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I’m assuming she’ll still accept and expect money from the government though. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 10:58 AM
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Good questions - I have no idea, not being a mother. But I feel like some elements of scheduling and routines would work - schedule in self-care time and stick to it. I also think elements of minimalism can help make things easier - make a capsule wardrobe, makeup and hair routine. Minimise things to ease the stress.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 06:45 AM
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Well my partner isn't one to really open up about his feelings, I don't probe him either. He decided to go on leave to do FOREX trading, did rather well but decided he was too bored and wanted to go back to work this past Monday. We only get to spend the weekend together. 4am Monday rolls along when his alarm goes off and he keeps putting it on snooze. I ask "Aren't you going to work?" and he's like... "Nah, I'll just go Tuesday..." a few hours later while I'm getting ready to leave and go to my…
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 01:08 PM
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I didn't find my man till I was 25. I wasn't specifically looking. I just focused on working on myself and raising my SMV and RMV, then everything just fell perfectly into place. Don't focus and obssess on finding mr right. Focus on yourself and raising your value, self-care, etc. I had my first boyfriend (first for everything - sex, kiss etc) at 19, that relationship lasted 1.5 years and ended badly (he ended up being a manipulative liar and I needed to seek a psychologist for a while) I was si…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 09:24 PM
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Def up the self-care and health/fitness. Maybe lift weights if you aren't already - it's really important to be more mobile in older age, and a bit of muscle looks nice. Really, work on your companionship skills. Someone your husband enjoys being around.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 08:39 PM
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Blowjobs. Seriously.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/17 09:59 PM
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Thank you so much. You are right on all points. I need to let go, not bottle up. I need to have fun, not fester.
/r/RedPillWives23/03/17 05:18 PM
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Oh, sorry, will add.
/r/RedPillWives23/03/17 05:00 PM
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Just realise these people didn't do these things to hurt you intentionally. They did it because they were taught those ways as well. Count yourself as being lucky for waking up to the reality in time to turn things around. You should be happy. Maybe now you aren't where you want to be because now you actually see where you want to be and aren't there yet. You will get there. Take leadership of your life. Lead yourself, then lead the people in your life. Lead them all.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 08:05 PM
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Why are you saying the same thing over and over? I mean before red pill I sure was "insecure, bitter and alone". Not anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:36 AM
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Ok, first lifting weights is awesome. I think if you did your own programs, more of a 5-day split doing higher rep hypertrophy program you'd enjoy it more. It also makes you body look amazing. Maybe suggest to him doing a different style of programming, go to the gym at the same time, but do a different program to him. You probably don't enjoy it because 1, its all heavy lifting, 2, he's nagging you about form.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 08:27 PM
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Did you do liberal arts degree and unable to find a job in your area of specialty? Well, keep applying. In the meantime you could look into volunteer work at your church or retirement villages so you feel you are working or contributing. I think it would help your spirits to know you are helping others.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 12:46 PM
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Does Red Pill Wives have a Facebook group? Then we could add each other and have "reinforcements".
/r/RedPillWives17/02/17 10:59 PM
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Well it prevents wrinkles developing in the first place - you want to get it before. Botox is cheaper, if you get deep wrinkles you need to treat with filler which is a lot ( a lot) more expensive. I personally only get botox in my jaw currently for clenching and don't yet see any signs of crows feet yet for me to consider botox there. I am 26.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:48 AM
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Giving myself a facial, applying body butter after a bath or shower. Giving myself a pedicure/medicure. Making an effort with my hair. Putting on my everyday jewellery. Selecting and wearing a dress with purpose. Combing my long hair at night and braiding it for bed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:33 PM
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My partner and I are both INTJ so we understand each other quite well, in that we're able to be more vulnerable with each other from this understanding. You need to practice being vulnerable, opening up. Visualise situations in your head and play them out. Then implement it in real life. It may feel like acting at first but it will start to come naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 02:33 PM
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Oh wow this describes my partner quite well, your points are spot on. These things can also be nurtured in your man, but some are more natural with it than others for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 10:52 PM
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You basically laid it all down for him. And he was not ready to commit, but in "8 years maybe he'll be ready" at 30. He probably is just hanging on because the relationship IS comfortable. Go pursue your career for a while, save your money, date men.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 08:21 PM
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I had the same kind of experience. Single for 5 years and the perfect man walks into my life. Had a lot of time to think. All these points are fine. I think when you properly vet a lot of the "stressful" things just aren't there to stress over. Maybe add "I Will Be A Goddess Of Fun And Light". Need some more "positive" ones in there. "I will be gracious" "I will show gratitude". But you get the idea. Good luck. :)
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 08:15 PM
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Really you should be working with your colours though analysis that make you look more "alive". http://www.truth-is-beauty.com For instance I am a dark winter and look best in deep clear colours like dark red, royal blue, emerald green or really pale icy pure colours with no softness or "grey" added. Something to look into if you haven't already.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 11:03 AM
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Yes, maybe check out "The Art Of Seduction" by Robert Greene. I like to combine both aspects. the "dark side" gives a sense of mystery and sensuality which I use at appropriate times with my partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 08:35 AM
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Having a consistent style with core pieces and colours that you invest in works well. Some will be expensive, others not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 08:31 AM
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Yep. All I do is get my brows groomed, eyelash extensions (natural looking ones, not those huge ones that look like spiders) and tinted balm. Sometimes I use a bit of a coverstick under the eyes but that's it. So much better. My partner also hates heaps of makeup and so do I.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 07:18 AM
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Get Married Become Homemaker Have Children Live on an acerage Get ripped and win a pro card in the IFBB or similar foundation. Travel the British Isles
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 09:06 PM
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Well being polite didn't work. People need to obviously be shocked, offended and triggered for anything to enter their brain.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 08:37 PM
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So appalling haha.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 12:19 AM
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This is self-care though. And if fillers improve ones appearance I don't see how this is a bad thing for either party. Maybe his opinion is skewed and he actually doesn't really know how fillers work and can be used. I personally do not tell my partner everything I do for self-care as its not necessary that he knows. But that's just my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 12:19 AM
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Well... You could still get fillers if you do it subtly around the eyes and mouth lines. He may not even notice...? I would suggest not lip fillers though, they look horrid and reaaallllly obvious....
