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| 7 | Just read 'Mode One' and I'm more confused than ever. | wwwsssppp | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 08:05 AM | |
| 6 | [Discussion] Is being in the friend zone such a bad thing? | wwwsssppp | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 02:13 AM | |
| 6 | How do I shake past views of myself? | wwwsssppp | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 10:29 AM |
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| 1 | Just read 'Mode One' and I'm more confused than ever.So he's basically teaching high risk / high reward seduction. He gets blown out of the water but keeps going until he finds someone to fuck. My personality is completely different to his so anything I try will not be congruent. The main takeaway is to make intentions clear (but within your own style). I'm going to go read 'Models' for the 4th time and forget all this mode one stuff. | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Just read 'Mode One' and I'm more confused than ever.I'm perusing it now. It's kind of like Models. Kind of. Though I like the general policy of being honest with yourself, I am finding things in it that I disagree with. I feel like it's the precursor to "Models". I agree that some of it's disagreeable. He's kind of wrong about "small talk." He's right that it won't get you anywhere if that's all you do. BUT, it is often a necessary gateway to get to the deeper conversations. Thank you, I fell this was glossed over in the book. Example: a simple q… | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Guys on here with high lay counts who have slept around with a ton of different women, what has been your primary source?Mostly tinder, social contacts and events when I was living in Melbourne. Been about a year living in Japan and it's been 3. One relationship, one virgin and one 'condom is too small so I'll cum on your tits'. | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 07:46 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes I get tired...Dude thank you. It's good to know other people feel the same way. I'm also early 30's with mainly male oriented hobbies. The hobbies that aren't are where I find girls. Going up to a girl on the street makes me feel like a creep. I've done it in certain situations but mostly it feels fake and unnecessary. Sure I can get my life more in order but how will they know if they are not around. Some days I just want to be selfish and not give a fuck about pick up or anyone at all. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more sexual?I can be sexual when I want to be but will er on the side of not. I've done over 100 days of no fap before and it just hurt. Learnt a lot, hurt a lot. A lot of my issue is getting conversation to a deep level. If the speak good English I'm fine. My Japanese isn't good enough for great flow. Aussie living in Japan. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Becoming more sexual?I only masturbating once a week and never to porn. Been doing it 3 months and my libido has gone down. I've been lifting heavy, eating well, socializing and people would call me a confident dude. I have to stop some of my hobbies for a while because I'm spending all my money on them and need to travel more. Just saying, that not masturbating can lead to a lower libido, not higher. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Becoming more sexual?I'm also at once a week and my drive has dropped since starting 3 months ago. At the start my libedo jumped up and slowly dropped. Now being sexual is more instict rather than feeling. Just from being on so many dates. I see the signs, respond and escalate. When I meet the right person it happens fast, when I don't, say a random girl on the street, there is nothing. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 02:02 AM |
| 3 | After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go wellYeah good write up. I had a great date playing checkers but it was a very different situation. We found a giant board in the park. I beat her comfortably and we made fun of kicking around the pieces Chess was an option but too thinky. | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 11:41 PM |
| 10 | Every single girl I date falls in love. Am I setting my standards too low? Dating the wrong women?But he can find the girls that best suit him and his needs | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 10:37 AM |
| 2 | How to go to clubs and bars by myself?Don't like clubs? Don't go! The most interesting people I've met have been in cafés and dj bars because that's what I like. You can easily go out alone. Go to your favourite places and chat to the staff. They want to make sure you're having a good time and later on will introduce you to other regulars. In short, go where you want to go. | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What is putting a girl on a pedestal?Yeah that's the problem Do you know the solution? | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?You're not the first person to say that | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?Was never my opinion to begin with. There is one girl I can remember off the top of my head. Maybe I've told other girls I've been with but I can't remember. I have a friend that's a girl that visits from a nearby town. We haven't hooked up but I know it's a possibility. Told her on Friday about taking a 29f's virginity last week. | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 10:03 AM |
| 2 | What is putting a girl on a pedestal?Your home country.... | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 12:46 AM |
| 4 | How to Destroy Approach Anxiety With The Dickens PatternIt's a little hard to imagine since I'm reading this in the gym | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?Meh I've done this and it doesn't matter. I try to be an open book so there's no topic I won't talk about if it comes up. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What is putting a girl on a pedestal?I work out, dress well, groom, live in a foreign country, have a stable job and a city apartment. My life is great and I appreciate everything I have. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Gaming with a busy lifestyleGame about your day. You don't have to do out at night. Just game the girls you see during your day. Dates too. I've had many dates where we just go around completing errands. Need new shoes? Take her too. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What is putting a girl on a pedestal?Follow up question, how do you stop doing this? | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Next move ?Yeah that's a tough one. I think your next move should be to post this to r/askseddit. They handle all the specific girl questions. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 12:09 PM |
| 5 | How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex?If she doesn't want tea, don't make her drink it. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Woujo's guide for succeeding on datesSolid write up. Planning, leading and being relaxed are all very important. Just on the apartment thing. What do you recommend for a bare apartment? I live in a tiny minimalist one bedroom apartment in the city. I store my bed in the cupboard, don't own a TV and have limited Internet. Most of the time I just sleep, read, play on my sampler or pick something up. The rest of the time I'm out working, socializing and attending events. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling inadequate, insecure and "not good enough"? That "I have nothing to offer" feeling.I can't dance, I can't sing, I'm not a good fighter, I don't have my own apartment, I'm not self sufficient, I don't have a big dick, I'm not good looking aesthetically. I am the most uninteresting man in the world. I'm most of these things and have many hobbies and live abroad and still feel this way | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Just Say ItYeah, you still have the filter of "that's something to say". With time and practice that will go. I love complimenting on nice clothes and cool style. Just last night I was walking down the main street and saw a nice girl in a sunflower dress. Without thinking I said "そのドレスはきれいですね" (that dress is clean). Even though I said the wrong word the message was there and she thanked me. I just want to bring value to everyone's life. Even if it's one compliment at a time. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | 20 Psychological Life Hacks That Can Help You Gain Advantage in Social SituationsCan anyone save me a click? | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I shake past views of myself?What can I do to cultivate self esteem from within? | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Escalating things to sex?The best tip is yours | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything I can do to improve? Anything different you guys would've done?I would have posted it to the right subreddit......... | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 08:17 AM |
| 0 | Can't get past the openerI usually compliment her on her clothes if she is wearing something interesting. Other times I just ask if she's Japanese, tell her that I'm studying and if we can have a short conversation. The second one doesn't help you much but these are relevant to my life and goals. What relevant to yours? | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)Yes, ask yourself not the other person. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 04:36 AM |
| 2 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)That's me now but I have to diversify more. Spending all my money on events and booze. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 05:49 PM |
| 18 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)What are your hobbies? What do you love? And why? Doesn't matter what it is, if you have passion it will show. Also, you are young, practice talking to people. Everyone you can. After ask "What could I have done to make that interaction even better?". | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | PUA Infield Pickup: How To Effortlessly Pull A Group Of GirlsTLDW? | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 02:49 AM |
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