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High/low SMV; I'm not sure, but high to me Popular/unpopular; Not popular in my social circle (they didn't meet him until after), but he had/has a lot of friends. Jock/skater/musician/weed dealer/math genius/chess club/Lvl 65 Paladin; Older man, writer, beard. Car/no car; Car Rich/middle class/poor; Middle class Location you lost it; Vacation rental when I visited the town where he lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:03 PM
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Are the cases where a girl isn't sure if she likes someone until they actually give her attention first? Nobody can be sure they like someone without ever having spoken to them. Approaching a girl is fine. But you need to read the situation. Does she seem uncomfortable? Are her replies short? Is she avoiding eye contact? Is she verbally saying she's not interested? If so, then exit the interaction and don't approach again. And a follow up, are there cases where girls like men to be persistent in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:56 PM
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Sure, sex needs to be in a relationship. But I don't think relationships are going to fall apart because getting casual sex/nudes/whatever is easier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:53 PM
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A rich, sexy, handsome prince would not coerce or hunt anyone, because chances are that most women will be attracted to him and will make that clear either verbally or through body language. If a woman does reject him, he will move on and find one of many women who do want him. It's fine if this fantasy man does it, because in most cases the woman in question would be into it - making it neither coercion nor hunting. Nor will he think it's coercion or hunting, because she will reciprocate. But l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:39 PM
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OP's question was whether or not women enjoy being prey. My answer is no. What nature intended doesn't really have much to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:23 PM
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Sometimes 2 things here go hand in hand. People that are really good at coming across a certain way may be just good at lying. Is that person really genuine, or are they good at manipulating and deceiving you to get in your pants? I think most girls that enjoy casual hookups don't really care one way or another. It doesn't have to be genuine, all that matters is the interaction. Men that are good at manipulating women are more likely to be successful, but I wouldn't class that as a 'prey/predato…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:21 PM
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I guess if your relationships are based solely on the sexual value a woman/man provides for you, then I see your point. But that view is something I see way more online than irl. Most people in relationships care about their partners for things other than sexual resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:14 PM
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People on here are completely socially retarded. Not everything is black/white. If there's chemistry and signs of interest, then a man pursuing a woman is romantic and sexy. But then you get all the autists on here saying "wOMeN lIKe BeiNg ChaSEd RapE NorMal PrEdAtor PreY". Women like being pursued, they like confident, attractive men. Does this mean that opens the door to a moutbreathing fatass repeatedly asking them out? No. Read social cues. A woman makes it VERY obvious when she's into you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:03 PM
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You realise that what you just said proves my point about how it's inappropriate right? Basically what you're saying is "deal with men being inappropriate or go hide yourself from view". Men really are the meme gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:36 PM
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In most service industry jobs, you can't deal with it. I worked as a hostess and we could not tell a guy to fuck off, because then he'd give the restaurant trouble. At most you can say you have a bf or are already married, but that doesn't deter most men. Flirting with a woman that is being PAID to be nice to you is just retarded. Flirt with women elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:26 PM
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I don't see how not wanting someone to comment on your physical appearance in a professional setting is wanting to be treated like a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:44 PM
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My count is 1, his is more, not sure of the actual number. He was in five other LTRs before me and I know he has been casual. I don't really care about how many people he's slept with, but I do like that he's experienced, since I wasn't and I had no clue what I was doing. He doesn't care about mine as far as I know, though it was romantic that he was my 'first', I don't think it would have changed anything between us if he wasn't. For the quotes, I think it's reasonable to assume that a lot of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:04 PM
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What is the point of this question? What's there to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:17 AM
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I have no idea what my boyfriend's notch count is. I know that he has had casual sex, but he's never given me a concrete number. As long as he did it while he was single, he doesn't have any STDs or kids, and he's not cheating while he's with me, it makes absolutely no difference. I don't think it'll ever be something that influences my opinion on a man either way. The only notch count that would be a turnoff is 0 - I'm not interested in being with someone who isn't at least a little experienced…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:12 AM
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Nobody likes being sexually rejected, but I think it hurts a bit more as a woman because it's not what you expect. The stereotype is that men ALWAYS want sex so if a guy rejected me, I'd take it as a sign that there's something wrong with me. That being said, it's never okay for a woman to force or pressure a man into sex. If you don't feel like having sex, turn her down gently and that should be the end of it. Nobody is entitled to sex. If this is a recurring problem, a frank conversation about…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:03 PM
