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Yes and I somewhat agree. A lot would be solved if men stopped chasing. Chasing makes the average man feel bitter and incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:51 AM
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Why can’t men just find something else they like doing instead of obsessing about women and porn. Focus on community projects or something. It gets boring hearing them whining about women. Leave the women to men who actually like them and know how to get along with them. Let it go. I think women and men need a break from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:24 AM
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Not really because who are you going to turn to if you get divorced or your husband dies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 PM
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I am nearly 38. I don’t feel like I’m competing with younger women, as I’m looking for different things than a 20 year old. I tend to be date men in their late 20s/ early 30s because I look young for my age and men my age look way older than me. Also, I don’t want divorcees or men with kids. Some younger men just prefer older women. I don’t think I would be attracted to the kind of men a 20 year old would like and vice Versa. I think the kind of woman complaining about competition from 20 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:16 PM
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Lol it’s almost a convention that nice, trad wives get cheated on. They do everything that is expected of them and are shocked that they’re not as special as they thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:00 PM
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Synonymous with wife who eventually gets cheated on even though she’s not like other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:29 PM
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3 dates is not enough time to vet… are you crazy? A man can be on his best behaviour for 3 measly dates. Absolutely not. I am not letting a random guy into my body after 3 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:25 AM
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It’s not. I think women should generally stay away from men. They’ve got shit to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:23 AM
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This is the problem… you ARE just anyone. Every guy thinks he’s different and special. If a woman takes every guy at their word then she ends up with a high body count and regrets. Every guy harps on about how different he is. If a woman tries to be savvy and goes for someone higher value then she’s accused of gold digging and only chasing Chad to be pumped and dumped. Not many guys are worth being promiscuous with because there’s no payoff. I think even the liberal feminists are beginning to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:03 PM
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You’re wasting you’re time with this. The males in the sub are the weakest, whiniest most useless part of the human species. They won’t do anything unless there is an immediate pay off in sex tokens. There’s no use for them apart from scouring dating apps for the most desperate, low self esteem women and watching porn. They have no honour or real manhood - just a waste of oxygen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:55 PM
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I agree with this. I’m bisexual and most women I encounter are not unattractive. However, most men ARE unattractive. It’s not about being super hot, it’s about working with what you have and most men don’t even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:30 PM
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I’ve felt this way. I’ve felt that womanhood means that people take energy from you: other women, men and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:41 PM
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I don’t really like men. I’ve always been irritated with them but I dated them because I was attracted to them. Now I date women exclusively and I only deal with male family members and acquaintances. I have no desire to have male friends or boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:39 PM
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Most people will jump to the idea that conservatives are better people and liberals just love cheating. It could be for the following reasons: liberals could be more open minded and consider different reasons why people cheat - partner is a vegetable, partner is abusive etc. conservatives may virtue signal with a question like this, like liberals will virtue signal about race. Conservatives may pretend that they think all cheating is bad whilst they cheat. Anybody who is reading this study as Bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:08 PM
2

