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Good for you bro, I wish you the best of luck!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/21 09:23 AM
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The wikipedia page for gender pay gap cites those study that debunk this myth. Hell there's a fucking Harvard paper that say it's bogus, and it was written nonetheless by a woman. But my suggestion would be to just avoid debating with idiots, when people are driven by emotions and not by rationality, no amount of facts or debating skills matter. As the old saying goes, it's like playing chess with a pidgeon.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 08:38 PM
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Yo good for you, btw be prepared for when she'll do the same exact shit with you for another guy. Ppl who break it off with someone to be with someone else tend to repeat themselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 08:24 PM
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You'd be surprised what the guy washing dishes at the restaurant I used to work for had to go through some nights... Poor fella sometimes left at 4.30am. At least he was getting a decent pay...
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 07:04 PM
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Fun fact, I have a degree in economics and founded a biotech startup in which I was in charge for public relations, so at leat public speaking and economics I got a little bit covered :D. And have a passion for psychology. I lack in storytelling tho: I have a friend that can talk about the time he took a huge shit and somehow people are laser focused on him. That's something I'd like to learn to do. If you could suggest me some readings, tbh I'd appreciate it, might be a start. Also because, the…
/r/seduction23/10/20 10:08 AM
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Be my sensei pls. BE LIKEABLE that's easier said than done. At this point I'm not even sure what you mean with likeable: is it funny? Entertaining? What is it? Also, about reading people, that part has always been hard for me. I am quite oblivious to non-verbals unless they're blatantly obvious. Eg: girl locks eyes with me for longer than 5 seconds? Must have some dirt on my face. Is she extra touchy and well into my personal space? Is she just being friendly or she actually wants something? I d…
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:44 PM
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Thanks for this, it's probably the first time I see anyone saying the things you just said. That was ver well thought. Thing is (or so I've learned) that not adding a sexual undertone to your conversation / not expressing clear intent (i like you) when with a woman, will inevitably lead to her thinking you're just interested in a friendship. What's the culprit here? I feel like I'm missing a piece of the puzzle.
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:54 PM
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Suggestions to improve about flirting and stuff? Like you I can make a wall talk if I want, but the flirting / teasing part is still a bit hard for me
/r/seduction22/10/20 07:56 AM
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Can almost confirm: I'm good looking, in shape, have tattoos and I'm straight. Gay guys DIE over me.
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:42 PM
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Thanks man, your insights make a lot of sense!
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:41 AM
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I guess I need to start finding value in myself then 😅. I dunno I always am quiet in these situations because I don't want everyone else in a 50km radius to know what's going on. Also with the slut shaming and all, the girl might feel embarrassed to give you attention. No?
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:05 PM
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Hey that's surprising, never considered about being loud and stuff, in my head I thought I should have been quite the opposite. Just out of curiosity, do you wave at them when they're still afar? That sounds quite awkward, in my head I'm imagining those kids that go "look at me!!", altho probably I have the wrong idea.
/r/seduction16/10/20 03:56 PM
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Understandable, we've all been there. One way I found thar helps you move is, when you're stuck, thinking positively, like "what if she's my next girlfriend? What if she's a great fuck". Much better than think "what if she rejects me" and the like.
/r/seduction16/10/20 08:19 AM
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Bro imho when a grill takes your number and ALSO texts you unprompted, it's easy to get a date. The very few times that a girl took my num and texted I never had a problem going on a date. Some times they were the ones suggesting it. What I like to do in these cases, after some banter, is hint about it but don't straight out ask. This is an example that happened to me: _ she was talking about being a wine lover _ me: i'm more of a bloody mary type her: ah! I never tried me: you're missing out, w…
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:59 AM
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That's interesting!! What did you do to fix your voice? I have naturally a very high tonality myseld and it's REALLY fking hard for me to speak with a low tone. The very few times I managed to tho i was told it was a very sexy voice, but i can almost never achieve it.
/r/seduction15/10/20 11:25 PM
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Are chicks there so well mannered? Or are you some god-tier looking fella? Everyone you talk to seems extremely nice and happy to do so
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:53 PM
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Which place u currently living?