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Penetration alone is rarely enough. It can add to it, but for most women clitoral stimulation is what really gets them off. So yes sex is pleasurable, but not PIV alone. Also, speaking personally, sex is a mental thing as well. I can't enjoy it if I'm feeling stressed or there's something else on my mind. I need to be fully present in the moment. This is achieved by a romantic setting, a lot of foreplay, and feeling very secure with my partner. I don't think I'd ever be able to enjoy casual sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:50 AM
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I halfway agree with you. It's certainly more impressive for a man to be sleep with a high number of people than it is for a woman - but that does not mean a woman should be shamed for sleeping with a lot of people. It's neutral for women, an achievement for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:41 AM
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ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:09 AM
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Again: either refute the points I made here or concede that you're too unintelligent to do so. My post history and my attractiveness has nothing to do with what I said, nor does my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:02 AM
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If you can't debate without personal attacks, don't come to a debate sub. It's pathetic and pointless. My post history has nothing to do with the OP post. Either refute the points I made HERE or concede that you lack the intelligence to do so. I don't need to look at your post history to make any of my points. EDIT: Removed my response to the personal attacks as it's not relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 06:28 AM
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I identify as a radical feminist because I don't support liberal feminism, which includes bullshit movements that I don't agree with. Just because I advocate not going to a strange man's house doesn't mean I hate men, it means I know basic self preservation skills and encourage other women to do the same. My boyfriend and I are very happy. He survived me not wanting to go to his house until I trusted him. He has also survived me being wary of strange men I meet when I'm out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:42 AM
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Which part of what I said implied that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:07 AM
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Not saying all men are murderers, saying that women should be cautious until proven otherwise. For example: don't go to a guy's house if you just met him. Don't accept car rides from random men. Don't accept open drinks from men. Basic self preservation stuff. I have a boyfriend and I have male friends, but it's retarded to trust a man that I know absolutely nothing about. Don't really care if that hurts men's feelings either, I'd rather be a bitch than be dead or hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:06 AM
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I personally think it's inappropriate. I know some women disagree with me and that's fine. It's probably less inappropriate in casual jobs like retail and waitressing, but I personally loathed it when guys hit on me while I was a hostess. Now that I'm in a more corporate culture, I'm able to be a lot more blunt with rejection than as a hostess. Most guys are normal and will stop if you don't return the interest, but then you get guys who will not read cues and keep on flirting and keep on talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:56 PM
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Yeah? She needs to value something in herself other than looks. And anybody of any gender or sexuality commenting on appearance in a professional setting is inappropriate imo, but it's undeniably a more inappropriate dynamic when it's a heterosexual male complimenting a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:28 PM
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Value yourself more. Your body is merely a vessel for who you really are, it is not who you are. Don't let men reduce you to being nothing more than decoration. Don't let yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:40 PM
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Both blue pill and red pill men have the potential to be scorned beta orbiters. What this guy did is not a red pill norm. As for the quote, yes it holds true, but that has nothing to do with trp. Women have plenty reason to be wary of men - all men, until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:22 PM
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Ugly or even average women have men trading up on them as well. Ever heard of starter wives? Sure, women can get casual sex easily... but women don't cum as easily as men, so a drunken stranger humping them for five minutes does not fulfil any sexual need they have. Men need to really give a fuck before they make the effort of ensuring that the sex is pleasurable for the women. And since men don't give love to ugly women, all they have available is pump and dumps that does not meet their needs o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:18 PM
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Men commenting on your appearance does not mean they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:24 PM
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I feel like commenting on someone's appearance vs giving them water on a hot day are two very different things. Telling a girl she's attractive is inherently sexual in nature because how pretty she is determines how sexually attractive she is. Would you have told the construction workers they're too pretty to be doing manual labor? Probably not. Now all that being said... giving a woman you think is attractive a compliment is fine, but not in a place where she's serving you professionally. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:11 PM
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No, they just require more work to get turned on. Men are simple creatures in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:22 PM
