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What really lies behind all these discussions of sexism and racism is the issue of class. The more we divide ourselves, the better it is for the elites in power. I see big investment banks recruiting a "diverse" field of people (black, asian, women, etc.) so that those people can join the rich white men in screwing over everyone else. It's all about class. It. Is. All. About. Class. Rich women have been able to study (at least in the western world) for centuries. Poor women AND MEN... not so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:01 AM
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To turn that on its head, I could say that men could drop the women they're married to for "hotter, younger models." I think that's how the saying goes. Women get betrayed by men as well. It's not a one-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 04:04 AM
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I'm a 20-year-old female, so I think I have some insight here: Be attractive. Be tall(er than her). If you can't be really tall, at least be in shape. This is not negotiable. Be strong. Lift weights. Have friends and be a cool guy. Be focused on what you want and don't let getting girls be your main focus in life. This will attract women to you. I know this is supposedly RP advice, but I think it works regardless of the ideology behind it... women aren't blind to looks at ALL. When we see a hot …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:49 AM
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This is 100% not true. I've struggled socially in college, and I know lots of women who have struggled socially in college and have become really unhappy because of it. Women just tend to be adept at hiding that on social media. "Bombarded with compliments"--people compliment each other all the time; who knows if someone is saying something just to be nice. LOL @ "romantic options." Most men in college either 1. are afraid to talk to women 2. are "playing the field" By the time many of these col…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:18 AM
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But if every man did this, then every man would have to pair up with a woman who already had a kid or two at some point. If her man left her to seek another woman, but all men did the same, it would mean that the women these men are getting with are already mothers.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:38 AM
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Every adult person should have the right to choose what they want to wear. Apparently when women decide for themselves, it's "narcissism," but when men decide for themselves, it's just people exercising their freedoms. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 08:07 AM
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http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/06/what_do_women_want_sex_according_to_daniel_bergner_s_new_book_on_female.html Please read this. Females really do want sex as much as men. Believe me, most women have sexual fantasies all the time, but they don't talk about them. Most women I know masturbate, although only my close friends will admit it to me. It's something shameful for women. If women weren't afraid of STDs and pregnancy, they'd have sex all the time. Animals don't worry ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 07:43 AM
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Women deserve to be allowed to contribute to the world in the same way [wealthy, privileged] men have for thousands of years. We aren't just baby machines. We deserve the right to pilot our own destinies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 02:50 AM
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I've seen so many women stay with men who have debilitating physical illnesses. This is 100% untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 02:36 AM
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Human men didn't evolve to fuck the top 60% of women. We aren't elephant seals. Some perspective: only around 10% of male elephant seals get to mate with 100% of the female elephant seals. They fight for the right to do this, and the strongest wins. Because of this, the sexual dimorphism between male and female elephant seals is really obvious. Males are huge in comparison to the females. If our mating system really worked like this, 10-20% of men would be having children with 100% of the women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:21 AM
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LOL "AFBB". I was raped when I was a virgin; nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:14 AM
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My married friends have way more sex than my single friends. Anecdotal evidence, but I've seen it over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:11 AM
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Women worry about the same thing--that we won't be loved for who we are. But the definition of love doesn't say that someone has to be perfect in order to be loved. We are loved in spite of and because of our flaws. That's real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 06:08 AM
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But if you have great options, doesn't it make sense that eventually you will choose one? People who promote never choosing a partner often end up alone at the end of the day. I agree that no one should stay in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 06:05 AM
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His face is really attractive, at least to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:57 AM
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Relationships are supposed to be about teamwork. It's not about one submitting to the other's leadership 100% of the time. Even in so-called "traditional" households, women made probably 50% of the decisions. A relationship in which one person decides everything for the other is most likely an abusive relationship, unless it's a BSDM thing and both parties understand and agree to the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 05:19 AM
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First of all, what TRP means by "solipsistic" is "selfish." I think both men and women can be selfish. I've been betrayed and had my heart broken by men, and I know I've hurt men in the past as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 10:53 PM
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Spend time working on yourself and you won't be invisible to women. Men don't have to be a perfect 10 to be noticeable. Just like women, wallflowers have a hard time getting noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:12 AM
