wymone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1779	He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child This line gets me : “other couples manage to do this without paying their wives to have children”. Yes, because they are ACTUALLY married, dipshit!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 03:24 PM
71	HVW tips for long distance relationships? Going home to work, or going home to his wife? Biggest vetting thing for me would be: how open is he to the idea of you visiting him at his place?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 06:03 PM
36	Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃‍♀️ Definitely this. I’m old enough that if I ever said out loud that I wouldn’t date a single father, I’d be crucified. But, I’m really hard pressed to think of a scenario where it could be ok, all roads seem to point to him being trash. Like maayybbee if he’s a widower, and it’s been a long time since she died, and he’s gotten whatever therapy and has learned to be independent in the meantime? Idk.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 03:51 PM
1	Lounge wear for winter I bought this PJ set earlier this year and I just love it! Very soft. It comes in longer version too. here	/r/RedPillWives	05/10/20 11:54 PM
14	What is RedPillWives? How does it differ from RedPillWomen? Oh thank goodness. This is awesome. I haven’t looked at redpillwives before, because I had assumed it was a married-only space. I’ve been reading RPW for a couple years now, but had become frustrated with how it was modded and the questionable advice the men were giving. A few months ago I finally peaced out to save my sanity. Nice to have some content to read again.	/r/RedPillWives	04/10/20 09:00 PM
3	I would like my boyfriend to spend money on me but I don’t want him to feel like he has to.. Am I being a bad person? I feel like this too at times, I don’t think it’s wrong. If I guy wants to take care of me, I feel more valued by him. The pure 50/50 splitting every bill doesn’t feel so romantic. But, I don’t think it’s something you can ask for. The gift won’t mean as much if it wasn’t his idea, right?	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/20 08:31 PM
7	Addressing an elephant in the room. There are men who maybe lurk on TRP who come over here angry- they are swiftly downvoted or removed by the mods, so that’s a good thing. But then you have the ones who may have mastered TRP and are plate spinning giving advice based on what they are looking for, and I just don’t think that is relevant for the women asking advice. The RPW does not want to attract a plate spinner. Depending on how it was presented, sometimes this advice is upvoted quite a bit.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/20 04:17 PM
10	Addressing an elephant in the room. Well, yeah. But those guys have a lot of power here, so there’s really nothing you can do. I’ve just been spending less and less time here because I don’t think getting annoyed over those comments is productive for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/20 05:17 AM
19	Ms. Midwest I never got the impression that she was being fake. But her content is “off” to me in another way- I don’t like how she presents ideas like she’s the authority, she came up with all these things on her own, gleaned from her life experience. Like dude, you’re what, 22?? Probably she read self help books like Surrendered Wife and similar. I don’t think it would kill her to say things like, “I read this idea X and it made total sense”. (Or maybe I am salty because I was definitely not that observan…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/20 11:34 PM
2	What are your thoughts on what this woman is saying in this video? I don’t really agree. I think with dating advice, you want advice from someone who has dated, especially in the age bracket which you are trying to date. Someone who married their first love might be in an enviable position, but probably won’t have solid dating advice.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/20 08:27 PM
4	Those of you who have actually had good luck with online dating— which sites did you have the most luck with in quality? Oh god no! I hate to out myself as a former wow player but I have such strong feelings about not looking for a partner on wow. I mean, it worked out for you, so congrats on that. I played for a number of years and it’s just such an easy way for married men to emotionally cheat. Some were open about it - they would talk about their wife and kids in group voice and be whispering me to flirt (I never encouraged this). Some would hide it and I’d find out later when they wouldn’t allow me to friend t…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/20 05:50 PM
6	I don’t want to be boring This used to be a big concern of mine. I thought not being interesting enough was my biggest problem, and I did all sorts of things to attempt to remedy this, from trips to learning languages to new hobbies. One of my biggest takeaways from RP content is that this doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does. I think it’s more of a movie thing- the girl catches the guy’s attention because she is into a rare hobby or has a snappy one-liner. About being dismissive though, that is something t…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/20 05:05 AM
2	Genuine question: Do I belong here? Instead of starting from the mindset of: ‘we’re going to combine finances, so I need someone who could handle that’, you might instead want to look for compatibility when it comes to mindset about money. For example, are you two in similar places on the spendy-frugality spectrum? Do you carefully consider purchases or are you more impulsive? How much do you look to the future vs live in the now? What kinds of debt are you comfortable with taking on, or is no debt important? And so on. Once you f…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/20 05:28 PM
