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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	As much as I have serious concerns about #metoo being taken too far, I think it’s worth acknowledging that brazen sexual harassment of women by men does happen. This clip is an example of it. I don't even want to quote Poe's law at you because that's how certain I am that you aren't serious. More likely is that you're an extreme feminist trying to make this subreddit look as bad as you wish it was.	/r/MensRights	09/07/18 12:48 PM
0	Woman convinces 20 boyfriends to buy her 20 iPhone 7s, then sells them all to buy a home. Applauded as a hero, article has no critical remarks about her manipulative scheming behavior ITT unmarried men	/r/PussyPass	26/02/17 08:43 AM
6	Jennifer Lawrence tries to criminalize men, but manages to directly accuse herself /r/genderegalitarian needs more subscribers :-)	/r/MensRights	23/05/16 06:57 AM
5	If men focus on their own pleasure during sex, it's sexist. If they focus on their partner's pleasure, it's sexist. If they breathe air, it's sexist. Sometimes I hear someone saying "you know, I actually like giving money to charity, it makes me feel good knowing I've done the right thing." Little did they know they were suffering from toxic masculinity.	/r/MensRights	21/12/15 02:02 PM
3	They did it: Feminists are now claiming that the Lafayette theater shooting shows an "epidemic" of violence against women by 'white men'. And the shooter did so because of his "anti-feminist" views because once he said he was against abortion (as that apparently means you're anti-feminist) I personally would concede that mass killings are a more typical result of the mentally unwell male brain than female brain (many MRAs probably wouldn't I guess) but there is a distinct lack of evidence that there is an "epidemic" of mass killings purely driven by a culture and/or individual hatred of the opposite gender. What causes these individuals to commit these atrocities is a lot more complex than that, and the message given by the quotes in the OP's link not only is in danger of insultin…	/r/MensRights	02/08/15 12:06 PM
2	Male privilege I see/witness that sort of tolerable focus a lot in real life, less so on the internet. I guess it's just that on the internet, the assholes tend to be louder.	/r/MensRights	21/10/13 07:51 PM
11	Male privilege Preaching to the choir here, but a lot of the people here on this subreddit don't feel the same way. This is why I really wish /r/genderegalitarian got more traffic.	/r/MensRights	21/10/13 08:39 AM
8	Male privilege She sounds like a very reasonable feminist, and that's the sort of feminism I can subscribe to. What I don't subscribe to is the bullshit like "There is no such thing as misandry", "We'll only look at your issues once all the issues facing women have been dealt with", etc. Whatever you want to claim is the cause for the current issues, as long as you accept that they're real, we can talk.	/r/MensRights	21/10/13 08:09 AM
0	Stop womens quotas in EU Sure is opinion in here	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 05:17 PM
-7	Stop womens quotas in EU Well just to let you know I agree with you, even though most of MR doesn't.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 03:57 PM
3	Paedophile rapist sentenced to 16 months prison, will be free in a week for time served. Yes, she's a woman. I know girls who have sought out experiences with multiple other girls, but do not have a preference for them.	/r/MensRights	02/08/13 04:35 PM
9	Paedophile rapist sentenced to 16 months prison, will be free in a week for time served. Yes, she's a woman. Not really, since any of those -philias specifies a specific preference for that stage of development over more "normal" sexual desires. Just because someone likes or doesn't mind a certain thing, doesn't make it a -philia. However, "paedophile" in the media has become synonymous with "statutory rapist / illegal pornography viewer / sexual deviant (daily mail only)" so in this context I can't be bothered to complain.	/r/MensRights	02/08/13 03:42 PM
5	Don't be THAT girl - 2 This is the only reason I like this image. It highlights by parody how outrageous the actual adverts you do see, reminding men that rape is a crime, as if that is going to stop the actual rapists.	/r/MensRights	30/12/12 02:42 PM
1	[NSFW] Banner image of the feminist protest group, "Femen". No, they don't hate men at all. Just the old "ridicule by parody when I have nothing strong to back up my viewpoint".	/r/MensRights	19/11/12 10:33 AM
5	[NSFW] Banner image of the feminist protest group, "Femen". No, they don't hate men at all. Christopher Hitchens always made sure to refer to the ideology as Stalinism. The inherent ideas behind Communism are not the same as Stalinist philosophy.	/r/MensRights	19/11/12 10:30 AM