Cool. I hope you refuse any service from a woman in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:55 PM
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Nobody questions mens value in work. But there we men who think women hold little value in the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:19 PM
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This is not true at all. High school upwards is not as important as elementary/kindergarten. By high school, you have learned most of your key skills that will get you through life. Post elementary is building upon the skills. Kindergarten is also a babysitting service which is crucial - a teenager can stay at home by himself. What you have written is absolutely delusional. If hospitals shut down tomorrow there would be chaos. It seems that you’re dead set on believing that women place little va…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:35 PM
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It absolutely wouldn’t. If women took a week off, the male doctors would struggle to see patients without nurses to deal with vital signs, puking patients, food catering, ward cleanliness. It’s impossible. The wards would be filthy, people who weren’t seriously ill would become seriously ill without general care provided by nurses. High school and university teaching is more equal but they are arguable least important. Most elementary and kindergarten teachers are female. Men cannot work without…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:06 PM
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It’s to make fat people feel better about themselves. I think fat people should be able to exist without ridicule and to be able to wear beautiful clothes etc but it should not be promoted as optimal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:52 PM
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Less relevant work? Teachers - most teachers are female Childcare - how can parents work without childcare? Nurses/healthcare - nurses do “frontline” and “dirty” work Midwives - self explanatory Social work - children and vulnerable people are protected mostly by women doing these jobs Social care - women do a lot of elderly care Administrators - organising medical/dental appointments, government records, HR. This may be “cushy” but society cannot operate without admin. Society would fall apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:45 PM
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I made the mistake of watching Fresh and Fit. Weak, over emotional men that wear sunglasses inside, they scream at retarded women who can’t string a sentence together. That’s my definition of a red pill guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:02 PM
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I can empathise with that. It just gets tiring being constantly told that you let Chad pump and dump you whilst you ignored the amazing nerd in the corner. I’ve mostly dated nerdy guys and it’s not been amazing for the most part. There’s no nuance when it comes to women so I no longer give any nuance for men. This is a mean sub so I’ve adapted but thank you for being polite and respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:53 PM
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I know autism is not a monolith and I know autists have a range of personalities. But the autistic men who complain on this sub are the ones who write paragraphs, link endless statistics and get mad when things don’t support their worldview. I can only imagine what their dates are like. This is very unattractive to most women. There’s also a haughtiness/superiority complex that comes with autism - I’ve been around many autistic people and have autistic family members. It’s not my preference in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:21 PM
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I’m never friends with men but I keep some around as acquaintances who speak openly and honestly with me - this taught me a lot about how they think, which is why I’ve switched to dating women. They’re useful to have when you keep at arms length but some girls are clueless that their close guy friend is only hanging around with them because they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:01 PM
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Who cares? You’re going to do it anyway, right? We all want Chad and ignore the wonderful, loving autistic nerds, blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:56 PM
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I’m one of them. I’ve always dated men but I’m done with it. I changed all my dating apps to only view women and I no longer have any interest in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:30 PM
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I love this woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:21 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:15 PM
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Trust me, you stop caring what people think the further you go into your 30s. My 30s would have been better if I didn’t settle down with a guy in my 20s. I wish I remained single and enjoyed my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:51 PM
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It’s a weird obsession. Just incase there’s a 30 year old enjoying their life without a man, they have to hop in and tell you that your life is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:49 PM
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I’m done for. I’m 35, childless and unmarried. What will I do nooow?? As soon as I hit my 30th birthday I turned into a wrinkly old hag overnight. I guess there’s nothing left to do but to get a cat, spend my money on vacations and shoes, date whoever I want, hang out with my friends whenever I want and continue enjoying my life 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:47 PM
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Cats, dating women, wine, antidepressants… so many other options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:43 PM
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You’re right. I do think men would be violent if they can’t get women. That’s the true nature of men - submit to me or I’ll kill you. This is the final frontier that most men won’t admit to and most women won’t acknowledge. If we don’t do what men want, they will kill us or allow us to get killed by others. Women need to prepare to be killed en masse or find ways to build their own society. It will only work if women act NOW and learn to be self sufficient. We need to let go of Disney princess f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:49 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:34 PM
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So? What’s your point? Whether you are born is a fluke and it’s not a big deal if you were never born…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:23 PM
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What has fat people got to do with this? It was about being single…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:22 PM
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I don’t think the gay thing is for every woman, especially as most women are programmed by society to center men. I listed other things women could prioritise instead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:21 PM
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At this point I agree. I think more women should stay single or date other women. However, society needs to stop fear mongering about dying alone with cats. If women were brave enough to be single, date women if they want, forego having children and build better relationships with other women, we would be much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:59 PM
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Not what I’ve heard…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:35 PM
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I don’t think MOST women modern women look haggard in their 30s, even the ones with kids but yes there are SOME who look bad. I’m Bisexual and I see more awful looking men in their 30s - balding and pot bellied. I don’t know why when they don’t physically have kids 🤷‍♀️ If I could post screenshots of the men and women I’ve come across on dating apps, it would shock a lot of people. Most men look really bad in comparison to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:14 PM
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They are both treated terrible but the whore benefits the most if she protects herself physically and mentally. The Madonna is often delusional until she’s cheated on or finds out something terrible about her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:36 PM
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It’s full of weird people and a lot of autistic men who don’t understand that not everything fits into neat categories. There isn’t a step by step guide for life. I’m much meaner on this sub than any other sub because I quickly learned that most of the posts are written in bad faith. I comment on this sub to help younger women and for the memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:31 PM
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I’m 35 and I get IDd if I try to buy alcohol. Just yesterday someone thought I was 22 when I told them my real age. I’m also not Caucasian so my skin is very good…. Your theory doesn’t work for everyone sorry. You must be 12 years old if you think women shrivel up into old hags as soon as they turn 30. Women tend to let themselves go when they have KIDS because they’re so exhausted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:25 PM
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Do you think there will be another world war to create balance? Throughout history we’ve had world wars that have reduced the amount of men available and has given the remaining men a sense of purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:35 PM
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They’re not saying men aren’t datable to women their own age, they’re saying they’re old and crusty to YOUNGER women. That’s normal. When I was young, a 30 year old was ancient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:27 PM
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I’m 35 and the men who hunt for younger women are usually losers who cannot impress women their age. I have an acquaintance who is divorced, has mental issues and a kid - he’s currently searching for someone in their 20s because he told me women in their 30s will have higher expectations of him. To me, that’s predatory and he will put a young, naive woman through shit. He’s currently stalking someone in their 20s and she blocked him. He’s learning that he’s not as desirable to young girls as he …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:22 PM
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I’m not saying you can’t have an equal relationship with a dog. However, I don’t think people generally perceive dogs as equal. I feel that people focus on what they can get from dogs and give the bare minimum back. They expect constant love, affection and loyalty, whilst barely walking their dogs or training them. I’ve seen it a lot. I feel like people don’t have those expectations with cats. They either hate them or let them be what they are. Humans who like cats tend to either be in service t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:02 AM
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I would rather an equal relationship where we are both together by choice and we’re both benefitting from it - not blind loyalty and dependence. So I align more with a cat like relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:22 AM
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I find that a lot of guys hate cats’ autonomy. They also hate that cats have an innate sense of value, which can be interpreted as entitlement. Cats are generally cute and cuddly but they keep you at arms length unless you build a relationship with them. Cats also can be manipulative to get their needs met. They aren’t as accessible and agreeable as dogs; they have much stronger boundaries. I’ve also seen guys “jokingly” compare cats to women. I feel like the hatred of cats can sometimes extend …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:11 PM
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Are you questioning my space expedition?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:55 PM
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I would be suspicious of any guy who hated cats and loved dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:02 AM
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That’s some “cool girl” shit that is unsustainable for a marriage, which is why there are so many dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:58 AM
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I have a similar story. I was on a space mission to Mars funded by Elon Musk and I had the wildest time. I was with a guy, let’s call him Chad…the stewardesses on the rocket ship were offering him that sweet poontang. He fucked them all at the same time. He let me watch and it was glorious. I managed to see some nipple. However, that was nothing compared to when we actually landed on Mars. It was full of space bitches who were hungry for humanoid cock. They were no match for Chad - he took them …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:56 AM
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Absolutely not! If I could post screenshots of some of the guys who message me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:47 AM
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Well some women might not want to do certain things like anal, threesomes etc. if your husband is into that then there is pressure to be a “cool girl” and bend to his whims. That’s easier to do in a newish relationship but after having children, being exhausted and having a low libido, it’s not always possible. Then it goes into the territory of women being sex dolls and not humans. Pregnancy does a lot to a woman and affects their physical and mental health. Men will then complain about a dead …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:33 AM
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Madonna/whore complex. Virginal wife is to stroke the ego and to project a good image to society. Deep inside he despises her because she bores him and won’t do the stuff he desires. Whore is to satisfy his needs - he’s the girl he really desires but fears because she doesn’t belong to him. As a woman you can never win. The whore is disrespected and ridiculed in public but desired and coveted in private. The housewife who “drinks the kool aid” and believers being a good girl is enough, is in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:13 PM
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They think models will be approaching them when it will probably be the “fat whales” they hate so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:07 PM
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It’s just happened to me. They start at one end of the bar and work their way towards you. They have always found a way to demonstrate their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:15 PM
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Yep, if you’re the hot girl in the group, guys will gravitate towards you. There is no need to approach, you just make it slightly easier for him by eye contact and open body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:45 PM
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Well in the current paradigm we live in, men are expected to pay. The guy was willing to pay for me and not my friend, thus demonstrating that he didn’t respect her. If you want to argue about which gender pays, you can do that by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:43 PM
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EXACTLY. I’ve never been jealous of the men my friends get when chasing. It’s never a good quality catch because the guy doesn’t respect them. He sees them as ugly or desperate. This guy asked me to go to dinner with him and I turned him down because he was unattractive to me. My friend (who is less attractive) started chasing him and he told her he would go out with her if she pays for both of them. That’s the disrespect that chasing men gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:53 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:14 PM
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I actually agree with this take. Only my undesirable friends approach and are often used. But this happens even if they go for ugly men. The ugly men are looking at the more attractive friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:14 PM
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In that case, Men generally see sex as a win. Women generally look for relationships and see it as being used so our problems are different. Either way, it’s not happening. I don’t think women will be taking the lead in relationships en masse. Women Sacrifice a lot with marriage and children and then are expected to chase a man in the dating stage? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:08 PM
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Well I haven’t. I can only speak to my experience. Also, unattractive women have to do a lot of chasing. I don’t think every woman is sitting back being chased. For instance, my cousin is a lovely sweet person but she is obese and has a disability with her feet since birth. I’ve seen her chase guys because she has to. A flat out no is bad enough but guys tend to use undesirable women financially and sexually instead of saying no. Her self esteem is terrible because of this. Personally, if I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:49 PM
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Meh, I have a couple of assertive friends who do this. I’ve never seen it work well though. The guy goes along with it but is not completely invested because he never really liked her in the first place - he was just flattered that she approached. He might hang around for sex or a bj but no respect is earned. I’m an introvert and never approached guys. I’ve had guys overlook my assertive friends and try to talk to me who wants nothing to do with the situation. I’m of the mindset that even the sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:35 PM
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I’m bisexual but I now prefer to be with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:23 AM
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If I choose to settle down it would be with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:20 PM
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I can’t be a MILF with no kids. I don’t want to be fat or forced to work off baby for some useless man who did nothing but give two pumps. It doesn’t seem worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:59 PM
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It does, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:58 PM
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Yes! I know a lot of older, single women and they’re happy as fuck. Some were happy when their husbands died. I was worried I was making a mistake but when I saw women in their 60s with no regrets, I knew I was doing the right thing. The whole marriage and kids thing is a lie. It’s great for some women but not for most. It keeps you dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:16 PM
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Exactly. I wish more women did that but they buy into the fairy tale. Some women are in the position to be good mothers and wives but very few. They just end up creating unhappy lives for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:12 PM
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I’m bisexual so there’s always women…Also, there’s vibrators. I’m not desperate so there’s no upcoming revenge fantasy. Also, my mum is 65 and still gets hit on by younger men. My wall might happen at 70 perhaps? Then maybe I will be sad and alone and wished I chose that nerd in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:08 PM
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If more women realised this, things would improve for women. Women shouldn’t be afraid of being single with cats, they should be afraid of being single mothers and unloved wives. That’s WAY scarier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:06 PM
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I think a female military would be good. We can use a different set of skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:04 PM
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I genuinely don’t think marriage is a benefit for modern women unless they are having children with a man with resources
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:21 PM
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It’s too much of a gamble for me. I don’t want to sacrifice what I have. I don’t really have those Disney princess dreams - I know the reality of marriage behind closed doors. I enjoy independence, travel and my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:33 PM
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Yup. I noticed the autistic Black or White thinking. Anything that occurs that doesn’t line up with a study is a lie. There’s an obsession with statistics without acknowledgement of context or critique of said statistics. Contextual clues are also lost on them. Even if they’re annoying, at the end of the day they’re the lonely losers. The internet is the only place where they can rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:47 PM
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This type of civilisation, yes but it’s possible to have a matriarchal civilisation. I wished that we went more in that direction. We may have less developments but perhaps a happy society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:42 AM
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Women seek help more than men so then they will be diagnosed more. I also believe women would be happier if we let go of the desire to have kids, thus, there would be less need to have relationships with men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:06 AM
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Men are so unhappy though and their whole lives revolve around whether they are around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:59 AM
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We met as university students. He continued studying at my expense. I ended up getting the career he wanted without the PhD because I was more ambitious and less navel gazing. I lost respect because demonstrated no awareness of my sacrifice, he still managed to fail even though we pumped money into his dreams and his personality didn’t make up for it. And no, he wasn’t Chad. He was a 5ft9, acne ridden south Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:22 AM
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Yes, I didn’t respect him anymore and was no longer attracted. I paid for everything in our relationship and the romance was lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:16 AM
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Will do. Women are hotter anyway. I would never pay for a dating app to date men but I’m thinking of paying to increase my chances with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:04 AM
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I’m so doing this! I’m bi but I’m going off men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:39 AM
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Did I say most women are 7/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:53 PM
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Well men tolerated chubby woman, when they really want a thin one. So it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:52 PM
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short men aren’t desired anywhere True but they’re tolerated and still can get partners in societies where people are shorter (Latin countries/Asia) bad facial features are not desired for either gender. Men may tolerate it more because they want sex. A man with options will settle for the women without bad facial features. women date men with smaller dicks all the time. Trust me, I know. It would only be an issue for most of its a micro penis. what woman is going to get a man when she has a rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:06 PM
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I’ve worked with them…they’re not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:57 PM
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If you’re talking specific features and facial measurements, that would be the same for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:54 PM
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Just be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:48 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:48 PM
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Do you think all Black women like the stereotypical White guy movie star look? Do you think all Latina girls prefer that? Do you think all Indian women prefer that? What about Black men? What about K-pop boy bands? What about Bollywood stars? Do they all look like the guys pictured above? So stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:43 PM
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I can understand where you are coming from. I think men who complain on this sub think that every woman on here is a blonde Stacey. When women of colour have wildly different dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:45 AM
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Exactly lol he thought he was doing something with this post. Should we bring up Instagram models?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:40 AM
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I’m 💯 making this essay a dating profile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:38 AM
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Money is hugely attractive but if that’s all you have to offer, you’re just going to attract low quality people. If you’re a loser, then people are going to use you for your resources but still see you as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:13 AM
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Yup. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:59 AM
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Lol sure bud. If you consider 30s old then you’re not worth listening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:34 AM
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Lol my mum is 65 and is constantly hit on. She must be an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:53 AM
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Slight rant: Arrogant youth is the most frustrating thing to deal with. We are all arrogant when we are young and we feel like our viewpoints will stay the same forever. I see a lot of it on this sub Reddit. If you are under 30, you know nothing about life. It’s hilarious to see 20 year old men talk about “modern women” and give advice on relationships. Wisdom doesn’t solely depend on age but if you’re in your 20s then 99.9% you have not got much life experience. Also, young people tend to only …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:47 AM
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Nope. I’m also not into kpop because I saw someone accused of only liking Asians because of K-pop. My last bf was Asian so it’s added to the list
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:21 PM
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Don’t date them. Don’t have babies with them. If they’re so miserable then it would do them a favor
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:13 PM
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Have you got the ‘tism?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:32 PM
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I wish women would stop taking the high road. We have the ultimate power but keep saying “not all men” and ignoring degenerate behaviour until it lands is back in the 1950s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:31 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:16 PM
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Yup. We need to give them what they want and delete low value men from the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:05 PM
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You’re on the right track. If men hate women so much then we should think twice about birthing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:04 PM
2

