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I’ll start by saying, I’m no James Bond, Brad Pitt looking, girls begging on my feet having ass dude. I’m an average dude, I know what I want and who MY “market” is. First, I learn what they’re like. How do we respond to each other? Do we share a sense of humor? Values?Basic social stuff. I do this to everyone. Hot, ugly, cool, weirdo, loser. Whatever. I don’t even give a shit, my question is, are we cool? Second, IF I like her, whether she’s shy or not, I’ll just be straightforward. Usually fro…
/r/seduction30/03/20 11:49 PM
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The way I see it, everyone has flaws, literally everyone. What you decide to do and how you deal with that is on you. I’ll give a personal example, my ex had an narcissism problem. She wasn’t a full blown narcissist but she IS heading there. Everything had to be centered around her, and I mean everything. Why? Because to her she had everything figured out, she was completely flawless, she’s never wrong, I was weakening her, that’s just how she was raised, whatever. This is all according to her. …
/r/seduction25/03/20 04:32 PM
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It’s best to set boundaries as early as possible.
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:41 PM
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Had a girl give me a predatory stare once. It’s creepy and uncomfortable. It gives the feeling of being stalked. Nothing charming about that shit.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:48 PM
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Can be quite a pain in the ass
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:38 PM
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Dude if she’s with you and is enjoying being with you, that’s all that matters. Btw, you’re seeing other women as well. It’s fair fucking game at that point and if they can handle it so can you.
/r/seduction09/09/19 02:07 PM
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Fair game. Mans gotta do what a mans gotta do. Best of luck to ya!
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:51 AM
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Do you feel sexy? I recently questioned the same things you were feeling after spending time with my FwB. For some reason I felt like I needed to talk with more girls and reinforce the idea that I’m still attractive even though I had a great time with a woman a day before. How many girls is it gonna take to get that fulfilled? 1? 100? 1 mill? I think it comes from this idea that we (As men) have to put in work to feel sexy. We’re not sexy unless we constantly prove it by having positive reinforc…
/r/seduction22/06/19 11:21 PM
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You could be real and say your goodbyes while also admitting that she meant something to you. That way you give her some closure but only do that if you know she felt the same. If she didn’t just move on dude, you gotta respect yourself.
/r/seduction09/05/19 08:44 PM
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Big facts
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:55 AM
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I think she was just feeling nervous/insecure. As a guy, sometimes I don’t want to have sex because my self image doesn’t reflect what I’m feeling plus the expectation to have sex adds to that. Imagine you lost everything that made you desirable, you’d feel disgusted to have someone want to have sex with you; especially if you cared about that person. That’s normal to feel but not to her, she probably doesn’t know how to handle said emotions. Idk what you’re chemistry or interactions/goals with …
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:30 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:02 AM
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You can look into polygamy which some people do engage in but if they’re not about that don’t waste your time. But lets say you’re really curious and you want experience, see how you handle being around a cool boyfriend and a girl you’re attracted to. Nothing wrong with that and it’d be very interesting and challenging if you’ve found something cool and positive out of it. I’m in this situation where a girl I like is really into my best friend and she “respects” me enough to take it to a threeso…
/r/seduction23/02/19 03:08 PM
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Don’t react to anything he does and pretty imply he isn’t worth giving attention to.
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:16 PM
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Well now you know what girls you shouldn’t take out lol
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:42 PM
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Depends on perspective. I see it as a way to keep your life less stagnant and boring while keeping your wife interested and giving her reasons to not leave you. Remember, in our culture women have tons of options.
/r/seduction04/11/18 11:11 PM
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You’ll get used to it. It’s something new to you and you’ve been taught that talking to a stranger is bad, even more so with women, so your brain is lowkey shaming you for it. Once you get enough good interactions that’s when your anxiety lowers and it becomes normal.
/r/seduction20/10/18 11:49 PM
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Yeah those people were just shitty. When you’re out there you’ll learn to quickly know who to let in and keep out. It happens, take it as a learning experience.
/r/seduction20/10/18 12:23 PM
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The thing is that it’s hard to trust strangers with personal issues despite them being professional. I went to a doctor to get diagnosed for depression and he literally said I don’t have it, without actually diagnosing but he’s happy to give me fucking random pills. Fuck. That. Guy. I still plan to try out a therapist to see if there’s something to it but man that guy really set a low bar for me.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:37 PM
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Next day rn, looking back I’m glad this was new to me and it gives me confidence knowing what direction things can turn to and it gives me a better idea of what I like/don’t like. That and the weight of responsibility on the guy’s end. Thx for ur feedback!
