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| 2 | I never really understood the appeal of thongs. What am I missing and why do women actually like wearing them?Women fart? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 23 | Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido?expecting promiscuous people to be better at sex than non-promiscuous ones kinda makes sense? The most promiscuous women I know are not promiscuous because the enjoy sex, they are promiscuous because they have low self esteem and enjoy the ego boost from having men "desire" them... while not really understanding that it is not them as a person that the men desire, it is the use of her vagina that they desire. The women I know with high n-counts are actually below average in physical attractivene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ?I'd like to see the equality that women say they want. That means 50% of septic tank cleaners should be women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:42 AM |
| 6 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highYou are free to set your standards as high as you like. The only thing that annoys me is that women constantly complain about being pumped and dumped. What else would you expect when you are all after the same man? It makes women as a whole appear incredibly naive. You can all fight over that 10/10 man… but realistically you need to be a 10/10 woman to have a chance at a relationship with him. Half of all women are in the bottom half of all women. That’s a statistic that no woman wants to admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Both genders may prefer lower counts, but women rarely will pass up a Chad based on his n count alone. For men, a high n count woman is generally seen a recreational use only. For women, she will likely still want a commitment from Chad despite his high n count. So while many women may prefer a lower n count, they will make an exception for Chad because... well, he's Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Settle down with the back up plan after you are infected with herpes, HPV and who knows what else. Great advise! By the way... men know when they are the back up plan. A self respecting man won't put up with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:45 AM |
| – | How many dates should a woman wait to have sex, in your opinion?If the time spent in the waiting period exceeds the value of the goods offered, I'm out. In other words, I'm not waiting 3 months for Chad's leftovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:35 PM |
| 40 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?Women’s go-to insults revolve around men’s manhood and their inability to get sex. Which is ridiculous when you consider that all women can have as much free sex as they want. It's like a rich kid who was born rich making fun of the poor kid who was born in a homeless shelter. The rich kid did nothing to become rich, he was born that way. The poor kid did nothing to become poor, he was born that way. Women would be incels if they suddenly became men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy?are men here actually putting in effort, or do they just think getting women should be easy? Well, I do know that women put in no effort and getting men for them is easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:25 AM |
| – | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Men are disgusted by each other I have to agree with this. If I am in a crowded area where people are sitting near me, I don't like when men sit near me. There is kind of a natural repulsion that I feel. The dude could be a great friendly dude... I just don't want him that close to me. I don't enjoy the fact that I feel this way toward my fellow man.... I just do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:47 PM |
| – | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I think it is because throughout history, humans have always seen more value in women. Men are seen as disposable and easily replaceable by both men and women alike. Do you care about the young homeless man you saw on the street? Probably not. Do you care about the young homeless women on the street? Yeah, that is much sadder isn't it? I recently watched a youtube video where they were interviewing meth addicts on the street. There was one in particular where they interviewed a women. She was mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:03 PM |
| – | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Because nobody cares about men. Not even men themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:31 AM |
| – | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistI'm not on Instagram, but I will show you thousands of examples. Go to r/fat. You can spend all day looking at women who are legit 1 or 2 out of 10 getting complements from simps telling them how beautiful they are. While you are at it... Think of the 3 ugliest women you know who are on facebook. Now look at their selfies. See all the comments from people telling them how beautiful they are? See how many heart emojis they have? Do the 3 ugliest men you know on facebook have any comments from peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 05:11 PM |
| – | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps Existany slightly above average woman can get attention, dates and hookups from virtually any specific type of man she wants, just by flicking her fingers she can make it happen anytime on command. Even well below average women can do this. I blame us men for this. Stop giving women free attention and validation. Look at any women's social media. Even the ugly ones have countless simps telling them how beautiful they are. That is why women post so many selfies. They get free attention and validation.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:46 PM |
| 10 | Is it true that women give sex to have love? That the end goal for women is emotional bonding, not any sort of physical fulfillment?Women don't "give sex". It's not like a reward system. Many women actually do use is as a reward/punishment system. Men with few options are easily manipulated this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.The women who don't want to be approached are certainly more vocal than the ones who want to be approached. I have never heard a women say "gee wiz... I wish more men would approach me" Regardless, rejecting men in mass is essentially saying "don't approach me". In the days before OLD, this was the only way. These days approaching is just a waste of time and can actually be risky for men. I hope more men come to the conclusion that stroking women's ego is not in anyone's best interest. Men shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.So you're saying most women want average men to approach them? Since there is a 98% rejection rate for the average man, do women just want the ego boost? I'm not talking about Chad here. I'm talking the average 5/10 common man. If most women want these men to approach as you seem to indicate, it appears that the women like the power of rejection. It's the power of rejection that the women want... they don't want the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.But every man who is not the top 5% in the looks category is considered a creepy harasser by default. I read and hear about women hating being approached constantly. I don't even acknowledge women anymore. Women... "Can't I just go grocery shopping without these creeps approaching me?" "Can't I just go to the bar without these creeps approaching me?" "Can't I just go to the coffee shop without these creeps approaching me?" "Can't I just go to the dance club without these creeps approaching me?" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:34 PM |
| 18 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Women don’t want any man approaching unless that man is Giga Chad Thundercock Esq. Don’t waste your time gentlemen. Don’t acknowledge them or help them either. If they don’t want you to talk to them why would you bother helping her change a tire or risk injury fighting off the man who is assaulting her on the subway? Just go about your life as if she didn’t exist. She sure doesn’t want you to exist other than for the utility value you provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:43 PM |
