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| 1 | How to Reschedule a DateYup, always assume attraction until she tells/shows you otherwise. Just do the same thing, just do something else. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 04:51 PM |
| 4 | How to Reschedule a DateBe direct. What seemingly works for me (assuming they're interested) is make it less questioning about a date, but more a question about their availability at the specified time. "Let's grab drinks. Friday, 6pm at [bar]?" Already establishes what we're doing, now we're just figuring out when. If she doesn't offer up another date if it doesn't work for her, she's not interested. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 02:24 PM |
| 8 | 5 Cheap First Date Ideas Women LoveYup. Clothes shopping would also work pretty well. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Does this text mean she wants to hang out ASAP?This. If she's saying shit like that, it's pretty much an open invitation. Invite yourself over. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 34 | 5 Cheap First Date Ideas Women LoveWhatever you're doing, take her with you. You could be running errands, doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How would you convince a girl who doesn't want a relationship to have one with you?Well, then you gotta stick around until she gets comfortable on her own terms. You can't force this shit. You can try to ease her concerns, show her how you're trustworthy, but it'll take time. If you're not patient enough to do that, then move on. | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed.No one needs their therapist to like them. They're supposed to be an unbiased, judge free person you can work out your thoughts with. You're not trying to fuck your therapist. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:55 PM |
| 7 | I did an IOI experiment for you.It's about noticing IOIs that women give that men may be oblivious to. This post has nothing to do with building attraction. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 01:35 PM |
| 4 | The goal of texting a girl is to get her to meet you in person. Here are the 5 super simple steps to do it.I dunno, I just send a "hey, are we still on for 7pm today?" type text. I nearly always get a confirmation back. The one time I didn't, I texted at 3pm asking if we were good, then again at 6pm if we were still on. No response at 630p, so I said I wasn't going to show up. I don't think confirming that you're not wasting your time makes you seem needy. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why dating apps are killing your gameOh, right. If you're not meeting people in the apps too, there's a bigger problem at hand, not the apps fault. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Why dating apps are killing your gameAgreed, I'm basically exclusively using Bumble for dates and I've gotten several dates the past few weeks from it. It's helped me become way more confident and has been giving me great practice to where I'm more confident in talking to random people when out and about. As long as you're meeting people, I don't see the issue with dating apps. If you're using apps and not meeting anyone, I can see how it can be detrimental to the psyche. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Meeting girls from my future collegeYeah, this sounds like a terrible idea. Meet people at college like everyone else. Everyone is in the same boat as you. Just keep your dorm door open, be inviting, and talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Seduction is just Manning upDon't you know? Seduction is all about being a two-time Super Bowl champion with a storied HoF career. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I started just having fun at social eventsAh, okay. I agree! He did mention that the goal was to be liked by everyone. No, that is absolutely not the goal, you're right. As you mentioned, be yourself, and be likeable to those you interact with, but by no means does everyone need to like you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 03:36 PM |
| 5 | I started just having fun at social eventsWhich is fine. You're not out there to attract and bang every single woman. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 03:27 PM |
| 13 | Girl I'm seeing asked me to say "I love you" during sex?Ask her, we can't read her mind. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you have the conversation about STDs?We're all adults. Be upfront about it. Ask your partner before getting down and dirty if they're clean. Get regularly tested if you're sexual active so you can answer that question truthfully. Always wrap up on the first encounter, decide from there after once you build trust. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 06:04 PM |
| 5 | 2nd girl to tell me about someone else she banged while we had our first couple datesAs long that's actually what you want, then more power to ya. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Just moved cities, decided to try out Tinder. Kind of confused about if this app is a "hook up ASAP" app or if that doesn't matter.Dunno, sometime in the last two years, it transitioned more to dating than hookup. In my city at least, I constantly see no hookups in their profiles. | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Just moved cities, decided to try out Tinder. Kind of confused about if this app is a "hook up ASAP" app or if that doesn't matter.I try to move for the date within a day if they're being responsive. If the conversation is legit, like they're actually trying, then go for the date. Tinder turned into a dating app, the girls looking for just hookups are there, but you gotta play it right. | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 12:18 AM |
