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I'm about 50 years old and my count is 2. Any guy with a count over about 8 is clearly not my sort of person. The aspect of me that keeps my count low is precisely why I'm not keen on guys with high counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:41 AM
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See a shrink. No shit there's reasons why we on the lefty/blue/feelings type side of things tell people that. You can get it all out there, put it all in words, work a few things out without having to clutch at the people round you like you are a drowning man and are going to take them to the bottom with you. You can also preserve that theraputic relationship no matter what happens with your other relationships... so you don't get completely flung back on your arse if the girlfriend decides to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:38 PM
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I spent five years working at a fast food place in my teens and into my early twenties. Trust me, your comment would not have been welcome. Oh she'd have smiled and laughed and made you feel welcome. But it would not have been even slightly authentic. You see you've just told her that her job is shit and she should get with the sexiness to do better than that. Oh, and also that all her other workmates who she works with every day as a team to make that whole fast food thing happen for you... wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:39 AM
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This, it is same old same old, just nowadays they spout a different set of rationalisations for what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:55 AM
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If I see a hot girl working the drive thru I have no problem with going for her number. You see that fucking headset she's wearing? A lotta places the burger room can hear everything both you say through their headsets. I've worked a McJob. Do not, I repeat, do not flirt with the female counter crew unless you enjoy your burgers with a big gob of spit in them. I am not kidding, this is how it works. You flirt with that girl and if it upsets the burger room there is a fair chance it upsets them w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 06:51 AM
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To me, a woman being petty about this shows entitlement and is not worth dating Well then be happy, the ones that you don't want to date aren't hitting on you, hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 06:44 AM
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People should marry when they've found someone they want to marry and who wishes to marry them. If that's not happening for you then don't marry. It is a personal choice. Anyone trying to make their personal choice and then sell it to others as the only reasonable choice is a tosser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:03 PM
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According to some news sites it was because the girl behind the counter smiled at him. So he was going off because he knew that as an employee she couldn't really do anything... I mean really what other explanation is there, if he's being smirked at all the time but this is the time he decides to go off about it? Then I think everyone else started smirking because he was making a spectacle of himself and at that point he probably felt committed to keep trying to make his point. I'm glad he got f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:19 AM
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I think your experience describes early stage relationships and does not reflect the reality of couples of all ages as averaged over long term relationships. Relationships have a tendency to slide quite quickly from being ones in which the man brings flowers and remembers his girlfriend's birthday, to being ones in which the woman is the one expected notice and take action if her man's clothing is wearing out and remember all the damn birthdays of everyone in his damn family who might get upset …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:29 AM
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Men take a lot of emotional labor to maintain. A woman who doesn't need a man's material input into her life is gonna ask herself... does doing all that work to please this particular man improve my life as much as if I did that amount of work to please myself?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:48 PM
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Romance novels and rom-coms are no more exact to precisely what women want and do in real life than war movies, super-hero movies and the like are exact to precisely what men want and do in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:48 AM
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Don't correct his father on matters of fact, no matter how insufferable and wrong his father is being. This comment brought to you by that one time my ex's father would not believe that the termites I had found in his back yard were not "just termites that live in the dirt those ones don't eat houses" and I got rather pointed about how the country he learned about termites in has no major termite problems but the country was in now does have termite problems and those termites will eat his fence…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:19 PM
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It's a form of power but there's a great number of ways of feeling powerful it has nothing to do with... and some of the most powerful women I've known have been chunky looking post menopausal women who dress in trouser suits and are well aware of how powerful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:42 PM
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Logan Paul still has about 20 million youtube subscribers. This is obviously some strange new definition of the word "shunned" that is beyond my understanding. The world is still feeding him $$$ hand over fist... but he's got haters too, and people who ignore him. That's public life for you. Belle Delphine likewise has those who praise her and those who pay her and those who pillory her and those who watch her and those who ignore her because she's simply not interesting enough. That's public li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:34 PM
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Crap. For seduction they'll advise you in ways that actively put you at risk. For relationships they'll advise you to make your man completely happy which is bullshit, a man ain't supposed to be completely happy, a man ain't made to be completely happy, a man is poorly served by being completely happy and making him so is both counterproductive and too much to carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:40 AM
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Money is a qualifying condition for sensible women who seek an eventual long term relationship. That doesn't mean they necessarily will be looking for the richest man, more that they've each got an idea of what sort of economic circumstances would be so bad as to constitute hell on earth, and if you offer only hell on earth they will be strongly inclined to turn aside from you no matter how good looking you are. There are some women who deliberately seek to marry very well when it comes to a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:39 AM
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Oh I get it. As someone better with words then me once wrote... I know how to cheat at Tattslotto. I got a great idea for a song. I know the truth about Marilyn Monroe. I can prove Einstein's theory wrong. I can predict mankind's fate. I know where there's oil in Bass Strait. All the deserts I could irrigate. All the poor I could emancipate. But that's not what motivates me; I'm interested in apathy. https://youtu.be/xK4-ma12vJ8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:28 PM
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I guess I'd rephrase that to say it may be a happy occasion, but it shouldn't be a joyous one. IDK. For some people it is kind of like https://artsandculture.google.com/asset/the-apotheosis-of-hercules/EgH96BPengfUIw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:57 PM
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Yes but it wouldn't stop me throwing one or attending one. You want to have a party. Nope. Sure. I wanna hear all the dirt on the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:15 PM
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Ah neckbeards. One minute "I hate unnatural hair colours on girls" next minute "Belle Delphine bathwater... take my money!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:05 AM
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That's the thing. Women are not admitting they're being unfair. They're just saying the price for the goods is what it is. It doesn't inspire confidence in a man when he's got to pay for her time so she can decide whether he's worth it or not. There's plenty of women who do plenty of talking and getting to know without even a meal being involved. And yes, every woman decides of her own accord whether there is a price to be paid for a particular man seeking her company. Women aren't some huge mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:55 AM
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Once again, I don't get why people who don't like dating and just want sex bother with dating. Guys are actually trying to use the food both as a lure and as a form of neurostransmitter alterer for women. Simple as that. Because it is probably the easiest legal way to alter someone's responses to favor you... make sure they are relaxed, well fed and have a couple of drinks in them. It is also why if we heard that a drug company exec was taking doctors out to $300 lunches we'd be a trifle annoyed…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:34 AM
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Well there's the legality. There's also the price. There's also the... how to put this... incompleteness of having sex with someone you care nothing for or cares nothing for you and the fact that all the various ways of dealing with the assorted forms of that incompleteness within a transaction have their own issues. One of the main ways it gets dealt with is the sex worker goes beyond just acting and goes into actual lying... she's not just groaning out pleasured noises they both really know ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:35 AM
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Why not.... I mean it seems a pretty interesting sort of way for a woman to to work out if her first impressions of men are correct? Also if a woman seems stuck in never choosing guys who end up being keepers, maybe loosening up her dating criteria and trying to get to know a wider range of guys is a good idea. So long as she's going to pay enough attention to him during the date that if he's capable of turning her lack of interest around he has a fair chance of doing so, she's held up her end o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:51 AM
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Why are you begging for our approval of you doing this stuff? Is it that you want to be able to act like an ass and then have no downside risk when it all blows up in your face? Dude, there's a downside risk. There will always be a downside risk. The "naturals" also face the downside risk. You wanna be like the naturals? You wanna be risky-hot like that guy who deals a bit of weed? You wanna be like that cool kid who drives the hotted up car that isn't fully street legal and always seems to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:25 PM
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https://youtu.be/l75a8CvIHBQ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:58 PM
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He had his demons and they caught up with him. Hitler finally killed him. Wasn't down to any of the women in his life or to their conduct in the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:33 AM
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Nah, just a guy my mother dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:49 AM
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The only one I've seen that came close to working, they were both in their 60s and the woman opened it up for the man while not intending to take advantage herself, because the man was a tortured soul (concentration camp survivor) and he had a wandering eye she'd had enough of being the only one dealing with his shit. He had a few affairs then killed himself because well tortured soul and all and turns out getting laid more doesn't fix everything. But there was none of the usual shit you get in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:42 AM
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Well... it won't just be the attractive kids in high school who are fucking so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 07:13 PM
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How is rape unique in this case? That's what I wanna know. False accusations happen for many categories of crime... from the loss prevention officer who claims they saw the person put an item in their bag because that's the only way to get a conviction when the person says "no that pack of ibuprofen was bought three weeks ago" to the girl who regrets the sex and says she was drunk and coerced so her friends will stop giving her shit about it. Innocent people being actually put away not just accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:59 AM
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No dude, we don't have that expectation of you, we are just fine if you don't. Left well enough alone we'd gradually amp up our indicators of interest until they were unmistakable and equivalent to direct approaches. You have that expectation of you, because you want more women, better women and you want them quicker than just leaving well enough alone will give you. Stop blaming that on women, that's all down to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:17 PM
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Oh of course you're not interested in the guys who neither help nor hurt, despite the fact they are the majority. Men are less likely to help me because in general I've got that shit covered and I'm not asking for help, not looking like I need help, I'm fine kthx. If I need to move something heavy I have a trolley with me or I've hired someone, etc. I put lots of effort into being just fine and self sufficient. Whereas the guys who will hurt me... I've been followed down the street, I've had my …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:50 AM
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It's a lot to summarize in one post but at it's core, TRP is just a system He ducks, he weaves, he avoids the question completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:45 AM
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No, but it is an age when parents might decide it is OK for a generally responsible sort of girl to walk alone to and from school in a nice neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:58 AM
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I'm 50ish and there's some guys I cock block. If I've ever seen a guy throw a tantrum and call a girl names when he gets rejected I'm going to make damn sure he doesn't get laid ever again if there's anything I can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:55 AM
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They keep saying they gonna go, but all they do is hang around and whine. If they were doing what they said they'd do they wouldn't even make it onto my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:22 AM
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Couple of nights back, someone came up onto a friend's porch and started rummaging through his things, friend went out to confront and I followed as backup as soon as I worked out what was happening. Some guy tried to lure me into his car when I was 8 years old. Never not known worrying about my safety. Good locks, resting bitchface and a willingness to think both strategically and tactically. I'd like to see police able to steroid test anyone they arrest for a violent crime or public order offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:59 AM
2

