and thus may be limited by external validity.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:25 PM
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The consequences of her choices would be hers. They would be as tough or as formative as she allows them to be. That would then be her karma. Morality demands consequences.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:35 PM
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I read the whole thing. I wasn't reading it for its veracity, but for its message. It is a great book
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:45 AM
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I once commented about how this one girl had a lot of hair. I was called a creep. WTF?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:28 AM
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Go wander around NoFap for like 1 minute. Tons of guys struggle with it. You don't need an experiment to confirm what is bloody fucking obvious. If you make a statement like, "27% of boys who look at porn will develop porn induced ED," then you better fucking cite something. When you are making general statements that are bloody fucking obvious, you don't need citations.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:14 AM
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Yes. It is a mathematical distinction of equivalency. Apples and bananas are both fruit. When considering fruits, they are equivalent, but apples do not equal bananas. When only considering whether someone is a person, men and newborn babies are equivalent. But babies are not equal to men.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:52 PM
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A more accurate term would be equivalent. Men and women are both people, and are therefore equivalent. However, men are not women, so they are not equal. Men and women are equivalent, but they are not equal.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:03 AM
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My assessment is that you have a crush on David the Russian. In his video, he is acting for the camera. He is acting like a confident and slightly goofy guy with an accent. He is decent looking. Girls like the attention and cuteness of it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:59 PM
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I'm a cis-dragon.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 06:35 AM
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Women loves rich dudes. Rich dudes are often business owners and/or successful in their fields. Therefore, logical approaches to being successful in your business or profession would improve someone's SMV.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:31 PM
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I don't get why people hamster about this. Women may like to think/write/read about different things than men. I don't care. None of this is a fucking problem. We don't need to form a committee to figure out why women aren't writing more op-eds about politics. Maybe they don't care and would rather write about "pink" topics.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 06:25 AM
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Do it. If she escapes the consequences of terrible actions in her formative years, she may think that there are no consequence for being terrible and continue being a terrible person for the rest of her life. You are doing her a favor. Do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:37 AM
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How barbarous, to deny men the privilege of pursuing what they imagine to be their proper concerns and interests! Yet, in a sense, this just what you are doing when you allow your indignation to rise at their wrongdoing; for after all, they are only following their own apparent concerns and interests. Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:24 PM
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B women are for fucking. Downright hate-fucking. Filling with sperm, then casting away like garbage, fucking. Laughing your ass off when they complain about their inability to find a good man. Fucking their brains out harder when they blame men for their inability to find a good man. Refusing to fuck their brains out once they're ugly and laughing even harder. Then parading your A woman wife in front of their faces while they seethe with jealousy over the incredible life you've given a worthy wo…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:26 PM
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Women objectify themselves more than men.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:08 PM
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Same here. I have never been taught that. In fact, I have been taught the opposite, that I should open the door for them, that I need to be extra careful around, and that they are super special butterflies. I am trying to overlay the truth onto this silly gendered idealism.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:07 PM
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This reminds me of a spot-on quote from Jack Welch, the longtime CEO of GE, about work life balance: "There's no such thing as work-life balance. There are work-life choices, and you make them, and they have consequences" WSJ article about the comment and the hamstering that erupted after If you want that corner office, you better be prepared to work 50-60 hour weeks for 20-30 years. This is what it takes. You do not get a free pass because of your gender. If you want that, then make it happen, …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:03 PM
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I'm 5'8" and I've never had a problem finding dates online. I am fit, well-educated, and decent looking though.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:02 PM
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Are they happy? Almost a quarter of women over the age of 40 are on antidepressants (source). Happiness is fleeting. Maybe we should focus more on less transient life goals, like pride, honor, etc. This study measured expressions of "happiness." It did not look at actual happiness. Maybe those guys look unhappy because they are stuck at some stupid function having their picture taken. Look at their faces when they are checking their bank accounts, getting a promotion, mountain biking, or fishing…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:31 PM