1	Bus ad: "67 million children don't go to school worldwide, over half are girls.... invest in me. because I am a girl." - I'm sure the boys understand why they aren't being invested in. I think this was meant to be a play on words more than a serious comment.	/r/MensRights	30/08/12 11:30 AM
18	What are your problems? Shameless /r/GenderEgalitarian plug	/r/MensRights	24/05/12 02:50 PM
1	Feminists oppose a Men's Centre at a Canadian University but they support the Women Centre. such as the group refusing to liaise with the other support / "safe space" groups Why should they? To integrate with the university? I don't feel the need to fully justify their viewpoint, just point out that it's not sexism. refusing to mandate inclusion of people who might be marginalized (e.g. LGBT). What do lesbians have to do with a men's center? Most schools have their own LGBT room/center. Not that gay men should be denied access, but I doubt there was any risk of that anyway. Fine, GBT. …	/r/MensRights	18/05/12 04:43 PM
-1	Just got punched in the balls by my GF You must have mistaken this for /r/relationship_advice :-)	/r/MensRights	18/05/12 04:00 PM
1	Feminists oppose a Men's Centre at a Canadian University but they support the Women Centre. While quite a few of the comments in that video were clearly sexist, a lot of people seemed opposed for sensible reasons, such as the group refusing to liaise with the other support / "safe space" groups, and refusing to mandate inclusion of people who might be marginalized (e.g. LGBT fine GBT ¬_¬). A lot of people seemed to clearly be saying "These are the policies I would want to see enforced before I support them" and the person that edited the video did the best they could to take those quot…	/r/MensRights	18/05/12 03:46 PM
2	Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠ Only very slightly relevant but happened last night and I wanted to tell someone: So I was walking through Manchester last night at 3am. Nowhere too dangerous but you never know with Manchester. I actually had a decent amount of money on me, so had opted to put it in my sock, you know, just in case. Anyway I'm a relatively large mixed raised dude so if anything people are gonna be more scared of me walking near them late at night than the other way round. A middle aged Iranian guy makes a beelin…	/r/MensRights	18/05/12 03:07 PM
1	A new study by University of Georgia researchers demonstrates that several months before a female victim is sexually assaulted, her pattern of drinking alcohol influences her risk for unwanted sexual contact, ranging from unwanted kissing to rape In which case I was reacting to the sensationalist title of the post.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 11:35 PM
1	Woman here, just wanted to say something. (Not sure if it's the right place, but here I go.) To me that just shows a lack of understanding of the work that goes into making sure psych experiments are done fairly, and the amount of disclaimers they put at the bottom about all the things that the study doesn't necessarily say. For example, the most notable one is usually that nearly all test subjects were working or middle class non-minority westerners.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 03:16 PM
6	"Sexism": I do not think it means what you think it means. Give me a definition of sexism, and then I'll tell you and give examples. For example if your definition is, as in the original definition we were talking about, prejudice + power, then as I said, all you need is power, which women can easily have. A policewoman who arrests a man for a crime but looks the other way when she sees a woman perform the same crime, is guilty of sexism. And as I said earlier, it doesn't even have to be power of authority. You can be sexist as an employer, with who you…	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 03:04 PM
6	"Sexism": I do not think it means what you think it means. I really have no idea what you're getting at. Reality as we know it could not exist in such a universe. Unless you can explain further, it seems completely irrelevant to the question of whether women can be sexist.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 12:59 PM
6	"Sexism": I do not think it means what you think it means. I'm really confused by your response. Are you trying to argue that women can't be sexist? Or something else?	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 12:05 PM
