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| -1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.I literally stopped reading after the first paragraph. Tons of women have sex drives. This is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?My libido is higher than his and, as far as i care, is not his responsibility. Imma watch porn when i want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | would you rather date...When you use umbrella terms or understandings like this, 'women only talk like this, believe that, etc' you show how childish you are. Thats not how the world works. Nuance in culture and norms throughout the world change these things. As well, loving sex doesnt mean shes crazy and will cheat. Disliking sex doesnt mean that she is 'perfect wife material' and will essentially be your house servant. This is a false equivalency and these things are not connected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Most American women are into mutilated men, and all that it implies...Personal opinion: i dont care what his dick looks like, so long as its clean and attached to a user who knows how to work it and can masterfully play with my own bits. I did have an ex who was circumsized and we spent a lot of time talking about how it is unconsented mutilation. It should be the choice of the individual upon adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | would you rather date...This comment section makes me very sad. In what reality do you have to choose between these women? A sounds like she needs therapy, if she cheats and lights shit on fire, but id rather be with her. B and I wouldnt be a match. Crazy A or crazy B? I think I'll stay single. The internet sphere is... insane. Go touch some grass, yall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 12:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresIdk, i dont understand how being sexual can ruin someones career. Like... get over it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Biphobia, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 9 | Just be nazi theoryThirsty people will fuck anyone lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:39 PM |
| 0 | The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical typeIll agree with an addendum. Guys are like this too. Everyone is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Dudes are interested in their own release, not reciprocation. Ultimately, it's selfishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 09:03 PM |
| 6 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?my man ive been sexually active for more than ten years and ive had two partners who were interested in my orgasm. two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?My N count is something like... 13? I think? And yeah. Maaaaybe 20%. Kind of what ruins the casual sex scene is the fact that most straight male partners suck in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?We started dating as kids, when I was 14 and he 15. He was tall, and he was my friend, then. We got married when I was 20, because we had both joined the military and wanted to get posted together. After spending like... the first 6mo away from him in my whole life, I realized that I didn't enjoy his company anymore, he made me stressed and upset, and he frequently violated boundaries and requests. No one in my family or friend group liked him. It wasn't a good match, but I had deluded myself in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:38 PM |
| 4 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?A little. I didn't notice it because we had been together for so long, but my friends said I didn't talk about him anymore, and I didn't go out of my way to spend time with him. I 'had to deal' with him, as I saw it. I didn't realize how much I disliked him until another friend said it out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 5 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?It's heartbreaking how many people get caught in this cycle and waste years trying to fit into it. What a waste of my time and energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 16 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?IMHO I think people get too caught up in wanting 'a relationship' to think about what that looks like. Personally, I panicked over getting a hubby by a certain age, because I want kids before I'm 30. That was a major pressure into getting married, and realizing I hated the guy was why I got divorced. So far, polyamory, or at least a polyamorous mindset, has helped take the pressure of relationships away from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Very well spoken!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)It is absolutely not the only way, and I'm sorry you're so socially stunted you can't read situations or just enjoy time fucking hanging out with people without the expectation you will be paid in sex for the absolute JOY of your company, and the $40 in food. Why are money and sex the deciding factors in relationships? What about liking the damn person? Like. Sex doesn't change a human body, so N counts are literal nonsense, and the prospective value of a person changes depending on who views th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Fair enough. The only way you can demand respect is by removing your presence in the absence of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 5 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)I'm not saying it's not their choice- promiscuous women gotta get it somehow, and it won't be me standing in their way. I am saying that they should be respected. A person (male or female) sleeping around (healthily, using condoms, getting checked, etc) is not a bad thing. IMO it does not affect the value of a person, only their ability in bed. (And I'd be inclined to argue for higher N count peeps, so they're actually skilled instead of fumbling and clumsy). Even not doing it healthily makes yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 12 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Dude, I'm still so confused and concerned for you. I hope you make it into the real world to meet real people one