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woocheese/r/seduction08/02/16 12:41 AM
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Only sub here with a discussion about this. Reading the news on this one conviction not the other 11 which he may well be guilty for I was shocked because the evidence for this conviction was so incredibly low. They failed to prove he was even in the same town and the one witness who put him there was a proven liar claiming to have seen Harris in portsmouth when he was in the military but this was a person with no military record. I've no sympathy for sexual offenders at all. But I actually beli…
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 09:48 AM
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In the UK some have, David Blunket supported the idea of shared parenting so did George Galloway. While Corbyn didn't. There is divide in all the parties over in the UK when it comes to this. It's really not left vs. right. over here at least. Word's like woke are linked to the KKK. Waking up to see the white race needs to be protected etc. Things like that shine a lot of doubt on arguments that's all I was getting at.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 12:12 PM
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I don't even see myself as an opponent to the general idea of there needing to be more rights for men when it comes to SOME legal situations. My complaint was the tone here really, like you pointed out. "You leftists". It's just hostile isn't it? This like 2x chromosomes, SRS and all that sort of over the top dramatic crap puts me off discussions. I'm open to new ideas and discussion but I can't deal with the over the top insulting attitudes and labelling. It's embarrassing.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 11:59 AM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/MensRights13/08/17 04:07 PM
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Convincing me of what? I'm already convinced that men are worse off than women in some courts and some other specific circumstances. But my original point that people in this sub seem a bit hostile and resort to name calling hasn't exactly been disproven by the way some of you lot have replied lol.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 03:51 PM
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Im the buyer not the seller.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 02:20 PM
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Yeah but thats why i think you sound arrogant and immature. Which when youre trying to win over people for a cause or achieve realistic positive changes to laws people like me stop listening when it comes off so low level and turns to name calling. Basically from the way you just wrote i feel like i dont want to listen to you. Which is counter productive if your trying to inspire change.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 10:13 AM
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From an outsider here is my honest answer. There is a crossover of "lingo" between you guys in here and people from the donald or the red pill. Reading the anger and use of words like "SJW" "Woke" while moaning about feminism or "the left" gives off that vibe. I get it, though I do. There are clear issues men face where they are discriminated against and more at risk. False rape claims. Civil courts for divorce. There are LOTS of examples where men are well and truly screwed over. If you guys si…
/r/MensRights13/08/17 08:25 AM
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My point was more for him it's not the place to start. It's where women are expecting it and have their guards right up. All the circumstances there are stacked against him, his needy attitude will stand out 10x more than if he meets someone in other circumstances. He can talk the talk, have the hair do, have the nice clothes and the perfect smile. But his attitude will stink to high heaven of neediness with the mentality he has at the moment. Most people in the bar are certainly not anti social…
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:28 PM
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Chill the fuck out. Don't snap chat her or text her or be needy. Fuck knows what she was doing with the phone, don't over think it. Send her a message in a week and ask her if she wants to hang out.
/r/seduction09/07/17 08:34 PM
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100% this. Seriously OP just follow this exact advice it's perfect.
/r/seduction09/07/17 08:26 PM
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Stop hitting on girls in bars. It's really not that social, it's a meat market. Most are insecure and just looking for attention. Yes you can and people do pull in bars, it's where most people do but for YOU it's clearly not working. You are stuck in your head and when you are out in the bars you are "looking" for girls. That makes you stink of neediness and stops you being natural. Most women are not going out to be fucked, they are not going out to meet a guy. They are going out to have fun. Y…
/r/seduction09/07/17 08:15 PM
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Yeah you don't have deep conversations and shit if you're high on pills and drunk. You'd be fucked. LOADS of girls will wake up and "forget" the night before. It's a game they play to feel less guilty about what they did. Like the Ex who says: "I'm sorry I kissed Chad, I was so drunk though I didn't know what I was doing!" Yeah... bullshit you knew. But now you feel guilty. It's the same thing. I've been black out drunk 2 x in my life. There is no way I was having any deep or meaning full conver…
/r/seduction09/07/17 07:51 PM
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Their point is that the law doesn't give a fuck about your opinion lol
/r/seduction09/07/17 07:41 PM
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Sounds like a good mindset to have. I'm recently trying to get my "game" back following a break up too. It's tough to be motivated and not get needy especially after a previous relationship.