71	Not sure how to feel. Did I betray him? If you’re discussing your recent breakup with your bumble prospects, then you probably aren’t ready to date. Take some time to yourself to reflect and heal. You don’t share the circumstances of your breakup, but generally you don’t want to make a habit of letting someone leave you and come back. There is reason you broke up.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/20 05:00 PM
49	Genuine question: Do I belong here? It’s not a sorority, it’s just a subreddit. If you feel like you get something out of reading, then go for it. It seems you may need to think more on what you want, what is really important to you. What do you want to prioritize? I’m reading that you want an ambitious career (doctor?), but want a guy that makes more. You want a guy who is a leader, but not too much of a leader. I think you are setting yourself up to be unsatisfied.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/20 06:31 AM
0	What is considered N-Count? Just intercourse? Or any form of intimacy? No and I wouldn’t recommend volunteering that information.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/20 07:12 PM
7	Hello ladies should I do this? Don’t do that. If you have professional quality sexy pics, people may assume you are a sex worker. Just have them take normal pictures.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/20 06:43 PM
3	How to stay feminine in scrubs? Do your hair, nails, and wear a simple necklace. Done.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/20 04:01 AM
10	Ladies, I have 3 months to transform myself It’s good that you’ve found a motivating factor, but make sure you are doing these things because you want to become healthier for yourself. Remember you haven’t met this man yet, so don’t put him on a pedestal. A three month deadline sounds pretty harsh. As long as you are moving towards your goals, you are doing good.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/20 05:34 PM
9	Boyfriend vs Husband benefits? I know you’re going to get some comments here putting you down and saying you cannot giveth and then taketh away. But I can’t help but to be sympathetic because I know the feeling of being excited about someone and being sexually giving at first, and then losing attraction when it starts to become clear that he won’t be committing. Obviously one comment on the phone might not mean much, but it seems like your gut may be telling you there is something to think about here. Have there been other si…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/20 05:19 PM
1	Hi ladies, I’m new to waxing and could use some tips! Read the instructions that come with the wax and follow carefully. It will tell you what you need to know. How often- as often as you want. You shouldn’t keep waxing over the same patches of skin on the same day, though. Hair length needs to be long enough for wax to grip on, but if it starts to curl, then it’s too long and needs to be trimmed. I find pre-wax oil to be helpful, it keeps the wax from sticking to the skin, so it is a little less painful when you pull it off. I don’t put anything o…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/20 02:17 AM
15	Is it possible to be a feminist and RP? Yes. You can be feminist as it applies to public policy and RP as it applies to your personal life. ETA: They don’t want feminist content on this sub. I mean you can identify as both personally.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/20 10:55 PM
3	Red Pill approach to family members disapproving of dating choices I don’t have advice with regard to your relationship with your mother, but do want to comment to advise you to really think through what it means to date someone on work visa. It’s not racism for her to be concerned about this (well it could be that too, I don’t know her). It’s a hard road ahead of you. What will you do if he has to leave the country? Or even if he wants to by choice? Would you move to his? Would you be allowed to move to his? He’ll have to jump through hoops to stay, and your r…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/20 04:50 AM
2	Ladies, am I asking for too much? Ok, I won’t make any assumptions about your culture. But you’ve already been sleeping together and bought a house together, why weren’t these things an issue before? And if he doesn’t want to have sex with you anyway...that is something you should unpack before you guys get married.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/20 02:32 AM
2	Ladies, am I asking for too much? Yes. That doesn’t make sense. I wouldn’t blame him if he decides to walk.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/20 02:19 AM
15	Having a hard time respecting my boyfriend's decisions regarding our apartment's lack of decor. So, your boyfriend may be like me. When I see “decorative” items, trinkets, posters, etc, I just think : Clutter. And clutter equals stress. My walls are empty, my table surfaces are empty, and I would have it no other way. I would think this especially true if you only have 600sq ft. You would open the door and see...stuff crammed everywhere. It’s not a cozy inviting space without, well, space.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/20 01:29 AM
