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Change your attitude. It comes of very self defeating and negative right now. Stop saying "I can't". The way you think is going to determine how you act and how successful you are. You can approach, you just choose not to because you're scared. Act in spite of your fear and accept that you will suck for the first 25 - 50 approaches, just focus on improving with each one. No one got good at something overnight, everything takes time and reps -- put in that work and don't bitch about it. Accept re…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:39 PM
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Truth. This is exactly where I went wrong with this little diva I met last week. My frame was strong the first night together, not so much this weekend. Giving her a timeout would have definitely salvaged the situation. Shit tests are still a huge sticking point for me.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:49 PM
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That's up to you to decide. I personally think women are fun and I enjoy their company.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 10:47 PM
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I always set a definite place and time. 99% of the time the girl will confirm or cancel on the day of. If you don't hear from her, just show up as if the date is still on.
/r/seduction01/05/15 05:46 PM
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You want her to do most of the talking. Listen, smile, and let your eyes dance with hers. You don't need to force the flirting with her. Just enjoy the moment, keep it light, chill, and positive. Good job on not setting future plans, but do her up next week for date 2.
/r/seduction20/03/15 10:48 PM
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Don't waste your time.
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:10 AM
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It works for some people, it hasn't for me. I actually scrapped my online profiles (okcupid, never tried tinder). I've had more success by focusing on meeting and asking girls out in real life.
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:49 PM
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Set a date and pull, pull, pull. That's how I reel in the big fish.
/r/seduction12/01/15 12:32 AM
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It's a club, don't sweat it. Last time I went I got rejected 10 times, all it did was made me stronger and more sure of myself. You took action, that's all that matters. Keep going champ, your efforts will pay off in no time.
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:37 PM
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Great chart haha.
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:23 PM
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Straight up, manning up is the real key to attracting women. Read a book, set some goals, and pursue some passions. Handle your shit guys. Great post! You were a bit harsh on the short/ugly/fat guys though. To the guys in this thread worried about it, those things only limit you with girls that aren't attracted to those qualities. In the same way that a blonde guy is out of luck with a girl that finds blonde hair unattractive. Luckily, there's an infinite amount of women in this world with an in…
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:18 AM
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You're giving me a raging broner here. Self-control is one of the most attractive traits in a man. This is how it's done boys.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:06 AM
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I'm in college and I put all the girls I'm dating on a text diet. It's a real change of pace for a girl when a guy makes an effort to interact with her directly instead of blowing up her phone with text and social media.
/r/seduction26/12/14 04:30 AM
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To avoid one-itis keep your emotional investment in a girl at manageable levels. This keeps you objective and doesn't let your emotions cloud your judgement. Focus more on how the girl feels about you (by reading her actions) and less on how much you like her.
/r/seduction08/11/14 03:53 AM
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Don't worry, you're doing it right. Just because someone believes they're having a "steamy text conversation" doesn't mean the person on the other end feels the same. Dude has nothing unless the girl is physically with him.
/r/seduction08/11/14 03:48 AM
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Nothing reeks of desperation than a guy that's constantly texting a girl. If you ask her to hang out and she can't without throwing out a counter offer then your wasting your time. She's not interested enough in you to be a legitimate pursuit.
/r/seduction08/11/14 03:31 AM
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I've been there. You gotta realize that you don't derive your value as a man from how many chicks you bang or how hot your girlfriend is. Meet someone you like and likes you back. What your friends and family think about your relationship should be a non-factor.
/r/seduction23/09/14 01:40 PM
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I would have pulled back and smiled. No need for a witty comeback. If she's not feeling it, then she's not feeling it. She doesn't owe you anything even if you danced for most of the night. She probably just wanted to dance and flirt a bit, which is fine too. If that's not your thing you could have thanked her for a nice time and gamed other birds.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:34 PM
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I generally stay away from heavy emotional subjects when dealing with women. I keep it light and funny more often than not. You want to develop a reputation for being a happy and pleasant person to be around, not someone with endless emotional baggage. She's not your psychatrist.
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:01 PM
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If she always gives excuses and no counter offers when you ask to hang out, then she's not interested.
