xanderkage Archive

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1	Any tips to slow down speech? Best advice I can give is to really focus on pronouncing each and every word. This forces you to slow down and focus on getting each word right. Pretend like you're just learning how to talk again. Worked well for me, I hope it does well by you. XK	/r/seduction	20/07/17 10:03 PM
2	Less is more in Daygame. Beginners read this!! Cheers for your reply man Confidence does play a huge part in Pick-up. Sometimes I get asked, what is confidence or how do you become more confident? Break down what confidence is and you can learn it. Confidence is just situational competence. Example: If I am a boxer, and I go into a Kung-fu match, obviously I will feel unsure about it and nervous because I've never done it before. Boxing on the other hand, I will be okay with because I am competent in the skill THEREFORE confident with boxing…	/r/seduction	21/06/17 08:50 AM
1	Less is more in Daygame. Beginners read this!! Hey man. Thanks for the reply and feedback, I appreciate it. To sound blunt, it seems like you are over thinking this and trying to rationalize to yourself why this is too hard for you to learn. Looks matter to an extent but it is not all that matters, especially in Daygame. I would recommend you commit yourself to 6 months of 3 times a week cold approaching and see if your theories are correct.(You have to field test them before coming to a conclusion, right?) These are the attraction switches …	/r/seduction	21/06/17 08:42 AM
2	Less is more in Daygame. Beginners read this!! Cheers man, thanks for the feedback. I probably should have specified that it was aimed at daygamers who feel that they need to add more complex lines, more elaborate openers or stack routines to become better. Or worse, bounce between 5 different youtube mentors on the subject. I will write another post about the basic skeleton of daygame Cheers XK	/r/seduction	20/06/17 08:01 PM
3	Less is more in Daygame. Beginners read this!! Pick up is simple. Not easy but simple. Men and women have been fucking since the beginning of man-kind. It is a skill that anyone can learn but hardly anyone masters. I have had plenty of fellow Daygamers tell me that they are struggling with pick-up lately. Why is this? Read the full post at the link above or here http://www.seductivepickup.com/keep-it-simple/ Cheers XK	/r/seduction	20/06/17 11:21 AM
2	shy and self-conscious about my voice, what do you guys think about just handing the girl a note with my opening line/asking her out? Nope. It will never work. firstly, don't use your introversion as an excuse for lacking the proper social skills. I'm an introvert however, I still go and approach women. Remember confidence is just situational competence. The more you put yourself infront (and in conversation) with beautiful women, the better you will become at talking to them. Goodluck XK	/r/seduction	09/06/17 02:32 PM
3	how to pass shit tests on text? The general rule of shit tests is to do 1 of 2 things. Ignore it (non-reactivity) 48 hour roll off where you don't text her or Agree and Amplify it (q:how old are you? a:69 thousand years old for example) Shit tests may mean she is interested or she wouldn't bother HOWEVER it doesn't mean you should keep machine gun texting her, that would be the time to withdraw a little investment and make her chase you. I hope this helps XK	/r/seduction	09/06/17 01:23 PM
1	Looking for different influences other than RSD Hey man. I can't tell you who to follow and who not to follow, only to look out for people who suit your particular style of pickup and can further allow you to evolve. The people I draw my inspiration from is 1. Tom Torero. He has a simplified way of explaining the london daygame model suitable for beginner through to advanced. Easy to understand and he is action focused so no sitting around discussing theory. 2. Craig Cassidy. He is badass and indifferent. Seems naturally relaxed around girls …	/r/seduction	09/06/17 01:06 PM