wp0016 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is the red pill incompatible with "a classic marriage"?		wp0016	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/07/14 12:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is the red pill incompatible with "a classic marriage"? > Why do you say that? I was wrong. TRP is not about how you live your life or how you behave, but rather how you interpret reality. Once you take the pill it can change how you experience a relationship, and based on this you can change things within your control to improve that reality. Someone in a provider role who lacks this insight may experience frustration that their best efforts don't achieve what they expect. It's perfectly possible to continue in a provider role having taken the pill,…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/09/14 06:46 PM
1	Finances in the marriage: not "how much money" but "how should I give her money" and what should I expect in return? come back to me on the hotel and hooker issue. Is that a particular expertise of yours? In seriousness I cross posted your response to /r/marriedredpill - reply or let me know if you think I've twisted your words, or if you have anything to add to it.	/r/askTRP	27/07/14 01:09 AM
2	Is the red pill incompatible with "a classic marriage"? I read this comment on another redpill subreddit, my first reaction was this kid has no life experience, and the post had a -6 score to reinforce my initial judgement. But reading the follow ups I'd missed his point, and as I now read it it's the only proper red-pill response, saying if you take TRP seriously you are intent on changing your personality for your own benefit and no-one elses, and should have no expectation that anyone else will follow you on that journey. By definition, if I am in…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/07/14 12:58 AM
2	Marriage before/after implementing TRP philosophies Here it goes, sorry if this seems a bit whiny. I've only been watching here for a couple of months and only started to take it seriously in the last month. I'm 36, married 10ish years with one kid and another on the way. I had known for a long time that things weren't right in our relationship, and in recent years her attitude had gone well beyond disrespectful to outright contempt. I work almost constantly, I have a job that expects quite long hours (that's another story for another thread), an…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/07/14 12:29 AM
9	Nuclear Option I might have it wrong, but to me it looks like you fear the consequences of divorce, even while you see it as an escape. I think you need to get to the point where you know you will do just fine on your own before you can either make a decent go of either marriage or divorce. After that whatever happens happens and if that happens to be divorce so be it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/07/14 11:51 PM
3	Learn from me: 40 years old, 3 kids, divorced. No I meant ministers in politics, as in women tending to a more political leadership style, men to a more military style.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/14 05:09 PM
1	Learn from me: 40 years old, 3 kids, divorced. The suggested role of women is the main thing. Modem feminism is flawed certainly, but that doesn't mean women can play strong leadership roles. Rather than being seen as captain and first mate I think better examples of typical leadership roles are men are generals and women are ministers.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/14 08:15 AM
4	Learn from me: 40 years old, 3 kids, divorced. I'm new to trp, and in that sort of a position, but for me the issue wasn't fear but simply not understanding women's instinctive expectations in a relationship. When the message sunk in for me it was like a kick to the gut, I'd been playing such a weak role in the relationship that it's a sign of my partner's poor self esteem that she stuck around this long. Now even in a familiar argument I pick up on totally different causes, and that simply accepting responsibility for some imagined fault is…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 08:56 PM