| 2 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeSometimes this happens in my friend group. We all go out together, and we do our thing. Most recently, it happened to me, I was with this girl most of the night, but I had to slip away for a sec, and my buddy ended up getting her number and hooking up with her a few weeks later. I was upset in the moment, but later I realized that I can't control her feelings. She was into him, not me. THAT SAID, your situation is different. These aren't girls you just met that night. These are girls you are try… | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Biggest rule I've found for openingDo you actually know that they're no interested? Most people are in their own world, and I can guarantee you they're not thinking about whether or not they're interested in you all the time. Pretty sure some relationships start when the man just approaches and the woman had no intention of meeting someone that day. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you fix a scarcity mindset in a relationship?Well, what makes you feel that way? Your post didn't clarify that. Is there something in particular about her or her history that makes you concerned about her leaving you? | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | should you be friends with girls?Talk to more girls. You have too few females in your life if you're focusing on just one. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 7 | How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber PoolThis post. | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | hanging out with a girl, want to ask her out?I mean, this is sort of a fun "date", playing ultimate. See how it goes, make your intentions clear, and steer towards asking her on an one-on-one date. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?On the money right here. Make eye contact, do a "you + me" gesture (probably loud as shit), and move in if they're receptive. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 03:59 PM |
| 22 | Got a positive text three days after I initially texted her.Set up the date yo. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Best expression or phrase someone has given you when it comes to getting women?This should be in AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Got my first number!Give it a day. Everyone's doing their own shit. If she doesn't respond, then you have your answer. But don't let that bring you down. This was a success! You're progressing, and that's what the goal is. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Got my first number!Just send it now man. That opener works just fine. If she's interested, it doesn't matter what you say. | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Got my first number!Just do it. There's no set time. | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.We lost about 4 people on ours, but I recall two of them (a couple) having to leave due to a death in the family. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems.A little more info. Ten day course, however after the first day, you cannot speak to anyone else for the next 9 days. You can talk to the manager or teacher, but that's it. Food is provided and so is housing, but there is no dinner provided, you fast for that meal. No electronics, no books (though people broke this rule). They are in secluded areas, so you don't have many distractions. I definitely do recommend it as well. It's tough, and some people bail out after the first few days. But defini… | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 12:37 PM |
| 2 | [30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women.Fine. Put them in their place. Tell them they're being an asshole. Where does that get you? Nowhere. Either change the situation or go find another one. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Not all of them are assholes. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:55 PM |
| 2 | [30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women.He gave the reason early on. That's how society has taught them to react in that situation. Either break the mold and say fuck society (and subsequently, fuck getting affected by their shitty responses), or go somewhere the fuck else where it's not so competitive and they don't have their mega-guard up. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfThank you dude. Fucking thank you. This is perfect. It applies so well to me. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I've lost my desire to game anymore....Great analogy! | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 12:50 AM |
| 24 | Something a Female Friend Told Methis is awesome. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 10:21 PM |
| 26 | Easy and effective openerno tears only dreams now. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 06:15 PM |
| 304 | Easy and effective openerFuck me, that's solid. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Best bed sheets for sex? Any good recommendations?To tack onto this, Costco sells a really nice Egyptian Cotton sheet set, 600 TC. I wanna say it's somewhere around $60. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Starting my last semester of college on Monday. Here's my little black book from the last 4 years of fun. Thought y'all would enjoy. (Throwaway account)I mean, it is immature, but its still awesome. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Are there any *actually* good free dating websites? Or are the only ones worth anything expensive? e.g. eHarmony.Met my girlfriend on OKCupid. It's a college town with a major university (35K students), so I was bound to find someone. I only went on two dates, found her on the second. I paid for the A-list membership ($10/month), but that was purely so I could browse on invisible. Used it for 2-3 months IIRC. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 07:47 PM |
| 27 | Simple number close for girls who are at workI feel plenty of people use business cards, at least in any professional STEM/academic setting. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 05:13 PM |
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