wontsayanotherword Archive

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3	Something quick, easy and yummy Chicken soup - a jar of salsa, a can of seasoned black beans, can of corn, a thing of chicken stock. You can top with sour cream and cheese and tortilla chips. I like keeping frozen meatballs on hand because everyone in m family loves them. We can make meatball subs, spaghetti and meatballs, etc. Breakfast for dinner (eggs, biscuits & bacon or pancakes or French toast). Loaded baked potatoes (my husbands family puts weird stuff on theirs like tuna & broccoli)	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/19 10:26 PM
4	Balancing it all At those ages there isn’t much balance to be honest. Figure out the priorities for you and your family and be okay with the rest not being perfect. My priorities are sleep (if I don’t sleep things are bad very quickly for everyone), meals (and the areas for meals to be tidy - kitchen & dining table), relationship with my husband (dates, sex, quality time), other areas to be kept clean - bathrooms & my bedroom. You have a really little baby (mine were spaced like that too! Now my youngest is 3 an…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/19 06:34 AM
9	My marriage has changed for the worse since I quit drinking regularly. Have you mentioned any of this to your doctor? My sister had blood work done and she basically had the hormones of a menopausal woman (in the late 20s). Are you on hormonal birth control? Do you watch porn/read porn and/or masturbate. Can you have sexual feelings for someone else or if you are “revved” up enough? Mentality can play a massive part of sexual desire and you are already in a negative loop with the anxiety part. I have found a lot of my sexual attraction to my husband is choosing to …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 07:02 PM
6	How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions? My husband chooses not to watch porn BTW. We have talked about what masturbation and porn means to us and decided we would not. There have been times when we have, but we’ve been honest about it (which is how I know he isn’t just lying and saying he doesn’t).	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/19 06:44 PM
5	[Your view on my view] Being LadyLike, Organized and Happy after marriage. Yes :) be intentional about moving toward your spouse and not away. There is never neutral. things either grow or wither, there’s no in between. There are a lot of people who take the stance of “whatever happens” (they also tend to hold themselves victim to circumstances instead being able to take responsibility for things in their life). But if you are intentional about keeping “passion alive “ then it is more likely to happen for you. I like Jordan Peterson’s rule of listening as though the pe…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/19 09:52 PM
3	Fellas, is it gay for reading a book? But can’t that argument go for pretty much every human is history (male or female) - go outside norms and you’ll be mocked. It keeps people in line with expectations. Be a single woman passed the age of 30 and your an old maid. Want a short haircut - your a lesbian. And the list goes on and on for both sexes. And it sometimes doesn’t even go with sex - it might be an identity. Like a smart athlete (dumb jock is more like it) and so forth. I think now more than ever it is more socially acceptable…	/r/MensRights	05/12/19 04:17 PM
13	[Your view on my view] Being LadyLike, Organized and Happy after marriage. That is the bane of women and modern feminism - trying to do it all. Balance doesn’t exist (at least not for very long). It makes sense. You can’t devote all the time that you want to everything - so nothing is really working as it should (or as good as you want it to be working). That’s where determining priorities helps. I knew I wanted to be a SAHM (which my husband also wanted) so my career was second place to his. I was going to quit when I got pregnant... You have a lot going on and every …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/19 01:50 PM
38	[Your view on my view] Being LadyLike, Organized and Happy after marriage. I am not a naturally neat person. I hoped that when I got married I would magically turn into one. That didn’t happen. It is my lifelong struggle. Don’t try to be someone that you are not and hope to be able to keep it up for a long time. Make small changes that can actually stick and over time you’ll realize you are able to keep up with everything that you hope to do. I’m currently reading Atomic Habits and that is really helping me build those new routines. I never got to the “dull” stage. I c…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/19 12:00 PM
1	How do you ladies keep your home clutter-free? This is my bane in life. Seriously. I’m reading Atomic Habits right now and it is a very good book. Not about cleaning per say, but the habits that can lead to a decluttered house.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/19 11:21 AM
3	How do you ladies keep your home clutter-free? I like everything but the books :). But we go through and cull what we haven’t read in a while or have no intention of reading. We also utilize the library a lot. But books are life (we have 5 bookshelves & we homeschool).	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/19 11:20 AM