wondering4xrapunzel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
135	NO ONE knows about men’s issues	General	wondering4xrapunzel	/r/MensRights	13/06/26 10:06 PM
70	Can we talk more about this pattern of privileged women thinking they're oppressed by men	General	wondering4xrapunzel	/r/MensRights	24/05/26 12:36 PM
69	Anyone else sick of this attitude?	Social Issues	wondering4xrapunzel	/r/MensRights	06/08/26 08:58 PM
1	Anyone else sick of this attitude?	Social Issues	wondering4xrapunzel	/r/MensRights	06/08/26 08:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Pov: You're a misandrist You’re definitely not an idiot!	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/08/26 05:26 PM
4	Pov: You're a misandrist There’s really no purpose in talking to people who somehow create new and totally unrelated meanings of literally every word in modern English. We can’t even tell if they’re doing that because they’re trying to delude themselves or make excuses for themselves. Thankfully no one IRL seems to take them too seriously. This is kind of unrelated but there was this one time in high school in this after-school tutoring group my classmate was having a “political” discussion with one of the tutors and my…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/08/26 05:14 PM
2	I just saw something on reddit and I am disgusted I see. Thank you	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/08/26 05:03 PM
2	I just saw something on reddit and I am disgusted Wait, really? How does that work? I’m just asking because I’ve heard that people can become sociopaths because they’ve experienced trauma even if they weren’t already that way	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/08/26 12:10 PM
10	My god… So true. And btw, what’s even more confusing about that is if that person really was suicidal, wouldn’t they actually have some empathy for other suicidal people or at least not label them as “monsters”? I don’t know the exact context of that post but that comment was just odd by itself	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/08/26 12:06 PM
4	I Experienced Misandry Tonight Could you explain why you think that? Or rather how claiming “we spend more on women’s health” isn’t different from “men are inherently evil”?	/r/MensRights	17/08/26 12:23 PM
3	When Women Fear All Men There’s so much going around about “protecting women” and “making women feel safe”, construction the delusion that women’s feelings matter the most and that every women is somehow THIS afraid of men. They don’t even need reasons to be, they just want to push their misandrist agenda and portray women as perpetual victims any way they can and unfortunately one of them is through pandering to gynocentrism.	/r/MensRights	16/08/26 02:09 PM
13	Intelligent woman wonders why she has no partner, then proceeds to blame men. The bragging is off-the-charts. Like…excuse me?	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/08/26 12:49 PM
10	These People Are Delusional I’ve never thought about it like this before. Thank you for writing this, this is really interesting!	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/26 02:22 PM
6	Glorifying violence towards men I thought you were joking about the “hairy arm” until I took a closer look and saw that they actually bothered to draw hair. Everything is deliberate	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/26 01:43 PM
8	More misandry everywhere They don’t think misandry is real while they blame misogyny on practically every difficulty that a woman faces. When they see women struggling or being treated badly, they blame it on misogyny, something that they seem to believe is the leading cause of death and abuse in women? They don’t seem to consider misandry as something that also leads to the death and abuse of millions of men, because to them, men are “privileged” and that gives them the right to crap on them because “oh, well it’s not …	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/26 01:38 PM
1	Sure Thank you for replying. You have a point when you say I’m probably overthinking it lol My apologies if I misinterpreted. I just thought what the OOP was talking about as well as the nature of the post could be analyzed as something that was relevant to OP’s post here.	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/26 01:29 PM
1	Sure [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/08/26 04:22 PM
10	Apparently things that are poorly designed __must__ be designed by a man 🙄 The first one is odd to me. Like…how else is a button supposed to be designed?	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/08/26 03:49 PM
4	“I don’t know what it’s like to actually love and adore a man.” “Baby” is pretty much used to refer to someone that you think its cute. People think babies are cute, so when they think a person close to them is cute, they call them “baby”	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/08/26 03:48 PM
3	What are some advantages of being born male? I'm not trying to ignore your claim that this subreddit has expressed sentiment that would be recognized as misogynistic or out of touch with reality. At the same time, this subreddit has expressed sentiment that can be unmistakably recognized as a kind that sheds light on real world problems many people did not know about regarding men's systemic obstacles. I did read what you said about seeing how different people think and about sending screenshots of posts on this sub to your family or to ot…	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 01:54 PM