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I used to believe that being nice and cheery would help me be a good and desirable person. When my ex-wife was cheating on me, I remember her always telling me how nice I was and how she didn't deserve such a nice guy. She didn't. I'm still a good person, but not nearly as nice and cheery. Perhaps just coincidentally, I sense a lot more attraction from girls as my not-as-nice self. My personal lived-science experiment reveals that being nice just increases the likelihood of getting fucked over a…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:38 PM
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I called a girl a "chick." Some other girl started giving me shit about how this girl was a "woman" and not a "chick." I asked her what she thinks about the term "dude" for guys. She said that it was different. fucking idiot.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 10:30 PM
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I've heard the term "lesbian death bed" to describe the sex life of committed lesbians in long-term relationships. It may be that they actually want more sex, but they are both waiting for the other party to initiate, which isn't going to happen often.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:39 AM
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When you look at correlations, an important value is the R-squared value. It sort of looks at how much variability in a trend can be explained by a particular variable. If something is correlated and has an r-squared of 0.90, then you can say that 90% of the effect can likely be explained by the other variable. This means that even though you cannot prove that there is causation, 90% of the time, a change in one will occur with a change in the other. So correlation analyses may not prove anythin…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 08:12 AM
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To many people, the "patriarchy" is simply a convenient scapegoat to have to avoid taking responsibility for their own lives. Then they put lipstick on their choices and pretend that they are martyrs.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 12:35 AM
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You don't need to dissociate from anyone. Who cares about the other guys? It is just you and the girl looking at the email you just sent. What value are you bringing? They have a bunch of fucking dudes sending them emails. Why are you different or interesting? Pick your assets and capitalize on them. I'm decent looking, moderately funny, and smart. I can win them over by using big words and being cocky. Send two to three messages and just say you want to get a drink. They'll usually say yes as l…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:31 AM
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Women tend to value assertiveness, confidence, status, etc in men. Men tend to have more of these things when they are in their 30's.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:31 PM
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He isn't tearing him down. He praised him for getting over his shit, but he is being realistic too. Don't rest on your laurels. Nobody fucking cares what you did yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:49 PM
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Adipose tissue has estrogenic effects on the body. It lowers testosterone and increases its conversion into estrogen. So too much body fat has feminizing effects i.e. fat guys have bitch tits.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:38 AM
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There was some article in the NYtimes about how men are no longer biologically needed because we had cloning and lots of frozen sperm. I took the position that this is like eugenics and is a terrible thing to say. I reframed the initial proposition by saying that we don't really need women because a comatose female body is capable of being impregnated and providing a suitable habitat for an embryo to develop into a person. I got fucking skewered for that comment, but apparently it was ok to talk…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:36 AM
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I know his cousin's uncle. She said that he sucked dick for marijuana once.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 05:16 AM
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335 is pretty fucking heavy. For the average American male weight of around 196, benching 335 would put them in an advanced category (source). I'm 160 lbs and decently strong for my size. I can bench 250. Benching 335 for me would be fucking crazy strong. You are sort of right about size though. Body builders are all about reps and the pump. Powerlifters are all about strength. Powerlifters are never really scrawny people, but they are much smaller than bodybuilders generally, even though they c…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 12:50 AM
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I don't give a shit about the sidebar. Sexual strategy is but one aspect of a fulfilling life for men. The individual decides whether it is a dominant aspect or a minor one. To those who argue that that is what TRP was originally about, or bemoan changes, grow the fuck up. Every social movement evolves and grows. This is the real world. TRP will never look like it once was. This is both good and bad, but nevertheless, this is how the world works. Complaints about straw men and an influx of diffe…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 09:42 PM
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Don't look to other people on how to enrich yourself. Enrich yourself in the way that you desire. Be more passionately yourself. The guy who is talking the most at a party may have the most eyeballs on him at the moment, but that does not necessarily make him the most interesting or respected. I know a few introverts who are alpha as fuck. They don't peacock at a party because they have confidence in who they are irrespective of everything else going on around them. Be the best you that you can …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 05:42 PM
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I was thinking about my job the other day. It sucks, but I can leave at any moment. I'm a single guy. I have no mortgage, simple needs, etc. My boss, however, is stuck. He is married, has 5 or 6 kids, a big mortgage, probably lots of debt for his trucks/ATVs/bikes/etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 04:02 PM