1	I [27F] am in a weird situation with a guy [29M] that I have been seeing in the dating phase for a while now - looking for advice. This was my thought as well. He seemed to indicate that he would commit after 6 months, then found other excuses to put it off. If “we don’t see each other often enough” is the reason, then either he is seeing others to fill the time, or he wants to continue to have the option open to see others. Either way, not a good sign for the OP.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/20 04:12 PM
2	How do I adjust my dating strategy when I make six figures? What reason did they give for posting your salary? Like how would that help? I’m a high earner as well, and I don’t even post my job title. Seems like a good way to attract scammers, or seem unapproachable.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 03:16 AM
3	#vanlife- is that code for #nojob? No, it is an actual lifestyle and it is possible he works remotely. This does sound like he only wants hookups unless he happens to come across a fellow vanlifer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 05:24 AM
3	Confused by his masculine perspective and the way he frames things... I don't have advice for you but just wanted to say I can relate to this. It reminds me a bit of my first boyfriend. There was an undertone of our plans being a bit of an inconvenience for him, but he'll do it for me. I even remember thanking him on a few occasions, just for showing up. I would genuinely feel gratitude towards him for not cancelling. Kind of messed up in retrospect, no? With my current boyfriend, it would absolutely never occur to me to thank him for seeing me. I know he is doing…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/20 07:48 PM
7	Is there hope for me? I’m a little nervous about my worth as a woman and a wife. Ok reading this makes me sad. Please take a moment and think about some things you bring to the table that don’t involve your vagina. If your can’t think of anything, then you have work to do. Can’t change the past, but there is always something you can do to improve yourself. Give yourself the best chance going forward. Start with deciding your boundaries and making a plan as to how you will enforce them, so you will not end up in anoth…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/20 04:15 PM
3	Can't seem to find anyone decent on a dating site "if you have something interesting to say, message me" This might sound fine in Polish, but in English it kind of sounds like you look down on the reader. So in that case I would change this to something more positive and approachable. Try not to take it personally if a guy just wants a hookup. Just delete conversation from the app and your mind and keep on moving. Finding the ones who are serious about finding a relationship will be a numbers game.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/20 03:31 PM
2	Accepting the Terrain I live about 45 min from a major city. Most all 20s-30s have moved TO the city, leaving the suburbs full of families and older folk. For a lot of men in the city, 45 min is too far to consider a date. And for those who don’t think it’s too far- could they be having trouble finding closer dates? It’s a weird place to be.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 06:16 AM
2	Accepting the Terrain I’ve been to so many hiking meetups over the last few years and they were almost all boomer women. I’ve come to the conclusion that if a guy wants to hike, he likely has no problem just doing that by himself.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 06:06 AM
3	Should I message him? No one is discouraging her from jumping on the dating apps and messaging other guys. Just not THIS one.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 05:32 AM
1	Im not happy unless I have makeup on. Do you have a nice magnified makeup mirror/vanity? Something to consider: while these are nice for getting every detail perfect, they can absolutely work against you. I know when I sit at my makeup desk, it is just about impossible to only put on lipstick and walk out the door. My skin is so red! My blemishes are so obvious! I have to spend time fixing all this before I can leave. But yet, when I go on vacation, I hardly wear any makeup. In the hotel bathroom mirror, I look just fine without it.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/20 11:20 PM
24	BF wants me to pay for vacation together? You guys can not afford vacation. The fact that he expects you to blow through your savings is highly concerning. Best case scenario-he is irresponsible and doesn’t understand money matters, in which case you should reconsider staying with him. Worst case-he is using you for the free vacation and doesn’t see anything long term.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/20 07:40 PM
9	Femininity shouldn’t mean materialistic Sometimes they are paid directly. Sometimes they are only paid if you buy something from their link. Sometimes they just want to build good will with a brand or make themselves look like someone a brand will want to sponsor. And sometimes they are genuinely sharing a favorite thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/20 07:38 PM
15	Femininity shouldn’t mean materialistic Depending on how big these people are, the items may have been sent to them for that purpose. And that’s their job - to sell you things. It’s all ads. If it bothers you, best to start unfollowing these accounts.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/20 07:24 PM
3	WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life. I stopped taking birth control this past week! Yay!! Sad that I started it a few years ago because I felt I couldn’t trust guys to keep condoms on. Here’s to better enforcing my boundaries in 2020.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 03:15 PM