/r/seduction03/07/17 08:54 PM
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Nice! I hope you get a second date some time! See no need to panic!
/r/seduction03/07/17 08:05 PM
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What happened?
/r/seduction01/07/17 07:41 PM
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Yeah this guy may be being brutal but has a point. If it was a house party and she was mingling after 3 dates who cares? If she went off and got with someone else youd write her off. She didnt though. In fact she came back, but then he shot her down by saying clearly there was no attraction. Savage. But she still contacted him to say sorry. Everyone who is butt hurt is saying that is her saving face. Her saying she doesnt care etc. Or... maybe she is sorry? Your advice is spot on. Be chill. Dont…
/r/seduction01/07/17 07:18 PM
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I think tinder is really tough, what you are saying there makes it sound like you are trying to use lines or say things that are unnatural. I think its why tinder is so hard! You litterally have nothing in common. What you know is their 2 line profile and that you both swiped right. Perhaps open with that? To be honest i am shit on tinder. Really shit. I get matches, dont know what to say and have met no women via it. Id like help there too! It sounds like you need to get out of your head a litt…
/r/seduction01/07/17 07:00 PM
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Youtube corey wayne.
/r/seduction23/04/17 07:02 PM
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What you do in a relationship is different than before youre dating. Txt chat escalates as time goes on. When you start liking each other and a relationship developes.
/r/seduction23/04/17 07:01 PM
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This advice is terrible. Dont act like a girl let alone anyone you are not in order to try and get someone to like you. She can txt her friends about mocha choca lattes. Hes not looking to be her gay best friend.
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:59 PM
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She sounds insecure to be honest. Needing comfort from texting. Mate dont do it. Just ask to meet up once a week. Be nice chat and stuff if you feel like it, do what you are comfortable with. You dont need to change who you are and what you like. If she likes you she will meet you. Just dont go too emotional and be weak by telling her you dont text. Just say youd love to see her again and ask when she is free. If she doesnt want to meet try again the next week. Then if its still a no move on. Yo…
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:52 PM
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This is really good advice.
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:47 PM
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Not in a desperate way but if you've been on a couple dates it may be worth asking. "I've noticed you put the breaks on, whats the matter?" If she keeps putting them on then you just gotta bail, clearly she doesn't find them attractive.
/r/seduction31/03/17 09:32 PM
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I get what you are saying. Put like that I agree that you may have improved your life, perhaps its from what you read there, but i'd say on the face of it, it sounds like you just kinda manned up a bit. Started being open and social with more women and just working to be a "better" you. I don't think working out, making a better social effort, being less needy, more open and honest, and less of a pussy so too speak is due to the red pill it kinda just sounds like you lived more and have just got…
/r/seduction14/03/17 12:56 PM
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Im the same when it comes to girls. First impressions matter but they only gain value over time. The first impression is litterally if they are hot or not. The actually liking them comes over time and getting to know them. I could find someone hot but then after talking to them actually go right off them.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:12 AM
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Thats how they seem to sell it but their evidence comes from their own personal opinions rather than facts and evidence. Some things there are on the money yes, but its certainly not something i can stomach for long. I have no doubt their approaches to some things work, but the general ideas seem too promote selfishness and arrogance. Leaving a woman who cheats or says she thinking of cheating isnt red pill its just having dignity. So yeah when they say that it is on the money. The other stuff t…
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:08 AM
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It's also total shit. You can only be found out if you're acting and lying. Seriously the alpha and beta shit in the red pill and stuff is really messed up and so far from reality. There are some and i mean some posts of value on their top page, but the vast majority of their stuff is actually just bitter and angry. Seriously, the happier and more self confident and quality you are the better and higher quality women you will attract. Some of the things on this sub are great but the red pill is …
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:21 PM
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Honestly this is true for some women, but they are to be avoided. The way you say it is like you put the blame on yourself. Thats silly. Sometimes in life you may be weak and more emotionally needy, at low points. A good woman who loves you will stick with it and support you. She sounds like she was only there and interested when things were easy and nice. There are beta and alpha traits I suppose I know what you're getting at. I'm just not the biggest fan of those two categories. Perhaps saying…
/r/seduction10/03/17 06:53 PM
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That is the hardest part, seriously. Everything else is easy, but crossing that line to being able to approach a stranger and strike up a conversation is the MOST important thing. I'm halfway there, at least the fear has gone, now I just need to improve!