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I agree with you. We can readily see that sex and sexuality is complicated for many people. Even if for someone, they regard it as without complication and being amoral, this is taking a perspective which ignores other perspectives. That other person that they are fucking has their own perspective on sex. To them, sex may be more complicated. Therefore, someone's disregard of their perspective may actually cause them harm, which is immoral. Thus amorality in sexuality can only exist with masturb…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 10:00 PM
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That is the beauty of trial and error. We can try a bunch of different things and see what sticks. Doing the same thing because you are too chicken shit to try something else means that you will get the same results over and over again. Let me put on my thinking cap about different shit to try . . . Make school less reliant on standardized testing for funding. Provide funding for problem solving contests for teens (think the SpaceX prize for smart teenagers). Have students do an honors project w…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:01 PM
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Exactly. Memorization is important. It shows who is not an idiot and can motivate themselves to memorize. But knowledge in and of itself is not wisdom or intelligence. It matters how we use that information. This is where creativity, critical thinking, and competitiveness is so important. Regurgitating what is already known does not advance society. Using what is already known to make new discoveries, to innovate, and to re-imagine our world is what advances society. We need to reward the people…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:42 PM
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I'm not discrediting everything about it. Having memorization as the primary determinant of academic success in the 21st century is foolish and outdated. 40 years ago, people needed to be the sources of quick information. Computers were not found everywhere and the internet did not exist. Now that is no longer the case. Even in industries that are the bastion of knowledge, i.e. healthcare, there are clinical decision support systems that essentially do the heavy memorizing for you. You just ente…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:24 PM
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You see it where the best in modern schools are those who can sit down and memorize a bunch of shit for hours on end. I don't fucking care about memorizing lists. I want to figure shit out. I want problems. The harder the better. Fucking computers are way betting at memorizing than people. We need to reward creativity, perseverance, competitiveness, and critical thinking over the ability to be polite in groups and sit quietly for hours on end while memorizing lists. edit: I failed school and can…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 04:36 AM
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It is basic fucking logic. If you are a baller and accomplish a lot of shit, then this life supports it. If you are fucking idiot who can't understand logic, then this life supports your stupidity. It is basically saying that your life can be as pointless or as exciting as you want it to be. It is all on you and your abilities. You are completely responsible for the outcome of your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 04:45 AM
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No way. It depends on your abilities, being flexible, and having adequate strategies to meet obstacles. Whatever people achieve, whether it is a grand achievement, or just submitting to the monotony of their lives, it is supported. People have the option of making the best with the hand they've been dealt, or they can roll over and take it however it is given to them. Either option is supported.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 02:37 PM
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Exactly. The universe will support you in your greatest achievement and also in your must mundane existence. The choice is yours.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 05:21 AM
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Fucking great book recommendations. Thanks. I just bought them.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:26 PM
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It depends on what you are using it for. If you have ADHD, then it can help provide enough focus on tasks that you can lead a more productive and fulfilling life. If you are using it as a mental crutch, then you are either glossing over potential issues (poor sleep, depression, poor time-management skills, stress, etc) and potentially setting yourself up for dependency, which can lead to addiction. Physiological side effects may include elevated blood pressure, anxiety, insomnia, elevated heart …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:08 PM
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This video?. It is fucking great.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I was hoping my post would generate more discussion, but it seems like maybe this has all been hashed out before. Regardless, people on this subreddit tend to favor the bull alpha stereotype, and I was looking for more clarification. I like the distinctions set up in the socio-sexual hierarchy blog and the emphasis on how there is not a binary system of alphas and betas. I really liked the 3 alpha blog post because it highlights different types of alphas. I suppose that my …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:34 PM
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I don't deny that mammalian studies have been performed, humans have certain behaviors, and sometimes animal behavior resembles human behavior. However, it is important to recognize that these are just models and experiments. Human behavior is immensely complex and there are always multiple motivating factors. Any conclusions are therefore extrapolations and are not completely valid representations of human behavior. They are not invalid, but just not complete. Raising someone else's kid does no…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 03:42 PM
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Yeah, evolutionary behavioral psychology is often not testable and so is pretty much someone making shit up to justify their preconceptions. Besides, it doesn't fucking matter what people did thousands of years ago. What matter is right now. If TRP works for you, take it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 04:07 AM
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When driving, I fucking hate it when you let someone into your lane and they don't give you the courtesy wave.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:22 PM
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