wooshoofoo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Found my boyfriend watching red pill this morning Wait a minute, reasonable and helpful advice that doesn’t cast men as evil and unredeemable? You sir are a gem.	/r/ExRedPill	22/11/25 10:22 PM
2	Why don't men want to date single moms? I don’t even need to read your post history to get you are not a parent. My wife will absolutely sacrifice me to ensure our children’s safety if it came to that. I would be pissed if she didn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:30 AM
17	I ruined my life by being horrible to women. Where do I go from here? Start fresh. New job, new friends, new circle, everything fresh. Lots of people have fresh starts because they’re not proud of what they did- but a redemption arc is earned over time, and the best time to start is now. There is always a redemption arc available. You’re not a war criminal, you’re not a serial killer, there is redemption if you’re willing to work for it and understand things are unfair for you now because you were unfair to others. (Even if you are one of those two, you can redeem…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/24 03:30 AM
14	How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people? You 1000% need to find a therapist you can trust, then trust that therapist you found. Therapists aren’t magic workers, they can’t always read your mind. But the good ones are not judgmental; they’re not your friends they are paid oracles who parse your human nature and produce useful insight (usually by getting you to come to it yourself, like inception). But if you don’t trust them enough to open up then they cannot help you either. Red pill and other BS can’t help you EVER, so don’t go there.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/24 04:07 AM
2	I AM NEEDY and this is costing me a lot Therapists are like shoes, not every brand is going to be a perfect fit for you, no matter how well made they are. If it’s not working find another one, keep going until you find one that can help you. They exist for each of us.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 04:24 AM
1	Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian Men Red pill’s rules are not actual rules; real rules would apply to all women. “Women like guys who are clean” is a rule. I don’t know any woman that is attracted to men who are unhygienic. “Women love dominant men and being negged” are not rules because women come in all kinds. Some women like dominant men and some don’t. As an Asian (or black) man, you’re better off not focusing on what “Asian strengths” are. It’s there, but you don’t want to attract women who find “racial strengths” attractive. …	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/24 03:49 AM
1	Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian Men There’s really only two ways to happiness: change what makes you happy, or change how you get the thing that makes you happy. Redpill sells the latter in an easy to package format: “women are predictable just do X Y Z and you’ll be drowning in pussy!” Incel sells the former in an easy to package format: “just hate the world and it will all make sense, you won’t be happy but you’ll reclaim your power!” Both approaches can work but it’s not the easy way these two camps are selling; both involve wo…	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/24 03:39 AM
5	What we men have lost. We haven’t “lost it”, we never really have it to begin with. Just because you have a penis at birth doesn’t mean you’ve somehow got masculine energy and is 100% confident and outgoing and sports loving and truck driving yeehawww. It’s more than in the past all “men” were forced to go down the same narrow gender path. That’s completely separate than what you’re feeling, which is self doubt and under confidence.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 07:23 PM
2	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Bro your eyes are ready to see the truth. Take the /r/exredpill and see for yourself. Seduction is a skill, not a lifestyle. It’s really just about being confident and interesting and fun (and usually, funny too). These are good skills to have, but the lifestyle that PUA or whatever will teach you… is empty and ultimately not very satisfying. It’s good for filling the hole of insecurity inside you and not much else.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 06:06 AM
0	Are we as men working too hard to get women? If you feel that you should just stop. There is a way of life outside the chase and it’s perfectly rewarding. You’re not doing this for yourself, or even the women. You’re doing this for the validation.	/r/seduction	16/06/22 05:10 AM
7	Hi, im a guy who was exposed to the B** P* but i dont get why im going to be alone forever when my demands arent as extreme? I can’t tell if you’re trolling or just depressed but I’ll take a chance you’re legit asking. You’re not ugly, you’re perfectly fine. That doesn’t mean you are attractive and even the “2/10” still need to feel attraction just like you also need to feel attraction. There’s good advice like maybe actually smile, change hair change weight blah blah” those are helpful advice. It’s not a life or death situation if you don’t do them, just try some out and see how they make you feel. Your biggest probl…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/22 11:16 PM