Wow. I never considered this. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:59 AM
3

Yep. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:58 AM
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These guys are deranged. No matter what you say, they will pick at it and find something wrong. They need to do something useful like go to war or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:34 AM
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Yes. That’s it. I never speak my mind on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:24 AM
1

I already wrote it down below
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:23 AM
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Lowest £40k (they have to be generous or almost perfect) no upper limit Lowest height 5ft7 (my height) highest 6ft7 Racial preference: White/Latin East Asian Body type: Slim and toned House preferred No kids I’m in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:51 AM
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It’s not intimidating. It’s just pointless because they cry that women aren’t honest but when they are honest they don’t believe it or get offended
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:33 AM
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Nah, the men in here will start crying. They have their thumbs ready and waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:03 AM
2

Most of the time now. It’s even worse after seeing what they say on the internet. I mostly keep out of their way. I’m bisexual but considering just sticking to women. I feel sorry for the women in their 20s who have no idea what men think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:02 AM
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Maybe my perception is skewed but I only remember one guy on here who was decent and not crazy but he doesn’t comment anymore. This is a bit of a weird assumption but do you think autism is causing some of the communication problems here? I noticed many of the guys have autist in their names and there is an obsession with statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:23 AM
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Truuueeee lol you’re actually the most normal guy I met on here. Usually they disgust me and I troll them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:46 AM
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Women mostly die alone anyway because we outlive our husbands most of the time. Men actually fare worse when they’re alone. I have relatives who work in the elderly care system and there’s plenty of men rotting alone. Women usually have good support systems. Tate had some good advice but I don’t think he’s a good person. I think he’s still a grifter but not as bad as Fresh and Fit. Tbh, most of this pill stuff is pathetic and women are losing respect for men. I could never respect a man who sits…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:38 AM
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I think hook up culture mostly benefitted men (average to hot men). They managed to get sex with little investment. I don’t think women gain much from casual sex- they just think they’re liberated but it’s mostly daddy issues and mental illness. I feel like the Black/Red pill men don’t actually care about the purity of women. They’re just mad that they’re not getting a piece of the pie and would rather restrict women than be left out. If they really had traditional morals, they wouldn’t even wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:02 AM
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Do you think all of this is women’s fault? If not, what’s to blame for these type of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:43 AM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:03 AM
2

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:01 AM
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I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:57 AM
0

Okay great. Very sassy of you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:56 AM
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I don’t think there is one ideal way to date. However, I personally prefer monogamous relationships and I choose men with integrity. The only thing I don’t like about traditional relationships is that it often relies on the naivety and inexperience of women to make it work. Men who complain about single mothers, beta buxx, friendzones, hypergamy, demonstrate their immaturity and inability to be actual leaders of a household or a community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:53 AM
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It’s nice to see a logical argument. Men want untarnished women with no baggage but create tarnished women with baggage. It makes more sense to do what you’re suggesting, in order to actually create the society you want to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:42 AM
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3 LTRs and I’m in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:41 PM
1

Yes. I make every man wait until I’m ready. It has nothing to do with attractiveness. Even if a woman had sex with a million men, if she decides to change her mind about future relationships, she’s entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:28 PM
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Both can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:00 PM
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Never had a guy worry about n count. With my current partner, we’ve never even felt the need to discuss that. We’re grown adults and I think most people mature out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:54 PM
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I prefer youthful looking men to older men. This might be reading too much into it but my friends who have no father or a bad relationship with their father tend to like older guys or dominant guys. I have a great relationship with my father but I prefer youthful looks and slightly submissive. I do wonder what the psychology is behind it. In terms of build, I like stocky men with broad shoulders. I tend to go for men who are between 5ft8 and 5ft10 because they are likely to have this build. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:08 PM
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Well that’s life. Things happen for some people and not for others. If it’s doom and gloom why do you even bother to talk about it? You’re just dripping with sarcasm and cynicism and it makes you look like a sulking teenager thinking that he’s smarter than the adults. You’re just ruining it for other men. My ex boyfriend is a winner in life when people like you are the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:35 PM
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This is true. I’m chill in real life but I like bullying the men in here because they’re so arrogant yet pitiful. I may be wrong, but I get the feeling that most of the women here are normal and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:11 AM
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I wasn’t aware you were talking casual sex. My advice helps with relationships but is limited with casual sex. I think guys will have to stop deluding themselves that women will suddenly desire ugly men for casual sex. The whole point is that it’s based on physicality. Is this what this whole sub is about? Being mad that they can’t get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:17 PM
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Well ONS are different. I thought we were talking about relationships. If a woman just wants to fuck, then wouldn’t she go for the hottest men? I agree that to get regular sex you have to be a hot guy. I don’t see how going for an unattractive guy for casual sex would benefit a woman Men call that beta bux but that’s just how it is. Casual sex is more shallow than romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:04 PM
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I’m not saying looks don’t matter but you can still get someone if you meet the criteria. Also social skills are important, My ex bf was 5ft8, balding, wore glasses and was korean (he told me Asians were seen as undesirable) Why did I date him? - he had classy pictures (no dirty bathroom selfies) - he was very charismatic - he smelled good and was well groomed - he dressed well - he took me on a nice, well thought out date in a sea of men who barely muster up Starbucks dates Basically he maximis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:49 PM
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Okay this conversation is unproductive because you’re coming to your own conclusions. Good luck sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:22 PM
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Do whatever you want. This is advice for guys who do actually want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:19 PM
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You might feel that way but that isn’t the truth. I’ve dated conventionally unattractive and shorter men. I can tell you that on the dating apps, most of this criteria is rarely met. Most men are sloppy looking with bad pictures. Well groomed men are a minority and will tend to have a high number of women after them. Men need to realise that it’s not about the top 20% of men, it’s about the middle section of men who are pushing the women to the top 20% because they look so awful. Again, most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:58 PM
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Nope. It doesn’t look right. I prefer a woman around my height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:54 PM
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I prefer 5ft5 and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:25 PM
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I would not date the men, most of them need psychiatric treatment. The women who aren’t “pick me” girls, most definitely. What’s wrong with the men on this sub? - victim mentality - they expect empathy but have none for others - obsessed with stats but refuse to acknowledge context (lack of critical thinking) - deluded - mean spirited/smug - just boring (same repeated posts) I joined this sub ready to have interesting convo but it’s just the same repeated posts and whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:11 PM
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Over 5ft 7 because I’m 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:08 PM
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I’ve found him several times over lol lots of IT guys in London with a decent wage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:07 PM
1

I get my eyebrows done at the nail salon. You could try threading or waxing for shaping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:06 PM
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I’m British, I prefer a guy who earns as much as me so £40000+
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:05 PM
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A guys job is very important to me. At this stage in my life, I wouldn’t date anyone with a low paying job. No matter how nice they are. I’ve done it before and it was terrible. I would pick the IT guy because I’m not a huge social butterfly myself, so I would prefer somebody who is also a homebody. I tend to date nerds anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:31 PM
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Ugly women usually stay in their lane, whilst ugly men always seem to be delusional about their predicament and not want to improve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:17 PM
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Yes. Dating app pictures: most men have TERRIBLE pictures. If more men put in effort with finding the right angles and avoiding top less bathroom selfies, their attractiveness will raise significantly. Weight: I’m not attracted to obese people but I think that women carry their weight better than men because we have curves to balance it out, whilst men just have big bellies. Again, not attracted to fat people but I think curvy/pudgy women are sexy too. Men can do something about their weight. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:13 PM
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I’m a bisexual woman. I find most men unattractive, even though in theory, I’m more attracted to men than women. Most women are average to good looking because they put in effort and attempt to be appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:27 PM
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They honestly think we care. Women are tired of red pill, black pill nonsense and are becoming even more numb to everything. The longer they exhibit this behaviour, more women will just get cats and focus on their career. Unlike them, the majority of us aren’t desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:21 AM
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I love when women are mean, it triggers men so much lol. Keep it up 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:24 AM
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Alabama?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:04 PM
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No, I think gold digging has always been shamed but casual sex is being pushed upon us by both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:03 AM
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This post is psychosis If we’re going to generalise, most men want sexual variety and most women want to be protected and provided for. Money counts as protection and provision. These both can be considered evolutionary traits. For some reason men think that their desires are more important and natural whilst feminine desires are unnatural and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:42 AM
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I need to move there. I would clean up. I’m not fat so that seems like a step up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:11 AM
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Where do live with body builder men???? Miami Beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:34 PM
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Yeah they say it but they don’t actually date that when it comes to it. It’s an ideal but everyday I see women dragging around a short, unattractive or poor guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:02 PM
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I have compassion for men who are judged because of race and ethnicity. That’s something you can’t control. So I’m sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:23 PM
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I agree with you and yes that’s pretty hurtful. It sucks. Have you asked women to honestly tell you what they think or their assumptions of Indian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:13 PM
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Why do you think south Asian men are doing so badly in the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:07 PM
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Don’t be logical. It’s illegal here. Self pity is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:06 PM
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Because I hate 2nd hand embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:02 PM
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Yes! I don’t date anyone shorter than 12 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:00 PM
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Lol good! Leave the dating game and be quiet. Jesus Christ! Did you have no shame typing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:52 PM
1