3	What are some advantages of being born male? I did read your post and the convo. What I'm confused about is your claim that this subreddit is "toxic" an "echo chamber", "contains asinine BS". Do you really see it like that? Because it's definitely not that when you look at the actual attempts made by most users to push for recognition of men's issues. If you really don't believe that this subreddit is serving its intended purpose and if you do believe that it is in fact hindering MRA, then, in the least-aggressive way possible, why keep vi…	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 01:31 PM
6	What are some advantages of being born male? I mean to tell you that this subreddit isn't a toxic echo-chamber nor is it primarily made up of asinine BS. It seriously is a space where people do become more cognizant of systemic discrimination against men when they were previously unaware as well as a space where men aren't expected to tolerate being treated the way they would be treated in practically any other space on Reddit or by radical feminists and misandrists in the real world. Might I tell you that some women who enter this sub are…	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 01:00 PM
2	What are some advantages of being born male? Thank you for your example. Please take a look at these if you have time: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1virga2/plea_for_refuge_for_male_victims_of_domestic/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1vj1tv2/the_talibans_war_on_education_nobody_talks_about/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1v0p10m/til_that_in_june_2026_the_european_court_of_human/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1vbmevo/post_about_a_female_teacher_who_sexually/	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 12:52 PM
6	What are some advantages of being born male? Could you explain what you mean by this?	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 12:32 PM
4	Sure Oh, yes. We should all be SO grateful LOLLLLL	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/08/26 10:02 PM
22	What are some advantages of being born male? Men are way more likely to be victims of violent crime. Not being worried doesn’t mean you’re completely safe…	/r/MensRights	08/08/26 09:21 PM
5	We shouldn't forget that Feminist Men are a huge obstacle to Men's Rights Fundamentally speaking, feminism is by nature rather overly female-centric. It’s been known to try to portray social and systemic issues that affect women as ONLY affecting women, thereby disregarding the fact that it’s not solely women who are faced with social and systemic issues that exist throughout society as a whole. Feminism sometimes presents issues that affect everyone as issues that women have to deal with and portray women’s suffering as inherently greater than men’s or children’s. Wh…	/r/MensRights	08/08/26 09:19 PM
7	Sure I’m pretty sure that this post is a slight paraphrase of a TikTok post that was crossposted on a “femcel” community that I saw a while back. It’s been a full year. Can’t they come up with any NEW rhetoric? <image>	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/08/26 03:19 PM
4	Sure This was from a post titled “I hate black men” on a femcel space. <image>	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/08/26 03:08 PM
18	Both Takes Are Awful The male love interest in the top-left movie also has cancer…	/r/EverydayMisandry	07/08/26 01:05 PM
17	Recently had a friend tell me that male loneliness and depression is essentially a less important issue because it's "self imposed" by men. I'm not even sure what that's supposed to imply. It honestly feels like these kinds of women use the “male loneliness epidemic” the same way they use words like “the patriarchy”. They use terms like that to blame men for their own problems and/or as proof that men are responsible for what’s wrong with society. If not, they claim that men’s “loneliness” is nowhere near as big of a problem as what “they, as women” deal with in society and that men don’t know what it feels like to be truly disadvantaged, even if they’re (men) largely aren’t the o…	/r/MensRights	07/08/26 01:03 PM
3	Why does reddit think a man has a bad personality if he vents about dating without blaming women? There is truth to what you’re saying and it’s always good to be self-aware and try to figure out which parts of your life could use improvement. But if someone’s saying “I’m not ready for a relationship” and actually means “I’m not ready for a relationship with YOU”, then who’s to say that there isn’t someone out there who IS ready for a relationship with the person who got rejected? I guess the bottom line is that being rejected doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve done anything bad. But if you…	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 11:04 PM
2	Why does reddit think a man has a bad personality if he vents about dating without blaming women? No fr like why did they start talking about THAT stuff lol	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 09:53 PM