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:01 PM
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Yeah and I’m not used to dating apps tbh. I’m glad this turned out to be a major learning experience for me moving forward. Thx!
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:52 PM
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I don’t want ur dad’s advice
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:25 AM
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The fish is dead at this point and the fisherman is just starving. Here’s my question, I’m on Tinder and 50% of the girls never respond but haven’t unmatched me. Does persistence actually work over txt? How would you honestly feel if a dude left you a funny message let’s say once a month? Have you had this happen and how did that go?
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:08 AM
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I don’t care what the replies say, I’m replying directly to what you stated.
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:10 PM
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They are helping themselves by saying “I don’t know how to create attraction, advice?”. I get that you’re trying to help them but this is what you’re actually communicating. Think of it like slut shaming, if a girl was getting advice from you, they’d be reading this “stop feeling bad for being such a whore, just work on closing ur pussy you slut, just remind yourself to not be so slutty next time LUL.”. Best way to help a dude get over their problem is by forgetting virginity is even a thing jus…
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:02 PM
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Just have fun and lead the girls that like you. Girls instantly like a guy that can handle being surrounded by women and if he can have his own fun and be flirty, they’ll just naturally follow you around.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:23 PM
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Shit tests are bullshit. There is no difference between a shitty person/“shit test”/shitty whatever. Everyone gets shit from people and life itself. EVERYONE. The real “shit test” is yourself, do you take the shit life throws at you and with grace? That’s what gets women turned on and guys to respect you, cause thats tough. Great thing about it is you don’t have to get into fights too. Didn’t like how your recent incident ended but if it’s true then it is what it is. Try to avoid escalating figh…
/r/seduction14/10/18 12:39 PM
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When you said "I still approach virtually every cute girl I see, despite having (literally diagnosed) social anxiety and depression. I still try to put myself out there" ~ That's your abundance. You even confirmed that you still go out dating and in-turn making an effort to get better despite your situation. Look at it this way, I think a strong masculine figure is someone that is in a bad place and does what he has to in order to set it right or make it better. As long as you remember that you'…
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:16 PM
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People in general do that shit. But this sub is not for guys to on thinking negatively about a minority of shitty women, incels do that. That’s like Elliot Rodgers being the poster child of masculinity. Men and women do shitty things to people if they feel wronged, it’s human nature.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:02 PM
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I personally enjoy Union Sq, Manhattan. Very dynamic, places to sit and chill, plenty of people, and spots to take your girl out and have a nice time.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:06 AM
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I don’t think the point is that she’ll cheat on you eventually. The message is that she WILL find other guys attractive in the moment and that is natural. Same with guys but we all make a choice in the end, hence “what you do is up to you.”
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:47 AM
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FACTS
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:19 PM
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That guy is just being an asshole if he knowingly knows it makes you upset. “Teaching a lesson” or not that’s just stupid, why the fuck should he care? You’re there to have fun like everyone else. You have guys that do stupid shit like that and you men that actually add shit to your life. If he really gave a fuck he would add you along too since you already had girls to begin with. He seems like those guys that put other dudes down to make themselves feel better, insecured af.
/r/seduction02/04/18 05:02 AM
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Since most of the comments already give great advice I'll just leave you with this. Don't follow people's advice, just try to learn it on your own, revisit getting advice, and piece it together yourself; all in the most natural way possible. You'll feel more comfortable and you'll find yourself loving the process of seduction. You probably feel conflicted on some days where you feel like you have to compromise "a part of yourself" to "get the girl" (Moments like that can really shake you up inte…
/r/seduction11/03/18 09:38 PM
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Very interesting. I definitely sense that when I’m in that moment. I like how you pointed out that it’s a power play.
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:47 PM
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Idk if you've talked or seen the boyfriends of the girls you're fucking but the crazy out of control boyfriends are the ones that obsess over the questions you just asked. Yes, she will find other dudes attractive naturally but if you can handle yourself on that, she'd be more faithful to you than any other man unless she's the toxic bitch, which in that case leave her.
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:27 PM
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You can't force him to do it if that's just not his thing but you should let him know. He can't read your mind and who knows, maybe he also likes that but he isn't sure if you're into that. lol Call him daddy or let him know how "intimidating" he is and how easily he can break you. I know that shit gets to me.