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:20 PM
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It comes off needy when you remind a girl about a date.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:13 AM
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If you have to confirm a date you didn't close properly. Texting is a waste of time and you should rarely do it with a girl. Sure it works for some guys, but I prefer to save all my conversation for when we're together in real life, it makes for more interesting dates... You call a girl once a week to setup a date (time, date, location) 4 days in advance. Girls worth your time will remember the date you set and will usually text you to confirm (or cancel/not show) 3-4 hours before the date. That…
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:12 AM
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Motivation to change comes from within so don't waste your time trying to change anyone. Focus on yourself. Once you reach a certain level of success in your life, people will come to you for advice. Then it's up to them whether they take it or not. Just do you.
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:50 AM
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Don't stress it, it's not all on you. If she can't or won't contribute to the conversation she's either not into you or has terrible social skills. You don't want to waste your time with either of those. Walk away and continue to wheel other birds. That's more productive.
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:48 AM
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Depends on the girl. Is she your ex, someone you're seeing, an acquintance? Either way it's kind of tacky and a big turn off to talk about other men/women for both sexes. I don't respond to it.
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:41 AM
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Contact/see her once a week. Wheel other girls and focus on your own priorities during the other 6 days of the week.
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:30 PM
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Don't creep up and dance behind a girl before you even make eye contact... that will get you nowhere fast.
/r/seduction26/01/14 04:36 AM
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If she likes you the attraction won't die. She'll wonder about you and be more than excited to hear from you when you call. Plus you'll have a week's worth of stories to talk about when you guys hang out. If she forgets who you are in a week then she's obviously not that into you.
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:20 AM
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Don't be such an eager beaver. Call her next week, ask her out for coffee. Gauge her reaction then.
/r/seduction01/01/14 09:53 PM
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The less I say the more mysterious and attractive I become to the girl I'm with. It all comes down to staying positive and working the eyes.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:49 AM
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Consciously make an effort to keep your interest level mellow like it is with the other girls. Less stress, more fun, tighter game.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:41 AM
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I've stopped initiating kino and instead started focusing more on reciprocating it. Girls that like you will make an effort to touch you (they're also way more natural at doing it). It's usually very subtle in the beginning. As long as you don't recoil when she brushes up against your arm you'll be good. The key is to be cool and accepting when she touches you. Don't make it into a big deal, let that comfort build. Just start mirroring what she's doing and you're cruising. If she's digging you t…
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:33 AM
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I'm 20 something and call girls when they give me their number. If you're too awkward to call a girl, I can only imagine how awkard you are on a date, let alone when you're trying to get her naked. Calling to setup a date is the best way to screen the girls that are interested in you from those who are wasting your time. Guess which girls pick up/call you back? You get a better read on a girl from a 30 second phone call than from 2 weeks of texting. Men close deals on the phone. Orbiters and fri…
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:00 PM
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Don't date an attention whore, find a real woman. Also, you're seeing her way too often. Every other day? Come on dude, twice a week tops. Scarcity makes you more valuable. You're slowly killing attraction by seeing her that often. Separate yourself from the herd of men that she's constantly exposed to. Yes establish boundaries. She hasn't given you one chance to say no? Really? If she never hears you say no she will eventually lose respect for you and drop you.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:51 AM
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Practice eye contact with EVERYONE until it becomes second nature. Family, friends, strangers, whatever. When someone is talking to you focus on keeping your mouth shut, holding eye-contact, and making them feel like they have 100% of your attention (listen). It's something I struggled with for waaayyy too long. Just practice, practice, practice. If you catch someone's eyes in public, just acknowledge them with a slight nod and a smile and go on with your day. It's only a big deal if you make it…
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:37 AM
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She wasn't interested in you from the get go and you should have clued in as soon as you saw her making out with another guy at that party. Also, you weren't much of a challenge. Snap chatting and texting for a few weeks isn't going to get you anywhere, especially with a girl that isn't interested in you. You're too available and that's very unattractive. Man up and call if you get a number. If she ignores your call or tells you that she can't meet up because of some lame reason and doesn't coun…
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:24 AM
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You broke up, why are you going back? Stop wasting your time and drop this chick.
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:13 PM
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