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:16 PM
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Tbh I believe pretty much everywhere in the west (source: I'm EU). Thing is, men's grooming started to become a thing just in the last 5 to 10 years or so. Even now, it's sometimes stigmatized, especially by other men, that go all like "WHAT?! You shave your chest / comb your hair / do your brows? ArE yOu GaYyy???". And I'm italian, which supposedly should be the "well-dressed" country. I can't imagine other places <.<
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:56 AM
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Been there done that. A partner won't fix your shit. It'll only make it worse once he/she leaves. Also stop talking about IQ, it is a meme from the '90s that literally matters jack shit in anything you do. You're 15, stop trying to be an edgelord, enjoy this period of your life: go outside, fuck things up, play videogames (not fortnite tho), be stupid, meet people. Also don't forget to study a little bit lol. Your only worry should be wondering which hentai you'll fap to tonight and getting some…
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:48 AM
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Bro your excessive and random usage of punctuation gave me a seizure
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:27 AM
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Yeah I'd say about 7 out of 10. But I don't think I even come close to 100 lol. Altho re-reading your post I noticed you specifically emphasize people wearing headphones. I don't talk to them. Also I tend to make the interaction as seamless as I can.. IIRC only once I specifically talked to one saying something like "I think you're attractive, would you mind if we chatted a bit?". And even in that case specific, even if she wasn't interested, she was pleasently surprised.
/r/seduction10/10/20 06:46 PM
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Why do you generalize your perspective? I've successfully approached women (as in, went on dates with them later in time) in those settings you say not to do it, and the most common response was always "wow, nobody does this anymore!" followed by "usually guys just stalk me on social media". Even those that were unavailable remarked that they were pleased by the fact that I approached them.
/r/seduction10/10/20 01:28 PM
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1st time was inevitable. 2nd time sounds kinda bullshit situation tbh, she should have asked her gf LONG BEFORE that moment. 3rd time it was your choice and that's ok. As for what regards them ghosting, I believe what some other guys said is true: once clothes are off, either you seal the deal or they convince themselves it's not worth it if it doesn't happen. I have a similar thing but with dates: if I dont have sex with a girl within 3-4 dates, she usually ghosts me and gone forever. I've been…
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:59 PM
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I never understood how people can "almost" have sex. To me, whenever panties are off, it always leads to sex.
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:07 AM
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What dis guy said. Been there, done that, not worth it.
/r/seduction30/09/20 09:55 AM
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It's Mark Manson btw, I think charles manson was a serial killer 😬
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:11 PM
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What process / resources did you follow to improve? I find some points I'm having trouble too, like self confidence and flirting / escalation
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:28 PM
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What if I catch their look and they immediately look away, and never smile?
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:38 PM
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Hey, thanks for the detailed feedback and the other answers below, that makes a lot of sense. I'll definitely keep this in mind.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:55 PM
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No it was a metaphor :(. What I meant is that me and the boys are very direct with each other, we let zero shit pass. So if anyone of us is acting shit towards others, he gets called out immediately. Personally, I like it this way, because there's no mind reading and no guessing, but I also understand not many people might like this.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:58 PM
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> Maybe go easy on kids though. Loved this last part :D
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:53 PM
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Thanks for the input. My intent is not lashing out. The question was more like "should I make her notice that she's upsetting me with this and that behavior or should I let it pass?". My end goal is to keep the relationship healthy and keep on having sex with the girl (if that's the case) or eventually have sex with her (if it's not the case yet). Thing is, I can't consider a relationship healthy if a person repeatedly engages in a behavior that bothers me. OTOH, I know people in general can get…
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:49 PM
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In my case it was not coached at all. If anything, quite the opposite :D.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:43 PM
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I wouldn't even say awkward, it is awkward if you make it so, imho. For me, I found out that asking during intercourse is the best way to break the ice for that specific topic. I'm the kind of guy that is like "shoot first, ask questions later", so I try a new thing, and while I'm doing it I ask "do you like it?". If she says yes, I keep on going, if she says no, I ask "what would you prefer instead?" Then it becomes much easier to talk about it even when you're not having sex, or when you're pl…
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:39 PM
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How about some kind of playful approach that softens the tone, like "Helping you is so gratifying that the next time you ask imma send you to wikipedia"?
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:33 PM
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Because I'm not exactly what you would call "socially smart". I have zero filters and usually I say whatever I'm thinking with little to no clue about the consequences. My dear friends understand this and also like me for this. When pussy is involved, it's not as easy, as this behavior led me to possibly lose potential partners because I said the wrong thing at the wrong time. So, whereas with a friend, in this exact situation, I would react by vibe checking him with a baseball bat on the face, …
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:32 PM
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Indirect more often than not can lead to misunderstandings or worse. When I'm with a girl, either during sex or outside, I ask her, "what do you like? do you like this, do you like that?", so I can learn about her. For example, some girls love when I stick 3 fingers in their butt, some couldn't care less, some don't like it at all. I can't know unless they explicitly tell me, or I ask. Most of the times I have to ask because it's rare to find someone that's upfront in saying "I don't like that t…
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:16 PM
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Yeah, it is indeed really annoying. I tend to not give a fuck about most things, so when I feel these sensations it is really frustrating. I've been to therapy in the past, so I guess I could talk to my therapist about this too.