0	A new study by University of Georgia researchers demonstrates that several months before a female victim is sexually assaulted, her pattern of drinking alcohol influences her risk for unwanted sexual contact, ranging from unwanted kissing to rape NEWSFLASH STUDIES SHOW THAT LEAVING THE HOUSE MORE INCREASES CHANCES OF GETTING ATTACKED, GOING TO CLUBS MAKES IT MORE LIKELY PEOPLE WILL TRY TO HIT ON YOU More on this story at 11	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 10:31 AM
16	"Sexism": I do not think it means what you think it means. Well, since it appears you genuinely agree with this, I'd like to play devil's advocate. Firstly, on the definition of sexism. Even if it were, in the current status quo, impossible for a woman to be sexist towards a man, this would not make it objectively impossible for a woman to ever be sexist towards a man, since the status quo might change. So the definition should still include the possibility. Otherwise what you're saying is analogous to this: "I have my eyes closed at the moment, and I c…	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 10:19 AM
2	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. On further research I agree, women are quicker to become unsatisfied in marriages does seem to be a true observable trend. However we cannot take the leap from here and make the conclusion that "Women/feminism are more to blame for marriages falling apart" which lots of people seem to be happy to do in this thread.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 09:52 AM
0	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. There's a difference between the justification needed to be attracted to something, and the justification needed to perform acts that destroy someone's life.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 09:44 AM
1	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. Those are definitely interesting, but I'd like to see the numbers compared to those of heterosexual relationships. They don't mean much if we don't do that.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 09:34 AM
1	Woman here, just wanted to say something. (Not sure if it's the right place, but here I go.) I'm not sure what you're disapproving of.	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 09:32 AM
3	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. I'm unsure what that means. You disagree with my philosophy on how to address the gender inequalities of the world? You disagree that you are not following my philosophy? Or something else?	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 03:41 PM
1	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. It suggests it, but there are definitely other possible explanations. So, it allows us to create a hypothesis (which I have nothing against doing), but not to create a conclusion.	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 03:36 PM
0	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. It seems you have your own agenda. Im interested in truth. My agenda is the truth, I tend to go about this by not making unsubstantiated claims or claims based on anecdotal experiences. Your entire username and history of comments gives away that you have already made up your mind on what the truth is and what it definitely isn't. I consider myself in a permanent state of inquiry. From what I've seen, both the feminist and MRA movement spend much too much time trying to explain how they are the …	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 03:25 PM
2	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. Which might also explain why DV rates in lesbian relationships are high. Do you have a citation for that? Females do have a sense of privilege, simply because they are born female, its in their nature. Please, we could do without this. There is no need for either the male or female "side" (and I had calling them sides) to both argue that the other "side" has more privilege and their own side has it so much more worse off. It's pointless. Let's just address every inequality as we identify it rath…	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 03:00 PM
5	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. Neither of those reasons make any sense under the context of lesbian marriages?	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 02:14 PM
15	TIL: Lesbians, like hetero women, are much more likely to initiate divorce. So women are quick to divorce. Or maybe quick to marry? It could be that the men are less buying into the idea of life long partnership with one person. We can't really know from just this one study.	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 01:38 PM
