xRedShadowx Archive

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7	The key to relationship happiness is reasonable expectations Right on. Happy me, happy we is a better mantra to strive for. If she treats you like her king, then she can be treated like a queen. A woman that marries the king becomes the queen. What does a man that marries a queen become?	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/18 02:27 AM
1	Starting A New Life in 35 Days. Help Me. You have to walk before you can run. Before you leave start working on killing your approach anxiety by talking with literally everyone. Checkout girl at the store, guy at gas station, etc. Only through desensitization can you get to a point where it won't phase you to go open the hot girl. Best thing about almost moving is that there is no pressure at all to continue seeing anyone you meet and you honestly DGAF what they think since you probably won't ever see them again! Great to push your bou…	/r/askTRP	23/07/18 05:51 AM
10	TRP and Buyer's Remorse This post is pertaining to closing a new prospective girl. Once you have a girl on rotation or further promoted, think of your relationship with her like a jellybean jar. When you hold your frame and be her the 'rock in the storm of her emotions' that she needs you put beans in the jar. When you are a little bitch or break frame beans come out, based on how heinous the offense. You do not want to overdraft the jellybean jar, and you always have to be ready to take it away or have her take it awa…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 12:14 PM
3	Why it it socially acceptable for women to max out their looks to boost their SMV but frowned upon when men try to do it? Men improving themselves gets into some pretty deep topics. People that have known you before you start improving your looks/game will be the first to be negative about your progress, because you don't fit into their box they made for you anymore. Guys should be boosting their face and bodies just as much as women but you have to be the guy that 'just gets it' and bucks the social pressure that people will put on you to do it. If you give into the pressure then all the better for women to filter…	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 12:09 AM
3	How to get into an LTR and not be emotional and beta? I posted about this yesterday but Patrice's teachings are still in use through one of his co-hosts on the O&A show, Dante Nero. Dante refers to Patrice's Black Phillip show (black version of Dr. Phil) as the 'old testament' and his show Beige Phillip as the 'new testament'. I've listened to a majority of the >300 episodes of the Beige Phillip show podcast. I agree that Patrice was very knowledgeable about the inner workings of women but he also held onto a considerable amount of contempt for wom…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 10:30 AM
3	How did Patrice O'neal(RIP) know so much about how women think, act, psychology, and interplay with men. Patrice hosted a show with Dante called the Black Phillip show (with Patrice being essentially a black version of Dr. Phil) back in 2006. You can find them all on Youtube, here's the first episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAmCjqVkFg After Patrice passed away Dante started the Beige Phillip show (says he is not as dark as Patrice was), where he and his cohosts essentially talk about redpill truths through more PC terms (albeit with lots of profanity). There over 300 episodes of the Beige…	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 11:52 AM
1	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV No worries on the advice. I've found the opposite in that the higher her perception of your SMV, the less harsh rejections tend to be or she'll be more lenient on less polished game. Embracing rejection is hard and can only be overcome through consistent desensitization, but how one deals with rejection is incredibly telling of their character. This is especially true if they are being themselves and not wearing a mask (too drunk, fake personality to absorb rejection). To take a realtime rejecti…	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 06:00 AM
4	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV This might be a bit deep but when my SMV went way up I had a disconnect with self-esteem/self-worth and being worthy of attractive women. It was a combination of a bluepill upbringing and lack of verifiable success up to that point and it took me quite a while to come to terms with. I got over this feeling by putting some numbers on the board and learning to embrace rejection, be it on the front end (i.e. on Tinder, etc.) or while gaining sexual skill early in my sex life. Abundance mentality wo…	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 01:13 AM
3	The reality that most women will never be sexually satisfied It is unfortunate, but can you blame women for wanting to enjoy sausage without having to see the inner workings of the sausage factory? Only the things she finds or discovers within a man are 'real'	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/18 02:20 PM
3	The reality that most women will never be sexually satisfied If a woman has to teach a man anything sexual it is an instant turn off, for the same reason women want a man that 'just gets it'. Any dominance she teaches is not genuine, she had to put it there as opposed to discovering it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/18 12:59 AM
1	Q4M: What is your sexual partner count? How well are you doing with women? What is your pill? Red What is your lifetime PiV sex N count? Between 40 and 50 What is your lifetime oral, anal or PiV N count? Add about 5 more What is your lifetime casual sex or ONS partner count? Been in 2 long term relationships, the rest have all been short term or casual In the past 12 months, what is your N count? 7 28 years old. N count all within last 4 years after opening my eyes to a lifetime of western education/feminization	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/18 04:52 AM
1	How to vet girl without being needy? You need to establish that you are genuinely non-judgemental about her past. If she can even subconsciously suspect that you will think less of her for telling you her past she will never do it. If you show (don't tell) her that you have discretion and won't judge her past I've had girls completely spill their guts to me. Also remember that no man has ever completely vetted a woman, there will always be things you don't know. Have your non-negotiables and covertly screen for them, but never give…	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 03:40 AM
1	If a woman is shit-testing you constantly then MOVE THE F*** ON Her hind-brain must continuously test you to ensure that her continued investment is worthwhile and you are the best option she believes she can attain. I think you are conflating 'low value' and 'smart women' with low and high self esteem girls. You are right on that a low self esteem girl will test you more often (and maybe even consciously to make themselves feel better) but that doesn't automatically make her 'low value'. If you don't have interest in handling the amount of tests that she is…	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 05:41 AM
6	If a woman is shit-testing you constantly then MOVE THE F*** ON Girls give you shit to make sure you're the shit. Shit tests are almost completely unconscious, and even if you were to teach a girl to notice when she tests you it will still happen. She needs to continually test your frame to make sure you were the alpha she initially fell for and she hasn't been able to turn you beta. In terms of too many tests I think a good analogy is having a rattlesnake as a pet. You can have a rattlesnake as a pet but you should wear gloves and a use snake handling tools…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 04:18 AM
3	How do I avoid being bitter towards women? I reckon you are spot on. I've always liked the way Dante from the Beige Phillip show podcast explains this. He says "You don't get mad at a fish for swimming or a bee for buzzing, so why be mad at a woman for being a woman?". It's literally their nature and once you internalize that fact and achieve amused mastery over their tricks any resentment or disdain should go away.	/r/askTRP	16/04/18 03:24 AM
9	Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. The Black Phillip show is like the old testament. Patrice's Cohost Dante went on to start the Beige Phillip show which is like the new testament. The Beige Phillip show is still going (228 episodes strong) and was the biggest contributor to my unplugging outside of TRP. Highly recommend	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/16 11:35 PM
0	"You're really attractive" "You haven't even seen me naked yet"	/r/askTRP	10/09/14 03:04 PM