xberry99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My first ever cold approach If you are speaking from personal experience then I guess it's a matter of preference. I would not prefer to be approached while I am with a group of friends.	/r/seduction	05/08/20 03:10 PM
1	My first ever cold approach That's fair lol	/r/seduction	05/08/20 05:35 AM
8	My first ever cold approach Oh wowza, that definitely would be quite the challenge. I do have to say though, I would be cautious about cold approaching a girl in a big group. It could be a little awkward receiving that kind of attention while she knows all her friends are watching everything go down. Unless your goal is to simply overcome the fear of approaching while others watch.	/r/seduction	05/08/20 05:32 AM
5	My first ever cold approach Ahh okay, I understand the distinction. Yeah honestly it takes balls to approach a girl when her friend is there, so if you could do that than you can do anything	/r/seduction	05/08/20 05:19 AM
31	My first ever cold approach Coming from a girl who has been on the receiving end of things like this, know that even if a girl turns you down, we genuinely respect the courage this takes (especially if it is apparent you are nervous). A girl usually isn't usually going to roast you or think lowly of you in a situation like this. Be proud of yourself for overcoming a very understandable fear. It will get easier and less frightening each and every time! :)	/r/seduction	05/08/20 05:08 AM
25	19 Year Old Barista (UPDATE) I notice he’s wearing a necklace. Asking “what’s this” reaching into his shirt to grab it. “St. Elmo” he says “patron saint of sailors”. The necklace is still around his neck so holding it brings our faces close. “How long have you been saili—“ I wasn’t able to finish before he kissed me. This is so cute ☺️	/r/seduction	25/07/20 07:05 PM
2	19 Year Old Barista (UPDATE) Nice	/r/seduction	25/07/20 07:04 PM
1	There is a "blind leading the blind" belief in this sub that's hiding in plain sight Yeah... the "friendzone" doesn't exist. Or at least should be more appropriately called the "rejection zone". Either way, it just means she/he just DOESN'T like you. Its not your friendliness that puts you in the friendzone. Its the lack of a girl's attraction for you that does. This^	/r/seduction	15/05/20 08:14 AM
2	[deleted by user] I agree with this sis !	/r/seduction	04/05/20 09:35 PM
2	[deleted by user] Honestly I think popping in for a convo like once a week at least is fine. For Quarantine calling is a good way to keep in touch if you and the person you are talking to have been connecting well. I know that FaceTime dates have been a really popular idea recently. In my opinion, it's about keeping interest and connection until Quarantine ends so that ideally you can date IRL.	/r/seduction	03/05/20 05:34 PM
1	[deleted by user] We talked on Bumble for like 2 days and then he asked for my other social media and we've been texting off the app ever since.	/r/seduction	03/05/20 03:55 PM
2	[deleted by user] I'm not saying he should text her daily, my point was that he shouldn't be AFRAID to text her here and there. When Quarantine ends then he should focus on hitting her up to plan the date. Also, I wouldn't hold my breath about her texting him first. We don't know how this girl feels about OP yet.	/r/seduction	03/05/20 03:53 PM
1	[deleted by user] Lol I disagree about your "Walt Disney" comment. Keep in mind with everything I've said, my relationship with this guy exists entirely through text alone. I haven't met him. So that's why I am more in my head about things like reading his energy and attitude. In an ideal world where Quarantine doesn't exist and we can have an in person relationship, I would be able to use our in person interactions as that metric, and texting would just be a tool for supplementary conversation.	/r/seduction	03/05/20 03:46 PM
2	[deleted by user] I text him first too. I'd say it's actually quite balanced with how often either of us are starting conversation. How often do you and this girl text? How do you feel like her energy is over text? Do her responses push the conversation forward? It's a good sign if she asks you questions. Also, what kind of convos do you have over text?	/r/seduction	03/05/20 02:49 PM
12	[deleted by user] Okay, I think I can provide a decent perspective on this because I am a girl who happens to be texting a guy that I "met" (not in person yet) on Bumble and we have been talking since the very beginning of March. I felt most connected to and excited about this boy when we would both be texting eachother back and forth, conversation flowing naturally with witty banter, teasing, and genuine questions about the other. Unfortunately that's slowed down quite a bit and now I'm left wondering if he's lo…	/r/seduction	03/05/20 08:17 AM