7	Woman here, just wanted to say something. (Not sure if it's the right place, but here I go.) My girlfriend is a psychology major and she explained to me the following: Apparently when it comes to relationship arguments, what has been found is that men in general tend to remember the key points, or larger picture, if you will, and want to keep the argument about that. Women tend to "focus in" on some smaller points compared to the larger picture, they might remember specific sentences someone said that they really didn't like, or something like that. This disparity is hypothesized to be …	/r/MensRights	15/05/12 01:27 PM
0	[x-post from r/wtf] Rape prevention tips finds its way to man's house Is there a public record of the case? I'm genuinely interested about how the ruling came about. I can't imagine it holding up in court without a good reason! Maybe this news article is skewed. Not saying that it is, but it could be. Maybe the skinny jeans thing came about in a cross examination of the victim's testimony, where she claimed her rapist removed her clothes against her will while she actively resisted? Hmm I'm not even sure that the skinny jeans defense is a legitimate defense there,…	/r/MensRights	10/05/12 04:46 PM
2	CDC stats about rape in the last 12 months It's supposed to just be an archaic legal definition that doesn't mean much because the punishment should be the same for the woman even though it's just called gross sexual violence or whatever. In reality we see women get lesser sentences because in people's heads it's still a lesser crime.	/r/MensRights	04/05/12 09:58 AM
2	I feel more comfortable in MensRights than in /r/women or /r/TwoXChromosomes This shouldn't affect your stance on how promiscuous men and women should be. If you're not setting the bar at the same level, as a Libertarian and believing that the freedom of the individual is the most important thing, I would call you a sexist. I also personally don't think there should be a bar, but there you go, difference in moral opinion I guess. You seem to want to "fix" the fact that 80% of women sleep with 40% of men (I assume for purely noble idealistic reasons and no self interest),…	/r/MensRights	19/04/12 10:13 AM
2	Victim blaming 101. Saw this on a friends facebook. Agreed, but there's a difference between making life easy for a criminal, which you shouldn't do because it will make you a target, and making yourself a target just by your behaviour / lifestyle choices. You have a responsibility to not make it easy to be pickpocketed by having your wallet bulging out of your back pocket, but you should be free to go shopping in town, even if this technically makes it more likely you'll get pickpocketed than not going shopping in town. With things such as weari…	/r/MensRights	05/04/12 01:40 PM
1	Victim blaming 101. Saw this on a friends facebook. Everyone accused of sex crimes gets lynched? Sounds like a wonderful world, if a bit 5th century.	/r/MensRights	05/04/12 01:31 PM
4	Jezebel: Stealing a man's sperm is ok, as long as no women are harmed in the process. Net upvotes means nothing with regards to the feeling of the entire subreddit, or at least the owners and main posters. I got banned from SRSDiscussion for a net upvote post: 7 upvotes, 1 downvote. And you should have seen the abuse I received from their moderators in private messages. Let me ask you, have you been banned from this subreddit simply because the mods didn't agree with a fact you claimed? Or have we attempted to promote honest healthy discourse and debate?	/r/MensRights	05/04/12 01:21 PM
1	GWW on the bias towards women within the MRM Upvoted you because I think you get off from negative karma.	/r/MensRights	28/03/12 01:45 PM
3	GWW on the bias towards women within the MRM I'm not sure I agree. Feminism, the anti-racism movement, and the anti-homophobia movement all gained momentum because of the male/white/heterosexual crowd rallying behind them. And I know that if I were gay, I could tell myself it wasn't wrong or immoral all I wanted, but hearing it from a straight person would mean a lot to me. People who aren't personally invested in a cause, feeling the need to fight for it, are a very powerful force.	/r/MensRights	28/03/12 01:44 PM
26	What if women don’t need guys any more. Feminism convinced women they "don't need men." Now women have problem - they can't find husbands. tl;dr: "YOU GUYS ARE HAVING THE WRONG KIND OF FUN STOP IT :-("	/r/MensRights	28/03/12 01:41 PM
1	Mods at /r/AskReddit are standing their ground when dealing with SRS. This is what prompted the "askreddit mods are not your mommies and daddies" thread. S03E02	/r/MensRights	16/03/12 10:13 AM
2	A feminist definition of abuse backfires Had to scroll much too far down to find this.	/r/MensRights	15/03/12 05:23 PM
12	Mods at /r/AskReddit are standing their ground when dealing with SRS. This is what prompted the "askreddit mods are not your mommies and daddies" thread. Yay a new troll account!	/r/MensRights	15/03/12 05:17 PM