2	Why does reddit think a man has a bad personality if he vents about dating without blaming women? That’s a possibility, but there’s also instances where the guy really isn’t doing anything wrong. Someone can be good-looking, in really good shape, and have a stable career as well as a friendly personality but still struggle in dating if potential partners say “I’m not ready” or “he’s a good friend, but I’m just not attracted to him” or “it’s not you, it’s me”. Often, when guys express frustrations with their dating situations, they’re not blaming anyone specifically, they just wish they could…	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 09:52 PM
15	Misandrists shouldn't be proudly celebrating their misandry. Misandrists aren’t shamed for expressing hateful attitudes towards men because they’re conditioned to think that what they’re saying is justified courtesy of their “trauma”. You could also say that, when they see a man behave in a way that they don’t approve of, they use the statement “I hate men” as some kind of twisted virtue signal that’s supposed to indicate a zero-tolerance policy for anything that could be potentially perceived as “misogynistic”. So, the statement “I hate men” plus “whatev…	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/08/26 05:23 PM
1	I had an argument with a misandrist on X It’s true that you can’t know, but if you really can’t know, then why assume that they’re dangerous? There ARE risk factors, but there’s also a pretty good chance that they aren’t a threat either.	/r/EverydayMisandry	31/07/26 05:13 PM
1	I had an argument with a misandrist on X Hm. I would probably say something like, “I would tell her to not assume that they would do anything crazy, because being around a group of men on a dark empty road isn’t automatically a dangerous situation. What would make that a potentially dangerous situation were if the group were persistently harassing her, becoming aggressive, or were carrying weapons. Harassment, aggression, and being armed can be considered threats. Men by themselves aren’t.”	/r/EverydayMisandry	31/07/26 11:59 AM
0	I had an argument with a misandrist on X Yes	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/07/26 09:28 PM
11	I had an argument with a misandrist on X What does “look like dangerous types” mean? Same logic racist people use btw (Edit): And how can you tell if someone’s “dangerous” or “not dangerous” just by looking at them? You really can’t. You don’t actually have a proper reason to believe that someone could be dangerous unless they’re actively making threats or have already done something that endangers someone else.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/07/26 07:11 PM
1	I had an argument with a misandrist on X What does “look like dangerous types” mean? Same logic racist people use btw (Edit): And how can you tell if someone’s “dangerous” or “not dangerous” just by looking at them? You really can’t. You don’t actually have a proper reason to believe that’s someone could be dangerous unless they’re actively making threats or have already done something that endangers someone else.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/07/26 07:10 PM
1	I had an argument with a misandrist on X What does “look like dangerous types” mean? Same logic racist people use btw	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/07/26 07:06 PM
62	New ridiculous feminist claim: 1/10 men have sexually assaulted children I wonder if the “1/6 men experience sexual attraction to children” is just men experiencing sexual attraction to older teens who would legally be classified as minors. They would just be calling them “children” (they’re not) to make that sound way worse than it is.	/r/MensRights	29/07/26 02:56 PM
47	Concerning statistic Oh yeah lol. Btw guys this was the person’s comment <image>	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/07/26 04:28 PM
31	“Men used to go to war.” And because they seem to think that men went to war “for women”, when they were actually doing it because they wanted to protect their countries, were deceived, or were forced into it. It’s as if they just think that’s it’s all about them	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/07/26 02:34 PM
9	Is R*pe a spectrum ? Like 65% of these aren’t even rape…	/r/MensRights	26/07/26 02:28 PM
114	Concerning statistic Is it just me or are women who criticize men for being “toxic” and “offensive” actually way more hateful and unforgiving than the men they’re talking about? They’re just using their self-proclaimed status as “victims” to project their constant stream of negativity on people who haven’t done anything to them. The men that they think are bad are just average people living their lives - NOT criminals, NOT actively doing anything immoral - while the women who detest them spend their days living in a…	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/07/26 02:23 PM
7	Experienced this indirectly many times, agree It’s definitely overused, but in my opinion, the term shouldn’t exist at all seeing as “incel” is technically gender-neutral (like you mentioned) even though the word has an overwhelming association with men. The biggest difference between self-proclaimed “femcels” and “incels” is that “femcels” will break their backs claiming that they, being women, aren’t nearly as bad as “incels” by using reasoning such as “I’m not like a man, I want more in a relationship than just the physical, I want a par…	/r/EverydayMisandry	23/07/26 07:28 PM
