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| 5 | Great book on holding frame and negotiating; 'Never split the difference' By Christopher VossI don't care who wrote it. If you tell me one thing you find most interesting and life changing - I might read it even if written by Kermit 🐸 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Game Tip for Going Out Solo in 2017If you admit you're on yourself she might as well think you're an interesting guy - can enjoy his own company which is rather rare. Good skill to be able to lie like explained in the article just to see the difference - it's interesting! If she's a smart girl and she likes you - shouldn't really matter who you came with.. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Just say HI!truly happy for you, internet stranger, for not fucking this up :) | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Nothing to say during the date?I had similar thoughts recently. Maybe we ask girls out too early without being really interested in them? | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How to have an awesome night outYou're right, maybe it was hard luck and she had a bad day, was a bitch, …… (whatever fits). Maybe she has touch issues because of a rape attempt in past or being molested. Everyone is different so calibrating is the key. Anyway — Fortune favours bold! :) | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How to have an awesome night out"The claw" - does that imply she doesn't see you when you first touch her? sounds risky since some girls are prone to get angry when being touched by people they don't know ;) it's silly how I got attention of 2 guys after touching shoulder of a girl (their friend/gf) during the party. It seemed so not intimidating, but she turned to me (I approached from her side) and said "don't touch me". I should have said I'm sorry for her she's not used to guys approaching her but I started to deal with 2 … | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 01:45 PM |
| 5 | What's the one thing you changed that you feel has had the biggest effect on your game?So… what's the best method to stop those ego voices? | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Sarged 25 women, still a 25 year old virgin (field report)nothing interesting. 24 descriptions of screwing up simple chat with girls encountered in clubs. you saved your time ;) (25th was his mom who as far as I remember made him pancakes). Sorry OP ;) | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?If you like her and If she gives any sign of noticing you - you gotta go and say anything. This is as simple as that. Art of seduction would be more for making girls like you even if they show no interest at the beginning :) REMEMBER: you described the simple case. No thinking, just go and say hello. It's your lucky day :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 10:47 PM |
| 1 | My self-esteem is at an all time low. How can I even get a girl if I dislike myself? Advice greatly appreciated.I have my self-esteem pretty low these days too.. I had great days when I felt like a king of the world.. Maybe we just have to wait.. up & downs - everyone has them. I see some solutions in sports (BJJ, weights), buddhism (zazen practice), just don't giving a fuck.. Which is simple to say, difficult to truly live by.. Maybe some advices here will help me too. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.You know you don't extend your hand first when you meet a girl, right? ;) Savoir vivre? | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get a guy numbers?It happend to me that girl took number. Nothing's wrong with that. But generally I think guys are attracted to girls that don't initiate things at the beginning.. They'd rather chase the rabbit than catch it ;) | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?I heard from my female friend she sometimes consider attractive somebody not typically handsome. Like this guy Casey Neistat. She saw his movies and told me that he's like a magnet, but he's not really handsome. Do something that make them want to be with you :) | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Step by Step ApproachYou don't put out hand to shake her hand first. S a v o i r - v i v r e ? :P | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:27 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceStop bitching, you did well. Do your job, you'll get what you want. Don't give a shit about reactions like this. I imagine how many male idiots I know, how many guys I'd not even have a drink with because they're utter assholes. Now think there's that many girls out there too. You're just sometimes blinded by their appearance. "what are you doing" — if you're not confident they call it "creepy", if you're confident douchebag they call it "super manly and determined". Don't listen to their bullsh… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you guys talk about?You're a Redditor and you don't have nothing to talk about? Seriously.. I hate myself for not closing my mounth. I feel like being quite is what works best, letting girl to talk as they love to do. But I have in my mind so many thoughts on articles I read recently, I just take one after another. Throw something short and intriguing, let her comment, maybe she will move from there to another topic. You can catch every single word she says. Maybe questions prepared before will help you - use them … | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] State your fucking intentions.Very useful. Why don't we collect yet another list of such convictions, to not forget about it. The other helpful one for me is "If you think you know everything, think again" — helpful when you put negative thinking examples where actually question marks are, in relation with new woman. Ask instead of pretending to know it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 09:33 AM |
| 0 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyI have different experience. The older I get, I deal with my anxieties or social fears easier. I thought this is what growing up and becoming a man is about… ;) | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:48 PM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyRecognition for our efforts and successes is yet another sickness (most of us have it). We're all infected with desire of having positive feedback, even if on the opposite we have idiots. If we upvote mediocre advice how far are we from upvoting bad advices? Something like "oh, this guy is trying really hard, he's wrong now, but maybe in a week he will be better, upvote him for more energy" ;) | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:37 PM |
