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22	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.	CMV	x86dungeons4lyf	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 03:12 PM

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1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. A thought I just had is also being distant to demonstrate options doesn't make sense - you ALWAYS have the option of leaving. Whether you left because you found another girl or because you got sick of her shit is immaterial, if the goal is to make it clear that there is a line beyond which you won't put up with. The only advantage that comes from the threat of you leaving for another "better" girl vs for to be single is how anxious she will feel. And any girl that needs that deep survival gut fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 06:33 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I'd like to draw a distinction between person-independent clingyness and person-dependant clingyness. I think someone who doesn't have options will cling to the first person that comes their way, regardless of their personality and compatibility. They're desperate. But I think that when you enter a serious relationship with someone, you're also choosing them to soothe your pain in a way you can't soothe yourself (just like masturbation will never feel as good as sex). And in that way, it's ok to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/20 03:30 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Why is it better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/20 01:06 PM
2	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. A lot of recipes call for salt and seawater provides that. I think TRP has some right ideas (as backed by stats) but they push it so hard that instead of mitigating what they're right about, they make it self fulfilling. Instead of giving an addict methadone, they're taught to make Grade A heroin and then they're confused why the state of dating is what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 07:17 PM
1	What's your take on Power Imbalances in relationships? I agree that whoever cares less has more power. But it's WHAT you care less about and HOW that are vital. If you care less about being vulnerable, you could just be protecting yourself from getting hurt. Or if you catch yourself reminding yourself to care less and being hyperaware of who cares how much, then that's a sign that you probably care too much. I think ideally both partners are warm and supportive and vulnerable with each other ACCEPTING that the break up will really suck, but they're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 02:19 PM
2	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Unfortunately I think a lot of new redpillers swing too hard the other way. And they just so happen to be skewed towards anti-social already. So it muddies "what is red pill" because if you sort by new, or controversial, there's a decent amount of posts where the poster truly believes in "sex for free" and lack the awareness (yet) to see/fix their antisocial behavior. And with human hierarchies being pyramids, there's a lot more newbies than experienced contributors, the posts on the red pill sk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 02:06 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Heh. Another commenter said "The same women who push attachment styles etc are the same women that get fucked by Chad in the bar bathroom, and it wasn't comfortable". Like yes, some women will push this and won't turn down being fucked in a bar bathroom by some dude but having that be your first thought and only response is kind of sad. The women who think fucking anyone, even Chad, in a bar bathroom are not the one's I'm interested in. It turns out some women DO have standards. Funnily enough t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 01:46 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Wow this is a long read, I'm halfway through	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 07:23 AM
3	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. What's an Xtian Edit: But you bring up a good point. Hounding AWALT etc can make a man way more insecure than he is originally. Like I know I'll die ultimately but if I was told LIFE SUCKS AND YOU'LL DIE SOON every time I made a post, I'd be pretty depressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:15 AM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I agree that you absolutely need boundaries. I'm just saying that TRP encourages a much harsher stance on how to deal with a broken boundary, and that is counter productive. I think if it was like... 30% more compassionate, it would be in the sweet spot, but right now I think a lot of valueable life hours are wasted nexting and reforming relationships that could, with an equal amount of energy as finding a new partner, be resolved. If you treat humans as tiny infants that get overwhelmed really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:15 AM
3	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Why do you think that? And what do you make of the several studies that demonstrate it. Government cover up? Wide scale data manipulation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:12 AM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Ah, fair point, I assumed you meant hookups. I think ironically, focusing on security when it's really battered and all the communication can improve your chances for sex. I was reading a case study where the husband just didn't get that his wife wanted to feel SOME closeness to him before she let him inside her. He insisted sex was the way to get close and they were stuck at an impasse. It's a tight rope balancing act, but I think TRP over-demonizes communication and closeness, to the point whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:11 AM
3	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I kind of agree with /u/TheJim66 here. But partially. I think it's ok to be beat up after a break up FOR A WHILE. But if you're moping 50 years later, you probably don't have a whole lot going on. I think conveying that it'll suck but you'll ultimately pick up the pieces and move on to something hopefully better is a happy medium.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:07 AM
2	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. It's more than just 'to get laid'. If that's the case searches about LTR should return exactly 0 results from endorsed contributors. Like another commenter said, changing lifestyle etc doesn't even make a difference when you're getting laid. You can skip the hard work, rent a Benz, get a spray tan, practice some cocky/funny lines and you'll definitely get laid. You don't need to bother working hard at school or improving your career at all. /r/marriedredpill wouldn't exist either. TRP is compreh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:05 AM