| 4 | CMV: the woman is the prizeBecause simps lower the value of men. Simps give free attention to low value women in their desperation for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 6 | CMV: the woman is the prizeShe is a 3/10. Only simps date women like that. Unfortunately, there is no shortage of simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementDo you think porn is only videos of men banging women? I doubt that would be the most popular type of porn. There are many types of porn. Almost unlimited. If a man wants to watch a red-head bang a cucumber... it's out there somewhere, and it's free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementWhy would that be a problem? There are already too many men in the dating market. The more men content with porn means the less men cluttering the dating market. It's a win for women also. They are tired of men approaching them. The more men who can substitute porn for women, the less men there are bothering women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementI'm not sure what you find weird about it. The man is looking for a stimulating image. He doesn't have to like the person who made the image. Does a women have to like the person in the factory who assembled her dildo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesProbably because is a good analogy... Voluntarily wearing something that is going to increase the risk of a certain event happening. You will say that women have been cat-called wearing baggy sweatpants and I will say that men have been mugged wearing a Casio. What is with women wearing such revealing clothing and at the same time complaining about all the creeps starting at her? Men don't walk around with our scrotum dangling out of our shorts because we are not attention/validation seekers to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesI should be able to wear a Rolex and expensive suit while walking around a crack-head area of town and not worry about getting mugged. I should be able to leave a pile of cash on my car seat with the doors and windows open and not worry about it being stolen. I should be able to walk around town naked with my junk dangling in the wind without getting arrested. The real world doesn't care about what I should be able to do. I adjust accordingly because I know that actions have consequences. I am a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreNot only do women not need men, they actively avoid men. When the sewer system clogs or the electricity goes out they most certainly need men. They don't need an individual man because the men of society coddle them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.I think all men should completely stop interacting with women. This would be a huge benefit to the women who complain about men approaching them. This would allow women to pick who they want to talk to. Men would not have to wonder if they should make a move anymore. If she wanted to, she would. Leave the ball in the women's court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you CrazyWhat's so bad about promiscuous women? STD's, poor self control, poor decision making skills. It's not like a women requires skill to become promiscuous. There is nothing impressive about a women who allows random dudes to dump loads inside her. This does not make for a good long term partner. What is good about promiscuous women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you CrazyI completely agree. I have a visceral repulsion toward high n count women. Once you get above a certain number, there are no redeeming qualities that will allow me to overlook it. It is not insecurity, which is what women like to say to make them selves feel better about their past choices. If it were insecurity, I would not have standards. I have rejected many more women that I have slept with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Mandatory paternity tests are a bad ideaIt is costly to tax payers, a logistical nightmare, and susceptible to inaccuracies Having a father is more important than having a biological father It will inevitably tear some families apart and put some new mother's at risk for domestic violence. The cost could be offset by reducing welfare payments to lazy adults. If the man is not the biological father, he should know about it and make his own informed decision on raising Chad's kid. Why should a man be forced to stick around if it's not h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:02 PM |
| 4 | How would you summarise the new social contract for average men to follow, for average dating success?new social contract for average men to follow Never approach. Don't initiate any interactions. If they wanted to talk, they would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | "I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos)How do I know what my smv actually is? From the men who have had committed relationships with you. Not fuck buddies, not pump and dump... but actually committed relationships where the man actually entertained the possibility of a future with you. (not pretended to like you for a few months so he could borrow your vagina until something better came along) If the stud 8/10 investment banker wants to marry you, you probably have a high SMV. If the 5'4" overweight balding septic tank cleaner was th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Women destroy other Women's commitment options“Jane, a septum ring would look great on you!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:36 AM |
| – | Why does taxicab theory frustrate women?im frustrated most women still believe men are wonderful effect. I have never heard of this. I constantly hear women and media in general constantly bash men. This is why so many young men stay at home playing video games and masturbating. Why venture out into a society that hates them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:22 PM |
| – | Are women "witholding affection from men"?Women don’t owe random strangers affection. If they are in a relationship, most people expect a certain minimum level of affection from their partner. If the affection level from your partner does not meet your minimum level, I suggest you end the relationship sooner rather than later. On the flip side, men don’t owe random women anything either. Men don’t owe women a seat when they are standing, they don’t owe women protection from the creepy junkie approaching her, they don’t owe women a tire … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 06:31 PM |
| 24 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Ok I'm getting downvoted. Which part is the problem Men with standards are always shamed by women. You should be happy that they have a vagina. That is all most of them are even able to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:54 PM |
| 6 | The Problem With Dating has more to do with Mens Standards being too low or nonexistant than it does with womens standards being too highMen's standards are low because they have to be. Can you imagine a man saying that he wants a women who makes six figures and weighs less than 130lbs who doesn't have tattoos and nose rings? He would be roasted alive and cancelled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 05:17 PM |
| – | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?the release being a secondary fringe benefit that can be ignored if the former isn't available The average man is far hornier than women realize. The horniest you have ever been your entire life is just an average day walking down the street for a man. There is a reason almost all prostitutes are women and the vast majority of porn is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 05:08 PM |
| – | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?it was wanting a release one way or another. It can be hard to sleep when a man has a need to "release". It's kind of like trying to sleep when you have to urinate. All you can think is about is urinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:03 PM |
| – | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?Well if he’s watching porn then yes because that is considered infidelity in my relationship I guarantee if he isn't watching porn than he is thinking about 10/10 women with awesome bodies. If a women doesn't want to satisfy her partner that is fine. That same women has absolutely no moral authority to control how he decides to take care of business himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Women are leaving dating appsHopefully people go back to meeting in person Not likely. Men have received the message that they should not interact with women. (exceptions made for Chad) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:29 PM |
| 9 | Women are leaving dating appsYou can still approach women irl, just have the social awareness to know when it’s appropriate to and take no for an answer. simple as that Social awareness means knowing whether or not you are good looking. If you are anything other than the top 5%, it is not appropriate to acknowledge women in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Women are leaving dating appsNot for dating. They used them for validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:25 PM |
| – | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?Stop complaining about getting pumped and dumped. What else do you expect when you let men pump who who are out of your league? Stop wearing yoga pants that show your labia and complain about men staring. It’s obvious you want the attention. Stop posting selfies on social media. It looks stupid and narcissistic. Of course all your friends are going to tell you you’re beautiful. What else would they say. If you divorce your husband, just leave. Let him keep everything he earned. You should not ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:32 PM |
| – | Why is misogyny increasing on social media?What else would you expect when young men are told that they are vile disgusting piles of human feces their entire lives? Media tells us that all women are wonderful. Any of women’s flaws are the fault of men. All men are worthless. If a man is somehow not worthless it’s because the patriarchy gave him some advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?Don’t pretend that the vagina you were born with didn’t give you every penny of sexual currency you have. Your comment is on par with somebody born into wealth telling the poor kid to up his game to be a millionaire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?When a women says she will take anyone, that means she knows she can’t get a 9 or a 10 so she is lowering her standards all the way down to an 8. (Meanwhile she is a 5) Fact: Half of all women are in the lower half of all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 11:28 PM |
| – | Is this just them being too sensitive?You had to rounds around the building and chat? I have never done that at any job. I just do the job they pay me to do and then I go home. Any chatter I do is necessary for business. If you just do your job most people will leave you alone. You made it known that you were not interested so now he is leaving you alone. Don’t overthink it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 10:42 PM |
| 5 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Only a women would write or say that. I’ve never been intimidated by someone who can’t open a pickle jar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?Men have no standards because having standards would result in no sex at all. If 95% of women can only offer a vagina, demanding more than just a vagina limits options to only 5% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?Women always have and always will have an abundance of options. The number of options decreases as they age, but there will always be plenty. The women in her 20’s gets 500 matches a week. The women in her 30’s gets 450 matches a week. The men get 2 matches a month and one is a bot and the other doesn’t reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:33 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menI think women that are ugly like myself just accept the aloness better than men. Women can always find a man at their level. Men can't. That is the difference. When a man is alone, he is alone. When a women is alone, she is choosing to reject the men on her level. She is alone by choice. She can have men on her own level lining up at her doorstep if she wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:39 PM |
| – | Man sues 27 women in an 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook groupAnd what are you gonna do to stop us? Absolutely nothing! Nothing in my post indicated that I had any intention of stopping anyone. I sit back and laugh at the situation. It would be like my paying for a hooker and getting upset that she is having sex with other men. Stupidity should hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:47 PM |
| – | Man sues 27 women in an 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook groupWomen all want to date the same men and then complain that they are dating the same men. Note to women: See that guy over there that you think is hot and you want him to use your vagina as a cum sock? All the other women want him to do the same. Don't complain about something that you enable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 7 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Women would be incels if they were men. Their abundance of options would completely vanish unless they were in the top 5% in the looks scale. They ugliest 5% of women have more options than an average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Yeah, but it shows that getting pussy requires more than just not being weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Women want to fuck us. You just gotta stop being fucking weird. Yeah. That 5'2" balding Indian dude is pounding women every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeShe has a point. However in the name of equality, women should not date if they don't put out. Stop wasting men's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women?Women are free to be as ugly as they want to be. In fact, the uglier they are, the more men are likely to ignore them... which is what women say they want in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:42 PM |
| – | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beThat sounds like a millionaire saying they feel poor because they are not a billionaire. The lonely women are just not satisfied with their options. They will always have more options than the equivalent man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:23 PM |
| 13 | The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women.Realistically, that only works for good looking men... who happen to be the same men who have no problem dating already. I agree that hungry men are inflating the value of substandard women. That will always be the case as men try to pick up Chad's scraps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Is it true that women's standards for casual are higher than her standards for a relationship?I agree. It shows that women are from a completely different planet. "Yeah, there were 100 random guys sticking their dicks in me but you are the one who gets to provide for me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:39 PM |
| – | What is the issue with men checking out women in public spaces.It's a flex. "OMG, why do I have to be so beautiful!" ...meanwhile they are showing cleavage and you can see their ass through their pants. If I walked around with half my scrotum hanging out, I would expect a few stares also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:07 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Men turned to shit. Imagine being a woman, how could you be attracted to the average guy? Have you seen the average women? The only reason average women are pursued by men is because of the incredible sex drive nature has given these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 05:31 PM |
| – | Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks?Scenario: Two people fall off a ship. One is your child, the other is some random person you never met. You have only one life preserver to throw. Who do you throw it to? Answer: You are going to throw it to you child of course. Your child is more valuable to you than some random stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:36 PM |
| – | Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks?I'm saying it is foolish an doesn't actually exist But it does exist. I'm not sure why you are having a hard time understanding this. For someone who wants to hire an engineer, someone who has a degree in engineering is more valuable than someone who doesn't know how to read and never went to school. In this case people are judging and making value determinations based on education. The person with the engineering degree gets paid more than the illiterate person. See how that works? Some people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:11 PM |
| – | Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks?sexual value is a fantasy, it only exist as a theory. People believe there is a sexual market like a grocery store and that individuals "sex" are priced liked products. It is not a fantasy or theory. Good looking people can make demands and receive a lot more than ugly people. I can't believe anyone would even question this. You see it in real life every day. If your statement were correct. A 2/10 person would command the same attention and respect on the dating market as a 10/10 person. We all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?each value is entirely random based on each particular individuals psychology. No. That is not how this works. That is not how any of this works. If your statement were true, a 5'2" man would be laying just as much pipe, and with just as much ease as a 6'2" man. Everything women want fits into a tight bell curve. Everything men want fit into a wider bell curve. Yeah, you will always have an occasional outlier in any bell curve, that is how bell curves work. The outliers aren't the rule they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that Men „enjoy“ being seen as Sex objects, while Women don‘t?Since any women can have sex at any time, it is not valuable to her. We who live in the west never think about clean drinking water because we can get it from any faucet. Someone who lives in a 3rd world country and has to walk a mile to get disease infested water values clean water more than we do. If men could swipe on their phone and have a warm vagina delivered to their door for free anytime they wanted it, it wouldn't be very valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractiveI have a co-worker who is a pussy magnet. He has laid so much pipe that his crabs have herpes. He generally will approach a women and immediately degrade her. He will say things to her such as "your outfit looks like shit", "you wear too much makeup", etc. This works for him because women find him attractive. They just giggle and ask for more. Can you imaging an overweight bald man with buck teeth saying the exact same thing? The police would be called immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Pop culture is more female-oriented in the Gen Z 2020's, which is a big part of the shift.This is victim mentality. Women don't need to sacrifice anything if they don't want to. You are free to pursue power, money and freedom. You are not being kept down. (you are actually being artificially inflated with job quotas and the push to put women in positions of power whether they are qualified or not) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Unwanted advances toward women have an under appreciated purposeAs has been pointed out before, if you can't read the room to determine whether approaching is OK, then you're self-selecting for rejection. "Women aren't a monolith. Just because you may be reading the room correctly doesn't mean that particular women wants to be approached." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | when is a woman actually good enough to commit to?Take a look at the men who commit to these women. They are not exactly the men with lots of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | when is a woman actually good enough to commit to?After the hoe phase you will have to date down in terms of looks. ...and there lies the conundrum. An average women will have sex with Chad, because she can. After she spends a couple years getting ran through by Chad and Tyrone, she realizes those men will never commit. She decides to "settle" for her looks match. The problem is that her looks match doesn't want to commit to her either because she now has a high n-count. Her looks match pumps and dumps her because she has already determined thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder"here are unemployed, drug dealing, personality disordered, futureless good-for-nothings who have absolutely no problem finding female companionship. These are the men with the genetics that women want to pass on. The issue for women is that the men with the genetics they deem appropriate to pass on to future generations are not always from the men who are the best providers. You can easily tell which group a man fall into by the "payment" or lack thereof she requires from the man. If she is havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:29 PM |
| 8 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menCould you please show me a picture of a woman deemed 'ugly' but not due to choices such as unhealthy eating, lack of exercise, abstaining from alcohol, getting tattoos, etc. ?? If a woman has good habits, she is unlikely to be considered "ugly" by anyone. Almost every ugly women I know is ugly from her own doing. It is almost as if they put effort into being ugly. Men's physical attractiveness is almost entirely genetic. Women's is almost entirely choice. If women remain fit, avoid tattoos, nose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:59 PM |
| 4 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Most women aren't out fucking Chads regularly. I agree that most don't do it regularly. I do believe that most women have fucked at least a couple Chads, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Why do men feel entitled to romance and or intimacy?Women can be happy and content with being single, why can’t men? Because society coddles women. Not men. Men have created a world where even the poor people live more comfortably than kings did hundreds of years ago. This modern society has men protecting, providing and making sure the women are living comfortably. Men are are the plumbers, electricians, and road pavers. Men pay for the single mom's child whether they want to or not. Single women are not really single. They might not have one pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 08:35 PM |
| – | Women will always have an advantage in hookup culture and it’s completely fair.Women say that sex is riskier for them yet always seem to complain when men judge women for having casual sex with random dudes. To be accurate, women should say that sex is riskier for them, but it is worth taking the risk for Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?You were not happy with the men who matched with you. If your definition of success is landing a top % man, then I would agree that you had no success. To say that you could not get a date or have sex through the apps is disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.And women find average men much uglier than men find average women. Ugly women get to experience life much like the majority of men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Would you say that men or women have more or less privileges or specifically different privileges?Drug and alcohol addictions, committing crimes, and not pursuing higher education are (with some exceptions) choices that are made. Does that apply to certain races of people also or just men? Yeah that was a trick question. Everyone is willing to be sexist against men but nobody wants to be racist... even thought the same logic applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:52 AM |
| 13 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Because they can. Go to any crack head neighborhood and you will see STD infected crack whores charging men for sex. Think about that. Even a STD infested crack whore can charge money for sex. If she can charge money, than any women can get sex for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:37 AM |
| 20 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?It's worth noting that unattractive women are more happy to be alone than men, as women tend to (not always) have more supporting social circles, supporting groups, and so on. ...and these women also know they can have sex any time they want. When you know you can have something so easy, it becomes less important to have it. We who live in the west never think about clean drinking water because we can turn on any faucet and get clean water. Same thing with women and sex. If I could get sex as ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 02:16 AM |
| – | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.Yeah, but men get arrested when they hire prostitutes. Women don't get arrested when they hire plumbers. I'm not really sure what your point is, or even if you understand the simple comments that I am making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 09:28 PM |
| – | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.I never said they couldn't. I said that women are allowed to purchase a man's services. I didn't say they were required to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:48 PM |
| – | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.If a women can purchase a man's services to unclog her toilet or fix her car, a man should be able to purchase a women's services for emptying his testicles. After all, the man must use his body to perform those services for the women. Society allows women to get all of their needs met. They make it illegal for men to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 8 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.We should demand better women, but the reality is that there are very few good women out there. The good ones are never single. Most men settle for low quality women because it is better than masturbation in theory. In reality we are probably better off just using our hands and spending our time doing better things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 04:15 AM |
| 7 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?For women, sex is like turning on the faucet to get water. For men, sex is like driving out the well drilling equipment, drilling through hundreds of feet of earth and rock, and once in a while finding water after all that work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 09:21 PM |
| 7 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.80/5000 is not so hot my man. I would say that is the batting average for the vast majority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 11:27 PM |
