xamotorp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you? Cannot = will not Impossible = you don't see myself ever trying	/r/seduction	25/11/18 08:31 PM
6	What questions do you have about attracting women? I wouldn't take it this far, rather I'd say use an emoji when you really want to emphasize. I surprisingly find very few women I've texted between 18-27 that use emoji's much, if at all. There's a strength in matching how the other person communicates, but you still have to be true to yourself.	/r/seduction	03/02/18 07:54 AM
6	How do I even reply to this? #1 is an analysis of individual segments of OP's conversation. #2/#3 are answers to two of OP's questions	/r/seduction	25/12/17 06:14 PM
5	Seducing a girl you see often Mine is very similar as well, except I waited too long while another coworker asked her out 5+ times before she accepted. A few months later she broke it off because she felt like he rushed it, she wasn't super into him but was trying to keep an open mind. Realized he wasn't what she was looking for (values, lifestyle etc ). We started getting closer around that time, cue 3 months later when we're having sushi after work and she didn't say she wasn't into me, but she wasn't down for another work…	/r/seduction	30/12/16 04:43 AM
3	ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion] That was me last year; not much has changed lol I should take my own advice more seriously	/r/seduction	01/05/16 04:18 AM
3	ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion] That kind of hindsight is good; don't wait until you're in your mid-20s either!	/r/seduction	01/05/16 02:12 AM
25	ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion] It makes a lot of sense. You practically described the absence of sexual growth and expression that many of us miss out on. I stumbled into a relationship back in 10th grade that lasted just under 5 years, and I've been single since. I've dated two people, both were some combo of getting set up or introduced with the knowledge that we are looking to date/meet people, and they both didn't work out. At this point it's been just over 2 years since I've been romantic with someone for more then 10 mi…	/r/seduction	30/04/16 10:50 PM
3	Made up an excuse not to talk to this girl, wow was I wrong *update pls	/r/seduction	06/04/16 06:29 AM
3	I feel confident when I'm alone or with one other person, but not when I'm in a group. Any advice? This is the real answer imo. It happens to me much less often than before, and it's because I've learned to really focus on what's being said and not worrying about what to say. Just listen and respond, and eventually you'll find yourself the center of conversation for a brief moment before it switches to someone else in the group.	/r/seduction	18/03/16 04:38 PM
2	How To Get A Girlfriend, The Obvious Reality That People Often Avoid And Wish For a Magic Pill Instead If you're not sure, assume they're single. Worst that can happen is you're wrong and move on.	/r/seduction	07/01/16 08:12 AM
4	"We should kiss" A simple, yet effective line I've used many times Building tension is the general concept with these techniques. Although you may get the kiss right after saying it, you can also give her time to wind up her "emotional brain" so-to-speak, as OP put it, to likely get more out of your interactions with her in the long run or just simply increase your chances of getting the kiss in the first place.	/r/seduction	04/11/15 06:48 AM
2	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? Haha you're not alone brother. Funny part is that when I broke it off the last time, I was so desensitized from dealing with the same problems that would resurface over and over again that I was able to move on relatively easily. The stunt in development for my Game is noticeable tho lol -_-	/r/seduction	28/09/15 02:32 AM
20	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? It's often a combination of both. Just because you're 32 and single doesn't mean you won't continue to distance yourself from assholes. Now you simply have a higher tolerance for "nice guys"	/r/seduction	27/09/15 11:14 PM
5	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? I had a similar situation happen. Ended up 'trying to work things out' twice after the initial breakup. What gets me the most is that since she was my first gf and we lasted just under 5 years, I knew that if I didn't at least try that I would regret not trying later on in life. Thats the only free pass I'll give myself, though. The doubting and unsureness will always linger and is not worth it.	/r/seduction	27/09/15 11:07 PM
7	PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate) You should try rereading before responding. He literally said his goal is not to have sex with these women, but rather to build enough rapport so that he becomes an option in their eyes if they decide to break things off with their bf.	/r/seduction	27/07/15 04:22 PM
6	[FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS. Feat*	/r/seduction	11/07/15 05:12 PM
2	For those ugly motherfuckers such as myself. FYI this also applies to guys with a degree of man-boobs that regular exercise and gym won't fix entirely. I used to feel similar to OP's rougher days, although not as bad (at least I would tell myself). Did and have contemplated surgery but I knew I wasn't going to do it anytime soon if I ever was so I drove to my nearest gym after doing 30 min of research on reddit for working out. A year later and all the ladies love man boob guy ;)	/r/seduction	19/04/15 06:58 AM
2	How do you socialize in large group gatherings? I understand the insecurity and feeling of uncertainty, especially since you mentioned battling depression (however severe it was). Keeping that in mind, remember that its probably been a long time since high school. I was a huge smartass/sarcastic asshole in high school. I had a similar realization one day, and have been working on it ever since. i got to the point where I would rarely share my opinion with anyone because I felt like it was mean or uncalled for. After feeling socially awkward f…	/r/seduction	11/10/14 05:39 PM
9	How do you socialize in large group gatherings? Im 23 at the moment and have definitely been through, and worked on, the same issues you have. Back 3 years ago i would attend parties and would end up sitting down on a couch, not joining in or seeking much conversation simply because "idk." Same thing in school: never felt much like I NEEDED to talk to someone. One thing that i realized is that a genuine smile goes a long way. It might take you a while to realize it, but you WILL get complemented on how you "always look happy" and that right t…	/r/seduction	11/10/14 04:26 PM
2	If something scares you, scare it back. I agree with the first part that you said, but be careful how you phrase the second sentence: you're implying that "faggots" aren't confident and resort to staring people down to achieve some form of fake confidence.	/r/seduction	25/09/14 12:29 AM
6	Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date! I know you were hoping for an answer from /u/nobody2000, but I'll give you my two cents. It seems like you're more preoccupied with getting a girlfriend and less about learning to accept yourself as you are. This directly translates into confidence, and having it is not just a great way to exude an attractive presence from women, but will overall allow you to enjoy life much more as well. Since physical attractiveness seems to be the issue, don't be so hard on yourself bro! Lifting four times a …	/r/seduction	02/09/14 07:24 AM
3	I just don't really care about girls anymore...? Great read! One thing to mention: Is usually seen that you are either an introvert or an extrovert; it's actually more like a spectrum where there is introversion on one end and extrovertedness on the other. I personally am somewhere near the middle, but leaning towards introversion. I like parties, going to bar with some friends, but without a close knit group to interact with or new (and interesting) people to meet, I can get bored faster than your typical extrovert, but slower than your typic…	/r/seduction	02/08/13 02:59 AM
7	[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach Nice! 1 week AFC/lurker here with AA. Glad to read a FR like this! Congrats!	/r/seduction	23/07/13 05:39 PM