TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

wtf_ever_man Archive

View 5 posts and 65 comments by wtf_ever_man on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
12

This. Is anything else going on that might raise suspicion? Like others said, I'd be very aware of recorders and if they would be around, why would they be around? But could be worth a 'what's up' talk to gage the environment. /Shrug
/r/askMRP22/04/26 09:32 AM
3

Are you for real with this??
/r/askMRP17/04/26 07:53 PM
2

Me personally? I've looked over at the .. r/askmenover30 over 30, over 40 subreddits as I feel some of those places are or could be more receptive to what red pill philosophy has to show them. I was a reader of red pill for a couple years before and during the end of my marriage but I take what I learned and have moved on with my life. Onward and upward brother.
/r/askMRP11/03/26 02:10 AM
2

I'd say learn or think more about what frame is and means. It's not so much about not giving a fuck. It's about being assertive in a way that you don't give a fuck. State what you mean and mean what you state. I don't really repeat myself to my kids because I think they know where I stand without me having to repeat myself. I am serious to a point when I am being serious about something. Not so much stern. More like stance. NMMNG opened my eyes more to toxic relationships and about covert contra…
/r/askMRP12/06/24 08:10 PM
3

^ This one.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 03:58 PM
3

Believe it's probably own your shit.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 03:56 PM
0

If its your thing, its your thing. Use it to relax in your down time between kicking ass at the gym and getting shit done man. Dont mind whatever these neanderthals say. Justvstay in a healthy frame, stay fit, stay aware and stay active. You do you. Good luck out there.
/r/askMRP03/01/22 08:21 AM
12

You did too? I got a red one that I'm driving by the housing developments by college and blaring 80s rawk. It's sure to bring the sluts out like ice cream horn for fat kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 05:29 PM
7

Well, what do you want your purpose to be? What's your thing? What are you good at? What legacy do you want to leave? You have some questions to answer and some work to do. Btw, that line of men are attracted to youth thing caught my eye. Imho love and attraction are two different things. Dont confuse lust with love.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:05 AM
2

Just saying,best post i have seen on here in the times that i have actually been looking. Good on OP. I enjoy reading the commentors dad stories also. Good healthy out pouring here. I talked to my dad some today. I think i am breaking down some walls with him to actually get to know the real him.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 05:33 AM
2

Last sentence nails it man. It's about equality amongst people. All people. Men get their share, women get their share. We all do. Equals, down the line. I feel bad for the dude having to eat that. That's a hard day.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:52 AM
-1

Im going to go on a tangent here and say this may ride the line of not being a "healthy" mens rights post and more of a woman hate type post. Social media will be social media but this doesnt really speak of rights, it just points out there are some socials out there that are dumb, biased and ha e followers. I recently found this sub so i am hoping this place is more than this.
/r/MensRights13/06/20 04:52 PM
1

AVAILABLE NOW? WTF? WHY DIDN'T ANYONE TELL ME! Get the hell out of my way! I'M ON MY WAY WINNIE, HERE I COME! PS - Fuck you. Social media is one part of society that could die a flaming death and I'd be there to pour gas on it. Influencers... fuck them. /rantover
/r/MensRights10/06/20 07:46 AM
1

You speak the truth, but that in itself is the problem, isn't it? Thats some sad defeatist attitude that needs to change in this whirled. =\ I do wish more people would actually speak up for mens rights.
/r/MensRights10/06/20 07:38 AM
4

What? What now? What there hell are you even trying to say?
/r/askMRP25/04/20 09:06 PM
2

You already have it. There's no stopping it. Your doomed, we are all doomed. Way to go Sheila!
/r/askMRP14/04/20 04:23 PM
1

It's hard to put into words because I think each person is so individual you need to tailor it. You can't blanket statement but I do agree with SB. When you start working on yourself and show that you are someone to follow they will follow. Look at your routine. Look at your interactions. Really look at them. What is making them do they things they do, what is making you do the things you do? It's also day to day. Be consistent in your intent and approach.
/r/askMRP11/04/20 03:18 AM
3

He is asking for hemp and advice, does everything in this place have to turn into a "you only have yourself to blame" response. Fuck sake, put some work in.
/r/askMRP11/04/20 03:13 AM
2

No offense but not my problem. You need to be the one to find it. Dont go to others looking to solve your problems for you. I think your a man so be a man and suck it up and get back up. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5JAHAFvcr2o Do what you have to do and dont reply to me again. That's all I really have to say to you man. Get out of the house and go do something. Get your head in a different place.
/r/askMRP03/04/20 12:31 AM
2