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 10:19 PM
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I've had laser hair removal everywhere and it was honesty one of the best things I've done for myself. My partner also loves it and performing cunnilingus on me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 02:57 AM
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First off if he does home improvement work thats exercise. if his work is also labour heavy then that too would be working off the calories. Continue doing what you are doing. Be prepared with food. Maybe meal-prep his food for the week so he can take meals and snack with him. Have dinner ready when he gets home as well as healthy snacks. Do NOT keep bad items in the house. Obviously he may go out of his way to buy junk food, and you can't control that. Do your best and see how you go.
/r/RedPillWives19/12/16 04:34 AM
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Love this. Very succinct. I would like to see more in-depth theory and discussion on psychological femininity. Unless someone can link some extra material I've missed?
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 10:47 AM
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I'm in Adelaide Australia. Same story as you! Let's be friends (I have no women friends that share my views which saddens me immensely) I feel like I'm wasting my time working. I mean with the useless school and university I don't have time to learn and do the things I really want - sewing and making my own clothes, gardening and producing my own foods, just making beautiful things that bring light and joy to myself and others.... One day....
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 10:42 AM
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Thank you for for the clarification, that makes a lot of sense. :)
/r/RedPillWives25/11/16 07:46 PM
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Thanks, I changed the flair. Yes 5 years because of control, very bad end of relationship which ended with seeing a counsellor and spending time "rebuilding" myself. Then I suppose I just into the habit of being on my own. But I do really miss intimacy. I am ready, but it's just the habit is hard to kick. Thanks for the advice. I will ease into it. :)
/r/RedPillWives25/11/16 09:10 AM
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I find it difficult to reconcile the way I WANT to dress with how I'm SUPPOSED to dress. I love really feminine dresses and love wearing corsets, however as a contractual teacher it's not the best to be wearing a corset. However I did decide to wear one of my "medieval" looking dresses from Holy Clothing and had constant comments from all my young girls that I looked like a princess and they wanted to hold my skirts for me! (Little handmaids - cute!) I definitely got more stares. The dress was t…
/r/RedPillWives24/11/16 09:27 AM
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I can give some insight in to my parents relationship. My mother and father married in their late 20'n after a short engagement. After the marriage my father told my mother he was Schizophrenic. She was ok with it. He's on medication. They had two children, myself and my sister. In my lifetime he's had two relapses where he had to go to a psych ward. However he ran his own business for 20 years and retired a few years ago, but still does pamphleting. He is very socially inept in most situations …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 01:16 AM
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Ok maybe I have baggage cause now I am crying.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:53 PM
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I don't have four years of emotional baggage. I'm completely fine within myself. I've BEEN "working on myself" for the past four years. I haven't had the interest in getting back into dating till now. So I really am at a loss as what to do. Ended up that my partner of two years just used me for sex and to pass university. He was a manipulative liar and lied about many things. Later on in the relationship his facade cracked and I saw him for what he was. I broke up with him, then as what I heard …
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:51 PM
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Knew I was on a good thing! :)
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:45 PM
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Taewkondo. I recovered my black belt at 12 years old. I haven't practised in a club in a long time though.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:43 PM
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Ah, I see what you mean now. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 09:35 PM
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Do men want to be with women that are better at things than they are? Or things that may feel like competition? I was under the impression that would be emasculating for them? For instance if I make more money than them, wouldn't they resent me for that?
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:02 PM
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Exactly what part of what I posted makes me sound like a bitch? You and u/CoochQuarantine don't exactly come across as being particularly pleasant yourselves by calling me a bitch in the first place. Maybe you should work on that.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:58 PM
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Yes, many people comment on that. I do get along with men really well because of this. Also palm readers and astrologists (if that means anything to you) I am an Aries Sun and Leo Moon, so very fiery, masculine and ambitious signs. Thanks so much for posting that - it made a lot of sense to me. My last relationship was a Low man, low/high woman (LLH) where I ended up feeling repulsed by him and he wouldn't take the lead. I am definitely looking for the HHH "power couple/Captain and First Mate" c…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:52 PM
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I'm too paranoid to date after my last relationship 4 years ago where it ended with me seeing a psychologist. I have no desire in tricking anyone into anything, if I did I wouldn't have been single or not dating for this long. I've basically forgotten what to do and I have no idea where to even start.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:10 PM
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I deactivated my FB months ago and deleted all my social media except my Reddit and a YouTube account, so no. Maybe I didn't mean there are no good men, more I meant I don't know where to find them. Also thanks for the insult.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:05 PM
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I practice martial arts on the solo now so long nails are fine, in a club it would be a no-no. I do come across as a bitch in this post I see no point in fluffing it up. I alter how I present myself to who I am dealing with. Both replies ask me "what I would bring to the relationship" - what does that even mean? I am very loyal to those close to me. I'm resilient and don't complain about trivial things. I'm very good at compromise and am not needy - I'm ok doing my own thing and letting a partne…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 11:59 AM
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Bodybuilding had been great for me for self discipline, routine, health and self confidence. Diligent with my macros too to meet my goals. I am planning to compete at some stage. :)
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:19 AM
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