You are absolutely right. When I said "it's yourself" I know nothing about the context of his situation to make that claim. To lead OP to psot this, she must be crazy. But perhaps it's ourselves, our own mind that are giving the situation at hand too much attention, which drives ourselves crazy.
Its not the woman. It's yourself. She's not intentionally their to hurt you. She's feeling pain herself. A woman will leave a man who does not make her feel safe. They have all there freedom to do so. They owe us nothing.