| 3 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateEvery approach can be construed as problematic when it is from the eyes of a woman who doesn't find any advances from a man welcome no matter how polite he is about it That is why it is best to completely ignore women. Even if you back off as soon as she makes it known that your approach is unwelcome, you will forever be labeled as a creep. (except Chad) I don't even respond when women say "hi" anymore. I also stopped assisting them when it appears they need help with things such as lifting a he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?I find people who want a barking shitting animal stinking up their house an enigma. Animals belong in nature. I enjoy seeing animals outside doing their natural thing. I don't want them stinking up my house. If I wanted shit on my carpet, I would shit on my own carpet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?Same rule. Different game. Women get free sex anytime they want. Men don't. You can't compare the two as if they are the same game. They are literally opposite situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:19 PM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Absolutely it's women. Women are told how awesome and beautiful they are their entire lives. Even ugly nasty women. Look at the comments ugly women get on social media. All their friends tell them how beautiful they are. If you were told that you were beautiful your entire life, but you are actually a 3, your are going to expect at least a man who is a 9. Half of all women are in the bottom half of all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:14 PM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?Everyone is a punching bag in a 3rd world country. You are choosing to only see the women as victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 02:59 PM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?the other thing is when you all do wanna date a dude that's not toxic you all make him wait for sex, like it's gonna make up for prior promiscuity I always found that baffling. Men don't really appreciate having to jump through hoops to get something other men got for free. It's like pulling up to an ice cream store giving out free ice cream... until I show up and have to pay $20 for a melted bowl of vanilla. If I can't arouse her to the point of her jumping on me at least as fast as the other m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 02:25 PM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?Women have been punching bags? Society is set up to protect and care for women at the expense of men. It has always been this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:54 PM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?I have generally started ignoring and not acknowledging women over the years. The most vocal of women seem to hate when men (except Chad) even simply smile at them. These days I no longer start conversations with women, I don't say hi to them, if a women passes by and smiles or says hi to me, I ignore them. I work for a large company that requires annual diversity and sexual harassment training that is done online. They present different scenarios and the white man is always made out to be the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable.Then why so many of us find people who wear glasses so fucking hot when they signify how shitty their eyesight is? In the wild, they'd probably run into trees and get us both killed. It takes hundreds, or even thousands of years before we can see the effects of mate selection. Eyeglasses were invented about 700 years ago but didn't become common until the 1800's. People with poor eyesight were reproducing at the same rates as others. Many people with poor eyesight have already reproduced before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:10 PM |
| 24 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Chase your dreams and ambitions, the women will follow. Not necessarily. If a man is ugly, it doesn't matter if he chases his dreams and ambitions. He is still ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:45 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Women are only selecting for men they want and choosing to be alone if they can’t get them. Modern society coddles women. This allows women to choose to be "alone". Men are still providing her with shelter, clean water, electricity, air conditioning, machines to wash her clothes, etc. She doesn't need a man... because she already has the men of society. Sex is just a phone swipe away. Take her back in time a couple thousand years. Remove all the modern conveniences and government welfare and see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?It is actually icky to me. And I don't miss it one bit. The ability to go to the grocery store alone and not be bothered is wonderful. Why didn't you buzz cut your hair and wear baggy clothing? You probably would have never received male attention if you didn't spend time enhancing your appearance before you left the house. You can easily just make yourself ugly and not have to worry about getting attention. Ugly women don't receive male attention. Why don't these women who complain about men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Since you brought that up, let's talk about the disparity in prison sentences between male and female offenders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?That is why I put "in most cases" in parenthesis. Paying women for sex is illegal in most places. To make if fair, it should be illegal for a women to hire a plumber. The plumber has to use his body to do his job just like a prostitute has to use her body to do hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Which is why you will never understand what it is like to walk in a man's shoes. If a women grabs my penis and I tell the authorities, she will tell those same authorities that I tried to sexually assault her. Who are they going to believe? Probably her because of the "women are wonderful" effect. Am I going to risk the hassle and risk to my reputation? Of course not. She and all other women know this. Women get a free pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?And risk false accusations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I am a man. I have been groped several times by women. All of them were totally unprovoked. Most of them were strangers. Take your "women are wonderful" bias elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:34 PM |
| 6 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?It's estimated that 45% of women ages 25–44 will be single by 2030. Not sure why you are saying only men need help. Women benefit from the existence of men even when they are not in a relationship with a man. Men of society build their houses, plumb fresh water, wire for electricity, protect, invent the washing machines, phones, etc. Women do not provide men with men's needs unless in a relationship. (in most cases) The problem disproportionately affects men since society coddles the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?I find that most attractive people know they are attractive. They even leverage that attractiveness to get simps to do favors for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.But the men usually don’t want to marry the women who fucked the assholes and is now looking to settle down. Only the loneliest of the beta simps would find that an appealing option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:20 PM |
| 11 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.I'm actually surprised that you were able to get a single date listing 5'5". Typically the only women accepting that height are fat single moms with tats and noserings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?To extract resources. They are literally programed by nature to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?I sure there are husbands that truly leech off a woman. But I can't help but feel that how common this dynamic is, especially in the newer generations, has been greatly exaggerated. It's funny how women of reddit are always saying how husbands are lazy parasites, yet in almost all the marriages that I know of the husband significantly out earns the wife. This is not just anecdotal. In 2022 the median husband income was $65,000 compared the median wife income of $35,000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:39 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?But what if she can have a better life without him than with him?🤔 She doesn't need an individual man because the men of society will take care of her. The men will provide her with clean water piped to her tap, electricity, iphones so she can take selfies, air conditioning, dishwasher etc. Very few women play any part in bringing the modern luxuries to her. Take 50 women and put them on a deserted island. Take 50 men and put them on a different island with the exact same resources. Who do you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Men cause their own lonelinessI said she was hookup material only. I didn’t mention anything about being multifaceted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men cause their own lonelinessWhen men see women having casual sex with Chad, those men want casual sex also. They don't see those women as relationship material because those women have already shown themselves to be hookup material only. Why would a man want a relationship with a women who has ONS with other men? That would be like having a plumber installing a used toilet from a football stadium in your house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:27 PM |
| – | Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls?I've noticed the fat ones tend to have a very high partner count also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Do you think there’s a problem with dating aside from a few men being entitled and whiny?Dating apps are the norm now. Women have made it clear that they don’t want men to approach them otherwise. Well, except Chad. It’s ok if he does it. With cold approaching forbidden for all but the most handsome, dating apps are completely valid sources of data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Are average men really desperate for sex?Why? Women can get sex as easily as they can get water. Even a STD infested crack whore can charge money for sex. That proves that even the most unappealing vagina has monetary value. If a woman isn’t getting sex, it is because she is not happy with her choice of partners. It not because she can’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:42 AM |
| 0 | Are average men really desperate for sex?If masturbation was just as good as sex for men, the human species would have ceased to exits long ago. Lets face it, masturbation is so much easier. I don’t think women will ever understand a man’s desire for sex. I like to use the urination analogy to explain it to women. Since most people at one time have had to pee real bad, most people can relate to a situation where there couldn’t find a toilet. Imagine having to urinate real bad. There is no toilet, and you are in public so you can't just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:37 AM |
| – | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."That’s why women let random dudes blow loads into her when she is 18-24. After that she needs to lock in a Beta provider before she is old and wrinkly. There are not many men looking for old and wrinkly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 7 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.Because of men’s sex drive. Few men get easy access to sex. Exactly the opposite of most women’s experiences. That is why it is hard for the sexes to emphasize with each other. Their experiences are literally the opposite of each other. I’ll give you an analogy. You probably don’t think about urinating and finding a toilet all the time because finding a toilet to urinate into is easy. Now lets say you are walking down the street and have to urinate real bad. You will be constantly thinking about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems?Are they required to pass on their knowledge in your industry? Is it their job to train others? Unless it is actually in their job description, I don’t think you are automatically entitled to the knowledge of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:36 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?How many married you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 10:06 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?I don't think even guys who are vocal about high body count women are that puritanical. Most aren't religious or Christian It's not because of religious reasons for most men. Most men feel a natural repulsion towards high n-count women. It's hard to explain to women, but I like to use this analogy... My sister is a good person, but I have no desire to have sex with her because that would be disgusting. Make sense? Men are hardwired by their DNA to move their genetics into the future. Using resou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 10:05 PM |
| – | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?That is the point. You get boundaries and hoops because you’re not Chad, that’s the default. And what’s the problem with that ? I don’t get compliments, attention, presents, drinks, freebies, smiles, invitations and fawning because I’m not a model. I see no problem with that Nobody wants to jump through hoops and boundaries for Chad's leftovers.... especially if you're not model material. I see a lot of pump and dumps in your future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:40 AM |
| 15 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itIt's the "women are wonderful" effect. It's ok that women want men to spend time, energy and resources on them. If men want sex in return for their investment, they are seen as pigs. Women want diversity and inclusion, yet exclude 90% of men when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksIf he put effort into it, he could probably sleep with over 50% of women... but he doesn't even have to put effort into it. They come to him. These same women lining up for their turn with him will make the average man spend lots of time and money just for the chance that they will get to see her vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:19 PM |
| 9 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksBut this guy doesn't realize how women have a whole other box. The arousal box. I think some men are resentful that women have this box. I'm not saying that they ought to be resentful. I'm just saying that they are. There are some men who check this box right away in women. I know a small percentage of men who have women lining up to be their cum socks. I have a co-worker who has had gonorrhea twice, and has herpes. The women have no problem with him raw-dogging them. The women also know his uni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Well, yeah. If there was an ice cream shop giving out free ice cream, then they charge you $10… wouldn’t you feel a bit resentful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?And that is why women will be Chad’s cum sock for free… and make other men pay for the use of her vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexWomen have almost complete control over how much attention they get. If they didn’t want attention, they would buzz cut their hair and wear baggy clothing. The fact that most of women wear yoga pants and other form fitting clothing is proof that they are seeking attention from Chad. Women don’t like to admit that they are seeking an ego boost, so they “complain” that men are noticing them. The truth is that if they wanted to be invisible, they could do it effortlessly as described above. It actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyit's good to have a diverse workforce Always? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles.Most women won't accept a man that makes less than them... just like they won't accept a man that is shorter than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles.With the average married couple, the wife brings in 37% of the income. Shouldn't she reasonably be expected to make up for her deficit with a bit of cooking and cleaning? The man is at a net loss if he brings in almost 2/3rds of the income and shares 50% of the household duties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of?Would stop giving women free attention (ie simping) Definitely this. Simping is the cause of massively over inflated egos on even below average women. It's unbelievable what men do and the levels they will sink to in order to get someone to touch their wiener. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What are your perceived benefits of being female?Honestly I think if it were solely up to me to initiate a relationship I would probably just die alone. Or at least get to like 30 before I felt motivated to try lmao I think if the roles were reversed, most women would be incels. Imagine trying to find a life partner, and even your smiles at the opposite sex were met with disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys Gotshe tells Jake that they won’t be having sex, because in her past, she used to have sex with men she liked quickly Yeah she sounds like a real catch. She is willing to be Chad's free cum dumpster but makes me pay for it with my time. You can't erase the past. If she was loose in the past, I am not going to think she is a good girl because I have to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:57 PM |
| 71 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…It’s the “women are wonderful” effect. I have never heard a women suggest ways in which they can improve themselves. If something is not right, it’s the men’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:50 PM |
