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| 5 | [deleted by user]Marine officers come from OCS, and barring that, Annapolis; not West Point | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Knowing the difference between arrogance and confidence and why it is important.Kanye West (the interrupting guy) is not beta. He is on his own planet, and I say that with admiration. The idea that the audience wouldn't want to hear him never entered his consciousness. Tom Cruise is similar in this respect-he is on his own planet, one where everybody jumps on couches. Tldr; extreme dgaf is not the same as arrogance. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls use sexy body language like swinging their hips, biting lips, etc, to seduce. What should guys do?To impress a chick, do the helicopter dick. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to assume that a 'movie night' is something more if there's been sexual tension for a long while?It means she shops at Costco, ergo she is a keeper. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 06:26 AM |
| 7 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.Female friends is a huge thing. You get much better at being comfortable around women. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.I've been thinking about this lately. I've gone on tons of first dates through OKC, and if I'm not feeling the girl, I just go bonkers and try to intentionally disqualify myself with this girl. I start talking about my exes, weird places I've had sex, and generally try to give this girl the message that she shouldn't contact me after our one chaste night together. Without fail, this behavior only makes the girl come at me harder. TL;DR: Talking about exes FTW? | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Made my first ever approached today. Scared shirtless, proud, but also kind of disappointed.Get. Out. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Rock climbing is perfect for anyone looking to improve themselves and their game. Here's why:Great for building more confidence as well You start to discover that without risk, there can be no victory. The first time I climbed 5.10c I was right under the finish, and thought "there's no way I can get my right hand to the finish, because my left hand is on a really shitty hold right now". Once I committed to the move it wasn't anywhere near as hard as I thought. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What should I get a friend with benefits for her birthday?Tickets to pound town. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Advice for online dating request: Is it good or bad to post photos of yourself with attractive girls?It's social proof, aka DHV | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:25 AM |
| 11 | What do you do when somebody belittles you or disagrees with your opinion in public?The way to defuse insults is the same way to deal with any other conversation; agree and amplify. Your roommate says you like dudes? Grab his ass and say "only the skinny ones". You look totally dgaf, and he'll probably freak out a little which is a nice dlv for him. My roommates girlfriend tried to cockblock me with a girl by saying I hated kids, so I blurted out "only the black ones". Obviously not true, but the girl was amused. Being alpha is about being a leader. A leader does what he wants,… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Shut Up and Kiss herShe's a nice lady! | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How to defuse "I love you" HELPHan fucking Solo. Can you believe this line was ad-libbed? George Lucas wrote it as "I love you too" | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 09:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "I'm not a player, I just crush a lot." K-Close.Don't knock it 'til you've crushed it, bro. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 06:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] "I'm not a player, I just crush a lot." K-Close.This fb I had asked me if I was a player. When I demurred she said "Let me guess; you just fuck alot?" I lol'd. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Maxim's hottest woman in the world doesn't get hit onDidn't the okcupid blog talk about this? | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Why women lose the dating game.Sounds like my aunt and uncle, only she waited until the oldest kids were done with high school. All the kids know she did it because he didn't make enough money, and they hate her for it. She's miserable now too, because her expenses increased without my uncle there as a handyman, and Captain Save-A-Hoe isn't interested in a mid-40's divorcee. My uncle, on the other hand, is having a fucking ball. All these women are coming out of the woodwork to date him (because he's an awesome, caring man), … | /r/MensRights | 29/04/12 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to feel manly/masculine?Are you a rapist? | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How to handle when a girl throws the "L" word at youMy ex used to get so pissed when I did this. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Every day I'm getting made fun of, getting insulted, getting picked on, etc. by co-workers, friends and people who then join in because I seem beta. Any advice on how to respond to these things and become more alpha in a group?Reminds me of Steve Martin in Roxanne. He has a huge nose in the movie, and some guy in a bar calls him "Big Nose" while he's trying to pick up the hot blonde female lead. He then comments on how stupid the guy who insulted him is, because there are so many better possible insults against a guy with a huge nose. He then bets he can come up with 20 better insults off the top of his head, and totally AMOGs the guy. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:26 AM |
