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wordsandmagic/r/MGTOW216/05/21 02:59 AM
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I'm so glad a dont count my 'n count'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:08 PM
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Not in the UK - we take it turns to buy each round of drinks - its much easier. Women are pretty cool here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:56 AM
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If a screenwriters sees this it will 100% end up a movie. Its just the choice between do you make it a drama or comedy?
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 02:47 AM
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She's been single after all those years and she still doesnt have a proper job. In her 50s making 8 dollars an hour. How did she not develop at least a basic skill to earn enough to get by on?
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 12:28 PM
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We're not about this. This group has nothing to do with ripping on people for being different
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 12:26 PM
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I never used to spend much on dating tbh - we'd just go to the bar - spend 20$ each on drinks and then leave and hook up at one of our homes. I used to do that once a week so 80$ a month. But then again, I may just have those beers with a friend instead so nothing really saved. I was never one of those men that bought women gifts or paid for their nails or anything.
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 02:54 AM
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I'm calling bullshit. You attracted trash women but not all women are trash. I've been broke most of my 20s and dated a lot of women. Money never and my lack of having it never mattered. We just went to pubs, or parks, or fucked at my house. If you need money to get a woman then you arent much of a man. MGTOW isnt about hating women. Its about just choosing not to date.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 04:47 AM
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As someone who has always done well with dating apps - its harsh to say, but probably kinder to be honest - you're doing something wrong in the conversations that make women want to stop talking to you. I couldn't really help you unless you screenshot your conversations so we could highlight where its gone wrong. Brutal honesty with yourself, rather than blaming women is healtheir.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 02:00 AM
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Older women too want the old school model where men are men and men pay. Young women are more chill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:13 PM
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She most have money troubles if she has to chat up people online to try and bag a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:12 PM
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I was never hurt by a woman. I was even a bit of a womaniser in my 20s (i'm over that now I've grown up) The reason I choose to be single is: I dont want kids I'm often moving countries and its difficult to make something work I'd prefer to see friends or follow hobbies than date I love time to myself I cant imagine seeing the same person every day for the rest of my life so I dont think a long term relationship is good for me (or them)
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 11:12 AM
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I think there are incels in the group - but its mostly just normal men choosing to be single. I actively write against incels online and have nothing to do with them. They are toxic.
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 06:17 AM
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Is there any status to being married in the 21st century?
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 06:21 AM
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I think the only exception to this would be your parents. Suicides and murders and have destroyed the lived of parents. It often creates a passing on of pain, where the parents soak it all in and they live with it for the rest of their lives.
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 03:37 AM
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So true. I see so many people who arent top 20 or 30 percent in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:20 PM
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I'm no way in the top 20 percent of men and I get laid often. Its all nonsense you have to be the top 1 in 5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:08 PM
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Men are choosing not to have sex. A lot of its not worth making the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:05 PM
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The 80/20 rule is bulshit that people cling to. Losers get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:02 PM
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Oh, we do that nowadays! Dating dynamics have totally changed in the last 10 years in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:18 AM
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In the UK we're pretty big on the dating apps (over the last 7 or 8 years) so dating has become very normal. Before dating apps most people met through friends, at work, and another big one thats dying out - going to bars and meeting when drunk (and hooking up)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:47 AM
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I lived in Vietnam and so many western men would arrive and hook up with women left, right, and centre. Within three months they'd think they found love and end up in toxic relationships. A lot of the expats werent allowed out without their Vietnamese partners (well they could, but they would get an ear bashing). Or they'd be made to give the family of their girlfriend a little money each month to help them out (usually about 80 dollars). I could never understand how they could exchange their fr…
/r/MGTOW214/06/21 02:28 AM
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I'm a literature fiend. I devour books by day and by night. I read books like teenage boys play video games.