1	Im not a big fan of being a man Exactly, that’s my whole point. If everyone offers you their own brand of ice cream all the time you’d be sick of ice cream. You might become quite bitchy when ppl keep offering unsolicited ice cream. You might become very picky about ice cream. You might start asking people to STOP offering you ice cream when you’re just trying to get some chores done. The point is not just that you would do the same thing, but rather that ice cream becomes pointless after a while when it’s offered 24/7. Same w…	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/22 09:36 PM
3	Im not a big fan of being a man Bro, your entire premise is flawed. For one thing, the average woman puts in FAR GREATER EFFORT into looking attractive than the average man. Think about why, and then think harder; it’s not the first reason you probably thought of. It’s easy for women to get casual sex but did you know the average women does not get much value from it? If I offered you free vanilla ice cream for 24 hours, by hour two you’d be sick of it. You’d be like “ugh I wish you’d stop shoving ice cream at me everywhere I …	/r/ExRedPill	10/06/22 05:44 AM
1	WHERE THE FUCK DO I LOOK AT WHEN A GIRL IS WALKING PAST ME? I dunno why you got downvoted but real facts right there.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 11:07 PM
1	WHERE THE FUCK DO I LOOK AT WHEN A GIRL IS WALKING PAST ME? Also there are different types of eye contact, if people are saying your eye contact is intense try practicing different ways to make eye contact. Learning to “speak with your eyes” is a good skill. I’ve heard that an old school example is whether you can stop a cab with just eye contact.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 11:05 PM
2	Biggest confidence boost? Exactly. For better or worse men tend to be judged by their work identity so when you’re crushing it you KNOW you’re a badass.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 02:54 AM
2	Biggest confidence boost? Having a career, especially in a competitive industry or company. It’s not the money, but the fact that you’re the elite amongst whatever industry you’re in. That is not only super attractive but it makes YOU feel good about yourself too. The danger is to get too invested in your work identity and become someone who cannot turn off work or shut up about it. But if you can get and balance a good career you will be a tier above your old self.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 02:33 AM
2	What is wrong with me Everyone here has given you the conventional wisdom so I’ll add something new: if you’re not into losing weight, becoming a gym regular, at the very least switch your clothes for better fitting ones, and learn to be FUNNY and FUN (those are two different things, note). If you can do that you can be heavy and still charming.	/r/seduction	02/04/22 06:44 AM
16	Why is everything a man does considered creepy? Incel: “women only want hot guys.” Woman: repeatedly gives you evidence she wants other things. Incel: “oh wow ok but I still know better what women wants.”	/r/seduction	23/03/22 04:41 AM
0	Why is everything a man does considered creepy? I am not conventionally attractive; im overweight, an Asian dadbod with a stereotypical look. But I can make women laugh and so it’s much easier for me to enjoy a woman’s company than my “attractiveness” might lead you to believe.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 04:38 AM
1	Why is everything a man does considered creepy? Much like women will say they like a sense of humor but if your joke sucks and you can’t make them laugh you will just be making WEIRD and CREEPY comments. Just like approaching, it’s ALL ABOUT CONTEXT. This is frustrating because to some degree, if you could read context you wouldn’t need to be here trying to learn it. But it’s the truth.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 04:36 AM
1	Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally? Lol “I lost so here’s an insult” good luck dude	/r/seduction	10/03/22 10:00 AM
1	Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally? That’s exactly what you’re saying. “Because I saw some workers talking shit about their customers, I wouldn’t engage ANY and ALL of them. (Because they’re ALL like that.) or even (Because most of them are like that.)” You didn’t say “I wouldn’t hire any of those workers that posted those things.” You generalized it to ALL workers. And the main point I was making is that seduction skills shouldn’t just be about “getting you laid.” That’s sad as hell.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 06:14 AM
1	Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally? How does one person’s action reflect on an entire group of people? I’m sorry that it happened to you though.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 05:17 AM