No offense man. I didn't read your post because I don't care about the story but how toy are handling this is all wrong. Not sure if your wanted the divorce or she did but now is your time to focus on you. Get your shit together and focus on you. What do toy want? What have you learned? Who the fuck cares about her? You? Why? What's that say about you? I get it, I do but you need to slap yourself in the face and wake the fuck up. Your not a good damn victim, so making yourself out to be one and …
/r/askMRP02/04/20 06:42 PM
1

This sub reddit man, this sub. Heh.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 07:50 PM
1

Thing is what exactly are you looking for? Are you looking to talk with red pill awareness? In my experience coming to this place the redpill sub *can* be a decent place but its about a 50/50 on getting actually good useable advice. Thats just my mileage though. https://mankindproject.org/ - https://mankindproject.org/mens-groups/ I found out about the Mankind Project from The Art of Manliness. They did a podcast on it and it seems to be centered on selling a mens group that you can pay for and …
/r/askMRP19/02/20 04:41 AM
-4

I appreciate the people that actually give feedback around these parts. Not to say the whole machismo drill sergeant thing doesn't work but I just thought I'd say thanks to those who are actually useful.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 11:51 PM
-1

What you say here is actually useful. Well, some of it. About half way through it kind of derails and I stopped reading.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 11:49 PM
-4

When you shower, do you use a loofa?
/r/askMRP20/01/20 11:44 PM
1

Have to say, good reply and from my own life it feels accurate. ED - How did you track them? Notepad on your phone you'd sort of remember them and sneak off and write them down quick or just try to remember the big ones at the end of the day? I've started a journal from this last year or so and I think it's helped me just empty my head sometimes so I have less rattling around...
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:48 AM
3

You guys always crack me up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 09:17 PM
1

The wife does have a habit of basically pushing me away by not returning my affection and blowing me off in sorts. Example. Last night she was going through her photos. She had two that were selfies. One was her wearing lipstick and being the most duckface I have seen her do. I questioned about selfies. She said someone Told her she looked like another girl she doesn't like. Wife got upset at that and I could see it was going to go south. Heres the run down; Saw pictures She got upset and shutdo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/19 04:03 PM
1

OYS I've done some reading from Ironwood, NMMNG, and some others. The realization I have come to is that this whole mentality that I want to get divorced from her needs to stop. Is she an ideal mate? No. Did I choose her? Yes. Do I need to repair the "damage" I did by letting her find out I talked to a lawyer and she doesn't "trust" me anymore? Yes. Is this all annoying as fuck? Yes. My biggest issue besides working out and being active with my hobbies in the house is my mental frame. Its like I…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/19 02:51 PM
2

Hes currently 12 so honestly in some regards I feel like he only has a couple years left before hes matured more or less into his young adult life which sets the tone for his 20s and 30s. I am seeing patterns and I'm not trying to project but I do see similiarities between him and I. I'm trying to reel back my own shit because I know he will be who he is and I'm not trying to live life through him or make his choices but I do see things there. Longer story short is that he has had a neuropsych e…
/r/askMRP07/08/19 03:47 PM
1

I can see your points and appreciate your feedback. I am hard on myself(as I feel I should be) because I feel I'm not doing enough for them both(daughter and son). I do know leading is a weakness of mine and I need to step up more into that. I need to get them both out of their comfort zone and to try more things. I have been trying to find them each "their thing" that will carry into adulthood. I will continue this endeavor and keep looking. Thank you for your reply.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 03:34 PM
1

I didn't read all this but OP said they were into sleep science. Whats your opinion on that sleep system where you take like 3-4 hours at night and an hour like at lunch and an hour or something at dinner/supper? I think they say like Newton or Einstein or some famous people did this???? I forget the name of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 04:23 AM
1

Not keeping track. Oys 5th, 6th? Physical: i lift what i have in the garage. I look at myself in the mirror and feel better about myself. I did tan some purposely for a first time in a long time. Burned a couple shades of white off. Mental: this is my biggest thing this week because somewhere along the line it just came to me that i basically need to just be living the life i normally would without her. Just doung my thing and not ao much concerned about her shit and what she is saying to me. La…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 02:00 PM
3

40, 5'10, 220. Physical - Contacted a trainer. I lift the free weights i have in my garage. Mental - Not doing well. A lot rattling around upstairs. Im so far up my wifes ass its fucking ridiculous. I have visions of possibilities and nmmng reading is like hearing about me and hitting me. My biggest problems are ive convinced myself i want a divorce. Ive been building a divorce case for 2 years. She adds value to my life in that she helps with finances but things arent fair, its loop sided and n…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 05:24 AM
1

Biggest realization this week is that its never occurred to me before but my wife is not affectionate. I find myself using fogging and some things I've learned with my daughter when she starts up with the drama bs. I think its actually helped in that regard also. I'm not running in a race, I'm in a marathon. I know where I'm going and I know what outcome I want but I'm taking things day to day and trying to keep that in mind. I've been reading some of The Natural, WISNIFG, Art of Seduction. I bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 03:41 AM
1