3	Sex toys equality Agreed, I'm male and sex dolls personally don't appeal to me. I think you're onto something about the Uncanny Valley. I feel the same way about girls using sex dolls as I do with guys using sex dolls though; they both seem weird. Not any of the adjectives used in the OP's image, just weird. And to confirm, I wouldn't ever shame anyone for using one, I would just find the idea weird. As for fake vaginas, I personally have never found one that looked like it'd be worth buying, my hand is pretty pl…	/r/MensRights	06/03/12 02:30 PM
1	Trans issues are part of men's rights That's fair enough, I wasn't aware you weren't full time yet. I have a couple of real life full time MtF trans acquaintances but haven't had the courage to ask them yet lest I accidentally offend them. When you do feel you've sufficiently experienced living full time as a woman, I for one would be very interested in an AMA :-)	/r/MensRights	06/03/12 10:20 AM
2	Trans issues are part of men's rights Thanks for your post, I'm very interested in what you have to say. I also think you have a quite rare position of having experienced the gender inequalities of both genders. What I'd be interested in hearing from you is what you think are the biggest difficulties with regards to sexism you experienced before you were able to properly identify as a woman, and what the biggest difficulties you experience now are. While I'm sure that the difficulties you encounter from being a trans person and the …	/r/MensRights	05/03/12 03:53 PM
6	Rebecca Watson Attempts to Explain the MRM Only when it suits her.	/r/MensRights	05/03/12 01:43 PM
2	Rebecca Watson Attempts to Explain the MRM Here in England & Wales, my girlfriend is always calling people of either gender cunts :-)	/r/MensRights	05/03/12 01:41 PM
1	The entire world is programmed against women...apparently [FIXED] Misled was spelled wrong and it's really bugging me!	/r/MensRights	29/02/12 10:17 AM
4	Porn on a plane. Disliked the first half of this as I felt TJ was using a few too many ad hominems and this was not going to convince anyone with a currently opposed point of view. Liked the second half, as her story got more and more wild I felt TJ was more and more justified in ridiculing her.	/r/MensRights	23/02/12 01:19 PM
-3	I never used to notice how normal/acceptable it is to be suspicious of men who are just minding their own business... (expost exmormon) I'm an atheist and I post on there regularly because there are some idiots out there who subscribe to atheism, just like there are idiots that subscribe to religion. MSF is partially SRS but partially just funny parodies of the overconfident atheist. Also slightly related, as a mixed-raised atheist I have found myself in much more awkward/difficult spots in life because of my atheism than I have because of my colour. So while I don't speak for all black people, there is some merit to the above c…	/r/MensRights	23/02/12 11:54 AM
3	I never used to notice how normal/acceptable it is to be suspicious of men who are just minding their own business... (expost exmormon) I think you forget that SRS is s stupid circlejerk and you should take them about as seriously as /r/magicskyfairy	/r/MensRights	23/02/12 10:08 AM
12	My ex shouldn't have looked a gift horse in the mouth it almost seems as if she has never loved your children ever since the divorce. Shit reddit says. Come on, we can call her a bitch about things we know to be true from OP's post without having to say things like this.	/r/MensRights	06/02/12 11:05 AM
2	This man was destroyed financially in a divorce and then after going into arrears sentenced to six months for contempt. He couldn’t afford to pay his alimony and child support, so he’s going to jail for a pretty long time and he lost his job. Does anyone have a link to the full episode?	/r/MensRights	03/02/12 03:17 PM
2	Ideas on Slut Shaming I agree that the type of polyandry / polygamy where one person has many exclusive partners would not work on a worldwide scale (tragedy of the commons). However this is not the case for polyamorous arrangements in general, that can have one or more women and one or more men. There is no overlying rule about who has to be exclusive and who doesn't, that is decided within the arrangement. There is nothing inherently wrong with, or prone to disaster, with regards to a lack of monogamy. The issue yo…	/r/MensRights	24/01/12 11:57 AM