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:28 AM
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Agree on everything you said. On the topic of flirting, got any specific advice? It's an activity I still haven't mastered, especially in the early stages of "getting to know each other", despite having several experiences with girls. Regarding this specific topic, I sadly have very little "filters", so most of the time I say what I think, even if it's straight up rude. With friends and people that know me well it's no problem, but with girls I just met, I really have to try and restrain myself,…
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:21 AM
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It's not rage nor disproportionate, but it's more than what I like. I know it should be like "eh whatever, im fucking 2 other girls anyway", but instead is like "jesus fucking chirst, what in the world did I do wrong?". Especially in a case where the person already went on a date with me, and not some random number I got on a night out.
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:08 AM
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I understand the logic behind it, I actually know it. Yet, even if I know all that, I can't help but taking it personally. I always try to be polite and respectful with everyone, and ghosting people is so much out of my reality that when I receive that treatment I get mad af.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:20 AM
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Speaking for myself, I enjoy foreplay A LOT, and teasing the girl to the point she literally begs me to fuck her. Personally, I've always been like that, but then again I always loved eating a girl out. I think guys that want to get their dick wet right away are either inexperienced or selfish. Sadly, according to what most of my female friends say, this seems to be the majority. However, and I can't stress this enough, nothing prevents you from verbalizing your needs to the guy(s) you're dating…
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:16 AM
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but I get the sense that men take women less serious when they start the touching. Maybe boomers and bigots do. I don't think you'd wanna date these kind of people. Personally, I don't take a woman seriously if she's shallow and insipid, not if she's touching me.
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:35 PM
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Being too persistent can be a turn off sure, but there's some points to be made. If you pass his bar of "would fuck", at the very least, then touching him shouldn't be an issue unless the guy himself has issues with touching. Try not to be a creep tho. For my specific case, I react differently: if I'm not into the girl, I let her touch me but don't reciprocate. If i like her, I mirror her touches and up the ante a bit. Here's the thing, in general girls can get away with touch much more than men…
/r/seduction09/09/20 10:40 AM
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A couple questions: do you do daygame, night or both? Also, with 8+ plus girls, how do you deal with? I usually do daygame on pretty but not instamodels like girls because I find they're less work to deal with. Also, I'm probably the only one approaching them during daytime. On the contrary, I find it much harder to do at night, when every other girl looks like a model from vogue, they have been probably approached 100 times already so have less patience, and are in a group with friends. How do …
/r/seduction09/09/20 10:22 AM
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I don't do many approaches, so statistically my data isn't relevant. However, I only do day approaches, and the most common reaction is usually a slightly surprised, amused one, and they more or less all say the same thing: "congrats on being bold, no one does this". Regardless if they're interested or not. One girl I approached at the bus stop and later went on some dates with me, literally told me, during our first date: "I gave you my number because you were so bold in asking me out and didn'…
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:56 AM
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I believe most of it is due to gender stereotypes: "Men must be sex beasts, get their dick erect on command and give woman squirting multiple orgasms in any situation". So when faced with a sex addict, the fear of not being able to keep up and keep you satisfied can become overwhelming and make them disconnect. Don't control yourself, don't change who you are. Find compatible people. I have a friend who's just like you, and she keeps her drive satisfied by either tons of casual sex or finding se…
/r/seduction08/09/20 04:44 PM
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If I play tennis with my buddy, I don't do because I wanna win (we both suck). I do because we're having fun. If my buddy is not available, I'll play with another buddy. Get it now?
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:57 AM
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"hey, I know this is very unusual, but I find you intriguing and wanted to have a chat" If you feel blocked by your own fear, reframe your thoughts to something positive, like "she could be my next gf" or "she could be a great fuck". I wrote an example of how I successfully got a date out of a 1 minute cold approach in this post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9cobwt/probably_the_best_aa_killer_ive_ever_tried/ Then again, it's gonna take a while to get used to doing this: even …
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:50 AM
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I'm having a hard time giving you a proper answer because there's so much shit that could be said. Accepting yourself is one thing, self pity is another. I'll say it again. You become what you think you are. Read a book called psychocybernetics by maxwell maltz. It will explain in great detail with actual examples what I mean.
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:33 PM
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Bruh, did you know how to ride a bike before riding a bike the first time? No you didn't. But I bet you didn't approach bike riding with this self defeating mentality "im never gonna be able to". You become what your brain thinks, so yeah, in practice if you keep thinking "I will never be able to blahblah" that's exactly what's going to happen, and it's gonna be your mindset's fault only.