Call it oys 3 if you want. I'm too inside my own head. I'm too much in her frame. Ive found i flounder when i have nothing to do and that is possibly the greatest thing i have learned this week. I need a goal. I need a focus. I need to stop lying to myself and i need to get my shit in order. Goal, sit down with a piece of paper and create a better map. Finish reading mindful attraction and re read parts of wisnifg. Start heavy skimming nmmng in prep of reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 05:10 AM
3

This is save worthy. This is the reality I'm not fully prepared for yet. I can't just jump ship. There is prep work involved. Same goes to the op. He wrote like i would have. I don't think he is ready yet. He may want to think he is or try to get his mind in a place where things feel ok but i think he is shit testing himself.
/r/askMRP30/05/19 04:26 AM
0

I failed a shit test probably pretty miserably. I was getting something ready for us to wqtch together and she asked me a question about something else. I mumbled some response and she asked again. I said something and ahe responded along the lines of "you know this is whats wrong with our relationship. Communication" ti which i did my auto reply angry repressed to this and said "you are telling me that?" Implying its her fault. I need to be more aware. Ive been mostly attempting to fog the litt…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 04:55 PM
1

Dont feel bad about it man. I'm 40 and I've known I've had mom(and dad) issues for awhile now but until about a year or two ago I don't think I've ever really thought about to the extent. I want to write mine off. I don't want bad things to happen to me and my mom likes to say that she won't get cremated and she will have a grave stone so her boys can come see her but I don't want to. I don't like my mother and my father, I swear to fucking god is where I learned to be beta. I can't blame him, I…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 02:06 AM
1

Whats stopping me from doing the things I feel I should be doing and living the life that I want? You want the truth or what I feel is the truth? Excuses. Excuses I've made for myself. I look for validation from my wife. Maybe slightly now so than I used to but I know its still there. I blame others for my situation because I like to think its out of my control when I know there are some circumstances I can't control and happened but I am the constant in my predicament and that says and means so…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/19 01:55 AM
1

Don't go off what I say man but don't say that shit and don't mean it. I'm still trying to wrap my brain around all this shit too and when you get all warmed up and are in the heat of shit and the spur of the moment gut reaction it takes time to develop things. I really can't say shit here man but I picture it like looking at yourself from outside the box. Each action you take needs to be analyzed and it takes a lot of mindset and just willpower and focus to even try to do this shit right. At le…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 04:19 AM
1

I'm up to the fogging and negative inquire part of the book. He hasn't covered yet and I'd be looking for feedback on how to deal with someone who is resistant to negative inquire? Example is that if I ask what do you think is wrong with what I did, she would come back and I would negaitve inquire again and she would just stop at a point and either get mad at me or just walk away from annoyance. I'd imagine at that point I just fog.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 11:06 PM
1

OYS #3 ​ Lets see... ​ Physical: 5'10 240 ish. I've slacked this week on lifting. No excuses, I just have. Finances: *I'm* getting better as myself. I'm in control of my finances separate from hers. I know whats coming and going. Waiting on my "review." But my career or job is a waiting game and I'm sick of waiting. Sex: Remains the same. I'll be honest that I've been taking it a bit rough on her and her and I have talked. Or I have talked at her and shes had some feedback. Social life: I want t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 11:04 PM
1

I've only just started this journey but I agree ^^^^^ what he said.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 01:55 AM
1

Thanks SBIII. You may be a hard ass but sometimes thats what it takes. I appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 05:26 PM
1

Stats, 5'10, 230ish, fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 01:20 PM
2

I'm pretty sure I've been in that cycle too. As are many people. I think being aware of the cycle and how it operates helps you but the real question remains, how are you going to break the cycle? How, where? Good luck out there. Keep your head high and mind focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 04:41 AM
1

My map - What do I want? To take charge of my life. To better my life. To get better friends more in line with my tastes. To do more outdoors. To find a better more fitting and rewarding career. To connect as a family. To get rid of my belly and get a better image for myself. How will I take charge? By being more proactive and when I feel apathy set in I need to change my frame and stay focused and not give in to the apathy or “give a shit” attitude. I need to set a time structure for my day. An…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 04:27 AM
1

OYS #2 ​ Since my last post I wrote what I consider my map. I'll share that below. I've started lifting a bit more. Not going nuts, want to at least try to break my body in. Did a few situps and its been awhile. I plan on creating a time schedule for myself and plan to get in that thing time to ride my bike down a local highway to hopefully burn some calories. I did(what I consider) a lot around the house this last weekend. I ripped all the dead and dying shit out of the front garden. It was a d…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 04:25 AM
2