True! Most of the men on this sub are so dramatic and weak minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:31 PM
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Well they will probably end up alone. But I highly doubt that the people complaining have done enough to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:48 PM
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There are things they can do to improve. There are very few people that are ugly beyond saving but most make themselves look ugly. For example, when I was on dating apps, here’s what I saw: obese men men taking awful pictures from a downwards angle (you can see up their nose and double chin). pictures staring creepily/angrily into the camera without smiling -terrible hairstyles (E.G a mullet or bowl cut) that awful twirly moustache patchy beard/the neck beard terrible clothes These things can ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:33 PM
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They will blame everybody but themselves. The reality is that they are either ugly or socially awkward. For most of the guys in the sub, a lot of it is autism. I see it in the flairs under their names. The way they deconstruct attraction and relationships tells me a lot about how they come across to women. I’m not saying all autistic men are like this but this sub has shown me that there could be a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:21 PM
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I agree. They should look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:31 PM
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Yes we need an honest discussion about “average”. There’s ugly men out here calling themselves average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:29 PM
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Agreed. Dating is competitive and it seems like a sub section of men want to bend the rules of the competition (forcing women to lower their standards), rather than get better at competing. It really isn’t that hard. Most women today have terribly low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:56 PM
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I’m happy about that. We need more of them to peace out, though. It’s better if the dating scene is filled with people who actually want to be in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:49 PM
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Millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:48 PM
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Agreed. I think a certain sub section of men should stop dating altogether. If it’s so traumatic for them they should stay single and play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:06 AM
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True. Lots of whining in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:28 PM
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Exactly. I have no time for whining over paying for dates or making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:40 PM
3

Possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:52 PM
-3

I could, but nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:41 PM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:18 PM
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Persistent eye contact. If I don’t like a guy, I’m going to hold less eye contact unless we’re having a serious discussion. Body language. When I am approached and I don’t like the guy, I turn my body away from him, create distance, minimise eye contact, general closes body language. Extending the conversations. If a woman asks a lot of questions then it can be a sign of interest. One word answers are a sign that she wants the interaction to end. If you have positive body language, persistent ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:16 PM
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Hyuk hyuk hyuk 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:07 PM
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It does revolve around us. Thanks for noticing!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:07 PM
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We’re trembling in our boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:46 PM
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The Universe Guru, Anna Bey, The Pink Pill ( YouTube channel), Shera7 and I’ve seen a few Russian Ladies. Womansphere content is generally classier and doesn’t promote hatred. That’s a good and bad thing. We don’t really have someone who aggressively defends women. The closest we had is FDS but they’re a little immature and still in the angry phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:14 PM
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Because he’s says controversial things and he’s an outlet for young men who want to be entertained, plus enjoy the idea of women being humbled. People like Tate give them hope that they will gain some control over their lives when in reality most men will enjoy his content but will not be able to put his advice into action.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:45 PM
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Fund a study for it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:00 PM
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Yeah I’m going with what I and many other women experience rather than a study that people use to apply to different contexts and situations. Woman says that ugly nerdy men have treated her badly, must be the halo effect, it couldn’t possibly be true. In society we have a reverse halo effect, which insinuates that ugly, poor, disabled people are instantly good people and privileged people are bad people. But there isn’t a study for this, so it couldn’t possibly be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:59 AM
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They go into the same category as Hollywood celebrities. Chads are highly represented in Hollywood and sports but in average relationships, Chad is very rare. The average and below average guys are mostly the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:46 AM
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Thank you 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:23 PM
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But more men will do this to women when they realise women are opting out. I believe that women need to learn martial arts asap and arm themselves if they can but most women still have their rise tinted glasses on about the reality of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:07 PM
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It could have been fixed with humbleness, truth and repentance but men decided to go with hubris. I’m not saying that women have been blameless but men have been atrocious for centuries. They’ve had 40 years of push back and it’s all too much for them whilst women have survived hundreds of years of barbarism. men are less important than women on an evolutionary (perhaps biological) level. More women are needed to carry children and nurture a civilisation. Men are needed for sperm and to protect …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:04 PM
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Most of the time the hottest people date other hot people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:50 PM
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I’m an older millennial- I met my boyfriends at university, parties and bars. It was much better because you knew straight away if you had chemistry. The only good thing about apps is that the process is slower, so it’s easier to vet and red flags are easier to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:47 PM
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There are more hot women than men 10/10 man = 10/10 woman 9/10 man = 10/10 woman 8/10 man = 10/10 woman 7/10 man = 9/10woman 6/10 man = 8/10 woman 5/10 man = 7/10 woman And so on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:44 PM
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Most people would rather date 10/10 but for people who want to get married, they will have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:37 PM
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That’s what it will ultimately come to. If women opted out of relationships with men, men would refuse to be civil. They will pillage and r*pe and create terrible conditions for women and children until they’re forced to be with them for survival. We don’t need to be around men but men will make it a life or death situation. I would prefer to go extinct than to submit but most women would probably choose survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:35 PM
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Ugly guys get in all of the time. Most of my friends are with ugly guys! As a bisexual woman, there are way more attractive women than men. Attractive men know this so they are way more selective than attractive women. So attractive women end up with uglier men because 7/10+ men get 10/10 and 9/10 women. There’s a huge gap and then the 8/10 women end up with 6/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:31 PM
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Let me spell it out: PPD insinuate that ugly guys are good, Chad bad I say, In reality, ugly guys are worse than Chad you said Chad doesn’t abuse average+ women I said, look at Hollywood, most are above average and women are still cheated on and abused. In real life, even top tier women are cheated on by top tier men. Chad can be bad but ugly guy is worse. I personally haven’t had issues with Chad but he can be a problem in the upper echelons in society because he’s more prominent there. For the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:23 PM
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I also think there will be a rise of attacks on women. Some women are responding by being more traditional but you’re right when you say the cat’s out of the bag. I think going back to traditional relationships will fail. It’s going to be really interesting. I joined this sub to have intelligent conversations but it’s always about Chad, Beta Bux and Stacey’s. You can’t have an honest and good faith conversation here so I roll around with the pigs for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:12 PM
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This manophere stuff is fun for men now because they get to snipe at women but the effects will show in the next generation. Women will have even less empathy and the rose tinted glasses will have been removed. The thing is, if there is a true gender war and more people opt out, I believe women can survive without relationships. All we need is spent for a baby and most men wouldn’t resist a one night stand. We aren’t as desperate for sex and we have close connections with friends. I think men wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:00 PM
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You said Chads won’t treat good looking women badly… they do. Hollywood is an example. Even in the lives of regular people, Chads will also treat hot women badly. My main point is the ugly guys tend to be worse but Chads also treat their equals badly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:57 PM
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Yup. You’re still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:54 PM
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I would take this sub more seriously if their viewpoints were based on reality but they find one study and try to apply it to every situation. The bottom line is that Chad is a very small percentage of men, so most women who are hurt by men are not hurt by Chads, they are hurt by average to below average men. Do you think Billy Bob in Alabama, with two teeth to his name isn’t beating up on Susie May right as we speak? Or does he suddenly become Chad when he’s abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:53 PM
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Hardly any guy on this sub will admit to this because they want to believe that all Chads are bad. Yes some are bad and arrogant but the ugly guys are the wolves in sheep’s clothing. They tend to be self deprecating and “sweet” until they get comfortable. What I found is that because they hate themselves, they start to hate you and lose respect for you for picking them. They lash out because they dislike you for having low standards for picking them (even though they love you for it in the begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:49 PM
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Keep laughing 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:41 PM
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How many gorgeous women in Hollywood get cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:40 PM
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The myth that’s perpetuated in society that you should choose the ugly nice guy. He is hardly ever nice. In every movie growing up, that was the trope. The ugly guy gets the hot woman because he’s so nice. The Chad is always the bad, shallow guy. I mention that because movies and music does influence societal norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:38 PM
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Reality. Be honest with yourself and examine the state of men today. Who’s losing? Women have been stupid but the manosphere is opening their eyes. Women will begin to care less than they already do and less men will be picked. We are slowly growing into a society that isn’t prioritising children and marriage. Again, women can survive without marriage but men need it to civilise them. They will go crazy if women opt out in greater numbers. We have each other. You have nobody. Men are afraid of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:35 PM
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Your revenge fantasy is a myth. Even if women couldn’t get a man over 30, we are more likely to live a fulfilled life by ourselves. Men go crazy when they can’t get a woman and they tend to die earlier. We actually invest in our friendships and have people who care about us
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:27 PM
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Yes! Not all we’re pretty but all we’re better looking than their partners. Women date down in looks all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:25 PM
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The thing is… the only reason you’re able to sit online arguing with women is because there’s not enough wars going on. You need something useful to do. At the end of the day, you PPD guys are the ones complaining and losing in life. This is the only time you get to speak to women, I get it. This is fun for me because I’m actually desirable and I know I can sign up to an app tomorrow and find someone. This is it for you. You have to beg for attention and crumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:23 PM
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I don’t care about tired studies that you all try to apply to every situation. If I’ve seen ugly guys abuse women all of my life, you cannot convince me that every abuser is Chad. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:17 PM
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So if we investigated every instance of abuse, dead beat dads, cheating, it would mostly be Chads? It wouldn’t be the ugly middle aged guy cheating with his secretary? It wouldn’t be the short insecure boyfriend? Sorry, not my experience. All the awful guys who have hurt my family, friends etc have been unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:15 PM
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Nope. If I think about the worst boyfriend I ever had, it was an ugly guy. No other guy acted the way he did. I would say my top three worst experiences have been with the ugly guy. If I told you what happened you would agree but right now your trying to apply the halo effect to every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:11 PM
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If I think about the men I know who have been dead beat dads, beat their women etc none of them were Chads. They are mostly ugly and short. I bet if you investigated most male on female abuse cases, it wouldn’t be mostly Chads abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:09 PM
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What porno did you get this from? The Chads I’ve dated were educated and classy. The uggos were the ones who would try to get something for the bare minimum because they had no self respect. I had 5ft8, divorced uggo ask me if I considered doing only fans. No Chad has ever asked me some bullshit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:06 PM
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Nope. It wasn’t equal treatment. The ugly guys were literally worse. The halo effect exists but applying it to every single situation is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:01 PM
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I agree. Ugly men have always been the worse option for me. Horrible personalities. It’s not the halo effect, they were generally insecure pieces of shit. It’s about rooting for the under dog. Society pretends that ugly, poor, disabled etc are better people than privileged members of society. Under privileged people can sometimes be so bitter and mean. That’s what I find with ugly guys. They always tried to bring me down because they felt I was more attractive than them and could leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:59 PM
4

