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| – | Do guys here seriously never get approached by women at all? Not even indicators of interest?That sounds made up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:23 AM |
| 1 | If all men want is sex, and women aren't special, why does it matter what a woman's body count is?Guys also want the status symbol of a woman only few men got to touch. Quality of sex is less important than status. However if he cares not about a relationship, then bodycount shouldn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?It's literally called the red pill. You need to choose blue pill to live blissfully ignorant, that's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:16 AM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?That's the neat part, you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Women arent destroying masculinity, men areHave you considered that a mgtow might post about women and what made him quit because he wants to educate other men? You just assume that a random dude that posts about dating and women hasn't quit on that. But I generally agree with your post that most of the incels aren't real men to begin with. Wouldn't blame RP or mgtow though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:00 PM |
| 5 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.Jup it's just sad how many men develop a slave mindset towards women just because they want some access. Beta providers beyond saving. That's why "redpill" is a matrix reference. Dudes need to wake up for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?She's so entitled she'll not lower her standards so unless you're a millionaire screw you anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | If I knew my girlfriend was spending her time on forums trying to logically dissect our relationship based on an ideology, that shit would be such a turn-off. I could see this applying to me too as a guy.There is already so much shame around educating men on female nature we don't need more of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeAnd that's why you need to teach them to not chase girls. Chase excellence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:10 PM |
| -1 | In the end, all men want is to feel needed. How do we help men cultivate a new purpose?Makes me laugh to hear men are not needed. Nobody makes them feel needed, yes. But everything is getting worse because less men contribute, and if all the providers and protectors that you don't even see anymore are gone, I'm sure, you'll notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?You were a "nice guy" but a very non toxic version of it. You didn't mislead the women on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Don't you realize that men are already getting shamed for basically every dating preference they could possibly have? Name 1 preference that men don't get shamed for, I'll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Untouchable girl?Happens if you are too attractive, because redpill stuff is assumed about you. Like, you probably bitchy, body count 200+, high maintenance. Men don't want to deal with that shit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on love languages?Fk them, they're just cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.First of all, height isn't a universal disqualifier. Men just observe a lot of rejection which (whether that's even true or not) the girl justified with "you're too short". Also, the guitar frontman is getting laid. Shocking. Maybe you can be in the 20% as a short guy after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 06:26 AM |
| 30 | Is is true that being a single mother penalizes a woman more than dating than being a single father does for men?There is a simple reason for that. When dating a single father, a woman doesn't assume that she'll have to carry the financial burden of his kid. And for some reason "being good with kids" is still a plus for men and a default for women. Other common talking points (will not want another kid, will prioritize kid etc) are applied to single mothers and father's alike. Oh, may I add another thing : the reason that especially men are advised so much against dating single mothers imo is that since ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:26 PM |
| 3 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.It's true that in the debate about the dating market every POV gets mixed together which is unhealthy. Like, somebody that wishes for 50s dating standards to come back should ask himself first whether he could even be held up to that standard. In a world where social media doesn't exist, would you get her father's approval? No? Then stop complaining and work on yourself first. Yeah they didn't have delusional dating standards back then, but they also didn't have internet, porn and video games. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Actually, no, not at all. Because as you rightfully included in your post, without women you also wouldn't have children. And without family being a thing at all in your life, who are you building for? I mean certain high status things like Sportscars would still be fun, but the only thing really worth working your ass off is your family. If you don't have that, you'd just max out your own enjoyment while working as little as you can to achieve that. And honestly, I'm seeing this tendencies more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why?I think what you are talking about is women venting on what bothers them in men's behavior, and you're right, men should have picked that up by now. But that only tells you what not to do. Since women only see it through their lenses they have not more than generic advice to offer like "be yourself", and the non generic advice is as often false as it is true (from both men and women). The only valuable advice out there is the "self-improvement" line of redpill because you basically can't go wron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:33 PM |
| 22 | Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why?Because what women say they want doesn't match up with who they're dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle."Just be yourself" is the perfect dating advice, if the goal is to keep everyone single. If you look at the stats, it's working good so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rugThe problem is since nobody wants to perceive themselves as flawed nobody is honest to themselves about what deeply flawed characteristics they're attracted to. Women lie to themselves about what kind of men they want but go for the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMVNo sir. You are not single because you are ugly, you're single because you're boring. I've seen girls that I consider 10s with cavetrolls just because they were into their personality. What so many men don't understand is that since women don't choose their sexual partners rationally it doesn't matter how much of a "good partner" you are on paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I am confused about the state of Red-Pill.Red pill has both PUA and mgtow in it. You sound more mgtow, why not just consume their talking points? To each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?I think you don't quite get what's he point here. Men, typically aquire more resources as they get into their 30s. Like, they have finished their education, built their career and have some nice resources. But their personality, although changed by the years, isn't all that different. They likely still into the same fandoms, like the same hobbies, same friends, same quirks. A woman who didn't give a shit about him in her twenties but now he's hot stuff means she basically just wants the resource… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:17 AM |
