But her being kicked out and homeless is just not enough. I want her to remember "If I meet a good man I will never make this mistake again." At least treat the next guy well.
I didn't do it just for myself. I did it for every good man who has been with a toxic woman. For every man who loved a woman but was used for his resources. For everytime were told men are non-committal. She has nowhere to go. Too bad!
Let me ask you man; are you a power mod? Besides this one thing is there enjoyment in your life? Because this is my only problem. I've got other things covered.
So you created a sub for men who need help with detoxing the redpill. A few people who does want to leave the mentality behind gets to meet you. Very brash on your delivery my friend. But anywhom, if a person was trying to avoid breaking up or whatever like they used to; I'm sure you can give some practical, sensible, advice.
I can confidently say you come here to this board so you can feel better about your situation in real life. Sorry man, smoking Reggie is really bad for the brain.
As someone who is trying to detox from the redpill and its alternatives I have came here to ask. I'm trying to get advice. But thank you for your VERY helpful advice.
This is all my fault. Had I not been a wimp and stood up for myself from the beginning this would not happen. Yeah I would have probably got broken up with still but at least I would have been real with myself. Edit: What if instead of being scared of being alone. I fully and overly embraced it. What if I accept that I may die alone and that's okay. I'll continue working on myself and be happy by myself from here on out. Nobody owes me a relationship or is it their jobs to make me comfortable in…
I have gone to therapy to learn how to speak effectively in a relationship. I speak with her and let her talk. I don't name call or yell at her. I try my very hardest to be as fair as possible and take the lessons from therapy into my relationship. So no; she was not chewed out.
But I'm getting ghosted for standing up for myself. The first time I have ever been in a relationship where I stood up for myself; this happens. I always had a fear of standing up in my last relationships because of this exact thing happening "Stand up for yourself she'll respect you down the line." -ends up getting ghosted.
Why did this have to happen. We live together but I haven't seen her for 4 days. I needed 2 days to recuperate from our fight and figure things out. She decided to take a extra two without communicating.