4	Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally? This is so sad to hear. The primary point of seduction skills is to make you a more interesting and attractive PERSON to a subset of the people you will meet. (This subset happens to be people you find attractive.) I know I’m maybe in the wrong crowd, but getting laid shouldn’t be your end goal. Your end goal should be to be such an interesting, sociable and fun-to-be-around person that the women you are attracted to will find you attractive. To that end, sex workers are just like other workers …	/r/seduction	10/03/22 03:56 AM
2	Trying to flirt with a escort You probably don’t want to hear this, but this sub is full of men trying to seduce women. Why not go into /r/sexworkers and actually ask real sex workers? Answer: because you already know the truth. She’s really good at her job. Once you’ve entered into a client relationship, it’s work. She’s not gonna do it and you’ll ruin what good relationship you DO have so far. Don’t do it man!	/r/seduction	08/03/22 10:11 PM
3	She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lol Naaaaiiicccceeeee	/r/seduction	20/02/22 07:35 AM
1	what do you guys think about the "White Pill" I think the allure of the analogy isn’t that the pill will magically improve you, it’s more that there’s an entire “secret truth” you’re missing out on and that these asshats are trying to “free your mind.” In the end it’s alluring for the same reason though; it allows you to become a victim, and not have to take responsibility for yourself. In the case of redpill, it’s “not your fault because you didn’t know the secret truth about women” and when you inevitably fail, it’s “not your fault becaus…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 08:19 AM
1	Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it? I was on vacation, I went in a pub crawl (which took me to places where all the other party goers congregate), and then I would be bold and straight up approach girls on the pub crawl that were not with any guys, and made some jokes about how the pub crawl is going, got some laughs, then at the next pub I would bump into them again and I’d hang out and dance with them or flirt a bit. I found several girls who were super friendly and seemed interested, and then as the night went on and we all got…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 04:55 AM
2	Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation? I’ve had a couple girls say that to me while we were on a first date. sometimes they’re declaring it so they wouldn’t feel like a slut later (especially if they’re starting to feel attraction)	/r/seduction	02/11/21 01:54 AM
1	Can someone who only has an average sized penis be as good or even better in bed then a big dicked guy? It’s not unlike big tits- most guys would probably prefer a decent size there, most guys also think larger is kinda sexier. The thing is, many women are incredibly sexy without having to have big tits, some women are acknowledged sex symbols even with small tits. The point is that for women, large tits might be a sexy thing but you can be so sexy without having to have that. The same is true (and MORE true) for guys and dick size. Some women love big, some women are cool with whatever if you’re …	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/21 01:14 AM
61	How i seduced the one who feared intimacy I kind of broke down and teared up a bit. None of my previous partners have ever treated me as anything other than “you’re a man you must want to fuck”. Even my current partner who is lovely and amazing and my clear one for the future, I don’t think she’s ever going to give me what you gave. Patience isn’t her virtue and she respects strength and having your shit together so that’s what I try to be, a provider. Sometimes I’m secretly terrified to tell her about my feelings but I know I need to w…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 05:00 AM
1	[deleted by user] Because they don’t need to. Simple supply and demand.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 12:05 AM
11	“Women only want Chad” is sheer projection People who rate women based on their physical appearance and fashion choice is not correlating the rating with “pleasure of being with them.” The rating is inherently about “how these women compare as objects.” The best head I’ve ever gotten was from a BBW that would maybe be rated a 5 on this stupid ass scale. But good grief ten years later I still remember it and I’m so glad I went on that date. It was mind blowing- my fucking legs were shaking and I literally passed out from the number of tim…	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 03:34 AM
1	Practically "asexual" If you mean that rhetorically, got it. If you meant it literally like why would anyone literally want that, there are two answers: One is that it’s kind of like the difference between loving a stuffed animal and loving a real pet; the latter is ALIVE with its own unpredictable ways and when they express love to you it can be delightful. The other, more important distinction, is that of choice. A real live person can CHOOSE to love you, and that feeling of being CHOSEN to be loved is extremely em…	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 03:27 AM