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 05:03 PM
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Same as why there are still fat people but they know how to lose weight. They are mostly mental barrier for them to improve and they'd be wiser to get therapy before dating tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:54 AM
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The narrative that normal men cant get sex is laughable. Its simply not true. Walk the street and see all the ugly men with girlfriends and wives. These incels need to stop posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:08 AM
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I've got it all but the money!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:26 PM
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BAHAHAHAH most adult men are not watching anime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:25 PM
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It was met. I had enough sex to get burned out where I barely want it any more. It seems silly. How much time we wasted dating and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:23 PM
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You believe your wants are the wants of others. For us men who can have sex as we please, with relative ease, we seldom think about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:14 PM
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I dont know. I need that tooth but I dont need that fetus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:12 AM
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The birth rate is dropping in educated countries. Finland, UK, Italy, Japan etc. their numbers have dropped. The less educated a woman is, the more babies she is likely to produce. Thats why we see dystopian films and books like idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:11 AM
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At 35, out of my peer group I'd say only half have kids. Its not so alarming, as the population manages to replenish but its startling in the sense that the number having kids among men used to pay around 90 percent, and slightly higher for women. I do wonder how the zoomers will choose to live their lives. The next 20 years will tell if they are breaders or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:07 AM
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These men who say they are incels are rarely incels. I would guarentee I could get them laid within a month if I met them. I know men who are 3's who have partners and even wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:18 PM
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Most of us peak physically in our 20s. Its just the way of the world. Fortunately we become wiser, wealthier, and more experienced to compensate for the fading of our physical manifestation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:21 PM
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I actually think young women of about 21 or so are physically at their best looking. I wouldnt date that young as we'd have nothing in common but lookswise alone - I get why men aim to date younger and watch teen porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:51 AM
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Thats whats unique about them/us. We don't have something go out way and its lash out time. They need to be nicer and more kind. Right now they are cowards, pointing fingers at people, which is the least nice thing they could do for themselves because they have become a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:55 PM
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Grow thicker skin. I swear us Millennials are the cry-baby generation. Everything is unfair. Everything is somebody elses fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:28 PM
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I use solely dating apps now and I can date as much as I like (barring lockdowns). I'd never hit on a work colleague, or even social circle, and rarely go to bars now. So dating apps were just easy and worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 03:51 AM
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Hardest country I did was Italy. Got about 15 matches in 3 days of swiping. My country, UK, is easy in a big city and I was getting 20 matches a day whenever I signed up. Vietnam was just silly - literally 80 matches out of 100 swipes (but lower tier in the sense most cant really speak english)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:58 AM
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Are you living in Vietnam or did he move to the US? I lived in Vietnam for years!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:43 AM
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Depends on the country. In northern europe and the uk not so much. In southern Europe its still pretty much the norm. Its cultural. I live in Taiwan right now and approaching a random woman on the street would be weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:35 AM
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Incel talk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:32 AM
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Not in the UK. Average guys get average women. Just looking around at couples on the streets is proof enough. I'm pretty average and get plenty of dates and hookups on bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:32 AM
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Very true. I'm about a 6 out of 10 and have slept with about 50 or so women. All of them were pretty average looking like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:31 AM
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I'm the same. Will you tell future dates you are low libido or asexiual? I feel us ACE's who can have sex have that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:39 AM
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For sure. I'm heavily tattooed. Some people love that and some people won't even give me the time of the day. While i'd like to be loved by all. That hope is beyond naiive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:58 AM
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Because a lot of men strive for only status and sex. Thats where they get fulfillment. If they took warmth from their crafts or arts or family or friends they would be mentally healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:41 PM
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Well said. A 6ft 200lb of muscle will also look above a 5'7 weedy male.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:21 AM
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Big muscles, yes - its over the top. But a flat stomach with some chest and shoulders for the win!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:20 AM
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Most women do like healthy men and do find physiques of the likes of Chris Pratt or Ryan Reynolds attractive. I think the whole being jacked thing looks a bit stupid though. If you look like a steroid head it also looks like you have massive insecurity. I dont know any woman who prefers a jack black body over matthew mcconaughy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:18 AM
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Couldnt agree more. I'm from the UK and we don't have half of these problems. I dated really well at 5'10, normal face, and average job working in education.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:13 AM
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I hope to die at a good clean 70 - just before the elderly tend to lose their mobility and mental sharpness. The last 2 or 3 years of all my grandparents lives were not the best.