3	He Doesn't Want To Pay..? I would be put off by this. I’ll agree with others that in this case it’s more the lack of tact than the asking to split itself. So, my opinion of the asking to split by itself, had he been more classy about it: I feel it to be a sign of low effort. Not a dealbreaker necessarily, unless it presents with more signs of low effort. Splitting the check is a good way to make the evening feel like it’s not a date, you’re just hanging out. It could be that he goes on tons of dates and wants to keep his…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/19 12:19 AM
13	Hiding my redpilling from my captain? I would never use the phrase “red pill” in a real life conversation. You are allowed to have the preference of being feminine/traditional regardless of what reddit you read.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/19 11:08 PM
28	Can a RPW be single forever? I’ve thought about this too. But it’s not as though, you find “the one”, and then you live in a state of perfect bliss the rest of your life. There are no guarantees in life, and always new challenges. In the meantime, you can still find satisfaction in self improvement for your own sake, and working on your (non relationship oriented) goals. Also, work on building your support circle. Close female friends are good to have.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/19 10:50 PM
18	I didn’t want to go this route but I think I’m starting to really dislike and look down on most men. Don’t want to feel this way. I get it. I started feeling this way since I first found TRP. I think the best thing is just going to be less reddit time, particularly less relationship-oriented reddit. It's the shittiest of humanity, all rounded up in the same space. Use them for the reality check now and again, but not every day for general entertainment purposes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/19 04:28 PM
2	Ditching RedPillWomen for this sub. I think I’ve finally found my people. This sub was recently posted about on RPW, that could have something to do with the downvotes. Actually I didn't know about this sub until they posted about it, haha. I haven't read enough here to judge if it's for me yet. RPW does have some good advice, but it is still run and controlled by the TRP men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/19 04:28 PM
6	[F25] Dating someone but we don't really do anything together? It sounds like you're using lack of money to justify what could be an fwb situation. It he wanted, he could come up with things to do that are free or low cost. And saying "I wish we saw each other more" could easily be interpreted as you wanting to Netflix and chill more. He can't read your mind. Try suggesting to him a specific low cost date idea that isn't "Netflix and chill" and gauge his reaction. Does he seem hesitant to agree to it?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/19 04:09 PM
4	Hamster issues, or chalk it up? It sounds like he’s not interested, Best to focus on your other matches. As for your last question, did he try to kiss you, and you rejected him? If so...yes that is a mixed message.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/19 10:09 PM
2	He has mixed feelings for me Ah, well one week is quite rushed. It might not be a bad idea to slow it down and see other people, and reevaluate exclusivity later. I probably wouldn't sleep with him in the meantime, though.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 04:29 PM
-1	He has mixed feelings for me There is a piece of information missing here- how long were you seeing him before becoming exclusive? If you were exclusive from day 1- it may have been that he just didn't happen to be seeing anyone else, not that he was choosing to not see anyone else. And maybe he isn't ready to choose exclusivity. However, if you guys had been dating awhile and then chose to be exclusive, and 2 months later he's on Tinder - Hard Next.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 02:24 PM
5	How to start wearing heels (again)? The comments are only because you are presenting yourself differently than what they are used to seeing. Once it is the new norm for you, they won't question. I remember the first time I wore a neutral-yet-visible lip color to work, I got all these comments and felt so self-conscious. Now I wear bolds all the time and no one says a thing. I am 5'7" and I like heels, but I have a hard time finding ones that aren't too painful after about a hundred steps. So I often wear shoes and booties that hav…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/19 03:26 PM
19	How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup? From the perspective of someone who is into makeup and can easily tell when someone is wearing it: Doesn’t matter at all. If I saw someone in real life with dramatic highlight and contour, would I think they look silly? Yes. Would I think they are lying or cheating? No. Keep in mind that what you see on IG is not representative of what you see IRL. A person caked in makeup IRL will look like a person caked in makeup. In photos, lighting and filters can fool you.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/19 03:08 AM
7	Gender Euphoria Lipstick! I really love lipstick. Bold red-pink was a favorite this summer, and can’t wait to dig into my bricks, berries, and burnt oranges this fall.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/19 04:06 PM
6	How to transition from friends to dating? Given that you are posting on RPW, I’m going to assume a relationship is your goal. Next time he asks you to do something, ask if it’s a date. Be really careful about continuing to “hang out” and mess around without confirmation that you two are dating- this can easily go into situationship/fwb territory.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/19 03:49 PM