2	Practically "asexual" Given your username I’m going to assume there’s some insecurity here also, which is common, around having to engage the complexity of real human wants and needs. It is perfectly normal to FANTASIZE about one dimensional women or characters that you desire; that’s kind of what porn is about. But it has all the downsides that porn can have too; namely if you just become used to the convenience of getting your reward center lit up without any work, then that’s the only thing you’re going to want.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 12:47 AM
1	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? Ask the girls if they matter. If you can’t trust what they say, you need to go see a therapist about your inability to trust people. I’ve always heard that guys with small ducks end up being fantastic lovers (the ones that don’t become bitter and withdrawn) because they know that they actually have to put in work. Which is exactly how you should think about pleasure- you have to put in the work. Unless you’re stuck on a girl who is a size queen (in which case it’s hopeless and you should let her…	/r/seduction	15/09/21 12:04 AM
1	I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do? Late to the party, but if you have to worry about her at all, she’s still living rent free in your head. Go enjoy everything else and only turn it on when SHE approaches YOU. Don’t even do things to “show off to her,” it’s really transparent when dudes do that. Just go have fun, be a good version of yourself AS PRACTICE for yourself.	/r/seduction	30/08/21 04:20 AM
7	I was told I have "no game" One woman’s assessment of whether you got “game” does not remotely matter. You got game when women around you truly enjoy being around you and find being with you exciting, or interesting, or adventurous, or any number of positive emotions. That’s what game is for, to make the social interactions a net positive. It’s not even really for hooking up although so many ppl make it about that.	/r/seduction	24/08/21 04:55 AM
6	The sexual dichotomy of most women is what is making it impossible for me to leave the redpill You’re making a couple critical mistakes. First, you’re separating women into “good” and “bad” morals based on whether they’ll sleep with guys on the first date. If you look at women that way you’ll never really see them for the human beings they are. People have different value systems, and women should be able to sleep with men at the times of their choice, just as it would be your choice to NOT sleep with a woman you’re in attracted to. Imagine you’ve got two women interested in you; one shar…	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/21 08:52 AM
0	Summary of the academic consensus on the impact of sexual history on infidelity and divorce Say with me folks: Correlation is not causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 03:46 PM
25	The absence of Redpill in my life has just led me with this weird combination of low self esteem and perfectionism which is 'good feminist praxis' Remember, feminism doesn’t have to be a zero sum game. Men don’t lose when real feminism wins- we get to a better world for us together. What’s “lost” is the power Imbalance and privilege that men enjoy. So please don’t think about things like “I’m not good enough for women”- being a good ally is about being invested in a set of principles that you can be proud of having lived through, not about being afraid or letting women do you favors by hanging out with you. Being a good ally is a choice yo…	/r/ExRedPill	08/07/21 05:57 AM
6	The cock carousel - a red pill fantasy? Men who are so attractive that they basically can get women when they want all report the same thing that women do - casual sex quickly loses its meaningfulness and value, even as an ego validation. When you can get it all the time it’s no longer a big deal, so you don’t spend your entire waking life trying to get as much of it as possible.	/r/ExRedPill	07/07/21 07:06 AM
5	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. You have a good approach if you’re trying to see if things will develop naturally, but then you sound like you’re trying to get laid. Be honest with your approach- if you’re just trying to get laid then approach like that- flirt, show her you are sexually attractive and sexually attracted to her. If you just want to see how things go and have a good time, without having to run game and push an agenda and worry about demonstrating value, that’s fine too. But be clear about what you want. Women li…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:24 AM
1	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Depends on the kinds of women, bud. If you’re looking at 20year olds who are being hit on 3000 times a day, yeah they expect guys to stand out, and game is one way (it’s NOT the only way).	/r/seduction	27/06/21 04:48 PM
