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If you still have feelings for the person, don't meet up!
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 12:58 PM
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Run! If you feel this way, youre not ready
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 12:56 PM
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I lived in the same house as my ex for 6 months. It was terrible. I suggest you find alternative living arrangements if you can. You'll move on quicker. For context, I have two children and was married for 20 years
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 12:52 PM
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People join on their way to divorce, some with the intention to "win her back" That's why I asked
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 06:55 PM
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My exwife cheated many times. Eventually, I caught her sending spicy messages to a mutual "friend". They had been hooking up for a couple of months. She met him on my birthday and our anniversary. I had drinks with guy on several occasions, even shook his hand without knowing he was banging my wife at the time. It sucked, but at 42 I just deceided to let it all go. We co-habitated for 6 months while we figured out the next steps. She continued to see this man, which at first pissed me off, but e…
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 02:27 PM
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Are you divorced? It takes some time, but it does eventually happen. For me 6 months after seperation she moved out. After that 2 weeks before I went to a bar with a friend to meet new people. YMMV My exwife had many affairs, so moving on wasn't so hard after she made herself scarce. She even came back and said "I think I made a mistake." I passed
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 01:59 PM
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Viagra will do the heavy lifting until you get your mind right
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 01:54 PM
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It will take some time, but you will be alright. The amount of time varies from person to person, but if you put in the time and stop "remembering the good times," it arrives quicker. Good luck Hit the gym
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 02:48 PM
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Monkey branched?
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 07:28 PM
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We were separated in the same house for 6 months. That was tough, but after she moved out, I was good after 2 weeks. I lost weight, put on muscle, and went out and met new people. Distractions helped, until I realized I no longer grieved. I blocked or unfollowed her on everything though. I don't check out what shes doing, I don't ask firends about what she has going on, other than communications about the kids, I generally leave her alone. She came home in the middle of the night about a month a…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 05:06 PM
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Personally, I'm not, but I will be using a prenup next time.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 06:47 PM
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I mean professional. Not an insult, I needed help after my divorce
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:14 PM
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You may need some help
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:09 PM
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I met the girl I'm with now a month after my wife moved out, but 6 months after we officially separated. But my ex and I hadn't had sex in nearly 2 years, so I was ready to find someone.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 06:52 PM
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Yeah, they do tend to do that for some reason, "Hey, I saw ______ went on a cruise with her new guy". Thanks for letting me know, Janet🙄
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 04:58 PM
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Are you following her? I unfollowed mine the day she walked out.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 04:40 PM
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After she moved out... 2 weeks
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 04:38 PM
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A new girl
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 05:02 PM
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What's best for the kids, though? I'm not arguing to stay, just that the decision isn't as simple as some make it out to be, "You need to think about your own happiness" is a child's mindset and not befitting a man. Not saying that is your argument, just one I've heard before.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 01:36 PM
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I was fine after 6 months
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 07:32 PM
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Some people think you ned to. "find yourself". Everyone's different. I didn't need much time. I know myself. I was miserable and married to a woman who was terminally allergic to monogamy. Finding a new person was easy for me to accept and I'm happier now. Some may need time alone to "find inner peace", but it's definitely not for everyone. I think some people on Reddit just like people being alone and miserable
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 03:47 PM
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I met someone during the beginning part of my divorce process. No issues
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 04:31 PM
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I co-habitated for nearly 6 months. It was miserable and prolonged the suffering. If I could do it again, I would ask her to leave, or bounce myself. I kept thinking we were on the same team, despite being told by Reddit, that "She's for the streets now". Hindsight is 20/20, but looking back I should have put her in the rear view and began the healing process sooner. After she mved out, it took 2 weeks for me to realixe that I'm way happier with her gone. For context we had been married for 20 y…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 07:08 PM
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Bro, WTF
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 01:52 PM
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I have to agree with your STBXW. I tried it for 6 months... it was terrible
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 01:38 PM
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Let her go. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to accept that your marriage is over and figure out what your next steps are. Focus on yourself and your kids. Hit the gym
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 02:06 PM
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She has been unhappy for a while, but stayed until a "better" alternative arrived? First affair, or do you suspect others? I speak from experience, my STBXW is a sociopath
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 04:55 PM
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Do What's best for the kid
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 06:26 PM
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I hear you man, but now is the day to change. They will keep you hooked as long as they can. Get in shape and your self-confidence will improve.. guaranteed
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 12:04 PM
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That sinking feeling is the worst. It fades with lots of time... I found physical suffering a good way to help push down the emotional suffering. Good luck man. Stay Strong
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 03:29 PM
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Sounds like lyrics of a blues song
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 02:01 PM
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Time to rebuild the temple. Use that missing appetite and drop some weight. Work out. Use physical suffering to drive out the emotional suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 05:55 PM
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