| 2 | I've come to the conclusion that I'm terrible with women.Any time a girl says "I'm not going to fuck you", she means I'm thinking about fucking you. PERIOD! I was dating this girl my freshman year in school. Cute blonde, really sensual, and she tells me "I'm not going to have sex with you". So dumbass freshman me thinks "Well fuck. What a waste of my time! I don't want blue balls!" and stops talking to her. If I'd kept dating her for another week or two I would have been balls deep, my friend. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:15 AM |
| 2 | [FR] My 2nd date with 9 and worse LMR.Did nobody else think of this scene from Black Dynamite? Hear, hear mama. Now you can hit the sheets or the streets, it don't make me no nevermind. That's your bag, baby. You can go or you can cum, can you dig it? This movie should be required viewing. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:07 AM |
| 2 | What are your opinions on this PsychologyToday article, has it proven true to you? Does it work?I think it's practice. Most of us are limited by our own self-image. If you pretend you are different, you can trick yourself into breaking through the limits you placed on yourself, and eventually find that they weren't limits at all. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What is the good "Why are you so cocky?" shit test answer?I read this in Borat's voice | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 08:55 AM |
| 2 | What is the good "Why are you so cocky?" shit test answer?"I don't know who starts these rumors. I mean...it's not huge" | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 08:55 AM |
| 3 | First date, not sure what to doGotcha. Thanks | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:47 AM |
| 1 | First date, not sure what to doso it's not like you're making out in front of 40 other people. Excellent point! Making out in front of 40 other people is a surefire way to activate the Anti-Slut Defense. I've done that at a party, in a bounce house. ASD to the moon! | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:13 AM |
| 4 | First date, not sure what to doall my first dates are dinner and about 70-80% I end up f-closing. I've always been of the opinion that dinner is a bad first date (cost, food in mouth limits conversation, cliched, etc.) Can you elaborate on this? It seems like I may be missing something fundamental here. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:03 AM |
| 4 | First date, not sure what to doGo bouldering. She falls, you catch her. Instant kino, and you're pressing all those "protector" buttons. You fall and engineer it so you land on her. Then go for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Not into Asians.. shit test or not?Probably a shit test. Ignore, or agree and amplify, like this: "It sounds racist, but I agree. Think about it - over a billion people in China, plenty more in the other Asian countries. A lot of women just can't keep up with an an Asian guy." | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 04:57 AM |
| 3 | How does one "pick up" a girl?It's gonna be sort of like a deadlift or a clean. Squat down and grab her, then stand up. When standing up, make a conscious effort to clench your butt-cheeks together, which will fire your posterior chain of muscles (glutes, hamstrings, etc.) Your quads should only really come into play when your knees are closer to straight (135 degree angle, or so). | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cocky/funny verbal freeze-out (try this out!)Is it long and distinguished? | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Eye contact in carsDid he do the eye stare? I taught him that. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Sedditers, how do you steer your conversations toward sex?Actions speak louder than words. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 04:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Great date even though I didn't close, reinforces some basic pointsI question how good your kino was if she didn't kiss you. Hand on thigh? Close face to face conversation? Body to body contact? Next time I'd you get rebuffed, try again a little later, you say you were with her another couple hours. Good call on going where you wanted, you were probably very relaxed, which is critical. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I give you: Vice's Guide to Picking Up Chicks. This is an epic from the Gavin McInnes era. (x-post from funny)Holy shit, I remember reading this 7 years ago in the dorms. The whole part about have a pair and a spare was key to building an abundance mentality for me. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:03 AM |
| 1 | The dreaded hook up (guy and girl introduced by a mutual friend who thinks they'd be "perfect for each other!")I met my most recent ex like this. A mutual friend said "she reads, and she's stacked. You need to meet her." We hit it off immediately, and the rest was history. Your friend presumably knows both of you, so your odds of making a connection are pretty good. However, it's entirely possible that she may at some level enjoy being able to complain about whoever she's with (I have some experience of this...) You lose nothing by meeting this girl. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 06:54 AM |
| 3 | "I have a boyfriend" comebacks.Do you have a girlfriend Swofford? Sir, Yes Sir! Guess again motherfucker! Jody's banging her right now! Now drop and give me ten for every time she gets fucked this month! | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 06:16 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Clubbing with a 3-set. Got called "confusing" How to improve?It's flattering to say she looks like a celebrity, but if she already knows who without you saying anything, I think it's time to change tack. When she said "Who, Taylor Swift?" that was your cue to change some shit up! I'm just spitballing here... "No silly, my mom. She's the best cupcake baker in our whole neighborhood!" "Taylor Swift? Bitch, you look like Goku" "Amy Adams and Rachel McAdams combined into one impossibly adorable girl, sent down from heaven to wiggle with me." | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Read this, "A Serial Seducer". Count how many times you nod in agreement with what he says...Well if we start with an F-close, the kino afterwards would be pretty easy. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Read this, "A Serial Seducer". Count how many times you nod in agreement with what he says...Maybe the solution is to start with the desired endgame (#-close, k-close, f-close) and then do the backward planning to get from there back to the start of the interaction. If I want a solid makeout session at the end of this interaction, what needs to occur? I need a secluded place. Where is this secluded space and how do I get us there? How do I get her to agree to go there? And so on, back to the very first moment of the interaction. The goal for the interaction ends up dictating the chain o… | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Read this, "A Serial Seducer". Count how many times you nod in agreement with what he says...I really liked the line about having an agenda, like a meeting. You need to understand your goals and have at least a semblance of a plan. Of can think of two examples of this on my life.; I'm into target shooting, but used to just go to the range and shoot targets at random (not as on random targets, but I'd shoot my own targets without any sort of plan). I had fun, but didn't really accomplish anything. Going with even the most basic plan changes everything ("okay, today I'm going to have a fr… | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 09:45 PM |
| 197 | Good response to "You're cute"?"Thanks mom." | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Whats the longest someone has been in a relationship without having any sex?This is very dependent on the ratio of men to women in the area. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 07:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of one night stands. Have you reached a moment of disillusionment when at first sex was all you were after then realized that it always felt empty in the end?Used to be better. People have been saying that since it started. I think it's just not that good with a second look. Like MAD Magazine, or Ayn Rand books. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Whats the longest someone has been in a relationship without having any sex?4 months. Got very frustrating after month 2. Never again. | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 10:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Sunday Brunch with self-described "shy" girlThat's perfect! Opens up another angle for kino too. | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 08:18 AM |
| 1 | I watch this before I go out every night. Disney teaches inner game.The best way to get inner game is to kiss my lucky egg. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [FR] She said she would fuck me if I showed her proof that it was my birthday.Could have mentioned that your birthday suit was ready to go, since it was your birthday. | /r/seduction | 16/10/11 08:05 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!How is this the first swingers reference I've seen in seddit? | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 08:13 AM |
| 1 | I am a guy alone at a Cal PolyLMAO! I can't talk about Cal Poly at work because most of my colleagues went to the one that's farther south... | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 04:51 AM |
| 3 | I cock blocked a new friend and I want to patch things up with him.Losing her is his issue, not hers. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in muslim countries (egypt specifically)Surprised she came back at all. I hear shitty stories about women getting sent to Pakistan | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, help! I know I made a LOT of mistakes when trying to woo this girl (before reading seddit). How do I salvage it?Short answer is you don't salvage it. Read the sidebar and learn what seddit has to teach, and you'll meet more girls and forget all about this one you're currently obsessed over. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Can a guy who is a 4 pull a girl who is 8 or 9?Women aren't driven by the same evolutionary pressures as we are. While our focus is on indicators of fertility (which manifest as "beauty"), women are focused on indicators of intelligence, power and wealth, and generally not on looks. At least, not to the extent that we are. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 05:10 PM |
| 3 | [Technique] Introductions - How to Make Her Ask Your Name.Nice to know I'm giving back to seddit in a useful way. I'm using the name exchange as a gauge of interest whereas you and fall0ut are taking an entirely different tack on this and using it as a banter/neg opportunity. That didn't occur to me, but it's a pretty neat hack with some good advantages. That being said, I still think my method, while not optimal in all situations, has several key advantages: Ease of use, because you don't have to use it per se. Gauge of interest is applicable to all c… | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to give your number to a girl first, Without her asking?Sounds like a variation on the Apocalypse Opener. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 04:50 PM |
| 2 | AFC trying to seduce a seduce a girl that lives about three hours away and looking for adviceUnless she's the nearest skirt to you (are you in Antarctica?), why the hell are you worried about her? Find a girl closer to you (if you can't bicycle to her place in two hours, she's too far away). Unless you know for a fact that this girl's pussy shoots sparks like a Roman Candle, there are at least 30 better girls in a 10-mile radius. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:13 AM |
| 10 | Is it okay to give your number to a girl first, Without her asking?Shit, I don't even give my name until a girl asks. She'll say something like "I'm Naomi, what's your name?" or whatever the fuck, if she's interested. My name does nothing to tell her about who I am as a person or otherwise move the conversation along. It follows then that if she asks, it means that I've established interest/attraction. Similarly, giving out my name unbidden is, imo, telegraphing interest too soon. Giving out a number to a girl who doesn't give you hers first is similarly puttin… | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:05 AM |