4	Cute girl from Tinder wouldn't stop talking on first date Always let the women talk if they want to. Give them what they want from a conversation.	/r/seduction	18/06/21 10:13 PM
20	Do you befriend someone before you start asking them out on dates? As you explore this same path that every young man wants to explore, understand the pitfall that almost everyone falls into: you like the idea of romance more than the actual girl.	/r/seduction	07/03/21 10:11 AM
15	Things I still struggle with You need to examine how you generalize “all women are like THIS” where THIS is some behavior that maybe you experienced with one or two women that- to be clear- you chose to fuck with. In addition the viewpoint of “women judge men for all these things” is plain ignorant. People judge others for all kinds of things. You’re literally judging women in this entire tirade. That’s not how to think about women- just like it’s silly to judge “all men” the same way. Finally, women can want different thin…	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/21 03:44 AM
2	Is it ok to not want casual sex as a guy? This thread and the encouraging comments is super wholesome.	/r/seduction	23/02/21 03:20 AM
5	I feel like this post would be beneficial to a lot of guys here. Don’t worry about those “horrible men who do well with women.” Their punishment is being horrible men; that’s what they’ll have to live with eventually. The way to think about this is: The women who are attracted to those kinds of men are not the ones you want, unless you want to be a horrible person, right?	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/20 12:21 AM
4	I’ve become a misogynist, and it needs to stop Sleeping with models or hotties will validate the void of your insecurities about yourself for a little bit, but it won’t solve the underlying reasons you are insecure to begin with. Of course, I remember when I was younger and insecure I KNEW this but still couldn’t get over it. I just needed to get enough validation through sex and then “poof” my head cleared. If that resonates with you, please for the love of god, NEVER resort to techniques of attraction that will hurt or deceive women. Trust…	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/20 04:18 PM
5	I’ve become a misogynist, and it needs to stop Hey bud, I used to walk that familiar path of (not much sex/“behind in my body count” to RP) but just wanted to let you know it does get better. Let go of most of your (unproductive) instincts at this point, they’re all getting in your way, but never let go of the core that you want to be a “good” person. When you find women who find you attractive enough to sleep with you- let go of the fear and hate and see it as validation of your inherent self worth and not the stupid PUA techniques or RP ph…	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/20 04:13 PM
24	The Ultimate Goal of MRAs, MGTOW and TRP The men were already bitter and resentful, MGTOW and RP just give them a way to justify how they’re feeling and that it’s Not Their Fault.	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/20 09:13 PM
2	I have misogynistic views and I want to change Your feelings aren’t about the girl (they’re just objects to you at this point that provide you with feelings of various kinds), they’re really about your insecurity and perceived inferiority to “chads.” You will need to get over that, figure out and internalize why you are just as good (and in some ways better) than your perceived “superior males.” That will give you a better basis from start solving your objectification of women. Part of it will probably involve fears of sexual inadequacy. Ass…	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/20 06:34 AM
5	I had a realization where felt like the Red Pill has possibly brainwashed me, and given me a warped view of women and has stunted my personal growth. How do you know who is right, what the reality is? RP tells men what they WANT to hear... that you’re the victim, it’s not your fault it’s the media, and that with enough skills and whatever else you can succeed and “win” at this game called women. That alone should disqualify them from the potentially very small contenders of “rational thought.” Not everyone outside of RP is going to be good advice either, but a lot of RP is seductive to men who are hurting, insecure or confused because it tells them what they want to hear. There are legitimate…	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/20 03:30 AM
6	My no-tomfoolery flowchart for day-game opening “Lemme get your opinion on this... would this work on you? Y/N”	/r/seduction	22/07/20 04:59 AM
1	Does height matter? Men are shallower. We are attracted to women based on their looks. That’s already shallow.	/r/seduction	12/07/20 12:31 AM
30	The red pills taste pretty good... But I know I'm going down a terrible path. Just remember: redpill feels good the same way throwing a tantrum and taking your toys home when you were a child feels good. By choosing to stop throwing tantrums, you are choosing to be an adult and have adult relationships. Better to be a unhappy virgin than an unprincipled dick who contributes to the world’s misery like so many other toxic men.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/20 03:39 AM