7	Questions on guys' behaviours on dating apps I think you may be underestimating the number of men who indiscriminately swipe right, or those who just aren’t serious about meeting people. No bio is an indicator of low effort. A bit of a red flag. Be a little more liberal with your right swipes and send a few messages. You can always stop swiping once you have a couple conversations going.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/19 02:19 PM
27	To those who lost their virginity recklessly before getting red pilled, how do you feel about it? I lost my virginity very, very late in the game. Sometimes I think it would have been nice if I had found this sub before, maybe I would have felt better about being a virgin. Instead, I felt defective and unwanted, thinking no man will ever want to deal with this. I became bitter and isolated. Couldn’t so much as see a couple holding hands in the park without seething internally. I became afraid of sex as well- what if I try it and I can’t tolerate it? What if I can’t stop it? When I finally lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/19 06:01 AM
65	How does a girlfriend behave differently than a wife in a relationship with a man, and how can a girlfriend be of value to him without giving away too much too soon? My understanding of it is: that, as a girlfriend, you are maintaining independent lives. You’re not living together, not intertwining finances, and not cleaning his house on a regular basis. You are making time for your own hobbies and friends and allowing him to do the same.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/19 04:09 AM
9	How can I get my face to look as beautiful as it possibly can be, naturally? Focus on your health: drink enough water (and stop drinking anything that isn’t water or unsweetened tea), get enough sleep, sunscreen always, wash makeup off before bed. Regular brow wax/threading makes a big difference.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/19 11:29 PM
41	Dressing Femininely and Negative Reactions From Other Women Are you sure this isn’t a projection? Most people probably don’t care that you look a little more put together. However, if you are letting any sense of superiority or judgement sneak into your interactions, people will pick up on that and react negatively.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/19 05:05 PM
5	Are You Ready for Your Summer Body? Interesting, but I won’t post my pictures on Reddit.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/19 04:34 PM
17	Is being forward something women should avoid? I think most men would like a woman to be forward. However, in my experience, there are two problems with this for the RPW. First, it becomes harder to tell if his interest in you is genuine, or if he is going along with it because he likes the attention or is hoping for easy sex. Second, you are starting things off in the dominant position. If you would prefer to have a traditional dynamic, this might be difficult to achieve. My advice would be to make it very clear to him you are interested, b…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/19 05:52 PM
8	Should I insist? Is chasing unattractive? So, this woman you would rather laugh at than ask out. Are you suggesting that, if she asked you out, you would want to LTR her? Yeah, I didn’t think so either. And if you would- you have already shown her that you cannot lead, so all the better she not waste her time on you.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/19 04:51 PM
6	Advice about waxing pubes Get a hard wax. I recommend Gigi Brazilian Body. I’ve done my own Brazilians for years and it’s not nearly as big a deal as these commenters are making it out to be. Just follow the instructions, make sure it isn’t too hot before you go slathering it on, and you’ll be fine.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/19 03:47 AM
2	Do any of you ladies have recommendations for non greasy moisturisers? Try using an oil instead.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/19 12:33 PM
–	What's for dinner? Awesome, thank you!!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/19 01:59 AM
–	What's for dinner? Cauliflower tortilla? That’s interesting and sounds really useful. Did you find a recipe online? I would be interested to see it. My attempts at cauliflower pizza crust were a sticky mess that didn’t hold together too well. I had to eat my pizza with a fork, scraping it off the foil.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/19 01:38 AM
3	Disagree about $1500 -- how to handle this?? If it is important to you to be debt free, and him not so much, this will cause long term conflict and resentment . This month it is computer and lens, next month it will be something else. I would suggest having a conversation about your financial goals as a couple, and leave out all the talk of this specific $1500, whether or not his hobby is acceptable, who makes more, etc. If it turns out that he really does want to be debt free too, then give him a chance to figure out a plan of how to acco…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/19 02:48 AM
2	Ladies, I need your advice Rubbing alcohol is great for shining stainless steel! No need to buy special products.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/19 05:26 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions I guess you are asking about hand wash items? I use the plastic basin I wash my dishes in.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/19 04:17 PM