Not so much stacking backups by leading them on, that's the action of someone rather ruthless or who is in a dire situation that over-rides normal morality... but if you function well as a human being you do have some idea who is maybe emotionally accessible as a partner and who isn't. We're adapted as a species to much earlier mortality than we now experience, also to more mass kills of various sorts. It would not have been uncommon for someone who managed to live into their 70s to have four or…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:42 AM
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It doesn't matter to you if my taxes pay for men to be safer from other men... it matters to me. I'm more than pulling my weight on this front
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:07 AM
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This. The police are attack dogs, we pay them money to be our attack dogs and work under our rules, but they are still attack dogs 24/7 they don't stop being what they are when they clock out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:57 AM
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Even though she's Michelle Carter, that girl who encouraged her boyfriend back into the carbon-monoxide filled car?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:55 AM
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The police and fire brigade are paid by taxes.. that's why they are there as a well funded and well equipped public good not just wandering round the place doing only what they wish when they wish. Women pay taxes too. And the vast majority of the work the police do is in addressing the behavior of men... even more so the behavior of men towards other men than the behavior of men towards women. On a daily basis I am, as a woman, through payment of my taxes, saving men from other men more than I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:45 AM
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what do you think of this one? https://media.npr.org/assets/img/2019/02/12/ap_19037504404473-2a6cdf4becdd6cf0d1e4239f77cb0df2ddf5ae19-s800-c85.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:35 AM
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OP is coming at it from the perception that this was not truthful. Which could I guess be in part projection? I mean he does seem to have a particularly inauthentic viewpoint when it comes to approaching women, it would not be surprising at all if he credits women in general and individual women with having a similar degree of obfuscation to his level of obfuscation. I mean just look at some of the things he says in his post and his replies... "However I didn't want to approach her the moment I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:10 PM
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Some girl looked at you, you approached and she said no, why are you acting like this a big deal? It was like, literally twenty seconds out of your life and if you hadn't spent it approaching her you'd have spent it propping up the bar. You're never going to know exactly why everything that happens with other people happens. Maybe she was trying to work out whether you were that guy she used to work with at Starbucks... you walk up and she realizes no you aren't. Maybe she's autistic and doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:02 AM
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I'm generally helpful to significant others. But as a person who actually does have hopes, goals and motivations of her own, I'm not terribly impressed with the thought of diminishing any of those in order to motivate someone who is simply lacking in such internal dynamics. Can't help but feel I've got the better quality motivation dynamic happening there and my goals should be prioritised. Maybe he could get motivated to stay home and look after the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:48 PM
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if you keep saying something to other people and they keep responding in a way that is within the bounds of social propriety but you just don't like the response, then chances are you need to go away and think about what sort of response you actually seek from them and then re-examine how it is your manner, method and material are eliciting one form of response rather than another. I wish you would go do that. I really really wish you'd go do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:01 AM
2

Wish in one hand, shit in the other, see which one gets warm first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:17 PM
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Men aren't typically violent towards women unless they invite violence If your opinion is typical of men then I'm having to go with "men are typically violent" I mean really you can't go around setting the groundwork for justifying being a violent asshole in future just because some woman someday might say something that shakes your ego, and not have people decide you're a violent asshole at heart and that you know very well that you're a violent asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:11 AM
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They still aren't doing any worse than if they didn't play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:24 PM
1

Well yes, incompetence is low value too and if you weed out incompetent ethical dudes as part of the price of weeding out incompetent unethical dues that's not overly awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 12:44 AM
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Congratulations lad, you're getting filtered out by women's anti-predator filters. You see it turns out, the people who are most keen on getting all the answers immediately upfront AND being taken at face value upfront tend to be predators who want to know what lies to tell their prey and then have their lies quickly believed. Who'da thunk it, eh? Anyhow, a decent guy would understand that maybe a woman doesn't want her heart dragged through the mud by every guy who is capable of saying "Oh I so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 04:35 PM
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I'm old (around age 50) and I'm currently OK with them. When I was in my teens and twenties I thought they were repulsive and wrong. I went back and looked at a bunch of photos a friend had from the late 80s recently and the guys who I thought were unattractive old wrinkly perverts at the time (age 30ish when I was 18) now look like innocent babies to me. I can assure you, there are very few 20 year olds who want to see a wrinkly old ballsack unless, possibly for a very few of them, it is on a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:38 PM
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Only for shits and giggles browsing. There's lots to laugh at on those sites. People aren't from websites, people are from communities, families, countries, cultures and geographic localities. When I've offered myself for a LTR I've never been rejected. Huh? Not sure what you mean, I'm sure whatever it is doesn't matter though. If the relationship hits a rocky path then she will wonder if she chose the right guy. She's going to wonder that anyway. I mean seriously unless she's an actual moron an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:00 PM
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I think what fucks up with the ratings stuff is they are rating two separate things and trying to make one figure reflect it. They are rating how impressed other men will will be if they fuck her, and how much she's triggering the "put sperm in fertile woman to make baby" instinct in them. Complicating the matter, it isn't like getting a boner only reflects the second of those two things that are being rated, impressing people and attaining a victory and anticpation of such are things that actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:51 AM
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Anything that discourages a person from immediately taking self improvement seriously is harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:28 AM
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Sleeping with 500 people sounds like too much hard work for me. I mean even if there's a ready supply you're still looking at the fact that's 500 new people walking into and out of your personal life. I'm reluctant to even do things like sell a bunch of clutter on Gumtree because I don't want the work of dealing with a half tonne of randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:21 AM
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The vast majority of people (both male and female) who consume the true crime genre of various different sorts of media have no desire to have their lives impacted by the criminals who are being focused on. The attraction to that genre is all about placating the instinct that there is something out there, something threatening, and you'd better pay it some damn attention and know where it is and what it is about before it pays you attention or you're a goner. The overwhelming majority of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:02 AM
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Not flattered. It says more about them than about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:31 AM
1