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I don't see them as invisible. I see them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:29 AM
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"Be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move." LOL, men are anything but invisible to women. I love it when a guy I like asks me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:00 PM
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Imagine this: you save money your whole life, but then the depression comes and you lose everything. Is it your fault? You work out for years to have a good body, but then you learn that you have cancer. Is it your fault? You're driving on the highway and a drunk driver slams into you. Is it your fault? Of course we can say, "He should've known to get his money out of the bank." Or, "He should've eaten only non-GMO foods." Or, "She should've swerved out of the way." But in that situation, what c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:58 AM
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You're blaming the victim of the crime instead of the criminal. Would you blame someone for letting themselves be murdered? Kidnapped? Robbed? Sure, there are precautions people can take, but no situation is ever going to be 100% safe. You can't say oh no, she shouldn't have stepped off the curb at the same time that stray bullet was going by.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:53 AM
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It wasn't your fault. Never blame yourself. It could have happened to any girl there. I'm so sorry it happened to you. :( you did nothing wrong in that situation. You did what you had to do to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:49 AM
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Basically...even those guys you would laugh at and be like "why is he so full of himself to the point of being delusional"? Guys like that who believe they're better than others and above consequences are really dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:47 AM
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I'm going to get mace ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:46 AM
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Unfortunately, the guy who raped me was someone I thought I knew :( but I never actually met his friend circle and I now realize that his whole life was a lie he told me to get him to trust him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:45 AM
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I think the most important thing is for men and women to be allies in the zero tolerance policy for rape. I think what all these movements are doing now is trying to create a more accepting space for people who have been raped to come forward. I mean, look at Bill Cosby--the women he raped keep coming out of the woodwork, yet they all stayed silent until finally someone spoke up. There are actually a lot of cases like this where it turns out one man has raped multiple women. I think we need to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 06:44 AM
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If she tells him, "No," before they begin having sex, repeatedly, and is in obvious discomfort, and he does it anyway, then that's still rape. It's nowhere near as bad as some other rapes, but it's still pretty terrible. When a woman doesn't want something inside her, her body responds and it is VERY painful. No means no, even if making out, clothes off, using hands, etc occurred. Just because that happens doesn't mean the woman has consented to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:53 AM
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I agree. That's why we need to remove the shame of rape so that women are more likely to report what happened to them immediately, instead of trying to forget about it and having it come up later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:46 AM
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You wouldn't blame someone who was attacked by random pit bulls. It's out of their control. That's what rape is. You don't have control of it. How can you not understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:36 AM
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I've thought about getting MMA training to make myself feel like I have more control. Mace is also a good idea. Thanks for the tips :) I don't engage in raving, clubbing, etc., although all three of my friends were raped at parties or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:35 AM
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So then rape is unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:33 AM
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The older I get, the more I believe this, and the more I appreciate truly good people. Some of the best people in the world have been through absolute hell and still manage to smile. I wish I hadn't been so naive and trusting when I was younger. On the other hand, I don't want to be paranoid and agoraphobic. It's hard to maintain that balance. Once your safety has been compromised in such a way, it's difficult to ever feel safe enough to fully "relax" in similar situations ever again. For me, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:25 AM
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Two of them were drunk and one of them was drugged. I was completely sober. The drunk ones were separated from their friends and their phones and anyone who could have heard them, so they felt trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:19 AM
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I'm being serious. What steps do you think that I should take to avoid being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:18 AM
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It's hard to say if it's possible to "spot a rapist"--I can only say from experience the traits I noticed. Any kind of narcissism or lack of self-awareness combined with self-aggrandizement in a man is bad news. Blaming other people for their problems; a belief that they are somehow "better" than other people; compulsive lying; physical aggressiveness; not respecting boundaries; an unwillingness to understand that "no means no," even in situations outside the bedroom... these are just a few red …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:16 AM
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The rape that I'm talking about above is penis + vagina. That's the kind that happened to my three friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:12 AM
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So basically, a woman should never be anywhere alone with a man just because a few men are dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 05:11 AM