2	Aging, injectables, and critical in-laws I can relate to this. I wish fillers/Botox just didn't exist. I don't want them at all, however sometimes I worry that if I continue to ignore them, I will look far worse than other women around my age. There are a lot of things you can do that will make a difference. Always wear sunscreen, get enough sleep and hydration. I think anxiety/stress level can really wreak havoc as well, so anything you can do to reduce that. I'm someone who seemingly went straight from looking 15 to looking 35, and l…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/19 08:06 PM
2	How to recognize TRP men Great post idea, thanks for this. I don't think fitness is an indicator of TRPness, but I avoid the really fit guys all the same. I usually think it is highly likely they would only consider someone of similar fitness/hotness for LTR, and everyone else is pump-and-dump fodder. The guy I'm involved with now is great at "never Deer, always Dare", and honestly that scares me. I don't know if he is into TRP and I'm sure he would never admit it if I asked.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/19 07:20 PM
14	I don't enjoy hanging out with any of my female friends these days... If there is a toxic person in your life, you have no obligation to continue to spend time with them. However, I think you would regret letting all your friendships die and then needing to totally lean on your husband for social support. Is it really that inconvenient to see them once in awhile? Personally I do wish I had more close female friends, it is something I am working on.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/19 11:06 AM
1	Challenge: Cooking Interesting, I'll check it out. I had bought the book "Flour Water Salt Yeast", whose method does not involve kneading but it does involve doing something with the bread every few hours, all day long. Which is fine and relaxing when I have time, I just usually don't :(	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/19 03:11 PM
4	How Do I Use This Thing? This was my thought too. I have always been loyal to those I've dated, but commitment never happened. I like the RPW advice of waiting for commitment to have sex, but it does conflict with the advice that no good man would wait for sex, since he has options.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 04:56 PM
13	How to CARE about my appearance? Getting enough sleep is key. It is really hard to care about your appearance if you are rushing to get out the door. I like to set an ideal bedtime, and then designate the hour before as reserved for the following: bedtime grooming routine, light tidying, or setting up for the next morning (ie packing lunch, picking outfit).	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 04:39 PM
1	Challenge: Cooking Eh. A few months ago I decided to learn to bake bread, it sounded like a fun and valuable skill. But the process takes all day (needs to be done on a day off) and the end result is only good for a day. Since I live alone, usually ended up eating too much bread too. Farewell to my Betty Crocker dreams.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 03:18 PM
–	Monthly Goals -Complete another Whole30 -do a 30 day yoga challenge -get to sleep by 10:30, wake up early enough to always present my best self (hair, makeup, outfit) -Do Konmari papers category - been stuck on this for eons	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/19 11:30 PM
6	Do I message back after no response? This is very common with dating apps. Not everyone on there is serious about looking, and those that are may be talking to many women. Don't take it personally, and move on to your next prospect.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/19 11:55 PM
9	What has Red Pill taught you? Honestly, the number 1 thing TRP taught me is not to trust men, and to vet carefully when I date. I was probably naive before, I believed most people wanted love and relationships. And sure there were players out there, but they were the minority so I didn't need to worry about them, right? It took getting plated a couple times and finding these communities to realize the truth- most men, even the unattractive and unemployed ones, will seek non exclusive situations because that is what benefits …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/19 06:29 PM
4	Why are you here? For me- self-improvement and a better understanding of men and relationships. I would say I am neither feminist nor anti-feminist, and I believe it to be beneficial to expose oneself to different viewpoints. There are a lot of good ideas here that I can use to improve my personal life.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/19 07:40 PM
–	Monthly Goals I've read her books and used the method a few years ago, but just recently watched an episode of this. I had the same reaction re: Ms Kondo herself! Really impressed. At first admiring her feminine and classy outfits, then how soft spoken she is, and always with a smile. She seems so sweet. If you are going to do your own tidying, I highly recommend reading the book, as the show seems to gloss over a lot of the reasoning.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/19 05:53 AM
2	Please Help I need advice I used to just say "Hello," giving them the option to message me while still leaving the ball mostly in their court. I will have to try this if/when I get back to online dating. More likely the ones that choose to pursue will have genuine interest, plus less time spent on my part = win? I'll have to improve my smv and profile too, of course. I spent a lot of time on Bumble last year. This was before finding RPW, though I am naturally submissive and was looking for an assertive man. Every initial…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/19 05:33 AM