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:38 PM
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Yes, I thought originally you had ignored her. So she text you saying she would like too go for a bike ride then you ignored her for 2 days. If that was the case you should have text her back asap and just set the date. However, If you actually text her and she ignored you, then yes wait a week or so before trying one last time. My advice is text but to the point, don't try to start a conversation. Flat out ask if she fancies hanging out or doing something specific. Think of it like texting one …
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:27 PM
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Did you just text her that now? Or was that from before? Either way give it 7 days. Then don't even text to start a conversation just flat out ask if she fancies going for a bike ride or meeting up. Don't beat yourself up either, sometimes nerves make us mess up when we really want something. Ask my Ex... you put me in a room with any woman and I'm chill. Put me with my Ex and i'm so emotionally needy. Basically don't get emotionally invested, think of it like this. She needs to earn your respec…
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:09 PM
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Don't panic about being a Virgin at 23. Honestly you will meet plenty of women the more time passes. I met more women after being a student then when I was. Don't play a character, don't play a game. However be aware of how you make others feel, if you come on too strong pull back etc. You may be a late bloomer but don't beat yourself up. Plenty of people don't get laid until they are in there mid 20's. Seriously. Don't panic.
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:00 PM
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No. Waiting is what someone who is afraid and won't take charge will do. Alpha male it, don't fuck about. Text her now, say sorry for not replying and then be brutally honest. Tell her straight that you would love to go for a bike ride or hangout someplace else, then ask when she is free. No jokes, no awkward flirting or being mean. Just ask. If she likes you she will make time for you, I promise. Don't wait if you're the one who didn't reply.
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:54 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. Are you a little girl? Why did you not text back for 2 days? Why call her a nerd? It's real basic: Set the date and time. Meet. Have fun. Don't over text or over think things like you are doing now. She may have flaked but you're the one flaking now. "I think you're sweet and funny! Would you like to go cycling then?" All you had to do was say: "Yes that would be great, are you free on... ?" Not ignore the poor girl for 2 days. Text her, apologise for being rude and not rep…
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:46 PM
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Depends on the girl. I believe the most honest way for me is pretty much physically only, with a lot of eye contact. I have found women tend to enjoy a man who will listen to them and is actually quite sweet and caring... BUT physically dominant. So I wouldn't ever say something flirty and overly sexual it doesn't suit my personality it would feel forced. I would however lead her, touch her, hold a hand, stroke her hair away, kiss her, etc. Escalating slowly until there is resistance and then ba…
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:35 PM
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I fucking suck in groups. I'm not all that social, I don't have autism or anything like that as far as I know. I get a lot of what you are saying. I'm not saying what you are doing now is creepy, but when you enter any conversation with a goal in mind the conversation will naturally head that way. You don't want that. It's a turn off and women smell it a mile away. It feels like a sales pitch. Focus on 1 on 1 interactions if they are easier. Look to make friends with girls and try to expect noth…
/r/seduction06/03/17 03:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/49mlo9/where_are_the_guys_with_everything_stacked/ The top reply there is fantastic, really good advice!
/r/seduction05/03/17 02:30 PM
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You have it all wrong and it comes off as super hungry. Stop treating women like sex objects, seriously. Some guys here or on youtube may show off how they meet a girl and are fucking her that very night. Most women won't do that, because they won't want to fuck a stranger. Someone drunk in a club might especially if she is insecure or just horny. Anyway that is besides the point. My point is drop the horny teenager mentality. Speak to women, converse with them and get to know them. That should …
/r/seduction05/03/17 02:24 PM
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Thats why it's hard. Yes, you need to become someone that does that. You can go through life meeting women who naturally come into your life through friends and work. This requires little effort, you just chat and over time you may ask them out if you like them. The tough bit is meeting a stranger and breaking that naturally awkward feeling to reach a point where you are talking to one another and enjoying it. This is literally the hardest part, the rest is actually just human nature.
/r/seduction05/03/17 02:11 PM
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You won't generally get laid at your party even if you are grinding on a girl. Not if you have 0 experience. Wont happen. Put yourself in her shoes, doesnt really know you, she thinks youre nice or she wouldn't have been grinding on you. Just because she was grinding on you does not mean she wants you inside her. You talk like you want a girlfriend? Well you need to both seduce physically and develop a bond with them too. I wouldnt want to date a girl just cos i fucked her the night i met her. I…
/r/seduction29/01/17 08:00 PM
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Casually. Can work well. Needs to be natural and casual though, you should always be approaching like its nothing. Its a none issue, or should be.