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I wasn't drunk at all when I was raped. I hadn't even consumed alcohol--though the guy who raped me had--not that it matters. Should women and men avoid being alone in the same room together? How far should we have to go to avoid these kinds of situations? Most men aren't rapists, I TRULY believe that. The kind of men who rape are total narcissists and sociopaths who can't take "no" for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:50 AM
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There were two reasons I didn't report it right away: shock and shame. If someone is robbed, few people would blame the victim. If someone is assaulted, they don't usually blame the victim. But rape feels like a scarlet letter that follows you around for the rest of your life. The chances of your rape kit being processed and leading to trial are really low. Across the country, there are thousands of unprocessed rape kits getting dusty on police shelves. Instead of making my parents/family misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:48 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3wluw9/trp_and_rape_denial/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:17 AM
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Women definitely should be asking out men more than they do. But as I said, women fear looking desperate. Another thing is that a lot of relationships now begin as a match on a dating app or a drunken make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 06:25 AM
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I should've clarified that the woman only has most of the responsibility during the first nine months. After that, it depends on the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:13 PM
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The best thing men can do is have sex with a trusted partner who has her own goals she's unwilling to screw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:05 AM
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Okay, but when a man asks out a woman, it's accepted as normal. When a woman asks a man out, it can often come across as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:02 AM
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If you're "living on ramen" because of your child support payments, you likely were living on ramen before you had a child. Please explain how a woman isn't a "victim of a dirt bag man" when he refuses to pay for the child he had a part in creating? That sounds pretty terrible to me. The problem is that there's no 100% effective male birth control out there other than vasectomies. This makes things really unfair for men. I really hope that vasalgel hits the market soon, because believe me, most …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:01 AM
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If you're "living on ramen" because of your child support payments, you likely were living on ramen before you had a child. Please explain how a woman isn't a "victim of a dirt bag man" when he refuses to pay for the child he had a part in creating? That sounds pretty terrible to me. The problem is that there's no 100% effective male birth control out there other than vasectomies. This makes things really unfair for men. I really hope that vasalgel hits the market soon, because believe me, most …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 06:01 AM
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Last time I checked, I didn't tell men what they can and cannot do with their bodies. A fetus=not part of a male body. You're basically arguing that if a woman has sex, she should take 100% of the responsibility if she gets pregnant. It took two people to make a baby, don't they each have 50% of the responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:56 AM
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Women shoulder more responsibility initially because she is using her own body to grow another human being. After that, it depends on the family whether the father or mother will have the majority of the responsibility of raising the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:54 AM
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The issue is that the unfairness of a child growing up without the financial backing he needs supercedes the unfairness of the father having to pay for a child he didn't want. The issue is culpability: the father knew that the sexual act could produce a child, even if he believed it likely would not; the child is entirely innocent and blameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:51 AM
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I don't think it's fair for the man to have to pay for a child he doesn't want, but the person that will really suffer if the man doesn't accept partial financial responsibility is the child. That being said, I know some single mothers who don't receive a penny from the fathers because they don't want the fathers to have any visitation rights or any part in the child's life. Maybe it's uncommon, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:50 AM
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I'm pro choice actually. I just think it's the decision of the mother. It's unfortunate that situations like this happen, but until vasalgel or another viable male birth control actually hits the market, it's the reality that men will have to live with. I never said it was fair for the man. But the man doesn't have the right to tell the woman to stick a needle in her body and abort the fetus, just as you wouldn't be able to force your friend to get a tattoo. It's their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:36 AM
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Before you accuse me of being a horrible person, I'm just being honest. I've made out with men who don't fit this description, and so far none of those have done it for me. I think it comes down to aggression on some level. None of those other men have been able to sweep me off my feet and envelop me in the way the other men have been able to. Additionally...... just because I think a guy is physically attractive does NOT mean I'll have sex with him. Personality matters a whooooolllleeeee lot. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:33 AM
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Hell yes. The thing is, for a man's body to be sexy to me, he has to be taller than me (I'm pretty short and tend to date men 9-14 inches taller than I am). He also has to have broad shoulders and be somewhat muscular. When a guy is tall, has good posture, and is reasonably muscular... oh my gosh. Pair that with a good personality and it's literally unfair how attractive some guys can be. They're straight-up works of art. When they enfold you in their arms and you feel how big and strong they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:29 AM