The thing is Tinder is a not all of the market... people using tinder for more than shits and giggles, the occasional coffee shop meetup that goes nowhere and to see if any of their friends are on it is even more niche.... and the part of Tinder where people actually hookup quick for sex instead of just message for weeks before eventually meeting up is even more niche than that. You're going to find statistical outliers in terms of behavior in any such specialised niche. And it means jack shit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:25 AM
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A lot of so-called "RP concepts" seem, uh, kind of contingent on very working-class dynamics I think TRP cherry picks from each social class..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:29 PM
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The middle and upper classes have the resources to live as two people, the person they present to the world and the person they are... just try maintaining a secret affair in a household where they don't own enough phones and parents are regularly lending their phones to the kids. They also have more resources to change reality when reality doesn't agree with their ideas... unhappy in your job and relationship well spend more on holidays, husband is a boring piece of shit whose company you hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:07 PM
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How many cats is a firm "NO"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:25 AM
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Don't turn your darling into a drudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 11:38 PM
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The media frequently do not care what hurts or helps anyone and a journalist will happily sing one tune in the morning and another at night. And this is part of the price for a free press. Also, 20 years ain't that long. In life it can take 20 years just to work out what is/was happening sometimes. It can take twenty years for change to a part of the situation that is holding you back... for example the death of a father who would just about die of remorse over not having stopped a course of eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:18 PM
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I don't feel any particular need to hold the same opinion as other women just to make socially redtarded dudes more comfortable in their delusion that women should have only one brain and set of opinions between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:14 AM
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Dude, your dick is not going to drop off if you buy a stick of concealer suited to your skin tone and cover up the occasional zit. You have the same access to makeup that woman do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:44 AM
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I think he's used to seeing perfectly de-haired porn stars and has no freaking idea how much hair there can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:29 AM
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If you just want a hole without the person around it making any effort to be womanly, may I suggest you take yourself to the local gay beat and in the cubicle of a public toilet fuck some sweaty hairy guy with a beer gut?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:26 AM
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Results depend heavily diet and genetics, Another factor they are leaving out is consistency of effort. If you are consistent in making a bit of effort over the years, you will be in a much better situation than some schlubb who leaves it all until he's a 24 year old virgin who has spent the last 10 years doing zero exercise, filling his days with sedentary pursuits and eating junk food. Fact is a lot of the guys whining about how hard it all is are in a hole it took them a decade to dig themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:10 AM
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Also worth noting... happiness isn't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 12:56 AM
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Is this older idea of what American woman was in 1800s now thoroughly dead? Buried in the same grave is the hard working self reliant 1800's man, and owing your soul to the company store. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 12:35 AM
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The manner of thinking that best describes the average woman is she's sick of this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:56 PM
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And you don't really want to witness the regular hair removal routines that men demand from women, you don't want to show up and find your girl wearing a face mask and telling you to leave her hair alone she's got it up in curlers, and you don't want to be dragged to the shops for two hour long shopping sessions to find that perfect friday night date dress that will make your jaw drop. So y'know, fuck off and do what you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:53 PM
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On a one to one level... like why don't we just say "Oh hey I really want a guy who is (list of things)" right there on the first date? That would be because men lie and the last thing a woman should do is just hand over her personal cheat codes to a stranger. If what you want is a guy looking to start a family in the next two years or guy with a job who is willing to move in and live with you while you do college or a guy who is ambitious about making money or is a bit dangerous and edgy or a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:48 PM
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What harm could there be in inconveniencing the waitress as much as you darn well want and putting her through unwanted life experiences? I mean shes there to do what you tell her to and be inconvenienced. Now take that salad back and bring me one with round mini tomatoes in it not oval ones, dammit. And dammit, squirt that mayo on in a spiral not a squiggle. Obviously the waitress is a different situation to when your partner or parent brings you a meal at home. And the therapist is a different…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 12:21 AM
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There is no time when an adult human being is well advised to be automatically open and vulnerable without thinking through the consequences of that and if men think this is only a male thing and women are not interacting with this dynamic too, men are coo coo bananas crazy. And you know what? It wasn't "safe" to be vulnerable when you were a child either, you just had biological factors in play to make you not see the truth of it because you were so underpowered at that age that the truth of ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 11:40 PM
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I'm nearly 50. If I was on the market again? Sure. I've had my kids so there's no hurry for that, and I'm OK financially so there's no need to find someone to share household expenses with, and I'm not overly thirsty for sex or friendship. Could happily wait forever if I wasn't finding guys who seemed worth the risk. No problem. At this age I have no particular need of a man. Can't say I'd feel much different if I hadn't had kids too. Regrets over not having had kids don't actually make a low qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:14 PM
1

Cities have a better range of choice of mediocre dudes with jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 12:28 PM
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If you live in an economically depressed town If this is somewhere decent like America/Australia/Canada you save up a few dollars, you get on a coach, you go to the big city, you sleep in a backpacker hostel, you get a McJob, and you claw your way up. Marrying a home town dude with a shitty job is totally optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:36 AM
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There's probably a whole bunch of guys replying to her that have actual wives they also fuck, and not all those wives would be fatties. The nature of male sexuality is expansive and inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:23 PM
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but Americans aren't monstrous Americans are as monstrous as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:24 PM
2

Not really, if we are talking about genuine niceness, the real deal. Not just doing a few things that look nice in order to cultivate a facade, but actual real niceness. People fake niceness because it is easier to attempt a fakery of than say handsomeness or wealth. And it is easier to make excuses when one gets caught out not being nice after having pretended to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:23 PM
1

I have no idea what you are asking. Be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:14 PM
1

Yes but what is her BMI? I want some idea of how fat you think she is put in slightly more objective terms than just "she fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:13 PM
2

I made him cry BECAUSE I had lost respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 10:18 AM
1

What would you say her BMI was?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 10:06 AM
0

It happens because we simply have not yet denied enough of their type the ability to reproduce. What can I say... stupid legal system not letting the girl's parents beat him to death as is right and proper. However, not making more of them became easier once safe legal abortion became available. I have every hope this behavior will reduce in the next few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 09:22 AM
2

For this to happen to a man and continue to happen to him either for a long time or more than once, he needs to be low value, thirsty, stupid, unable to learn from experience and given to value a woman's looks so much he simply does not see other aspects of her until he has started to take her looks for granted. Stupidity can be painful, playing stupid games wins you stupid prizes. There's guys who aren't stupid doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 09:15 AM
3

This. She's not a land whale, you need to be more than just fat and flabby to be a land whale... you need to be no longer quite human shaped. She's still got a waist ffs and her ribcage area is still quite compact. Sure she's way out of shape and no status enhancing prize for a guy unless he and his friends are low value, but well whatever, she's DTF and having sex isn't only about proving to your friends that you're capable of pulling hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 08:06 AM
10

I'd been raised on fairy tales, mythology, science fiction and politics. What about that says to you "innocent thoughts"? With a side serve of card games and chess to teach me about strategy, threat, sacrifice, keeping my cards close to my chest and the will to prevail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:51 PM
16

I was ten. My job was to survive, not to make random pricks halfway across the world feel safe being men. I'm OK with what I did and what I was willing to do. Guys who fear that a ten year old might deal with that situation that way and then feel no shred of guilt or shame deserve to run scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:34 PM
8

No. I'd been raised on fairy tales, mythology, science fiction and politics. Also whist, we played a lot of whist. And chess. Very little TV until my teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:27 PM
10

Because I meant it. And because by confronting him like that, alone in the house, a 10 year old threatening a 55 year old, I was raising the stakes. He could, of course, rape and kill me right then... then go to prison. I was demonstrating that I was willing to risk quite a lot not to live like that day to day, that an end to it was worth a lot to me. If I'm willing to put my life on the line comforted only the the thought he loses too if he goes down that path then maybe I am indeed the sort of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:24 PM
2

Could very well be. I mean obviously if you're talking just one case then individual factors matter a lot, but my guess is if you could look at 100 such marriages there would be a lot more times the puny guys got hit and hit hard than times the strong women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:46 PM
1

The woman the average guy imagines when looking at that photo... what BMI would that woman have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:19 PM
0

Generally it is easier to disengage from someone if you don't have to drag them through court.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:17 PM
9

This. If they won't respect... let them fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:03 PM
6

You're scared. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:02 PM
14

Good thing you didn't go through with it because you'd be in prison right now for murder. No I wouldn't. I was 10. That was right at the lower end of the age range where they could criminally try you but they'd have to prove that you're formed a criminal intent... if I'd been 9 they couldn't have tried me as a child or as an adult even if they felt they could prove intent. And even if they did that, I still would have been tried in the youth courts unles they could prove I should not only be tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:59 PM
7

No. I was a teen in the 80s and I got very into the whole career dressing thing. I bought a secondhand copy of https://jezebel.com/what-youll-learn-from-a-womans-dress-for-success-book-f-756576103 and I got into https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/171111.Color_Me_Beautiful and pretty much if it was a systemised method for dressing yourself beyond reproach I was into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:36 PM
-2

Marriage is definitely risker for women, you're entering a situation that has power dynamics and often what is desired by one person is not desired by the other, 80% or more of the situation happens in private without witnesses, and the other person is physically stronger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:12 PM
49

My mother's boyfriend once, after a series of other unwelcome awkwardnesses on his part that I now recognise as attempts to groom me, groped my ass as I walked past him, I was ten years old. I went to my room, wedged a chair under the door, settled down and thought for ten minutes. Then I returned to the living room and told him if he ever did anything like that again he would never be able to get drunk, relax, turn his back or fall asleep in the house safely again, I would kill him, I would kni…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:35 PM
1

Really bad when the younger party is still anywhere near their adolescent years and the older party is looking for something settled and permanent and reliable. That combo tends to generate relationships doomed to failure at a high rate. The older party is usually fond of the youthful perspective of the younger one because they themselves are refusing to grow up, and the younger party is usually reaching out to the older one as part of a desperate urge to attempt to grow up as quick as possible.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:19 PM
22

Sigh. The "cock carousel" is men (mostly men with poor understanding of human beings in general) taking a few details they know about a few women's lives (and let's be real... we're talking about the women they pay most attention to... women who are more easily sexually available) while those women are being explorative, and then filling in the blanks with conclusions that assume the woman is behaving like a man, with possibly male priorities, and that her behavior extends over a longer period o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:01 PM
2

Well they are also angry at those women too every time those women say no... but they aren't so safe to express that anger and of course expressing anger and having other people agree is one of the things that helps anger grow. According anger the label of "righteous" makes it so much safer and easier to indulge in. Those slim (or if you're in the neolithic... fat) high value women have men standing close by ready to defend them because they are high value, you can't just dump shit on them safel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:39 AM
2