1	Ideas on Slut Shaming So the reason we have bad parenthood is that bad parenthood is encouraged, and has been for nearly a century now. Either you've got good parents who aren't allowed to be good parents, or you've got bad parents who are encouraged to be bad and who likely grew up with bad parents themselves for the very same reasons. I agree with this, I just don't agree that the cause is single parenthood. On the other hand, slut shaming is not an infringement on anyone's freedom. It doesn't force anyone to do an…	/r/MensRights	23/01/12 10:34 AM
1	I hate this fucking attitude... http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/dvs2z/who_is_mensrights/ Men's Rights is about when an institution or legal proceeding discriminates unfairly against men. Not "Hey guys, have you ever noticed how unfair it is that men's public toilets always seem to be disgusting?"	/r/MensRights	23/01/12 10:26 AM
2	Ideas on Slut Shaming I'm going to have to upvote you, because while I strongly disagree with you, you presented your case well. In short, I feel that the slut shaming argument rests on some assumptions I'm not happy with, including: Monogamy is the only acceptable type of relationship Freedoms should be restricted if the stupid people can't take care of themselves While it may not be the simplest solution, I think that rather than stopping the irresponsible girls from becoming single mothers, it is more important to…	/r/MensRights	20/01/12 10:11 AM
5	I hate this fucking attitude... It's a supply and demand issue. There are guys willing to buy girls drinks in the hope that it will get them on the girls' good side. Sometimes offering to buy someone a drink is a great way to get talking to her - and it is partly tradition and partly that men tend to be the go-getters in bars and clubs, that mean that it is usually the man buying a girl a drink. I hardly ever buy a girl I've only just met a drink in a bar, I've only done it twice, and on the most recent occasion we started dat…	/r/MensRights	20/01/12 09:50 AM
2	The Female Privilege Checklist I still think 43 and the one about pain and the population majority one are very weak because they're not something that requires anything on a woman's part to fix (except for maybe agreeing to unisex bathrooms?). They are just facts of life and listing them is pointless. It's like a wheelchair bound person writing a list of things that need to change and starting with "you guys can walk and I can't." Oh and number 29, the one about free entry and free drinks? That's an interesting one. Clubs an…	/r/MensRights	03/01/12 11:31 AM
5	BBC uses the the term RAPE in relation to men without putting it into quotation marks. I agree, we should reject claims of violence and sexual assault on the ground of whether we think it's likely. If it's not likely - that is if our gut feeling that can never be wrong calls bullshit - we should probably just ignore it. Something in the back of my brain is reminding me of the history lesson we were supposed to learn from a time when we didn't have a proper prisons inspectorate and we just assumed that guards were treating prisoners fairly, and that even if they were being treated …	/r/MensRights	28/11/11 02:00 PM
2	BBC uses the the term RAPE in relation to men without putting it into quotation marks. I don't understand half of what you just said. Are you saying it's more acceptable for her to leave him than the reversed situation or less acceptable? I don't agree with either.	/r/MensRights	28/11/11 01:49 PM
1	"One Day the Man of My Dreams Will Sweep Me Off My Feet and Rape Me." What the actual fuck. Didn't get past page 3 before having to stop reading.	/r/MensRights	18/11/11 11:06 AM
1	So this commercial just came on. . . As a non-American I found the accent difficult to listen to as well. But I'm very glad the commercial was made and wish that there were more attorneys like this.	/r/MensRights	18/11/11 11:00 AM
5	Office sexism? As I posted elsewhere: So are you saying stag nights and hen nights are sexist? Also I went to a strip club for my birthday. Some of the girls wanted to come, but we didn't want them to come because we decided we'd have felt uncomfortable getting turned on by girls while are female friends / girlfriends were there. Maybe they wanted to talk about girly things, or boys, or sex, or whatever without men being there to make it uncomfortable? Ever thought about that?	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 11:40 PM
0	Office sexism? As I posted elsewhere: So are you saying stag nights and hen nights are sexist? Also I went to a strip club for my birthday. Some of the girls wanted to come, but we didn't want them to come because we decided we'd have felt uncomfortable getting turned on by girls while are female friends / girlfriends were there. Maybe they wanted to talk about girly things, or boys, or sex, or whatever without men being there to make it uncomfortable? Ever thought about that?	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 11:40 PM