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:18 PM
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Tbh I think we mean kinda the same thing. It comes from inside anyway
/r/seduction08/10/19 09:38 AM
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Tbh signals are not that necessary. I can't read them, so I approached regardless. Still managed to get something good sometimes
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:56 AM
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That's retarded advice. I've been questioning my attractiveness for years ever since I was a teenager and despite this I had my fair share of hot chicks. OPs fault may come from anywhere, not just his attractiveness level. Besides, even if it was that, well then knowing the answer is so much better than not knowing. Everything can be fixed to some extent
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:52 AM
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It’s just hard to be confident when I go months on end without a woman’s touch... Your mindset is totally backwards. When you were 7 years old I'm pretty sure you didn't give a rat's ass about women touch, and I bet my balls you weren't wasting your time questioning your value. Your "confidence" should come from things that you are and you do, nor from whoever is getting their daily dose of proteins from your dick.
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:35 AM
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Thanks for the compliment, I try my best. Admittedly, 5'6" is not very tall and could potentially hinder your chances with some girls, but it's not make or break it. It's something you can't change, so embrace it, make fun of it if you will. Approaching with a loser mentality is basically like trying to run a marathon with a foot tied to a ball and chain. ​ I met some really short guys, shorter than you, and some not even that handsome, with pretty girlfriends at their sides. And then again, it'…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:09 AM
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I did the exact same thing as you hundreds of times [..] Wait, I never said that thinking positively makes the girl say yes, I said that thinking positively makes your ass move towards the girl. I very often struggle with approach anxiety and found this method to trick myself into actually approaching. You say "I convinced myself she would" but that's wrong, it's out of your control. The thought should be "if I approach, something good might happen". They say "asking is halfway to having". If yo…
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:30 AM
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But you say you got a number in 30 sec? [..] ​ What /u/aspark32 said. The advice was not about "how to get a number in 30 seconds" but more like how to overcome your obstacles before the approach. ​ I don't know how good looking I am. People say I'm good looking, but I wouldn't know how to rate me. It's also true that I take good care of myself: haircut, beard, clothes are on point, I don't exercise but I'm lean. If you want a reference point, most people say I look like Zachary Quinto (however …
/r/seduction04/09/18 09:38 AM
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Took me a while to figure out the metaphor, at first I was like "is this guy on the wrong subreddit?". But yeah thanks, I got it.
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:15 PM
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I'm waiting for nothing. I've actually been trying to improve for 1 year after the breakup but I've been seeing very little results, probably less than I did before knowing about the game, and I still didn't figure out why. I'm as baffled as some of my friends that ask me stuff like "I don't get it, you're good looking, you're fun to be around, the fuck is it that you can't pull for shit?" and I'm like "I wish I knew". It came to a point that the whole thing became more depressing than anything …
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:14 PM
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It's not much the cheating that bothered me 'cause I understand that, I did that (with her and in the past) and I've been thru that with other girls, and I know there's 1000s of different reasons for which one cheats. It's more the whole stringing along + abandonment that's been my issue so far with nearly every relationship I've been with. I don't want to get back with her right off the bat, nor anywhere close in the future tbh (my current job basically prevents me from having a social life). I…
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:07 PM
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If you're coming from an abundance mindset I wish, but I don't. Like, it's not the mindset that's missing, I know what it is, it's the actual results.
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:03 PM
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You seem to be very insecure and lack confidence in yourself Yes that's true, but what made you think so? Are you a "fun and exciting" guy that women want to be with? I honestly don't know how to answer this question. I could say yes or no, I guess it depends on the situation. Certainly I'm not someone women want to bang right now. At least strangers I've just met.
/r/seduction11/01/17 12:35 AM
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If that ever worked, you are good looking enough that it shouldn't be an issue in pickup. Well yes, it did, but not SO often. I've been explicitly approached by a girl maybe, I dunno, 5-6 times that I know of (that is to say, I dated the girl at least once later). I don't know how many approached me with intent and I didn't capitalize on that, I'm waaayyy too oblivous for anything that isn't something close to "we should hang out". Well actually I know of one, a good friend of mine who years ago…
/r/seduction09/01/17 11:27 PM
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I don't know who you are but I've read the reviews and happened to like the poetic tone you have. So, thanks! As someone who's really struggling I definitely hope it will help me.
/r/seduction15/12/16 01:58 AM
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Alpha M. Youtube channel has PLENTY of style advice for men, from clothing to grooming and such. The guy is cool AF and really knows his shit. Check it out!
/r/seduction15/12/16 01:41 AM
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Too bad the car would need to be fixed again afterwards
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:27 AM
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Bitch she's an engineer, you can talk to her about fixing the engine of your car or whatever and she'd actually be entertained by it. Bonus points if she then helps you in fixing the car. And then have sex on the hood.
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:14 PM
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