| -1 | Husbands should be allowed to CHEAT on their wives...That place silences and bans men. Anything that puts women in a bad light is removed. That is why you see a hugely disproportionate amount of women complaining that they have a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 09:03 AM |
| 4 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?Why do you feel the need to show a fake enhanced version of yourself near an attractive man? If a man put a cucumber in his pants and wore shoe lifters near attractive women he would be called out for his false representation of himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 07:57 PM |
| 8 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?I am asking about how so many redpillers can themselves condone( or even give online courses) that men actively try to lower the value of women and then bitching around. The women themselves are responsible for their own decisions and therefore are responsible for devaluing themselves. The men just respond to the reality of the dating system. If she wants to have ONS with random men, men will see her as nothing but a sperm dumpster. You really can't blame the men for that. She made the determina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a mother should be responsible for a child born from an egg she discarded?This scenario is a bunch of ridiculous hypotheticals. If the women did have to pay, just think of it as reparations for all the men who paid for children that were not theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 03:46 PM |
| 52 | Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia?Sure they will need the help of men intially Why do you assume that? Let them frame, plumb and wire their own homes. They can set up their own auto repair shops also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Women complain the most about male horniness and yet they benefit the most out of itWomen rely on men desiring them more to get all kind of benefits, such as paying for dates, initiating, car maintenance, repairs, etc. Women are well versed in pretending to be stupid and helpless to get men to do things. I wish men as a whole would make sure they are compensated in some way. I see women asking men to change tires all the time. I have never seen a women change a tire for a man. Is the women so stupid that she can't figure out how to change a tire or is she just pretending to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.Even when single, women still benefit from the existence of the men in society. Women don't need a relationship to gain the benefits that men provide. Men are still there in society to plumb their house, fix their car, provide electricity, security, free sex always a phone call away, etc. Most men will not obtain regular sex without a relationship. Most countries have also made it illegal to pay for sex. Paying for sex also come with high risk for STD's. Women need men. They just don't need a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyThat has been my observation as well. The highest n-count women I know a below average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyWould you use a dildo that 50 other women have used? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?They complain that they can only attract "scrotes" and they wonder why they can only attract scrotes. They can only attract scrotes because they are the female equivalent of a scrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Most women on OLD are low quality.Fact: 1/3rd of all women are in the bottom 1/3rd of all women. Fact: 2/3rds of all women think that they are in the top 1/3rd of all women. I have never heard a women describe herself as below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?Does the average available women have all the characteristics of a girlfriend/wife material women? Not from my observation. Of the women who are available, the selection is pitiful... which is why they are available. It is easier for women to blame the men than it is to have some introspection and accountability. When a man can't get a women, he is told to improve himself. When a women can't retain a man, she is told that it is because men are trash. I have never heard a women be told that she n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?If she has nothing to offer but a collection of holes, she will be seen as nothing but a collection of holes. Average women are always quick to point out the low quality of the average man. What these women fail to see is that they have low value themselves when their vagina is removed from the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?Average women are seen as viable sex partners by almost all men. That does not mean that these same men will see these women as relationship material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Female Hypergamy Punishes Men for having StandardsI never understood how men who are doctors, lawyers, STEM PhD’s etc could be content with partnering with women who are kindergarten teachers. Men and women look for different things. Men don't need women to provide for them. Men provide for themselves. Physical affection from an attractive women is more important than how much money she makes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Most promiscuous people outgrow itMost men don't want a high n-count women. A women can never lower her n-count. There is no such thing as a "hoe-phase". If someone was ever a hoe, they will always be a hoe. Sure, most people learn as they grow. I think women who instinctively know the risks of having a bunch of random dudes pump loads into them are going to be a better option than the women who learned it after contracting herpes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:47 PM |
| -1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverMen in modern society give women everything they need, therefore for a women does not need an individual man. A women has access to all the sex she wants. She can even earn money by selling sex. Men built her house, pumped fresh drinkable water to her faucet, illuminated her lights, heated her home, haul away her trash, etc. Very few women were involved with any of this. She can even become a mom by herself and society will pay for her to sit at home watching whatever ridiculous reality shows th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?18 years of working to make child support payments impact a man’s body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsYes, but that is not a very attractive option to most men. When you think of how many dicks have been in there and the STD risk... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:28 PM |
| – | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsI’ve had sex with men who straight up told me they just wanted sex. The difference is they treated the situation with discretion and treated me like a human before during and after sex. Of course, that is only an option for attractive men. A 5'2" balding man does not have that option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:20 PM |
| -2 | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?Most of those states that have it as illegal also make it illegal to go out of state for the procedure. Name one state with this law. Men can choose not to have sex if they don’t want the potential. So can women. We all have responsibilities that fall into our lap that we didn’t choose, and men being frustrated with how women make the choices they have, as opposed to men taking accountability for the choices they themselves have, is lacking in pragmatism and “emotional.” Why can't women take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:11 PM |
| – | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?Most men don't pay what they fully owe, anyways. You may be supersized to learn that among women who pay child support, they (the women) are more likely to not pay what they owe than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:42 PM |
| – | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?You are incorrect. It still works in the USA. It is legal in most states. If live in a state where it is illegal, you can go to a state where it is legal. The only obstacle you may face is driving a few hours. Men are not allowed to go to another state to avoid child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:09 PM |
| – | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?If the women gets to choose whether or not she wants the child, shouldn't the man get to choose whether or not he wants to pay for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?When 90% of the population is willing to have sex with you, you will have a much easier time finding sexual satisfaction. You're complaining about having too many options. Very few women want a man who is a stay at home dad. I personally don't know any men with that option. Men pave your roads, fix your car, plumb your house, build the utility plants, etc. Almost no women were involved with providing you with these things. Women should step up and take dangerous and demanding jobs in the name of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:50 PM |
| – | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?You have the option to fuck everything or nothing. You can even get paid to have people fuck you. You can be a mom, or a career women. You can be both. You have the freedom of choice. You don't need a man because the men of society provide you with all of your needs. The men of society take almost all of the dangerous jobs. If you feel you are not getting your way you can claim discrimination or the patriarchy are keeping you down. You will likely live longer than most men. You have value for ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:03 PM |
| – | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?Check your female privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:35 PM |
| – | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?I understand a “man’s” drive for sex, because I also have an extremely high libido. I’m just able to control my impulses. A women with a high libido will always be able to find a sex partner. Imagine having a high libido without being able to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:54 PM |
| – | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?How can you call it a need? Food and water are needs. Sex is a want. If you don't have sex, do you die? How long does it take? How would incels still even be alive? Men were put on this earth to inseminate. In order to ensure the survival of the human species, nature made this urge incredibly strong. Women will never understand because even when she is "horny", it is no where near what a man feels almost constantly. To put things into perspective, imagine you had bad diarrhea. When you have bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Let's say due to a population crisis your government started issuing lump sum payments to women who had kids. How much would the payment have to be to move the needle for you?Why are they only paying women? Men have been paying the overwhelming vast majority of alimony and child support for decades. Maybe men need to have an incentive to impregnate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Women who have hoe phases make the best partners later on, and men should be gratefulBut I wouldn't have realized this if I hadn't had a hoe phase. I'd rather have a women that could figure that stuff out without being a hoe. You are more likely to have an STD, more likely to divorce and the fact that you let random men blow loads inside you means you probably don't make very good life decisions. By then, the sweet guys that I wasn't attracted to when I was younger started to mature and grow their careers and (quite honestly) show more potential than any of the fboys I had hoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop trying to give men dating advice"Chad's leftovers" are average women who think they can lock down Chad. They are appalled when they wake up and realize that they can only lock down average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?There is nothing in that comment that indicates that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Where did indicate that I had trouble understanding any of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:01 PM |
| 9 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceBut Chad isn’t going to commit to them, so OP still has a shot. But does he really want Chad's leftovers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 20 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceEven the ugly girls think they are hot since Chad is willing use their vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Sex is high risk for women. Yet many will risk a ONS with a random man if he looks a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:25 PM |
| 0 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?Because men have to put time and energy into being beta buxed. If you calculate all the hours a man puts in studying and working to become successful, it amounts to a very significant portion of their lives. If every man was born into wealth and given his value through no effort on his own, it wouldn't be a problem at all. What man wouldn't want to be given wealth and have a bunch women chase him for it? Being beta buxed means you essentially have to pay for sexual intimacy. Like it or not, bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:50 PM |
| – | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?You can't blame a man for wanting sex any more than you can blame a women for wanting a man's resources. On a fundamental level, male/female relationships are about trading sex for resources. Few men want a women who does not provide sex. Few women want a man who can't provide resources. Yes there is more to a relationship, but few relationships even start if these needs are not likely to be met. On the sexual market, value is determined by whether or not a person can provide the other person wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:04 PM |
| – | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?When a women says she can't easily get a man, she means she can't get the men she wants. She wants the same men all the other women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 04:28 PM |
| 8 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?Women have sex with who they want. Men have sex with who they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Yes, but only because they have unrealistic standards. The average women will have no problem finding a committed relationship with the average man... but the average women doesn't want the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 16 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?I think for most men with normal testosterone levels, sex is a need. Think about being stuck in traffic and you have to pee real bad. When you have to pee and there is nowhere to go, peeing is about all you can think of. That is a lot like what if feels like when going a while without sex. It occupies the mind almost constantly. While it is possible for a man to survive without sex, most men will probably not be in their best mental state. The cruel irony is that most women do not need sex, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | "High value men" don't make high value partners.Being a HVM will bring you sex. Being a HVP will bring you the women who can not secure a HVM. The best looking women with the most options are with the men who have the HVM traits on that list. When is the last time you saw a women with options with a short fat man who happened to be kind, caring and loving? Once a women figures out that HVM just pump and dump her, she will "settle" for the HVP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 0 | You can’t blame women for only going after the top 20% of Chads because men have gotten less attractive due to estrogenic chemicals and feminism degrading them.The women also look a lot worse today than they did back then. The problem is the ugly women think they deserve the top men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?For some men, they either have to pay for it or go without. I don’t know any women who would not be able to find several willing sex partners within an hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?They want to. They don’t need to. What women needs to pay for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:40 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?What women needs to pay for a male prostitute? A female can have sex any time she wants for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money'What does she give the man in exchange for access to his money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 0 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultShe tolerates it from attractive men. Proof: A 6'2" 225 lbs. 10/10 guy will likely get away with it. A 5'3" 300 lbs. balding, greasy, pimple-faced guy will not. So while the attractive man is a jerk, she will let him break the rules. She makes rules for the ugly guys and breaks rules for the attractive guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 3 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?What if she had 50 one night stands with other guys, but then wanted you to wait 6 months? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What's the best dating advice for womenKind, sweet girls as 30 year old virgins? In what world does this ever occur? If a kind, sweet girl is a virgin at 30 years old, it is because she wants to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 12:08 AM |
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