-1	Office sexism? So are you saying stag nights and hen nights are sexist? Also I went to a strip club for my birthday. Some of the girls wanted to come, but we didn't want them to come because we decided we'd have felt uncomfortable getting turned on by girls while are female friends / girlfriends were there. Maybe they wanted to talk about girly things, or boys, or sex, or whatever without men being there to make it uncomfortable? Ever thought about that?	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 11:36 PM
-3	Florida judge sentenced a 26-yr-old with no criminal record, to life in prison for possessing child pornography: "Had Mr. Vilca actually molested a child," The NYTimes notes, "he might well have received a lighter sentence." I'm all for people fantasizing about whatever they want, but child pornography is made because of supply and demand. It's the demand for child porn from people like Mr. Vilca that (usually) causes child porn to be made, and making child porn is child abuse. Now I agree that the punishment might not fit the crime, but it is definitely right to punish people for being part of the demand that creates the supply which requires child abuse.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 05:43 PM
27	Office sexism? I'm all for men's rights but this is not sexism. If there would be an uproar if there was a men's only night then this would be a double standard, but it is not sexism in and of itself.	/r/MensRights	10/11/11 05:40 PM
9	I'm a transgender female living as a man; I have some observations and questions you might be interested in, /mensrights I've had enough ass grabs to last a lifetime (I have the largest ass in proportion to the rest of my body of any man I've ever met) and a small amount of cock grabs, but I suppose the cock grabs have never been from strangers so that's a bit different. I've never turned down a kiss that I can remember so I wouldn't know what it's like to have an unwanted one :P	/r/MensRights	08/11/11 03:25 PM
1	Cosmo puts in its two cents on how to prevent sexual assault. i have a tip for you in return: if you don't want to be "oppressed" by society's "fat shaming", try not being a fat piece of shit. I agree, although I don't think calling anyone a "fat piece of shit" is helpful language. But yeah, maintaining a healthy body weight is easy to do if you just follow a simple diet and exercise plan. Wow, so just because you place value in this particular way to stay healthy you are happy with the "fat shaming" society we live in? Have you ever considered that everyo…	/r/MensRights	07/11/11 04:37 PM
6	Cosmo puts in its two cents on how to prevent sexual assault. 100 NEW ways all men are the same FTFY	/r/MensRights	07/11/11 04:29 PM
0	One facebook conversation I never expected to see. What did I just read.	/r/MensRights	01/11/11 02:16 PM
2	The penalty for making false accusations should be a prison term equal to the maximum length of the one the accused could have been sentenced to. Thank you, I came here to say this and was glad to see it is the top comment.	/r/MensRights	28/10/11 02:04 PM
3	Wanted to make sure this graph made its rounds. [citation needed]	/r/MensRights	26/10/11 12:34 PM
3	Apology to Men's Rights Activists Apologies never include the word, “but.” The only cases of the word "but" were not used in the context of her apology, except with the possible case of "but some people aren't ready for gender mixed bathrooms" (which is a fact). What’s more, she is still defending her actions. Please quote this. All I see is lines like "It was a mistake I regret." and "We all deserve fair treatment from the justice system and each other. Women are just as capable of committing crimes as men and should not be hel…	/r/MensRights	26/10/11 09:50 AM
1	Apology to Men's Rights Activists Not sure if you're the guy who I was replying to since the post was deleted, but it was not just arguing for her register-her profile, even if that was the original reason he started to write the post. It was an attack on her basically concluding with "she cannot be forgiven, I will not accept her apologies as sincere". Which is a useless stance to take.	/r/MensRights	25/10/11 09:47 AM
6	Apology to Men's Rights Activists I had more interpreted this as someone's actual point of view. Having looked at the account history I can now see that this person is clearly just an idiot who likes posting unpopular opinions mixed in with ad hominems.	/r/MensRights	24/10/11 02:06 PM