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:14 PM
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Well you have to learn self acceptance. There is a girl out there that is crazy about you regardless of who you are because enjoy living as much as the next guy. Bro everyone at a human level is basically the same, we're all made out of the same shit and we all crawled out of a vagina, we all take a shit in the same toilet, we all have urges to blow our loads so who's really special out there? Stop thinking that you're a shitty person because we all work the same at the end of the day. Seek acce…
/r/seduction01/02/18 07:43 PM
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Don't worry about all that friendzoning and being the best man shit. It's not important, it's really fucking petty, and it's going to lead you into being a faker you. BUT if you really want to stand out from most guys, reward her when she is being real and feminine around you. Most guys will just lay on compliments like free candy and expect something back but YOU only reward her when it's EARNED and when she behaves well around you. Not only will your compliments feel super fucking powerful but…
/r/seduction01/02/18 07:17 PM
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As a man, I love when women feel free to express themselves fully around me because I value that type of freedom. So if you don't like wearing the hijab TAKE THAT SHIT OFF. I even dated a muslim woman and tbh I'm not into very traditional women, or at least women that want to "convert me". Basically don't give off the wrong impressions, if you're not traditional don't express that.
/r/seduction01/02/18 06:40 PM
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Try simple compliments to get the whole approach anxiety thing done with. They’re sweet, easy, and quick. Usually you’re nervous because once you initiate you feel like you have to be a certain way or she might murder you with words of rejection. Bro you’re mind is a good bullshitter. You can literally make eye contact and say hi and your brain will over think it, when in reality, it probably made her feel good that she was acknowledged by a confident dude or she might even think nothing; and if…
/r/seduction29/01/18 12:36 AM
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To calm the nerves I just eased myself in by engaging slowly in the moment.. Talk to a couple of people, if you have friends encourage them to dance, if you see someone that looks nervous just like you talk to them. You’re body is good at letting you know what you’re lacking so use your intuition. Btw girls love when guys approach them to dance and get grinded on. It helps them get engaged as well and let’s be real, that’s why they’re there.
/r/seduction29/01/18 12:21 AM
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I drive for uber and talk to 95% of my riders, I usually end my conversations on a high note. The most important thing I’d say is to just talk about whatever the hell you wanna talk about. Most of us have a lot of shit to say it’s just we’re afraid of what the other person will think of us. Think about how you talk to your friends, most conversations don’t entail you already knowing the person but rather getting to know; you know what I mean? Just speak your mind with full conviction and let the…
/r/seduction17/01/18 01:40 AM
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If it sounds intimidating play around with it a little. I have a deep voice too and sometimes I’ll act intimidating but in a very playful way. Own ya voice my dude!
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:18 AM
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To answer what constitutes an interesting life, I’ll tell you what I think is interesting. You should be interested in your life for it to be interesting. Ask yourself this. Who do you find more interesting? A dude that does a million things aimlessly/monotonously? Or a dude doing one simple task excitingly, with passion, strong emotion and purpose? tl;dr: It’s about the energy and attitude/intent you bring that naturally draws out interests.
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:45 PM
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Tell your friends to fuck off if they’re bothering you about it. If you liked it, then you got nothing to be ashamed about; especially if it makes you happy. Nothing bad about fucking a girl who’s on the thicc side and who knows maybe you’ll dig thiccer women more now that you’ve tried one. If you’re ashamed because your friends didn’t like what you did you gotta let them know they’re bitching over something little, and if they don’t like it don’t hang with them because that’s just immature/nega…
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:01 PM
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If I only I could upvote more than once
/r/seduction05/09/17 05:26 PM
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You're not ugly! You just need to understand how this social shit works, once you get passed that you'll forget about how you look. Do some things that you've always wanted to do but couldn't. Like learning dancing or making a YouTube channel, or art or some shit. Something where you put in a shit ton of your brain power and energy and creativity. Doesn't even have to sound cool as long as it makes you happy and gives life to your life. It will definitely help translate to meeting women as you'l…
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:31 AM
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It's good that you posted this because you're going to look back on it. Confidence is you trusting in yourself. Yes, there are things that can temporarily boost your confidence like a drug but they're not reliable. You as a person is the last reliable foundation because that's the final front frontier between the world and you killing yourself (I mean that literally). You have to look at confidence like an long term state of mind that you constantly keep building through experience and attitude;…
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:22 PM
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How'd it go man?
