xaijin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	One little tip that will boost your success rate immensely (night game) You're just weird by immediately invading someones space before getting a feel for attraction.	/r/seduction	14/02/16 06:36 PM
3	How to bring up the subject of being friends with benefits? See /u/thaway314156, /u/ThePUA_Baddie, and /u/UngeGandhi You don't just say, lets be FWB without having sex first. You are going to come off as a creep. If you have great chemistry, then escalate and see where it leads. It doesn't have to be weird unless someone makes it.	/r/seduction	17/04/14 01:44 PM
8	"I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that" Depends on the game you want to play. Being honest leads to more genuine interactions. You put yourself out there as not giving a fuck about rejection and being yourself. This is good for long term prospects and shows the woman that being yourself is ok because you are secure with who you are and are not seeking approval/validation from her/someone else.	/r/seduction	10/12/13 06:28 PM
7	Kino/Escalation during dinner dates Directly opposite can feel like interview style. It isn't conducive to intimacy.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 12:28 AM
3	Kino/Escalation during dinner dates Always try to sit next to your date. It makes it more intimate. If you get double wide booth, tell her you want to sit next to her. It's not always possible to do this, so it depends on how far you have previously escalated. If you have held her hands before, then doing as /u/k-lloyd suggested is easy. If this is your first date with this person, you be the judge on how receptive she has been throughout the night.	/r/seduction	01/12/13 07:44 PM
2	How do you recognize the flaws in your game? Messed up a free lay and a free threesome Get good at pleasing a woman in other ways (mouth/hands). A couple weeks ago for the first time ever, I was not able to get a hard on. Luckily all that steady sex I had from my previous 8 year relationship was not in vain. I was still able to satisfy her, but my ego still took a hit (of course).	/r/seduction	25/11/13 08:30 PM
0	Any good keno escalation videos out there? Here you go bro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SN4TIiBND-k	/r/seduction	08/11/13 05:24 PM
1	Rejection is God's way of saying "wrong direction". Lets not involve deities in seddit.	/r/seduction	22/10/13 04:59 PM
1	Ladies, Do you care where your man's mind is? This is /r/askreddit material	/r/seduction	12/06/13 11:33 PM
1	I can get #closes like a motherfucker, but nobody texts me back. Please help Seddit! Here's the problem. Your text doesn't tell her who you are; your text game comes off as very generic. She could have given her number to a dozen guys. You didn't set yourself apart from John Doe. Drop a reminder about your interaction with her, something that sticks out and why she had interest in you. If you were only person she gave her number to, then sure your text game is fine. But if she's HB7+, she probably has a decent size pool to select from.	/r/seduction	31/05/13 01:04 PM
2	[FR] Hit a plateau on Wednesday: transitioned out of the friend zone into a full night of making out with an HB9.5 in the back of a bar. Good FR	/r/seduction	13/05/13 11:59 PM
1	Something that accidentally humbled and HELPED me. OP must deliver the recording. For seddit!	/r/seduction	11/05/13 02:28 AM
3	So, I've been getting a lot of requests to upload all the material I have again... You should also upload it to Mega and provide the public link.	/r/seduction	15/02/13 06:55 PM
1	[FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUA Thanks, I enjoyed reading it from your perspective.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 08:18 AM
1	How can I change my mindset after a long term relationship (+10 years)? It's very possible to reprogram yourself and break old habits. A lot of people have done that here. I would suggest you hit the gym. You need to feel good about yourself so that you don't project your physical insecurities onto a woman. Something like the gym is easily in your control and you want to feel like you're the best version you can be of yourself.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 03:17 AM
1	Has anyone successfully seduced their boss? Go back and f-close her.	/r/seduction	07/02/13 12:07 PM
2	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... Kudos to you dude. You're getting some hate, but honestly, you saved her from worse.	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:40 PM
2	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... The warning sign when she said she loved him? Yes, this woman has been emotionally damaged by her boyfriend. What he showed her in their short time together was probably the best feeling she's had in a long time. I think we're all in agreement that continuing to hit on a woman that is in a relationship is frowned upon, but he showed her something that she probably has not seen in a long time; he gave her the courage to breakup with a manipulating asshole. You have to commend him for that.	/r/seduction	13/12/12 08:40 PM
1	Being asian...A disadvantage? How did asians and non-sexual beings perpetuate? We're the largest population. I was getting it on 365 days for a few years before the gf got sexed out.	/r/seduction	05/12/12 09:02 PM