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Purely based on my first, instinctual reactions... not edited to make myself happy with the results: Pic 1: physically really hot. I am attracted to him. Pic 2: his expression is vacant and unsettling. his body looks like he doesn't use it. Not attracted to him. Pic 3: at first I wasn't totally attracted to him because he wasn't "pretty," but I think I'm even more attracted to him than pic 1 on some kind of biological level. I'm attracted to him. Pic 4: Not attracted to him. He looks too weak. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:18 AM
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Because it was his choice to do the action that often creates babies. He has to pay because the child deserves a chance in life and shouldn't pay for the father's mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:29 AM
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I think women have the right to choose what happens to their bodies, just as I believe men have the right to do the same. If babies were created outside the body, I would say men and women would have equal say over whether to keep or terminate the pregnancy. As it is, a fetus is a part of a woman's body until it is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:27 AM
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It's not his body, so it's not his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:25 AM
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I don't really agree with people who say, point blank, don't have sex with drunk girls. I think it's wrong to have sex with girls who can't talk or who are close to unconscious. But I've never been so drunk that I couldn't say "no." I think men need to stop being so entitled to sex all the time and start respecting women more :/ from my experience, the men who respect their girlfriends have the best relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:25 AM
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Imagine getting pregnant and having your whole body change to make way for the child growing inside. Men don't have to think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:23 AM
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The issue is that men KNOW sex often leads to a baby. It's a lot like leaving your door unlocked in San Salvador--likelihood of theft is pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:22 AM
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Lol I wouldn't have to try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:20 AM
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I believe that a woman has the right to choose what she does with her own body. NO ONE should decide that for her but herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:20 AM
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I think that we need more options for male birth control for this reason. Vasalgel would make everyone's life easier. Hormonal birth control, IUDs, shots, etc can have horrible side effects. Imagine changing your entire body chemistry just to avoid getting pregnant--that's what millions of women do per year. We don't love it. We would rather there be an easy, non-hormonal answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:57 AM
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If the man wants to claim parenthood, he can do that without the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:55 AM
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Because it's her body...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:55 AM
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Women are allowed to terminate pregnancies because pregnancy is something that happens to a woman's body. It doesn't happen to a man's body. Women should have autonomy over their own persons. You wouldn't argue that a woman has the right to force a man to have a vasectomy or not. A man doesn't have the right to terminate financial obligations because there are a lot of shitty men out there who go around getting women pregnant and denying responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:53 AM
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Last time I checked, women work jobs just like men... it's the wealthier of the two who has to pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:50 AM
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It's 50% the guy's fault and 50% the woman's fault. They should both accept equal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:43 AM
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Why doesn't the man think about not having unprotected sex with a women he wouldn't want to raise a child with? Oh, I remember. Because the womynz are supposed to be there to have sex whenever the men want :/ after all, that's what they're good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:42 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's not how it works...DNA comes from both the father and mother. Regardless of what you believe, a fetus has the potential to be a person someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:41 AM
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Not at all. Women shoulder way more responsibility for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:36 PM
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So you're saying that it's cool for a man to deny financial responsibility for his child?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:35 PM
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Look, most unintended pregnancies happen because birth control wasn't used properly. You should always double up on birth control. If you're not mature enough to do that, you're not mature enough to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:34 PM
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I'm guessing that you're trolling. This post specifically talks about people who are their biological gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:04 PM
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Lol biology is "logical" to TRP men until it comes and bites them in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:03 PM
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No, because it's pretty much impossible for a woman to deny responsibility for a baby, considering she's the one who has to carry the child for 9 months. A lot of women get pressured into letting a guy not wear a condom because it "feels better." That's the guy's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:02 PM
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No, because it's pretty much impossible for a woman to deny responsibility for a baby, considering she's the one who has to carry the child for 9 months. A lot of women get pressured into letting a guy not wear a condom because it "feels better." That's the guy's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:02 PM