/r/MGTOW229/05/21 04:03 AM
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Be somehwat attractive and be fun and hold a conversation - its all you really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:00 AM
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As a man who is relatively unsuccessful I sure did sleep around a lot. I was always suspicious of this 'women are gold-diggers' trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:39 PM
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I must admit I am cynical. Given half of marriages end in divorce and separation - and then dealing in that over a third of marriages are reported unhappy - it really doesnt bode well for the institute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:29 PM
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For me, I am a teacher and a writer. I get real pleasure in building my students confidence and pushing them into having an open and enquiring mind. I go out my way to help the working class kids - who, like myself - never had anyone to fight in their corner and make them hope for a better chance in life. My second passion is my writing. I don't claim to be a gifted writer, nor do I expect to become a New York Times bestseller, but I get immense satisfaction over crafting stories that bring a st…
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 05:59 AM
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I'm close friends with a woman in this city. We've never done anything. We're just happy chatting and talking about lives. I just dont think we're each others cup of tea in terms of sexual attraction but we like to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:36 PM
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Can confirm. I'm average but date plenty from online dating over the years. I have decent phots, a thought out bio, and I can hold a conversation over the initial messaging period. I also have better looking mates who struggle with online dating, despite them being taller and having better jobs then me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:22 PM
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As an average looking man I can confirm dating is fine and can be pretty fun. I've had someone great relationships and flings and never felt like I needed to be taller or more muscle. I'm fine the way I am. I suspect people who cannot date are below average but are in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:13 AM
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I encourage everyone to dodge marriage until at least late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:23 AM
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Sex-free over Sex-less. A lot of us just arent that fussed. I was a player in my 20s and cant be arsed now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:36 AM
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Bad time for these studies. Most non moronic singletons havent had a sex for over a year due to social distancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:35 AM
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Oh I get that. I slept around from 24 to 30 so I got it out my system. Now I feel like I have a super power because I'm not swayed by it so much anymore.
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 01:12 AM
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I remember in the 90s masturbating to my imagination. 00s kids will never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:03 AM
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I think most people on this sub are American. I know in Europe alimony is quite rare. We do of course have child support and divorces do share all assets, but paying them after you are seperated doesnt happen with normal people.
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 03:46 AM
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I found out I was decent looking. I kept hearing about men only getting 2 or 3 matches a day and I was getting 20 or so. I'm relatively shy and hadnt dated much and never approached. After a year on tinder I slept with around 10 people that year. After that I had a few good relationships and met some more wonderful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:28 AM
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Tinder is mostly about location. I tried it in the US and Canada and getting 5 matches a day on 100 swipes was a good day. In the UK I would get 20 or 30 matches on 100 right swipes. In Thailand and Vietnam I got over 50 a day (but most couldnt speak English). Location matters.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 03:20 AM
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Did it get boring after a while? I was a womaniser for around 6 years and then after a while I just got tired of first dates, casual sex, and one month affairs. I'm curious if others get the same burn out.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 08:28 AM
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I went out of my mate who brought along his one year old son. We had two people insinuate we were a gay couple. Now he leaves his son at Grandma's whenever we go out.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 03:08 AM
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The only reason I dont fear marriage is I'm too poor for them to take anything. If they found any assets I would be delighted.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 02:58 PM
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Millennials are opting out of marriage but not because they are all mgtow. Its just not seen as important to the new generation.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 05:47 PM
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Well it just means dating below (which nobody wants to do). If a man is a 5 in looks he'd have to date a 4.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 04:07 AM
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The only thing that scares me is these women who want to destroy these men. They arent happy just taking 20 million and living the rest of their lives in a mansion by the beach. Its so malicious.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 04:06 AM
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The vast majority of men could have sex relatively easy (way more than seventy percent) - its just the quality of woman the guy is willing to sleep with that is what makes men nope out.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 01:07 AM
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I live a bachelors lifestyle but am put off by MGTOW posters. I think there does need to be a pro single group where we've opted out of relationships and flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:19 PM
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Chubby and chunky is good - chriss pratt pre weight loss - rebel wilson was always hot fat or slim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:41 PM
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Non PC but v.funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:39 PM
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The vast majority of people look better in their 20s. The odd person may peak in their 30s. I've never seen someone look better at 47 then they did at 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:36 PM
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I'd be happy to look at his profile. I'm average and get 5-10 matches a day in the UK.
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 06:55 AM
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Is a low value man someone who isnt rich? or is it more about personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:25 PM
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You got it wrong. Men who like BBWs arent doing it because they are easier. Otherwise why would BBW porn be so popular? Many people just like it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:18 PM
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