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:07 PM
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Girls DO approach. The thing is that women aren't into looks like guys. We have no problem approaching a bomb ass girl because she looks bomb af. The type of guys that girls have no problem approaching are men that give off clues that they're in a good vibe, he's a normal functioning human being, and she wants to be a part of that. Other than that she has no reason to approach realistically speaking, especially if she's with her girls too.
/r/seduction14/08/17 03:31 PM
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Show her that you also have hard parts!
/r/seduction14/08/17 03:16 PM
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Calm your nerves by exposing yourself to different people everyday until it's normal. You could do this a number of ways through your hobbies. Think of socializing like it's a game. You're there to have fun. Don't think about winning someone or "what's going to happen", that will get you nervous and give off creep vibes. Allow yourself to be yourself and do whatever you want to do. It's easier said than done, just practice. Notice when you hesitate or freeze up. It's mostly because you thought y…
/r/seduction07/08/17 04:21 AM
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Yoo I thought the same! If anything he should be like he's famous.
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:43 AM
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"Boo."
/r/seduction26/05/17 07:12 PM
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It can workout if you don't give off them rape sociopathic vibes xD. Like if you're not serious because we all think about fucking a random stranger, that's normal. I've seen dudes say the silliest shit anyway but they do it because it's fun so hey try it out.
/r/seduction26/05/17 06:40 PM
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Fuck the feels, just see what happens. Or just start simple by saying hi to random people. Or go out with buddies to get you in the social mood. Eventually those awkward moments don't feel awkward and you "know what to say". The more time you spend thinking the less time you spend doing. After a while you see things and not be so tensed to do what you want. But you have to practice.
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:32 PM
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A dude rocking big ears means he's also rockin big nuts. Jokes aside tho, most of the time people won't notice things you worry about. Even if a girl points something about your ears, she does it to see if your easily shaken by superficial shit. I say don't worry about it.
/r/seduction10/05/17 01:49 PM
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I'm being for real, look at yourself in the mirror, cry out all your insecurities (I'm being serious), and accept who you are regardless of what you see. Arrogance is when you, deep down, deny a part of yourself. You run from it, hide it, but it creeps out negatively. Especially with women. I've been afraid of myself for a long ass time and that shit carries with you if you don't handle it. That's why it's important for you to face what you're insecure about yourself (Look in a mirror, straight …
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:42 PM
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Nah dude give it try. See if it works, a lot of people told me to smile because I used to be insecure while someone was talking to me (I'd grind my teeth and give a neutral face). So I smiled more but that wasn't the solution really, that just emphasized more how insecure I was. You could be someone who likes to give a warm friendly face, that's cool, nothin' wrong with smiling. Give it a try, if it works then stick with it, if not then just move on. I find that for people where smiling works, t…
/r/seduction20/04/17 05:05 PM
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I can tell you what gives you negative feedback. Giving a random disingenuous or fake smile. It makes people want to punch your face. Literally google up fake smiles and you'll know what I mean.
/r/seduction20/04/17 03:03 PM
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Smoking weed, going on thrill rides, prank calling Indian customer support, smoking weed while on thrill rides prank calling Indian tech support. Just kidding...kind of, that'd be lit af. Just explore some things that interest you dude. What matters is does it matter to you. If you like it enough to be a lifestyle that's good enough. You don't need to try to be Mr. Big Dick.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:15 PM
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I like it, simple and fun.
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:58 PM
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Totally man, there's a saying that goes "Never put yourself in a fair fight." and going in cold and un prepped puts you in the disadvantage. I do something similar. I'm always excited around my best bro so I call him up and chat about anything random and it gets me in the happy vibe. It's interesting how you mentioned mostly exercise activities, I love stretching so I'll add that to the routine. Fatigue really kills your energy. Thx for the reply my dude.