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If you're worried about her lying, insist on always using a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:00 PM
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It's not about the mother. It's about the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:59 PM
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It's not about the mother. It's about the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:59 PM
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I didn't say that justifies her lying about contraception, but the vast majority of women will not lie about it. Most of us don't want to get pregnant until we have a stable career. That being said, if a girl won't shut up about kids and people in her family had kids at a young age, you should be a little suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:58 PM
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"Her victim"? Were you her victim when you were having unprotected sex with her, or did you study PUA until you practically had it memorized in order to get her into bed? TRP says women can't escape the biology of aging... well, men and women can't fully escape the biology of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 06:26 AM
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Girls have to have a good enough personality that a guy actually wants to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 06:15 AM
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The reason I said "frustrated" was to use the same language that men at TRP use when they talk about women. Just trying to prove a point that it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:32 AM
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And all men are perfect angels? Please. You are delusional if you think that every woman is a manipulative asshole. That's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 01:34 AM
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They should be getting with OP, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:52 PM
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Everyone knows that if you're friends with someone on Facebook, it means you fucked them. #facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:51 PM
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All men deserve the hot womynz :( #YesAllMen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:51 PM
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Ummmm... I'm an attractive woman in college and I haven't banged the entire football team. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:50 PM
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I think it comes down to the fact that women have more to lose from a relationship with a man. If he asks her out, it shows initiative and that he already obviously likes her enough to ask her out. I tend to live my life by the motto, "If he likes you enough, he will ask you out." So far, it hasn't failed. A lot of women I know don't let themselves like a guy too much until/unless he asks them out--they've had too much pain in the past liking a guy who had no intention of asking them out. I try …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:47 PM
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I think men need to imagine how frustrating it is to give a guy a billion signs that you like him when he doesn't pick up on them. That's why the easiest way to start a relationship nowadays is to get drunk around the person you like and hope something happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:44 PM
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"Women don't have to earn anything anymore." I beg to differ. There are now more female college graduates than men and a huge percentage of women earn more money than their husbands. I work with tons of women and from what I can tell, none of them feel "entitled" to anything. "You're supposed to love women even though they can hurt you." can't you see that this works both ways? Men can hurt women as well... break their hearts, walk away from them and their children, ACTUALLY rape them (because m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:42 PM
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Please explain to me how women are "spoiled" when a huge percentage of women make more money than their husbands. What kind of women have you been interacting with? Jeez. Most women I know will try to do at least some selfless things to make their boyfriends/husbands happy. Just because the women you've dated have been like that doesn't mean that all women are like that. It just means that you need to get better at choosing women to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:34 PM
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And you don't think that the man could easily just take her earrings off? Jeez...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 06:00 AM
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Women would probably wait until marriage to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:53 AM
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Being nice, friendly, respectful, and non-misogynistic only makes hot guys more attractive. If a guy is physically attractive and an asshole, I am turned off by his personality. But if a guy is already hot, being nice only makes him hotter. The problem is that unattractive guys blame their luck with women on personality traits instead of on the fact that they probably need to lose weight, lift weights, and get some interests/style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:47 AM
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When a man asks for a woman's number, she knows for a fact that he is interested. It also sets up the dynamic for the rest of the relationship. I have asked a guy out in the past. I am a very attractive woman (not full of myself, just being honest--I get asked out all the time), but after asking the guy out, the vibe got so weird and I felt like he wasn't into it anymore. It was almost like I was too "easy" for him. There's something to be said for men wanting a chase and valuing something more …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:44 AM
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Being "nice" is not the same as being a sycophant. Women want someone who respects them as a person instead of treating them like a magical angel. We know that we are imperfect and we don't want someone to totally idolize us--that's unattractive. What is attractive is seeing our imperfections and liking us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 06:09 AM
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TRP is all about being heartless, manipulative, and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 06:07 AM