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Nope. More physical attraction won't mean shit. If a man doesn't make an effort to seduce a woman, him just standing in front of her naked isn't going to turn her on. Women need physical attraction, but not more than men do. A hot girl naked in front of a guy? In most cases, that's enough. A hot guy naked in front of a girl? Maybe some women would jump on that without him needing to do anything else, but most women are going to require seduction, flirting, etc, etc. Obviously if there's no attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:21 PM
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Not really. Men and women are equal on visual attraction, while women need more mental attraction. Not the same thing as saying men are more visual than women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:29 PM
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Both men and women like partners that are attractive to them. I think women probably need more mental stimulation than men do. Men will be turned on solely by an attractive woman being naked in front of them, where women need more seduction. That doesn't mean men are more visual creatures than women - it means women are more emotional creatures than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:19 PM
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He does laundry, I do dishes, and we split the costs for a maid to come in once a week. We've never had any issues with sex and housework. I think I'd be more resentful if I had to do all the work. Not sure if cooking falls under 'housework' but that we take turns with or do together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:16 PM
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Would someone who looks exactly like you and is 6'4 have an advantage? Yeah probably. Women, as a general rule, like tall men. As long as you don't look like a freak of nature (slenderman, or super gangly, etc) height is a good thing. It's sort of like me asking: "Would a girl that looks exactly like me but has a cup size bigger boobs than me have an advantage?" Yeah, she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:20 PM
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That's fair. I think the key difference is children vs adults. The general perception isn't that Belle Delphine is exploiting little kids (even though some of her audience may be younger boys), whereas people definitely associate that with Logan Paul. People may acknowledge that the adult men that buy Belle's stuff are emotionally vulnerable, but nobody gives a fuck because they are adult men. If more people perceived Belle as targeting young kids, I think the outrage would probably be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:33 AM
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i don't think belle delphine is targeting children as much as she's targeting lonely, sad men. does that make it right? who knows. but it's not really a fair comparison. i don't think such a comparison would ever exist, because women aren't ever going to be sexually frustrated enough to buy a man's bath water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:26 AM
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Even if everything you're saying is true, that doesn't make it any less of a reason why MGTOW is disliked, which was OPs question. MGTOW are free to do what they want, but people are also allowed to have whatever opinion they want on them. Same as any group, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:38 AM
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Blaming all women for your divorce is dumb. I will say this though - it's good that they are spreading the importance of a prenup. That's something everybody, man or woman, should consider before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:20 AM
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I mean sure, women should do an equal share. but he was specifically saying that I don't want to do all the housework, which is just a weird point to make. Also, I find it really, really, really hard to believe that men on average do more around the house than women. Men can't even look after their own children without people calling it 'babysitting'. Doing a quick Google search also only yielded studies that prove women do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:00 PM
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Just because women also do an annoying thing, doesn't mean MGTOW isn't annoying for doing that. I was talking about why *I* personally find MGTOW annoying. I also think women who post about being able to change their own tires are annoying. Basically, any grown ass adult who brags about doing basic shit for themselves need to shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:57 PM
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r/pinkpillfeminism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:38 PM
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I stated earlier in the thread that I'm from South Africa. Yeah, you make a fair point about anectodes and consumerism, but I feel like this is branching off into an entirely separate debate, one that I'm not really able to discuss properly as you've pointed out. My original point stands though - it's retarded to say that WGTOW can't be a thing because women all want to date men for money and I still feel that women using men for money is not as much a thing as people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:15 PM
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it doesn't prove that all men want to exploit women though, same as your link does not prove all women use men for money. ​ i'm familiar with roosh v. i think the death of his sister has just made him question most of his beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:38 PM
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ok then. Men aren't taxed more than women in my country and I can't find any stats on women's consumerism here. ​ But going purely off people I know and the general culture, even if women spend more while shopping, household expenses are split very evenly. In my own relationship we split everything 50/50, my mom and my dad split things 75/25, and my boyfriend's dad doesn't work at all so it's 100/0 with his wife paying everything. ​ My original point though, was that the majority of women aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:37 PM