We realized that "pick me" people (yes men can be "pick me" too...) were being inauthentic or speaking from ignorance that they should know is ignorance, in a way that helps no-one, not even themselves. The problem is that usually once the pick me gets in a situation of having been picked, once that new situation and the reality of the downsides of the situation bite them on the butt, they will end up changing their mind a whole lot. Which y'know... nobody wins. They and they person who picked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:18 AM
3

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_figurines There's a bit of evidence that the fashionable figure, the one that is regarded as the most desirable and most to be dwelled upon, thought about and happily looked at has at least at one era in the past been the opposite of the most easily attained and common figure of the era. I think it is worth mulling over, that the thing that is hard to achieve and healthiest under the circumstances (in the early neolithic and earlier being fat was obviously har…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:53 AM
1

It is indicative of idiots' desire to live vicariously through royals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:16 AM
1

Well enjoy your lifetime of just as miserable as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:24 AM
1

See a professional, you've got a complex disability and you need a consistent and ongoing therapy relationship with one professional person who can become someone to you who you do not glibly dismiss when they tell you things you don't want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:14 AM
21

Can some of you autists maybe find professionals to direct these questions to? You seem to have pervasive problems understanding normal human behavior. Also your post skirts the boundaries of being a "woe is me" post. It can be fun for two humans to say nice things about each other. And those nice things don't need to be lies. And someone can be into you and you into them but you both have have no intent of ever fucking. And that's OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:01 AM
1

For a while. But the longer it went on the more percentage there would be in trafficking you. And some men are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:02 AM
1

Defining things as crimes is about more than just right and wrong, it is about using power to get desired outcomes too. Generally police have a lot to gain for the rest of us by having prostitutes willing to talk to them. Often sex offenders are easiest to catch when the local prostitutes are willing to talk. If the prostitution is legal and prostitutes are willing to talk, less of the money goes into the hands of organised crime, And... quite bluntly... one of the most common models for running…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 11:49 PM
3

Women don't choose. They get chosen. It was the title of your post? If women seriously do not choose, then any gripe you have to do with bad partner choices you gotta lay right at the feet of guys. Not a girl issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 10:15 PM
1

Because at fifty you ain't ever going to go from average to hot tottie based mainly upon muscle gain. There's a wall out there for men, this is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:32 PM
5

Well obviously they didn't choose 100 guys to fuck for varying short amounts of time who then weren't going to stick around and be LTRs... those guys picked them. Since women don't choose under your model of how this all works, right? They just get chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:28 PM
3

If all the choice belongs with guys then surely all the responsibility for the way the choice contributed to outcomes belongs with them too. hey that's great... millions of divorced women can stop beating themselves up over what a bad choice their ex was and blame him for it. Oh and all those women with high N counts... totes a male problem, men have to sort out between themselves to beat down on the guys who choose too many too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:16 PM
12

So why didn't all those divorced guys make better choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:59 PM
1

For finding a partner? Well we'll have to disagree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:47 PM
1

Cos at age 50 that's not a useful strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:32 PM
3

Oh look, she's using the "pick me" sign. Don't take a girl who says this seriously unless she is still saying it after two years of picking up after your slobby self. I mean it is very similar to how all those incel guys say they'd treat a girl right and not have all the relationship problems with her that her boyfriend has they'd just value her so dang much that she'd be happy. Bzzzt, wrong, that's the "pick me" sign and it isn't reality, chances are when someone using the "pick me" sign has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:31 PM
1

Don't turn becoming ripped into the cornerstone of your mate-seeking efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:19 PM
3

Don't leverage the marginal cost of getting rid of you, it rarely leads anywhere good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:56 PM
3

And she's even better off if she then shortchanges him on every aspect of the relationship she can get away with shortchanging him on. And she's got no real moral reason not to because hey, he's leveraging the marginal cost of getting rid of him and what is good for one is good for the other. Yay it is a race to the bottom! Enjoy your life such as it will be... I can assure you it would have been better if you'd bothered to put your own dirty socks in the hamper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:49 PM
2

I found out from my friend she got a car she'd been driving and the small row house they had bought together before the big house so she came out of it with a house clean and clear... which she'd worked like hell for and contributed a lot to of course, between the work she physically did on renovating , the wages she put into it, the fact they never could have got loans but for the fact she had good stable income and the fact she'd been acting as his professional agent and during the time she di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:28 PM
5

Someone I know got a woman ten years younger than him pregnant while "on a break" from his live-in... who was his age and well I didn't like her much (seemed a bit snooty) but there is no doubt she was fair and honest and supported his career and had his back in life. And largely they got on well, they had normal amounts of conflict and having to contend with each other. He literally took this student chick home from a New Years party just after he and his ex decided they needed two weeks apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:30 PM
2

This isn't a womans chat club. Actually it kinda sorta functionally is that (amongst of course, other things) for a lot of the men here... a place to go to talk to women who feel free to say things in this context (online and anon) that they would normally say to other women only about gender, dating, power, love, attraction etc. And there's a fairly high demand for that on reddit, places like r/askwomen are so over-run with guys asking stuff that they've had to create spinoff groups to deal wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:56 PM
1

You've been working age for your chosen career field for approximately two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:50 PM
2

Well at age 50 (which is what I'm referring to because hey I'm about that age and it is the cohort I know best... the one I know next best is my kids' cohort) if you've still got huge law school debt you're definitely sub par.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:17 PM
3

Given how much complaint there is from men about the lack of availability of women, I would prefer that low value women who hold high standards they find themselves unwilling to drop stay in the market rather than remove themselves from the market. The bottom end of the market is a sad sad place, but the situation is not going to be improved even a little bit if a fat single mother with a part time job in aged care and two kids decides not to have a dating profile because some guy with a bug up …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:04 PM
3

Yeah most of it is "meet generally accepted average standards of success and self care for a person your age and class" Really the only exceptional thing I'd do is throw a few singles parties, try to put myself at the centre of a whole heap of people pairing up to force me somewhat to an abundance mentality, and to allow me to learn by observation the details about how it call can work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:58 AM
26

If I were a straight average single male around age 50, I'd sort out my finances and living situation to be under control and acceptable to most women's standards (no huge debt, retirment planning in place as best as possible for my income level, house or apartment with at least 2 bedrooms and appropriate furnishings, dishes done and toilet clean, etc) get serious about skin care and clothes, exercise enough to have a bit of muscle but not go overboard, get a bit of social status even if it mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:43 AM
6

Well you are putting on a performance. What can I say? If you want to get sex while being authentically yourself, talking to randoms at bus stops when you're not interested in talking to randoms at bus stops is probably not the way to do it. You're just not suited to getting sex that way. You're probably going to need to enlarge your social circle to include more women, gradually learn to take pleasure in the platonic company of women, have a few female friends and eventually pair up with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:29 AM
3

Probably just waiting for the guys they already fancy to show up there. Sort of like hanging out a sign... "I might be open to an advance..."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:19 AM
0

Be attractive enough to ask out on a first date, and a woman like me might pay for that first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:14 AM
1

Disgust is normal. Even feeling disgust for a few things that aren't objectively disgusting or aren't commonly regarded as disgusting is normal... I seriously have a problem with bushy blond or ginger eyebrows, those things look like weird caterpillers errrr yack. Kevin Feige has a lot to be sorry for in my opinion. https://www.slashfilm.com/thors-dyed-eyebrows/ It is however wrong to go trying to actively punish people for the disgust you feel about something that isn't really any of your busin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:30 PM
1

Also worth noting... and as pointed out by several people replying to the linked post... the majority of the requests for sympathy/empathy/etc seem to be functionally indistinguishable from requests for women to stick around a bit longer so they can be talked into pity sex. And it rarely ends pleasantly for the woman when she eventually has to say "enough of this shite, now there will be no sympathy". No-one is owed the right to waste other's time with covert tactics then blow up at them when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:11 PM
2

Not my scene but I can understand why. I don't think they set women back. They set themselves forward to the tune of however many hundred dollars a week. Do they embarrass me? Not if they aren't related to me but I guess if any of my daughters was talking to me about doing it I'd suggest other options and part of the motivation would be it is a bit embarrassing to be related to anyone who does that sort of stuff. Do they devalue relationships? Lol. Those aren't relationships. Money buys smiles a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:00 PM
4

Well... fake story but not an impossible situation. Women are told over and over not to walk alone at night, and it is very common for your husband or boyfriend to repeat this concern to you and effectively control where and when you go by using that argument. And it is very common to give into this because well he wants to be there to protect you and he seems to feel hurt at the thought he may not be there to protect you. Also the rest of society seems to be on his side. Don't walk alone. If th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:33 PM
1