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This is dumb. Men are attracted to beautiful women. Women are attracted to handsome men. HOWEVER, there are some people out there willing to manipulate someone else in order to gain status. Just because men like Donald Trump have beautiful wives does NOT mean that all women are dying to jump into bed with him. Quite the opposite, in fact. Just another example of how TRP only sees what it wants. Kaley Cuoco, Kris Jenner, Mariah Carey, etc all have married or dated men who were of lesser status th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 07:12 AM
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Basically what I'm saying is why is this the "feminine imperative"? Shouldn't this be the "decent human being imperative"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 07:08 AM
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So basically, you become become physically attractive without needing to seek out your revenge for your previous unattractiveness (which was likely your fault, by the way--just as a woman is more attractive when she's thin, a man is more attractive when he is muscular and not too much body fat and good posture). WHY do RP men feel the need to be vindictive and play manipulative games on women based on the way other women have treated them in the past? It's all kinds of messed up. TL; DR: women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 07:06 AM
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Also, I just want to add that I think it's hilarious how RPers accuse women of being shallow when men are just as, if not more, shallow than women when it comes to looks. When I had glasses, braces, and pimples, guys made fun of me. Then when I became significantly more attractive, all of a sudden the same guys who wouldn't have been caught dead with me before were hitting me up. It made me laugh. Men dump women all the time so they can date someone more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:18 AM
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Some men are attractive or they make up for it with their personalities. The rest don't get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:14 AM
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9 months for both men and women--so around 1.5 years total.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 06:11 AM
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Dude, you have been dick-matized. No decent guy would make you feel like shit for having sex with him/wanting to have sex with him. Stop believing that "men only want virgins." What do YOU want? There are two people in every relationship. You are a person, not some "everywoman" from the 18th century whose prospects for life are over because she's seen a dick. Please girl. If you keep thinking like this, you're going to be miserable and hate yourself. Additionally, just because he's older doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 02:58 AM
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If we had paid maternity and paternity leave, this wouldn't be an issue. Both men and women could choose to spend time raising their child(ren) until they were old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 05:04 AM
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I personally think women should be drafted as well, as they are in countries like Israel. Generalizing and saying "THEY" as if all women are a collective unit is unfair. Additionally, a huge part of the reason women aren't drafted is anti-feminist Phyllis Schafly, who was instrumental in shutting down the Equal Rights Amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 05:02 AM
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Since when are women playing damsels in distress? Last time I checked, plenty of women have jobs and some even serve in the armed forces...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:04 PM
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I wonder if Roosh has actually ever talked to a woman... he has serious issues. Why would we want to regress and become like Saudi Arabia? In a lot of these countries, men are having sex with little boys because women aren't available. Oh, and if a woman is raped, SHE gets killed. Yep, sounds like a great world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:07 PM
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Ever heard of birth control? Now that women can control their own reproduction, they can pursue self-actualization.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:05 PM
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“One is not born a genius, one becomes a genius; and the feminine situation has up to the present rendered this becoming practically impossible.” ― Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex Granted, lots of people don't have a passion. But imagine you have a passion--for music, medicine, art, science, whatever--but you actually CAN'T pursue it because society won't allow it. You spend all your time having children and maybe even die in childbirth and you're never allowed to pursue more. Taking care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:04 PM
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Maybe most women can easily have casual sex whenever they want, but the fact of the matter is that most of them don't WANT that. Imagine that there is a whole bowl of blue candy but you don't really like blue candy--instead, you like red candy. But to get the red candy, you have to spend a lot of time searching and working. So yes, women can have casual sex, but it doesn't bring most women satisfaction/happiness in the way it does for men. You really shouldn't be resentful that women can get som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 05:59 PM
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You're right. I guess I don't want to believe that we live in a Hobbesian or Randian world in which everyone is purely selfish and self-serving. Humanity is at its most beautiful and powerful when we transcend selfishness and embrace selflessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:46 PM
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Is it so unreasonable to expect someone to respect me and care about me? If they disrespect me and disregard me for a long time, it'll break my heart, and I'll still love them a little bit but work on letting that go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:44 PM
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I love my best friends who I've been friends with since childhood/middle school. I only have a few of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:43 PM
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The love hinges on respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:39 PM