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:32 AM
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Great advice. I just realized how I never really thought ahead with 'what if the girl comes to my house' (I live far from everything). But definitely it's a good 'head clear' when you don't have to worry about how your house looks and I can see how that builds confidence. I'm not up to that level yet with planning dates but it's good to know for when that comes. I could see the excitement when you know the owners of your favorite place will have your back. It's very win-win. Thx for the advice m…
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:26 AM
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Let's be real here. Both the terms need and want attributes to some sort of motivation. When you want or need something, you desire it enough to go after it. However, the main difference between the two is that need means if you fail it has negative outcomes or consequences because you're in a bad state. Whereas, wanting something makes you more in it for the chase and not worry at the end because you're not under dire circumstances. If anyone says that wanting something means you're needy, they…
/r/seduction10/03/17 09:13 PM
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Well, all I can say is you got 2 choices. Love it or hate it, you have to live with it. I have a handsome face but it's feminine handsome not masculine. Not only that but my body is built lean and small; female-like. Think of Griffith from Berserk or Spike from Bebop, I'm fine with it because it's better than being flat out ugly, my muscle shows off more easily, and women are less fearful when I approach them because I don't look threatening. There are pros and cons man. Embrace and appreciate m…
/r/seduction08/03/17 05:58 PM
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Hard to know what you mean without an actual pic of you but I don't think that's the problem. Dude you got to embrace your anime face, at least you offer sexy looks to a girl. Ask yourself if you were a girl, would you prefer a normal looking suave dude or a sexy looking suave dude that looks like he kicks ass for a living? This rhetorical but she'd choose the last one. So try seeing yourself in a positive light.
/r/seduction08/03/17 05:36 PM
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Now that you've told me, I know exactly what to do next time I see her, thx.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:05 PM
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She just wanted me to sign in for her attendance lol. I wanted to say no because usually things like this turn into habits. I also just met her so I don't want her to associate my face with "it's ok, I know he'll do it for me". But it's cool, I did it this time but if I start smelling favor vibes, nah uh. NO! Not today. That's no bueno.
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:22 PM
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Don't worry too much about being awkward and if it's really bad, try learning how to make your awkwardness into a relatable funny experience. Usually it's pretty powerful when you're able to make awkwardness funny. Laugh at yourself once in a while, very rarely are things super serious. I'll give you an example, recently I had to teach this girl basic algebra as a tutor. I like to make things simple but sometimes I don't know what the hell I'm doing, so she picked up on that. Whenever I realized…
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:10 PM
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I find that if you're the 'alpha' in your group (ie the guy everyone listens to and is centered around), it's all about how you set the 'mood' or culture of the group. So if you want to create any type of conversation, you need to focus on YOUR own emotions first and observe others to find that medium ground. As the 'alpha' you have to be strong enough to express those said emotions to others, that's why it's important to be the giver of value. You give, people receive and want to stay, socially…
/r/seduction05/03/17 06:15 AM
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Yeah I was just playing with you. Have you tried being real with her and calling her out on her creep status? You don't got to be mean, just let her know that what she is doing is wrong. If anything goes bad you can always report it or get an restraining order *if it's THAT bad. Pray you're not dealing with that.
/r/seduction03/03/17 03:19 AM
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Act needy/beta around her. Or tell her you feel complete when she talks to you and give her the look of desperation. 🤣
/r/seduction03/03/17 02:34 AM
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lol that's easier said than done. I'll try to force more smiles (Just to see what happens) in my interaction but idk I like to be real with people. If anything this tells me I should probably add more excitement to the conversation. It could just be me being afraid to look at her eyes. I won't lie, this girl's eye look solid af, it's the thing that pops out on her face the most besides the other attractive qualities. We'll see how this goes.
/r/seduction02/03/17 05:53 PM
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Damn bro. Just reading that makes it sound like it sucks to even realize but don't let it bog you down man. Instead it's a chance to see yourself improve. A lot of people on the thread think you're narcissistic but I don't think so. Narcissistic people wouldn't consider the opinions of other people because they can't see their own limits. Look up a video on people that are narcissistic and see if you act the same way. What I do see is definitely pettiness, at least from what you described.
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:15 PM
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Nah I don't that last look you mentioned lol, at least not unironically. My friend told me I should ask if I give off that look, I'll probably do that. The thing is is that whenever I converse with someone, I get so bored of the build up. Sometimes I just want to cut straight into the meat of the conversation, that's where the fun is at, that's how I connect, and if she's cool then I start building attraction. I find it very hard to time cutting off the act and just be real with each other.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:47 PM
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Yeah idk dude. That's weird af. Try to get some feedback with people that know you but not personally, so that way you get a 'real' answer.
