wtfisthisgoingonhere Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free. Honestly I’m kinda extreme with my feelings about how crappy men are/can be/probably will be, but part of me still has a tiny bit of hope of being with a “good one” but reading stuff like this.... makes me wonder if this just something you have to accept about being in a relationship with a male?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 08:23 PM
100	How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority? As a person who was abandoned by father as a baby, sexually assaulted by my male babysitter, had an inappropriate friendship with a middle school sports team coach, was in an abusive relationship with a porn addict for 6 years, and used by male “friends” for sex when I was vulnerable.... I think subconsciously I knew but didn’t put it all together until I was 27-28 when I looked back at my life and realized many situations I was in were definitely not normal. I do not trust men and I don’t know …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 05:58 PM
13	Oh my god, pressured into sex at 14?! Fuuuuuck I hate this world. This happened to me at 13, lost my virginity then, and I’ve regretted it since	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 04:20 AM
32	It's almost like... we're right😳?? Count the 🚩 Not as bad as this poor girl but, it kinda reminded me of my shit bag ex who, one year on my birthday, made us late for my plans for us to go out to my families restaurant, because his dad cooked lasagna (literary premade shitty frozen lasagna) and he felt bad, so we had to stay and eat it before going out, even though it was my birthday and I had already planned on us eating at the restaurant. (Also i share a bday with my mom so I felt extra rude because it was her time to celebrate too.) This …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 07:43 PM
9	Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite? My narcissistic ex was obsessed with eternal sunshine and garden state! I second both of you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/20 07:14 PM
36	OP watching porn herself is already a problem, but how much do you want to bet he watches porn as well? Honestly I hope it’s a troll too but I was in a long term relationship with an lvm like this, at the time I did watch porn sometimes (this was before I knew it was harmful) one day he saw what I had been watching and literally would NOT let it go. He would insist that I was actually a lesbian, called me a pervert, would trick me and pretend he “understood” why I watched it and then turned around and tried to convince me there was something wrong with me. (It was ok when we watched it together th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 07:11 PM
10	Does this seem controlling? I’m no longer dating this guy, but he would tell me I couldn’t wear certain things or make any new guy friends and if I objected, he said that I didn’t give a fuck about him. If I thought he was being controlling he frequently called me crazy and irrational This is so close to how my abusive ex treated me, it’s scary. Every word of this is a red flag!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 10:42 PM
93	Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄 Ew this was my ex. Ugh god I’m having flashbacks. There were multiple times I noticed scabs on his dick and I would be like “..another one?” And he would try to claim it was from me. At the end of our relationship he admitted to being a porn addict. Like yeah I fucking know bud ?? but thanks for acknowledging and admitting it in order to manipulate me into feeling bad for you while you’re desperate for me to stick around I guess 🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 02:47 PM
36	It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes again Dated a guy like this who got offended and upset at me because I .. kissed my dying male cousin on the cheek before doctors took him off life support.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 01:32 AM
45	My eyes came across this disgusting LVM behavior. WHAT. This started happening to me at the end of my long relationship with an abusive narcissist. He wouldn’t let getting pregnant go and always got mad if I didn’t want him to finish inside me. It got so scary and incredibly creepy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 11:25 PM
–	Bald as hell with a full beard (ew), not one body picture (not meaning sexy/shirtless, but if you don't want to show your physique- there's a reason)... and admits he's low effort/boring AF... bruh... 🙈 Pardon my ignorance but what is a MVM?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 06:18 PM
12	Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments. So true. I’ve been there. I used to doubt my instincts so much before because I thought I might come off as “crazy.” I’m so glad I learned to trust my gut when it comes to men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 12:35 AM
1	All women should read this book: 'Every Man Sees You Naked' by David M. Matthews I relate so much to everything you said. This past year I cut all men/male friends out of my life, aside from my boyfriend, who has been nothing but a hvm (on the surface) for the past 3 years. I say on the surface because he does everything right all the time, but I always sorta knew and had a feeling that the stuff OP is talking about was true, so even though my partner appears as a hvm I always keep part of my guard up due to the fact that it’s just a man’s nature to act a certain way. Not su…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 07:39 PM