13	Experienced this indirectly many times, agree This is a little off-topic but can we quit using terms like “femcel” to describe women who blame men for their problems? They’re really not any different from who they call “incels” when all they do is complain about men and how they think their opinions of men are reasonable or justified. They act like being women and having bad experiences with SOME men makes them different from “incel” men and argue that the “femcel” term signifies something else entirely i.e “I’m just a girl who’s sick of be…	/r/EverydayMisandry	23/07/26 06:14 PM
27	Stupid misandrist conspiracy Some women’s ability to depict themselves as positively, earnestly, and utterly harmlessly while trashing men in the same breath needs to be studied. Like, “look at me, I’m just a little woman who wouldn’t hurt a fly, I love taking care of children because that’s who I am, UGH MEN MEN MEN GET OUT OF MY WAY YOU SUBHUMAN ENTITIES” And how is she gonna claim that she “doesn’t think aliens are bad” or she’s “not portraying men badly by calling them aliens” when she’s using things like rape and slave…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/07/26 09:27 PM
63	Volunteer wants to stop feeding orphaned boys because they are ‘future oppressors’ I refuse to believe that this is real <image>	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/07/26 06:16 PM
2	"Feminism is for men too!" Thank you for posting about this here. I tried writing about this on another men’s advocacy sub and my post was taken down because I didn’t blur the name/subreddit properly.	/r/MensRights	22/07/26 02:16 PM
1	Who has more reverence for people? Men or women? This is something that might not appear to be a gender issue (maybe it isn’t), but in my experience, the way I’ve seen most women handle disrespect is pretty different from the way I’ve seen men handle disrespect. That could be because women’s version of respect isn’t the same as men’s version of respect. I’ve noticed that some women use the “they don’t seem to respect me, so why should I respect them?” rationale more often then some men do, because they tend to think that any “disrespectful” co…	/r/MensRights	22/07/26 12:30 AM
12	“Guys I’m censoring men because it’s a trigger word!” Okay why do they pull the “men don’t see women as people” “men don’t treat women as people”? Do they think men treat women like they treat inanimate objects? It really makes me wonder how they think a man “should” actually treat a woman.	/r/MensRights	21/07/26 06:35 PM
10	The State of Feminist Philosophy: "Men Are Hurting Themselves While Hurting Women" The amount of women who complain that they’re being treated badly/worse then men only to describe the exact same kind of treatment that men have been given since the beginning of time is wild. What usually causes that kind of thinking is just their complete lack of focus on issues that men have and their tendency to blame their own treatment on “this is happening to me because I’m a woman” even though the irony is that they’re now getting treatment typically associated with men’s roles in societ…	/r/MensRights	16/07/26 04:48 PM
2	Women hold by law more rights than men, and feminist seem to care little to none I’m sorry what	/r/MensRights	11/07/26 05:05 PM
7	The western world is quasi-matriarchy even if most presidents are not women. “Quasi-matriarchy” could refer to the pattern of women assuming roles of authority throughout the societal level and using their authority to push gynocentric worldviews. Women who enter these positions and use them to push an agenda therefore still have control over how young people develop the perspective that we live in a “patriarchy. I personally have noticed a pattern of female educators endorsing misandrist attitudes and they more often get away with it because of the belief that they’re j…	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 02:52 PM
9	In your own opinion, How would a conversation between a Woman misandrist and a Man sexual assaulted victim by a woman would be genuinely? It would probably be pretty dependent on how the man talks about how his experience impacted him. Misandrists often hold the belief that men don’t have reasons to dislike women outside of “they don’t wanna date me”, so if the male victim were to express himself by saying “I hate women” or something of the sort, the woman misandrist would probably respond by calling him an incel because she thinks that the reason for him saying that is because a woman doesn’t want to date him. This sentiment woul…	/r/MensRights	06/07/26 07:33 PM
1	This is actually hilarious Facts	/r/EverydayMisandry	05/07/26 12:02 AM
1	Stop conflating the Men’s Rights Movement with the manosphere OP is addressing the issue of people assuming that MRA (an attempt to spread awareness about systemic and societal issues that most often affect men) is the same exact thing as the manosphere (internet spaces that are designed to appeal to men using entertainment that men commonly consume and are sometimes used by people who take advantage of men). Sometimes when people come across a space such as r/MensRights or are confronted with scenarios in which a man is being targeted systemically, they s…	/r/MensRights	05/07/26 12:01 AM
3	Why do women want to go to predominantly male communities/hobby ? She and her mom were beefing with the son, no one was “beefing” with them	/r/MensRights	29/06/26 11:34 PM
6	Why do women want to go to predominantly male communities/hobby ? Idek why people ask for evidence/personal experiences only to just refuse to believe them	/r/MensRights	29/06/26 11:33 PM
13	What I've been witnessing. Women can get away with saying stuff like “men are useless” as if men don’t build their houses and workplaces, “men are naturally violent” as if every man has an innate desire to hurt people, and “we should just lock men up in a cage” as if men aren’t humans with a desire for free will. Most people probably don’t love it when men say the same or even way less about than what some women do about men. And the people that are okay with it assume that “oh but men ARE more violent! Women are just tir…	/r/MensRights	20/06/26 06:18 PM
4	Umm, Men Are Also Vulnerable In War? Yeah. Men don’t seem to constantly need to be validated of their victimhood and oppression the way some women do, hence why the “women most affected” rhetoric is so common	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 04:42 PM
3	As someone who has suffered from violence commited by women the worst part about it is that it will simply continue and that I will pretty much have to accept it in the future And people say that “men don’t hate women for the same reasons women hate men”. So sorry for your experience. You shouldn’t have to tolerate this! And the fact that you had to state that you aren’t blaming women (it’s clear that you aren’t) means that somebody with bad faith is gonna twist what you’re saying.	/r/MensRights	18/06/26 11:13 PM
4	NO ONE knows about men’s issues The men that are in charge of the system are not the same men that suffer from that system. That’s a situation where a man with higher status, more money, and more connections has a much greater say over what happens in society than an average man with an average income without any political connections or agenda. From what I understand, there have been attempts made by MRAs to “change the system” via rallying support for men’s issues as well as support for men who are disenfranchised or abused …	/r/MensRights	15/06/26 03:44 PM
7	NO ONE knows about men’s issues Do you think that calling a woman a bitch is worse than saying men should start their lives in prison and earn their way out? Neither is right	/r/MensRights	15/06/26 03:35 PM
9	NO ONE knows about men’s issues Men fight in wars because they were the ones that set that system up 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ most of men’s issues are caused by the very system they made themselves hundreds of years ago Men today are not to be blamed for a system that was made by people who happened to be men hundreds of years ago. The men dealing with these issues did not make that system "themselves". I'm not trying to ignore the former half of your paragraph, it's just that this rhetoric in particular is unhealthy.	/r/MensRights	15/06/26 02:07 AM
4	NO ONE knows about men’s issues I agree. No one learns anything from being attacked. The best way to spread awareness is via having proper discussions and trying to understand everyone’s perspectives.	/r/MensRights	14/06/26 01:27 PM
14	Anyone else hate the phrase 'Well, I'm carried the baby for 9 months and gave birth, so I get top priority'. Facts lol. Sometimes people on women’s subs act like being a woman is an automatic guarantee of righteousness and being a man makes your opinion invalid…like, what happened to just being a person with thoughts	/r/MensRights	01/06/26 12:41 AM
5	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support “i will struggle to feel sympathy for you if you’ve ever made or allowed dehumanizing jokes about women” There’s some kinda crazy stuff being said to OOP, but this one in particular stood out because it’s even crazier. Like…what makes that person think that their “sympathy” is the most important thing here? Why do they act like men want pity and not support? And since when was “making or allowing dehumanizing jokes about women” the deal breaker for having some level of compassion? That’s a prett…	/r/MensRights	29/05/26 08:52 PM
5	Can we talk more about this pattern of privileged women thinking they're oppressed by men Poor communities commit more crimes because they're poor. Men in those communities commit more crimes against women because they're poor and feel the relentless pressure to "be a man" in a world that will deny them everything. Yep. And not only do poor men struggling from being poor commit more crimes as a means of self-defense/survival, but most of the victims of those crimes aren't even women anyway. So women as a group aren't being targeted by underprivileged men in those scenarios either, an…	/r/MensRights	25/05/26 03:37 PM
2	102% Male disposability here People really seem to base a man’s value and state of “goodness” over how nice and yielding he is to women	/r/MensRights	23/05/26 02:51 AM
24	Chronically online Women who complain that men don’t help anymore. I’ve noticed that sometimes some women state their reasons for disliking men and they say, “men haven’t protected me from ANYTHING” and “I can’t see him as a man if he won’t protect me” as if his state of being a man is completely dependent on how she feels…	/r/MensRights	06/05/26 05:54 PM
8	Any other straight white men avoid public places as much as possible? For your information, that’s actually not the biggest focus of this subreddit	/r/MensRights	06/05/26 10:37 AM