/r/seduction01/03/17 04:16 AM
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It sounds serious then, I don't know how you guys dress so I can't say whether you look gay or not. You sure it's because of how you dress or how you guys act with each other? The only thing that comes up as dressing gay is if you're wearing a really long v neck or colorful clothing, or have some fruity hairstyle. Basically anything feminine or girls would wear. If you avoid those then you won't look gay. Or you could just search up on YouTube for how to dress manly sexy. Pick a style you like a…
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:49 AM
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You're definitely quick to get her number. Try focusing on enjoying the moment or creating an enjoyable presence. That'll make it less forced and awkward and she'll want t come back. And don't think you 'lost your chances' gg no re, she's gone forever. It was a mess up, it happens that's life. Try it again and practice making the interaction fun and enjoyable.
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:07 PM
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Totally dude. If you give off that chilled, time slows down and high feeling then go for it. Ain't nothing wrong with that and most girls resonate with that. Btw that feeling makes you feel super present and grounded.
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:02 PM
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Lol did they say it in a super serious way? I mean they could just be being flirty mean ya know? Anyways it's not like dressing fruity will all of the sudden make you crave the cock xD If you feel good by dressing sexy then own up to it. At least you're a man with taste. Next time joke around about it to show that you don't care.
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:55 PM
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I could imagine a girl taking a measuring stick from her purse to calculate your height like it matters xD Yeah don't take it too serious.
/r/seduction24/02/17 09:38 PM
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Here are some manly things men do that make men man. -The wisest of men follow their own direction. -A man walks his path with full authenticity. -A man has a keen mind with childlike curiosity. -A man perfects his skill and keeps his tools handy. -A man embraces his lover, the same as his sexuality. -All men know who they are. -No man is afraid to be men. You could write poetry with this stuff but yeah, enjoy life dude.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:41 PM
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Dude don't give up! Sometimes you need to just experiment and try different things. I hate doing traditional pickup but I love having a fun while seducing and that helped me. Try anything but giving up because that guarantees failure!
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:11 PM
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You seem pretty suave to me. If you see her again, sometimes it's good to let everyone feel your suave to get them chilled. If she felt it, other girls will feel it too. But if you want my advice, just enjoy yourself. She could be checking to see if you're someone who can have fun just being by yourself or with other people.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:05 PM
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Ya know, that's good idea, I'll give Yellow a try.
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:58 PM
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Just curious and to add to this thread but I never understood what meditation is. I tried traditional meditation before but I never felt different. My version of meditation is drinking a relaxing cup of coffee and contemplating life (More specifically past experiences) philosophically. If this counts as meditation then I'd say it helps me understand shit in a deep fashion lol. If it helps you understand the world/people/yourself, then I'd say it can totally help with game. I think most seduction…
/r/seduction15/02/17 04:31 PM
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How are your interactions like? Does it feel like you're trying to impress her? Are you both enjoying each other while conversing or does it feel like a chore? That could be the reason why women are not responding, they probably don't find you fun or engaged with them.
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:49 PM
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Personally I think one of the things women get so drawn to men is how we're able to suck them into our world and they love it. You gotta do the same for women. So what about the job that gets you turned on? If you can't express that to your woman then you probably don't find it that interesting yourself, but it sounds like you're interested in what you do. Like tell her a story about what you did that you thought was cool or joke around about something only an astronautical engineer would know. …
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:04 PM
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What they mean by that is we're both 'differently human, cool right? But what a man wants isn't the same for a woman, and vice versa. I'm speaking in extremely simple terms, you could research more into it and it's pretty interesting. You'll learn something about yourself but anyways... They tell you men are just like women to get you to just talk to them like they're human; because it's easy to tense up and not be natural when you feel like you're talking to a really attractive alien. You just …
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:49 AM
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Dude that sounds awesome man! I too have some thrills of my own but definitely talk about it. It's always good to express your passions, especially to women. Not only is it material for talk but it's interesting if you express that. Just don't be pretentious about it, it's you your selling at the end of the day not your interests. There's a difference between "I drive fast cars" and "Dude i fucking love the thrill of a good race/drive.".
/r/seduction13/02/17 08:41 PM
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Bro I felt the same exact way. I'm terrible at cold approach and using techniques and such, but when I'm at social events I'm a different person and it attracts women and it gives me way more results. It's kind of the same thing now that I think about it but I think it has to do with preference. Don't give up. Most of the inspiration comes from Casanova's Memoirs, he wasn't a pickup artist but we all know ladies loved this dude. Have fun on your journey.
/r/seduction12/02/17 08:08 PM
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