| 1 | I love eating pussyWow really? That's pretty cool. Have you told your parents about your newfound calling in life? | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl saying she has a big ass.I would probably say "neat-o". As in, I could give a shit, but I'll humor you. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 12:21 AM |
| 4 | What's the worst reaction you ever got from trying to take the interaction to a sexual level with a girl?the one time I had anything like a bad reaction was over AIM. I was going down to visit this girl, I was pretty sure she was DTF, and she said "so what are you going to do when you see me?" Me being an inexperienced kid, I said "Fuck your brains out.". NOPE. I could have said "massage your feet with chicken vomit" and that would have gone over better. Even if I know a girl's DTF, I never refer to sex in anything but an oblique way. "You'll like what happens", "We'll both enjoy ourselves", etc. O… | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What sort of music or films would a seducer play for the ladies?I had a buddy who brought a girl home to watch a movie, and then proposed "Full Metal Jacket" as the movie to watch. The girl suddenly remembered her...whatever that she needed to do far away. So war movies are probably a no-go. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with Violent AMOGsAnd you care what this guy does, even though it doesn't affect you? Who's Beta now? | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 10:55 AM |
| 1 | I'm in love with an escort, how do I make her time with me more enjoyable?Send her out to buy nice clothes with your money. Then take her somewhere nice and stick up for her when she's about to make a fool of herself. You should be able to accomplish all this in a week or so. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 10:40 AM |
| 9 | "We should hang out sometime." Now what?What are you making with this cup of milk? And then you slam the cup and say you were just thirsty and wanted to chat. | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl here: What things can/does a girl do to move up or down in rating?I've known girls who can't not say like. As they talk, I'm ignoring what they're saying and keeping a mental tally of how many times they've used "like" as something other than a verb or part of a simile. | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl here: What things can/does a girl do to move up or down in rating?Sexy Son Hypothesis? Haha. Read The Selfish Gene again. | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Girl here: What things can/does a girl do to move up or down in rating?There are girls that go running and girls that should. | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 03:04 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with her challenging my suggestions for dates?Totally. Tell her she has cooties too. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with her challenging my suggestions for dates?I don't think so at all. Beta would be doing something disagreeable because the chick wants to do it. Alpha is doing something you like, even if it wasn't your idea. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 06:24 PM |
| 2 | A lesson from Richard Feynman on buying drinks for womenProbably talking about the blog posting that quoted the Feynman book. His books are pretty fucking awesome. He used to hang out and grade papers at a strip club, and he eventually did some paintings on velvet for said strip club. And he was the guy who figured out how the Challenger blew up. His books are "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!" and "What do You Care What Other People Think?". | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:38 AM |
| 0 | How one guy bought be drinks and was ignored and the other had me eating out of the palm of his hand. A FR of sorts from a girl.LOL | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 05:31 AM |
| 2 | A lesson from Richard Feynman on buying drinks for womenOdd place to find this anecdote, since the blog author's point seems to be that somehow Richard Feynman...Patriarchy...slut-shaming...pizza. I've never tried the method, though I read about it in Feynman's book many years ago. His main point was that what he'd learned about how to interact with women (this being after he'd been widowed in his late twenties) was totally wrong. As a scientist, he found this very odd. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Sexy son hypothesis. (Although linked from the asshole game post 1 link from cee9dub, worthy of it's own seddit post imo).The sexy son hypothesis is in essence that females prefer some trait because females prefer that trait. It's circular and implies that these preferred traits are completely arbitrary. No evolutionary biologist seriously believes this anymore. | /r/seduction | 30/07/10 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How to become the Alpha maleGet rid of your self-limiting beliefs. What possible benefit is there to thinking: You're talking about intrinsic qualities which make you weak/worthless/whatever. STOP IT! " <John Doe> is better than me in pretty much every way" "I barely grow any facial hair" "I am shorter/weaker/..." If you feel the need to dwell on past disappointments, focus on the things you can do better the next time. "I need to make an effort to get better at the things I enjoy doing", "I should go clean-shaven, because… | /r/seduction | 12/07/10 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, How many of you have become more natural leaders?My issue has always been that I've been a natural leader with other guys, and with large groups, but never with just women. I've been working on it, because leadership is leadership. | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 07:43 AM |
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