He didn’t want to hear this. He wanted to assume you only liked 6ft6 alpha, gigachads and to become passive aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:36 AM
1

strong jawline symmetrical face nice almond shaped eyes dark eyebrows and long lashes I prefer brown or hazel eyes full lips nice wide smile (dimples are a bonus) even, white teeth clean shaven (I don’t like beards) a nice balance of masculine and feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:32 AM
3

I decided to stop dating men a few months ago. Here are some of the reasons why: lack of intimacy and introspection obsession with sex (something that lasts a few minutes and is never fantastic) Black or a white thinking. I find that men try to categorise everything and leave little room for nuance and grey area. They are rarely tentative with their viewpoint - it’s either God definitely exists or you’re dumb if you believe in God. They feel uncomfortable leaving things open to interpretation. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:41 AM
1

I’m disagreeing that most women on OLD are low quality. I find the opposite. Most women are average to pretty - most are not single parents and most are not fat. Most of the guys I run into ARE ugly, not many fat and a lot of them also have kids. That’s just my experience. I don’t think cold approaching is a big thing anymore since dating apps are easier for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:53 PM
1

Nah I get bored if a guy acts like he’s not into me. I would end the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:47 PM
2

It makes a lot of sense. It’s effort and self awareness. It shows that they have none. Also a lack of class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:38 PM
9

Well if you can’t even be bothered to take a decent picture then it says a lot about you. Why would I waste time unpicking if you’re secretly a hottie (probably not): terrible selfies displaying double chin and dirty bedroom genuinely ugly men stupid bio (something sexual, negative or political) when you do finally find someone to match with, they are intensely boring, ask for your number when you’ve barely exchanged messages and basically talk themselves out of dates Women are way more flaky an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:10 PM
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I’m bisexual. It’s rare to see an attractive man on there who isn’t a catfish profile. Most men on there are undateable. I see way more pretty women who are in shape, with decent profiles. So I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:56 PM
1

My family know who I am. A kind hearted individual who has helped a lot of people. Some of my posts here could be perceived as mean but they understand my frustration- especially my dad who is disappointed with the current generation of men. So I wouldn’t lose anybody. I’m very liberal with my politics, apart from dating and gender relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:36 PM
0

I used to be attracted to potential and ambition but now it would be results. I’ve built a man up in my 20s and I would never want to do that in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:08 AM
5

I’m pickier in my 30s as I learned horrible lessons for not having higher standards in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:06 AM
2

Absolutely nothing if that’s what you want ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:33 AM
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I think it helps women who really struggled to maintain basic boundaries. I’m actually really happy that a space like that exists because other “female” spaces still pander to men. Men hate it because women are big meanies and aren’t fake nice and “balanced”. It’s a good place to be when you’re in the angry phase but I think it can be unrealistic for women who are average looking and working class. High quality men, especially in places like the U.K. take looks and class very seriously so you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:49 PM
2

Yeah guys like XQC are a representation of modern manhood. Just totally useless. I don’t care if he’s a millionaire- he’s a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:33 PM
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I don’t date ugly or mean men. I date attractive men who are kind 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:29 PM
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Apparently we get billionaire chads chasing us everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:07 PM
2

Exactly. A lot of these Instagram models pay a hefty price for their lifestyle. A hot guy does not have to get shat on by Arab sheikhs to pay for a BBL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:13 AM
1

Similar to what FDS advocate? 😲 that’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:09 AM
2

I can assure you that as an attractive woman, dating is still terrible, which is why I’ve opted out. I would rather die alone with ten cats eating my face than opt into this shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:08 AM
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This is all true. These dudes would never have the balls to say this stuff to people in real life. This sub is the only way for them to talk to women and they use that time to tell women off and accuse them of wanting Chad. Most women want attractive men who are nice. We don’t want ugly nice or “nice” guys. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:07 AM
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I don’t know what to say to these posts. You’re either desirable or not. If you get no interest on OLD or real life then there’s not much more you can do. It’s how the cookie crumbles. People on this app make it more complicated than it has to be. 1. Looks (height included) 2. Personality 3. Status/wealth You have to do really well in one area and okay in one other to get interest. E.G. average looks but great personality. In my experience, a lot of guys who are not good looking are also below a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:46 PM
3

Isn’t this human nature? Most people can’t face the harsh truth so they want to be lied to or something said in a nicer way. Most men struggle when I’m direct with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:40 AM
1

Okay this must be the most female attention you’ve ever got in your life so I’m ending it here. Good day sir 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:37 AM
1

After you were rude! Why am I explaining simple social behaviour to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:24 AM
1

I am not surprised you do nothing to do anything during the courting stage other than look pretty. As its more than not why you are still single. Try do more than the bare minimum maybe you get a guy to commit to you Not insulting at all. Definitely not having a dig and making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:20 PM
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If you think you haven’t said anything intended to be insulting, I have nothing more to say to you. You’re on a different planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:03 PM
1

Again, how does me not paying for the first few dates personally impact you? My boyfriends were happy with it - they obviously decided that whatever I was bringing to the table was worth investing in. You don’t know me so you can’t really insult me. I stand up for myself in this sub so it might come across as man hating 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:40 PM
1

Well for traditional relationships, the guy leads the household so it’s important for him to have a good job and a place to live. Women are drinking and on anti depressants because most are stuck in between two worlds - the traditional relationship and being independently successful. It’s a lot of stress to be the “boss babe” and be expected to be feminine wife material. We as western society have not decided which side of the fence we’re on. Admittedly, women are sending out mixed signals as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:33 PM
1

I shared my opinion and experience. You took it personally and tried to make it seem as if I’m Single because nobody wants me when in fact I just got out of a relationship. I don’t see the point of engaging further with that level with immaturity. My boyfriends have been happy with how things are so I don’t know what the problem is. What doesn’t work for you might work for someone else 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:08 AM
1

Okay. Well if you’re not having a conversation in good faith then I’ll end it. So ridiculous 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:52 AM
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I’m single by choice. That old gem won’t work work with me. I’ve been in a 12 year relationship, been proposed to and never been broken up with. What next? Are you going to say I’m fat? The last person I dated liked my femininity and the fact that he could take the lead. I prefer masculine men 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:28 AM
3

Omg… wingspan? I can’t with this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:30 PM
1

Show up. Look the best I’m ever going to look. Spend money and time looking presentable. Be good company. If that’s not enough for him then we are not compatible. It’s been fine with the guys I’ve dated since I was 17 years old. They knew how to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:37 PM
1

When you’re settled into a long term relationship. Then I will start paying for more stuff and I always end up doing all of the planning anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:21 AM
3

In the beginning of the relationship, yes. It is the courting stage of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:21 PM
6

Same. I stopped dating because of this. I know the worst of humanity is in here but I think that most men think like this on some level and now I’d rather be alone or try with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:32 PM
2

I hate jacked. I don’t swipe for them on dating apps. A nice toned body is good enough for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:18 PM
1

I dated a short bald guy. The only way that it’s going to be super difficult is if you’re 4ft11 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:16 PM
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I’m a woman so my opinion might not matter much but here goes: Get in the gym. A toned body and broad shoulders does wonders for attractiveness. Make sure your hygiene, fashion sense and hairstyle is on point. If you’re pedantic, cynical, passive aggressive, unconfident, judgemental, misogynistic and generally hard to be around, you’re not going to get anywhere. Women love men who are playful, fun to be around, confident, relaxed, open minded and good conversationalists. Of course people will sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:57 PM
2

They don’t realise that they’re acting like literal aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:52 PM
6

I hate when women do this! I get so annoyed - like leave him at home!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:35 PM
1

I prefer female heavy spaces - women are hotter and more fun. So no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:34 PM
1

Never heard this statement on this sub before 🙄 super original
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:26 PM
10

What the fuck is the alpha male gaze?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:21 PM
2

What is it with these dumb terms? You guys are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:38 AM
2

Possibly but I see more caring women. I’ve seen women in my family care for husbands/fathers who were cheaters, abusers and generally cruel to them in the past. I’ve never seen much self sacrifice from the males in the family. I have one good uncle who cared for his alcoholic wife and my father but all the other men were completely selfish. I bet if you asked 100 people to be honest, you would find more female relatives who are caring and self sacrificing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:34 AM
6

Same. I’ve been “loved” by men but I only trust my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:01 PM
6

I honestly don’t think many men care about women. Yes I’ve had boyfriends who “loved” me but I think there is always a huge selfishness about it: they love the affection, they love the sex, they love the attention, they love being looked after by women. Also, I’ve seen how men treat women that they’re not sexually interested in and it’s not good. I’m not really convinced that many men have the capacity to really care if there’s not an immediate benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:58 PM
2

I’ve experienced this mind fuck before. I’ve lowered my standards and dated less attractive and less successful guys in the past. This caused them to think less of me because I was dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:20 PM
2

Thank you for being decent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:09 AM
1

That’s true but the reality is that it doesn’t happen every time or no relationship would last more than a year. Bad stuff happens all the time and you have to end up depending on your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:44 AM
2

He was the type of person to say “that sounds like a you problem” to his colleagues. He proudly told me he said that and his friend confirmed it. He had deep issues but thought vulnerability was weak. He got dumped for not opening up and being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:42 AM
1

But I find that anecdotes are fine when the manosphere uses them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:24 PM
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Exactly and I think men are better at sticking their heads in the sand when it’s not working. I doubt that there’s many men who received divorced papers without years of nagging and begging to save the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:38 PM
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No I never have been put off after he opened up. I never knew this was so common. The only thing that ended the relationship was poor behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:16 PM
1

What nail video?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:33 PM
2

That is very strange. The issue is that every guy has some kind of trauma. Nearly every person has had horrible experiences. So there are many other instances where guys have opened up and their partner stayed. Though my friends never shared the intimate details… they would say something like “he had a difficult upbringing” to explain his behaviour so I don’t buy the theory that if you open up to any girl, you’re immediately dumped. I’ve had men distance themselves when I opened up but I never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:32 PM
2