1	Apology to Men's Rights Activists I hope you're happy now you've bullied this poor woman so much by adding her to your vigilante 'registry'. Please expand. In what way is it "vigilante", and how is it different from any other database of people who have objectionable quotes to their name. Threatening her with violence so she had to fill out an FBI report. Clearly unacceptable, but this was done in the name of men's rights, as opposed to being generally endorsed by men's rights movement. Anyone can do anything in the name of any …	/r/MensRights	24/10/11 01:25 PM
4	Apology to Men's Rights Activists I hereby vote that we have a urinal-only room, where anyone with a penis may go for a quick standing up job, and a closed-stall section that anyone can go in.	/r/MensRights	24/10/11 01:16 PM
9	Apology to Men's Rights Activists She did respond with a lot of ridiculous accusations on the day but you can't expect someone to change their viewpoint on the spot. You need to allow a few days for the arguments presented to the person to stir around in their head. You call it crocodile tears but she's made an effort to not only write a full apology but basically flat out admit she was wrong. We should not delete the register-her page, so that we can keep the record of her misguided past days, but the fact of the matter is that…	/r/MensRights	24/10/11 01:12 PM
6	Only women should help in the potty. Dads might be predators. I can show you 100 other mothers who agree with me. Wow, an ad populum as well. She's reeling off logical fallacies faster than a Scientologist.	/r/MensRights	20/10/11 11:17 AM
9	Only women should help in the potty. Dads might be predators. I see the NASTY PERVERT society picked up this story. ...is she for real?	/r/MensRights	20/10/11 11:09 AM
6	I'll just leave this here.. No one’s saying everyone should conform to a gender stereotype Oh, well, that's good I guess... Dare I suggest it was largely because it recalled a time when we still acknowledged a gender divide? When women were women, and men were men. ಠ_ಠ	/r/MensRights	07/10/11 05:09 PM
2	Oh, you raped your boyfriend? I'm sorry he was such a jerk to you. [Yahoo Answers] I think 99% of the people in MensRights are aware that there is a double standard in the law. I would argue that rather than have the same awful punishment for the girl, the punishment should be more lenient for the guy. I'm sure some would disagree but that's my point of view on this particular case.	/r/MensRights	16/09/11 02:00 PM
2	Oh, you raped your boyfriend? I'm sorry he was such a jerk to you. [Yahoo Answers] You deserve to be in jail for rape. Before you say any young person deserves to be sent to jail, become a prisons inspector. Or in my case, the boyfriend of one. In fact, that's probably the best way to remedy young offenders. make them do work experience as a prison inspector. That's the best way to get it into their heads this is not a place you ever want to be. When you send someone to jail you ruin their life, partially because of the criminal record but partially because of the traumatizing…	/r/MensRights	16/09/11 01:34 PM
-1	Oh, you raped your boyfriend? I'm sorry he was such a jerk to you. [Yahoo Answers] To be fair that's basically what the Bible says to women.	/r/MensRights	16/09/11 01:28 PM
1	The story of my polygamous relationship and the vitriol and hatred I received from both men and women. I would argue that your sexuality is less your choice than your outlook on monogamy.	/r/MensRights	08/09/11 06:00 PM
3	The story of my polygamous relationship and the vitriol and hatred I received from both men and women. Thanks for backing me up. Off topic but I just want to let you know I'm a big fan of your posts, thank you for encouraging rational thinking throughout reddit!	/r/MensRights	08/09/11 04:18 PM
1	The story of my polygamous relationship and the vitriol and hatred I received from both men and women. That would then be their problem. Imagine a society where every woman and some men wanted to be polyamorous. Any man that refused to enter into a polyamorous relationship would be damning themselves with their own choices, as opposed to not having any women at all to date. Therefore while it is a problem, that's just a lifestyle choice problem and not an inherent problem with society-wide polyamorousness.	/r/MensRights	08/09/11 04:15 PM
4	The story of my polygamous relationship and the vitriol and hatred I received from both men and women. That's the problem with polygamy being one-sided, which everyone in this thread seems to have jumped to as a conclusion. If women are allowed to have multiple husbands, and polyamory of all forms is allowed, such as two women and two men, then there would be no issue with people being left out. But yes, if only one gender is allowed multiple partners then there will be society wide issues.	/r/MensRights	08/09/11 02:27 PM