| 7 | The assumption that some men make about women having it easier in dating is usually made by inexperienced men who have not gotten a glimpse into women's lives.Yeah, you "have to" put makeup on. Because the other 9 competing for your f-boy do too. Tell me more about how hard it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here believe in love and actually finding someone who cares about them?The thing is : men don't even have a choice. "love" is what's expected. You can't just say to a woman "yeah I'm kind of comfortable enough with you let's make kids", you have to play along with the Skript. Your question is redundant. It's "honey I love you so much" or die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Why hate on women who do OF?You never heard the word simp, have you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Where did the idea of a woman's SMV originate from? To the point where it has become a hot topic for PurplePill and Redpill Reddit?The concept is not that hard to grasp. Things that matter in attraction towards the other sex can be measured on a scale. These are always based on trends, so individual preferences might say differently but don't matter on a larger scale. Age and beauty and fitness level and wealth and education and so on are metrics to measure your SMV. It's not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Why hate on women who do OF?Manosphere perspective always takes the POV of a potential partner. I don't have anything against sex work of any kind nor would I ever disrespect a person that engages in it. But women don't realize that they're disqualifying themselves for relationships with men who don't want vids of their future wife on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 21 | Why hate on women who do OF?Man hate on OF because both customers and people who do it are kind of pathetic. Sex work should not be your normalized side hussle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?I'm all in for harsh rejections. Women should have their standards straight and reject to their hearts desires. Only area where they could be more "open" is when giving more guys a try on dating apps. Because most guys don't get a chance to get their personalities across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 01:14 AM |
| 2 | 20, Graduate, Planning to get into a good foreign university, Work and Settle there..Not harder than in other European countries. Covid and refugee crisis have made it harder than it was a few years ago, but it's still very much doable. If you want to increase your chances learn the language on a basic level. Not saying it's required but the guy working on your case might choose in your favor nor likely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | 20, Graduate, Planning to get into a good foreign university, Work and Settle there..Not harder than in other European countries. Covid and refugee crisis have made it harder than it was a few years ago, but it's still very much doable. If you want to increase your chances learn the language on a basic level. Not saying it's required but the guy working on your case might choose in your favor nor likely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | 20, Graduate, Planning to get into a good foreign university, Work and Settle there..If you want a German speaking country, try Austria. University is free, competition in the field is low and it has all the same benefits as Germany but is less well known in the rest of the world. We have great beer, too. It's also easier to get into university. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | 20, Graduate, Planning to get into a good foreign university, Work and Settle there..If you want a German speaking country, try Austria. University is free, competition in the field is low and it has all the same benefits as Germany but is less well known in the rest of the world. We have great beer, too. It's also easier to get into university. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 9 | As a young person, how do I deal with the fact that people my age talk about the world like they know everything?You can't imagine how happy it makes me to see people actually understand how important an open mind is in a discussion. You should listen to anybody with the mindset that they could be right and you could be wrong, people used to understand that this is a basic rule for communicating and reasoning. Most people who call themselves activists are so aggressive about their cause that they become ignorant to any differing view. What you should do about it? Always be the more polite, more wise one in… | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | MY FRIEND FOUND OUT HIS GF HAS BEEN CHEATING ALL THE TIME. BUT HE WISHES HE DIDN'T KNEW ITAs a friend, do what you can to help him out of that mindset. He will apply this "better with her than being alone" mindset on other women in his life and that will lead him into awful trouble. Teach him a bit of self worth. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm close to suicide after dievorce and no contact with my Son.Do not give up. This is a battle that can be won. As long as your heart beats you can search for ways to see your son again and improve your situation. One day he will be old enough to be independent of her, and trust me he will want to have you in his life. You will be reunited and you will have a good life someday and think back to this moment thankful that you decided to live on. Even if there is no immediate way to fix this situation, you are not powerless. Work on your financial situation a… | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/11/20 10:01 PM |
| 11 | I need to ask a question and I’d really appreciate y’all hearing me out.In fact I hope you do not get much hate, because it is brave to bring up a topic like that between two sides that tend to trigger each other instead of communicating. So here is my opinion on it. From all that I've heard, read and experienced the problem is not mgtow disregarding the premise of feminism in general like equal rights and challenging social norms for women (which is fine by itself), but what is actually opposed is double standards and attacks on masculinity. You see, advocating for… | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/11/20 08:21 AM |
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