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She wants to hear about your interests/passions so she can GET TO KNOW YOU as a person. Is that so hard to comprehend? Geez. Meanwhile, you think that "women only offer their bodies in relationships." Why don't you get a sex doll then? I hear they're great at not using their mouths to talk, like feminazis. They know their mouths are only really there for one thing--sucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:37 PM
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This is so perfect. 5 stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:35 PM
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So just because I enjoy traveling means that I'm sleeping around with everyone? Traveling =/= sex trip. In fact, I've done a lot of studying and volunteering abroad. I speak more than one language. I enjoy meeting different people and learning about different cultures. TRP only promotes "traveling" in the context of sex tourism in places like Ukraine and Thailand. No wonder they think women only travel abroad for that reason. I can catch a dick anytime I step outside. I don't need to travel abro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:33 PM
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I would only consider dating a 35-year-old if I were 27 or 28 at the youngest. 35 is just old to me, regardless of the fact that someone is mature or whatever. There's something really great about growing up together with someone who is within a few years of your age. Just like men want to experience a woman's youth, I would love to have a man experience his youth with me, as long as he respects me. That's the real problem with a lot of younger men. They don't know what they want and they can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:29 PM
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All three of those men are hot, but they're too old for me and they look old to me. It's not like most attractive men turn into a misshapen potato when they hit a certain age--they retain some of their attractiveness, but I'm not attracted TO them because I'd rather date someone 19-26 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:26 PM
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Younger Brad is still hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:24 PM
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But I've seen plenty of women in their 30s who take care of themselves and they're absolutely stunning. I really don't think it's fair to paint with a broad brushstroke and say that every man in his 30s will be more valuable than a woman in her 30s. It's just not accurate. Also, I disagree with seeing people solely in terms of their sexual "value," but that's a debate for another day...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:23 PM
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This makes sense now. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:21 PM
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Being overly aggressive, obviously trying to display physical dominance over other males, trying to be the center of attention all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 08:27 AM
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James Bond is too old for me (in my opinion). However, he is really stylish and dapper, and the PLOT and artistry of the movies is what makes me like them. I don't see movies just because I want to fuck the male lead, although there are movies like that (Magic Mike, for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 08:26 AM
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25F with 30M is totally normal. Even 25F and 35M COULD be normal. But what's weird is all these guys in their late 30s/early 40s who are apparently under the delusion that women 18-25 want to get with them. Unless you're a celebrity or really powerful in comparison to her, it's unlikely. And even then, she probably doesn't really love you, putting you in a definite BB position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 08:23 AM
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But don't RP men salivate over women aged 18-25?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 08:20 AM
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Additionally, the idea that guys "peak" in their early 40s is soooooo bogus. A woman in her early 20s will almost always choose a guy in his 20s over a guy in his 30s and 40s (unless he's paying her). Call it schadenfreude, but I get a weird satisfaction from seeing people like Roosh reaching their mid-30s and realizing that most early-20s women no longer want to sleep with them. If he doesn't realize that women are people soon, he's going to end up old and alone. Either that, or he'll marry som…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 07:54 AM
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I've met guys who are TRP, and most of the "alpha" traits they have really just make them seem like try-hards with weird Napoleon complexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 07:50 AM
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Marries*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 04:56 AM
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God help the woman who somehow married this douchebag...after meeting his criteria, of course http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-i-require-in-the-future-mother-of-my-child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 04:55 AM
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If you're so worried about that, I have some easy solutions for you: Cuckolding: Break up with cheaters. This happens to women, too. Men aren't alone in being cheated on. No one likes a cheater. Paternity Fraud: DNA paternity testing. The 21st century is truly amazing. False Rape Accusations: Don't have sex with drunk girls. Just don't do it. Even if you're drunk. The law has gotten pretty strict in these cases. It's not worth it. Divorce-rape: Even women who are wealthier than their husbands ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:31 AM
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No. Sex should be about love. It's our screwed up hookup culture, in which people are treated as disposable, that has made us see sex as a power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:23 AM
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Alpha males get married all the time. At a certain age, it becomes beneficial for a man's career and social status to have a wife. Having children confers him even more social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:22 AM