day. Here's some dating advice. Meet people. Real people. Don't associate with those whose values and morals don't align with yours or encourage yours to improve. Trying to shove people into boxes like 'High Value' and 'Low Value' is arbitrary, useless, and only means something to internet nobodies who aren't meeting anybody anyway. Trying to calculate how much money you should or sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 24 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Do you see women as a walking vagina that you insert money and get sex? You know they're people, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesIn an arranged marriage, especially in a culture where a gentleman may have several wives, is not based in love. Rather, the goal is child rearing and 'success' of the bloodline. Therefore, you don't generally love your husband, but you love your kids. And you make sure your kids get the same thing as the kids he has with his other wives. It's less a love-marriage and more a business-marriage, especially in cultures where women can't work, and their 'job' is creating children. Your husband is mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations.The assumptions I'm reading in these comments are insane. Have yall ever met a real person? My partner is the biggest nerd I've ever met, he was my D&D DM for 3yrs before we started dating. He's the one that got me into nerd culture, and now I'm planning joining different LARP groups once the world re-opens. I'm a way bigger nerd than he is. Having a hobby is great. But also be a person in addition to that hobby. If the hobby takes over your whole life, you're not going to be very interesting or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.This sentiment is why men kill themselves. If people are being shitty to you for having emotions, they’re shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Yeah, women who don’t accept that men have emotions are awful and toxic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Toxic masculinity: ‘boys don’t cry’, ‘man up’, etc. Stuff that forgets that men have emotions and are humans capable of being hurt and sad. Toxic femininity exists too, but we’d probably slide stuff like crazy physical ideals and probably slut shaming in there too. Ladies tend to do it more than men, I’ve found. But the crazy physical ideals could probably qualify as TM as well, given the whole ideal of the Capt America bod that is just not realistic for the majority of men. Basically the best w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Why Do People So Fundamentally Misunderstand the Point of Love/SexEndorphins are a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The social narrative around "he took advantage of her"Please see my other comment about ‘if you want a girl to use as a sex toy, buy a goddamn sex toy’. You act as if the only value a woman holds to you is for sex. You don’t care what other values she has, just if the sex is good. If the sex is good, you can be happy with the personals. Am I understanding right? Once you have slept with her, likely based on a very surface measure of her because you’ve only know her for like a day theoretically, then you’d stick around to learn about her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | The social narrative around "he took advantage of her"Perhaps guys consider being upfront different from how girls do, and this needs to be taken into consideration. I would consider a guy upfront if, after talking to me for about a half hour, told me he was only down for a hookup. If he mentions it right away, I would consider it aggressively upfront, and immediately turn him down. If he waits months before he mentions his attraction, I wouldn’t consider that upfront. Mind, this is going to be different for every woman. I think this is what people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | The social narrative around "he took advantage of her"Let me make chime in to make something clear (er?) To a woman, sex is something to be enjoyed with a partner. It is not something that is done to us, it is not something we do to our partner. We do it WITH our partner, and we generally enjoy partners on the same wavelength, so to speak. People we vibe with, people we’re comfortable with. If you introduce yourself as a person, say hey I’m (Name), wonderful to meet you! and then have a good conversation, you’re more likely to give a good first imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.That’s fine, I don’t want a man who wants someone sexually inexperienced. Sounds like he’s looking for someone that’s not me. So long as he knows what he wants and is honest about it, I personally don’t give a shit about his intention. I like sexual experience in a man because I enjoy having sex, and I’d like a partner who knows what they’re doing. I don’t wanna teach guys what to do when I’m just looking to get laid. That’s unnecessary work for someone I don’t intend to keep around. Let me be c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.Exactly- cuz all I cared for was getting laid too. Both of us would be good and happy in the situation when it ended. However, if he wanted more I would have turned him down because fuck that. If I can’t stand your voice while we’re talking the first time, what makes you think I’ll wanna talk to you again? If a dudes purpose is one and done, then sure he can rely on his looks. But is that good for him? Is it what he wants, in his end game? Take two people to date. If you’re just tryna fuck, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.(All IMO) I’ve always felt that looks will get you in the door, but it’s personality that earns you a place at the table. I’m human, I like what looks nice. Other people are allowed the same. But I also enjoy lively conversations and being treated nicely. So I might fuck a dude who’s hot, but if he’s annoying I will likely never repeat him. Or if she is vapid as hell and can’t hold a conversation with me? Again, might take her home for the night if I’m desperate but honestly- I’d rather be alone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 04:01 PM |
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