/r/seduction24/12/16 09:06 PM
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Its also the thought that it all matters and your kindness and positive impact on the world is amazing I cant remember who said it but its along the same lines. "I cannot understand why you would treat anyone with anything other than kindness. Oneday this person who you are talking too will lose everything. They will lose their health, their friends will die, there parents will die and they will too. They will suffer such tremendous loss and pain so why treat then with anything but kindness?" I …
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:57 PM
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Show intent and attraction but not desperation. So plan to meet them. Touch them. Have great eye contact. Show interest in what they say. Kiss them. But don't tell them you have feelings. Dont ask twice. Dont get pushy or hungry.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:14 PM
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Point 1 is the most important. He will be treating the girls he likes differently thus coming off as insincere or worse insecure. As soon as you treat girls like you like them or have feelings they run for miles!
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:46 AM
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Shitty friend. Break ups with people who you care about are the worst. I hope you feel better mate, speak to your family and stuff instead.
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:48 PM
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Key word pis comfort zone. It's the easy option. Getting success is hard work! Put in that hard work!
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:33 PM
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At 18 it will! Haha
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:32 PM
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Stop this mentality by asking girls out. When they make excuses tell them you'd love to meet up then don't contact them again. Maybe ask again a week later then after that fade away. By all means reply to their messages but keep it short. Thats polite. It's just a waste of your time and theirs to keep harassing them after they say no with your forced conversation.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:41 AM
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It's crazy easy once you take the plunge. Just saying "Hi, so why are you out tonight?" Is enough. It's crazy easy once you lose the fear and drop the game playing.
/r/seduction26/08/16 07:53 PM
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You can watch porn and not see women as orgasm dispensers. Maybe you don't want a relationship but enjoy no strings Sex? Doesn't make you a bad person. Or perhaps you really don't like women and are a bit sexist. Either way you can always improve.
/r/seduction26/08/16 07:49 PM
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Ok but be honest how many guys have you spent two days out with. Been wined and dined by and he's not even tried to touch you and you've remained interested? No sexual chemistry or confidence? Not getting anywhere.
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:14 AM
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There is nothing sinister or pathetic about being a man. Loose that attitude. Stop being what you think is nice and start being honest. People like to be told they are attractive and shown it. That's not a bad thing.
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:06 AM
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I date someone because I want to fuck them. Girls are not that different. He pussied out and didn't kiss them after 2 dates. Most girls fuck on the 2nd or 3rd date. If he's too pussy to kiss at that stage they can't be arsed to waste anymore time. If a girl turned you down when you kissed her you'd bail too out of boredom.
/r/seduction29/04/16 04:58 AM
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No it's dishonest. Maybe take her on another dress up date, hold hands then actually go for the kiss. Can't trick a girl into kissing you, no don't do the mouthwash thing. What the hell.
/r/seduction26/03/16 05:42 PM
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I call it the rule of 3. You can go three either way of your own appearance. So a fat guy may be a 3/10. On the best day ever he can get a 6/10. So if you're 5/10 you can score a 7/10 at best. End of the day someone fat can't get with someone who's incredibly fit and 9/10 in looks. Doesn't work that way.
/r/seduction28/02/16 12:25 AM
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/r/seduction23/02/16 08:06 PM
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That's last paragraph sums it up perfectly for me.
/r/seduction08/02/16 05:43 PM
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Got a date on Wednesday, one positive is really not giving a fuck. There is no more approach anxiety once you've been sent back to the bottom!
/r/seduction08/02/16 01:38 PM
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No, he's saying your negative attitude and neediness makes you sound like a moody teenager not a man a woman wants to fuck or be with.