Yes. He wasn’t usually violent but that’s what he did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:21 PM
4

What did you say? What was the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:21 PM
2

I think it’s fine to only share with your therapist - at least you’re dealing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:41 PM
3

So you see them immediately start swiping on Tindr as soon as their husband gets taken in? None of these ladies stay with their husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:34 PM
3

I would guess that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:31 PM
2

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm I don’t like linking studies because I think it’s lame and studies never tell the entire story but you fellas seem to love studies. However, I’ve seen this so frequently in my life. Female relatives have always been in caregiving roles when the man gets sick or injured. I don’t know anybody who left for their own happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:26 PM
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Then how come women are more likely to stay when their partners have traumatic injuries and men are more likely to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:00 PM
2

I’ve had that happen to me. He cried and punched a wall. Left a hole in my rented flat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:59 PM
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That’s a good answer. Anybody is going to run if you trauma dump in the beginning. If you build a relationship and show that you’re not a psycho, then you will be given more leeway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:58 PM
3

How do you know that most women are disgusted by vulnerability? Don’t you think married men have cried in front of their wives? Have they been dumped every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:54 PM
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I’m not going to share details but it was quite bad. His insecurity was about not being good enough. I was more attractive and educated than him and he would actively try to destroy my confidence whilst I was trying to boost his. I was empathetic about his problems and made excuses for him but then I came to my senses and dipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:52 PM
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Okay don’t do it then 🤷‍♀️ if you don’t understand boundaries then I don’t know what to say. That usually applies to both genders. If I started opening up and crying on the first date then chances are I wouldn’t get a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:22 PM
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Every guy I’ve dated had a story and I saw them all cry. I’ve only dated one guy who wasn’t vulnerable at all and we broke up pretty quickly because he was like a robot. He was the most financially successful guy out of all my exes and took me on the best dates but no emotional connection at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:53 PM
1

Yes. This happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:48 PM
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The guys on here will think you’re delusional and lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:47 PM
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It depends how you do it. Don’t do it on the first date. Wait until you’re in a relationship. It’s okay to vent but if you’re frequently dumping your insecurities on her then she will lose attraction. Women want a strong problem solver (but not a robot with no feelings). I’ve never dumped a guy for revealing his weaknesses but I’ve dumped guys for their actions that are a result of their weaknesses: jealousy, defensiveness, negging etc If a guy was open about his weaknesses and actually wanted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:46 PM
1

It’s not about “truth telling” - a lot of it is recruiting young men who have the option to be better with positive guidance but sink into the hole of despair through radicalisation. Some of it encourages violence towards women - I’ve been threatened on this app. It’s so easy for an average person to slip into destructive thinking under the guise of “truth telling”. The manosphere produces defensive, bitter, narcissistic and combative men. This is not useful to building a harmonious society. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:41 AM
1

Fair enough. The problem is the manosphere are poisoning the well with their toxicity. It impacting the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:24 AM
1

I think the world could improve if men were honest about their existential dread and didn’t project through blame, oppression and rage. This comes off as an honest post but there’s a hint of defensiveness and woe is me about it. It’s not acceptance. The abortion saga is about White male existential fear - not enough White babies are being born so let’s reduce abortions. I think women will feel more empathy if there was genuine discussion about gender roles but most of it is blame and hubris. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:16 AM
1

I don’t believe that this is why wars are started but I do believe that men are less important than women on an evolutionary (perhaps biological) level. More women are needed to carry children and nurture a civilisation. Men are needed for sperm and to protect the civilisation from other men. It’s an important role too but longevity is not important. So, in theory, it’s not important for men to live long and happy lives. If women are unhappy, the children are unhappy and the next generation is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:59 AM
5

I’m saying that people tend to express the negative elements of masculinity because that’s what’s marketed to us as being a powerful archetype. I’m not saying all lesbians are like this but I have seen this in the media and in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:52 PM
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At the risk of generalising. In a lot of lesbian relationships, one partner often emulates the male. I’ve seen the “stud” take on lots of negative male stereotypes - physical abuse, cheating, cockiness and intimidation. I’ve seen that with my own eyes. I do wonder if that plays a part. In same sex male relationships, I feel as if the men tend to feminize themselves, even if one partner is more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:32 PM
2

I’m from the U.K. and average height for men is 5ft9 - I would have thought it would be taller in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:18 PM
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I prefer a guy to be my height but of course, all preferences fly out of the window if you have an amazing connection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:16 PM
0

Woman bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:43 PM
0

What’s your definition of short? I generally wouldn’t date under 5ft7 because I’m 5ft7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:41 PM
2

It’s not that height, looks and money doesn’t matter, it’s just that it’s not the most important thing for most women. In everyday life, unattractive men with pot bellies are with partners. I’ve been on dates with typical Chads and not pursued it because our personalities didn’t mesh. I’ve been on dates with unattractive guys and dated them because their personality outweighed their looks. I don’t understand it when men insist that Chad has harems of women. All of my friends are with average to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:38 PM
3

Yes ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:31 PM
13

You don’t need to link me pictures of yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:59 PM
10

They rarely critique data (who did it? What was the context? What was the sample size? Did the method correlate to the interpretation of the data? Is there any contrasting data?) Data is usually cherry picked to fit into their world view. They don’t always read the data properly and apply it to totally different contexts. They mix and match the data They attach their own theories to quantitive data and rarely consider context Numbers do not tell the whole story. I think these types of men (some …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:50 PM
49

The men on here are plain weird and have no concept of nuance. If they represent the average, then the human race has issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:00 PM
3

It’s wrong but I’m sure a lot of people here would think it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:36 PM
6

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:20 PM
8

In all honesty, nobody wants to be spoken to by ugly and socially awkward people when you’ve got things to do and places to be. It is similar to those charity people who harass you in the street. I do not want to be cold approached at all. If it was a super gorgeous guy, I would rather he just hand me a business card with his number then waste his time trying to pick me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:16 PM
3

No. It’s always from ugly people with BO. I would rather select the guys I’m going to talk to through OLD or appropriate social venues (parties).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:12 PM
3

No he didn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:56 PM
4

I was basically a kid… he was the grown adult… if I was 29 and dated an 18 year old then I would be the creepy one but everything is the woman’s fault I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:34 PM
4

When I was 18, I dated a 29 year old which was creepy of him now I look back at it. After I matured, I dated men in my own age group. I rarely see young women date older men once out of teenage hood. I’m in my 30s and wouldn’t date a guy over 42 unless he looked amazing for his age. I tend to attract men in their 20s because I look quite young for my age but I would not go lower than 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:40 PM
1

Well don’t reply to my comments then. Everything I said is true and If you don’t believe it then don’t respond. You can’t make up random rules. No wonder you guys are sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:06 PM
1

Do you not know how the internet works? Nobody in this sub can prove that their anecdotes are real. In order to have a conversation, you have to assume what they say is correct because you wouldn’t be able to even have a conversation. If somebody writes ”I’m a 33 year old man…” and people jump on him because he can’t prove he’s a man then what would be the point of Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:52 PM
1

Then it’s pointless to comment if you can’t prove anything… I know my life and I know how men respond to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:45 PM
1

Believe what you want. There’s not proof of anything said here. If you think I’m lying then there’s no reason to talk to me 👍 you asked and I told you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:31 PM
1

I’ve been called beautiful since I was 16 years old and walked in beauty pageants but I’m sure redditors will insist I’m average and on the same level as a fat gamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:29 PM
2

Then what is the problem with what I’m Saying? I’m attractive and I only want to date attractive and wealthy men because the ugly and poor ones are not worth the hassle, in my experience. I’m not whining that Chad doesn’t want me. Why is it okay when men whine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:59 PM
5

And they should stop whining too….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:56 PM
0

Nope.I never had any of those problems with average or attractive men. You can try to spin it with any theory that you want but that was my experience. Insecurity breeds resentment. The more attractive and wealthy guys just did not have that level of insecurity. They were more laid back and didn’t try to drag you down. In fact, they made me want to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:48 PM
6

Again, it’s the men who are whining on this sub….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:46 PM
8

I’m not unhappy. It’s the guys on purple pill debate who are whining about girls liking attractive guys….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:35 PM
2

I’m actually a well loved person but I’m not here for purple pill bs. I’m not sugar coating. It’s okay when men say all of this crap about women in this sub but when a woman is direct it’s a problem. I’ve also had somebody threaten me on this thread. But somehow what I said is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:13 PM
2

We’ve had enough. Years of misogyny and being blamed reduced our empathy. Everything red pill, Black Pill etc are doing online is chipping away at any empathy women had. You’re doing it to yourselves by being unbearable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:01 PM
5

They need to go into therapy and become better partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:53 PM
7

Nope they are always sweet in the beginning but as soon as you give them a chance, the insecurity creeps in. They can’t help themselves. They are much more nasty and venomous than the average guy. Have you dated an ugly, no status guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:41 PM
2

Nah, they were shit bags. Ugly and poor men make terrible partners because they’re aware that they have no business with attractive women and try to bring your value down so you don’t leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:34 PM
4

Yup it’s always women’s fault. Choose Chad it’s your fault. Choose the ugly poor guy it’s your fault. Don’t choose the ugly poor guy, women’s standards are too high and most men can’t get sex. Boo hooo! Sorry, I would never choose any one ugly or poor again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:32 PM
10

Worse than good looking men. They usually have an insecurity and try to cut you down to size. Good looking guys have been chill. It’s never gone well with unattractive guys so I learned to stay away from them. Especially gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:53 PM
6

Men don’t get this! Ugly men treat women much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:32 PM
1

I prefer the purpose driven man with a tiny bit of materialism. I’ve only dated purpose driven men tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:12 AM
1