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Feeling unsafe when I'm in a taxi Feeling unsafe when walking around alone at night Being catcalled/harassed when I'm just trying to mind my own business and get from point A to point B Not being taken seriously because I'm an attractive woman. Feeling that if I take a leadership role, there's a pretty big likelihood that people will think I'm a total bitch Having to balance the desire for a career with the knowledge that female fertility takes a nosedive after 35 The fear of being used by men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:19 AM
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"Dangerous" aspects of female sexual nature=sleeping around Dangerous aspects of male sexual nature=rape
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:10 AM
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Because despite what you might think, a lot more young women want commitment (an LTR) before they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 10:25 AM
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They're honest with me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:03 AM
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http://m.imgur.com/gallery/TEzwquj The "before" picture is "reasonably in shape"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:48 AM
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When you were talking about chasing, I assumed you meant approaching. It's a fine balance between maintaining interest and seeming totally uninterested. I get it--girls play that game too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:39 AM
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I think a lot of guys psyche themselves out by thinking women only want to date a Liam Hemsworth lookalike but that's not true. I think looks are actually more important for men (in the long term) than they are for women. I think of attractiveness like a shiny door--you might notice it more at first, but who's to say that what's behind it is better than the plain door next to it? To answer your question: #1 has dated women that are of normal/high attractiveness, #2 tends to only date dancers, cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:37 AM
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See the picture I posted below
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:30 AM
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And I'm not including height/face attractiveness in this, just body type
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:28 AM
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http://m.imgur.com/gallery/TEzwquj The "before" picture is what I would call average/in shape, the second is probably a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:26 AM
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Yes, I meant underestimate. Oops. I think that incels definitely exist, and it's sad... sad to think that there are men out there who think they're incapable of finding a woman. I think once a man is a virgin past a certain age, it can become like this huge weight or some kind of scarlet letter. Sex is a basic human urge. I understand that. But I have to say: most young guys would be dateable/fuckable if they just worked on their hobbies, worked out and weren't obese, or just straight up left th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:17 AM
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I know this because they tell me: "We went back to his place, but we just made out and then I left."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:11 AM
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But I also want to say that I tend to only be approached by "alpha fucks." I would LOVE to be approached by a guy who actually liked me, but most of those tend to be afraid of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:10 AM
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In shape: not too skinny, not obese, has muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:08 AM
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Women like being chased! Believe me, even a woman who really likes you will still probably do nothing about it unless you chase her, or at least end up at the same party as her and go talk to her. One time I asked out a guy I liked and it wasn't reciprocated. I just decided that it's better to wait and if a guy actually likes you enough, he will chase you. If he doesn't chase you, he is either uninterested or shy. And if he's shy, he's probably not even on my radar. There have been guys that I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:06 AM
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I wouldn't call the guy who raped me an "alpha fucks". Any man who has to take sex by force is inherently repulsive and pathetic. "Alpha" guys have women giving sex to them willingly. But to answer your question: yes, I do think it has had an impact on the way I approach dating. If a guy I talk to seems even remotely sociopathic/Machiavellian/dark triad, I am out. Before I went on the date with that monster, I thought he was a tortured soul and his aggressiveness was a sign of liking me (as a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:01 AM
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I'm not patting myself on the back. I'm going to toot my own horn here... but in the past, elite, professional athlete level men have been attracted to me... and a lot of the time, I haven't been interested. Why? Because our personalities were incompatible. It's not all about looks. If you're caring and considerate and funny, you're automatically 200% more attractive in my book. You don't need to have money. You don't even need to be totally confident around women--in fact, I find it really ende…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:51 AM
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I think it's a myth that all hot young women are either in an LTR or having sex with every Chad on the planet. From personal experience, it's simply not true. Sure, there are some girls who do that, but the majority of single young women I know are not sleeping around. Confirmation bias? Sure, but I go to a school where the "hookup culture" is the primary dating culture. The majority of these hookups that my friends have DO NOT involve sex. I think some men grossly overestimate the amount of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:45 AM
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LOL. Obviously you have never been to Scandinavia. Some of the countries with the most gender equality--Denmark, Sweden, Norway--also have the greatest sexual freedom. It is simply incorrect to say that the way a woman deals with sex is 100% biological. I have visited Scandinavia and I have friends from Denmark and Sweden. No doubt about it, women there are less inhibited about sex and even openly discuss seeking sex, around other males. There is no slut-shaming. Rather, women are free to sleep …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:21 AM
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