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| 1 | 2 months of college left never kissed a girlMore importantly than what's left, and being depressed about what you've missed. How are you going to change that? | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 01:57 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendLet's start with the fact that my best friend is a girl. Her (now fiance) handled it really well, because my not liking him would have ended their relationship. What he did was be respectful, truly respectful. He never had to make it clear what going on, or spell it out, or anything obtuse. We weren't/aren't friends, he treats me more like a brother. We joke and cajole, and have a couple laughs. Most importantly: he never acted threatened. If he was scared or jealous, and I didn't like him, I wo… | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Afraid to be in a relationshipAnd my axe! | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 04:17 PM |
| 64 | ELI5: KissingTo quote Dr. Who, "Try to be near nervous and sweaty, and a bit rubbish at it... You'll be that anyway, so just make it part of the plan." | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 01:51 PM |
| 3 | "Alpha" males, what are your rules for communication online/via text?I write in proper grammar, but I also speak with proper grammar. I use the most basic emoji, like 😊, but that's about it. Just make sure your spelling is correct, and fix your typos. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Two girls met me once. They think I'm cute an am taking me out tomorrow. I'm both nervous and excited. Can I get any tips?Don't expect things to happen, simply allow them to. Be confident, not assuming. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you reject someone properly?Try communication, ask hey what her intentions are, reply truthfully, be a man. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:33 AM |
| 8 | "gay" backfire?I wouldn't have said "gay", that makes you look fifteen. Trickle in contact, a couple of days after, tell her which movie, a couple of days later, tell her which time, day before, tell her location. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 01:17 PM |
| 2 | How to be more masculineMasculine and assertive are not necessarily the same thing, so they can't be tackled by the same solution. Assertive is a way of being; its an attitude, and a confidence that you have. Masculinity is tougher, because what you described in your brief post doesn't say that you aren't. Also, is not necessary to have game. Be yourself, and confident in your self. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Everyone has their own special way of flirting whats yours?Poorly? | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I change my voice?Morgan Freeman did it, so can you. | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 01:54 PM |
| 5 | If you're wondering how you look, try to imagine how you'd look as a hitchhiker on the side of the road.Murderer-y? | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Quick question for the pros.Having sex does not mean budding relationship. That puts you in a possible "with benefits" situation, or something casual, or one of many, etc. You are reading to much into this, and you are trying to put this into a box it doesn't fit in. Your plans are getting in your own way. That's why you are worried about her disappearing for a short while. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How soon should there be a second date?Second date should be fit into your life. Make her feel that seeing her is important, so you will fit her into your busy awesome life. Personally, I like the casual follow up, cooking dinner, lunch date, something light and fun, so you can smile and charm. 2-3 days after is where I like to "fit her into my schedule." | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:21 PM |
| 1 | A way to spice up your text gameNo, just no. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How to fight off competition?There is no competition. Just you and the girl. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Is there a good reason why I have trouble making eye contact?Keep working at it. Be confident. Smile! Sounds like you need practice, that's all. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Lets talk competition. How do you deal with other single Guys and protective Girls?The reason we don't discuss this is because we ignore distractions. If you are on the hunt, don't be distracted. No one is competition to you. Because allowing competition to throw you of your game throws you of your game. Protective friends are easy. Don't be creepy, be friendly to them too, and charm them both while making your intentions clear. Plus over protective friends are a lot less common in real life as they are in sitcoms. Most friends are wingwomening. So they are a tool to use, not … | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Long Time LurkerStart talking to everyone, guys, girls, everyone. Once you can approach anyone, you can approach "anyone". Be confident, not just act it. Acting makes you seem like a dick, being draws people to you. Dress well. A few years older is 19-20? Try meeting them at school. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I always hit it off with girls on OKC then the next day I don't know what to say.Try: I really enjoyed talking with you the other day, but I had a question. Them come up with a question that references something from your previous chat. Also, alpha up and ask her out. Something simple, like coffee or putt putt. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Newbie saturday night out - 25/01/2013Get conversation going. I'm a club setting, is not really what you talk about isn't as important as you are treating it. It's about communication. Physical is the next step. I like the "sit next to, and leg touch leg" to start, if there is no pull away, you are in to be more bold. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:44 PM |
| -5 | Tinder: what success stories have you had? What do you find most effective to start a conversation?Most effective conversation starter, "Hi! I'm _____, what's your name?" Followed by "How has your day been?" But you have to commit, stand tall and strong and smile, and don't doubt yourself. If after a couple of minutes, if you can only get one word answers, move on. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:40 PM |
| 1 | 1st date - just drinks or do you mix it up?My favorite first date: putt-putt golf. It let's you have fun, smile, laugh, and build rapport without pressure. Plus, it's unique and surprising. As a side note, if they won't have fun with minigolf, they won't be fun in... other areas. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | quick question, no need to upvote. just need adviceSounds like nerves got the best of you. It happens. The problem I see is that follow up text. It showed weakness, and admitted fault in a not so graceful way. Don't do that. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What are your goals if you approach girls in the daytime?I'm more aggressive with my daytime flirting. They are usually more willing to talk because their guard is usually less up. I will often go for an impromptu dinner date if everything is going well. If you keep it casual and unassuming, daytime gaming can be extremely effective. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I become an inhibited unexpressive version of myself, how do I stop this?Step 1: Stop poisoning your mind with doubt! Confidence is King. Step 2: Remember that people like to talk about themselves. If you pay attention, and ask questions, (be a good listener) and she will think you are a good listener. Step 3: Physical contact. By touching her, (in a completely appropriate way) it let's her know you are interested without words. You'll be fine. Stop over thinking, and start having fun. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:19 PM |
| 6 | do I have game or no game ?Get over it, and just talk. The only way to overcome fear is to face it. Rejection happens, but you will have 0% success without talking. | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 02:36 PM |
| 4 | When you were first starting out, what was your plan for self improvement?Talk to EVERYONE. You can't be shy or timid if you talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 08:56 PM |
| 0 | I need help reading women and reciprocating compliments. Working at a strip club is messing with my head (hopefully in a good way). (X-posted from r/dating_advice)This. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 07:57 PM |
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