They’re trying to force women into a box where they pick the nerdy, ugly or short guy. But in real life, those guys are just as bad as Chad but uglier, poorer and more insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:46 AM
1

These nonsense “would you rather” questions. It always some combination of the hot but terrible Chad or the amazing nice guy nerd. Life doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:43 PM
1

🙄 these scenarios are so basic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:39 PM
2

Because they ARE hideous swamp trolls but the average for men is so LOW
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:29 PM
6

This is too much weirdo for the weirdos to handle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:20 PM
16

They don’t realise how weird they are. Before joining this sub, I didn’t know people like this actually existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:18 PM
2

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:42 PM
1

I don’t have to. It’s up to you if you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:39 PM
-1

Nope, women definitely pander to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:54 PM
1

I think most women are going to pander to men but even if a small group of women became more self serving and limited sexual, reproductive and emotional access, it would be progress. Unfortunately we have a culture that tells us that women desperately need to be chosen by men otherwise life isn’t worth living. If we could change that ideology, then women could make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:37 PM
3

I think raw physical attraction works the same for both genders. However, I think longer term attraction requires more emotional connection for women. I could have instant physical attraction with a hot model but if he’s got a terrible personality or I can’t connect with him, I would dump him. Of course, some men feel the same but I think men are more likely to value physical attraction and hang on to the relationship, even if it’s not working - just because by the woman is hot. This is just bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:52 AM
3

That’s how she would feel about it. I’m not saying that’s always the situation but she would feel that the friendship wasn’t real…. And judging by the comments on this post, she wouldn’t be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:37 AM
2

Sorry, accidentally deleted comment. Regardless of whether the guy knew about his feelings, it’s still normal for the girl to be angry or disappointed if they were friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:19 AM
11

I love it. Their hypocrisy and whining is out there and plain to see. I pray more women wake up and realise that there are no prince charmings. I used to be triggered when I was blind to how men really think but lurking on these subs has made me less of a “nice girl” and less empathetic, I guess. I’m definitely more self serving in interactions with men, when before I used to feel bad and go along with what they want, just to be “nice”. Telling men about misogyny is like complaining to racists a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:16 AM
1

If you started out as dates then I think it’s appropriate to end contact. If you started out as friends, confess your attraction and then reject her friendship then she has the right to be annoyed because it could come across as being a fake friend and just waiting for a romantic opportunity. Women want to be seen as human beings. I know this will trigger some of you but we don’t consistently want to be seen as sex objects. For this reason, I only men as acquaintances, not friends, because it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:05 AM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:56 AM
23

It’s a mental deficiency. The people in this sub lack empathy and they also find it impossible to understand nuance. They quote statistics that they read online and expect everybody to fall neatly into a box. If you don’t fit into the box then you’re delusional or dishonest. Their brain literally explodes. You are completely right about men wanting to be desired. This accounts for a lot of the rage that you see online. They’re mad that women desire Chad. Everybody wants to feel desired but nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:48 PM
2

I don’t think I’m old. Men on this sub think you’re ancient once you’re over 25. I preempted any attacks on my age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:12 PM
9

I’m single but not looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:20 PM
3

Women are supposed to do hypergamy right? They’re supposed to date up. If they also get left alone… then that’s life. If there’s not enough men, then they will just be single and childless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:32 PM
5

I’m single because I chose to be. I’m pretty and feminine. I was chosen and I have been the one to end my relationships. I picked for PeRsOnAlItY like most women are guilted into. Personality was the wrong choice but I don’t want Chad either. Like I said, I’ve been proposed to and I could find a Chad on a dating app right now. Most women are desperate to settle down because they never had a good father in their life or they’ve never been loved. I have friends like that. I have been loved and I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:10 AM
5

You’ve just responded to my comment with assumptions. In regards to overestimating myself, I’m going by how people perceive me. I’ve been called gorgeous since I was 16 years old, walked in beauty pageants and I constantly had interest from both ugly and hot men. If that’s average, well I don’t know what to tell you. You will accuse every woman of over estimating her looks, just to suit your narrative. That’s a common theme on this sub - every woman is overestimating. Everything a woman says tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:42 AM
7

Feminism never tricked me. I was anti feminism in my 20s and believed that being pretty was enough. I used to make fun of feminists all the time but then I lived and learned about men. Society taught me that good looking men were bad and that ugly men were good - most cartoons, sitcoms and TV shows were built around the premise of the hot girl falling for the fat, ugly and socially inept guy. It was NEVER the other way round. It was even present in the music. I switch on MTV and I see a fat, ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:53 AM
16

This is the horrible truth… because otherwise men would be a burden if they didn’t pay the bills. Men generally do less housework, less childcare and put less into the relationship. Im sure you’ll deny this but it’s true. I’m struggling to see what else they can bring to the table besides income. Then they get fat, bald and stubborn. Women get fat but at least they have babies and menopause. Men just drink too much beer. None of this is attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:23 AM
3

I feel you on this 100 per cent. Men on here try to frame single women as lonely and desperate. It’s the only card that they have to pull but when the next generation of women prove that you can be single and happy - they won’t have their revenge fantasy to cling to. Most married women end up alone anyway because the husband usually dies before the wife! I’m just hoping that more and more women decide to be alone if they can’t find what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:19 AM
4

It showed me how unhinged some men are. It’s helped me put my guard up a bit more and it made me want to be alone with cats. Not in a sad way but in a liberating way. I’ve always wanted to be single and I finally feel okay about going ahead with it because gender relations are too messy atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:53 PM
2

I’ve dated men who look nothing alike but if I think about my ideal man… Face: he would have a more feminine face but strong jawline. I like prominent eyebrows, plump lips and dimples. Obviously straight, White teeth in a perfect world. I prefer brown or hazel eyes that are intense, framed by long lashes. Hair: I like longish hair on men. I have a preference for dark, curly or wavy hair. I’m generally not into blondes but I have been attracted to a couple of them. Body: I like toned men but I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:40 AM
1

When I was working full time as a teacher, my own bf didn’t get a text back. I get what you’re saying but sometimes you’re just too busy and exhausted to carry a conversation. I had to learn that myself - that other peoples lives do not revolve around me. People are busy and mentally tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:04 AM
1

I only be know about my own life but I dated “nice” guys who pretended to be nice and changed later on or actual good guys and it just didn’t work out. I’ve never sought out a bad boy. So that myth has always baffled me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:52 AM
1

I agree 100% I prefer being around women and only seek male partners because I’m physically attracted to the male gender and societal pressure. If other women weren’t desperate to be chosen by men, I could be happy with a small circle of female friends - I wouldn’t have felt the need to be in a relationship. But a lot of my romantic interactions with men were because it would have been lonely otherwise, as my female friends get lost in their relationships and neglect their friendships. Now I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:47 AM
3

I didn’t say anything about the stats. I just said that unfaithfulness is a concern. I’m in control of myself, not anybody else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:35 AM
3

I don’t fully disagree with this take. I wish men would just be honest and cut the “I love women” nonsense. They love having sex with women and that’s about it (for most). Straight Men find anything feminine to be inferior and annoying. Most women are blind to this and live in fairy tale land.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:04 PM
11

I would if I felt men were worth the risk but it just isn’t for me. I don’t find many of them attractive, I’m turned off by their desperation for sex and then you have the threat of unfaithfulness and abuse. Personally, I would rather die alone than “step up”. Step up for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:20 PM
5

I would never date a whiny loser from this sub. Most of them seem mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:07 PM
4

I don’t enjoy it much anymore. As I get older, I can’t be bothered to leave the house. I prefer to hangout with friends. I’m single now because I have no incentive to date. It’s a bit tedious. I also know what most men are going to say before they say it and the whole thing became a giant eye roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:40 PM
2

Of course common sense should prevail - don’t get drunk with strangers etc. But if we put all the onus on the victims then we will become a (or remain) a backwards society where perpetrators aren’t held accountable and SA victims will be blamed. I think we should teach personal responsibility because we can’t deter all of the bad guys but if the crime is committed then all accountability is on the criminal. It’s not that difficult. If a man is drunk and out of it on a train, it’s not acceptable …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:00 PM
1

Okay dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:13 PM
1

I’ve spent enough time on this sub thank you very much and I’m well aware of the differences between men and women. I also have life experience. I’m not a 22 year old speaking on things I don’t know about. I choose not to obsess about body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:40 PM
0

I don’t sit there discussing how many girls he slept with and if he used them as sex objects - would he admit that anyway? I expect most men in their 30s to have a sexual past and I’m not interested as long as they have had a recent STD test.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:16 PM
3

Who the heck is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:12 PM
3

Their daddy died. They’re in mourning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:14 PM
1

Money didn’t mean anything to me when I was in my 20s but it definitely does in my 30s. I would never date a broke man ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:12 PM
8

Absolute weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:12 PM
-4

I’m 35 years old. I don’t care about body counts. It doesn’t even come up on discussion? I think you guys need to grow up. I joined this sub to be part of intelligent conversations (stupid me) and it’s a load of nonsense that only teenagers care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:47 AM
5

Exactly. I want to see more women like this who debunk the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:53 AM
5

A cat has more value to me than a husband… I’m educated and have my own career 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:41 AM
5

That’s so awkward! He should be embarrassed.I also lose respect for my friend when he mentioned dating a much younger woman to trap and trick her. Yeah I think most of these men are living in revenge fantasy. If I die alone, I don’t give a shit. I only care about what happens when I’m alive… and whilst I’m alive, I don’t want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:40 AM
3

I’m not being mean in any way but I generally think that most of the people who post here are neurodivrgent. They’re obsessed with reading statistics and when the world doesn’t reflect the statistic, they become angry and confused. There is absolutely no nuance with these guys and they don’t critically question studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:30 AM
1

Ummm… I think most would prefer option 1? I’m impressed with a moderate amount of self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:26 AM
6