Has the alpha dude she won't shut up about (which is one of the reasons I've got no guilt talking about her personal life... her mouth apparently is either round his cock or talking about him 24/7) got by-blows he has to pay for? Does he tell her he can't bring her flowers because Johnny needs a new pair of shoes? If you know anything spill the tea!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:37 AM
1

Also common, the courts issuing an order and making the police station be the handover point. Other parent not there with the kids on time? Remind the police about the order and they start enforcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:18 PM
1

Those two descriptors are both just facts. She is too old to have kids and did not have kids before becoming too old to have kids. I very much believe that if she had produced kids herself she would have focused on parts of the situation she currently dismisses and would hold different views on how the welfare of children is to be protected. She's pretty fucking blunt herself and does not always confine her bluntness to blunt truths, she should be able to take a bit of truthful bluntness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:19 AM
1

Did I hit a sore spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:07 AM
2

Ultimately there's a risk that if you neglect the needs of the poor you end up with the problems that prompted the commissioning of the Beveridge Report in WW2 Britain. They were calling up men for the armed forces and a ridiculous number of them were totally unfit to soldier and at best fit for light factory work for the war effort... chronic health conditions, showing the signs of malnutrition as kids, barely literate, all sorts of issues due to deprivation of various sorts. And at that point …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:05 AM
1

I think you'd have different views if you weren't barren and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:54 AM
2

Acting? Like to a camera with no-one else around? Stop that. Join an local theatre company and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:26 AM
2

Sometimes we have to do a little bit of the things we hate for our own sake. If you're at the point where you have not enough social circle to ever meet girls through your social circle then you're at the point where you need to find ways to socialise more... and not just so you can meet girls, so you can meet people and make contacts too. Oh and stop gaming so much. You're just punching that dopamine button over and over it is destroying your ability to enjoy people properly. Maybe do a dopamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:23 AM
1

OK so she finds a new high value guy every three months to take her out a few times to fancy expensive events and buy her some lovely meals and fill her with sperm that is better than yours, but it isn't an ongoing thing. Not too difficult if she works on her looks. This just isn't a game you win. Because looking for strange is a game that a man has to work and pay out for, but a woman gets paid for and can just hang out a shingle and wait for responses to. She's going to be walking round full o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:17 AM
1

In every city there's maybe a dozen people who aren't mediocre and you aren't one of them. I can just tell you aren't one of them by reading what you write and I can also tell it is highly unlikely you will ever be one of them. Telling your friend it's amazing he makes 5 figures a year or that he gets an average gf is like saying he's better than you and you can't make it. No, no it isn't. For a lot of people making a modest livable income or having an average gf is amazing and you recognising i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:31 AM
1

Do you think it is more realistic that you get sex 4 times a year with a bit o' strange while in a marriage than that she persuade some all round better guy than you to top her vagina up with sperm and her purse up with a bit of money four times a year while in a marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:22 AM
1

So I was thinking, if I get married and have 2.5 kids (the societal "standard" ), my wife gets to satisfy her biological imperative, meanwhile I don't. No. You're not the best guy in the country and you don't have all the resources there could possibly be. Biological imperative still only partially satisfied... just like yours is only partially satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:42 PM
-1

Never celebrated? Every time a man gets given a blowjob his sexuality is being celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:36 PM
1

You're right I see people only for their objective value and the interest they can provide me with. Even though, I have quite a hard time to believe that what you describe is the way every normal person apart from me think. You're not normal. You're way way WAY down one end of the range on at least one and possible more of the big 5 personality traits for sure. You are however, not "special" either, in part because you appear to be coping very badly with not being normal. You're just weird. I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 07:41 PM
0

Well for starters, it is probably more of an effort for you than for the average man because you probably have strong introverted tendencies. Most human beings don't see it as a total loss having just talked in a relaxed and casual way to another human being for a short time at a time and place set aside for socializing. I mean maybe she's kind of an average girl but you find out she works at the local garden centre and you get a bit of advice on why your peace lily is looking peaky and she find…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:51 PM
1

Sure it is OK as in not a moral infringement of some sort to masturbate to nudes online so long as you've every reason to believe the nudes have been consensualy shared. It is, however, massively unwise to make a habit of masturbating to the online nudes of someone you interact with offline rather a lot and in only a nonsexual way. You're sort of turning them into idk... a wank wife/husband? Not a great idea. The whole "beta orbiter" stuff as being some sort of identity in itself rather than jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:53 PM
4

men seem less eager to judge the feminimity of their partners. You're not there in the private moments. So ladies, what is masculinity? Strength in all its incarnations, and the ability to beat another man down. How does your definition compare to men's? I don't give half a shit, men's definition of masculinity has no use to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:31 AM
1

Everywhere in Australia for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 09:35 PM
1

That's the way it is in a lot of places.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 07:08 AM
1

Maury is going to get awful boring if they all have to be broadcast in the same detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 07:06 AM
1

Rub and tug service, is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 07:01 AM
1

There's a lot of gay for pay... the market is just different to how it is with women. I mean for starters there's more competition from men who will have sex with strangers for free. And there's also a bit of a premium put upon actually getting the gay for pay guy to nut which can't exactly be faked as easily as a female orgasm and is definitely something that limits the number of times a day that a guy can provide that service. And even so there's a lot of gay for pay, mostly "looking for strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 06:58 AM
9

Being born into the UC is largely a matter of historical accident, the UC has its fair share of losers and retards, they just hide them in various ways... the men tend to have their families give them jobs at medium sized businesses which they can then ostensibly "run" when really it is the carefully recruited management team who do all the work... and the women tend to be sent to places like private fine arts schools until they can find a husband. Marry one of those guys, you'll be in that soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:53 PM
9

Being UC herself or a damn good duplicate there-of. Being willing to take seriously a man who is a bit of a laughingstock among his UC peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:03 PM
2

Pretty much. My policy now is if someone asks me for advice and there's a whole lot of common sense stuff they should be doing, I pick one thing that should be ABUNDANTLY clear already, that they clearly are not doing, and that they are obviously making efforts to ignore as an option. If I raise that thing as an issue, explain clearly why it needs to be addressed and I get excuses about why it is impossible to make any progress at all on it, then fuggedaboutit this is a person who just wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:06 PM
3

https://newsthump.com/2016/02/19/right-said-fred-singer-finally-able-to-wear-his-shirt-after-sexiness-reduction-procedure/?fbclid=IwAR0-NfhsMy60v7LG92UW3K2CvbvK9X7wlhU4PfWhS6G5_9nm3GuG55p2wKA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:25 AM
8

I want more? I work for it. I'm down with that. My husband wants more and then suddenly I'm expected to give up the more I wanted and work for the more he wanted without any sort of discussion or negotiation just because some guys who lived thousands of years ago liked it that way and wrote a little story to try to prove that's the way it should be? No. Not down with that. And stop cutting the skin off baby boys' dicks too, that's awful and fucking barbaric as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:22 PM
1

https://youtu.be/nD7ig64I4iw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:34 PM
4