/r/seduction08/02/16 04:19 AM
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Confident: "Hey, that place looks great! Let's check it out!" Then you lead them over to that shop window touching the small of their back. Dick: "You're a fucking mess, maybe you should fuck off home." Then giving her a glare and raising your hand to slap them. There is a huge difference.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:37 AM
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Nothing wrong with caring about the girl, thats what makes them like you. Caring means you show interest in their lives, ask about them, listen to them etc. However you shouldn't care about what they think of you, let them control you, let them dictate your value.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:33 AM
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Coming off as needy. You've given her an ultimatum "Pick one" then put a smily face as if that makes it ok. You know what's happening like we all do, she's basically telling you to fuck off. Don't ask me why, I don't know. Can you salvage it? Maybe. Tell her: "It would be great to hang out again, text me when you're free. x" Then don't contact her again. You can push and try and persuade her into meeting but all that will do is kill attraction.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:25 AM
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Put your phone on airplane mode. Do it periodically, so send a message then put it on airplane mode. Then take it off in like 5 hours. That way you don't need to keep looking!
/r/seduction08/02/16 02:45 AM
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It sounds silly but you're not completely wrong. As a copper I meet ton's of filthy vile looking people and they fuck like rabbits. Seriously the most revolting stinking people, abusive, drunk, drug addicted, vile people have some seriously mad relationships. It's important to realise that you're always more attractive than these people so if you're not getting any you're clearly doing something wrong!
/r/seduction08/02/16 01:22 AM
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Not kissing her is more about how she feels afterwards, you'll leave her feeling unwanted physically. Thats not a complete killer, in fact it may make her worry that you're not that into her. Thats ok. Kissing her does not make her like or want you more, it shows her that you want her. That is all. Back off a bit, take a step back. She said she had fun, so she had fun. It's not over, maybe she will contact you again. If she does not then try one last time to start a convo find out when she is fr…
/r/seduction08/02/16 01:16 AM
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Do not text her, she said she'd text you. Leave it a few days, say Tuesday then you can contact her suggest a time and place. NOT dinner or a drink. Do an activity: Cycle, theme park, cinema, something like that. 4 Dinners in a row? Boring. You can fuck afterwards when you invite her back to yours for a drink, tv session or cuddle.
/r/seduction08/02/16 01:04 AM
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Not in the context of this sub reddit though, have done it for meetings and discussions though. I mean in a way if I just maintain a confident posture when dealing with confrontations I end up speaking and acting more confidently. It's just something i bear in mind how my body language not only communicates to others but also influences my own state of mind.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:23 PM
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There is a nice TED talk about "power poses" to sum it up the lady was saying that if you basically pose like a confident victorious person for a few minutes you'll actually get the feeling which can help you out in life. http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html
/r/seduction25/04/13 03:12 PM
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If you think she's hot, why not? You don't have to have a traditional relationship. Lots of options! Enjoy your night in.
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:40 PM
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Your probably in there. Tips: -Bring something that suits your personality what ever that may be. Movie, wine, beer, flowers, cow, a goat what ever. Bring a gift or contribution to the night of some sort. -Dinner, this is your chance to communicate verbally more so than physically. At least I find it to be so. Grab any free information she gives you when talking and ask about it. Don't forget to give up some shit up on yourself too through self disclosure. This is important to build trust so bot…
/r/seduction21/04/13 09:51 PM
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"Your ugly and Foreign, nobody likes you." Granted I was ten at the time. In adult life actually got slapped for saying Hi. Just "Hi" SLAP. Not a clue what that was about.
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:06 PM
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I'm sure your right! It's is a beer bar. Then order more liquor.
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:01 PM
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Alright lets change food to quality steak.
/r/seduction12/04/13 02:24 PM
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To add to this there are three groups things fall into generally in life. Things you want, things you need, things you should do. Things you want are food, sex, love what ever. Things you need are things you need to do in order to get what you want like money for food, so you need a job. Things you should do are things others have told you to do in some way or another. They are not really your own choice. So there is no need to worry about the should's in life, it's the needs and wants that matt…
/r/seduction11/04/13 11:21 PM
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Your welcome, I hope you enjoy yourself giving it a go!
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:04 PM
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Assertiveness is the way to go. It's all about being honest and not using peoples emotions to manipulate them. Assertiveness is all about being calm and not allowing anyone else to manipulate your emotions and behaviour. It's about being honest and stating what you feel. "Hey, you are hot, I am really into you" is direct and while the wording is obviously not what you would say it's the message you need to convey. Make your intentions very clear with no possible way of mistaking them. Then ask t…
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:03 AM
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100,000 subscribers has something to do with it. Tit's or GTFO sort of sums it up now, the "community" of this sub who comment is basically the same as the community of the rest of reddit. This is also true for the highest voted comments as well as the lowest voted comments, I think it's important to bare in mind that the people who decide the validity of posts are not experts or knowledgeable on the subject, they are the readers and as such most of their opinions are irrelevant as they do not u…
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:49 AM
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It sounds like you really do just own yourself. It does sound like you really convey your personality very accurately and confidently when meeting women, I like it. This shit was a good read. Also completely random but do you have specific movies you like to show? I just had a funny thought that you have a specific DVD rack with movies specifically for seduction lol.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:20 PM
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Yes, thats is something you can work with. There are a lot of incredibly sexy people out there you don't need to be the centre of everyones attention or the most bold to be the most attractive guy in the room.