Exactly. I’m 35, very attractive (men’s opinion), but often mistaken for early 20s. I’ve had men who wanted to marry me and long term relationships but I didn’t want to get married or have kids. I was told that I would change but I still haven’t - I love my solitude. So when men on here tell me that I hit the wall and I’ll be alone with cats, I laugh. That’s my fantasy. They assume that all women are desperate but there are women like me who are considered attractive but still prefer to be alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:10 AM
10

What doesn’t make sense? This is social media. Most of the men on here write socially awkward posts that would be laughed at elsewhere. They seem to have no perception of how they come across to other people, which would explain most of their dating woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:49 AM
16

I agree with this. That’s why men resort to empty threats, such as hitting the wall and being alone with cats. I think women are finally reaching the stage where being alone with cats is a much better option than marriage. That threat is finally losing its power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:15 AM
17

This sub surprises me every time with the level of social awkwardness, entitlement and insanity. It’s insane to think that these people type these posts out, read through them and still think it’s okay to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:06 AM
10

Don’t get married then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:15 AM
2

It’s not diarrhea… it’s that the chips will kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:27 AM
2

Okay, my experience is different but I’ll take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:24 AM
2

It’s difficult for me to say. My instinct is to say men are more terrible because they abuse and leave their families more often but who knows? I’ll take your word for it. The only thing I’ll say is that I’m bisexual and men who love me, are more afraid of men hurting me than women. If I’m out in a date with a man then they are more concerned with my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:00 AM
5

I agree with you. Little boys are told “boys will be boys” and excuses are made for them when they are young. I’ve worked in schools and boys get away with so much. In my experience, girls are expected to be born moral and mature. No such excuses are made. It’s outrageous when a girl acts out. I feel that little boys receive a lot more empathy from society than girls. Girls are blamed when they do bad things and when bad things happen to them but with boys, it’s said to be just in their nature a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:54 AM
13

I tried to explain this to my guy friend. He thinks he has it worse on OLD because he gets very little matches. We did a swap where I used his profile and he used mine. I got more matches and he was like “ha! See” but he didn’t care about the quality of matches. He didn’t care that 90% of those matches were men who only wanted sex and the other 10% were downright hideous and had terrible profiles. They were undateable. He didn’t understand that as men and women, we had different goals. He was da…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:05 AM
1

Wouldn’t date anyone on this side of social media. I prefer men who rarely use social media anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:38 PM
8

I agree. I avoid men who discuss politics in great depth and who are obsessed with a particular party
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:39 PM
13

I would never knowingly date a red pill guy. I would find out his beliefs and peace out if he subscribed to that way of thinking. I’m not spending time weeding out the specifics of what part of red pill they believe and what they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:36 PM
1

I think she’s okay too. Though a lot of her ideas are from other people but she presents them in a digestible way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:11 PM
1

Nope I haven’t heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:08 PM
1

She is. She deleted most of her work online because she faced a lot of hate, mostly from women. If she went mainstream, she would have been famous - she was an excellent orator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:52 PM
6

Yes, I listen to a fantastic older woman who stresses female accountability and the truth about men (no fairy princess fantasies). I won’t name her but she changed my perspective on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:19 PM
1

I disagree. When a man shows that he is thoughtful and has some intelligence, I would hold him in a higher regard. Somehow defending women has become simping, when usually it’s just being a moral person but I think it’s maturity. The whole simp name calling smacks of “ooooh you were nice to girls and they got cooties”. It’s very juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:32 AM
12

About Kevin….The faux moral stance men are taking over this is quite amusing. Men will say all kinds of shit but clutch their pearls when women are being big meanies. If someone is degrading to your gender, race, religion etc, I think it’s okay to be happy that they’re not longer here to spew nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:26 AM
11

It was a mean spirited Jerry Springer show. You can explain it away all you want but that’s what it was and that’s why people watched. That’s also why people post in this sub.. an opportunity to dig at women and tell them off. I see it and I see all of you, no matter which way you twist it. I believe that the energy you give out will come back tenfold. In the next 10 years, the men who are raging and watching these things with glee will reap what they sow. The world WILL change as a result of KS…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:41 AM
18

I’m not celebrating but I’m not upset that he’s dead. People are being disingenuous by saying, “he’s only helping and telling women to date within their league”. No. It was mean spirited and the men who watched with glee, just wanted to put women in their place. His intentions and delivery was poor. He always threatened that women were going to die unmarried and alone. Welp…. That was his fate…. I think he got exactly what he put out. If an FDS woman got famous for shitting on men, I’m pretty su…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:21 AM
1

I have and would date a bisexual man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:15 AM
7

I feel this 100%. I get annoyed when I’m approached by men but I’m flattered when it’s women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:12 PM
7

I don’t want to be cold approached at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:10 PM
4

In my 20s, I was constantly hit on and it was actually traumatic. I have PTSD from it because when I’m on public transport, whenever I see young men walking towards me, I immediately think he’s going to come and sit next to me and make me feel uncomfortable like I felt in my 20s. They would get verbally abusive if I didn’t tell them my name or give out my number. They were almost always undesirable. I feel relieved to be more invisible now. In my 30s, I don’t get hit on as much for the following…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:03 PM
6

Jason Mamoa - not for his looks because I like pretty boys, not cavemen types but in his interviews, he comes off as very kind, sunny personality and playful. I also like Bruno Mars for this reason and he’s SHORT 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:53 PM
3

Yep. The people in this sub look at your comment history and use anything they can find to attack if they don’t like what you’re saying. I would never come to this sub expecting real advice and empathy. I’m just here for the ridiculous posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:46 PM
1

I don’t care if he’s top 20% - he could be lying. Who knows? His communication style comes off as normal, compared to other men in this sub. He sounds like a guy who actually gets girlfriends. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:46 AM
3

OP, I think you’re too normal and socially intelligent for this sub. Leave while you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:53 PM
6

I don’t take it seriously at all. There is no debate on this sub - it’s just autistic venting from undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:35 AM
1

All my boyfriends were less attractive than I was. It’s very unbalanced in terms of attractiveness - I’m bisexual and there are more attractive women than men. So pretty women usually end up with men less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:02 PM
0

I’m a woman and I mostly agree. I think women could survive being alone more than men can but we’ve been socialised to be desperate and scared to be alone with cats. I would rather have 25 cats than be desperate, with an annoying husband and screaming kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:04 PM
14

I don’t think this is directly related to beta males improving themselves. Have you seen how women treat former fat women who lose weight? Women initially discourage self improvement because we rely heavily on group dynamics and set roles within the group. If the fat girl becomes thin, then everything in the group changes. It is a fair observation but I think you’ve incorrectly applied it to alpha/beta ideology. Women do this the most to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:37 PM
3

Autistic rant can describe 90% of the posts on here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:31 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:05 PM
1

Yes… I’m on my 10th wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:36 AM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:56 PM
-1

I’m lucky that my dates have looked better in person and they say I do as well. I’ve never been catfished
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:53 PM
1

Lucky you 🙂 but a lot of guys at work are. Women become fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:59 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:21 PM
1

Okay. That’s your interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:04 PM
1

Loser is a mindset. For me it’s men who are “victims”, petty, nitpicky, overly fearful, lazy, bitchy and spend their time competing with women. Men who have this mindset tend to struggle with holding down successful careers, maintaining relationships with women and being a useful person to society. You see a lot of them online now because social media has given them a voice - before they were hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:01 PM
2

I go on subs that I don’t necessarily believe in - like this one. I like some of the conversations even if I’m not a feminist. I don’t need an echo chamber. I think most feminists would disagree with me on most of the stuff I believe in. Anyway, I’m getting the feeling that you’re looking for ammunition to attack me with because you don’t like my comments and I don’t do personal attacks here, so I will end it here 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:32 PM
1

Okay 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:30 PM
0

Yes If it impacts me because it’s not what I want because of the reasons behind it: 1) he can afford to take out multiple women if all the dates are coffee dates - lower investment. 2) I don’t go to coffee houses or drink coffee, so why would I go on a date? 3) the fear that women are using them for free meals. It’s immature and unattractive. The men I date aren’t fearful and they’re more selective about who they take out. Like I said, everyone should do what works for them. I just hate those wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:29 PM
1

Do I represent feminists? I don’t think I’m a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:25 PM
2

Oh no 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:17 PM
2

In terms of looks, men in their mid 20s are most attractive. As a woman, I’m attracted to resources and maturity, so early 30s is ideal for me. After that, men become fat and balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:07 PM
0

I’m on board with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:57 PM
0

It depends on your perspective. I would say traditionally , courtship is more enjoyable for women but marriage has been mostly terrible for women throughout history. Even modern marriage looks horrendous. I’m not saying it’s great for men but I feel women sacrifice a lot after marriage and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:57 PM
15

I say do what is successful you. I’m a woman and I wouldn’t date a man who doesn’t pay for the first date but those are MY standards. Men who don’t want to pay are not obligated to date me and I’m not obligated to date them. We’re in different realms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:47 PM
2

Child free and single. Everything else is a damn mess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:07 AM
5

An intelligent comment. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:03 PM
8

Yeah they both weren’t bad people and would probably describe themselves as nice guys lol but they come from a background where it’s normal to have a bunch of kids out of wedlock. Again, these guys were not bad boys, one was a 5ft7, slightly overweight blue collar worker and the other was a 5ft10 service worker (extra info for the incels). One of them even went as far as to say that he never sees his son anyway so it won’t be a problem. I blocked him straight away. This was an example of me dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:53 AM
33

No, I’ve rejected two single fathers who tried to hide the fact that they were fathers because they knew I didn’t want a man with kids 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:18 AM
1

This is true but not what the people in this sub want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:38 AM
3

Preach. Those nerds suck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:04 PM
2

A skateboard and a backwards baseball cap makes me froth at the crotch… so baaaaad But seriously, I want to know what a bad boy is because apparently, every woman wants one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:00 PM
4

Have you done the math girls? Hmmmmm????? These posts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:11 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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