Guys with big dicks tend to be cheerful and quietly pleased with themselves. Being cheerful and quietly pleased with yourself sure beats being a sourfaced guy who hates himself. But no, unless he's a shower not a grower and wearing clothes that deliberately show it off (cough-John Hamm-cough) women can't tell that ownership of a big dick is why the guy is cheerful and quietly pleased with himself, not until they see the cock or someone tells them about it. Lots of different things can make a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:29 AM
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I prefer guys who are taller then me. five ten to six foot is the sweet spot. But when I find a guy who is shorter who attracts me it is about personality not about money. Money for me is a separate hurdle that a potential relationship can falter at, it isn't part of attraction it is about the question "well is this even a good idea? I mean does this at its best, if we get along wonderfully, lead to an acceptable life or does it lead to utter hell?" I don't speak for other women though, everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:18 AM
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My biggest fear is that I end up with a woman who is emotionally attracted to me but not physically attracted to me. You're going to grow old no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:03 PM
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Better than facing a life of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:14 PM
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One person's hangup is another person's idea of salvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:54 PM
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Now he's found god has he stopped resenting the way women prefer to have sex with men who wipe their own asses?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:53 PM
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I'm old and I've seen a whole bunch of relationships end among my friends. Certain themes emerge. Young men want women who actually are authentically attracted. When men get older, what they really want is transactional sex plus the woman convincingly faking to everyone that it isn't transactional. Because y'know... the money in your wallet is a simple reliable thing and it can be stockpiled, but actually treating people well is complicated and requires you to be on the ball all the time, you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:46 PM
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Dude, people are increasingly not marrying and the same dynamics still happen upon cohabitation. A guy wants a woman who is not into transactional sex before they cohabit because he wants the validation of being fucked because he's great... he wants her to fuck him even if his car is shit, fuck him even if he can't pay for dinner. After they cohabit, a few years pass, his pay goes up he wants his material contribution to the relationship to get him sex that still pretends to be all about attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:29 PM
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Guys are fucked up. Step 1 "I want a woman who will truly desire me for me." Step 2 Gets such a woman. They fuck all the time and much fun is had. Wants her to live with him so he can fuck her all the time and keep a better eye on whether she is fucking anyone else. Step 3 Gets upset that the woman, having given up her single lifestyle actually wants some sort of lifestyle with him and she thinks she should have some negotiating power in terms of things like equal housework efforts, setting life…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:03 PM
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In a society in which there was no divorce, I would kill a husband who was making me unhappy enough and had been making me that unhappy for several years until I felt like a caged rat. He would get a hatchet through his skull while he slept. I would keep hitting him with the hatchet until my arm tired or someone stopped me. I would laugh at his father in court and tell him that his son is dead because he raised him wrong. I'd go to my punishment smiling. So I guess celibacy for me. Dying alone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:45 PM
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Or will they go with “I did everything right and the world/men screwed me?” Well that is kind of the nature of the world, success is temporary and the satisfaction of success is fleeting. And it all ends in death anyway. My personal advice for young women including my daughters is to focus on being the best you that you can and putting a lot of effort towards goals consistent with who you are and should be, and be aware that there will always be people, most often men, who attempt to selfishly h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:02 PM
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Pretending to like people you hate and will hurt if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:40 AM
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"starting to become insecure"? Ha. That's like saying "I'm not an anxious type but when I leave the house I get so fearful. I've been not leaving the house for thre years now and I''ve been fine but today I decided to go get the mail from the mailbox..." You were always insecure. You just learned to only grow in directions that did not make you aware how insecure you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:32 AM
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Keep doing it then see how it works out for you. I've done my best to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 04:27 PM
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This is a debate subreddit. It maybe isn't the best place to spill your guts to total strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:59 PM
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Get real good about telling the difference between your needs and wants, and telling when you're imposing upon someone too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:52 PM
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Dude, this is not your personal journal and most of find zero points of sympathy with what you just wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:31 PM
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I don't think it is just the women they want to mess things up for. I think they also want to mess things up for those men who currently get to have a lot of sex. Let's be realistic here... the current situation is that the majority of abortions are also heartily welcomed by the guy involved who would probably man up if there was no legal abortion, but thinks he is far too young and free to have to be a father yet. 'cels get off on the thought of those guys having to settle and no longer play th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:03 PM
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Another good way to live is don't feel you have to answer any personal questions you feel uncomfortable answering because you don't know the asker well enough yet. It is sensible to enforce upon people you date the same criteria for sharing details of your personal past that you enforce upon people you have friendships with. It is OK to tell a guy who tries to grill you about your sexual past on the second date that you don't know him well enough for those sorts of conversations in the level of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 02:17 AM
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Oh here we go again... look dude you've got a platform for this, here at PPD you've got a platform, stop squeaking at me in private messages complaining you don't have a platform while deliberately avoiding the appropriate platform. an you even copy and paste bro? from ihatecunts1 sent just now Post it on r/inceltears dummy and try not to include lol from ihatecunts1 sent 16 minutes ago permalinkdeletereportblock usermark unreadreply permalinkdeletereportblock usermark unreadreply
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:45 AM
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the private message you sent me is too much fun not to share. manlet asks for platform to speak from hahahahahahahaha oh my sides ache. lol from ihatecunts1 sent 16 minutes ago Whenever short men complain about anything in regards to height, we're accused of having a napoleon complex and people don't taken seriously. Yet when women complain about anything in regards to being a woman, it becomes a national issue with the backing of mainstream media. It's not that we don't have the balls to demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:35 AM
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Seems like a culture warrior would be someone that has a core identity enveloped by ideological tribalism which can be accompanied by them being unstable. No I won't be dating Jordan Peterson or any of his lobster boys anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:58 AM
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Take it up with other men if you've got the balls to, they've still got the majority of the management positions and the majority of the say in those decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:45 AM
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It isn't the surplus of validation from men. It is that singles now have a larger number of ways to avoid the harmful effects of almost all their friends pairing up. So much easier to maintain a solid social life as a single now into your twenties and beyond. You can keep track of what your friends are doing easier without day to day contact and put it all together with a whole lot less being a third wheel just to maintain contact. Back in the 80s it was really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:07 PM
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Also says he can't afford money to go on dates because he's saving for his own place He lives with his parents but can't even afford to raid their kitchen for the makings of a basic picnic and take you out to something cheap or free... like a community fireworks display or for a walk on the beach? He can't invite you out to an activity he takes part in with friends such as tabletop roleplaying or a movie night a friend does in their lounge room? Most of the dates I had with the father of my chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:52 PM
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Because more men are socially dysfunctional autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:16 PM
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If it becomes a big deal you'll just find the nonprofessionals and semiprofessionals will start wearing masks. And then it will be even harder to detect and out them than it already is. I'm pretty sure that professionals already end up outed regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:12 PM
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And let's face it Captain Marvels are almost always alien DNA melds too. So ummm, maybe feeling entitled to normality from them in terms of anything is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:55 PM
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I don't define gender equality as something that extends to the details of partner choice. I don't ask men to like my flat arse better than a full round bouncy one and I don't give a damn about the gripes of men who might complain I sideline them for being too short. Gender equality is about a society that allows more equal ability to access the more public forms of intellectual, political and economic activity (access to work, education, voting and standing for election, ability to obtain credi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:42 AM
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I suppose it beats unintentionally having them out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:53 AM
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No. Too many of them are the sort of people who I run out of tolerance for well before they run out of desire to be in my company, it would end in tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 03:47 AM
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Any family where the girls were inheriting crowns was likely a family down to its last heir or two in the immediate line and there would be a greater likelihood that death of the sovereign would result in a small child, a distant relative or someone who may have married outside the kingdom being the next in line. I mean just saying. It isn't like the dynamics the queens were facing were going to average out exactly the same as the ones the kings were facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:38 PM
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I swear, some of those fuckers would ask you to buy your own rohypnol they are just that lacking in self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:05 PM
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I think that where the absolute outrage of some guys and refusal to just ask women out on cheaper dates comes from is they don't want to be seen as BB.... but they do want her to be all full of good food and wine consumed in a nice atmosphere and be set up by all the resulting neurotransmitter releases to be looking favorably upon all she sees including them. So they want her to reach into her pocket and pay to eat at the place they decide she should eat at. However from the woman's point of vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:49 AM
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This. I get an orgasm 90% of the time when I masturbate... the other 10% of the time I get distracted with other thoughts and lay there thinking about books or handicrafts or something and that is OK too and nobody is there to nag me about it or treat me like I did something wrong. There's really no point fucking randoms to get orgasms, as far as i can tell that's a step back unless you're looking to rack up some sexual experience and gain a few sexual skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 09:39 PM
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IDK though... I mean maybe you see those two otherwise similar guys as otherwise similar because they are both in the same relationship to you... friend or possible friend... but if you were seeing them through a different filter (employee or possible employee? sports teammate or possible sports teammate? business partner or prospective business partner?) maybe you'd start making other distinctions because you're having to contemplate a future in which you might have to rely upon that person. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 09:28 PM
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One-off exhibits or open days of various sorts are good, there's usually an entry fee but it is rarely expensive and if the person you are taking there has observations and opinions it will add to your enjoyment. Nothing wrong with taking a picnic either. Jogging if you know they jog. Try to keep the date to a location where there are other people about, a lot of people won't go off hiking with a stranger and that's sensible of them, there's a whole lot less chance of ending up dead in a ditch i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 09:00 PM
