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| 1 | Have you ever chosen to be in the friend zone?I met a really cute German girl a while back and really enjoyed spending time with her, I also got the impression she was into me, but I never made a move beyond flirting (she was a natural flirt and therefore just fun to be around and practice with etc). Why did I not make a move you ask? Because of the amount of people she knew, including other hot girls we would hang out with. You come across certain people in your life who are super connectors they know almost everyone and everyone knows the… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever chosen to be in the friend zone?Nailed it | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Possibly in over my head! Advice welcome!If you think you should treat a woman any differently because she's lucky enough to be able to show off her body for money, you're already shooting yourself in the foot before you've opened your mouth. | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.There's more constructive things to do even with rage, things like exercise for example. | /r/seduction | 23/08/15 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.Sounds like you're in a downward spiral, getting out and doing real stuff with enough repetition shits all over any red pill bs. | /r/seduction | 23/08/15 07:48 PM |
| 17 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.Downside is that some of the things which look like desserts will give you aids. | /r/seduction | 23/08/15 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Pickup is not about PickupIf I ever want to learn something I just make it fun and streamlined as possible. Mainly I do that by working things into my day to day life rather than "Going into pickup mode." | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Social circle is for people who are naturals at game, Cold approach are for the more shy guysAs soon as you start thinking "Oh, I should game this woman" you're shooting yourself in the foot. Just let things flow and don't filter what you say so much. I've had interactions which were going great, but I got too stuck up in my head about what my next move should be so I cut it off then and there. YOU should be enjoying yourself too! People don't think about this enough here as most people here are concerned with chasing too much, but an interaction is like a coin, it always has two sides … | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Like most posts have stated in the past, be forward with your intentions and don't be afraid to show your intentions.Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How to Deal with Shit TestsWith shit tests I just turn everything into a joke. This is why smart guys fail a lot more than the guys who are just "too stupid to fail". Like if she asks "how many people have you been with", just exaggerate or under exaggerate. For example "45365", or "im a complete virgin, untouched as an angel" | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:47 AM |
| 10 | Dealing with the same venue multiple girls.I think you're over thinking this. Sure a girl might get pissed if she sees you straight up hooking up with another girl, but you shouldn't be making out with girls in clubs anyways as it transforms you instantly into "that guy she hooked up with drunk in a club." Try and move things out of the club asap if you like someone enough and kiss them there. If I'm going into a club, its not to hookup with people so much, I just talk to everyone and flirt with those I get signals from. And remember, GI… | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:42 AM |
| 3 | How to Have a Perfect First DateTips 1 to 3 are great, but from there it just goes rapidly downhill. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:28 AM |
| 2 | How to Have a Perfect First DateLike you said it might be a bit much if he does it constantly, but anyone who really knows how to build tension with someone will tell you its more a matter of push/pull rather than hammering them with your presence straight up. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:26 AM |
| 1 | What to answer when asked "Are you a virgin?" during question game on the first dateDon't fake it till you make it, fake it till you become it | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | A couple nights ago, Girl in our group showed all the signs with me. Then hooked up with another guy that night. What to think of this all?For a girl to show interest and not have someone reciprocate is one of the biggest turn offs. Have to strike while the irons hot I guess, but at least you got over it and didn't let it get you down. There's nothing but madness in over thinking what you could have done wrong. Focus on what you did right and what you could improve on next time. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 04:43 PM |
| 9 | which country to move to?Spain sounds like it might be the go for you. People tend to be a little more outgoing there. Plus home is just around the corner if you get sick of it (no $3000 plane ride home). | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 04:39 PM |
| 7 | I didn't talk to the girl on the trainDon't be mad at yourself, pushing yourself to talk to a stranger can be like being on a diet and trying to eat healthy. Its so easy to make the easy decision and live an unhealthy life, but when you push through that emotional flinch and just get outside your head, amazing things can happen | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 05:12 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl's "you are not my type", "you are ugly" or facially expressed "euhh"?Plus any number of things could be going on in her mind, you could have a great approach, but the girl has had her dog die etc etc. Sure a great approach will minimize these factors, but she might just not be feeling it. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Advice one of my best friends gave to me. I'm sure many could benefit from thisThis goes deeper too, a lot of men forget how they would like to be "picked up", rather seeing it as a more one sided chase than a 50-50, maybe 60-40 interaction between two people. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Why you need to friendzone beautiful girlsYeah I can see this ending badly if you go into a friendship expecting them to be won over eventually. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Why you need to friendzone beautiful girlsYou'd be surprised how many people forget to just be normal and start interacting with someone in a friendly manner to see what you've both got to offer to the conversation you're creating. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for attracting girls without alcohol, clubs, or partying?Hit up some bookshops, start chatting to people about what they're reading. If you're into outdoors type stuff you could organize a day trip with a group to go hiking or rock climbing or something along those lines | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Any tips for attracting girls without alcohol, clubs, or partying?Blast her with some arctic ice spells? | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I (26m) have no idea how to approach /what to say to women.Just say hey, be normal and introduce yourself. Ask her about what she's doing/wearing/saying. Throw around a statement or two about her, or a common situation/problem and you'll be off and away. Openers aren't rocket science. Just go in and be clear about what you're trying to relate to her about | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:33 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Using /r/seduction in IndiaIn a nation of like a billion people, I'm sure there are people capable of relating to other people and using that skill to talk to women. Keep searching, you'll find a good wingman eventually. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Some girls just don't want to be approached... FUCKING DEAL WITH It, You aren't haggling prices, let it go.Red pill can smd for the amount of utter and complete twats it has created. Natural all the way. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why bother with daygame / bars / clubs?I've been trying to make some friends/meet some girls at my gym but most people I have talked to just want to work out. Any ideas? | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How to open girls in a park?How about"hey what's your name(s)" followed by "What's up". Just say it with confidence in a slightly deeper tone and you'll be fine. 😊 | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Night clubs advice: It's a gamePeople tend to put up a bit of a guard in night clubs I've found. Sure, girls are there to have fun, but past making out/grinding, the chances of things escalating are a little slim unless you're closing like a maniac jacked up on Ritalin. No girl in her social circle wants to be seen as the type of girl who sleeps around, especially with 'the guy from the club' who she can't remember the name of because she got so hammered. Move things out of the club asap to a pizza place etc is my advice. Or … | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say.That just makes you look like a too serious douche. Chill out and stop being so serious about it. It's called game for a reason haha. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:03 AM |
| 1 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say.Jokingly taking a step away (then back of course, get up in her grill if she's cool with it yet) and saying something like "Ok we're done here" is always a good move. Shows her your sense of humor (personality) and conveys some abundance | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say."Convince me why I should be the one doing all the convincing around here, I hadn't pegged you as the type of girl who likes to see her man work" What this first part does is allows for a full frame reversal. Rather than just writing off your resume and trying to convince her of your merit like every other guy, this puts the ball back in her court while showing her you're not going to take any bs, everyone loves people who can respect themselves and not be a douche about it. The second part is o… | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Trouble picking up on IOIsWhen you're talking to someone and they turn their hips toward you, usually means some kind of interest was just sparked by a hook in the conversation. Eye contact us also big, try training yourself to look at a girls eyes for about 5 seconds, then give a little "oh you caught me looking" smile | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I absolutely hate texting, I'm awful at it, what are some ways I can get better at it/skip it?What about using to keep on her radar so tl say. For example, if I'm texting a cute girl, she knows she's a cute girl and therefore will have a lot of options. Keeping myself in her thoughts through sharing some good banter and flirting occasionally seems like a great idea to me. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 08:13 AM |
| 12 | How can I get past feeling inferior towards women I find to be very attractive, and seemingly more experienced?First off, there is nothing wrong with being introverted. Not everyone was born a social butterfly, but what you do have is the leverage to work hard at improving your life in general, and potentially end up being great at socializing. I think this goes deeper than wanting to have sex though. It's one thing to love rubbing your genitals on other peoples genitals, but as soon as you start expecting it to change who you are as a person, you're on a slippery slope. Start working on your life and lo… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Advice on dates in small towns where there's not much too do?I always found setting up a grill in a park on a sunny day can be a great way to relax and chat, maybe drink a beer or two | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How to be "alpha as fuck" in a professional setting?Being truly alpha is to really just not care if you look alpha. Just accept it as your reality and everyone will be falling at your feet. Freedom from outcome is essential to any sense of confidence. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women of Reddit: What makes you text a guy only to not reply? (Guys should give input too)Two magic words when someone isn't texting back, "You're shit" followed up by the cherry on the cake "Just kidding" | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 10:21 PM |
| 2 | To a women, what's the significance of a kiss/ make out?Different people think differently about kissing, generalizing by sex will only confuse. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 10:12 PM |
| 2 | I need to practice initial talkWell if you're making an attempt to hit on a girl I would recommend something along the lines of "hey, I noticed you. I thought you were pretty and wanted to come say hi, but you made all my best lines rubbish, so why don't you help me out. What would you say to get your attention." Honesty will shit all over any gimmicky lines, period. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 11:04 PM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Just say something along the lines of "well damn, I was about to make this huge attempt at seducing your beautiful ass, then take you on a magical vacation to France, we'd make out in the moonlight then I'd get you pregnant and we'd go get married in the chapel." What this does is it flatters her, makes her laugh while also making it about you and her. Future projection is a biggie I see a lot of people miss in their game. It gets her to imagine spending more time with you, even if you do say it… | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 10:54 PM |
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