wonderinwork Archive

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3	CMV: Hyper-individualism is the root cause of almost all SMP problems What has messed up dating is that females now work and sometimes out-earn men. They are also often doing most of the house work, and doing the bulk of raising the kids. Most men want to be the leader in relationships so they can feel respected and looked up to. But now they have help-mates doing most of the work, which they like at the start. But over time, the guy loses respect from his family (and lets face it, society) because effectively the woman forced into being career oriented to bring m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/18 12:30 AM
6	Marriage/LTR Material Women In b4 the, "women are hypergamous, they all cheat and manipulate" comments. Meanwhile, i've seen 2 girls in dating groups i'm in recently, have their male partners leave while pregnant Oh but, but, but "no fault divorce" puh-lease. Divorce usually results from women being sick of being the man in the relationship- providing, healing, loving, working, supporting and raising the kids. While he does the bare minimum and expects "respect" and be seen as a leader. If the female is contributing mone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/18 12:25 AM
2	How can I go back? I want to forget everything Love this!!! we are all responsible for ourselves and only ourselves. We can be healthy and happy and if someone wants to come along for the ride, well then we'll end up attracting the best person we possibly can because we're coming from a place of wholeness and not lack!	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:57 AM
3	How can I go back? I want to forget everything Check out conscious relationship materials - i.e. spiritual systems for masculine and feminine. It will help heal your heart :)	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:55 AM
1	How can I go back? I want to forget everything I feel for you OP. There is lots of hope for you. These philosophies are rooted in insecure and anxious attachment (all girls cheat). I know that TRP and similar philosophies back this up with "statistics", but it stems from an anxious and insecure mindset. Have a read into attachment styles, and figure out yours. You might be surprised that you may not have secure attachment right now, and have some healing to do. There are lots of resources out there to feel like you can learn to trust others-…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:52 AM
2	Unconditional security makes women bored? Also, why does it matter what studies say? confidence and happiness are an inside job. You live your life how you want to. Simple as that. I know that these communities like to use "facts", studies and bizarre ideas of evolutionary biology to "help men understand the game with women". How about this strategy- love yourself and only accept women in your life who are willing to have a healthy and happy relationship, who take ownership for their feelings. And don't depend on each other to be "the b…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:42 AM
2	Unconditional security makes women bored? Your job in life is to put yourself first, look after your own emotions, inspire yourself, so that it over flows and you can share wholesome love with your partner. If you got in a relationship with your partner from a place of self love, then likely you've selected someone (or some people if not monogamous) to do the same with you. I'm not sure why anxious attachment, insecure and other types of people are telling mass groups of people how they should act in relationships. If you're a secure pe…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:34 AM
4	Showing insecurity to a women is game over? Very mature! :) the one thing all these new age relationship philosophies lack- in both mens and womens circles- is a healthy and secure relationship mindset. No one can love us, any more than we love ourselves. The idea that "a woman" would cheat simply for showing vulnerability is silly. Because what confident guy is attracted to insecurity in women either? It doesn't matter anyway, because confidence is an inside job and no one "causes" another to cheat. They make their own decisions. OP, I w…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:26 AM
1	The Wall - What it is, what it isn't, and why it matters for men. As a female, it's good to see the truth from a man's perspective. I used to have a very positive view of men and relationships, I still love my father with all my heart and he was a great model in my mind... but now with the knowledge of red pill i'm pretty sure that I never want a relationship again lol. Not all women are like how you write, but I doubt that the good ones like I am, will be good to anyone after reading this. I am convinced that my father is the only male in the world who will n…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/18 10:14 AM