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There's no doubt in my mind that an upwards widening of the socially acceptable age range for young men to date or have casual sex with will relieve some of the difficulties low value guys have in making a start. but there will also be creepiness and power issues when the age difference is large.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:35 AM
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From the info he gave you could tell he was probably putting a whole shitload of spin on the story. If it was at a bar in the USA not just an eatery that had an attached bar I doubt she'd make her birthday age obvious to the place or admit to a stranger to being 19. There were just a whole heap of things that were "off" about his tale. Makes sense though that a guy with no social skills can't write a convincing social tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 09:19 PM
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Hey fresh young happy thing it's your birthday and I'm a dude who has poor social skills and who can't see when he's making people uncomfortable and won't listen to his friends about his behavior... WELL GIRL HAVE I GOT A GIFT FOR YOU IT IS CALLED MY PENIS LET'S MAKE IT ALL ABOUT MY PENIS AND WRINKLY OLD MAN BALLS WELL PAST THE POINT AT WHICH YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH THIS AND LET'S DO THIS OPENLY AND OBVIOUSLY IN FRONT OF ALL YOUR FRIENDS AND MY FRIENDS AND A WHOLE PLACE OF PEOPLE... OH NO WHY A…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:57 PM
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The total cost of Harvard including the cost of living many miles away from home is NEVER going to be less than the cost of a local school that is in a place that is large enough to have a wide choice of study options and has a college or university that offers a decent basic science degree focusing properly on the core disciplines... if you get a scholarship ride to Harvard that brings the total spend down to the regular price of the local school before scholarships then you're going to be able…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:44 PM
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It would be my child's choice to take out loans or not to make that happen. I wouldn't push them to. I would not be going into debt or shortchanging other kids on their needs or myself on my retirement provisions to send my child to MIT or Harvard. If they are smart enough to jump the academic hurdles to get into those places and pass well at those places they are smart enough to also do really well with a degree from somewhere decent but less prestigious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:07 PM
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The offer of free accommodation at home still stands, he's just decided not to take advantage of it. I'll give him the same pocket money he'd have had at home. Making it all add up and work out is his problem. He might need to find a job. If it doesn't work out he can transfer back and study locally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:15 AM
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Them's the breaks. I didn't sign on to give my kids everything their hearts' desire and the best of everything, I signed on to give them enough of what they need to get started in life. Paying for a kid to live in another city is a needless expense. Screw that. We've got more than one kid, not all our kids are of equal ability and of equivalent levels of need in all things, at least one is likely to never work a normal job due to disability issues, and we've got a long way to go and our own old …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 09:59 AM
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I'm not American and such decisions are very complex ones made as the consequence of looking at a huge number of different things. So I'm not possessed of the full range of info I'd need. That said, I would never have a family in a shithole where it was impossible to study the theoretical underpinnings of the mathematical and physical sciences. I mean maybe there wouldn't be the precise course with the precise focus the kid wants... maybe no specialised nanotechnology degree or engineering degre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:40 AM
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We've got the internet now and easier foreign travel and crowd funding options and DNA databases to track fathers down, there's really no putting the safe abortions/child support genie back in the bottle. You are just going to have to deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:43 AM
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what happened to the red pill? Was it always this way? yes. It was always full of dudes unhappy that they can't lock a woman down financially by knocking her up and then spend the rest of their lives fucking her, having her look after their kids, having her do the housework... while guilt tripping her about how she got pregnant and ruined their lives and this is why he has to be allowed to fuck that whore across the road if he wants. pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:35 AM
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Only female-bodied folks are capable of having an unwanted pregnancy so only female bodied folks can abort unwanted pregnancies. Them's the breaks, i don't see dudes kvetching about not getting to have all the thousand other things that come along with being female bodied, including being the one to actually have to endure the discomforts of abortion or childbirth when it turns out (as is usually the case) that both the man and the woman thoroughly agree on what choice needs to be made. Look I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:30 AM
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So how for a fully functional and aware adult human female is choosing birth more worthy of being called a consequence of becoming pregnant than choosing abortion is... unless you are going to resort to an appeal to nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:00 AM
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In what world is having an abortion not a consequence? Those things cost money and time, are thoroughly uncomfortable at best and painful at worst, and carry a risk of side effects, You can't claim that because someone has a choice of adverse consequences they aren't facing consequences. jeebers, if I poked you in the eye you'd be all about calling the pain and discomfort and visit to the doctor a consequence. So why is choosing an abortion... ie a reduced consequence... not a consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:40 PM
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I think there will be an increase in all male and all female share houses. And that's about it. Life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:07 PM
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Once there's a born baby no-one has the right to opt out of anything unless both parents agree to adoption and there is a suitable adoptive parent the courts or other local authority are willing to sign off on. Prior to that it happens in a woman's body so she gets the choice up until whatever point the local laws say her choice diminishes. If you don't like that, well I have on good authority from TRP that the world is full of utterly desperate 50 year old women, maybe forgo your attraction to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:03 PM
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Biology isn't equal, so we need to pass laws to make parenthood equal. If I die in childbirth will they take the man who impregnated me and put him up against a wall and shoot him half a dozen times in the gut and let him bleed out? I mean just saying... equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 09:26 PM
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Most women don't participate in hook up culture and those that do tend to do so for only a short portion of their adult sexual life, extract what they can from it and at some point the negatives outweigh the positives and they stop. You're just paying more attention to those who do than those who don't. It is a common male perceptual quirk, a woman becomes more real to you if she's likely available. Also FWB relationships cover a lot of range and some of it isn't exactly hookups either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 09:16 PM
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It probably took me a year longer than it should have to break up with my first ex. And that's about all, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 09:11 PM
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When I think about college rape statistics in the USA I think about these differences to my own culture/country. Where I'm from, parents are allowed to supply alcohol to their own teenage kids although they still have to have some regard to that possibly being harmful, but generally it is not seen as a problem by child protection if a fourteen year old is given a tiny sip of whatever is about so they know how it tastes, a sixteen year old gets to make a toast to grandma's birthday using a glass …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 09:07 PM
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Because a break up is inherently a situation in which we are each vulnerable to how the other chooses to publicly frame the breakup and each have incentive to do the other down... and he's already proved he cares less about me when I'm at my best being totally honest and sharing than I did about him when he was being deceptive and exploitative and was quite willing to hide highly relevant facts about his motivation for his own advantage. I'd have to be a complete fool to keep treating him as som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:49 PM
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Making sure he takes the blame is just common sense, he obviously doesn't value me particularly as a person, and once the sex stops it isn't like he'll value me any more than he did during the "relationship"... his first priority will no doubt be to make sure he looks spotless so that he's got a good chance of getting another "relationship" and the easiest way to make yourself look spotless coming out of a relationship is to make the other person look grubby. If I get in first and make sure he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 10:33 AM
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Nature gives and nature takes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:41 PM
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Cold hard cash. You give me a million bucks and I'll never say a word against the red pill again in my life and agree to make a post every week supporting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:39 PM
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You know that live babies are also a cluster of cells right? I was born at 6.25 months along with my premie twin brother. That was 36 years ago when medicine and technology were nowhere near what they are now. We turned out fine. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antenatal_steroid https://www.ogmagazine.org.au/21/1-21/a-history-antenatal-corticosteroids/ Just wondering... in a similar situation when preterm birth is likely would you support a woman's right to refuse antenatal steroids so she can hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:20 PM
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If he's got such a good argument without the appeal to nature, then slopping his argument all up with the appeal to nature is pure idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:59 PM
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Because a carefully planned breakup usually turns out better for the person who planned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:57 PM
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More than half his subject matter was complaint that women are being unnatural. Yes that does display him as an idiot and a waste of time. Is he actually an idiot or does he just play one on the internet? I don't know and because it is overwhelmingly probable I will only encounter him on the internet, for all functional purposes to me he is an idiot. Will he still be an internet idiot the next post he makes? I don't know... maybe the chances of that will be reduced if he stops applying the appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:56 PM
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What's your point? My point is there's a whole lot less words there to convince people if you go back and delete everything from your post that is an appeal to nature. We're left mostly with your feelings about women and fetuses. I don't care about your feelings about women and fetuses especially your feelings about women and fetuses you don't even know or have any connection to, and the fact you are relying VERY heavily on an obvious and clumsy fallacy at every turn is one of the reasons I'm di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:44 PM
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We're human beings. We do unnatural things all the time, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:21 PM
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He's a clear infidelity risk because he's going to take literally anything anyone offers him sexually then work out from there how to make the relationship situation fit with it... also what we are having is not a relationship it is a series of one night stands with each other that he is loosely connecting with a relationship narrative. I'd immediately stop fucking him as soon as I found out, unless the situation made perfect pleasurable sense from my point of view... so no heroic attempts to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:00 PM
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Loki you're best off keeping looking like he could easily and without too much effort change himself to pass as a woman. Because Norse mythology and stuff... that was part of the Norse unease about Loki, the perception that maybe he was just a bit too damn eager and able to play the girl. Also Tom Hiddleston isn't of below average physique at all. He's not a muscle man but he's well above most random guys his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 12:50 PM
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Pretty much. Heck, some of us have discovered ourselves wincing when our longterm SO starts to show an interest in one of our longterm hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 12:36 PM
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Man thinks if she's interested in something fun I've got she'll be easier to tempt off somewhere private. Woman thinks if he's interested in something fun I've got he's just going to screw it up for me and make it all about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 07:41 AM
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This. My father blames my mother for how my brother turned out... lol sorry dude, my brother was 20 when Mum left, and prior to that the household was a place of fatherly tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:19 PM
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At my age? I'd probably have it so long as the chromosomes tested out OK, this is something that isn't happening again might as well know what I'm doing for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 07:54 PM