2	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I agree, that if it's limited to treating both identically then great. I have nothing more to say. But if we kept calling the source of fire 'phlogiston' that exists INSIDE an object, instead of oxygen which exists OUTSIDE, we'd still be getting really confused about why a fire dies when the lid is put on. The model you use to look at things absolutely has an impact on what decisions you make to get the outcome you desire. And I think the ideas behind shit testing (especially among newer members…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 12:01 AM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. But this means you have a 100% success rate, or it doesn't work on ALL women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:55 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. 'bull' how? As in they're a myth? Or that they're not relevant? And they work on different levels based on the kind of woman right? Surely a hyper anxious girl who's been abandoned by her parents at 3 who grew up on the streets will respond to dread differently from a typical suburban girl next door type girl. I get that at a point, all humans are human (AKA "AWALT") but some are better than others, or why try at all? They're all LIKE that but they're not identical otherwise there's no point tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:53 PM
2	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I agree, I'm not saying "don't have boundaries", I'm saying be sensible about HOW you enforce them. For example, if you have a boundary of no disrespect, and you partner says something in an argument that's insulting, I think it would be less productive to immediately next them for being 'mean'. I think a wise man knows how to call someone out for being shitty and making it clear that that's not cool, while still understanding that sometimes people say shit when they're mad, and making that not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:47 PM
3	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. This is a really good point. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:42 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Exactly. I'm not saying give even the craziest person with 20 arrest warrants a chance because Muh Feelings. I do agree that certain areas of TRP (like filtering) have statistical backing, and even if I don't trust the manosphere, I do trust the Pew research center etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:42 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. I do agree that 'just' attachment isn't enough - if you're a loser that plays video games all day, it doesn't matter how well you communicate, you're just not going to be able to attract anyone because you being nothing to the table. I'm not disputing that. What I AM saying however, is people seem to focus too much on the SHIT test part, and the alpha part, but not enough on the beta part. And in doing so, instead of becoming a reliable partner, they become someone to walk on eggshells around, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:40 PM
1	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. A pew survey proves you right - less an 1/3 men want a successful marriage as one of their goals in life (and it was almost the same for women). But I'm mostly interested in the men who use RP for LTRs because they do exist. And I'm stating that the prescribed methods for making an LTR work (dread, 0 tolerance, pavlovian conditioning) seem to be counterproductive in achieving that end. For the men that don't care about LTRs, red pill seems to be good at getting sex, I'm not disputing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 11:37 PM
5	A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched. Unfortunately that often rams sex down to the bottom of a priority list under a bunch of crap that is nice on paper but is actually a suffocating liability to men if it doesn’t come with sex. I don't agree with this point, but I agree with the rest. Most of the books I've read on relationships (How to avoid falling in love with a jerk, Hold me tight, seven principles of making marriage work, If you're in my office it's too late ) either have a whole chapter devoted to sex and it's importance and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 10:31 PM
2	"The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1" ──────── Basic ──────── Response 1: "Yeah. Piano." Response 2: "Only the boring ones" Response 3: "I just realized what a terrible conversation partner you are" Response 4: "I lost count at 47,000. Excluding body pillows" Response 5: "Yeah. Right now actually. My peripheral vision is stellar." ──────── Intermediate ──────── Response 6: Give her a once over, "I'm considering it." Response 7: "He's not bad. You guys would be cute together" Response 8: "What a coincidence. So do I." Response 9: Wai…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/15 11:02 PM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP Daily Check in #5: 9:30 pm - 6 am. Starting to feel the benefits	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/15 09:44 AM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP Daily Check in #4: 9pm to 5 am. Still sleepy when I wake up	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/15 09:43 AM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP DAILY CHECK-IN #3: (3 Aug - 4 Aug): 8 hours of very broken non REM sleep (2000- 2200, 0050 - 0340, 0400 - 0700)	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/15 02:48 AM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP DAILY CHECK-IN #2 Day 2: Slept from 1pm to 7pm to get over jet lag, then 2:40 am to 6:30 am to sync to this timezone. 10 hours total	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/15 01:44 AM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP DAILY CHECK-IN #1: Day 1: I got about 3 hours of sleep (red eye flight). I went to bed around 0230 and woke up around 0530.	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/15 06:27 AM
1	(FR) AWALT. Don't give these women any slack. And don't do anything for a woman for free. That was meant for /u/remyprice	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 04:56 PM
-2	(FR) AWALT. Don't give these women any slack. And don't do anything for a woman for free. you're on this sub to change. Falling back on your passive aggressive fedora behavior isn't going to help you	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 12:50 AM
1	The 30 Day Challenge #1 - SLEEP x86dungeons4lyf will take part in this challenge!	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/15 11:30 PM