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1	Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare. She's going now, but I'm still trying to get a feel for how effective this therapist is. I'm about 99% positive she hasn't been sexually abused, but there is a shit ton of baggage that can only be dealt with by a professional. What do you advise in terms of not compromising my principles (no divorce useless there is adultery) and preparing for the worst?	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/05/15 02:49 AM
1	Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare. Unless her vag is also shit testing me, no. Between it being partially clamped shut 95% of the time and curling up into a ball and sobbing after having to do something out of the ordinary, or even normal sex last time it's... interesting. It's like she's been molested before, but I probably fucked it up by not teaching properly from the word go. I'm not complaining, just confused as to why she throws herself at me 3 or 4 times a week but changes from horny to afraid the second she's naked.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/05/15 07:53 PM
1	Wife and I WILL hit a ‘crossroad’ talk soon. Advice and incite needed to prepare. Yeah she's no porn star but that's just as much my fault as it's hers. I'm working on it. Similar situation all around, but the sex ranges from OK to downright atrocious... with the average being poor. How exactly are you doing the re-teaching? I was killing it with everything aside from sex and took a 2 months before I tried anything close to the SGM and it blew up in my face pretty bad.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/05/15 06:46 PM
3	Clingy Wife You sound like you're nailing it. Just be very careful of sliding or getting comfortable. The thing about hitting rock bottom in a marriage, or getting very close to it is that you actually have firsthand experience in failure and have a lot of harsh lessons to learn from. Marriages can still break down after 20,30 years etc because they were a slow, un-noticeable slide into beta-dom. Keep your foot on the gas. Does you wife have any hobbies? Does she exercise? Does she have her own community wh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/15 04:05 AM
4	Clingy Wife She grew up in an old-fashioned conservative family setting, and it seems she responds to TRP once she gets over the initial feminist/liberal-type reactions (wife educated at Berkeley). She has come a long way. From personal experience, I would agree. My wife comes from a traditional home, but was also educated. Her dad is full RP, far more than any man I have ever met. He's been married nearly 30 years and very happy. Having a good example set for my wife allowed me to leverage what my wife exp…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/15 03:30 AM

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