I want to just relate something to you about my situation. My wife bitches and DEERs to me about her fibromyalgia. Thats fine, thats dandy, you have something wrong. When that something wrong starts turning into excuses why you can't goto the store by yourslf and buy some fucking groceries for the family and you need my ass to just tag along and make it easier for you? Then thats turned into *my* problem now. My give a shit meter dropped way the hell off and I just don't give a shit any time she…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 04:54 AM
1

Its not just my thinking. My actions. I have let others control my destination to long and im fucking sick of it. I need to map my shit so i can get a fucking plan and dig my ass out.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 05:48 PM
1

You are on point and the other guys are too. Im struggling with my not blaming and taking ownership. I have to change my way of thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 05:42 PM
1

I've read some about attachment styles and that got me interested in attachment style therapy. I think a lot of shit I'm dealing with comes from how my parents were to me when I was a kid. I'd be curious what license' etc your therapist has as I'd like to find one that tackles things like yours sounds like they do? My current is shit and I've stopped seeing her. As for your stuff going on in your post... I don't really have authority to say shit but I read it and I ask you, what is it you want? …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 04:03 AM
1

Well, some of you may have seen my post is askmrp. OYS #1 Stats: 40, 5'10" 230lbs - I have just started lifting some weights in the garage this last week. I have 40lbs on a curling bar that I'm trying to build up doing reps on when I get home from work. Read: Nothing yet, ordered NMMNG and WISNIFG and that other book SBIII mentioned(Athol Kay one). Current situation: I won't lie, I'm a mess. Been to long a beta and I've let things go and they've gotten out of my control. My biggest flaw is my de…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 03:46 AM
1

Here comes the fucking hot wifer, yeah... I agree with the guy above. Agree and play along and amplify. "Your gay for liking the butt." "Yeah? So what?" I want a nice tight hole which your cunt isn't anymore." My question is... do you get defensive? *why* are you so defensive? Is there a tiny bit of bi in there somewhere? I'm not judging man, i could give a shit(anal, get it? ha!). Seriously though, you should only get defensive if shes striking a nerve.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 03:28 AM
1

Well, some of you may have seen my post is askmrp. I plan a follow up to this but this is just me getting some shit on here before I don't. I'm on my shitty laptop. Will follow up any questions/comments on a better keyboard. OYS #1 Stats: 40, 5'10" 230lbs - I have just started lifting some weights in the garage this last week. I have 40lbs on a curling bar that I'm trying to build up doing reps on when I get home from work. Read: Nothing yet, plan on ordering NMMNG and WISNIFG and that other boo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:03 AM
2

I've been trying to process what all you said and I didn't clarify all my details in my OP, mostly because sometimes the details don't matter and its the point I'm trying to drive. Details? Wife spent some money(what I consider a decent chunk) without consulting me. *WE* don't have a budget together. I budget. I know when where and why I spend. She spends willy nilly. It drives me nuts, to the point I want to say something. I didn't. I haven't. Its still down there though eating. I'm containing …
/r/askMRP25/04/19 03:54 AM
2

I feel I can respond to this appropriately. I could snowball this into a big mess but I'll try to contain. The gayrod thing, yeah, I made the post as a "joke" because I didn't really know what redpill was until later when I actually red one of the weekly posts and realized it was just guys owning their shit and trying to improve. The hotwife thing, yeah, it was at some point a fantasy but I realize it would be a mistake. Yeah, its a bit fucked and not healthy and shes not into it. We have both a…
/r/askMRP25/04/19 03:12 AM
2

This one made me laugh. Its a truth when you get down to brass tacks. Both halves.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:51 AM
5

Appreciate this response. Thanks. A lot of what I would have to say is victim puke and I just need to work on my focus and get some shit going.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:34 AM
3

heh. Lets not get into that. Its not a laughing matter, but I'm aware and its not great. If anything I would be just starting this path of the side bar. This question was just a curiousity though. I get maintain frame but I would think every man gives at some point(maybe not) but to recompose, is there is reset map? I've read https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ and want to start implementing whats said there.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:19 AM
2

btw, my prediction? If you do the MFF, shes going to (most likely, soon after) ask for a MMF. I would put money on it.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 01:34 AM
1

I'm not the guy that should be posting here man I will give you all that that want to talk shit about my post history but my question to to OP is does she lock her phone? Does she do stuff that makes you kind of wonder? Threesome? Yeah, take the option, get some lavetra or viagra, whatever, don't let your nerves get to you and fucking pound that pussy and make your wife jealous its not hers your doing. Thats just me though. Has she cheated? The way you type the story, yeah it sounds like its a g…
/r/askMRP19/04/19 01:33 AM
3

This thread is pretty good. So much butt hurt its funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 06:53 PM
2

No, u shut the fuk up. Gayrod.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 06:52 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter