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We're close but not enough I think to ask her / she might lie to me if she is, because she knows I'm talking to him. Maybe I can ask if she's talked to any of those guys in the group
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 02:59 PM
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Leave him go explore
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 06:26 AM
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Action rather than thinking about it. Also don't change yourself for a guy
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 05:42 PM
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Jealousy is an emotion that's perfectly fine and normal for humans to feel. Instead of acting on it, use it as a map to see where your subconscious mind sees you have potential. If it's something like a piece of cake, focus on your blessings instead
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 03:19 PM
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Because this isn't normal behavior when he's drunk, and it's so often and on certain days. If I were a guy and someone asked me that, I would think the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 02:35 PM
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This is just one guy out of so many. It sounds like he has a drinking problem. He could also be nervous and using that to cope, but sounds like this is why
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 02:23 PM
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Yes, I think it's insecurity or shyness - you might be putting those who are more attractive or high earners on a pedestal, so it's way easier and more comfortable to talk to those who don't. Or maybe you don't realize how much you have to offer -- but those around you do. Work on realizing your own value/putting yourself on a pedestal and setting higher standards and the rest should flow more easily. But I think it's important to realize what your standards are, and what you really want from a …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/22 06:03 PM
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Missed that part about PCOS. It should have been bold and clear in the title as that's the most important part. I've been screened for PCOS several times, I know about it, didn't think she had any issues
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 09:47 PM
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I mean you can call this anecdotal if you want, but I didn't say everyone would get pregnant in their 30s. If she has kids now, and forgoes what she wants to do, there will be a high chance she will resent her family and have a lot of regret, versus waiting two years might not make a huge difference for her. She also did not mention anywhere she had fertility issues. I'm sorry but it sounds like you are projecting
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 09:07 PM
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I have a couple of friends who weren't able to have kids when they were younger, and despite being told they weren't able to, a few years went by and they got pregnant in their 30s
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 06:06 PM
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Omg 28/29 is still so young and not old in any sort of way to have children. Better to do this now, when you don't have a family, so you don't resent them later for sacrificing what you want to do.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 05:28 PM
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You think all men are like this? There are also a couple guys I know who had female friends in their childhood so now seem to have only platonic friendships. But I guess being in a group is different as well
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 05:23 PM
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There is only one male friend I have who has never expressed sexual interest in me lol so I don't think it's possible to be close friends with them unfortunately.. they seem to want more.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 06:21 AM
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Yes. You can communicate once or twice some things that you like, or find fun ways to let him know, and then maybe he can try to do those more.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 11:04 PM
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I think starting as friends leads to the best relationship because you really get to know and care about each other without expectations, then when you transition to a relationship it's like you're dating your best friend. Moving from a relationship to friends is too sad in my opinion hahah
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:09 PM
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Do you need to be married to give advice here?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 03:50 PM
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Lol what.. I'm literally in a 5 year relationship
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 01:59 PM
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I think the older you get, the harder it will be to find a man who doesn't have dating experience, and knowing they have a past is something you will have to accept - or get some dating experience yourself first if you feel like it won't be fair to you. Personally, my best relationships started off as friendships. I liked their energy and felt attracted to them, and with no expectations i just had fun getting to know them. The process was natural and exciting. So I wouldn't really go for an arra…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 06:39 AM
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I'm not preaching any feminine principles, I'm just saying if a woman has a thought, need of her own, or anything she wants to say, she should be able to do that because her opinion matters and is valuable, no? Or is this sub about ignoring your own needs to please a man anyways?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 08:49 PM
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Great numbers of women are in abusive and controlling marriages, which sounds like what you're referring to. Women should have independence and freedom to tend to their own needs, do what feels right for them, and speak their minds. Not succumb under the presence and identity of a man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 06:26 PM
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Thank you so much! I'll check this out. I feel like I'm feminine but maybe not as much as I thought, or maybe not energetically. Does this make your partner naturally bring out his masculine energy, or will it lead you to find another partner if he's not? Also my experience with typically "masculine men" is they're controlling, self centered and don't have empathy or compassion which only I end up having for them.. do you think that's just mine or it's a thing?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 02:36 PM
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I do some of the chores at his place. I live in a different city, he's not even at my place now. The way I see it is if he makes 3x more than me = he earns more per hour worked, so it should be proportional. For example, if we are spending money doing something together, that will be more hours worked that I'm going to be spending, and 3x less hours for him. Is his time more valuable than mine?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 02:17 PM
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No one is going to war to protect me. In my home country, thousands of women are going to war as well. He's not forcing himself to work to have money for me. I force myself to work to stay independent and pay my own bills. Meeting his needs for "peace" is sexist - if I'm upset about something, I'm going to communicate. He's not providing many resources for me financially. I'm talking about looking for insight from people online, not about judgement when I asked a question. I would really rather …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 07:40 AM
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This was good insight. Except you are making a strong assumption saying I hate taking accountability, which is extremely inaccurate. What I hate is rude people attacking you online and picking sides. I didn't ask for judgement, obviously if someone attacks me, I'm going to defend myself. I asked this question for a reason - to get insight. People need to learn to communicate.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 07:01 AM
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True. I don't believe in selflessness personally, I think it's important to put self care first, you cant pour from an empty tea cup. But I will definitely be there for him when he asks me for anything
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 04:52 AM
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I'm staying at his place right now. I do my own chores when I'm home
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 10:43 PM
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Can you read? Where he said he is fine with paying groceries. Where am I asking him to do my chores?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 10:36 PM
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Did you misread the part where I am working full time, paying my own rent, and also paying some groceries. The only thing he is covering is a higher percent of food. Also, even if a man is providing financially, that doesn't automatically make you his b*tch.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 10:35 PM
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Obey him? I agree with the other things but lol I don't know where telling a woman to "obey" a man comes from. It's not 18th century.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 09:39 PM
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He's only paying for most of the groceries and makes 3x.more than me. I think you missed where I work all day as well. I pay for my own place, which he was going to come visit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 09:36 PM
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Lol it's not about when the stars align. It's very reasonable to ask for space sometimes when you're living together. My roommate back home is the same way. I keep my space super tidy there, because we give each other space
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 08:10 PM
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I think it's reasonable to request space in order to clean, and isn't really comparable to taking a bath. My roommate back home is the same way
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 08:09 PM
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I mean the sex part has been like this for a while. It's still great when we do it, and better when it's not as often. I don't believe the statements everyone says of this is always an indication. I don't think one line indicates where a long relationship is going Idk but I need space to clean. He's always home, and I need my alone time. I need to have control of the space to do it - it's like a mindfulness activity for me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 07:37 PM
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Valid. I pay for my stuff but he spends money on groceries- maybe I can cook then
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 06:14 PM
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I can see what you're saying. I want him to take charge though and be dominant, I'm not sure in what ways that should be
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:31 PM
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Well he's only taking care of most of the groceries. I pay for my own place back home, and when we used to live together, we split rent 50-50 (although his salary is 3x higher than mine), so that's how it would be if we moved in together.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:29 PM
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That sounds hard to deal with, I'm sorry. For us I also work full time - he only pays for groceries. I just don't have energy to do chores after I'm done so late. I also need him to leave the house to clean but he doesn't often, which I've communicated.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:24 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply! The problem is he needs space because he said he's tired of taking care of me and needs to take care of himself.. he said I want some different dynamic than he does but idk in what sense. He's told me to do more chores before, but I finish work super late here, and I told him I need him to leave the house to do it, but he's always here. 5 years relationship. Sex life we dont do it too often- maybe once a month. My drive isn't very high, and were both tired/stres…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:21 PM
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Thank you for your reply! There is some resentment I have from stuff in the past but don't think it's from this in particular it was from previous issues - so I think I see it as him making it up to me maybe. And nono he actually has things pretty easygoing other than work. He's very chill - him and I have both agreed that I have things a lot harder. He isn't vocal about things and doesn't really need support as much.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:14 PM
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