| 3 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyAs one recent topic in /r/seduction says "talk to everyone". Most of guys have problems with talking to hot girls, me too. But I also see this tendency – the more you talk with random people, girls that don't make your heart beats faster, groups, clerks in grocery store, people in line – the easier it is to speak with nice girls too. Anyway — And I'd say sleep with those that are attractive to you.. why would you have sex with "unattractive" one.. You didn't find your dick in the trash to put it… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:31 PM |
| 0 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyDo you think it requires more determination to get through your problems when your 27 than when you are 20 ? I don't think so. It's just shows you were good with tolerating shitty state of some part of your personality or life. I push my friends for changes they want but don't have balls to do. Sometimes I risk loosing friendships. Some of them may hate me after I push them to breaking up the relationship which they don't feel good in. I know guy who had problems with leaving home for studies be… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyContributing this way is like being happy that something on wikipedia was right and putting it in different words under the original article. It's not my bussiness, let him have his thread and everyone who feels like patting his arm with warm "way to go, bro" – sure, why not. But if you upvote this for sympathy for the guy, not for actual good advices – it's misguiding for people who look for serious help from guys that deal with this shit like pros. And I don't believe that getting through expe… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:17 PM |
| -1 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyMy feedback is more general — look out from whom you're taking advices. There's a lot of guys out there giving advices about getting laid who don't. If you follow somebody's footsteps, chances are you will find yourself where he did. I'm not here to tell him he's a looser or anything like this – I consider myself being a looser in some terms, I see my weaknesses and I continue to conquer them. I'd rather remind you to filter shit you read and think whose advices you should follow. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 01:06 PM |
| -7 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyNo offence here but … No matter how sincere your words are I don't know if I would take seduction advices from somebody who had sex in a age of 27 and it wasn't his choice – do you take financial advices from a homeless guy? Of course, you repeat well known things, but it's like hearing story from 5th hand. You'd better go for the source, there are many ;) Thanks for trying anyway and good luck with getting better. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 12:29 PM |
| 1 | I've just had a sudden epiphany.I use logic, women don't. I know it's bullshit but I tend to put too much effort while knowing there's no need to. Women often like me, they act like I was doing/looking good… but something pushes me to say and do too much :) I wish I could not care about their reactions… I think this is because of how we are being rised by women. We are doing our best to see mothers proud, teachers (mostly females) pleased with good answers and test results… and then with our girlfriends happy because of gifts,… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 12:07 PM |
| 3 | I've just had a sudden epiphany.I'm addicted to trying to make people like me and see my world/passions. You'd better tell me how to loose this… I know it would be better to chillout and let them be all about finding out all those things themselves… any tips? | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:52 AM |
| 12 | Treat Yourself Well - Advice I gave to a friend you might find usefulI would emphasize the part about feeling good with yourself. I know this guy dating girl because he can't be alone. I'd tell you one thing – after 25 years on this world I found common thing for all goals that require patience and effort. There's that curve of learning. If you're running, you might feel exhausted after 3 kilometers, but if you make it till 5, then it goes easier. The same with being alone. If you panic, run for company, you will never reach that point where you're ok. Let yourse… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 10:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Bus GirlI'd never let the girl take my number. Of course it's always better than not interacting at all but.. you give her control. Fingers crossed for you ;) | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 10:37 AM |
| 1 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...Myth #11 — Introverts don't always use black background for their websites. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!I got better idea: no texting with girls. Unless it's scheduling appointment or making them horny before seeing. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 07:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.Good job. I really think this is task for todays dads. Back in the old days they were teaching kids to hunt, now they should make you be sure it's completely normal to pick up beautiful chicks. My dad didn't teach me that, but I'm sure I'll make my kid believe that, be socially open and never see problem in speaking with any hot girl or anybody he wants to talk. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 11:16 AM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation?I think it's impossible to throw away those thoughts. You're only capable of just doing what you think it's ok. You had to be some budda to even think clear. It's your brain's job to go through possibilites, but it's also your conscience task to pick from possibilities and be the guy you want to be. And yeah, it's hard to not like peoples attention and admiration. I'll gladly read some tutorial how can one stop being attention begger :) | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsI can tell my friend things I like: – I like girls wearing leg warmers – I like when girls make eye contact – I like when girls offer paying for themselves – I like when girl is thankful for your efforts. And you say I don't know what I like? :) | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsExamples you give work with your theory. But I'd give more generic advice – don't listen to advices :P Think. Everyone has some abberations, issues, tend to repeat some stupid stereotypes etc. If you think "I need to touch her" and "I can't buy her drink" – that's too easy. Looking at this matter from different perspective - if my good friend (female) would ask me how to pickup guys - I'd tell her what I like and what could make me want her. Why this couldn't work the other way? If I ask some gi… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 09:03 AM |
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