5	Man the red pill really fucked me up.. You asked, I gave an answer. All good whatever you feel. At the heart of this I think we are talking past each other about different things. One argument is that words can hurt even if your intentions are benign. The other is that intention should be weighed before a word can be judged.	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/19 06:21 AM
4	Man the red pill really fucked me up.. https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_9604844 It’s a little bit (but not nearly as offensive) like calling someone “a black.” That is, female is originally an adjective and the usages of it as noun has often been objectifying. Even if you and your usage didn’t mean it to be. It suggests that the object’s most noteworthy aspect is being black.	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/19 04:56 AM
4	Stories like these is why I’m still afraid of marriage, what are your thoughts? How can you convince me it is still worth it? You don’t need to get married but your trust issues are not justified by a random story. If you hear about a serial killer story online is it rational to stop going outside? A lot of irrational behavior is justified by “this story I heard is now evidence of something true.” A lot of truths in the world you haven’t heard about. You don’t hear about the majority of people in happy relationships that don’t write horror stories for others to read	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/19 10:45 PM
2	Looking for opinions on Tinder experiments Uh... it all depends on the sample size relative to the total population and it’s pretty obvious Tinder’s population is pretty large. Where did you get 97% out of?	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/19 06:16 PM
18	Looking for opinions on Tinder experiments A sample size of 27 collected in an arbitrary way with huge caveats (that the author admittedly did know already so good on them for self awareness) is NOT a study. It is entertainment. If you’re looking for interesting dating data, I think OKCupid actually has a data science division and blog posts based on data. Here’s an example (old) blog post showing that for OKCupid users more singles would rather be pissed on than support Trump: https://theblog.okcupid.com/trump-is-the-biggest-dating-deal…	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/19 02:00 AM
13	In my opinion, TRP robs you of enjoying yourself So true. Some techniques of TRP were useful for me to learn to be interesting and exciting but ultimately I rejected the philosophy and learned to be open and vulnerable. I ended up getting a wife who’s way hotter than me, sure she liked excitement at first but ultimately settled down because she liked me for me. Now I can be myself around her and actually learn to deal with the REAL relationship challenges of two real people trying to live together for 60 years. TRP is all about the start of a …	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/19 05:37 AM
19	I became addicted to prostitutes after 2 years of red pill What your first sexual experience is like does not define you or honestly affect you in any way unless you keep deciding it’s important. Biggest scam on humanity, this focus on virginity.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/19 08:24 AM
3	Red Pill Husband Please get him to agree to go to a therapist with you before it’s too late. You need a professional to help, because you’re not just up against an errant philosophy, you’re up against the need to be childish and selfish and feel GOOD in the short term to act like the asshole you’ve always wanted to be. I’ve read redpill shit disguised as PUA skills before. It’s fundamentally incompatible with being a real man and more about being a boy and acting out your base desires with no need to empathize w…	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/19 09:30 AM
1	All my minority brothers, how do you get over race? Thanks man. I wanna say PUA and all of that skillset was helpful but it was only really useful to generate attraction in first few months. If you just want to have constant bang and forgets, sure it’s pretty useful, I guess. The real relationship work compared to the PUA work feels like 90/10 or even 95/5 in terms of amount of effort, in that the real question of “okay, we found each other attractive, NOW what” was the real challenge I overcame once the honeymoon phase wore off. And no PUA or bo…	/r/seduction	14/05/18 01:39 AM
3	All my minority brothers, how do you get over race? The more you think about it the more of a problem it is. Assume everyone doesn’t see your race as a problem, and you’ll have a better time. Sure, there are times when I come into a room and the blondes look literally through me, but I don’t want those kinds of people. I’m now happily married with a hottie six years younger who is out of my league and we are soul mates.	/r/seduction	13/05/18 10:11 AM