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:38 PM
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What did you do bro?
/r/seduction17/10/12 12:14 PM
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Sounds more /r/askreddit than seddit! Steady girlfriend!? Boring! Give the book how to make friends and influence people a read. It's pretty old but a good read especially the bullet points. I actually find it easier to get a girl interested in me than I do to actually make male friends. I'm sure if all you wanted was a girlfriend you could approach any girl you see using the tips and tricks in the side bar. Honestly I can't help but feel that the closer male friends that we had growing up will …
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:07 PM
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The second bit is what has driven me away from seddit. I have the confidence in myself to approach women, I can get girls! I can get a girlfriend! Thing is I don't want a girl friend I want to have sex with fit women. I want to be the guy who is pulling the 10/10 girl at the club that everyone is looking at. Recently there has been a turn towards finding true love, being really ethicaly sound and only sleeping with women you want a relationship with etc in the comments of this sub reddit. I'm su…
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:08 PM
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I am an introvert and reading OP's comment made me a little sad as its not introversion. I had a period of several years where I was teaching and loving being at the head of the classroom. I successfully managed a busy bar/club's staff and I really enjoy talking to anyone one on one. When I read about introversion I do see these traits as key points in my personality. I LOVE to do many things alone, I love to hanging out or going out with just 1 or 2 friends! Going out as a big group is not as f…
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:11 PM
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wtf is yolo? I don't have Facebook or twitter.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:21 PM
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Ok seddit, I'll watch my brain on porn. I'm sure i will understand.
/r/seduction21/08/12 02:03 AM
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No seriously this is some incredibly scary behaviour. Generally posts here are about seduction what worked and what didn't. Whats this masturbating to porn is dangerous/bad for you bullshit all of a sudden?
/r/seduction20/08/12 09:08 PM
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Why not watch porn? Porn is cool Wow
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:13 PM
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I have to disagree completely almost all the advice here is good for men and women. Confidence, Kino, questions to get them to trust you, body language, the shit tests are virtually none existent from most men so that is the only advantage I can think of. Girls need to use the same techniques as men when opening just change the wording a bit. For example imagine I am in a club. Girl comes up and literally says. "Lets fuck! Your hot! Lets go back to my place!" She is not that attractive and I am …
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:38 AM
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I don't understand!
/r/seduction01/08/12 12:03 PM
1

I love it! It's crazy how much social confidence can change your life for the better. Happiness is the most important thing in life after all! "if I can be this huge of a boss in Alabama, I'm sure I can do it again back home." Its a lot harder with old friends at least it was for me! But if you keep the attitude everyone will begin to except the newly freed you.
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:29 PM
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The FUCKING LEAVE girl is not worth talking about. Some shit was clearly going on that has nothing to do with you. The best way to win an argument is to walk away so well done there. Pretty funny though. Tell us more about the dancer girl. Perhaps you could have still saved it with her, she may have convinced herself of something negative and untrue about you. Perhaps asking what was up could have helped? Some people get insecure about someone being friendly who they just met. Shit she's a hot d…
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:20 PM
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I am sort of introverted but not shy. I prefer to be one on one or one on two rather than find myself chatting with groups of three or more. You do not need to be a hermit to be introverted. People often mistake calling themselves an introvert when they are actually just shy. I have no desire what so ever to be the loud noisy guy at the party who is screaming out for attention from everyone at a gathering. I would rather focus on a handful of people or the girl I approach. The difference between…
/r/seduction10/06/12 10:56 AM
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Here is what it sounds like too me: Don't go to university and study learn too program and hit the gym. Also compounded interest. Shit is stupid, do what ever you want! If programming and not having a degree help you and your game go nuts! Personally I learned more from my teachers than through self study.
/r/seduction01/06/12 11:53 AM
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Had sex doesn't matter would apply here in a way.
/r/seduction07/05/12 12:17 AM
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It's the massive online dating spam that gave me that message. Did he meet the girls doing the crazy new things or via a site?
/r/seduction05/05/12 07:59 AM
1

Will only work if you yourself are confident and not vulnerable when you are out alone.
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:03 PM
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Yes, the amount of "Hey Girl" here cracks me up if you said that here people would look at you like you should be sectioned. I have seen brilliant advice here just many of the lines people quote can't be used in the UK just because of cultural differences.
/r/seduction14/04/12 04:42 PM
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When I see socially awkward combat veteran as a description that is the point where I can't offer any advice. There could be all sorts of stuff at play that I can't even pretend to understand. Wish you all the best.
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:36 PM
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I lurk here, I have gained a lot of useful information here. I don't think anyone here actually has the same goals as one another. Some people here will be testing the waters searching for a long term partner, others will be looking for a string of one night stands, others looking for fuck buddies etc. What I don't want to see happen here is posters coming from other subreddits specifically self pitying areas like forever alone. There is one thing that this place needs and it is a sense of alpha…
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:33 PM
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Brutal honesty
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:42 PM
1

This x1,000,000! Don't ditch your friends just change and they will accept it! People who I haven't seen in a few years always get a shock when I see them out, just because I actively approach women without even mentioning it to the group. Some people feel threatened by the change and will give you shit but if you call them on it they shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction05/02/12 04:52 PM
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Prehaps you don't know me as well as you believe. Love it.
/r/seduction05/02/12 04:48 PM
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So true and the hardest thing to master for newbies like me! When you are confident in yourself you will be honest about your compliments and will genuinely mean them.
/r/seduction05/02/12 04:43 PM
1

It also actually stops you from sweating too, no idea how though. I mean it does more than simply absorbing water.
/r/seduction05/02/12 04:02 PM
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Don't worry it's not there have been no studies to suggest it does only Dr Philippa Darbre of Reading University claims it is and that is all.
/r/seduction04/02/12 08:49 PM
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I use somthing called Driclor, but anything with a high concentration of Aluminum Chloride will do it. I genuinely sweat like a monster under the arms, so much that it will go through a t-shirt, shirt and sweater! Aluminium chloride in a roll on basically kills the sweat cells I am as dry as anyone now that i use it. You apply it basically before bed once a week somtimes it burns but it's totaly worth it.
/r/seduction04/02/12 05:00 PM
1

I think aiming to #close at work is fine. Just never aim higher than getting a number to get a possible date. Dirty/Cheeky texts are probably a no no though.
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:37 PM
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There are women who do genuinely like assholes, you see them with guys wearing vests drinking stella with a constant scowl accross their brow slapping them when they talk out of line. That is a woman who likes an asshole. This is not all women though, seems that guy just thinks that men who have the confidence to act on their attraction to a girl are assholes. It's just jealousy fueled hatred again.
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:32 PM
3

Aww man yeah that one was tragic! It was embarassing to read. Just a bit of kino or honesty and he would have had her.
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:29 PM
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I always open with a smile. Smile "Hey! I really like your hair, looks great!" "I'm Woocheese, whats your name? hand shake Was nice meeting you." Smile while leaving. I always leave after an opener thanks to seddit's advice. Really works wonders later on when you come back to them and are already seen as that guy from earlier. A compliment and a smile is basically my opener. wtf are they on about women not liking smiles. Sure I mean admiring from afar smiling may be a turn off, kind of like that…
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:21 PM
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Don't be a nice guy be a good guy. Nice guy: Hold your bags for you. Holds the door open with a smile Talks about your problems with you Good guy: Is not your coat hanger. Still holds the door open. Solves your fucking problems and makes you feel good about it. Basically be James Bond not the guy in 500 days of summer.
/r/seduction28/01/12 12:37 PM
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Was a douche move on OP's part. Sex is good! People should enjoy it with out feeling ridiculed.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:16 PM
9

Well said! Women are not victims, and playing the game to get layed with one nightstands is not about fucking and dumping! Sex is awsome! I take special care to make it awsome for both me and my partner, it's about having a good time! No strings sex does not damage women.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:14 PM
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"Grow a backbone without turning into a dick and the world will be yours" Words to live by.
/r/seduction31/12/11 05:19 PM
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