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MGTOW that people dislike are the ones that aren't wanted by women, because they are the ones who end up being bitter. Perhaps it would be better to call that section Men Sent Their Own Way. If you're wanted by women but choose to go your own way, you don't have any reason to be bitter about it. As I've mentioned in another comment, I know several guys irl who are MGTOW without being assholes about it. Those guys aren't as vocal as the hateful guys online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:33 PM
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i too can link to random articles that prove nothing. ​ http://www.returnofkings.com/58136/how-to-get-women-to-pay-for-stuff-and-buy-you-presents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:07 PM
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i'm not in the us so most of these talking points aren't relevant to me. ​ i'm not going to link to studies that back up things you can easily observe with your eyes by going out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:07 PM
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Lol, he literally ASKED me what problems women faced in my country. Going off your other comments you're not very rational though so good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:03 PM
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I don't see where my comment did literally anything you just mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:43 AM
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Okay, but in this specific case nobody was accusing mgtow of those things. As a sidenote, harrassment and rape being thrown around without basis is my biggest problem with libfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:36 AM
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In some cases, sure. But the same goes for MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:19 AM
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If a feminist defines herself by whether or not she gets banged, then sure? I get the feeling that you think you're very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:17 AM
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lol what? i never claimed to call anybody out on this. anybody who defines themselves by whether they are banging or not is lame, so i don't really get what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:59 AM
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I'm in South Africa which has one of the highest rape and domestic violence problems in the world, as well as a cultural custom of corrective rape being performed on lesbians. Also laws being in place does not mean a society is equal. Our country may be equal in laws but it is culturally different. A woman leaving her house after dark here is seen as reckless and irresponsible because of how unsafe it is. Yeah, I haven't dated any women. I'm going to be real with you and say that if every woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:55 AM
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I'm not in the US, so I can't comment on that. I'm not really sure what your housework point is? If I'm living with a man and we both work and we both pay for things, no shit I expect him to do an equal amount of work? Most women don't expect men to worship the ground they walk on, that's just retarded. I know men personally who have chosen to not be in serious relationships or marry. It's not that uncommon. Just like I know women who have chosen to not be in serious relationships or marry. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:37 AM
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What world are you living in? ​ Most modern relationships finances are split 50/50. Status? I guess, if you're dating a celebrity or something, but most women are in relationships with guys that move in the same circles as them. Attention? Yeah, I guess so. But you can also have friends to spend time with, so a boyfriend isn't really necessary. ​ The women I know that choose to be single do so because they're introverts that don't enjoy sharing their space, or because their life goals don't alig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:31 AM
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What? I don't have case studies of women choosing to be single lol? Just look around you. There are plenty of women who actively choose to be alone and choose not to have personal relationships with men. Personally, I wouldn't do that, but I respect the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:25 AM
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Yep, you hit the nail on the head. The annoying MGTOW men define their lives by women and how much they don't need need them, which is just as pathetic as a man who defines himself by how much he does need a woman in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:23 AM
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I agree that it does happen to some feminists. I'm not saying one side is right and the other is wrong - it's just why I personally find some MGTOW annoying. I find self-pitying feminists annoying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:21 AM
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Feminists talk about men in the context of them threatening our rights. MGTOW talk about women when it's not necessary at all. "Oh, I made myself dinner, you don't need a woman fellas." Like OK? I don't reiterate how much I don't need a man each time I do something basic for myself. There's a middle ground between worshiping women and despising them. I've met some normal MGTOW dudes who just don't care about women and that's fine. It's when they're vitriolic that it's a problem. Same as feminist…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:19 AM
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Some, sure. But most feminists don't struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:14 AM
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That's not quite the same as being wanted by a woman, though. I respect the decision to not become a walking ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:13 AM
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In theory I fully support MGTOW, the same as I support WGTOW. People can be alone if they choose to do so. But most men in MGTOW aren't 'choosing' to go their own way, they are not wanted by women. So they end up being really bitter and misogynistic. For guys who want nothing to do with women they sure do talk about women a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:31 AM
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