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It’s not an advantage relative to other women That's incorrect and the reason you can't see it is incorrect is because you've never been in competition with women for male sexual attention. Makeup of the sort that appeals to men is definitely one of a raft of strategic measures against other women. At any party it is the plastic babe with her pushup bra and red lipstick who is getting the first share of the attention of any guy who walks in the room. Of course it is an advantage, she has already…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:45 PM
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I want to be seen as physically attractive, that is what I care about more than anything in this world, Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:33 AM
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Or you could just admit that if you're having major troubles with this maybe you're a bit of a sperg and need to get better at working people out in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:06 AM
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Industriousness is probably in part genetic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 03:32 PM
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Well that's normal... one addiction/habituation tends to crowd out another. I remember back in about 2003 when Australia had a heroin drought due to several big busts... junkies were taking just about anything to try to take the edge off. And it is fairly normal for people to have to find some sort of continuing religion or spirituality to help them quit certain addictions, once again the replacement of one mood altering habit with another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:54 PM
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You'll be dead in 80 years anyway, whether you open up now or not. And even if you are together in perfect bliss for that time, one of you is likely to lose the other first. Just saying this is not a story that has a happy ending however you decide to tell it. So don't go looking at the situation with avoidance of pain being your most important priority. If you truly wanted to avoid pain from living, opiate overdose is probably the way to go. You can let fear rule your decisions or you can decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:23 PM
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Look, fucks aren't free even when they aren't being charged for. Every time a woman has sex with a guy she barely knows she's taking a heck of a risk and that risk is the cost to her. A risk with her bodily well being, and also a risk with her home and livelihood. Not all guys are willing to be fucked and then discarded without a fight, and that fight often does damage. He shows up at her workplace. He sends shitty texts to her parents. He lurks outside her house and she has to spend some nights…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:46 PM
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I've never had an abortion (I see that as 50% due to diligent contraceptive use and 50% due to luck) but if I had I would be comfortable talking about it casually. However I'd be immensely put off if a guy just straight out asked if I have ever had an abortion and wanted a yes/no answer straight up. Wanting that information in isolation from open and explorative conversations about both of our attitudes on abortion and our experiences with abortion is in my opinion a red flag, it indicates he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:07 PM
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Well... a lot of low value men are just in general low value so I'm guessing that a great many of them are locked out of effectively using such an option due to cost. But other than that well sure, knock yourself out. Might want to remember though, a woman who agrees to go marry and fuck a man she barely knows then go reside with him in a country whose ways are not the ways of her people, all in return for some theoretical increase in her standard of living (theoretical because things can be awf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:49 PM
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I think in most places you need to disregard adoption as being a choice a woman can make by herself. Usually it takes the guy to sign off on it too, and increasingly I think the exceptions to this are going to be closed up, as familial DNA databases become more extensive. Adoption in the modern developed world is overwhelmingly not a woman's option alone but an option for a couple who are in agreement to access together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:34 PM
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Dancing is one of those things that needs to be worked out between the couple, it is just too culturally complex to make hard and fast rules about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:16 PM
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I don't think they are unfair... people own their own lives and bodies and have every right to decide whether to hold or to sell their assets at any price they want. It is more that whining about other people's standards or their offerings is usually the sign of a freeloader, someone who wants in some way to not have to pay market price or provide marketable goods, and even worse has started on the path of nagging/manipulating/bullying/guilt tripping people to drop their prices or to make heroic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:11 PM
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I know a whore when I see one. Gotta have someone to pay expenses while she studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 12:04 AM
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Relationships are about more than sex and money. If all you are giving in abundance is one thing... whether that is sex or money... of course the situation is going to be unstable unless the other person is particularly needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 11:47 PM
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Depends what time frame you're looking at... apparently women in the Bronze Age and neolithic were often quite physically masculine indeed in appearance, and one would assume that since those eras did not have police forces, a certain amount of willingness to aggressively defend themselves would have been encouraged. Basic meals done to traditional simple recipes would have been pretty much all that anyone needed to know how to cook as the number of available ingredients would have been quite sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:38 PM
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That's really your decision to make. I think having some sort of life partner even if that partnership is not sexual or romantic is a good thing from the point of view of providing a wider social circle and also assistance to do things like buy real estate. Maybe you'd be best off finding another aspie man to co-operate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 05:23 PM
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Of course they bloody well look down on working class men, the UMC looks down on the working class. UMC men look down on working class women too, plenty of smart hardworking waitresses have been good enough to fuck but not good enough to marry. Men will fuck women they don't respect, women aren't so keen on fucking men they don't respect and generally leave that business to whores. That's where the gender difference is. The lack of respect itself however, is a class issue not a gender issue. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:10 AM
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i picture getting out of school and riding my bike over to my buddies place on a friday afternoon. Nah. In that era young adults mostly got themselves to and from school. You'd go straight from school to your friends' place with your friend then call your parents from there to tell them you'd be late home. Most people didn't have a huge number of friends outside their school... no social media. We smoke a joint and listen to the radio Maybe on the joint although most people didn't smoke in the '…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 07:39 PM
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I'm a woman. Not a particularly gender conforming woman but yep I've got girl parts and I identify publicly as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 01:46 PM
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If you wanted immediate sex it was your job to make sure you were there when she was into having immediate sex. Those other guys made sure they were there. Of course it is fair. Coming second in a race is fair if you didn't run fast enough. Earning less is fair if you didn't work for a qualification that brings a high wage job. And not getting easy sex with young beautiful women is fair if you weren't what they wanted when they wanted it and were busy doing other things. You snooze you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 12:57 PM
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I think a lot of them just needed to listen properly to their mothers 10 to 15 years ago. Stop playing computer games so much, get out there and make friends, keep your room clean, be hygienic and do a bit of physical exercise. If you're still failing on any of those then you need to attend to them because even though they don't bring immediate success they are very important underpinnings to a great many different sorts of success in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:35 PM
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Oh I think they can tell alright. They know the makeup is not her actual skin surface. They just fucking hate it because they'd rather know what is under the makeup. They want to be able to assess both a woman's SMV and RMV fully and accurately at first glance without putting any work in or spending any time. Plain old male sense of entitlement. If she's all blotchy under the makeup it really doesn't affect her casual SMV unless you are one of those crazies who really likes to fuck in the shower…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:24 AM
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Possibly true. Do you think there's any aspect of personal responsibility there on the woman's part, then? aaaaaaargh. It isn't the women who are the driving force in all this. There are immature men who seek to be utterly dependent and looked after. There are immature women who seek to be utterly dependent and looked after. The thing that drives it being a viable strategy for women rather than something they have to grow the hell out of or fail pretty badly is that there are more men who are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:13 AM
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Just about every woman, no matter how capable and competent she is, wants a man who is capable like an adult should be. This is what every sensible adult human being in the market for a partner should be looking for... another competent human being because two competent human beings make a formidable team. A large proportion of women will refuse relationships altogether if they can not get this. Men are inexplicably fucked in the head and will voluntarily choose to weld themselves to women who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 05:32 AM
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If you just want it to stay casual on your side? Have a rule, if you're leaving the house or going to sleep they must leave. Don't let them leave stuff around your house, if they've got a tendency tp do that gather it all up and put it in a bag and press it into their hands as they leave. And don't talk about things that really matter to you... if you're short on someone to talk about such things with see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 05:05 AM
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People, man and women alike, are hard work and high maintenance. To make it so that having a partner isn't just hard work all the way after the first flush of hormones passes, something's gotta sweeten the deal. It isn't always going to be sex and/or status and wealth and it isn't always going to go in that particular direction. But yeah there's going to have to be a degree of transactionality in most relationships or the problems the other person presents just aren't going to be worth it in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 12:39 AM
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Maybe he's had a religious experience and now thinks casual sex is satan, maybe he's found a girlfriend, maybe he started feeling used, maybe he's been kidnapped and murdered by his drug dealer. You're going to need to let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 12:15 AM
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I get it even if some of the pothers here don't. I'm sure you could imagine him... Walking into a house full of gas fumes and just not putting two and two together and doing something about it. Being incredibly dangerous if there was an electricity outtage and candles had to be used. Just ignoring the needs of your livestock if you were hospitalised under conditions where you could not give him instructions. Taking months to train how to make the judgments necessary to do laundry effectively. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 10:20 AM
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In general an aspie is going to be failing at proactively offering one or another of the various things necessary for a healthy fulfilling relationship. It isn't an accident that aspie dudes tend to spend most of their lives with women who are either very controlling or very exploitative, being controlled or exploited. Those are the women who are willing to just TAKE MORE then TAKE MORE and then TAKE EVEN MORE which helps make up for the lack of an aspie's ability to proactively know when and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 10:03 AM
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Some of them seem to argue that the possibility of an accusation makes approaching pretty much impossible full stop... this is clearly not the case as there are a large number of times places and circumstances in which an accusation of harassment wouldn't fly at all. It is clear to me that some of them are using "harassment" as an excuse to talk about their predicament at arms length, distanced from what the actual dynamics causing their fear of approach are. Maybe they are just timid and fearfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 07:39 PM
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You're not creeping women out by being lonely, you're lonely because you creep women out. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:43 PM
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"sympathy/empathy" is code for "will keep talking to me even though I'm a sad sack" which rightly or wrongly they probably see as likely to increase the chances they'll get laid. I mean thinking about it... the point at which their hopes are usually dashed is probably the point at which she turns and actually walks the fuck away rather than keeps interacting, it must seem that if they can just keep her talking, just keep her interacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:22 PM
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