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How do you start dancing with a girl
/r/seduction15/06/25 07:15 PM
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I struggle with this as well. In person body language is the most important way to communicate sexual intent tho. Eye contact, frame, physical escalation. Occasional innuendo is important but more teasing rather than making it about her satisfying you sexually. So id choose number 1 but with masculine man to woman sub communication
/r/seduction14/12/24 04:35 AM
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Thanks man, it’s reassuring to know that there is a path out. Just feels like I’m knocking on the door but not able to actually open it. I’m a determined person who always wants to better myself but perhaps I’ve been putting too much pressure on myself to hit goals while letting self compassion and love fall by the wayside. I checked your comment history. Any advice in particular on how to cultivate self love? Noticed Joe Dispenza, is that a good starting point?
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:09 AM
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Girls anywhere from 20 - 33 I think was the oldest. I also had a couple of gfs in that time but also slowly realising that maybe a long term relationship is for me. Maybe it isn’t. All I know is that fixating on women/game isn’t currently serving my interests and when I’m in a relationship, my efforts are usually always focused on that. I also feel more confident generally with a partner. Again, not sure if it’s just because I haven’t unlocked true confidence on my own yet and if I did so, maybe…
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:01 AM
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I think just such a long time spent being terrified of women. No body confidence so I lost a load of weight then pushed myself out of my comfort zone to go on a first date, then it just went from there and tbf I’ve absolutely loved it. Obtaining seductive power I didn’t know I had. The growth was super significant. Now I’m stagnating and wondering if I need some time spent working on myself to be more confident away from approaching or to try and achieve confidence through approach. Kinda like a…
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:09 PM
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Helpful analogy. So when you say make the turn, are you talking about me just basically being myself and not giving a shit but just with the fundamentals in mind? Agreed, but true confidence is the holy grail and I’m not even sure how to obtain it. When I think what I have learned: pitch and tonality, not doing stupid things that kill attraction, body language, shit tests and having the confidence and tact to know when to escalate. I also became more confident sexually. Other than that, what els…
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:05 PM
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Over consuming the game stuff has really sabotaged me. When I reflect on the lessons I learned I wonder how much I’ve actually gained from it, especially recently. I was a late bloomer, useless with women until the age of 26. I’m 30 now and I’ve had some incredible results, but just lately I’ve had some pretty harsh rejections and whilst it’s not easy to ascertain the exact reasons behind them (a woman isn’t going to tell you) as a result of journaling and introspection, a theme is becoming pret…
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:02 AM
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What are these pre-selection DHV stories, I’m curious.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:37 PM
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+1 my man
/r/seduction29/08/20 07:35 PM
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Thank you for this, super insightful.
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:50 PM
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One thing that I’m realising as well is that since this error of mine, I’m receiving a cascade of shit tests from her. It makes me realise that shit tests could often deployed when attraction has gone but as a means of sizing up a man to see if he still has what it takes. Is this accurate? Also, I reckon I’ve passed the vast majority of them but failed one accidentally. She’s the buyer now and I’m not sure there is any coming back from it. This isn’t me lamenting the situation as much it is me l…
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:08 PM
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Subscribed. Keep it up man!
/r/seduction21/12/17 07:01 PM
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